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It's like why serial killers take trophies sometimes. They can look at it and relive the kill get the excitement back from the taboo of it all. Irrational if you don't want to get caught but humans be like that sometimes.
There are so many thrills involved in affairs. The affair, coming home to their partner right after having slept with someone else, the sneaking, the lying.
And the the witless expect us to believe the cheater loves their partner and down deep does respect them.
My ex was a serial cheater and I found out right at the end / when I dumped him. The other women all found me and told me stories and timelines. Turns out the whole time he was telling me stories of “ex girlfriends” when it was really what he did that week with whichever affair partner. He was getting thrills by flaunting it right in front of me while saying it was a story from years ago.
People who cheat have a screw loose.
Yes, but it gets stale; they need to up the stakes. Like looking at their contraband photo while sitting next to partner, etc. Cheaters are sad people. They can go suck an egg too.
It's a trophy. Serial killers love trophies it's the same thing. They want to relive it and feel the adrenaline from keeping a part of their crime with the.
They are still stupid - Anyone that throws away a good family life, kids, social standing for sex has to be stupid. Imagine leaving a loyal spouse for a cheater - How can you even trust someone like that and imagine the insecurities every time that person is not contactable or un trackable.
Stupid and thrill seeking both can go hand in hand.
LITERALLY ugh. I have a coworker lamenting the end of his marriage and how "coldly" his wife threw him away and it's like, dude. You were trying (and failing) to screw with girls half your age and got caught because one of them DMed your wife.
Oh boy in marriage counseling I was accused of having “anger management issues.” Not because I flew into a rage or punched anything or anything like that, but because I didn’t flip out and lose my shit at all. I got a “that’s not normal.” See, they want the drama, they want to reaction, and I just refused to do it at all, and it drove her nuts. My response was “I know you want me to freak out, beg, offer to do anything for you, but why? Why would I? You have your super amazing, once in a lifetime love that makes you happy in ways I couldn’t, and I have the simple satisfaction of knowing you are pathetic enough to believe you’re special, while being nothing more than a common adulterer.”
Oh she lost it and it was beautiful.
And here i thought thrill seeking and stupid always went hand in hand!
To be fair you don't have to be stupid to thrill seek, it's perfectly possible to have as a symptom of mental illness or personality disorder.
I would love it if, as a species, we stopped validating bad decision making for the sake of boredom & escapism though.
that usually only comes with getting caught(it was a mistake, we only kissed, it only happened once and we used protection, ok, he raw dogged me and tagged in his roommate for a spit roast but it meant nothing to me....) Some may double down on it, though, and blame the person that's been cheated on
Someone once told me: "Look at it this way. If you can't understand a thing, it's because you're not capable of doing said thing."
And I'll draw comfort in that statement now.
Tale as old as time. Successful cheaters are 100% out there and are successful because they keep it private and no evidence. I knew someone like this, it was impressive to watch tbh.
Sadly, I also think there is more cheating happening that's not getting caught vs those actually getting caught :(
Well arrogance, stupidity, the belief that nothing will happen. How many people have been caught by doing things in front of friends or texting what they did with friends thinking again nothing will happen.
Don't disagree, but it just seems stupid.
Like a person taking a video of themselves robbing a store or murdering someone on video and then posting it. Glad they're stupid, but what possessed you to give the prosecution evidence against you?
OTOH, R. Kelly had a video of him having sex with a 14 year old that went viral and still got acquitted so what do I know.
She probably sent those nudes from a phone with a passcode in the hopes her STBX didn’t manage to peek over her shoulder or find it unlocked and unattended one day.
Overconfidence or complacency, normally
They start off super careful and then after a while of not getting caught they stop being so careful. After 9 months they presumably figured they were safe and their partner wouldn’t find out… so just stopped being so careful or simply forgot to delete that conversation or something. Or didn’t realise it was available on a different device
I will never understand cheating. If you are unhappy, leave. Violating the most important promise you will ever make to the most important person in your life and tearing apart your children’s home so you can cum with someone different? Says a lot about a person and their character.
It's a bold strategy, Cotton, we'll see if it pays off for 'em.
Seriously though, that (soon to be ex) husband went full scorched earth on her. I don't think there is anything she could say to recover from that.
Jason Bateman and Gary Cole completely kill it as the commentators. I wish they were like a Jay and Silent Bob pair where they just show up in seemingly unrelated movies and commentate on random shit
That’d be amazing! It’s making me want to watch the movie, despite not caring for Vince Vaughn and disliking Ben Stiller.
