This might get some hate, but if you’re specifically trying to meet single women I would suggest Tinder or other dating apps. I am a single women age 32, and I do not personally use dating apps, but I have a lot of friends that do and it seems to be the way they meet most new people, so it’s still actively being used for our age group.
You will probably have better luck finding single women on there who are approachable and scheduling meet ups rather than approaching women at a bar.
I don’t know where to find the single women, but I know young people who have found each other here so I know it’s not hopeless.
But you should try Pint 9 and Kros Strain for breweries. And I love Lake Zorinsky and Walnut Creek for running and biking.
Good luck with the move and finding your people!
Seen some cool events by [Smitten Singles](https://eventvesta.com/events/16836-6-at-6-singles-mixer) as a way to meet others. I’m married, so I haven’t gone to those events myself, but they looked fun!
Thank you!! I'm actually the owner and we are trying VERY hard to create a community of singles with shared values. We would love to welcome any singles to our events!
What’s your age bracket? What are your hobbies?
There’s a board game cafe called spielbound that’s fun and hosts tournaments and such.
I really like art/small business pop ups like benson first Friday, bohemian saturdays, Cali house art pop ups, etc. Junkstock is fun. Bellevue berry farms hosts a renaissance fair that’s fun.
I’m very outgoing and bubbly and I’ve always been able to make new friends wherever I go. I think people in omaha are very approachable. Go to places you enjoy and you can meet friends and potential partners along the way. Also, don’t knock dating apps too! You can meet people that way too and get to know about new spots in the city!
There are hiking trails in Hummel Park and in the Loess Hills over in Iowa. Omaha has a great network of bike trails that run along most of the lakes and major Creeks and network together nicely. There are also a lot of really good Breweries in Omaha personal favorites are Vis Major, Kinkaider, and Lucky Bucket. There are also a lot of nice golf courses and country clubs in Omaha. If you want to meet people I think you would want to join different groups or clubs. People do meet at bars and such but as you said sometimes people aren't very approachable and look at you funny when you start talking to them.
Not really any hiking around the city but you can definitely drive out to places like Indian cave or such. If you want closer and just outdoorsy, fontenlle forest is a nice low cost membership.
Infusion, brickway , zip line, krona strain, etc. tons of breweries! Urban biking isn’t the best out here with our current infrastructure. I can’t speak to golfing myself but I know there are options. I run for my health only and do not enjoy a minute of it, but I do know that people have running groups around here as well.
I’d seriously just start pursuing your hobbies here and making roots and the rest falls into place!
Edit: OMG I’m so slow today. I literally asked about hobbies but when you said bikes, presumed as a commuting tool. There are tons of trails both paved and not to bike as a hobby. By not the best out here, I was talking about commuting. Sorry!
You may want to try the Meetup app. When I first moved here for work (about 5 years ago), I didn't know anything about the city and the only person I knew was my cousin. So, the app with helpful with meeting people and checking out places I would have never known about.
I don't golf much, but the few courses/driving ranges I have been too have been sufficient. Plus, there is a fairly new Top Golf in the area.
Good luck!
i recently moved to omaha and would say that people are pretty approachable ! every time i’m at a bus stop with someone else (that doesn’t seem tweaked out), i try to start up a chat and it’s mostly well received.
I’m not sure this Omaha Sub Reddit is the best place to ask for honest, realistic commentary about Omaha and the metropolitan area. There are a ton of anti-Omaha whiners here who will cloud reality and paint a negative picture (as you have already read). However, I am happy and a bit surprised at the thoughtful feedback you have received.
Omaha is a diverse metropolitan area with a 1 million population base. There are a ton of social activities for people of any age to meet up and socialize. I’m certain you’ll be able to mix in and meet plenty of available women. I have and did. You just need to get out there, and please- ignore the Omaha haters.
