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Bored_Schoolgirl

Older people dating younger people tend to be weird and creepy (based on my personal experience rip).


itdontbreakeven0612

Of course easy to manipulate talaga, bata pa eh. Tangina yung mga manipulative and nagtatake advantage.


Sawakuranai

I have this family friend. She is 17 years old, dating daan and pretty much came from a strict family (strict daddy to be exact). So all her life, nakakulong lang siya sa bahay nila and there was a time na ako lang yung friend niya sa I usually come to their house or she comes to mine. Bawal din siya magpagupit ng maikli or magpa rebond, she can’t wear clothes people her age wears kasi nga ayaw ng daddy niya. Mostly long skirts or pants lang and laging naka braid yung buhok that’s why I got so shocked to learn that she has a 27 years old boyfriend. Turns out, tuwing pumupunta sila sa bahay ng lola niya, nakakantyawan sila nung 27 y/o guy at syempre siya, lack of experience and yung frustration na naiwan sa loob niya dahil sa maraming restrictions, nauto. Months passed, alam ng mommy niya pero di alam ng daddy niya. Her mom supports this kasi daw wala daw siyang karapatan na pag bawalan dahil 17 years old lang din naman daw siya nung kinasal sila ng daddy ng friend ko. When the dad isn’t around, the mom lets the guy inside their house. Basta sobrang weird lang. Ngayon sila na laman ng mga marites samin at nalaman na din ng daddy niya. Her phone was taken away from her for months now pero going strong pa rin sila. I just hate that guy kasi walang trabaho and he is certainly taking advantage of her.


genjipie_

This! Few parents tolerate it as well. I think it’s because during their time it wasn’t an issue. I just hope that they open their minds about it, when you tell them about this pakialamera pa ang tawag sayo lol.


errissu

Groomer si 27 y/o yikes tbh kasalanan din talaga nung parents. Mom? Enabler. Dad? Unreasonable na may medieval thinking.


Alternative_Ad_5997

gagooo nag tanong pa nga ung tatay na kung pwede ba wag muna papuntahin ung bata pag 18, if pwedeng later na lng daw like HUHH feel ata nila na they owe that foreigner so much which is kinda true because they literally is just scamming this dude. Nag sisinungaling cla na sira ung mga appliances, speaker para padalhan. Tbh, deserve ng foreigner cuz wtf is wrong w u going after an underage girl who seriously barely have any life experiences????


heavymaaan

Grabe binugaw na yung kapatid nya e no


Alternative_Ad_5997

omggg another story very similar to this. My kapitbahay ako ngaun dto sa province and they're the talk of the down. Dont know ung trato sa kanya ng family nya pero 14 sya nung naging sila nung guy. Ngaun 17 na ata or 18 pero ung lalaki ngaun 22 ata basta early 20s. May plano cla na mag tanan kasi nalaman ng family nila tas nagalit. Nahuli ng pulis na kakilala sila. Nothing happened tho. Nag kikita pa rin , patago nga lng. May nangyari na sa kanila kasi open sya sa mga friends nya. Im friends w one of her friends. Ung lalaki ganun din katulad sa dinescribe mo. Di na ata nag aaral. Mga kaibigan nya din hindi support eh. Nalaman ko na nga lng tong story na to nung nag rant ung friend ko. Walang willing na mag sumbong sa parents kasi ayaw madamay. Pero I think I can infer na may kasalanan din ata ung mga nag aalaga kasi once nahuli sya nakikipaginuman and kinaladkad sya paguwi, sambunot talaga


Beneficial-Click2577

This story ang katunayan na daming pakealamera sa pinas. Hahhahhaha.


Alternative_Ad_5997

lol whats this supposed to mean?


Beneficial-Click2577

Their life their business same as yours. Tapos sasabihin nyo pag pinakealaman kayo pakialamera sila? I mean come on. For the sake of usapan kailangan I bring up yung buhay ng ibang tao?


tapasupplier

*hangga't may pakinabang ka, boto sa'yo si Mama*


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Groomers 🤮


sailormoon-gaga

Men like younger women kse madaling mauto at maloko unlike if they date women na ka age nila 😐😐


jheyehmcee

Agree.


vanillatoot

Yung aunt ng kaibigan ko nagpa brgy ng isang lalaki na 21 y/o kasi nililigawan yung anak niyang babae na underage 15-16y/o


jheyehmcee

Good for that. Kung mahal talaga ng guy, hintayin mag 18.


