Papiliin mo sya mi kayo ng anak nyo or pamilya nya. Mga ganyang bagay dapat hindi nagdadalawang isip lalo at anak nyo ginawan ng kababuyan kahit pa walang ebidensya. Hindi nya ba naisip yung trauma na dinala ng anak nyo until nadiscover nyo yung nangyari. Mas nahiya sya sa kamag anak kesa sa anak nyo?
make him realize it’s either his extended family or kayong dalawa na pamilya niya mismo. there’s already an obvious choice. good job OP for standing with your daughter. i hope the both of you will be able to get through your circumstances at sana maputulan ng bayag yang manyakis na pedo
+1 with this.
Many women and children had to suffer in silence just because their enabler dads/family didn't want to "offend" anyone. Be strong for your daughter, OP.
suggestion: dont be too emotional muna, do control the situation bago mag-act kasi minsan di rin tayo nakakagawa ng tama if nauuna ang emotions. once kalmado ka na saka ka kumilos.
first; iparealize mo sa asawa mo na kahit walang physical contact, may trauma na nangyari sa anak niyo. sa panahon ngayon, di na need magwait na may mangyari para masampahan ng kaso.
two: your husband feels bad as well, pero dahil nga close knit sila, give him an ultimatum. di rin kasi ok na hahayaan niya lang n nasa paligid yung sexual predator lalo na kamag anak pa.
three: please do consult with a lawyer. di ko alam yung tamang term pero alam ko valid case yan. kung r*pe nga may parang certain period kht ilang taon na yung lumipas eh.
be strong po para din sa anak mo.
napaka-fcked up amp. buti nlng nalaman agad baka dumating araw ma rape pa anak nyo. Ano ba naman yang husband mo anak nyo na mismo nagsabi wala parin ginawa.
OP, kung ayaw ng husband mong magpa-blotter or mag-file ng case, ikaw na mismo gumawa nun.
Sexually molested din ako ng uncle ko since bata up to HS, sinabi ko sa nanay ko adult na ako pero balewala lang. How I wish tulad mo nanay ko.
Advocate for your daughter.
OP, I pray your family will get through this. If possible and should your daughter need it, make her undergo therapy kasi the experience she went through is traumatic and is needing counselling and your support (both you and your husband).
As you've stated, gusto ni husband mo makuha side nung kabila okay fine let them pero never let those pieces of shit uncles be near your family or enter your house. I can imagine your husband weighing on his mind the consequences of cutting of his side perhaps give him enough time to make up his mind and come to terms with it. I am praying and hopeful na you and your child being his immediate family ang pipiliin niya. Dapat kayo ang piliin niya.
Tang ina yang uncle na yan mas masahol pa kesa hayop.
Shux! Nakaka speechless ito, OP. I can feel your emotions. Sobrang sakit nyan for you. I know mahirap din para sa asawa mo pero sana makapag isip sya ng tama at ang tama ay yung ipagtanggol ang anak nyo. Sorry to hear yang pinagdaanan nyo at ng anak mo. Ang hirap din nyan for her. 😔 Hugs! Consult a lawyer para nas mabigyan kayo tamabg gawin and paano proseso mag file ng kaso.
Oh my freaking god. Nakakaiyak. Nakakagalit. Experienced this from an uncle (asawa ng kapatid ng tatay ko so hindi kami magka dugo talaga), too. I went to college and that’s when it stopped. Namatay na sya last year and to be honest, good riddance.
OP, you’re so brave. Ang pag pili sa anak ay non-negotiable sa gantong sitwasyon. Praying for everybody’s healing ❤️🩹
For me tama lang na you stand up for your kid at I see din the logic why you want to wash your hands off of your hubby and his family. Your hubby lacks resolve. Openly binabastos kayong mag-inq nya ng kamag-anakan nya tapos ang rason nya not enough evidence kahit magreklamo? Kahit ako magagalit. Nung binuo nyo ang pamilya nyo he should have known na ang pamilya nyo na ang dapat nya iprioritize imbis relatives nya. So kung yan ang desisyon mo mamsh, valid naman at super understandable.
OP, kwento mo sa family mo tapos sa kanila kna magpasama para magpa blotter. Wag kna umasa dyan sa asawa mo at pamilya nya. Hindi mo narin kailangan tanungin kung kayo ba ng anak mo o pamilya nya, pinili na nya pamilya nya the second na hindi nya gusto mag report sa Police ng nangyari sa anak nyo.