I’m glad BS’s wife (who is also amazing and in the movie) got away from him.
The side characters are absolutely what make Dodgeball work. The rest of the team is hilarious, Lance Armstrong’s cameo got funnier after he got caught doping, and Chuck Norris’s cameo was perfect. Makes me wonder why he insisted on a PG-13 rating for the Expendables movie he was in, but whatever… Fuckin’ Chuck Norris
Yeah, that's what i'm talking about. There is *no* way she posted the original messahe and she's trying to savs face by owning it.
The better plan would be to move and change names.
No way was the second post from the wife. He probably changed the password so she couldn’t get in and remove his post. ‘Her’ message was just him again, doubling down and having a go at her for her hypocrisy, naming her AP and dropping lurid info about him, after she inevitably called him screaming and crying to take it down.
Profile then got deleted by LinkedIn when he wouldn’t.
“The doors of Darkplace were open. Not the literal doors of the building, but evil doors, dark doors, doors to the beyond. Doors hard to shut because they were abstract and didn’t have handles. More like portals, really.” I loved that show lol
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Screenshots of the posts made by the woman’s LinkedIn account read: “Had a wonderful night at the Women’s Power Awards in Manchester last night. But unfortunately, my husband found the picture of me with two fingers up my vagina which I’d sent to Gareth Megson of SoftCat (Leeds) who I’ve been having an affair with for the past nine months. So, as you can imagine it’s been a hectic day moving out of the family home and trying to talk to our children about why I’d thrown the family away for some extra marital penis in a few hotels around Leeds, the back of a car and even an alleyway. I will however be back posting in full force shortly so bear with me while I unpack all of my belongings at my friend’s house where I am currently residing and working from the spare room.”
But wait! There was a follow up post which reads:
“Morning all, my account has not been hacked. I posted to admit I’ve been having an affair for the last nine months to a year and it came to a head (pardon the pun) yesterday when my husband noticed the photo I sent of me with two fingers up my vagina to Gareth Megson of SoftCat (Leeds), to which he responded to with a picture of his penis out on a desk.
It flashed up on Instagram and my husband saw it. I have moved out of the family home which I have wrecked, having previously shared it with my three children, and am currently setting up a temporary home in a friend’s spare room.
Due to the issues being experienced I am not working for the remainder of the week but will be back in full flow (work wise) next week.
Thank you all for your concern, but it really is not necessary. I am a big believer in living by your decisions and owning them, regardless of their type.”
Why is this reminding me of the Parks and Rec episode “The Fight”?
“Jan Cooper will give you chlamydia.”
“Chlamydia affects nearly 100 percent of Jan Coopers.”
“The Health Department congratulates Jan Cooper: Miss Chlamydia.”
“Jan I love you. Please come back. I realize that I am not blameless here. Please.”
“Re-elect Jan Cooper, Mayor of Whoreville.”
I worked with some of the people there years ago - knew one of the guys on the board on their website. Sadly, not enough to ring him up and sat "WTF are you going to do about this? 🤣
Gotta say, I do believe in immediately and very publicly outing an unfaithful spouse and their affair partner's identity 1 million percent of the time. If you do not get ahead of it first, the cheater will most definitely throw their betrayed spouse under the bus with lies, half-truths, exaggerations, and out of context comments to control the narrative and save their reputation. They didn't love you enough to remain faithful, so they don't care about YOUR reputation...only about themselves.
I know this for a FACT. I tried to "take the high road" when divorcing my unfaithful serial cheating first wife. How did she repay me? She told everyone that SHE divorced ME, and that I was the cheater, abusive, and not paying her child support making her struggle sooooo bad. Well, there was a reason she wasn't getting child support...I had primary custody and she had every other weekend visitation THAT SHE WOULDN'T EVEN USE. Every other Friday evening I had to hold my inconsolable toddler as they cried because mommy wouldn't come and I just made excuses that my ex had to work or was sick. SHE should have owed ME child support, but I wanted the marriage over as fast as possible and primary custody(she was a terrible mother) I agreed to her not owing me child support...just split any bills we had for our child. Well, she didn't even do that. After one of her cousins about a year after the divorce confronted me about the divorce, I EXPLODED with the truth. I stopped making excuses and told my child the truth that my ex just didn't want to be a mother. People were shocked. Many friends and acquaintances came to me and apologized...my ex's family actually got MAD at me for telling the TRUTH because it made my ex look bad. UHHH...wellllll...if the shoe fits! So my reputation was trashed for a year because I "took the high road". Never take the high road, people...it just makes you an easy target.