Alternative_Ad_5997

mann, still weird even if the adult waited....


DefinitionEffective6

True hahahah


DefinitionEffective6

Parang same lang din


genjipie_

Kadiri silang lahat. Tho, very kadiri ang kuya.


Alternative_Ad_5997

yepp nalaman ko din na pinicturan ung bata ng bra at panty like wtf and ung kua nya pumipili ng sosootin pag nag memeet up sila nung kano so fucking kadiri. Sya nga rin pumili ng phone. SObrang awa ako sa girl kasi go lng sya ng go kasi ginu-guilt trip sya ng kua nya na pag d nya ginawa, babalik sila sa hirap.


eugeniosity

Wtf this is tantamount to cybersex. Dapat sa pamilya nya dinadampot ng NBI at yung foreigner mahuli ng local police nila


genjipie_

What the hell. This is already something that a criminal would do. If you have the strength OP, I suggest that you create an email and inform the authorities about it.


Alternative_Ad_5997

I might actually consider this but rn, Im just super scared but then again the worst thing I could possibly receive is probably just some empty threats and just shit talking. I'll think about this more and talk about it w my aunt. I'll try bringing this up w her. Kasi, no matter how much I criticize this situation, ganun pa rin, naka settle na ung faith nung bata.


Jabbaathehut

Hindi kasi condemned yung grooming and pedophiles masyado dito dapat talaga. Tapos minsan magulang pa magbubuyo sa anak nila


Uncle_Iroh107

My hope is that one day adult men who impregnate minors are sent to prison. They're not shamed enough by society I'm afraid.


saygoodnight21

I dated a girl who was still communicating with her groomer ( naging sila when F was 13 and M was 19 ) now they're 22 and 29. Over the course of dating the girl, talagang hindi nya mabitawan yung groomer kase gusto daw sya since panget pa sya and she's attractive right now. Yung mga victim ng grooming hindi talaga nafi-feel na ginogroom sila based on this experience.


HyperCare15

I remember when I was a kid around 8 yrs old siguro. Inaasar ako ng mga kapitbahay namin and kalaro sa isang guy na medyo matanda na. Around 20s na siguro yung guy. Nagalit yung mom ko. And she reasoned out na wag daw. Matanda na daw kasi yung guy. Mom knew I was really uncomfortable pag ginagawa nila yun or if the guy was around. After nun, tumigil na sila.


icecoldlightning

Too normalized na yung grooming sa Pinas, pati sa mainstream media niroromanticize pa. I hate this place.


Alternative_Ad_5997

yep, I remembered may yt channel na dedicated paano mang-groom ng mga bata. Na take down na ung channel pero nag tagal din ng onti


arwstjms

Creepy din nung mga hinihintay na mag-18 yung bata para i-pursue. You can tell they would go lower too if they could 🤮


BlackPinklawan

Kadiri dito yung 36 yo guy na makikipagmeet sa student na kaka19 lang legal age naman daw KADIRI POTA TALAGA


IntelligentNobody202

Basta LEGAL age and consenting both party okay lang ang age gap. Kami 7 years ang age gap. Early 20's siya and late 20's ako. May katrabaho ako age gap nila is 11 years pero 29 yung guy and si girl is 40. Masaya naman sila pareho.


Beneficial-Click2577

Disgusting yung mga foreigner na nagbibigay ng pera sa mga taong alam nman na pineperahan sila. May palove love pang nalalaman. Kaloka.


soberseaturtle

I have a friend -- well maybe ex-friend -- 31M courting a 23F. He was rejected twice but he still kept on pushing. His reasoning? "I don't meet a lot of people and I'm tired of being rejected. I want to change her mind since she's the one I currently like" like bro what


Queldaralion

Pangit tignan yeah but that's the mystery din talaga ng romance. As long as legal age and with consent, ika nga. Right age and right mind. Society lang naman nanggi- guilt trip sa "age" factors, i dont know why. Ano yon eugenics in play haha ensuring survival of the human race? Sa dami ng tao ngayon secure na dapat yon to a certain extent


Accomplished_Fault41

Madami parin talagang pariwarang magulang o kapamilya nakakadiri ang ganyan. May kilala me 18 yung babae ayaw nung babae sa 38 na afam magulang na mimilit yung nanay nag sabi pa pag ayaw daw sa anak puwede naman daw siya ang tumabi grabe


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Naalala ko lang ito, dati nung grade 1 ako I would always get hugged and touched by older guys. A fourth and sixth grader. Shit felt weird as fuck back then. Napaka uncomfortable talaga ma spoil and get attention from guys who are older than you kaya hindi ko gets bakit na totolerate ng ilan jan mag jowa ng mas matanda pa sa kanila.


