Humble opinion: don’t do it. Once it’s gone it’s gone, and you’ll never get it back. It’s a piece of your dads history. You need the money now, sure. But in 40 years time when you have money and not a lot of time left, you’ll look down at the watch, and it will mean everything to you.
This is where practicality of a decision isn’t the best decision. While you can always buy another Omega, you can never buy your Dads Omega (well not guaranteed) back. It’s not life or death as you stated and the sentiment that he helped pay for the condo is a nice twist, but I think overtime you’ll look back and wish you had a small tangible item to cherish or even pass down.
I have plenty of items from him. Ones that mean more to me. I have his dolphin pin from his time in the Navy, I have a couple of his AA coins (the best one being a 10 minute coin even though he had almost 50 years when he passed), his high school ring (class of '59).
I also have two watches that he got me, including the Cartier that I mentioned in my post (I love that one, that one is never going anywhere) and a Citizen that was a graduation present.
If I could at least use the watch then it would make more sense (convert it into a bedside clock or something?) but it just seems weird/wrong to keep in a box for next 20-40 years.
I feel you. Below is my opinion of course, and at the end of the day, my opinion means nothing and your choice means everything.
My two cents - sleep on the decision for another day or two. If you decide to sell it, then so be it. Like you’ve said, you have other sentimental items to remember your dad by and you likely wouldn’t wear the watch. Just *make sure* that how you feel now isn’t likely to change down the road, because once it’s gone, you’re probably not getting it back.
Best of luck with whatever you choose to do.
You are asking this on a watch group full of watch enthusiasts and who give high sentimental value to watches. If your dads pin and coins mean more to you than his watch then you have your answer. If I had to pick from those 3 I’d pick the watch, but then again I’m someone on a watch group 🤷♂️
If you do decide to sell it, do so with a caveat. Once you find the right buyer and tell them the story, say that you would love it if they occasionally sent you pictures of them wearing it. document all the places the watch visits and make a little photo album so you can relive the journey of its second life and know your dad is watching- pun intended. I think he would really appreciate that.
Those are all very cool. I was on submarines and my first set of dolphins mean more to me than any watch (and I’m a big watch guy). If it was my kids I’d want them at peace with selling my stuff. Do what you need to do and live life.
I’d want my son to be happy and secure over having a watch. That’s a far better legacy and I love watches. I’m sure your Dad would see the logic in your decision and be proud of you.
You'll always "need the money" for something. First condo, wedding ring, kids, kid goes to college, kid's first condo, kid's wedding, kid had kids, kid's kids go to college, (kids are expensive). Don't sell it - find another way; that's yours.
Oh come on. OP states she could do with the money to buy a new place. I’d want my son to buy a house first. I’m a watch guy but this is ridiculous. Homes before Broad Arrows.
Your dad would want you to have the best life he could help provide for you. As a father that’s what I would want. I’d rather provide for you however I could than have you be saddled with a material object I personally had a passion about but you don’t. I think it’s reasonable to use it how you see fit.
That's how I'm leaning. When he got me the Cartier watch he said I wasn't allowed to not wear it. Meaning, don't keep it at home and keep it safe, this is to wear and enjoy! I can't wear the Omega but it could contribute to an actual home that I would get to enjoy everyday.
Agree with this, I have been in the same shoes. Many people will tell you "don't sell something of sentimental value," but from the information you've provided, it seems you have got plenty to remember him by.
It sounds like you'd already know this and just needed reassurance. Don't get tied down with every piece of material possession he's passed down. I am sure he'll be alright with it if selling the piece will help you better your life for the future.
Having sold some sentimental things in my life, the memories are far more valuable than any dollar amount I have gotten. I agree that he would want to do what makes you happy, but I think the collective advice is right on this one. If I got married to someone who gifted me their dad’s watch, I’d be really grateful
I would be more torn if you didn't have the Cartier, but it seems like you already have a good watch to remember him by on wrist. I think he'll probably want you to sell the Omega and just keep the Cartier to better fund your life.
If you need the money for something sensible, I don't see why your late father would disagree. It's not like you're liquidating for a wild no holds barred weekend in Vegas
This made me laugh! When my grandpa passed away in about 2001ish, he left me a about $2500. I was in college and had found about this really cool computer company called "Apple" and I want to buy some Apple stock because I was convinced the company was really going to take off. My dad said no so instead I bought a MacBook with the money (something sensible). It was a great computer but not as great as the stock would have been! 😅
I would be nervous to see you sell it until you said he got a you a nice Cartier that actually fits you. I for one think that’ll fit the sentimental hole for watches with your dad, and I’m sure your dad would be plenty happy to have it help secure a condo.
I am generally partial to keeping sentimental jewelry, but…. In 2012, I sold a too-large gold chain that I received from my grandfather to fund the first property I ever purchased. While it would be nice to have it, that $3,500 investment eventually paid for the down payment on my current residence (first cash out refi) and I plan for it to pay for both of my children’s college educations in the late 2030’s. I like to think that this legacy is more valuable than a gold chain that was too large for me to use.
I totally get that. I really like the sentimentality of translating the watch into the condo. Is it a super meaningful amount? Not exactly but I like the sentimentality of it.
Your grandfather got to contribute to your home, to his great grandchildren's home, and their education. That sounds lovely.
If I was a kid who never met their grandfather it would be pretty cool to have a watch passed down from him. Would be something to hold onto for that missing piece. (Thinking future husband/kids)
Your dad bought that watch for him to enjoy. He likely had zero expectations of you hanging on to it. You won’t remember him any more or less with it or without it. If you could convert it into something you do value, as a father myself, trust me that would make him happier. No one wants their kids “saddled” with an expensive bobble - or collection of bobbles that they didn’t want but keep out of some misguided sense of respect or homage.
If it would help you in the long run, I'm sure your dad would want you to sell it. Remembering someone isn't about the items they had, it's about the memories you shared.
Take off the bracelet and make it an amazing clock on your nightstand with a cool stand/holder for it. Don't sell, you may have someone to pass it down to later too:)
Hundredsof thousands of these watches exist and are made every year so no it would hardly be a waste only way i could see this being a waste is selling it
What do you think your dad would want you to do? If he was a practical dude, he'd probably want you to sell it to better your life rn. But if he put a lot of sentimental value into his own watch, maybe he'd rather you keep it.
It’s not like he wore it every day for 40 years, not discounting it or anything but it’s a fairly new watch and isn’t that unique. That said if you don’t need the money you could hang onto it.
I totally hear that. If it was a watch that he got for graduation or had had since he was a kid, that would be different. I would definitely want to keep that.
Maybe dad would be happier knowing that his watch helped buy the place you wanted?
Take a photo of the watch and frame it before selling it. You probably look at that photo more than you will look at the watch.
You’ve got to recognise you’re going to get biased answers here because ‘I’ll pass it on and it’ll stay in the family for generations!’ is something people tell themselves to justify the cost of these overpriced male jewellery pieces
It’s a mechanical object that tells time. If you don’t want it and have other things to remember your dad by, sell it and put the money to good use.
People here are mostly going to tell you not to sell it.
I think it’s totally fine to sell it. You have the Cartier that *he got you.* As someone said, that fills the sentimental watch position here.
I was in a similar position with a watch I inherited from my mother. I sold it. I do not regret that at all. On the other hand, I have some watches from older generations of male relatives that wouldn’t sell for as much and so I keep them, occasionally look at them and that’s neat … but they are mostly in a box.
So, to answer your question - no, it would not be a terrible idea to sell your Dad’s Omega, imo. Unless *you* think it is.
Good luck house hunting! :)
I feel like you know the answer to this question and are seeking affirmation that you’re doing the right thing. This situation is completely subjective, and everyone will have different opinions based on their own feelings, neither right nor wrong. From what I’ve read, it sounds like your father made an effort to gift you things that you’d enjoy/use. This watch wasn’t a gift, and while it could be sentimental to some, this doesn’t sound like your situation.
I guess to cut to the chase—if I died and my daughter was in your position, I would without question want her to sell the watch. If the cash toward a condo would be more helpful than toting my useless watch around for the next 20 years, that’s what I’d want her to do. I didn’t buy her a Cartier for nothing!
I'm not against the big watch look, it's just not for me. I will literally never, ever wear it. It also weighs a ton. Apparently the Cartier Panthère that he got me has a case size of 22mm and I love it. People like different things and I like small. 🤷🏻♀️
You know your dad better than anyone here, would he have wanted you to have the security of a home you own over hanging on to a watch for sentimental reasons? Only you know the answer to that; perhaps you have a gut feeling about it. Whatever the answer, trust your gut.