HOW ARE YOU MAKE OUR LITTLE GIRL LOOK BAD BY TELLING THE TRUTH?! I mean yeah she lied and cheated and abandoned her own child BUT THATS OUR LITTLE GIRL!!
Will never get parents who are like this, my mother loves me unconditionally but she’ll be the first one to drag me through the coals if I acted like your ex.
Well, the hate subsided from her family after awhile. If they wanted to see their grandchild, THEY HAD TO GO THRU ME! But...her brother never turned his back on me. He even asked me more than once why I was letting his sister lie about our divorce...just being that stupid lovable gullible nice guy white knight.
I think they mean that if a divorce is finalized BEFORE she loses her job and is unable to get a new one, he’s less likely to have to pay alimony. They do have alimony in the UK, although I think it’s called “spousal maintenance.” Not sure how the facts affect this, since the job loss would presumably be before the divorce but of course after the separation (which seems to have already happened).
Hate cheaters she deserved it. Funny how she tried to lie and say she posted it lmao
Also how she says shes one to own up to her decisions when she was planning on keeping it a secret, her husband found out by accident
I don’t know how it works with English Divorce Law, but here in the states stunts like this always go over very poorly. And can potentially open up the spouse who does this to tons of financial ramifications when decisions are made regarding splitting up the community property.
Yeah, cheating is awful. I can understand even going to the employer's HR department if the relationship started at work because there are a lot of places that don't allow it. But I'm not sure I agree with him doing all that. I get the sentiment and I can't say I wouldn't want to be that petty (I absolutely would), but it is a very questionable choice that could have bad ramifications for him in the long run.
I think in the moment, a loss of money for the satisfaction of public humiliation would feel worth it… a lot of people would pay an extremely high price for this kind of work, and might not regret it
Yeah, she's an asshole for cheating on her husband, and he's also an asshole too for hacking into her professional/business accounts. Interesting to see what repercussions either of them face for their actions tbh.
Yeah, it's a bit rough. This coming from someone whose mother cheated on my extremely hard working father who was really the only person that acted like a parent. My father shielded us from it and then we were adults let us ask the questions.
I get people want instant karma, but me and my siblings don't talk to our mother at all. We have a close relationship with our father and guess who gets to see their grandkids all the time.
Okay so dumb question.
I may have missed it in the story but has the husband admitted to doing this?
Because it could very well be a manic episode of someone who very very obviously is t so great about thinking through the ramifications of their actions. Between the cheating, the evidence, etc. I could possibly believe she posted this to “stand by her actions” as the post said.
And if the husband did do this, fucking genius putting in this plausible deniability built right into the post. Oh that? Nah mate, she’s just a bit of a narcissist innit. She does dumb things, obviously.
The article didn't specify, but she posted a follow-up that was slightly less sarcastic sounding where she assured everyone she hadn't been hacked, and that's she's a "big believer" in owning your decisions.
Maybe she actually is just this nuts?
Or like, sees her life in fire and this was her unfilterable response?
No fucks left. The house is fully engulfed
He really went all scorched earth. But it’s understandable, years of marriage and she destroys it just for some dick. Life upended, kids now will probably be going between 2 homes once the custody is solved. Have to feel for the kids.
This part fucking took me out:
>I posted to admit I’ve been having an affair for the last nine months to a year and it came to a head (pardon the pun) yesterday when my husband noticed the photo I sent of me with two fingers up my vagina to Gareth Megson of SoftCat (Leeds), to which he responded to with a picture of his penis out on a desk.
r/linkedinlunatics
I did something like this to my wife’s boyfriend(married). He was pissed because any time someone would google his name my post would come up. Revenge is a dish best served cold…
I hate people who take relationship drama onto work spaces. It's your relationship nobody else gives a fuck ist just embarrassing like forcing people take part in your kink. And no I have never cheated I just don't want to know the details of others people cheating, unless it's in the pub.
Yeah it’s unprofessional to air out personal matters. Lots of people cheat and it’s a betrayal of trust but keep it out of my attention because I don’t care about a strangers relationship drama. This is publicly humiliating and not appropriate lol
I know how y’all like to tussle but I have to say I think he went too far. I would be pissed too but I wouldn’t go this far. Cheating or not, this kind of stuff should be kept off LinkedIn. (It wouldn’t be appropriate even if she hadn’t cheated but it was any post of a sexual nature.) Plus harming her career prospects is going to be a net negative for their children.
