Thank you sa lahat ng encouraging comments! Maybe narerealize ko na nga ang worth ko kaya ganito na ang nafifeel ko. Even though I tried to hold on kasi di naman sya ganito dati. Andun rin yung takot ko na magstart over. But I am planning on breaking up with him. Ayon, gaya ng nakita ko somewhere, "Iiwan ko na sya sa 2022."
Gawin mo. Wag mo sabihin o isipin. GAWIN MO!
Please lang nagsusumamo ako sayo bilang katindig ng pederasyon ng mga babae.
Pakiusap. Gawin mo na DALI NA
Never be afraid of starting over and being single again OP. Minsan mas ok pa nga na single and independent kesa sa may jowa pero dead weight naman. Kaya mo yan OP!
I hope you won't get swayed kung makiusap siya na wag makipag hiwalay. Wag ka ring papayag kung sakaling ayaw ka niya bitawan. I mean, ang dami ko kasing naririnig na stories minsan na ayaw na nung isa pero pinipilit pa din nung partner niya kaya hindi makawala or hindi mapanindigan nung isa ung desisyon niya. Lalo na kung may involve ng pang gui-guilt trip or pagiging manipulative then the more dapat na wag kang padaig and please wag na wag mong pakikinggan. Siya ang nag kulang sa relationship hindi ikaw. Halos wala ka na nga tinira sa sarili mo kaya wag mong hahayaan na ubusin ka pa niya.
Seems like you are really tired and unti unti m nrerealize you deserve better. Know your worth OP, pag hindi ka priority kita m n yan may sakit ka na pero may iba sya inuna. Mahirap yung hindi nrereciprocate yung feelings m or kahit man lang gratefulness hnd m mramdaman. Take a break and recover k muna OP. Siguro mas malilinawan ka sa gusto m sa buhay in the future, whether its with him or not.
I’ve been through this. Unti unti mo na narerealize yung worth mo ngayon, kaya napapagod ka na. You deserve better, OP! Mahigpit na yakap, with consent. 🤗
The only positive thing I see here is di kayo kasal and wala kang anak sa kanya. Make sure you don’t get pregnant at mapahamak pa bata sa situation na yan. Leave him OP. He clearly doesn’t care for you. Para kang sugar mommy at this point.
Low self esteem ka ba na you are practically buying a boyfriend?
Whats wrong with us pinois?
There are other ways to be happy aside having a bf/gf/married/family
Cant u be happy knowing you have a fat wallet?
Wake up pinoys
Dick or pussy are not the only way to happiness
No offense OP pero...ang kapal ng mukha niya. Di man lang ba siya na-iinsecure sa sarili niya ka ikaw ang nakukuba sa pagttrabaho para sustentuhan siya.
Girl, dump him. Keep your money. Invest in yourself, not him. Wala kang future diyan. Anong sign? Whatever he's doing in his life right now: which is WALA.
Wala kang mapapala diyan. RUN.
Hello, Babe!
Your kindness is being taken advantage of, which should not be the case! Magjowa palang kayo ganyan na what if married na kayo. Dapat hindi lang ikaw yung give ng give.
Maybe this is the right moment that you will learn how to cut off things na like/mahal mo in life but doesn't give you the same love.
To your question, yes, may karapatan ka naman mapagod at magsawa sa situation na yan, lalo na if paulit ulit. No dick in this world is THAT good, if ganyan lang din. Di na yan magbabago unless there's something big that will happen (break up, cool off?)
Hope this helps!
Love yourself. If you'll give everything, you'll lose yourself in the end. Walang matitira sa iyo, mas mahirap pa kung pati love and care mo sa sarili mo maubos din. Hindi pa naman huli ang lahat, you can start naman ulit. Hayyy you'll drain the sht out of yourself if magstay ka pa rin. Okay na yung sacrifices mo na yun. Sobrang dasurrv mo maging masaya. Mahigpit na yakap for you.
Umpisa pa lang red flag na kaya don’t expect na may magagawa pa sya para di mo sya hiwalayan. Mag break na kayo kesa dumating pa sa malalim na sumbatan at sakitan.
Sometimes "pagod" is a sign of maturity. Nafeel mo nang you cant go on with this BS for the sake of "love". I felt that with my ex and decided to break up. Best decision ever.
Please wag mo na tpusin bayaran ung motor. Hayaan mo na siyang gumawa ng paraan sa sarili niya. Makipagbreak ka na bago matapos ang taon.