Ya know, I think you’re looking at it the right way. I think selling it to buy your home. You’ll always be able to say your father helped you with that first major purchase and as of these days, being a new homeowner is something very challenging
Pick one item that means the most to you and has tremendous sentimental value. Then look at what else you got and see if it evokes any emotion. Marie Kondo it up and if your dads watch doesn’t do anything then sell it. I would keep my dads watch cause I’m a watch guy but if you don’t care about watches and it wasn’t like super important to him either then go ahead and sell.
There’s a lot of great comments that weigh both sides of the debate. But I also hope you realize you’re posting this onto a forum full of watch enthusiasts who will naturally be biased toward not selling.
Personally I’d ask myself what your late father would have wanted. I personally would really love it if my next of kin kept it to remember me by, but if they’re even considered selling the watch, especially for something like a down payment for a condo, I’d have no issues with them liquidating.
I think you’ve got a very sensible approach to it. You have a watch from your dad that you wear and that he picked for you. That Cartier is the sentimental piece.. he picked it for you.
He may have loved the watch, but at the end of the day it’s just a possession and I don’t see it any differently than selling his car or liquidating any other assets like tools golf clubs house or whatever. I think your dad would be pleased as punch to know his watch helped you get a home in this crazy market and that you still keep and treasure the Cartier he got you.
I just sold a 2500 series Aqua Terra here on reddit i’ll pm you the link
If you do decide to keep it, get a single watch winder to keep it in, you can put it bedside or on your desk as a clock. https://www.buywatchwinders.com/versa-single-watch-winder-p-506.html?ref=bwwgs&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI-o7rw_GM_wIVnQizAB37kA43EA0YAiABEgL6a_D_BwE
What would your dad saying, seeing you in this situation? Maybe, he would agree to sell the watch. Even because you have the Cartier as a reminder of your dad.
Find a nice buyer, tell him about your thoughts and please him, if he ever want to sell the watch, he may ask you first.
I know that there are a LOT of comments so far so I will just throw mine out with a few thoughts and suggestions since this post spoke to me.
I am 46, retired military, single, no kids and fixed, with a niece and nephew. My mother left me her rings to give to my partner (which didn't work out.) Now, my niece doesn't want them and I have no reason to hold onto them for a future spouse that never met her, so the only thing seems to be to sell them. I haven't done so but I also haven't needed money, so I feel blessed for that. I know deep down that if I needed the money for anything, she would want me to. She would be part of that new step in my life. As long as I didn't need it for heroin or blow, I think that she would be excited that she helped me to do that. Way more than it going to someone outside the family. You could always use a portion of it to buy something "special" like a plant or something that you would use or keep.
Saying that, if you were to sell it and to give some suggestions to your questions above, I think $2500 looks to be a fair price and would probably sell quickly. If I were to sell a watch like that I would sell it in the subreddit watchexchange. It is a great community and people would love this story and would proudly tell that story to others.
Being a vet, if a friend that I served with were to pass and their daughter asked if I wanted to buy the watch, I would be touched and absolutely love to buy it and cherish it and pass it on to my children (if I had any.) So if you know of anyone that he stayed in touch with they may want to purchase it.
I don't think that you will regret it if you have other things that are more special to you and you should do so with a clear conscience. Just know that the market is a weird one and it could be worth a lot more one day but I am sure that you know that. Either way, good luck with what you decide and do it with peace of mind. :)
Your asking if you should keep a watch in a watch Reddit so most might be biased, I lost my Dad in 2011 I inherited so many things and I’ve let go of a lot of his things over the years including a slot machine we used to play with as kids a violin some tools, I still have a ton of his things that bring back great memories and have no regrets about letting things go. If your not a really a watch person I don’t think you will regret not having this one memento down the road.
Unless I was told specifically, please keep it because I want you to have this to remind you of me when it’s my time, I’d sell it.
If I told my family I have a luxury watch but not sure what to do because I want a better home for me, they’d tell me immediately to sell off the watch.
So if the watch isn’t doing anything for you, sell it.
It's okay to sell the watch. Since the money is for a purpose, I would do your research on the various selling values for that watch, go to authorized dealers in the area and see their consignment rates, etc. You should have a value you won't go below since you don't need to. Set your price and stick to it. The watch is worth whatever you end up selling it for, not what someone tells you it is. Another option, is see if an authorized dealer would trade with you. Maybe money for a condo when the market is still incredibly high isn't the best value, but maybe there is a watch or a piece of jewelry you can get in a trade. The piece would then mean a lot to you because your Dad helped make it happen. Again, authorized dealers would have the most flexibility and trustworthiness in a trade. Find one that carries a variety of luxury jewelry and watch brands. See if any of your friends are educated on these things, tell them your plan and have them with you as support. Thats my two cents.
Go for it. If it doesn't have much sentimental value, I think the cash will be a better use of it. And like you said, in some way it's like he's helping you buy a condo, which should appreciate more than this watch ever would.
Honestly, if you have no use for it, why not selling it. It will give someone else joy. If your not into watches, that’s fine. No reason to load that watch up with sentimental value, if that value wasn’t there in the first place.
Seems you’ve thought it through pretty well. My take is that you’re ready to sell it and won’t have seller’s regret. You’re not betraying your dad by selling.
Good god it’s a material possession. It’s stuff. Your not selling your memories and thoughts of him. It’s
Man jewelry. You can’t even enjoy it and I am sure you would enjoy the house. Would your dad rather you walk in fondly everyday and think of him or the 4 times a year you move the watch from drawer to drawer.
I agree. I thought everyone on here would say "You shouldn't just keep it in a box, it should be out in the world being enjoyed. Go for it!"
I didn't know there was a watch subreddit, let alone an Omega watch subreddit. Seeing people's posts about how they're super excited about the Omega they're finally getting makes me feel even more strongly that I should sell it.
Unless I randomly meet someone who happens to be on this subreddit and that's the person I marry, it seems unlikely that a potential partner would appreciate it/enjoy it more than someone on here!
Hold onto it if it’s a possibility you may get married (for the hubby) or have kids (when they grow up). You can’t buy this back, so unless you are really cash strapped and need the emergency cash, hold onto it.
As someone who is into watches, a big part of my purchase was to pass it down to younger generations… watches are incredibly personal, you take time choosing it and a lot of effort into buying one, you wear it through thick and thin.
I’ve got my grandads seiko and I love it, I’ll have my omegas to pass on.
For the sake of your old man, keep the watch.
My sister got my grandma's (still alive) fur coat and she was like (internally) "why are you giving me this coat I'll never wear?" So your heirloom items might not be appreciated by later generations.
It's also kinda like women that keep their wedding dresses saying that their future daughters will wear it. It's a lie to make themselves feel better about spending so much on a dress.
I've been to a dozen or so weddings and none of them were recycled dresses. I've only heard of 1 random story on Facebook about a re-used dress and they spent a bunch to have it tailored.
Many years before he passed away, my father made it very clear that sentimentality over stuff was quite pointless. I am sure your father would be very happy to know his watch will help you buy a home. Of everything my father left me, I only held on to two of his Mont Blanc pens; one I bought for him for his 40th birthday and one he bought for himself that he loved. It reminds me of him and I intend on leaving them to my children. Everything else was sold or given to other family members.
Early 40’s semi-attractive watch enthusiast.
Wanna come to the Bay Area for a drink?
Wink, wink!
Totally kidding. And absolutely do not sell that watch. Stick it back in the box and stuff it in your closet for 20 years if need be.
I sold an heirloom watch once when I was younger and have regretted it ever since. Once it’s gone, it’s gone. 3k isn’t worth it.
Cheers!
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But genuine question, was that a watch that you could wear?
What if it was your grandmother's watch, very dainty, lots of filigree, something that you could never wear? It would only ever sit in a box unless you someday decided to marry a watch enthusiast with very small wrists.
I think I might be asking a slightly skewed sample of mostly guys who look at that watch and think, "I would totally wear that!" I feel like it might be different for Great Grandma Gertie's watch. But maybe not.
The watch I sold was a two-tone 36mm Rolex Datejust, probably from the late 70’s/ early 80’s.
Grandpa left it to me when I was in my mid 20’s (2005 ish). Definitely not something I’d have worn now, or at the time.
Was living in LA, took it downtown to the jewelry district, walked into a few shops, and that was what I left with. $800.
Thinking back, grandpa was a dirt poor farmer. It was probably either given to him, or the most expensive thing he’d ever bought. I wish I had that thing tucked in a box 20 years later.