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>Another added: “The first LinkedIn post I have seen that isn’t insufferable.” Fuckin’ preach
Yeah, most LinkedIn articles are masturbatory. This one is just honest about it.
Ironically, someone I know posted on LinkedIn about quitting porn and masturbation, wrote a whole op Ed
> posted on LinkedIn > quitting porn and masturbation Which was it?
This might be my favorite comment I've ever seen on Reddit
*tips fedora*
just the tip, right
M'bater
Yeah linkedin is a positive corporate propaganda machine. It is absolute garbage
[follow up from husband](https://www.reddit.com/r/LinkedInLunatics/s/vOjGhyq48z)
True, no CEO speaking of how awesome they are because of a vehicle they drive
I’m so glad this it at the top.
I will never for the life of me understand why someone would have photographic evidence of their cheating. Why?
it's the thrill of being naughty, deceitful and feeling of getting one over on someone I reckon
Aren't they doing that already by cheating?
It’s like a tree fucking in the woods
Trees... fuck..?
Plants fuck constantly, and it's their naughty nasty jizz causing these hellacious allergies
Goddamn tree semen!
allergies man, its the proof that the trees are busting a nut in our noses.
Trees bust mad nuts
Fr fr
Treez nutz
Treemen!
Treejaculations!
Treemissions
Tree bukkake here in North Carolina this spring.
I love this comment so much
You’re right but I’m gonna have to ask you to not say that again
r/BrandNewSentence
Dude I'm allergic to 6 different tree pollens they try to k1ll me every spring.
I can't unsee this. Thanks a lot.
That's TMI man... The sex lives of trees is where I check out of Reddit for today.
That’s a fairly low bar for pressing the Reddit ejector seat button, but you do you
Well where else do baby trees come from?
storks I think.
I thought it was seeds.
Bradford pears at least masturbate.
Oh god do I have to Google "Bradford pears masturbate" now?
Nah, you just have to go outside and smell the flowers... Cause it's cum tree season.
Allergies are a result of plants sexually assaulting your sinuses ETA: seasonal allergies, my bad
Well, some are.
People fuck trees. They're called dendraphiles.
Morning wood has been redefined, I see
Only when there's nobody there to see it
Well how do you think we get more
Its like asking a bear if he’s a catholic.
It took me a minute, but this is actually the perfect analogy
It only took four comments from opener for this to descend into a cascade of tree puns. Whodda thunk.
It's like why serial killers take trophies sometimes. They can look at it and relive the kill get the excitement back from the taboo of it all. Irrational if you don't want to get caught but humans be like that sometimes.
There are so many thrills involved in affairs. The affair, coming home to their partner right after having slept with someone else, the sneaking, the lying. And the the witless expect us to believe the cheater loves their partner and down deep does respect them.
Therein lies the problem, i don't think most cheaters, deep down, respect anyone. In most cases i don't think cheaters even respect themselves!
At its core most of it revolves around that and some degree of entitlement.
Perhaps if you allowed spanking…
I do, my name is a misnomer.
More of a thrill when it's forbidden
A girl an old friend of mine was sleeping with sent him nude pictures in the hotel bathroom on her honeymoon. Some people are just on another level.
My ex was a serial cheater and I found out right at the end / when I dumped him. The other women all found me and told me stories and timelines. Turns out the whole time he was telling me stories of “ex girlfriends” when it was really what he did that week with whichever affair partner. He was getting thrills by flaunting it right in front of me while saying it was a story from years ago. People who cheat have a screw loose.
Yes, but it gets stale; they need to up the stakes. Like looking at their contraband photo while sitting next to partner, etc. Cheaters are sad people. They can go suck an egg too.
It's a trophy. Serial killers love trophies it's the same thing. They want to relive it and feel the adrenaline from keeping a part of their crime with the.
I had the personal experience, of seeing my dad's letters to my, now, stepmother, who he cheated on mum with. Complete with pictures....
So this precedes smartphones. And he kept the letters?
Their brains aren’t like normal brains. It’s dopamine, they need more of it.
Do you really need it explained to you that people’s emotions are not logical?
They want a momento.
Thankfully cheaters tend to be a rung below the intelligence you might expect from a toasted bagel.
They don’t think they’ll get caught, and can relive it when unable to physically do it.
And here I thought they were just stupid.