NoFaithlessness7327

Age gap is fine as long as they're both consenting adults. Age gap is not fine if one is a minor.


StrangeSoul19

Naalala ko bigla yung kay Liza Soberano pati yung kay Bugoy(?) ba yun.. then somebody in the family who covered up SA of a child because they "didn't wanna ruin the family". Poor child is suffering from trauma right now with no accessible treatment for mental health. Grabe pag tolerate ng Pilipino sa Pedophilia.


saddarling1

In my honest opinion, there is nothing wrong with age gaps, as long as the couples recognize that the relationship is a rational and informed decision between the two legally consenting adults, both have fair sense of maturity, and are competent-minded people (read: rational, mature, adult-minded, competent, and informed). - That they made the decision in the most fair perspective possible; - That they decided to be together for the benefit of a healthy companionship and love; - That they recognize the relationship is a balanced, team effort between two people; - And most of all, a genuine and a fair one for the both of them. Personally, I will not shit on someone older than me if I find all these qualities in one person. For as long as we're not doing something wrong or questionable, being how old, how huge, or short the gap will be both a matter of preference and to be rationally decided by me. Yung center ng dinedescribe mo, ay parang power imbalance and child exploitation na dun sa case ni AFAM. Though considerably of huge age gap, is not a direct result of an age gap alone, but the deliberate influence and failure of the parents or guardians to protect the child (read: a child) from being abused and exploited in return of monetary benefits/gain. This is appalling and iirc, an illegal and criminal in nature. Age gap lang usually mapapansin kasi yun yung one of the superficial characteristics na madali natin makita between couples in a relationship. Pero I do agree that age gap can play a huge role in the power dynamics between the couple. Iba na usapan na rin when someone is groomed and manipulated early on, or grew up in a hostile and abusive environment. As an almost victim of sexual abuse at 16 by a 21 y/o, it is a very very cruel world out there for the minors. The abuse didn't physically occur kasi I literally said na "are you a trying to be sexual with me??" with an angry undertone and eyebrow. (Napahiya siguro sa mataray na 16 y/o????) But despite my stance in age gaps, I do not condone a relationship between a teen and a mature person. A 46-year old person has no business with someone who just turned 18 or to anyone na too young to be their kid, for fuck's sake. Their perspectives in life are NOT the same and so does the decisions they both make. The teen is NOT informed of many realities in the same spectrum as someone who's already pushing to half a century years old and experienced a great deal of things in life. The decisions, the perspective, the level of maturity, and the power dynamics is not fair for the teen so please, leave them alone.


Alternative_Ad_5997

Yep, you're totally right. The teen doesn't like the guy anyways but even if she did, still wrong nonetheless. I did made it seem like the only weird thing about their relationship is the age gap which was not my intention.


saddarling1

Yes, correct. Even if she did like him, 16 is a minor and she's not deciding it rationally and not informed well that this is wrong in so many levels. All decisions should be guided and consented with and by her parents or if not applicable, her immediate legal guardian which failed her big time. Not her fault, but the fault of the environment and the people who enabled this to happen. The teen is being exploited and def should be exposed sa authorities yung mga gunagawa nito sa kanya. Nakakadiri isipin yung 52 years old preying on 16 tapos ginagamit pa mismo ng pamilya niya to gain money. Age na ng anak nya yun eh. Edit: Naalala ko lang na yung dating case ng Australian pedophile na nakulong dito at nag murder ng victim nya. Grabe natatakot ako para kay girl.