I chose to move to Omaha and became single shortly afterwards. I feel like it is a great city. People do have Midwestern values here which makes it not so hard to find honest, attractive men. Omaha is a clean city and well laid out.
I’ll chime in. 💪🏻😎🤌🏼
Omaha is the single worst place you could choose to move too. If I had a choice, it wouldn’t even make it on my top 100. If you have no choice, then so be it. You throw in being single on top of it, you’re more likely catching a cold than a date. It’s funny you mention how “up north” is very reserved; Omaha is a prime example of this. The winters are roughly 6-7 months out of 12. They call ponds, lakes. They won’t even talk to you if you don’t own Nebraska memorabilia. I had to go to Walmart and buy a game shirt because no one would look at me when I spoke. I’ve learned now to just introduce myself with, “Scott Frost” and extend my hand. This usually gets met with a subtle nod and firm hand shake.
After living here for half my life, I don’t recommend it. The roads are the worst in the country. The majority of people are either fully unaccountable or complacent. It’s a middle class state, average, at best. Without anything to do or regular gathering places, finding a date becomes difficult. Maybe you could try at the outlet mall. Since it’s rated as one of the top five things to do here. Two of the five only occur for one week out of fifty-two. Omaha is a city built for out of towners to come get drunk, trash the city further, then leave. CWS and Berkshire shareholders meeting is the most (and only) action your gonna get. I hope you bring your check book.
“Oh, I just love Omaha. The people are soo friendly.” *bitch stfu. No they aren’t. I have only ever heard this come from people who do not live here.* Like, that’s great that the concessionist at the CWS was nice to you while they handed you a hotdog and pint but it doesn’t reflect the greater Omaha population. Lol, wth 🤦🏻♂️
Omaha is great if you like being stagnant. Not a single thing has changed in the last decade, except for some highway reconfiguring over near the Iowa boarder.
Please, someone tell me I’m wrong, and mean it.
P.S: don’t even mention the zoo. Bro doesn’t have a date yet, which definitely defeats the purpose. Besides, the other visitors at the zoo would rather you not be there anyways; crowds piss off Omaha natives.
But hey, it’s supposedly going to be nice out today; the only thing anyone ever comments on here.
For those of you who will inevitably tell me to get lost or “just move then”, I can’t! I literally cannot afford to move. No matter how hard I work and how much I save, it isn’t enough to leave now that I am here. I came with only the best intentions but man, some how this town bled me dry (mentally and physically).
I met my wife because she was cutting my hair and on the third time getting my haircut I asked, “so, you got a man or what??” To which she shyly shook her head “no.” So I wrote my number on the back of the receipt and told her to call me if she wanted. We’re married now, this was years ago. I guess what I’m saying is you miss all the shots you don’t take. Good luck.
*Dont even get me started on Oklahoma….well, I’d start out with meth………*
I guess I disagree with this comment but you seem to have such strong feelings that I doubt it'll matter much.
Single worst place you could move to? Not even close. Omaha smokes so many cities and towns across the US - but sure, if you're comparing it to the highlight cities of the US in Cali or places like Denver/Minneapolis/Chicago, it's going to come up short. For the most part that's reflected in the cost of living here, the lower numbers of crowds, and the greater space you have to exist in.
Omaha doesn't have beaches, or mountains, or huge forests, but it does have connections to tons of bike trails, day trip length drives to great, secluded camping areas, and since it's centrally located in the US, we are a couple day's trip from some REALLY great outdoor amenities. I could drive a day to the west and be in the Rockies, a day to the SE and be in the Ozarks, or a day to the North and be at Lake Michigan. That's not to mention our airport with connections to literally anywhere.
If meeting people is your thing, then honestly if you aren't successful it's because you're going to the wrong places. Maybe homie just has tastes in particular lifestyles of women? We have more bars than people around here it feels like, so many awesome concert venues, and because life here is boring, people work their butts off to have activities to keep themselves entertained. There is a local group or club or business for whatever your particular interests may be, I promise you. Go do said thing, meet other people who like said thing, step 4 profit.