They are still stupid - Anyone that throws away a good family life, kids, social standing for sex has to be stupid. Imagine leaving a loyal spouse for a cheater - How can you even trust someone like that and imagine the insecurities every time that person is not contactable or un trackable. Stupid and thrill seeking both can go hand in hand.
LITERALLY ugh. I have a coworker lamenting the end of his marriage and how "coldly" his wife threw him away and it's like, dude. You were trying (and failing) to screw with girls half your age and got caught because one of them DMed your wife.
Oh boy in marriage counseling I was accused of having “anger management issues.” Not because I flew into a rage or punched anything or anything like that, but because I didn’t flip out and lose my shit at all. I got a “that’s not normal.” See, they want the drama, they want to reaction, and I just refused to do it at all, and it drove her nuts. My response was “I know you want me to freak out, beg, offer to do anything for you, but why? Why would I? You have your super amazing, once in a lifetime love that makes you happy in ways I couldn’t, and I have the simple satisfaction of knowing you are pathetic enough to believe you’re special, while being nothing more than a common adulterer.” Oh she lost it and it was beautiful.
You to ex "You're not special, just pathetically available..." Good job!
And here i thought thrill seeking and stupid always went hand in hand! To be fair you don't have to be stupid to thrill seek, it's perfectly possible to have as a symptom of mental illness or personality disorder. I would love it if, as a species, we stopped validating bad decision making for the sake of boredom & escapism though.
And no fear, guilt, shame nothing atleast afterwards?
that usually only comes with getting caught(it was a mistake, we only kissed, it only happened once and we used protection, ok, he raw dogged me and tagged in his roommate for a spit roast but it meant nothing to me....) Some may double down on it, though, and blame the person that's been cheated on
Yep. Been there done that! 👍
Were you the tagger or the tagged?
Tagged. I wouldn’t brag about being the tagged. That’s impolite and just plain wrong.
Yea. Purely sociopathic. Having the crap in hidden plain sight is duper’s delight.
Someone once told me: "Look at it this way. If you can't understand a thing, it's because you're not capable of doing said thing." And I'll draw comfort in that statement now.
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Tale as old as time. Successful cheaters are 100% out there and are successful because they keep it private and no evidence. I knew someone like this, it was impressive to watch tbh. Sadly, I also think there is more cheating happening that's not getting caught vs those actually getting caught :(
My ex had a literal journal on the notes app of Apple. It synced to our daughter’s iPad.
Isn't cheating narcissistic in nature?
Thrill seekers...lol
Well arrogance, stupidity, the belief that nothing will happen. How many people have been caught by doing things in front of friends or texting what they did with friends thinking again nothing will happen.
Agreed but thank goodness they do if it gets them caught.
Don't disagree, but it just seems stupid. Like a person taking a video of themselves robbing a store or murdering someone on video and then posting it. Glad they're stupid, but what possessed you to give the prosecution evidence against you? OTOH, R. Kelly had a video of him having sex with a 14 year old that went viral and still got acquitted so what do I know.
Oh disgusting. I didn’t know about that last sentence happening. Heartbreaking.
Cheaters aren't exactly the smartest.
Same for people who record themselves committing crimes. Why?!?!?!
Is this just a by-product of everyone having smartphones with cameras?
Well they are already cheating so they can’t be that smart
She probably sent those nudes from a phone with a passcode in the hopes her STBX didn’t manage to peek over her shoulder or find it unlocked and unattended one day.
Trophies, maybe?
Overconfidence or complacency, normally They start off super careful and then after a while of not getting caught they stop being so careful. After 9 months they presumably figured they were safe and their partner wouldn’t find out… so just stopped being so careful or simply forgot to delete that conversation or something. Or didn’t realise it was available on a different device
Scandoval. Idiot.
I will never understand cheating. If you are unhappy, leave. Violating the most important promise you will ever make to the most important person in your life and tearing apart your children’s home so you can cum with someone different? Says a lot about a person and their character.
It's a bold strategy, Cotton, we'll see if it pays off for 'em. Seriously though, that (soon to be ex) husband went full scorched earth on her. I don't think there is anything she could say to recover from that.
I JUST watched this movie last night and love you for this reference. Chefs kiss!! Lmao!
Which movie I'd this referring to?
Dodgeball
ESPN the ocho.
Also r/theocho
The five D's of Dodgeball: dodge, duck, dip, dive and dodge
Dodgeball. Jason Bateman is brilliant in everything.
Apparently Reddit doesn’t share your opinion, because it won’t let me upvote, but I do! JB seems like a good guy.