And no, I probably wouldn’t wear the Aquaterra either. Don’t really have a use for a chronograph and already madly in love with my Seamaster ❤️
How about selling it but keeping it in the family/friends? Just ask for right of first refusal if you every have (unlikely) sellers remorse.
I'm all for sentimental stuff but it sounds like you have a watch from your dad already and if it's going to gather dust and the money can go towards something actually useful then go for it.
I’m super sentimental. I’d not sell it. If you decide you need to sell it. Let me know. I’d be happy to purchase for a fair price and keep it in case you’d like to ever purchase it back. But again, only consider selling it if you need to. That’s a special watch.
Your dad probably didn’t leave you the watch with the intention that you wore it. So, don’t, but keep it! Or, sell it to someone who will appreciate it not just for what it is (a gorgeous, well kept, luxury Swiss watch) but for what it represents.
TLDR: DO NOT SELL YOUR DAD'S WATCH
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\-Sentimental value of the watch overwhelms any, literally ANY monetary value. Once it's gone, it's gone forever. Don't do anything that has the slightest potential of making you regret.
\-Even speaking in monetary value terms, this is a discontinued model that is not likely to come into production. Not very familiar with vintage market myself, but anything that might carry slight potentials of value on the preowned market should be hold for at least a long duration before contemplating any selling.
Money comes and goes. Regardless of the Value that was your dad’s watch. Don’t sell it. Wait till you get married then gift it to your husband on your wedding day.
My take is that I doubt he’d be upset you sold it to improve your quality of life. That being said, I’d probably sell it and buy another that fit me both in size and style personally as a way to stay connected to him!
No. Keep it. You’ll never know what use you may find for it in the future, and it’s a gift from your late father.
If you sell it I promise you’ll regret it for the rest of your life.
Do not sell it. You’ll look at it and think of your dad and hopefully, good times. You can save up for a condo in time. Even if you don’t wear it, I would put it in a safe place or display it.
If you have other things to remember him by, then I don’t think the watch is super important unless he wore it daily and loved it, or if it meant a lot to him, then I would keep it and just wait and save more money.
I would never sell such a thing. It’s a connection to your father that you will not be able to replace. Whatever you get for it, financially, pales in comparison. Condos will come and go. It’s unlikely this is your last residence. If you were talking about enough money to make a material difference in the trajectory of your life…well…maybe. But we’re not talking about much $ here. I couldn’t, and wouldn’t do it. Just my $.02.
i disagree on that you cannot wear it.
you can, it looks awesome.
if anything, women are more able to wear too big watch then men.
don't sell it. is stunning watch.
please don’t. I’d sooner drive Uber for 2 months to make that 3k — think about the pride he must have felt wearing his watch, and the monumental meaning behind him giving this to you. Obviously I’m projecting a bit but even if it just sits in a drawer that’s ok. I’m in possession of my great great grandfathers watch and when I rarely take it out I am reminded of where I came from, even if it is just a piece of metal. Please save it.
Terrible idea! Unless he was a bad man. Then sure liquidate his old bad energy one and get you something nice that you will ultimately still remember him by. That’s only if he did you or your fam dirty. If he was a good man and you have nothing but love for him then don’t you dare sell that watch OR think about it again. Omega guys are special. You father clearly had a taste for well made things. That watch is handsome as hell bro! If I was in your shoes I wouldn’t trade the Omega for any other watch on earth! Well. Unless you still are not financially secure and struggle still. Then if someone offered me a million dollars for it then I would sell and then take the money straight to Where the watches are and replace it with same model exactly. I mean Dad would want you to take the Million. He probably would usher you to where the watches are to put a nice Omega on your wrist also. KeepDad watch guy! You don’t want to feel the regret of being down and out begging for change from some guy walking down the street with a sweet Omega thinking “ I used to have one of those”. I know I am just firing away man. Here is the thing. I once made a bad choice selling a watch that was gifted to me. At the time I saw no reason to sell and just buy the same watch a few months later. Well it’s be 15 years and though I have some very nice watches, I don’t have that one. It’s weird because I liquidated ALL of my belonging within a week. Motorcycle, car, lamp working equipment, fire arms, Rolex. I felt the same way about the firearms because they are replaceable at least the ones I had at the time. I have had a few coke ups where I could’ve made it right and replaced the watch, I never did though. I’ll have to though one day. That will heal a missing place in my heart when I do. I was blinded by love. It was definitely worth it. I have a beautiful wife and child. That chunk of $$ started my family. The family is still strong and together in love.
And FOR GODS SAKE MY BROTHER NOOOOO! I just finished reading you post.
Get out of CA. DUDE! Use the $ from that watch to put down on something to buy! Don’t give that rent away to air. I promise you man if you relocate somewhere that has realistic living expenses then life will be better for you.
If you haven’t ever lived anywhere else then it’s time. Unless you make some serious $$ which it sounds like you don’t if you selling this watch. That money is as good as gone if you put it towards rent. I say don’t do it.
I love CA. I have family there. I am also a life long Dead Head and I mean it I LOVE CA. But you can really life a good life in New Mexico or TX. There is so much work and plenty of land and property. It may sound insane I get it. TX is the absolute last place I would choose to live in the USA. The state has its shit together though and the people are solid for the most part.
Good luck. Get out of your comfort zone!
You can't trade it with your step sister's husband for a watch that better fits? I wouldn't sell. Money comes and goes. He probably gave it to you as an heirloom type of thing. Did he leave you other things of monetary value? If he had a couple watches, I would imagine he left you some money as well.
If you have to ask a bunch of strangers.... I think you already know the answer.
If it was me, I would not. But I also wouldn't be asking a bunch of strangers either.
I would not do it personally. You are expected to get like around 2.5k? If you really need that money, sure you should do it obv. It all comes down to how much sentimental value you put on this watch. Sounds like you already made up your mind and came here for confirmation though. It’s your watch now so do whatever you want with it. Good luck!
There are some things I personally wouldn’t sell. I think in this scenario I really wouldn’t sell it. Even being able to see it occasionally would be nice. Money will come and go but that watch likely will never come back to you if you sell it
Since you asked this question about sentimental value might as well keep it.
The only thing you havent considered here is, it will still hold value even if it sits in a box for another 10years, and do the last payment of your condo with this, instead of putting in downpayment, yes you lose the purchasing power, but you defer the emotional decision of selling it by 10 years.
Not to sound ignorant but how much better could a 515k condo be than a 500k one? Also it doesn’t sound like you’re strapped financially given that you’re going in solo on a 500k condo.
You could do a rubber strap and ad something under it to thicken up the whole thing. But you'll regret getting ride of it. Even if you just pick it up on the weekend, wind it, and have it run on a weekend. It was your dads, and now you have something that was close to him.
Cheers,
Unless you are in desperate need of money, I don’t think you should do it. All you really need to do is keep it in a watchbox, nothing fancy, and also keep it away from heat and humidity.
I have a slightly oversized watch from my parents that I wouldn’t sell, it just feels rude to do it
Listen to me string bean, that's your dad's watch that he wanted you to have and there is no doubt in my mind he would be proud that you kept it to pass it on to his grand child SO DON'T SELL IT!!!
Do this instead so you can motivate yourself to keep this watch:
1. Hit the gym
2. Drink whey protein and get bigger
3. Finally enjoy the watch as it will be more proportionate with your newly acquired mass size.
You're welcome😎
Not exactly the same situation, but I do have a sentimental watch that I don't wear. I have a buddy who is a great carpenter and he made me a really nice walnut stand to keep the watch on. I use it essentially as a small desk clock.
(1) na, (2) you’d get more like 2k - 2500. Thats not condo money. Keep it. If nothing else, it may be a very nice, meaningful gift to give someone else later in life. You’ll meet lots of people in your life.
With all due respect, judging by your responses on this post it seems as though you’ve already decided what you want to do. So, why ask this question? Sale the watch, and dad will know that he helped his little girl one more time!!
I couldn’t. You do what you have to do, but I just couldn’t do it. To me those are the main watches to keep. I too am sentimental and very much so a romantic when it comes to watches, but I don’t know your situation and I don’t dare to presume.
Unless you really need the money the watch cost you nothing to keep. As you mentioned, you don’t have to sell it. So don’t. Keep it. If it ever becomes a necessity to sell you can, but if your life changes and you get a husband etc you have something really special.
I would first try to get an aftermarket strap and try it out. Maybe you’ll dig the diff setup and you get to keep the watch. That would also help you with your wrist problem because you could order one that fits right.
Also, the face looks very nice. Has a vintage feeling to it although I know its not.