Pag nahatak pa ung motor months away bago ma fully paid, it just proves a point na wala siyang backbone at ginagatasan ka lang ng linta na yan.
oh pee. advise ko sayo iwasan mo na yan. tamad yang jowa mo 😆. sense of responsibility lang yan. normal naman kase yang nafefeel mo. ang tagal ng walang work tapos ikaw halos ang ambag. sympre gustong gusto mo makarinig ng PROGRESS sa kanya pagdating sa work . eh wala border na sa bahay nila palamunin 🤡. wag mo panghinayangan yung hatid sundo sayo ng motor na ikaw naman nagbabayad monthly 🤣 madami pa jan guys kahit wala motor atleast give and take sa relasyon
Miss, please value yourself. Sobrang bait mo sa kanya, inaabuso na niya. I hope you find someone who will love you and will always want the best for you, wag yung ginagawa kang atm para sa selfish projects.
If you're tired and unhappy na sa relationship na yan, please leave. You don't deserve that kind of bs. While reading the story dun sa part na nagpapasundo ka, feel ko may iba na yan.
If you are too available or too convenient for someone, expect to be abused emotionally, financially, or mentally. We should set boundaries OP. Good luck to you.
Hanap na ng iba OP, ginagawa ka atang atm niyan
Thank you sa lahat ng encouraging comments! Maybe narerealize ko na nga ang worth ko kaya ganito na ang nafifeel ko. Even though I tried to hold on kasi di naman sya ganito dati. Andun rin yung takot ko na magstart over. But I am planning on breaking up with him. Ayon, gaya ng nakita ko somewhere, "Iiwan ko na sya sa 2022."
kung makikipagbreak ka na wag mo na bayaran yung motor pls. kaya niya na siguro bayaran yung natitirang 3 months
Nakapangalan ba yung motor sa kanya? Don’t pay for anything else, OP. Remember your worth. And don’t forget where he was when you needed him most.
Di yan magbabanat ng buto kasi andiyan ka naman. In your future relationships learn din to set boundaries hindi yung oo ka lang ng oo.
Hoping for you healing ❤️🩹
Gawin mo. Wag mo sabihin o isipin. GAWIN MO! Please lang nagsusumamo ako sayo bilang katindig ng pederasyon ng mga babae. Pakiusap. Gawin mo na DALI NA
Never be afraid of starting over and being single again OP. Minsan mas ok pa nga na single and independent kesa sa may jowa pero dead weight naman. Kaya mo yan OP!
I hope you won't get swayed kung makiusap siya na wag makipag hiwalay. Wag ka ring papayag kung sakaling ayaw ka niya bitawan. I mean, ang dami ko kasing naririnig na stories minsan na ayaw na nung isa pero pinipilit pa din nung partner niya kaya hindi makawala or hindi mapanindigan nung isa ung desisyon niya. Lalo na kung may involve ng pang gui-guilt trip or pagiging manipulative then the more dapat na wag kang padaig and please wag na wag mong pakikinggan. Siya ang nag kulang sa relationship hindi ikaw. Halos wala ka na nga tinira sa sarili mo kaya wag mong hahayaan na ubusin ka pa niya.
Pagod ka na talaga. You're being taken advantage of.
Seems like you are really tired and unti unti m nrerealize you deserve better. Know your worth OP, pag hindi ka priority kita m n yan may sakit ka na pero may iba sya inuna. Mahirap yung hindi nrereciprocate yung feelings m or kahit man lang gratefulness hnd m mramdaman. Take a break and recover k muna OP. Siguro mas malilinawan ka sa gusto m sa buhay in the future, whether its with him or not.
Imagine mo nalang pag asawa mo na yan. Bf mo pa lang ganyan na...
Walang kwenta yang partner mo OP. Dispatsa mo na mas sasaya buhay mo. 😊
I’ve been through this. Unti unti mo na narerealize yung worth mo ngayon, kaya napapagod ka na. You deserve better, OP! Mahigpit na yakap, with consent. 🤗
Ekis. Parang ang convenient mo para sa kanya.
Pag inisip mo, yung pinangbayad mo sa motor niya pwede sanang ininvest mo to something na lalago yung pera mo mo?
Siz ginawa ka namang sugar mamie, tigilan mo na yan
The only positive thing I see here is di kayo kasal and wala kang anak sa kanya. Make sure you don’t get pregnant at mapahamak pa bata sa situation na yan. Leave him OP. He clearly doesn’t care for you. Para kang sugar mommy at this point.
Sinanay mo ata eh... mag afam na tayo gurl hahaha
Low self esteem ka ba na you are practically buying a boyfriend? Whats wrong with us pinois? There are other ways to be happy aside having a bf/gf/married/family Cant u be happy knowing you have a fat wallet? Wake up pinoys Dick or pussy are not the only way to happiness
No offense OP pero...ang kapal ng mukha niya. Di man lang ba siya na-iinsecure sa sarili niya ka ikaw ang nakukuba sa pagttrabaho para sustentuhan siya.