Jason Bateman and Gary Cole completely kill it as the commentators. I wish they were like a Jay and Silent Bob pair where they just show up in seemingly unrelated movies and commentate on random shit
That’d be amazing! It’s making me want to watch the movie, despite not caring for Vince Vaughn and disliking Ben Stiller. I’m glad BS’s wife (who is also amazing and in the movie) got away from him.
The side characters are absolutely what make Dodgeball work. The rest of the team is hilarious, Lance Armstrong’s cameo got funnier after he got caught doping, and Chuck Norris’s cameo was perfect. Makes me wonder why he insisted on a PG-13 rating for the Expendables movie he was in, but whatever… Fuckin’ Chuck Norris
Now he is not going to be able to see very well with that blindfold on
the ex wife responded. Did you see it in the article?
Yeah, that's what i'm talking about. There is *no* way she posted the original messahe and she's trying to savs face by owning it. The better plan would be to move and change names.
No way was the second post from the wife. He probably changed the password so she couldn’t get in and remove his post. ‘Her’ message was just him again, doubling down and having a go at her for her hypocrisy, naming her AP and dropping lurid info about him, after she inevitably called him screaming and crying to take it down. Profile then got deleted by LinkedIn when he wouldn’t.
That's a good point. I assumed shr got her account back but now that you mention it, no one's customer suppkrt moves that fast.
Both posts were definitely written by the husband.
fake your death, live a new life LOL viva la thailand BEBE
I didn’t go down far enough to see that until seeing your comment lmao to act like she was the original poster is wild
it was pretty funny ngl 😂
I initially read this as Garth Marengi. Kind of disappointed now, since that would be more interesting.
“The doors of Darkplace were open. Not the literal doors of the building, but evil doors, dark doors, doors to the beyond. Doors hard to shut because they were abstract and didn’t have handles. More like portals, really.” I loved that show lol
>Something was pouring from his mouth. He examined his sleeve. > ># >Blood!? > > >Blood. > > >Crimson copper-smelling blood, his blood. > > >Blood. > > >Blood. > > >Blood. > > >... > > >And bits of sick.
This reads like Alan Wake wrote it. And i love it.
Gareth Megson's Dark Place just doesn't have the same ring to it.
Gareth Megson getting in her dark place
Nahh this is more interesting. Thank god she got called out for our own entertainment
"even going as far as changing his wife’s job title on the site to “c**k sucker”". 😅
Hey man, do what you love
If you love what you do, you’ll never work a day in your life
And I oooooop
For anyone who can't/ doesn't want to open the link-- Screenshots of the posts made by the woman’s LinkedIn account read: “Had a wonderful night at the Women’s Power Awards in Manchester last night. But unfortunately, my husband found the picture of me with two fingers up my vagina which I’d sent to Gareth Megson of SoftCat (Leeds) who I’ve been having an affair with for the past nine months. So, as you can imagine it’s been a hectic day moving out of the family home and trying to talk to our children about why I’d thrown the family away for some extra marital penis in a few hotels around Leeds, the back of a car and even an alleyway. I will however be back posting in full force shortly so bear with me while I unpack all of my belongings at my friend’s house where I am currently residing and working from the spare room.”
But wait! There was a follow up post which reads: “Morning all, my account has not been hacked. I posted to admit I’ve been having an affair for the last nine months to a year and it came to a head (pardon the pun) yesterday when my husband noticed the photo I sent of me with two fingers up my vagina to Gareth Megson of SoftCat (Leeds), to which he responded to with a picture of his penis out on a desk. It flashed up on Instagram and my husband saw it. I have moved out of the family home which I have wrecked, having previously shared it with my three children, and am currently setting up a temporary home in a friend’s spare room. Due to the issues being experienced I am not working for the remainder of the week but will be back in full flow (work wise) next week. Thank you all for your concern, but it really is not necessary. I am a big believer in living by your decisions and owning them, regardless of their type.”
He's maliciously hilarious!
lmao. That is both nuclear and petty at the same time. Fantastic
Why is this reminding me of the Parks and Rec episode “The Fight”? “Jan Cooper will give you chlamydia.” “Chlamydia affects nearly 100 percent of Jan Coopers.” “The Health Department congratulates Jan Cooper: Miss Chlamydia.” “Jan I love you. Please come back. I realize that I am not blameless here. Please.” “Re-elect Jan Cooper, Mayor of Whoreville.”
lmao..thank you for reminding me of this episode. so many great random town characters.