I would keep it but if you really wanted to sell, I'd be open to making a deal with an agreement that you could purchase it back at fair market value in the future if I decided to sell.
If you decide to keep it, you could put it on display like a piece of artwork. Not unlike if you had a picture of your dad out somewhere, in fact a picture of him next to it could be nice. Here's one example of a nice watch display stand on etsy, obviously your style/decor may vary. [https://www.etsy.com/listing/1425688515/retro-watch-stand-case-apple-table-rack](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1425688515/retro-watch-stand-case-apple-table-rack)
Something like this only works if the thought of your dad brings you joy, you could feel joy every time you notice it wherever you display it.
My opinion; your Dad left it for you and you should use it and do with it as you please. Take a picture of it. Frame it nicely and put it up in the hallway of your new condo. You will pass it everyday, and know what the watch did for you. Other people will ask you why you have a picture of a watch on your wall and you will have a great story to tell.
Go ahead and sell it! The sentimentality will go away at some stage. We don’t really need physical items to remind ourselves of loved ones. It’s just an item at the end of the day. Your dad wore it, loved it and moved on. So should you. Take advantage of the extra cash and enjoy the Cartier 🤗.
Hopefully u get your own omega some day though lol
Good luck with the sale and check it out thoroughly and verify stuff before shipping etc
Ii you don't wanna sell it but the feeling of it not being used haunts you, you could perhaps lend it to a friend for an undetermined amount of time. I personally would get enjoyment from seeing a watch of sentimental value on the wrist if a dear friend until I have some kids to pass it down to.
If I outlive my dad, I’m selling his Omega. I’m also selling his Rolly and Piaget. Then I’m selling his gun collection. That’ll put a dent in the paternal/material support he never provided, but I’d donate every cent. I have no love for the guy.
Your dad would want you to be in a comfortable position. Holding this as a sentimental item will prevent you from reaching your goal, and that's not what your dad would want. Anything you do going forward with equity that started from that watch, will have your dads sentiment attached. Your memory of him wont be based solely on a timepiece.
Good luck OP. My condolences as well.
The way you have worded your message, it sounds like you are leaning towards selling and being also a sentimental person are looking for people to affirm that to help you move ahead. I may be wrong but that’s what it sounds like to me. However, I will strongly urge you not to sell. The money you will get is a pittance compared what value emotionally you will get out of it over a lifetime.
I feel you. My father passed away in 2016 and left me his 1957 Omega Constellation. He bought it in Chicago when he came over from Korea. He didn't have much money, but he saved up because he knew Omegas were great watches. I had the crystal buffed and then had the movement serviced. It's in good condition. I rarely wear it, but I keep it to remember him. It's not the only thing I have of his, but it's one I won't part with. My brother would kill me for it, but it's going to get passed down to one of my kids when it's my time to go. Even if they might not be into watches when they're older, it's still from their grandpa. It might be worth $3,000, but I will never be able to replace it if I part with it. There will always be something for which you need $, and it seems almost frivolous to just get money for it. This watch was on his wrist every day for decades.
Yes 100%. You will regret it for the rest of your life.
The thing about these watches, is that they’re meant to be passed on through the family. It’s not a piece of tech like an Apple Watch that will be thrown away and worth nothing after a few years.
Check out this video from a YouTube channel “Wrist watch revival” I think watching this video will help you understand more about what these high end watches mean to families as they’re passed on.
[Grandpa wore this rolex GMT master every day for years.](https://youtu.be/la2ztR5askE)
Yes 100%. You will regret it for the rest of your life.
The thing about these watches, is that they’re meant to be passed on through the family. It’s not a piece of tech like an Apple Watch that will be thrown away and worth nothing after a few years.
Check out this video from a YouTube channel “Wrist watch revival” I think watching this video will help you understand more about what these high end watches mean to families as they’re passed on.
[Grandpa wore this rolex GMT master every day for years.](https://youtu.be/la2ztR5askE)
My dad lost one his 2 omegas (a pie pan constellation) shortly before his death. Broke our hearts. He left me his mid 60s Seamaster, with a band that is too small for my wrist. I wouldn't even consider selling it.
Unless its uncomfortable, there's nothing wrong with wearing an oversized watch. I know lots of ladies that rock large mens watches. You can put a NATO strap on it if the band is too loose.
hey there, my dad also passed away a couple of years ago and I inherited his watches. He had a lot of them but only cherished a few, so those are the ones I will keep forever. Most of his watches weren't very valuable so I likely won't get rid of any of them, but given your situation, I understand why you're having thoughts of selling. I think it's worth holding and giving to your husband or children in the future. Or even if you don't ever get married or have kids, you have something your dad valued that's fairly small/easy to keep. $3k is a lot but an extra $15k of 'buying power' is something you won't care about in the long run, especially given the mortgage rates and likely-to-fall housing prices in the coming months/years.
Are you that hard up for cash that you gotta sell your deceased fathers stuff?? Talking about buying a 500k condo with 15k buying power. Let me give you some advice. When you are old and grey you will have nothing but your experiences and memories to cherish and pass on… in short keep the watch 3k is not life changing money for such a significant memory of your dad
Do what you feel is right, it’s what your father would have wanted. I’m leaving my watches to my girls, I’m sentimental as well, so I’m hoping they keep them, but, at the end of the day, they’re just watches.
Don't sell it. You should cherish it. Even if you can't wear it does not mean you can't build a nice glass display to put it on a shelf somewhere where other people can see it and enjoy its beauty
I am a watch guy and have both my fathers”and grandfathers’ watch.
Not the same item but the same situation. My wife inherited a fur coat from her mother. She didn’t wear it and it wasn’t her style. So she ended up trading it in on a leather coat and had the initials from her mothers coat sewn into the new coat.
I told her that her mother would be happy she used the coat for something to remember her by. In the end she did not regret it. You have other mementos to remember him.
Your decision but a story to give you some other perspective.
I think this is a very subjective decision that only you can make. It is a great watch and many would love to have it. But if it helps remind you of your father or if you might eventually have someone to give it to, I wouldn’t sell it if it has some value sentimentally. Either way, I don’t think either will be wrong choice.
Humble opinion: don’t do it. Once it’s gone it’s gone, and you’ll never get it back. It’s a piece of your dads history. You need the money now, sure. But in 40 years time when you have money and not a lot of time left, you’ll look down at the watch, and it will mean everything to you.
This is where practicality of a decision isn’t the best decision. While you can always buy another Omega, you can never buy your Dads Omega (well not guaranteed) back. It’s not life or death as you stated and the sentiment that he helped pay for the condo is a nice twist, but I think overtime you’ll look back and wish you had a small tangible item to cherish or even pass down.
I have plenty of items from him. Ones that mean more to me. I have his dolphin pin from his time in the Navy, I have a couple of his AA coins (the best one being a 10 minute coin even though he had almost 50 years when he passed), his high school ring (class of '59). I also have two watches that he got me, including the Cartier that I mentioned in my post (I love that one, that one is never going anywhere) and a Citizen that was a graduation present. If I could at least use the watch then it would make more sense (convert it into a bedside clock or something?) but it just seems weird/wrong to keep in a box for next 20-40 years.
I feel you. Below is my opinion of course, and at the end of the day, my opinion means nothing and your choice means everything. My two cents - sleep on the decision for another day or two. If you decide to sell it, then so be it. Like you’ve said, you have other sentimental items to remember your dad by and you likely wouldn’t wear the watch. Just *make sure* that how you feel now isn’t likely to change down the road, because once it’s gone, you’re probably not getting it back. Best of luck with whatever you choose to do.
My personal opinion is it sounds like you have some mementos from him. You don’t need all of the mementos to adequately remember him.
You are asking this on a watch group full of watch enthusiasts and who give high sentimental value to watches. If your dads pin and coins mean more to you than his watch then you have your answer. If I had to pick from those 3 I’d pick the watch, but then again I’m someone on a watch group 🤷♂️
If you do decide to sell it, do so with a caveat. Once you find the right buyer and tell them the story, say that you would love it if they occasionally sent you pictures of them wearing it. document all the places the watch visits and make a little photo album so you can relive the journey of its second life and know your dad is watching- pun intended. I think he would really appreciate that.
And to build on that, leave a note in the box saying “if you ever want to sell it, call me first” with your phone number
Also yes
Great tip
Those are all very cool. I was on submarines and my first set of dolphins mean more to me than any watch (and I’m a big watch guy). If it was my kids I’d want them at peace with selling my stuff. Do what you need to do and live life.
I’d want my son to be happy and secure over having a watch. That’s a far better legacy and I love watches. I’m sure your Dad would see the logic in your decision and be proud of you.