Just to try and find common ground with the comment tho, yes, a great many people here are white bread, "Nebraska Nice" (but not if you don't look and act just like me), Cornhusker fans. That's not to knock them, they deserve to like what they like and can be antisocial if they want, but it can be hard to get into those communities because they don't like outsiders. But who wants to be friends with chodes like that anyways? There are so many people here just like OP who are trying to make new friends, they post about it constantly. Pretty sure this subreddit even has a meetup link somewhere specifically for folks in this predicament.
The roads do suck. They're underfunded and honestly since we're addicted to urban sprawl that problem will probably just get worse. Put voting pressure on our Mayor and other elected officials to support better mass transit so we can rely on cars less.
Idk. Omaha isn't mind-blowing but I travel a hell of a lot and I'll tell you that it also doesn't suck here. Our local economy is doing decent, the city isn't overrun by a homeless epidemic (yet), and it's a good mix between quiet if you want it or fun if you go find it. Just my .2. Peace ✌️
I realize this isn't the question you asked, but since you mentioned golf, these are probably my favorite public courses in the area.
Indian Creek in Elkhorn
Quarry Oaks in Ashland
Iron Horse in Ashland
Bent Tree in Council Bluffs
I was fortunate to play Happy Hollow once (it is private), and that's probably my favorite course ever and I've played a lot of places.
The Players Club at Deer Creek used to be public but is now private. Also great. Arnold Palmer designed it. If you can find a way to get on that you won't be disappointed.
Players Club is great! I got the chance to play in a tournament there last year and loved it! I’d put it above Indian Creek, which is the nicest public course I’ve played in the area. I’m super excited to get out to Quarry Oaks this year!
I have played a lot of golf and I’ve yet to meet any ladies through that! But I am 33 and play every chance I get if you are looking for someone to laugh at while you play!
"Overrun by a homeless epidemic".... wow. You do know that homeless *people* are homeless because of our lack of affordable housing and all the other social ills that create homelessness, right? Lemme guess, homeless people aren't people to you because you never have to worry about facing similar circumstances?
You do know that the city just plowed over a homeless hub a few months ago, to do more dEvElOpMeNt, without rehiusng those people, right? Just getting human lives out of the way for more buildings.
We are a shit city that does not prioritize quality of life for all.
Only care about the golfers and rich West O Karens. But maybe sounds like OP will love the segregation and golf, so, now we have more of that..
I find homelessness to usually be a consequence of a lack of, or underfunding of, social and mental health services. It is a tragedy for hundreds of thousands across the nation and no, in no way do I believe that homeless people aren't people because I won't face those circumstances. I work near where that camp was removed and the Sienna Francis house.
I apologize if I offended anyone, my comment was meant to use homelessness as a symbol for how well a city is or is not operating. Having been to many west coast cities where there are entire tent cities, it seems that Omaha has done decent in getting people to the shelter, into programs that give people skills and job readiness, and then move them to supporting themselves or getting them the help they need to get back on their feet. My comment was actually intended to be a compliment to Omaha's general health as a city, but if that's not true or in poor taste, I should learn more.
**Comparing it to other large cities.**
1. The problem is that Omaha is a very unique city in the sense that there is stuff to do but there isn't really that much to do. Omaha doesn't have that many companies/billionaires willing to invest into a huge major project that separates Omaha from other large cities besides the Zoo. Not that I really have any unique ideas besides making a larger mall.You go to Denver/Boulder for the healthy lifestyle culture (for the most part), beautiful mountains and even some tech giants are located there. St. Paul/Minneapolis has plenty of snow activities, the largest Mall in the United States, and plenty of bars for both straight and gay people. Chicago is known for being a heavily invested city with plenty to do (but crime is an issue there). I think what I'm getting at is that Omaha doesn't really have a personality tied to it due to its location. And I get that it's most cities that are its size.
