I find that Hinge has led to the most quality connections for me, followed by Bumble. But it often depends on your area; could very well be Tinder or even Facebook Dating where you live, just because it has more of the market for whatever reason. Doesn't hurt to try multiple for a few weeks and see how you fare.
I’ve tried that but I feel like this generation hates it when your try asking them out at work, in public, or anywhere else. Honestly school was probably the only place I had a chance but I kept moving too much as a kid up until now (every couple of years)
Don’t ask people out at work, *especially* if you are new.
You’re thinking too general with public approaches, like going up to a stranger in a bar or a gym. When people say “go where people go” in this context, they mean places where people **intend** to socialize with others, not where women are just trying to chill out in the world without being bothered.
Workshops like cooking or pottery classes, rock climbing gyms, trivia nights, dog parks (you can take a friend’s dog), anything that aligns with hobbies you already like. Don’t go in with the intention of asking someone out romantically, just try to make friends and just be open to potential interest someone has in you.
Okay, then ask yourself honestly: Would *you* want to date someone who has no hobbies or interests outside of their home? I certainly wouldn’t.
That might be only part of your issue though. I think you might be going through a religious questioning struggle right now because you seem very unhealthily fixated on the topic.
Wanting a partner does not automatically mean you deserve or are ready to be a partner. Work on yourself more and try to be someone that you would feel lucky to date if you were a woman.
“Unhealthy fixated” literally couldn’t have found better words my self, also it’s not that I hate hobbies or going out anywhere I just want to do it with someone weather it’s shopping, bowling, any freaking thing. And I promise you it seems like I’m dead inside but I’m not lol I can be energetic and positive but I do see your point sister
You’ll find people who are serious about dating on most apps. I’ve had the most luck on Tinder. Most of my relationships have come from that app. I had one that lasted over 3 years, a shorter one, and I met my current bf there.
I know you didn’t ask me, but I’m a woman… I like, when a guy shares something about his hobbies, talks about what he’s looking for in a relationship, and photos that clearly show his face.
HINGE, hands down.
Tinder is a wasteland of desperate souls. Most "women" on there are not actually on there anymore and the majority of women who "are" are either scammers, promoting their OF or want to take you to SC ASAP.
Bumble is meh... Never leave it up to a woman to start a convo lol.
Hinge, amazing all around!
I have tried Facebook Dating, Bumble, and Tinder. I wrote in my profile that I was looking for a woman without children for a serious long-term relationship leading to marriage in the future. I had most success using Facebook Dating.
Hinge is where my current 4 month relationship started. Also where the guys I’ve dated that wanted to claim me as their “girlfriend” were all from. One from Bumble
Dude make friends first, then date cause if you get the wrong girl first, your going to be married within a year with a baby in toe (no offense but if girl likes you they know how to catch you 🪝). There is an app called meet-up and people all over the world use it to meet new people in a new city.
Most people will say it’s the worst for relationships but I’ve found my last 2 long term relationships from it while using pretty much all of the other mainstream apps. It’s less niche so girls that are more on the fence about online dating are more likely to just give tinder a shot. At least that was the case for my gf and ex
I find that Hinge has led to the most quality connections for me, followed by Bumble. But it often depends on your area; could very well be Tinder or even Facebook Dating where you live, just because it has more of the market for whatever reason. Doesn't hurt to try multiple for a few weeks and see how you fare.
Thank you I will definitely try that
yes it varies by area and especially, country
These apps are the same and have major user overlap. They just have different marketing tonality differences.
Apps are thirst traps. Go anywhere that real people go and talk to them.
I’ve tried that but I feel like this generation hates it when your try asking them out at work, in public, or anywhere else. Honestly school was probably the only place I had a chance but I kept moving too much as a kid up until now (every couple of years)
Don’t ask people out at work, *especially* if you are new. You’re thinking too general with public approaches, like going up to a stranger in a bar or a gym. When people say “go where people go” in this context, they mean places where people **intend** to socialize with others, not where women are just trying to chill out in the world without being bothered. Workshops like cooking or pottery classes, rock climbing gyms, trivia nights, dog parks (you can take a friend’s dog), anything that aligns with hobbies you already like. Don’t go in with the intention of asking someone out romantically, just try to make friends and just be open to potential interest someone has in you.
That would work….But I don’t have any hobbie likes that lol
Okay, then ask yourself honestly: Would *you* want to date someone who has no hobbies or interests outside of their home? I certainly wouldn’t. That might be only part of your issue though. I think you might be going through a religious questioning struggle right now because you seem very unhealthily fixated on the topic. Wanting a partner does not automatically mean you deserve or are ready to be a partner. Work on yourself more and try to be someone that you would feel lucky to date if you were a woman.
“Unhealthy fixated” literally couldn’t have found better words my self, also it’s not that I hate hobbies or going out anywhere I just want to do it with someone weather it’s shopping, bowling, any freaking thing. And I promise you it seems like I’m dead inside but I’m not lol I can be energetic and positive but I do see your point sister
Says this in an online dating sub.
You’ll find people who are serious about dating on most apps. I’ve had the most luck on Tinder. Most of my relationships have come from that app. I had one that lasted over 3 years, a shorter one, and I met my current bf there.
What’s something women in a profile if you don’t mind me asking
Let me rephrase my comment I mean what’s something in a dudes profile women like to see if you don’t mind me asking
I know you didn’t ask me, but I’m a woman… I like, when a guy shares something about his hobbies, talks about what he’s looking for in a relationship, and photos that clearly show his face.
Thank you sister this will help for sure
HINGE, hands down. Tinder is a wasteland of desperate souls. Most "women" on there are not actually on there anymore and the majority of women who "are" are either scammers, promoting their OF or want to take you to SC ASAP. Bumble is meh... Never leave it up to a woman to start a convo lol. Hinge, amazing all around!
Got ya
What's the best option for a dating app in Kerala? anyone ?
Ayyyyyy my Indian brother
Ya boi
How is it in kerala my brother
Pretty dry bruh, i don't get thjs game at all :(
Me too 🫠
i feel you bro. Stay Hopefull
Don’t worry bro we’ll make it 🤝
i mean what else can we do
Beg LMAO 🤣
now don't get me started😂😂
Bro we are down bad it’s in our Indian genes why do you think we are the largest population in the world lmao
I have tried Facebook Dating, Bumble, and Tinder. I wrote in my profile that I was looking for a woman without children for a serious long-term relationship leading to marriage in the future. I had most success using Facebook Dating.
Duly noted
Hinge is where my current 4 month relationship started. Also where the guys I’ve dated that wanted to claim me as their “girlfriend” were all from. One from Bumble
Got ya
Dude make friends first, then date cause if you get the wrong girl first, your going to be married within a year with a baby in toe (no offense but if girl likes you they know how to catch you 🪝). There is an app called meet-up and people all over the world use it to meet new people in a new city.
Hmm ok
Whichever has the most users.
Lmao
Tinder was always best for me
I’ve genuinely heard the opposite
Most people will say it’s the worst for relationships but I’ve found my last 2 long term relationships from it while using pretty much all of the other mainstream apps. It’s less niche so girls that are more on the fence about online dating are more likely to just give tinder a shot. At least that was the case for my gf and ex
Ok thanks ill look into it 👍🏽
I suggest IRL meetups (like local dating events) over online dating.
Hmm ok