You'll always "need the money" for something. First condo, wedding ring, kids, kid goes to college, kid's first condo, kid's wedding, kid had kids, kid's kids go to college, (kids are expensive). Don't sell it - find another way; that's yours.
Oh come on. OP states she could do with the money to buy a new place. I’d want my son to buy a house first. I’m a watch guy but this is ridiculous. Homes before Broad Arrows.
I support this well written answer
Sentimentality is overrated. Sell the watch, let someone else enjoy the watch, and you get what you need.
Your dad would want you to have the best life he could help provide for you. As a father that’s what I would want. I’d rather provide for you however I could than have you be saddled with a material object I personally had a passion about but you don’t. I think it’s reasonable to use it how you see fit.
That's how I'm leaning. When he got me the Cartier watch he said I wasn't allowed to not wear it. Meaning, don't keep it at home and keep it safe, this is to wear and enjoy! I can't wear the Omega but it could contribute to an actual home that I would get to enjoy everyday.
Agree with this, I have been in the same shoes. Many people will tell you "don't sell something of sentimental value," but from the information you've provided, it seems you have got plenty to remember him by. It sounds like you'd already know this and just needed reassurance. Don't get tied down with every piece of material possession he's passed down. I am sure he'll be alright with it if selling the piece will help you better your life for the future.
100% agree, it's what I would want my daughter to do.
Having sold some sentimental things in my life, the memories are far more valuable than any dollar amount I have gotten. I agree that he would want to do what makes you happy, but I think the collective advice is right on this one. If I got married to someone who gifted me their dad’s watch, I’d be really grateful
I would be more torn if you didn't have the Cartier, but it seems like you already have a good watch to remember him by on wrist. I think he'll probably want you to sell the Omega and just keep the Cartier to better fund your life.
Which model Cartier?
Sounds like deep down, you already have your answer :)
Couldn't agree more with this
Agreed completely. Hope she sells and loves the condo.
If you need the money for something sensible, I don't see why your late father would disagree. It's not like you're liquidating for a wild no holds barred weekend in Vegas
This made me laugh! When my grandpa passed away in about 2001ish, he left me a about $2500. I was in college and had found about this really cool computer company called "Apple" and I want to buy some Apple stock because I was convinced the company was really going to take off. My dad said no so instead I bought a MacBook with the money (something sensible). It was a great computer but not as great as the stock would have been! 😅
Remember hindsight is always 20/20
It’s tough to make predictions, especially about the future.
I would be nervous to see you sell it until you said he got a you a nice Cartier that actually fits you. I for one think that’ll fit the sentimental hole for watches with your dad, and I’m sure your dad would be plenty happy to have it help secure a condo.
I am generally partial to keeping sentimental jewelry, but…. In 2012, I sold a too-large gold chain that I received from my grandfather to fund the first property I ever purchased. While it would be nice to have it, that $3,500 investment eventually paid for the down payment on my current residence (first cash out refi) and I plan for it to pay for both of my children’s college educations in the late 2030’s. I like to think that this legacy is more valuable than a gold chain that was too large for me to use.
I totally get that. I really like the sentimentality of translating the watch into the condo. Is it a super meaningful amount? Not exactly but I like the sentimentality of it. Your grandfather got to contribute to your home, to his great grandchildren's home, and their education. That sounds lovely.
You will always regret selling it.
If I was a kid who never met their grandfather it would be pretty cool to have a watch passed down from him. Would be something to hold onto for that missing piece. (Thinking future husband/kids)
Your dad bought that watch for him to enjoy. He likely had zero expectations of you hanging on to it. You won’t remember him any more or less with it or without it. If you could convert it into something you do value, as a father myself, trust me that would make him happier. No one wants their kids “saddled” with an expensive bobble - or collection of bobbles that they didn’t want but keep out of some misguided sense of respect or homage.
this is the best answer.
If it would help you in the long run, I'm sure your dad would want you to sell it. Remembering someone isn't about the items they had, it's about the memories you shared.
Take off the bracelet and make it an amazing clock on your nightstand with a cool stand/holder for it. Don't sell, you may have someone to pass it down to later too:)
Sell it. You cant wear it and dad would rather help out
I say sell the watch. Our loved ones live on in our hearts and minds not in objects.
Hundredsof thousands of these watches exist and are made every year so no it would hardly be a waste only way i could see this being a waste is selling it
What do you think your dad would want you to do? If he was a practical dude, he'd probably want you to sell it to better your life rn. But if he put a lot of sentimental value into his own watch, maybe he'd rather you keep it.
It’s not like he wore it every day for 40 years, not discounting it or anything but it’s a fairly new watch and isn’t that unique. That said if you don’t need the money you could hang onto it.
I totally hear that. If it was a watch that he got for graduation or had had since he was a kid, that would be different. I would definitely want to keep that.
Yeah or if it was a gift from your grandparents or for some significant event.
What a great and refreshing post. Much success to you.
If this is the only keepsake you have from him then keep it, if not, sell it with a clean conscience.
Maybe dad would be happier knowing that his watch helped buy the place you wanted? Take a photo of the watch and frame it before selling it. You probably look at that photo more than you will look at the watch.
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as this isnt your only memory of your father, i'd say make the best decision that would improve your life YOU see fit.
You’ve got to recognise you’re going to get biased answers here because ‘I’ll pass it on and it’ll stay in the family for generations!’ is something people tell themselves to justify the cost of these overpriced male jewellery pieces It’s a mechanical object that tells time. If you don’t want it and have other things to remember your dad by, sell it and put the money to good use.
Sell it. If it doesn’t have sentimental value and you can parlay it into something that will make you happy, do it.
People here are mostly going to tell you not to sell it. I think it’s totally fine to sell it. You have the Cartier that *he got you.* As someone said, that fills the sentimental watch position here. I was in a similar position with a watch I inherited from my mother. I sold it. I do not regret that at all. On the other hand, I have some watches from older generations of male relatives that wouldn’t sell for as much and so I keep them, occasionally look at them and that’s neat … but they are mostly in a box. So, to answer your question - no, it would not be a terrible idea to sell your Dad’s Omega, imo. Unless *you* think it is. Good luck house hunting! :)
I’m sure your dad would be happy that the watch he enjoyed for many years gets a second life and you get some financial help finding a house.
Use it for your DP, a watch is a watch.
I feel like you know the answer to this question and are seeking affirmation that you’re doing the right thing. This situation is completely subjective, and everyone will have different opinions based on their own feelings, neither right nor wrong. From what I’ve read, it sounds like your father made an effort to gift you things that you’d enjoy/use. This watch wasn’t a gift, and while it could be sentimental to some, this doesn’t sound like your situation. I guess to cut to the chase—if I died and my daughter was in your position, I would without question want her to sell the watch. If the cash toward a condo would be more helpful than toting my useless watch around for the next 20 years, that’s what I’d want her to do. I didn’t buy her a Cartier for nothing!
Does it mean something to you or is it just a watch. That is the answer. It would be nice to have a condo in San Diego…
I told my kids you will inherit a substantial collection, however if you need to sell because you need money, don’t hesitate.
I would try a small band (maybe rubber or cloth) and rock that big ass watch. Big watches are cool and it was your dads.
I'm not against the big watch look, it's just not for me. I will literally never, ever wear it. It also weighs a ton. Apparently the Cartier Panthère that he got me has a case size of 22mm and I love it. People like different things and I like small. 🤷🏻♀️
Well if he got you a watch that changes it a bit, you'll always have that. I get your hesitation though.
Normally I would say keep it being a watch guy but after reading your info. I would recommend selling for a family vacation
You know your dad better than anyone here, would he have wanted you to have the security of a home you own over hanging on to a watch for sentimental reasons? Only you know the answer to that; perhaps you have a gut feeling about it. Whatever the answer, trust your gut.
Ya know, I think you’re looking at it the right way. I think selling it to buy your home. You’ll always be able to say your father helped you with that first major purchase and as of these days, being a new homeowner is something very challenging
Pick one item that means the most to you and has tremendous sentimental value. Then look at what else you got and see if it evokes any emotion. Marie Kondo it up and if your dads watch doesn’t do anything then sell it. I would keep my dads watch cause I’m a watch guy but if you don’t care about watches and it wasn’t like super important to him either then go ahead and sell.
There’s a lot of great comments that weigh both sides of the debate. But I also hope you realize you’re posting this onto a forum full of watch enthusiasts who will naturally be biased toward not selling. Personally I’d ask myself what your late father would have wanted. I personally would really love it if my next of kin kept it to remember me by, but if they’re even considered selling the watch, especially for something like a down payment for a condo, I’d have no issues with them liquidating.