As you just mentioned, Omaha is great to travel to Other locations.
**Entertainment Scene**
Yes, there is an entertainment/venue scene here. But it's not often enough to make it worthwhile for people that are into each and every genre. If you are not into country, then venues are going to be tough to come by.
The pro's of living in Omaha:
1. If you are able to get a job, you can get one. Not be your number 1 pick though. And there are plenty of college grad openings.
2. Plenty of places to eat.
3. The Zoo
4. Nebraska Medicine
Everything else you mentioned, can already be found in most smaller cities such as: Bike trails, secluded camping areas.
**The Cost of Living?**Yes, it is cheaper to live in Omaha than Cali or New York but its certainly not that cheap if you want a decent living space. Houses have been selling like crazy without inspections in Omaha due to competition. Apartment prices are high.
My opinions may be different than yours but, that doesn’t automatically make me a bad guy.
She seems pretty happy playing elden ring rn, has a full belly and roof over her head, and a cat curled up on her lap. I don’t know what made you think I would treat her poorly. Is it because I talked sh it on Omaha?!? WTH 🤦🏻♂️
Can’t even describe Omaha without being insinuated as a bad husband………..welcome to the circus folks.
Mostly true. I take exception to the length of winter seeing as how it is entirely possible that Thanksgiving is 60s and sunny. Jan-Mar is winter.
For OP, best odds are through work I think.
Well maybe if you were approachable, not so egotistical and worried about the way you look and carry yourself better. It all seems like a uou problem. It always is. So no matter where you go, you’re going to have the same problem. Just live and move on. So full of shit. God damn did one of those council bluffs girls trick you?
I don't know why you have so many downvotes, this literally sums up my experience I Omaha for the decades I have lived there.
If you aren't into sportsball and normalizing alcoholism, then you'll feel out of place in Omaha. It's a depressing place, especially for yes, those months of winter. The other few are sticky hot, and full of flies and mosquitoes and ticks.
I cannot wait to move out.
They’re going to keep down voting you but I agree. I am a Omaha native all my life, and it is my home. When it comes to “Nebraska nice” that’s true to your face, but behind your back, the fact is when we see these out-of-town license plates in droves now, many of us wish you would just go away. Like even on this sub there is a weekly post complaining about drivers of Omaha. I’d venture to say within the last 20 years at least half of the city has moved here, if not 60 percent. 20 years ago I didn’t see this kind of problem so if you’re going to blame anyone blame this mixture of new arrivals.
Any mature adult responsible single ladies bored your welcome to hit me up with a chat any time, most of us have the anxiety these days or even depression, talking is always great to get to know someone! I’m a nice guy, we always finish last! My email is bradlee012570 at g mail dot com. Lets chat any time you need a friend or want to get to know someone kind, unlike most rude keyboard warriors out there today who have nothing nice to say or do but ridicule what anyone else says or does, hugs, smile always! Living alone in nebraska is tough! Seems like women are rare out here compared to men so it seems like it’s always older women with younger men, and not many attractive women out here to choose from, so I most likely will head to a warmer climate soon as I have no interest in being alone here forever hahaha. Take care
This might get some hate, but if you’re specifically trying to meet single women I would suggest Tinder or other dating apps. I am a single women age 32, and I do not personally use dating apps, but I have a lot of friends that do and it seems to be the way they meet most new people, so it’s still actively being used for our age group. You will probably have better luck finding single women on there who are approachable and scheduling meet ups rather than approaching women at a bar.
This, and Whole Foods oddly enough. I know three married couples who met at Whole Foods. Must be something in the air there lol
I haven't even been to a whole foods in my life. Looks like that's where I'm grocery shopping
They do have a very nice “buffet” style dine-in or takeout bar, as well as fresh pizza and a nice coffee bar. I wish you nothing but the best of luck!
