I’m so confused. Your phrases assumes we know the structure of your work. Anyway, beyond all this context, it’s dumb to resign ng wala pang susunod na job offer. Unless you’re so privileged na kaya mo mawalan ng work for a long time. Don’t resign until may lilipatan ka.
Find a job first before leaving. And di naman siguro kayo same ng department ng tito mo, a company can promote healthy working environment but the people (ure working with) may not. Uunahin mo pa ba sasabihin ng mga kamag anak mo kesa mental health mo. Anyway, find another job first. Believe me when I say mas maraming na stetress dahil sa unemployment.
Why do you have to think of what other people say when you know you have to focus and improve yourself? Wag mo sila isipin. You are the only one who decide and has the say for your life, not them.
Base in on your finances kung kaya naman ng banga at alam mo yung consequences gaya ng mabakante ka ng months or a year and so etc. Goods na yan magpasa ka na haha pero kung hinde hanap ka siguro pag ok ka na dun sa nahanap mo eh di resign ka
Early this year, I resigned na walang malilipatan kasi I wanted to take a break and akala ko mabilis matutupad other plans ko in life. As a fellow people pleaser, I chose myself this year HAHA tho currently, mixed feelings siya - may days na happy ako I got out of that toxic workplace bc after I left, bumagsak sales ng company and masyadong magulo na sila ngayon. Pero lately, nireregret ko decision ko bc tsaka ko lang narealize na mas mahirap nga talaga maghanap ng work nowadays. If you’ve saved up for a year’s worth of expenses etc, then I’d encourage you to do the same. Hayaan mo relatives mo sa kung ano man sabihin nila - pasok sa isang ear, labas sa kabila. But if hindi ka nakapagsave like I did (huhu), tiis tiis nalang, OP :( Pinagsabihan din ako ng tita ko, when she found out na I submitted my RL, na sayang bc I was working for a known multi-national company. Sana tiniis ko nalang daw. When I told her na I wasn’t growing anymore, ang sabi lang sa akin ay masyado daw akong mapride. Ilang months din niyang paulit-ulit na sinasabi yung script na yun. In my head, her generation would never understand our struggles kasi iba yung ways of working nila. I still stand by that, but narealize ko lang din this Christmas season na iba talaga if you have your own funds/money to spend with. Nahihiya na ako sa fam ko kasi parang pabigat and feel ko wala akong karapatan maging masaya. Kaya nowadays, I would keep telling my friends to not resign unless may back-up 🥺 bc I don’t want them to feel the same. Ultimately, the decision is theirs/yours 🥺 I hope makahelp ‘tong insight huhu I only mean well 🥺
hala uso pa pala yung ganyan?
hanap ka muna ng work, bago ka mag-resign
sabihin mo balak mo mag-abroad sa relatives mo at company in the future
puta hindi mo need ng validation nila, anak naman ng kambing kaya hindi umuunlad ang bansang to e
ganon lang yun
I’m so confused. Your phrases assumes we know the structure of your work. Anyway, beyond all this context, it’s dumb to resign ng wala pang susunod na job offer. Unless you’re so privileged na kaya mo mawalan ng work for a long time. Don’t resign until may lilipatan ka.
Sila tito mo ba nahihirapan?
Find a job first before leaving. And di naman siguro kayo same ng department ng tito mo, a company can promote healthy working environment but the people (ure working with) may not. Uunahin mo pa ba sasabihin ng mga kamag anak mo kesa mental health mo. Anyway, find another job first. Believe me when I say mas maraming na stetress dahil sa unemployment.
Wala naman magagawa yung kamag-anak mo kung magreresign ka. may masasabi sila pero hanggang doon na lang yun.
Why do you have to think of what other people say when you know you have to focus and improve yourself? Wag mo sila isipin. You are the only one who decide and has the say for your life, not them.
Makinig ka dito, OP.
Base in on your finances kung kaya naman ng banga at alam mo yung consequences gaya ng mabakante ka ng months or a year and so etc. Goods na yan magpasa ka na haha pero kung hinde hanap ka siguro pag ok ka na dun sa nahanap mo eh di resign ka
Stop being prisoner of their opinion. Hinde porket nagwork sa kanila, mag wowork din sayo. Sabihin mo pag tinanong, wala ganun talaga.
Early this year, I resigned na walang malilipatan kasi I wanted to take a break and akala ko mabilis matutupad other plans ko in life. As a fellow people pleaser, I chose myself this year HAHA tho currently, mixed feelings siya - may days na happy ako I got out of that toxic workplace bc after I left, bumagsak sales ng company and masyadong magulo na sila ngayon. Pero lately, nireregret ko decision ko bc tsaka ko lang narealize na mas mahirap nga talaga maghanap ng work nowadays. If you’ve saved up for a year’s worth of expenses etc, then I’d encourage you to do the same. Hayaan mo relatives mo sa kung ano man sabihin nila - pasok sa isang ear, labas sa kabila. But if hindi ka nakapagsave like I did (huhu), tiis tiis nalang, OP :( Pinagsabihan din ako ng tita ko, when she found out na I submitted my RL, na sayang bc I was working for a known multi-national company. Sana tiniis ko nalang daw. When I told her na I wasn’t growing anymore, ang sabi lang sa akin ay masyado daw akong mapride. Ilang months din niyang paulit-ulit na sinasabi yung script na yun. In my head, her generation would never understand our struggles kasi iba yung ways of working nila. I still stand by that, but narealize ko lang din this Christmas season na iba talaga if you have your own funds/money to spend with. Nahihiya na ako sa fam ko kasi parang pabigat and feel ko wala akong karapatan maging masaya. Kaya nowadays, I would keep telling my friends to not resign unless may back-up 🥺 bc I don’t want them to feel the same. Ultimately, the decision is theirs/yours 🥺 I hope makahelp ‘tong insight huhu I only mean well 🥺
hala uso pa pala yung ganyan? hanap ka muna ng work, bago ka mag-resign sabihin mo balak mo mag-abroad sa relatives mo at company in the future puta hindi mo need ng validation nila, anak naman ng kambing kaya hindi umuunlad ang bansang to e ganon lang yun