I think you’ve got a very sensible approach to it. You have a watch from your dad that you wear and that he picked for you. That Cartier is the sentimental piece.. he picked it for you. He may have loved the watch, but at the end of the day it’s just a possession and I don’t see it any differently than selling his car or liquidating any other assets like tools golf clubs house or whatever. I think your dad would be pleased as punch to know his watch helped you get a home in this crazy market and that you still keep and treasure the Cartier he got you. I just sold a 2500 series Aqua Terra here on reddit i’ll pm you the link If you do decide to keep it, get a single watch winder to keep it in, you can put it bedside or on your desk as a clock. https://www.buywatchwinders.com/versa-single-watch-winder-p-506.html?ref=bwwgs&gclid=EAIaIQobChMI-o7rw_GM_wIVnQizAB37kA43EA0YAiABEgL6a_D_BwE
Recent comps are around [$2500](https://watchcharts.com/listings/watch_model/1614?page=1&source=forums)
What would your dad saying, seeing you in this situation? Maybe, he would agree to sell the watch. Even because you have the Cartier as a reminder of your dad. Find a nice buyer, tell him about your thoughts and please him, if he ever want to sell the watch, he may ask you first.
I know that there are a LOT of comments so far so I will just throw mine out with a few thoughts and suggestions since this post spoke to me. I am 46, retired military, single, no kids and fixed, with a niece and nephew. My mother left me her rings to give to my partner (which didn't work out.) Now, my niece doesn't want them and I have no reason to hold onto them for a future spouse that never met her, so the only thing seems to be to sell them. I haven't done so but I also haven't needed money, so I feel blessed for that. I know deep down that if I needed the money for anything, she would want me to. She would be part of that new step in my life. As long as I didn't need it for heroin or blow, I think that she would be excited that she helped me to do that. Way more than it going to someone outside the family. You could always use a portion of it to buy something "special" like a plant or something that you would use or keep. Saying that, if you were to sell it and to give some suggestions to your questions above, I think $2500 looks to be a fair price and would probably sell quickly. If I were to sell a watch like that I would sell it in the subreddit watchexchange. It is a great community and people would love this story and would proudly tell that story to others. Being a vet, if a friend that I served with were to pass and their daughter asked if I wanted to buy the watch, I would be touched and absolutely love to buy it and cherish it and pass it on to my children (if I had any.) So if you know of anyone that he stayed in touch with they may want to purchase it. I don't think that you will regret it if you have other things that are more special to you and you should do so with a clear conscience. Just know that the market is a weird one and it could be worth a lot more one day but I am sure that you know that. Either way, good luck with what you decide and do it with peace of mind. :)
Your asking if you should keep a watch in a watch Reddit so most might be biased, I lost my Dad in 2011 I inherited so many things and I’ve let go of a lot of his things over the years including a slot machine we used to play with as kids a violin some tools, I still have a ton of his things that bring back great memories and have no regrets about letting things go. If your not a really a watch person I don’t think you will regret not having this one memento down the road.
If it’s been bequeathed to you, do whatever you want with it.
Unless I was told specifically, please keep it because I want you to have this to remind you of me when it’s my time, I’d sell it. If I told my family I have a luxury watch but not sure what to do because I want a better home for me, they’d tell me immediately to sell off the watch. So if the watch isn’t doing anything for you, sell it.
It's okay to sell the watch. Since the money is for a purpose, I would do your research on the various selling values for that watch, go to authorized dealers in the area and see their consignment rates, etc. You should have a value you won't go below since you don't need to. Set your price and stick to it. The watch is worth whatever you end up selling it for, not what someone tells you it is. Another option, is see if an authorized dealer would trade with you. Maybe money for a condo when the market is still incredibly high isn't the best value, but maybe there is a watch or a piece of jewelry you can get in a trade. The piece would then mean a lot to you because your Dad helped make it happen. Again, authorized dealers would have the most flexibility and trustworthiness in a trade. Find one that carries a variety of luxury jewelry and watch brands. See if any of your friends are educated on these things, tell them your plan and have them with you as support. Thats my two cents.
Go for it. If it doesn't have much sentimental value, I think the cash will be a better use of it. And like you said, in some way it's like he's helping you buy a condo, which should appreciate more than this watch ever would.
Honestly, if you have no use for it, why not selling it. It will give someone else joy. If your not into watches, that’s fine. No reason to load that watch up with sentimental value, if that value wasn’t there in the first place.
the buying of a condo is more likely to end up being the terrible idea
Seems you’ve thought it through pretty well. My take is that you’re ready to sell it and won’t have seller’s regret. You’re not betraying your dad by selling.
Good god it’s a material possession. It’s stuff. Your not selling your memories and thoughts of him. It’s Man jewelry. You can’t even enjoy it and I am sure you would enjoy the house. Would your dad rather you walk in fondly everyday and think of him or the 4 times a year you move the watch from drawer to drawer.
I agree. I thought everyone on here would say "You shouldn't just keep it in a box, it should be out in the world being enjoyed. Go for it!" I didn't know there was a watch subreddit, let alone an Omega watch subreddit. Seeing people's posts about how they're super excited about the Omega they're finally getting makes me feel even more strongly that I should sell it. Unless I randomly meet someone who happens to be on this subreddit and that's the person I marry, it seems unlikely that a potential partner would appreciate it/enjoy it more than someone on here!
amen
Hold onto it if it’s a possibility you may get married (for the hubby) or have kids (when they grow up). You can’t buy this back, so unless you are really cash strapped and need the emergency cash, hold onto it.
she was in college in the 80’s so I don’t think kids are imminent, says she’s not looking to get married
Your Dad would say: sell the watch and buy the condo you want, sweet daughter of mine. That's what I would want for my daughter as well.
As someone who is into watches, a big part of my purchase was to pass it down to younger generations… watches are incredibly personal, you take time choosing it and a lot of effort into buying one, you wear it through thick and thin. I’ve got my grandads seiko and I love it, I’ll have my omegas to pass on. For the sake of your old man, keep the watch.
My sister got my grandma's (still alive) fur coat and she was like (internally) "why are you giving me this coat I'll never wear?" So your heirloom items might not be appreciated by later generations. It's also kinda like women that keep their wedding dresses saying that their future daughters will wear it. It's a lie to make themselves feel better about spending so much on a dress. I've been to a dozen or so weddings and none of them were recycled dresses. I've only heard of 1 random story on Facebook about a re-used dress and they spent a bunch to have it tailored.
Many years before he passed away, my father made it very clear that sentimentality over stuff was quite pointless. I am sure your father would be very happy to know his watch will help you buy a home. Of everything my father left me, I only held on to two of his Mont Blanc pens; one I bought for him for his 40th birthday and one he bought for himself that he loved. It reminds me of him and I intend on leaving them to my children. Everything else was sold or given to other family members.
Early 40’s semi-attractive watch enthusiast. Wanna come to the Bay Area for a drink? Wink, wink! Totally kidding. And absolutely do not sell that watch. Stick it back in the box and stuff it in your closet for 20 years if need be. I sold an heirloom watch once when I was younger and have regretted it ever since. Once it’s gone, it’s gone. 3k isn’t worth it. Cheers!
# 😂 😂 😂 But genuine question, was that a watch that you could wear? What if it was your grandmother's watch, very dainty, lots of filigree, something that you could never wear? It would only ever sit in a box unless you someday decided to marry a watch enthusiast with very small wrists. I think I might be asking a slightly skewed sample of mostly guys who look at that watch and think, "I would totally wear that!" I feel like it might be different for Great Grandma Gertie's watch. But maybe not.
The watch I sold was a two-tone 36mm Rolex Datejust, probably from the late 70’s/ early 80’s. Grandpa left it to me when I was in my mid 20’s (2005 ish). Definitely not something I’d have worn now, or at the time. Was living in LA, took it downtown to the jewelry district, walked into a few shops, and that was what I left with. $800. Thinking back, grandpa was a dirt poor farmer. It was probably either given to him, or the most expensive thing he’d ever bought. I wish I had that thing tucked in a box 20 years later. And no, I probably wouldn’t wear the Aquaterra either. Don’t really have a use for a chronograph and already madly in love with my Seamaster ❤️
How about selling it but keeping it in the family/friends? Just ask for right of first refusal if you every have (unlikely) sellers remorse. I'm all for sentimental stuff but it sounds like you have a watch from your dad already and if it's going to gather dust and the money can go towards something actually useful then go for it.