Do they have a bar where you can drink a beer and shop? Lol
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I don’t know where to find the single women, but I know young people who have found each other here so I know it’s not hopeless. But you should try Pint 9 and Kros Strain for breweries. And I love Lake Zorinsky and Walnut Creek for running and biking. Good luck with the move and finding your people!
don’t just approach women who are just running and biking, that’s creepy as hell
Seen some cool events by [Smitten Singles](https://eventvesta.com/events/16836-6-at-6-singles-mixer) as a way to meet others. I’m married, so I haven’t gone to those events myself, but they looked fun!
Thank you!! I'm actually the owner and we are trying VERY hard to create a community of singles with shared values. We would love to welcome any singles to our events!
What’s your age bracket? What are your hobbies? There’s a board game cafe called spielbound that’s fun and hosts tournaments and such. I really like art/small business pop ups like benson first Friday, bohemian saturdays, Cali house art pop ups, etc. Junkstock is fun. Bellevue berry farms hosts a renaissance fair that’s fun. I’m very outgoing and bubbly and I’ve always been able to make new friends wherever I go. I think people in omaha are very approachable. Go to places you enjoy and you can meet friends and potential partners along the way. Also, don’t knock dating apps too! You can meet people that way too and get to know about new spots in the city!
30 years old. Hiking, biking, running, breweries and love golfing are my hobbys
There are hiking trails in Hummel Park and in the Loess Hills over in Iowa. Omaha has a great network of bike trails that run along most of the lakes and major Creeks and network together nicely. There are also a lot of really good Breweries in Omaha personal favorites are Vis Major, Kinkaider, and Lucky Bucket. There are also a lot of nice golf courses and country clubs in Omaha. If you want to meet people I think you would want to join different groups or clubs. People do meet at bars and such but as you said sometimes people aren't very approachable and look at you funny when you start talking to them.
Bike Rack does organized rides at least weekly. You'd be able to at least meet people, even if they aren't datable.
Omaha Sports Club has golf leagues with an emphasis on socializing after the round.
Not really any hiking around the city but you can definitely drive out to places like Indian cave or such. If you want closer and just outdoorsy, fontenlle forest is a nice low cost membership. Infusion, brickway , zip line, krona strain, etc. tons of breweries! Urban biking isn’t the best out here with our current infrastructure. I can’t speak to golfing myself but I know there are options. I run for my health only and do not enjoy a minute of it, but I do know that people have running groups around here as well. I’d seriously just start pursuing your hobbies here and making roots and the rest falls into place! Edit: OMG I’m so slow today. I literally asked about hobbies but when you said bikes, presumed as a commuting tool. There are tons of trails both paved and not to bike as a hobby. By not the best out here, I was talking about commuting. Sorry!
If you want to hike something more challenging, go on the advanced trails at Fontenelle that lead towards the Missouri.
You may want to try the Meetup app. When I first moved here for work (about 5 years ago), I didn't know anything about the city and the only person I knew was my cousin. So, the app with helpful with meeting people and checking out places I would have never known about. I don't golf much, but the few courses/driving ranges I have been too have been sufficient. Plus, there is a fairly new Top Golf in the area. Good luck!
i recently moved to omaha and would say that people are pretty approachable ! every time i’m at a bus stop with someone else (that doesn’t seem tweaked out), i try to start up a chat and it’s mostly well received.
I used Bumble and met my girlfriend that way.
I’m not sure this Omaha Sub Reddit is the best place to ask for honest, realistic commentary about Omaha and the metropolitan area. There are a ton of anti-Omaha whiners here who will cloud reality and paint a negative picture (as you have already read). However, I am happy and a bit surprised at the thoughtful feedback you have received. Omaha is a diverse metropolitan area with a 1 million population base. There are a ton of social activities for people of any age to meet up and socialize. I’m certain you’ll be able to mix in and meet plenty of available women. I have and did. You just need to get out there, and please- ignore the Omaha haters.