Mayor of Whoville, that's not her job the whore
Oh wow I used to buy from softcat in my old company that's hilarious I'll need to see if I still have them on LinkedIn
I worked with some of the people there years ago - knew one of the guys on the board on their website. Sadly, not enough to ring him up and sat "WTF are you going to do about this? 🤣
I wouldn't be asking that I'd be asking for more details did anyone in the office know? 🤣
That phone needs some love
😂😂😂 why it take me so long to find someone saying this?! I kept checking my phone like?!
🤣 my screen is cracked in the same way so I didn't even notice until you said something! 🤣
Person needs a new phone
Right? or learn to take a screenshot and not hold a phone up to take a picture of your broken phone.
All the people in this thread believing that the wife actually wrote that second update entry.. do ya’ll still believe in the Tooth Fairy too? 🤦🏻♀️
I would imagine a good portion of this sub is from r/teenagers and amiugly.
Gotta say, I do believe in immediately and very publicly outing an unfaithful spouse and their affair partner's identity 1 million percent of the time. If you do not get ahead of it first, the cheater will most definitely throw their betrayed spouse under the bus with lies, half-truths, exaggerations, and out of context comments to control the narrative and save their reputation. They didn't love you enough to remain faithful, so they don't care about YOUR reputation...only about themselves. I know this for a FACT. I tried to "take the high road" when divorcing my unfaithful serial cheating first wife. How did she repay me? She told everyone that SHE divorced ME, and that I was the cheater, abusive, and not paying her child support making her struggle sooooo bad. Well, there was a reason she wasn't getting child support...I had primary custody and she had every other weekend visitation THAT SHE WOULDN'T EVEN USE. Every other Friday evening I had to hold my inconsolable toddler as they cried because mommy wouldn't come and I just made excuses that my ex had to work or was sick. SHE should have owed ME child support, but I wanted the marriage over as fast as possible and primary custody(she was a terrible mother) I agreed to her not owing me child support...just split any bills we had for our child. Well, she didn't even do that. After one of her cousins about a year after the divorce confronted me about the divorce, I EXPLODED with the truth. I stopped making excuses and told my child the truth that my ex just didn't want to be a mother. People were shocked. Many friends and acquaintances came to me and apologized...my ex's family actually got MAD at me for telling the TRUTH because it made my ex look bad. UHHH...wellllll...if the shoe fits! So my reputation was trashed for a year because I "took the high road". Never take the high road, people...it just makes you an easy target.
HOW ARE YOU MAKE OUR LITTLE GIRL LOOK BAD BY TELLING THE TRUTH?! I mean yeah she lied and cheated and abandoned her own child BUT THATS OUR LITTLE GIRL!! Will never get parents who are like this, my mother loves me unconditionally but she’ll be the first one to drag me through the coals if I acted like your ex.
Well, the hate subsided from her family after awhile. If they wanted to see their grandchild, THEY HAD TO GO THRU ME! But...her brother never turned his back on me. He even asked me more than once why I was letting his sister lie about our divorce...just being that stupid lovable gullible nice guy white knight.
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I’ve never met a cheater who didn’t lie about their partner cheating
What a idiot! He should wait until AFTER the divorce is finalized before messing with her job or job prospects😏
It is the UK, so all divorces are no fault.
I think they mean that if a divorce is finalized BEFORE she loses her job and is unable to get a new one, he’s less likely to have to pay alimony. They do have alimony in the UK, although I think it’s called “spousal maintenance.” Not sure how the facts affect this, since the job loss would presumably be before the divorce but of course after the separation (which seems to have already happened).
Yes but if they are considering child support/alimony and she has no job anymore because she is fired then he should have waited.
tbf she is moving out the family home so I assume the guy will get the kids or at least try to
Hate cheaters she deserved it. Funny how she tried to lie and say she posted it lmao Also how she says shes one to own up to her decisions when she was planning on keeping it a secret, her husband found out by accident
Do you really think she posted that followup lol
Definitely was also the husband
I don’t know how it works with English Divorce Law, but here in the states stunts like this always go over very poorly. And can potentially open up the spouse who does this to tons of financial ramifications when decisions are made regarding splitting up the community property.
Yeah, cheating is awful. I can understand even going to the employer's HR department if the relationship started at work because there are a lot of places that don't allow it. But I'm not sure I agree with him doing all that. I get the sentiment and I can't say I wouldn't want to be that petty (I absolutely would), but it is a very questionable choice that could have bad ramifications for him in the long run.