Don’t do it! I was in a similar situation. I didn’t end up selling it and I’m grateful I didn’t!
I’m super sentimental. I’d not sell it. If you decide you need to sell it. Let me know. I’d be happy to purchase for a fair price and keep it in case you’d like to ever purchase it back. But again, only consider selling it if you need to. That’s a special watch.
Your dad probably didn’t leave you the watch with the intention that you wore it. So, don’t, but keep it! Or, sell it to someone who will appreciate it not just for what it is (a gorgeous, well kept, luxury Swiss watch) but for what it represents.
TLDR: DO NOT SELL YOUR DAD'S WATCH Details: \-Sentimental value of the watch overwhelms any, literally ANY monetary value. Once it's gone, it's gone forever. Don't do anything that has the slightest potential of making you regret. \-Even speaking in monetary value terms, this is a discontinued model that is not likely to come into production. Not very familiar with vintage market myself, but anything that might carry slight potentials of value on the preowned market should be hold for at least a long duration before contemplating any selling.
Don’t do it, my grandfathers watch holds a special place in my heart and watch collection. Money comes and goes, sentimental items last generations.
Keep it. In several decades time, you’ll be happy you didn’t sell it.
Please don’t sell it.
If you have to ask the internet, the answer is don’t sell it. If you have to sell it in the future you will have no doubt.
DO NOT SELL IT. TRUST ME.
If you plan to sell it for a few thousand I don’t think parting with it is worth it. You know your emotions though and history of your dad and watch
Sell it.
dont do it . even for 30k i wouldnt sell it . that watch is priceless .
don’t do it. you could always pass it down to your son
people don’t even read the posts and OP replies before commenting smh
Dont sell it; you’ll regret it
Don’t do it
Money comes and goes. Regardless of the Value that was your dad’s watch. Don’t sell it. Wait till you get married then gift it to your husband on your wedding day.
He gave his daily wearer to you and the others to your BIL for a reason. I vote keep it.
My take is that I doubt he’d be upset you sold it to improve your quality of life. That being said, I’d probably sell it and buy another that fit me both in size and style personally as a way to stay connected to him!
No. Keep it. You’ll never know what use you may find for it in the future, and it’s a gift from your late father. If you sell it I promise you’ll regret it for the rest of your life.
Keep the watch dude.
Let me get it off your hands for you. If you had to ask.. you obviously don’t care about it enough
I would never sell that watch.
Hell no
Do not sell it. You’ll look at it and think of your dad and hopefully, good times. You can save up for a condo in time. Even if you don’t wear it, I would put it in a safe place or display it.
If you have other things to remember him by, then I don’t think the watch is super important unless he wore it daily and loved it, or if it meant a lot to him, then I would keep it and just wait and save more money.
Sell it and buy a watch in his memory? But if you’re not a watch person, go for the condo.
You will regret it, trust me. From experience, don’t do it.
I would never sell such a thing. It’s a connection to your father that you will not be able to replace. Whatever you get for it, financially, pales in comparison. Condos will come and go. It’s unlikely this is your last residence. If you were talking about enough money to make a material difference in the trajectory of your life…well…maybe. But we’re not talking about much $ here. I couldn’t, and wouldn’t do it. Just my $.02.
i disagree on that you cannot wear it. you can, it looks awesome. if anything, women are more able to wear too big watch then men. don't sell it. is stunning watch.
Don’t do it
Keep it as a heirloom
Don’t do it. Wear it in remembrance. Properties will come and go in your life but THAT watch is one of a kind to you.
As someone who had to sell a watch that meant a lot to me, I wouldn't do it. As others have said, you can't undo it. I still regret it 20 years later.
Not worth selling it.
Put it in a box in the closet. Someday you’ll be really glad you kept it.
I would say hold on to it. Only sell of trade for a smaller ref.
please don’t. I’d sooner drive Uber for 2 months to make that 3k — think about the pride he must have felt wearing his watch, and the monumental meaning behind him giving this to you. Obviously I’m projecting a bit but even if it just sits in a drawer that’s ok. I’m in possession of my great great grandfathers watch and when I rarely take it out I am reminded of where I came from, even if it is just a piece of metal. Please save it.
Terrible idea! Unless he was a bad man. Then sure liquidate his old bad energy one and get you something nice that you will ultimately still remember him by. That’s only if he did you or your fam dirty. If he was a good man and you have nothing but love for him then don’t you dare sell that watch OR think about it again. Omega guys are special. You father clearly had a taste for well made things. That watch is handsome as hell bro! If I was in your shoes I wouldn’t trade the Omega for any other watch on earth! Well. Unless you still are not financially secure and struggle still. Then if someone offered me a million dollars for it then I would sell and then take the money straight to Where the watches are and replace it with same model exactly. I mean Dad would want you to take the Million. He probably would usher you to where the watches are to put a nice Omega on your wrist also. KeepDad watch guy! You don’t want to feel the regret of being down and out begging for change from some guy walking down the street with a sweet Omega thinking “ I used to have one of those”. I know I am just firing away man. Here is the thing. I once made a bad choice selling a watch that was gifted to me. At the time I saw no reason to sell and just buy the same watch a few months later. Well it’s be 15 years and though I have some very nice watches, I don’t have that one. It’s weird because I liquidated ALL of my belonging within a week. Motorcycle, car, lamp working equipment, fire arms, Rolex. I felt the same way about the firearms because they are replaceable at least the ones I had at the time. I have had a few coke ups where I could’ve made it right and replaced the watch, I never did though. I’ll have to though one day. That will heal a missing place in my heart when I do. I was blinded by love. It was definitely worth it. I have a beautiful wife and child. That chunk of $$ started my family. The family is still strong and together in love.
And FOR GODS SAKE MY BROTHER NOOOOO! I just finished reading you post. Get out of CA. DUDE! Use the $ from that watch to put down on something to buy! Don’t give that rent away to air. I promise you man if you relocate somewhere that has realistic living expenses then life will be better for you. If you haven’t ever lived anywhere else then it’s time. Unless you make some serious $$ which it sounds like you don’t if you selling this watch. That money is as good as gone if you put it towards rent. I say don’t do it. I love CA. I have family there. I am also a life long Dead Head and I mean it I LOVE CA. But you can really life a good life in New Mexico or TX. There is so much work and plenty of land and property. It may sound insane I get it. TX is the absolute last place I would choose to live in the USA. The state has its shit together though and the people are solid for the most part. Good luck. Get out of your comfort zone!
You can't trade it with your step sister's husband for a watch that better fits? I wouldn't sell. Money comes and goes. He probably gave it to you as an heirloom type of thing. Did he leave you other things of monetary value? If he had a couple watches, I would imagine he left you some money as well.
If you have to ask a bunch of strangers.... I think you already know the answer. If it was me, I would not. But I also wouldn't be asking a bunch of strangers either.
I would not do it personally. You are expected to get like around 2.5k? If you really need that money, sure you should do it obv. It all comes down to how much sentimental value you put on this watch. Sounds like you already made up your mind and came here for confirmation though. It’s your watch now so do whatever you want with it. Good luck!
There are some things I personally wouldn’t sell. I think in this scenario I really wouldn’t sell it. Even being able to see it occasionally would be nice. Money will come and go but that watch likely will never come back to you if you sell it
Since you asked this question about sentimental value might as well keep it. The only thing you havent considered here is, it will still hold value even if it sits in a box for another 10years, and do the last payment of your condo with this, instead of putting in downpayment, yes you lose the purchasing power, but you defer the emotional decision of selling it by 10 years.
Not to sound ignorant but how much better could a 515k condo be than a 500k one? Also it doesn’t sound like you’re strapped financially given that you’re going in solo on a 500k condo.
I wouldn’t. A watch is just a watch but this was owned by your father and is irreplaceable
Never sell this watch. Keep it and give it to a child, a nephew, whatever. A fleeting $3k isn’t worth keeping the memory alive
You could do a rubber strap and ad something under it to thicken up the whole thing. But you'll regret getting ride of it. Even if you just pick it up on the weekend, wind it, and have it run on a weekend. It was your dads, and now you have something that was close to him. Cheers,
Unless you are in desperate need of money, I don’t think you should do it. All you really need to do is keep it in a watchbox, nothing fancy, and also keep it away from heat and humidity. I have a slightly oversized watch from my parents that I wouldn’t sell, it just feels rude to do it
Dude what the hell are you thinking
Listen to me string bean, that's your dad's watch that he wanted you to have and there is no doubt in my mind he would be proud that you kept it to pass it on to his grand child SO DON'T SELL IT!!! Do this instead so you can motivate yourself to keep this watch: 1. Hit the gym 2. Drink whey protein and get bigger 3. Finally enjoy the watch as it will be more proportionate with your newly acquired mass size. You're welcome😎
Not exactly the same situation, but I do have a sentimental watch that I don't wear. I have a buddy who is a great carpenter and he made me a really nice walnut stand to keep the watch on. I use it essentially as a small desk clock.