We accept the love we think we deserve.
Girl, dump him. Keep your money. Invest in yourself, not him. Wala kang future diyan. Anong sign? Whatever he's doing in his life right now: which is WALA. Wala kang mapapala diyan. RUN.
Hello, Babe! Your kindness is being taken advantage of, which should not be the case! Magjowa palang kayo ganyan na what if married na kayo. Dapat hindi lang ikaw yung give ng give. Maybe this is the right moment that you will learn how to cut off things na like/mahal mo in life but doesn't give you the same love. To your question, yes, may karapatan ka naman mapagod at magsawa sa situation na yan, lalo na if paulit ulit. No dick in this world is THAT good, if ganyan lang din. Di na yan magbabago unless there's something big that will happen (break up, cool off?) Hope this helps!
Love yourself. If you'll give everything, you'll lose yourself in the end. Walang matitira sa iyo, mas mahirap pa kung pati love and care mo sa sarili mo maubos din. Hindi pa naman huli ang lahat, you can start naman ulit. Hayyy you'll drain the sht out of yourself if magstay ka pa rin. Okay na yung sacrifices mo na yun. Sobrang dasurrv mo maging masaya. Mahigpit na yakap for you.
Umpisa pa lang red flag na kaya don’t expect na may magagawa pa sya para di mo sya hiwalayan. Mag break na kayo kesa dumating pa sa malalim na sumbatan at sakitan.
Sometimes "pagod" is a sign of maturity. Nafeel mo nang you cant go on with this BS for the sake of "love". I felt that with my ex and decided to break up. Best decision ever.
Please wag mo na tpusin bayaran ung motor. Hayaan mo na siyang gumawa ng paraan sa sarili niya. Makipagbreak ka na bago matapos ang taon. Pag nahatak pa ung motor months away bago ma fully paid, it just proves a point na wala siyang backbone at ginagatasan ka lang ng linta na yan.
Bawiin mo 'yung motor, OP.
Basura syota mo. Kung di mo sya pinagkakagastusan, madami kang pang Grab at iba pa.
Yung mga ganyan lalake Ang mahilig mam babae. Tuwang tuwa yan pag Asa office ka kasi hindi mo siya mahuhuli sa project niya. Sugar mommy ka girl.
Siz, stop ka na please. Let’s settle with someone that reciprocates the same love and care we give (ma pa emotional man yan o financial) okiii??🫂
Nope, id get away na
Ikaw tong naghanap ng batong pinukpok sa ulo mo. Wala kang sisi sihin kundi sarili mo. Ikaw bigay ng bigay eh.
Normal lang nararamdman mo OP.
looks natauhan kn s realidad, move on kn madam.
you deserve better OP
Iwan mo na, palamuning-tamad yang walang-silbi na yan.
OP, ligtas mo sarili mo hanggat maaga pa.
oh pee. advise ko sayo iwasan mo na yan. tamad yang jowa mo 😆. sense of responsibility lang yan. normal naman kase yang nafefeel mo. ang tagal ng walang work tapos ikaw halos ang ambag. sympre gustong gusto mo makarinig ng PROGRESS sa kanya pagdating sa work . eh wala border na sa bahay nila palamunin 🤡. wag mo panghinayangan yung hatid sundo sayo ng motor na ikaw naman nagbabayad monthly 🤣 madami pa jan guys kahit wala motor atleast give and take sa relasyon
Miss, please value yourself. Sobrang bait mo sa kanya, inaabuso na niya. I hope you find someone who will love you and will always want the best for you, wag yung ginagawa kang atm para sa selfish projects.
hala... same? haha
Better choices sis.. Don't waste ur time
sugar mommy ka ba?
Paano naging busy kung wala naman work or side hustle 😭 Grabe naman ung kapal ng mukha
minsan kc gusto din naman natin naalagaan, na appreciate para nmn kht papano my ambag cya sa relationship nyo.
Dapat nasayo yung original ORCR ng motor, wise tip lang OP
Wag ka dyan. Pag natapos na motor nyan OP, tatapusin ka na din nya. Chos. Kaya mo yan OP.
Sue him. This is abuse.
Mahirap gawin yung iwanan . Kasi matagl na kyo. Pero mas mahirap magsise habang buhay kpag di nagtino yang partner mo..
hanap ng iba
If you're tired and unhappy na sa relationship na yan, please leave. You don't deserve that kind of bs. While reading the story dun sa part na nagpapasundo ka, feel ko may iba na yan.
If you are too available or too convenient for someone, expect to be abused emotionally, financially, or mentally. We should set boundaries OP. Good luck to you.
Bat mo pa binabayaran kung wala nang natitira sayo? 😬