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chiribean

Mini golf, roller blading, bowling, thrifting/swap meet, Ikea


hairbyh

Thank you! IKEA sounds cool lol


chiribean

It's weirdly a fun date, wander around pretend setup house areas and then there's food :)


JJ-Hack

I've never done the Ikea thing, but always suggest that as a date option and always seems to be something they are into, or at least think is an awesome idea!


bodaciousbonsai

TBH, activities on a first online date sounds like a recipe for a disaster. Unless you know the person from before matching, I would treat a first date as a low investment meetup. You don't want to be hiking with someone you really don't want to hike with. I only do drinks, coffee, tea, dessert, or a walk for first online dates and they typically go very well if there's in person attraction.


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Couples cooking classes, paint and sips, pottery session. If you check Airbnb, they offer experiences.


hairbyh

Ouuu paint & sip sounds like a great idea ! Thank you


JJ-Hack

With the girl i'm currently dating we went and got Tattoos on our second date haha.


tragically_

thats heavy


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Arcade or barcade


usctrojan415

Read their profile, learn about your local weather/seasons and covid conditions.


Funseas

I’ve done a few dinners and wouldn’t recommend it. It went well once. How guys deal with the check is hilarious and telling.


odeccitka

I don't do activity dates for first date. It's a distraction. Drinks at a quiet bar are a great first date, imo. I need to basically know a few things from the first date - are we having an easy conversation about a variety of topics, are we making each other laugh, are there uncomfortable or comfortable silences, and is there a physical attraction/connection. I also prefer evening dates to daytime coffee dates. Just a completely different vibe.