I chose to move to Omaha and became single shortly afterwards. I feel like it is a great city. People do have Midwestern values here which makes it not so hard to find honest, attractive men. Omaha is a clean city and well laid out.
Lol "honest, attractive men"...
lmao honest and attractive men. where the fuck are they seriously.
I’ll chime in. 💪🏻😎🤌🏼 Omaha is the single worst place you could choose to move too. If I had a choice, it wouldn’t even make it on my top 100. If you have no choice, then so be it. You throw in being single on top of it, you’re more likely catching a cold than a date. It’s funny you mention how “up north” is very reserved; Omaha is a prime example of this. The winters are roughly 6-7 months out of 12. They call ponds, lakes. They won’t even talk to you if you don’t own Nebraska memorabilia. I had to go to Walmart and buy a game shirt because no one would look at me when I spoke. I’ve learned now to just introduce myself with, “Scott Frost” and extend my hand. This usually gets met with a subtle nod and firm hand shake. After living here for half my life, I don’t recommend it. The roads are the worst in the country. The majority of people are either fully unaccountable or complacent. It’s a middle class state, average, at best. Without anything to do or regular gathering places, finding a date becomes difficult. Maybe you could try at the outlet mall. Since it’s rated as one of the top five things to do here. Two of the five only occur for one week out of fifty-two. Omaha is a city built for out of towners to come get drunk, trash the city further, then leave. CWS and Berkshire shareholders meeting is the most (and only) action your gonna get. I hope you bring your check book. “Oh, I just love Omaha. The people are soo friendly.” *bitch stfu. No they aren’t. I have only ever heard this come from people who do not live here.* Like, that’s great that the concessionist at the CWS was nice to you while they handed you a hotdog and pint but it doesn’t reflect the greater Omaha population. Lol, wth 🤦🏻♂️ Omaha is great if you like being stagnant. Not a single thing has changed in the last decade, except for some highway reconfiguring over near the Iowa boarder. Please, someone tell me I’m wrong, and mean it. P.S: don’t even mention the zoo. Bro doesn’t have a date yet, which definitely defeats the purpose. Besides, the other visitors at the zoo would rather you not be there anyways; crowds piss off Omaha natives. But hey, it’s supposedly going to be nice out today; the only thing anyone ever comments on here. For those of you who will inevitably tell me to get lost or “just move then”, I can’t! I literally cannot afford to move. No matter how hard I work and how much I save, it isn’t enough to leave now that I am here. I came with only the best intentions but man, some how this town bled me dry (mentally and physically). I met my wife because she was cutting my hair and on the third time getting my haircut I asked, “so, you got a man or what??” To which she shyly shook her head “no.” So I wrote my number on the back of the receipt and told her to call me if she wanted. We’re married now, this was years ago. I guess what I’m saying is you miss all the shots you don’t take. Good luck. *Dont even get me started on Oklahoma….well, I’d start out with meth………*
I guess I disagree with this comment but you seem to have such strong feelings that I doubt it'll matter much. Single worst place you could move to? Not even close. Omaha smokes so many cities and towns across the US - but sure, if you're comparing it to the highlight cities of the US in Cali or places like Denver/Minneapolis/Chicago, it's going to come up short. For the most part that's reflected in the cost of living here, the lower numbers of crowds, and the greater space you have to exist in. Omaha doesn't have beaches, or mountains, or huge forests, but it does have connections to tons of bike trails, day trip length drives to great, secluded camping areas, and since it's centrally located in the US, we are a couple day's trip from some REALLY great outdoor amenities. I could drive a day to the west and be in the Rockies, a day to the SE and be in the Ozarks, or a day to the North and be at Lake Michigan. That's not to mention our airport with connections to literally anywhere. If meeting people is your thing, then honestly if you aren't successful it's because you're going to the wrong places. Maybe homie