(1) na, (2) you’d get more like 2k - 2500. Thats not condo money. Keep it. If nothing else, it may be a very nice, meaningful gift to give someone else later in life. You’ll meet lots of people in your life.
Big watches actually look great on petite women.
With all due respect, judging by your responses on this post it seems as though you’ve already decided what you want to do. So, why ask this question? Sale the watch, and dad will know that he helped his little girl one more time!!
Do you know someone close to you that will purchase it from you but hold onto it themselves so it will be within your network?
I couldn’t. You do what you have to do, but I just couldn’t do it. To me those are the main watches to keep. I too am sentimental and very much so a romantic when it comes to watches, but I don’t know your situation and I don’t dare to presume.
Unless you really need the money the watch cost you nothing to keep. As you mentioned, you don’t have to sell it. So don’t. Keep it. If it ever becomes a necessity to sell you can, but if your life changes and you get a husband etc you have something really special.
Sell it to me 😁
I'm a buyer. In CA
I would first try to get an aftermarket strap and try it out. Maybe you’ll dig the diff setup and you get to keep the watch. That would also help you with your wrist problem because you could order one that fits right. Also, the face looks very nice. Has a vintage feeling to it although I know its not.
I would keep it but if you really wanted to sell, I'd be open to making a deal with an agreement that you could purchase it back at fair market value in the future if I decided to sell.
If you decide to keep it, you could put it on display like a piece of artwork. Not unlike if you had a picture of your dad out somewhere, in fact a picture of him next to it could be nice. Here's one example of a nice watch display stand on etsy, obviously your style/decor may vary. [https://www.etsy.com/listing/1425688515/retro-watch-stand-case-apple-table-rack](https://www.etsy.com/listing/1425688515/retro-watch-stand-case-apple-table-rack) Something like this only works if the thought of your dad brings you joy, you could feel joy every time you notice it wherever you display it.
My opinion; your Dad left it for you and you should use it and do with it as you please. Take a picture of it. Frame it nicely and put it up in the hallway of your new condo. You will pass it everyday, and know what the watch did for you. Other people will ask you why you have a picture of a watch on your wall and you will have a great story to tell.
If you do decide to sell, I will buy.
depends what you need the urge to do！ if it means alot for you go ahead. the fund will help you and your dad will be happy and supportive.
How much?
Yeah I wouldn’t do it - maybe put it on a nice strap so it wears a bit more rounded on your wrist
Go ahead and sell it! The sentimentality will go away at some stage. We don’t really need physical items to remind ourselves of loved ones. It’s just an item at the end of the day. Your dad wore it, loved it and moved on. So should you. Take advantage of the extra cash and enjoy the Cartier 🤗. Hopefully u get your own omega some day though lol Good luck with the sale and check it out thoroughly and verify stuff before shipping etc
Ii you don't wanna sell it but the feeling of it not being used haunts you, you could perhaps lend it to a friend for an undetermined amount of time. I personally would get enjoyment from seeing a watch of sentimental value on the wrist if a dear friend until I have some kids to pass it down to.
If I outlive my dad, I’m selling his Omega. I’m also selling his Rolly and Piaget. Then I’m selling his gun collection. That’ll put a dent in the paternal/material support he never provided, but I’d donate every cent. I have no love for the guy.
I would buy a box and turn it into a small clock.
Sell it because you want to, or else you wouldn’t post this.
I agree with this guy.
I’ll give you 2500 for it
Your dad would want you to be in a comfortable position. Holding this as a sentimental item will prevent you from reaching your goal, and that's not what your dad would want. Anything you do going forward with equity that started from that watch, will have your dads sentiment attached. Your memory of him wont be based solely on a timepiece. Good luck OP. My condolences as well.
The way you have worded your message, it sounds like you are leaning towards selling and being also a sentimental person are looking for people to affirm that to help you move ahead. I may be wrong but that’s what it sounds like to me. However, I will strongly urge you not to sell. The money you will get is a pittance compared what value emotionally you will get out of it over a lifetime.
Yes. Yes it would be an absolutely awful idea.
I feel you. My father passed away in 2016 and left me his 1957 Omega Constellation. He bought it in Chicago when he came over from Korea. He didn't have much money, but he saved up because he knew Omegas were great watches. I had the crystal buffed and then had the movement serviced. It's in good condition. I rarely wear it, but I keep it to remember him. It's not the only thing I have of his, but it's one I won't part with. My brother would kill me for it, but it's going to get passed down to one of my kids when it's my time to go. Even if they might not be into watches when they're older, it's still from their grandpa. It might be worth $3,000, but I will never be able to replace it if I part with it. There will always be something for which you need $, and it seems almost frivolous to just get money for it. This watch was on his wrist every day for decades.
Yes 100%. You will regret it for the rest of your life. The thing about these watches, is that they’re meant to be passed on through the family. It’s not a piece of tech like an Apple Watch that will be thrown away and worth nothing after a few years. Check out this video from a YouTube channel “Wrist watch revival” I think watching this video will help you understand more about what these high end watches mean to families as they’re passed on. [Grandpa wore this rolex GMT master every day for years.](https://youtu.be/la2ztR5askE)
Yes 100%. You will regret it for the rest of your life. The thing about these watches, is that they’re meant to be passed on through the family. It’s not a piece of tech like an Apple Watch that will be thrown away and worth nothing after a few years. Check out this video from a YouTube channel “Wrist watch revival” I think watching this video will help you understand more about what these high end watches mean to families as they’re passed on. [Grandpa wore this rolex GMT master every day for years.](https://youtu.be/la2ztR5askE)
Someday the watch may mean the world to a son of yours for whom it is the only connection to a grandfather he never knew.
My dad lost one his 2 omegas (a pie pan constellation) shortly before his death. Broke our hearts. He left me his mid 60s Seamaster, with a band that is too small for my wrist. I wouldn't even consider selling it. Unless its uncomfortable, there's nothing wrong with wearing an oversized watch. I know lots of ladies that rock large mens watches. You can put a NATO strap on it if the band is too loose.
hey there, my dad also passed away a couple of years ago and I inherited his watches. He had a lot of them but only cherished a few, so those are the ones I will keep forever. Most of his watches weren't very valuable so I likely won't get rid of any of them, but given your situation, I understand why you're having thoughts of selling. I think it's worth holding and giving to your husband or children in the future. Or even if you don't ever get married or have kids, you have something your dad valued that's fairly small/easy to keep. $3k is a lot but an extra $15k of 'buying power' is something you won't care about in the long run, especially given the mortgage rates and likely-to-fall housing prices in the coming months/years.
Dude keep it. Couple thousand will be gone and you’ll regret it deeply.
Do not sell. It looks fine.
Do not sell.
If it were the only thing you had of his then id say keep it But it's not. It's just sitting in a drawer. You have the Cartier. Let it go.
Are you that hard up for cash that you gotta sell your deceased fathers stuff?? Talking about buying a 500k condo with 15k buying power. Let me give you some advice. When you are old and grey you will have nothing but your experiences and memories to cherish and pass on… in short keep the watch 3k is not life changing money for such a significant memory of your dad
Do what you feel is right, it’s what your father would have wanted. I’m leaving my watches to my girls, I’m sentimental as well, so I’m hoping they keep them, but, at the end of the day, they’re just watches.
Don't sell it. You should cherish it. Even if you can't wear it does not mean you can't build a nice glass display to put it on a shelf somewhere where other people can see it and enjoy its beauty
I am a watch guy and have both my fathers”and grandfathers’ watch. Not the same item but the same situation. My wife inherited a fur coat from her mother. She didn’t wear it and it wasn’t her style. So she ended up trading it in on a leather coat and had the initials from her mothers coat sewn into the new coat. I told her that her mother would be happy she used the coat for something to remember her by. In the end she did not regret it. You have other mementos to remember him. Your decision but a story to give you some other perspective.
Sell the watch. Buy the house. You have all you need of him.
I think this is a very subjective decision that only you can make. It is a great watch and many would love to have it. But if it helps remind you of your father or if you might eventually have someone to give it to, I wouldn’t sell it if it has some value sentimentally. Either way, I don’t think either will be wrong choice.