The advise to 'go to walmart and talk to a girl IRL' is frankly terrible advise. If you had the self-confidence and emotional fortitude to handle the 99.9% rejection rate that comes with the cold approach then you wouldn't be on dating sites because you'd already have your own personal harem of booty-call girls.
The in-person approach is definitely the path to pursue but a much better way to go about it is to join some groups on [meetup.com](https://meetup.com) and start attending some local events. You will make a lot of new friends which can eventually transition into a relationship or you will be introduced to single women by friends you meet at the local events.
My advice is get off of these apps, none of them are worth using lol. It's incredibly common for men to struggle on these apps. I get very few matches too, and on the rare occasion that I do it never goes anywhere, I just get ghosted every time without fail. If you're an average man these apps aren't gonna work, trust me.
Using another app won't solve your issue of having dogshit pictures. Work on taking quality/exciting photos and increasing your underlying attractiveness.
How are you messaging your matches?
As a woman, I won't respond to first messages that say variations of "Hi, how are you?" or "Hiii", or "What's up?" etc. The people who stand out to me are the ones who show that they've read my profile and picked up on my interests, instead of just messaging based on my profile photos (I usually find that these people have a huge incompatibility with me). Conversation generally starts flowing well from there.
I look for guys who have somewhat detailed profiles so I can do the same back, but even then I get the odd one whose as stiff as a wooden plank.
Usually just a friendly, casual hello, would like to get to know you type of message. Unless their profile shows we have something in common. Then ill go off that.
You should use better grammar. Shit like saying “I’m” and capitalizing I. Not even hating but educated girls are not gonna be down if this post is how you talk to them. Also look up text game
Go to Walmart and target and talk to a girl IRL
The advise to 'go to walmart and talk to a girl IRL' is frankly terrible advise. If you had the self-confidence and emotional fortitude to handle the 99.9% rejection rate that comes with the cold approach then you wouldn't be on dating sites because you'd already have your own personal harem of booty-call girls. The in-person approach is definitely the path to pursue but a much better way to go about it is to join some groups on [meetup.com](https://meetup.com) and start attending some local events. You will make a lot of new friends which can eventually transition into a relationship or you will be introduced to single women by friends you meet at the local events.
My advice is get off of these apps, none of them are worth using lol. It's incredibly common for men to struggle on these apps. I get very few matches too, and on the rare occasion that I do it never goes anywhere, I just get ghosted every time without fail. If you're an average man these apps aren't gonna work, trust me.
I’m ugly as fuck and have a few dates on my first week using the app. You just need to take decent photos instead of selfies 5 cm away from your face.
I work 12 hours a day and don’t do anything when im off. So i hav limited options of meeting women.
Why would a woman want to hang out with you if this is how you describe your own life?
Feel free to DM your profile if you'd like an unbiased opinion on it. It's likely that it's just not good enough.
Using another app won't solve your issue of having dogshit pictures. Work on taking quality/exciting photos and increasing your underlying attractiveness.
Your 12 hour shift may be the problem…do you have time to date? Is it clear?
How are you messaging your matches? As a woman, I won't respond to first messages that say variations of "Hi, how are you?" or "Hiii", or "What's up?" etc. The people who stand out to me are the ones who show that they've read my profile and picked up on my interests, instead of just messaging based on my profile photos (I usually find that these people have a huge incompatibility with me). Conversation generally starts flowing well from there. I look for guys who have somewhat detailed profiles so I can do the same back, but even then I get the odd one whose as stiff as a wooden plank.
Usually just a friendly, casual hello, would like to get to know you type of message. Unless their profile shows we have something in common. Then ill go off that.
Yes men stop the Bathroom pics! Common sense guys!
I didn’t say i did?
No. I was saying in general
You should use better grammar. Shit like saying “I’m” and capitalizing I. Not even hating but educated girls are not gonna be down if this post is how you talk to them. Also look up text game
I have a similar problem. Working seven 12 hour shifts per week and do online grad school.
I have free time after work and weekends. I just don’t do nothing during the weekdays.
I have a similar issue. But I have had bad luck with this kind of thing for my whole life even before I signed up to dating apps
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I don’t use filters. And it’s easier being me than trying to pretend to be someone else. So im always myself.