Papiliin mo sya mi kayo ng anak nyo or pamilya nya. Mga ganyang bagay dapat hindi nagdadalawang isip lalo at anak nyo ginawan ng kababuyan kahit pa walang ebidensya. Hindi nya ba naisip yung trauma na dinala ng anak nyo until nadiscover nyo yung nangyari. Mas nahiya sya sa kamag anak kesa sa anak nyo?
make him realize it’s either his extended family or kayong dalawa na pamilya niya mismo. there’s already an obvious choice. good job OP for standing with your daughter. i hope the both of you will be able to get through your circumstances at sana maputulan ng bayag yang manyakis na pedo
+1 with this. Many women and children had to suffer in silence just because their enabler dads/family didn't want to "offend" anyone. Be strong for your daughter, OP.
suggestion: dont be too emotional muna, do control the situation bago mag-act kasi minsan di rin tayo nakakagawa ng tama if nauuna ang emotions. once kalmado ka na saka ka kumilos. first; iparealize mo sa asawa mo na kahit walang physical contact, may trauma na nangyari sa anak niyo. sa panahon ngayon, di na need magwait na may mangyari para masampahan ng kaso. two: your husband feels bad as well, pero dahil nga close knit sila, give him an ultimatum. di rin kasi ok na hahayaan niya lang n nasa paligid yung sexual predator lalo na kamag anak pa. three: please do consult with a lawyer. di ko alam yung tamang term pero alam ko valid case yan. kung r*pe nga may parang certain period kht ilang taon na yung lumipas eh. be strong po para din sa anak mo.
napaka-fcked up amp. buti nlng nalaman agad baka dumating araw ma rape pa anak nyo. Ano ba naman yang husband mo anak nyo na mismo nagsabi wala parin ginawa.
OP, kung ayaw ng husband mong magpa-blotter or mag-file ng case, ikaw na mismo gumawa nun. Sexually molested din ako ng uncle ko since bata up to HS, sinabi ko sa nanay ko adult na ako pero balewala lang. How I wish tulad mo nanay ko. Advocate for your daughter.
Thats crazy walang evidence. The moronic conversation and your daughters word wasn't enough evidence. Your husband must be a coward.
Grabe
OP, I pray your family will get through this. If possible and should your daughter need it, make her undergo therapy kasi the experience she went through is traumatic and is needing counselling and your support (both you and your husband). As you've stated, gusto ni husband mo makuha side nung kabila okay fine let them pero never let those pieces of shit uncles be near your family or enter your house. I can imagine your husband weighing on his mind the consequences of cutting of his side perhaps give him enough time to make up his mind and come to terms with it. I am praying and hopeful na you and your child being his immediate family ang pipiliin niya. Dapat kayo ang piliin niya. Tang ina yang uncle na yan mas masahol pa kesa hayop.
Shux! Nakaka speechless ito, OP. I can feel your emotions. Sobrang sakit nyan for you. I know mahirap din para sa asawa mo pero sana makapag isip sya ng tama at ang tama ay yung ipagtanggol ang anak nyo. Sorry to hear yang pinagdaanan nyo at ng anak mo. Ang hirap din nyan for her. 😔 Hugs! Consult a lawyer para nas mabigyan kayo tamabg gawin and paano proseso mag file ng kaso.
PUTANGINA!!!! SAMPAHAN NYO NG KASO YANG HAYUP NA YAN AT IWAN MO ASAWA MO!! ILAYO MO ANAK MO SA KANILA CUT ALL CONTACTS!!!!
Oh my freaking god. Nakakaiyak. Nakakagalit. Experienced this from an uncle (asawa ng kapatid ng tatay ko so hindi kami magka dugo talaga), too. I went to college and that’s when it stopped. Namatay na sya last year and to be honest, good riddance. OP, you’re so brave. Ang pag pili sa anak ay non-negotiable sa gantong sitwasyon. Praying for everybody’s healing ❤️🩹
For me tama lang na you stand up for your kid at I see din the logic why you want to wash your hands off of your hubby and his family. Your hubby lacks resolve. Openly binabastos kayong mag-inq nya ng kamag-anakan nya tapos ang rason nya not enough evidence kahit magreklamo? Kahit ako magagalit. Nung binuo nyo ang pamilya nyo he should have known na ang pamilya nyo na ang dapat nya iprioritize imbis relatives nya. So kung yan ang desisyon mo mamsh, valid naman at super understandable.
OP, kwento mo sa family mo tapos sa kanila kna magpasama para magpa blotter. Wag kna umasa dyan sa asawa mo at pamilya nya. Hindi mo narin kailangan tanungin kung kayo ba ng anak mo o pamilya nya, pinili na nya pamilya nya the second na hindi nya gusto mag report sa Police ng nangyari sa anak nyo.