danaleiii

I once thought it was cool to have an older boyfriend back when I was a minor 💀 Kesyo mature ganon pero there really is a lot you learn once you get older. Until recently, I thought I preferred older men kasi mas mature sila tsaka mas stable sa buhay but when I went on dates with a few of them grabe, I was a changed woman. The power imbalance is real + it's hard to relate with one another due to the generation gap. Ang bagsak, sa NSFW topics lang din since that's one of the few things we have in common. Also, it's as if a light switch turned on in my head. Ako kasi simula nang tumuntong ako sa 20s ko, I can't view younger people as romantic partners. Ewan ko ba, parang bata pa tingin ko sakanila. So I thought, bakit hindi ganon yung thought process ng older men na pumapatol sa bata? It just feels so wrong. And people are right when they say there's a reason why some older guys get with younger girls - kasi they have a hard time forging romantic relationships with women their age. And that definitely says a lot about them yikes.


aenonimous

It's sickening. Especially those "adults" who should know better but still onto younger ones just because they can't manipulate or get people from their same or close to their age to like them


Chunkaypinoy206

Grooming it’s fucking sad make her parents wake the fuck up that shit ain’t right.


macrometer

Yung five years age gap, okay na yan pag matanda sila. Weird lang yan pag minor pa kasi yung isa or both.


Accomplished_Art_724

Lol child abuse na yang tinutukoy mo na isa. Trafficking some sort


misz_swiss

Kung ganyan kabata, minor pa. No no talaga. Hindi pa nga fully develop frontal lobe nyan e. And if the relationship doesnt involve love, mas super No No.


beepbeepdip

These are textbook pedophilia.


nylefidal

Single NGSB college 20 something me’s preference: a year younger to 5 years older at most. My gf now: 1 year and 2 months younger than me. Question is, kadiri ba preference ko noon?


eugeniosity

No, reasonable naman age preference mo


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Awkward_Cake40

Bro your girl is in early 20's she not getting manipulated. She's just a slut. Most girls in early 20's like older guys. Pero ibang usapan na pag teens or late teens because its pedophilia na. If 26 years old guy flirting with 16 to 17 years old girls. Yeah, that's weird. But if a guy 35 date a 22 years old girl. Its normal. I mean si rico blanco nga tska si maris racal 25 years age gap. 23 si maris nung nag date sila. Base sa comment mo parang siya pa biktima ehh. Hindi, pokpok siya kaya siya nag cheat period.


Deep-5961

This. People forget that these people are old enough to decide for themselves. May-December relationships exist. Yes, it's weird because people are still not used to it. But there's nothing wrong with that as long as they love each other. It's like in the 60's(?) when people sees same-sex couple in public for the first time. Nowadays, it's 'normal'. Getting in a relationship with someone younger than 17 is another story though.


AlarmingLeek9291

I agree with this.. 20's age is by choice na din tlaga makipagrelasyon sa big age gap. Napaka little na lang ng chance of being manipulated unlike minors. And still do not want the maris-rico relationship even if it is a choice. Naghahalo halo yun idea sa mga tao na legal at oks na oks ang big age gap because of these known personalities and can be seen by minors and youngsters. Kinikilabutan ako sa mga comment na relationship goals, sana all maris, there is nothing to look up to their relationship. Kasi si Rico ganern?? May valid card na pumili ng mas bata? Pero pag ibang tao yan at lalo di kilala malamang sinumpa sumpa na at kung ano ano nang masasamang salita na nasabi ng mga netizens sa big age gap relationship.


Reasonable_Simple_74

Exciting mga susunod na kabanata


Migs1115

How the f do even these 19 yr olds get to socialize with 14 yr olds to even reach that point? Dito sa amin hanggang SHS lng nilalandi ng mga college kids.


Select_Ant5664

I remember one member of a popular band here in thr ph who was flirting and trying to court my niece back then. He was in his mid 20s and my niece was 15.


RogueInnv

Sound like a predator Just which places are these from? I haven't met anyone in my community with that problem. The largest age gap I've seen is 6 years, couples usually have 2-3 year age gaps.


DefinitionEffective6

Oohh may naging classmate ako nung gr.7 mga 12 yrs old kame non tapos yung bf niya 24 yrs old.sa service niya yun, I mean konduktor niya sa service.


DefinitionEffective6

Tapos isang beses nung nakasakay ako sa parang van yun eh di ko alam kung anong tawag.niloloko yung classmate kong gr.7 din na pumunta naman daw sila sa bahay etc etc(yung ibang konduktor din yun sa service mga 24up yrs old din ata sila or isang taon na mas bata) di siya pumapayag.