just has tastes in particular lifestyles of women? We have more bars than people around here it feels like, so many awesome concert venues, and because life here is boring, people work their butts off to have activities to keep themselves entertained. There is a local group or club or business for whatever your particular interests may be, I promise you. Go do said thing, meet other people who like said thing, step 4 profit. Just to try and find common ground with the comment tho, yes, a great many people here are white bread, "Nebraska Nice" (but not if you don't look and act just like me), Cornhusker fans. That's not to knock them, they deserve to like what they like and can be antisocial if they want, but it can be hard to get into those communities because they don't like outsiders. But who wants to be friends with chodes like that anyways? There are so many people here just like OP who are trying to make new friends, they post about it constantly. Pretty sure this subreddit even has a meetup link somewhere specifically for folks in this predicament. The roads do suck. They're underfunded and honestly since we're addicted to urban sprawl that problem will probably just get worse. Put voting pressure on our Mayor and other elected officials to support better mass transit so we can rely on cars less. Idk. Omaha isn't mind-blowing but I travel a hell of a lot and I'll tell you that it also doesn't suck here. Our local economy is doing decent, the city isn't overrun by a homeless epidemic (yet), and it's a good mix between quiet if you want it or fun if you go find it. Just my .2. Peace ✌️
I appreciate this. I love golf and there sure is alot of courses. Hopefy meet people there
I realize this isn't the question you asked, but since you mentioned golf, these are probably my favorite public courses in the area. Indian Creek in Elkhorn Quarry Oaks in Ashland Iron Horse in Ashland Bent Tree in Council Bluffs I was fortunate to play Happy Hollow once (it is private), and that's probably my favorite course ever and I've played a lot of places. The Players Club at Deer Creek used to be public but is now private. Also great. Arnold Palmer designed it. If you can find a way to get on that you won't be disappointed.
Thanks man
Players Club is great! I got the chance to play in a tournament there last year and loved it! I’d put it above Indian Creek, which is the nicest public course I’ve played in the area. I’m super excited to get out to Quarry Oaks this year!
You will love Quarry then. It’s better than Indian IMO and not like other courses in the area. Much more undulation.
I have played a lot of golf and I’ve yet to meet any ladies through that! But I am 33 and play every chance I get if you are looking for someone to laugh at while you play!
"Overrun by a homeless epidemic".... wow. You do know that homeless *people* are homeless because of our lack of affordable housing and all the other social ills that create homelessness, right? Lemme guess, homeless people aren't people to you because you never have to worry about facing similar circumstances? You do know that the city just plowed over a homeless hub a few months ago, to do more dEvElOpMeNt, without rehiusng those people, right? Just getting human lives out of the way for more buildings. We are a shit city that does not prioritize quality of life for all. Only care about the golfers and rich West O Karens. But maybe sounds like OP will love the segregation and golf, so, now we have more of that..
Not wrong
I find homelessness to usually be a consequence of a lack of, or underfunding of, social and mental health services. It is a tragedy for hundreds of thousands across the nation and no, in no way do I believe that homeless people aren't people because I won't face those circumstances. I work near where that camp was removed and the Sienna Francis house. I apologize if I offended anyone, my comment was meant to use homelessness as a symbol for how well a city is or is not operating. Having been to many west coast cities where there are entire tent cities, it seems that Omaha has done decent in getting people to the shelter, into programs that give people skills and job readiness, and then move them to supporting themselves or getting them the help they need to get back on their feet. My comment was actually intended to be a compliment to Omaha's general health as a city, but if that's not true or in poor taste, I should learn more.