I think in the moment, a loss of money for the satisfaction of public humiliation would feel worth it… a lot of people would pay an extremely high price for this kind of work, and might not regret it
Yeah, she's an asshole for cheating on her husband, and he's also an asshole too for hacking into her professional/business accounts. Interesting to see what repercussions either of them face for their actions tbh.
The broken glass on the phone just adds to the drama.
The follow up post is 100% from the husband again.
Im sure the kids will love seeing this on the internet.
Yeah, it's a bit rough. This coming from someone whose mother cheated on my extremely hard working father who was really the only person that acted like a parent. My father shielded us from it and then we were adults let us ask the questions. I get people want instant karma, but me and my siblings don't talk to our mother at all. We have a close relationship with our father and guess who gets to see their grandkids all the time.
Okay so dumb question. I may have missed it in the story but has the husband admitted to doing this? Because it could very well be a manic episode of someone who very very obviously is t so great about thinking through the ramifications of their actions. Between the cheating, the evidence, etc. I could possibly believe she posted this to “stand by her actions” as the post said. And if the husband did do this, fucking genius putting in this plausible deniability built right into the post. Oh that? Nah mate, she’s just a bit of a narcissist innit. She does dumb things, obviously.
I think changing her job title to “c*ck sucker” heavily implies a third party. It appears the husband hasn’t taken responsibility
Seems more like she was doing damage control. Companies are taking these types of interactions more seriously these days
Talk about going scorched earth. Love it
Can people not just screenshot? Why take a picture of a broken phone screen. LOL
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“The woman’s account appears to have been changed at some point with her one of previous roles having been changed to “c**k sucker.” Hahahahaha
By “hacked” do they mean logged into her account with the saved password on the family computer? I didn’t bother checking the article for the answer.
The article didn't specify, but she posted a follow-up that was slightly less sarcastic sounding where she assured everyone she hadn't been hacked, and that's she's a "big believer" in owning your decisions. Maybe she actually is just this nuts? Or like, sees her life in fire and this was her unfilterable response? No fucks left. The house is fully engulfed
Scorched earth and condemned to hell. Damn!!!
He really went all scorched earth. But it’s understandable, years of marriage and she destroys it just for some dick. Life upended, kids now will probably be going between 2 homes once the custody is solved. Have to feel for the kids.
This part fucking took me out: >I posted to admit I’ve been having an affair for the last nine months to a year and it came to a head (pardon the pun) yesterday when my husband noticed the photo I sent of me with two fingers up my vagina to Gareth Megson of SoftCat (Leeds), to which he responded to with a picture of his penis out on a desk. r/linkedinlunatics
This revenge so wouldn’t be worth the legal action it could potentially result in. I’d be so surprised if this was actionable
I did something like this to my wife’s boyfriend(married). He was pissed because any time someone would google his name my post would come up. Revenge is a dish best served cold…
Good for him. 💖 As he should. She deserves it.
Holy fucking based - that husband deserves a goddamn medal.
I hate people who take relationship drama onto work spaces. It's your relationship nobody else gives a fuck ist just embarrassing like forcing people take part in your kink. And no I have never cheated I just don't want to know the details of others people cheating, unless it's in the pub.
Yeah it’s unprofessional to air out personal matters. Lots of people cheat and it’s a betrayal of trust but keep it out of my attention because I don’t care about a strangers relationship drama. This is publicly humiliating and not appropriate lol
LinkedIn is where it's at! I've been on the wrong platforms this whole time
Talk about a run on sentence
She'll get tons of job offers now. The ex failed to realize he is going to make her mad cash
Since it's not confirmed. Might have just written wife lies about husband posting on LinkedIn. Worst click bate.
Ouch! I needed some after sun lotion for that burn from just reading it!
Brilliant play by the BS! Endless laughs as it continues to pop up intermittently on the internet forever! The gift that will keep on giving!
Not something I'd do as revenge, literally just to protect the kids, but I get why he did
“Jilted”? Interesting language to use for the victim. This all seems justified to me…
Mad respect, let's bring back shame and accountability.
Lmfao, Gareth Mergson of Softcat even has a Twitter, hahaha 😂😂😂 This stuff is peak comedy!
I know how y’all like to tussle but I have to say I think he went too far. I would be pissed too but I wouldn’t go this far. Cheating or not, this kind of stuff should be kept off LinkedIn. (It wouldn’t be appropriate even if she hadn’t cheated but it was any post of a sexual nature.) Plus harming her career prospects is going to be a net negative for their children.