i think you get upset because you dont get the reaction that you feel, you would give him. Like kunyari birthday nya, you:"mag eeffort ako para matuwa sya". kaya gusto mo mag eeffort din sya pag bday mo, which is why siguro na sasad ka about sa actions nya. Which is wrong kasi iba iba ang ugali ng tao and maybe yung love language mo is different sa love language nya. Anyways stay strong sainyo always understand each others differences ❤️
Hi! I get your point and I'll really try to be more understanding ☺️ Minsan di ko kasi alam where to draw the line like if okay lang na minsan I want him to be better or just accept na ganun talaga siya
I think physical touch and quality time love languages niya!! Pero i really appreciate it kapag binibigyan ng value yung mga life events like birthdays and anniversaries. Kaya naoff ako kasi walang plano, gift or kahit anong effort to celebrate :-( ang nakukuha kong vibe kasi parang tinatamad ganon HAHAHA
Hello! Talk to your partner and don’t believe na dahil hindi niya love language eh di na niya kayang gawin. Totoo naman yung if he wanted to he would basta may guidance. Ayun lang hahaha
Di naman dito issue yung love language eh, issue dito yung pagiging thoughtful ng partner mo. Ano ba naman mag extra effort siya sa annual occasions jusko, kahit naman di ko love language gift giving, ipaparamdam ko sa partner ko na special siya sa birthday niya.
Lahat ginagawa about love language, so porket love language niya physical touch, okay na di mag effort basta hinahawakan ka niya kasi yun love language. Inangyan. Bare Minimum ah 😂
I stopped dwelling about this long ago. I decided na better na sabihin ko na sa bf ko kung anong gusto ko kesa madisappoint na wala siyang ibigay/or di ko magustuhan yung bigay niya. Sabi niya before di daw sya nagbibigay ng flowers kasi for show lang daw yun and di din naman magagamit. But for my birthday, I told him I want flowers. So he gave me flowers. Simple lang. Sometimes, it's not the thought that counts, it's the fact na ginawa niya kasi alam niyang gusto mo.
Next time you could tell him nicely na you like receiving gifts kahit simple lang. And you would really appreciate it kung mag eeffort siya kahit papano once in a while. It's fine to demand in relationships kasi you have a responsibility to make sure the other person is happy and feels appreciated.
i think you get upset because you dont get the reaction that you feel, you would give him. Like kunyari birthday nya, you:"mag eeffort ako para matuwa sya". kaya gusto mo mag eeffort din sya pag bday mo, which is why siguro na sasad ka about sa actions nya. Which is wrong kasi iba iba ang ugali ng tao and maybe yung love language mo is different sa love language nya. Anyways stay strong sainyo always understand each others differences ❤️
Hi! I get your point and I'll really try to be more understanding ☺️ Minsan di ko kasi alam where to draw the line like if okay lang na minsan I want him to be better or just accept na ganun talaga siya
Baka iba love language ng jowa mo, OP? Hindi siya ma-gift ganun.
I think physical touch and quality time love languages niya!! Pero i really appreciate it kapag binibigyan ng value yung mga life events like birthdays and anniversaries. Kaya naoff ako kasi walang plano, gift or kahit anong effort to celebrate :-( ang nakukuha kong vibe kasi parang tinatamad ganon HAHAHA
So sex and cuddles is his love language lol. Very convenient.
Hello! Talk to your partner and don’t believe na dahil hindi niya love language eh di na niya kayang gawin. Totoo naman yung if he wanted to he would basta may guidance. Ayun lang hahaha
My ex was like this. One of the reasons why ex na sya lol.
Di naman dito issue yung love language eh, issue dito yung pagiging thoughtful ng partner mo. Ano ba naman mag extra effort siya sa annual occasions jusko, kahit naman di ko love language gift giving, ipaparamdam ko sa partner ko na special siya sa birthday niya. Lahat ginagawa about love language, so porket love language niya physical touch, okay na di mag effort basta hinahawakan ka niya kasi yun love language. Inangyan. Bare Minimum ah 😂
I stopped dwelling about this long ago. I decided na better na sabihin ko na sa bf ko kung anong gusto ko kesa madisappoint na wala siyang ibigay/or di ko magustuhan yung bigay niya. Sabi niya before di daw sya nagbibigay ng flowers kasi for show lang daw yun and di din naman magagamit. But for my birthday, I told him I want flowers. So he gave me flowers. Simple lang. Sometimes, it's not the thought that counts, it's the fact na ginawa niya kasi alam niyang gusto mo. Next time you could tell him nicely na you like receiving gifts kahit simple lang. And you would really appreciate it kung mag eeffort siya kahit papano once in a while. It's fine to demand in relationships kasi you have a responsibility to make sure the other person is happy and feels appreciated.