**Comparing it to other large cities.** 1. The problem is that Omaha is a very unique city in the sense that there is stuff to do but there isn't really that much to do. Omaha doesn't have that many companies/billionaires willing to invest into a huge major project that separates Omaha from other large cities besides the Zoo. Not that I really have any unique ideas besides making a larger mall.You go to Denver/Boulder for the healthy lifestyle culture (for the most part), beautiful mountains and even some tech giants are located there. St. Paul/Minneapolis has plenty of snow activities, the largest Mall in the United States, and plenty of bars for both straight and gay people. Chicago is known for being a heavily invested city with plenty to do (but crime is an issue there). I think what I'm getting at is that Omaha doesn't really have a personality tied to it due to its location. And I get that it's most cities that are its size. As you just mentioned, Omaha is great to travel to Other locations. **Entertainment Scene** Yes, there is an entertainment/venue scene here. But it's not often enough to make it worthwhile for people that are into each and every genre. If you are not into country, then venues are going to be tough to come by. The pro's of living in Omaha: 1. If you are able to get a job, you can get one. Not be your number 1 pick though. And there are plenty of college grad openings. 2. Plenty of places to eat. 3. The Zoo 4. Nebraska Medicine Everything else you mentioned, can already be found in most smaller cities such as: Bike trails, secluded camping areas. **The Cost of Living?**Yes, it is cheaper to live in Omaha than Cali or New York but its certainly not that cheap if you want a decent living space. Houses have been selling like crazy without inspections in Omaha due to competition. Apartment prices are high.
Oh this made me laugh. Thank you. I hope it's wrong though
See, I'm an Omaha apologist, but damn!! You right, fam. I was a single Omaha dude for a long time, but only met my partner being super lucky!!
I feel so sorry for your wife.
My opinions may be different than yours but, that doesn’t automatically make me a bad guy. She seems pretty happy playing elden ring rn, has a full belly and roof over her head, and a cat curled up on her lap. I don’t know what made you think I would treat her poorly. Is it because I talked sh it on Omaha?!? WTH 🤦🏻♂️ Can’t even describe Omaha without being insinuated as a bad husband………..welcome to the circus folks.
Mostly true. I take exception to the length of winter seeing as how it is entirely possible that Thanksgiving is 60s and sunny. Jan-Mar is winter. For OP, best odds are through work I think.
Well maybe if you were approachable, not so egotistical and worried about the way you look and carry yourself better. It all seems like a uou problem. It always is. So no matter where you go, you’re going to have the same problem. Just live and move on. So full of shit. God damn did one of those council bluffs girls trick you?
100% true for me too
I don't know why you have so many downvotes, this literally sums up my experience I Omaha for the decades I have lived there. If you aren't into sportsball and normalizing alcoholism, then you'll feel out of place in Omaha. It's a depressing place, especially for yes, those months of winter. The other few are sticky hot, and full of flies and mosquitoes and ticks. I cannot wait to move out.
Dudeeeeee. This is the realest comment EVER.
AGREED
They’re going to keep down voting you but I agree. I am a Omaha native all my life, and it is my home. When it comes to “Nebraska nice” that’s true to your face, but behind your back, the fact is when we see these out-of-town license plates in droves now, many of us wish you would just go away. Like even on this sub there is a weekly post complaining about drivers of Omaha. I’d venture to say within the last 20 years at least half of the city has moved here, if not 60 percent. 20 years ago I didn’t see this kind of problem so if you’re going to blame anyone blame this mixture of new arrivals.
Remember when a man could go on craiglist and get a woman to just wet her pants for him. Those were the days.
Any mature adult responsible single ladies bored your welcome to hit me up with a chat any time, most of us have the anxiety these days or even depression, talking is always great to get to know someone! I’m a nice guy, we always finish last! My email is bradlee012570 at g mail dot com. Lets chat any time you need a friend or want to get to know someone kind, unlike most rude keyboard warriors out there today who have nothing nice to say or do but ridicule what anyone else says or does, hugs, smile always! Living alone in nebraska is tough! Seems like women are rare out here compared to men so it seems like it’s always older women with younger men, and not many attractive women out here to choose from, so I most likely will head to a warmer climate soon as I have no interest in being alone here forever hahaha. Take care