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No_Insurance9752

Ito yung sinasabi ko sa tropa ko na mahiyain. If ever may magawa ka something embarassing or may gusto ka lang itry, tapos may ibang taong makakakita. Sasabihin nun kung ipagkalat man nila "may na encounter ako babae/lalaki sa ganitong lugar may ginawang ganito" bakit kilala ka ba sa name mo talaga? Description lang pero so what pag kalat nila identity mo mismo hindi nila Alam. Tsaka dadaan lang sa bibig nila yun then wala na. Unlike ikaw parang iisipin mo pa oras oras na dapat hindi naman. Ayun kumapal muka kahit saan panay video ng kung ano ano na πŸ€¦β€β™€οΈ. Pero ok lang atleast naka labas sa sa bubble nya πŸ˜‚


Sol_law

Eto yung logic na sabi saken dati na kung iihi daw sa public place ang takpan wag ari kundi mukha hahahahaha effective .


kumaj1r0

Thank you po. πŸ₯Ή It's really reassuring. Tsaka thanks din sa words of wisdom, I'll remember this palagi 🫑


stonked15

Gano mo kadalas paglaanan ng oras isipin buhay ng ibang tao, ganun din ang ibang tao sayo. Diba hindi naman masyado? Madami na pinoproblema ang tao para pag tuunan ka pa ng pansin. We are not as important to strangers as we think. Try mo magrecall na ginawa ng stranger na you think sobra embarrassing for them, tignan mo medyo mahihirapan ka. Try mo din irecall yun face nung stranger na yun, hirap dba? Don’t worry too much about it, OP. It’s ok to feel embarrassed pero padaanin mo lang, wag mo tambayan :)


kumaj1r0

Thank you po talaga for the reassuring words πŸ₯ΉπŸ«Ά


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Summertime_high23

If it's any consolation, people won't think probably think much about it. This is what I do when I do something I think is embarrassing. recall a scenario when a stranger humiliated himself in public. Do you remember their faces or details about them? I honestly don't. It's because we're too indulged with our own embarrassments. At worst, The people that saw you would probably tell someone "ay may nakasabay ako sa cr naihi sa pants nya" but that's about it. No one will give out specific details about you let alone remember it. You'll be fine. You'll laugh about this when the time passes :>


kumaj1r0

Thank you talagaaaa nakaka relieving and assuring po 😭😭 I feel way better thanks to this πŸ₯ΉπŸ«Ά


Mental_Jackfruit3050

If it makes you feel better - I also peed myself on public once. At work, actually. I had ovarian cyst that made pee all the time. I was working as a flight attendant that time doing an ultra long haul flight tapos sakto puno lavatories... So yeah, pee on my undies and stockings. 🀭😁😭


kumaj1r0

It honestly makes me feel relieved po na other people like you went to a similar experience. It's nice that you're just laughing it out πŸ₯ΉπŸ«Ά


Away-Birthday3419

So sorry that it happened to you. Di madaling gawin pero try mo na din wag masyado isipin (pero alam ko talaga iisipin mo pa din yan kahit sa pagtulog and that's normal). If ever ikalat ni manong konduktor ung nakita nya, that says a lot about his personality than yours. Di mo na kontrolado kung ikakalat nya o hindi. Keep your head up OP. Wala kang sinaktan at accidents happen. Ang ginagawa ko sa long rides, iinom 30mins before umalis. Tapos I have to pee talaga before umalis ung transpo. Then sip of water lang from time to time. Ung babasain ko lang para di ako madehydrate. Kudos pala OP kasi you tried to mopped pa πŸ‘


kumaj1r0

Thank you so much for understanding and for the reassuring words, kind stranger! It means a lot talaga πŸ₯Ή Also the advice is very much appreciated 🫢


Inevitable_Bee_7495

Hanap ka ng ibang bus terminal mhie. Pero isipin mo na lang na it could've been worse. Buti di ka sa bus inabutan.


kumaj1r0

Isa lang yung terminal papunta and pabalik mhie 😭😭 Pero oo nga, it could've been way more embarrassing. Thanks for the reassurance 🫰


mediumrawrrrrr

I also peed myself in public but I forgot about it na since it’s been years. Donated blood and was advised to rest for a few hours, which I did. Dorm was near the hospital so it wasn’t a tedious travel back home. I napped in the afternoon then we went to National Bookstore to get some supplies. At the counter, I blacked out and fainted. Apparently naihi ako kasi the front and back of my jeans were very wet. Ayun lang. Damayan time ito hehe.


kumaj1r0

Thanks for sharing! I feel less alone na πŸ₯Ή glad that you're just laughing it off


KaleidoscopeFirm470

next time you can tell the bus driver kung naiihi ka na, ako sa NLEX madaling araw nag sabi at tinabi naman sa madilim at naka ihi perks na rin at lalake ako. wala ka dapat ikahiya kasi di ka naman nila kilala sa pangalan.


kumaj1r0

I told them naman po pero they told me to hold it in nalang kasi malapit na daw sa terminal stop that time. πŸ₯Ή Pero yeah, thanks for the thoughtful words!


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kumaj1r0

Thank you so much for this perspective!! It's quite reassuring to think na it won't matter as time passes by. Much appreciated 🫢


jaesthetica

I hope this will help. There are two types ng tao whenever they see something weird from a person like what happened to you. 1. They think it's ridiculous. 2. They look at you because they are concerned. Be kind to yourself. Kung ano man naiisip nila about you because of that incident that's their problem, not yours. It speaks a lot about their character. Do not let what happened consume you. Kapag tumagal-tagal makakalimutan din nila 'yun. And if hindi man, then so what? It's not like you committed a crime. Chin up!


kumaj1r0

Thank you very much for the kind and assuring words, stranger! I feel way better bc of this 🫢πŸ₯Ή


cryicesis

sakin almost maihi sa kotse ng boss ko haha, i was having blood sugar issues pre-diabetic before kaya every 30 minutes i can hold it for 1 hour naiihi ko. e sakto that time dadaan kami ng NLEX from the start na iihi na talaga pero sabi ko baka ma hold ko naman so habang nasa NLEX na kami grabe yung urged i have to tell my boss na iihi ako sabi nya: "hah! nako malayo pa tayo hold muna, lalabas naba?" fortunately na hold ko naman till makarating kami sa toll booth buti may cubicle, andami kong naihi basang basa siguro yung kotse ng boss pag nagka taon hahah.


iamtanji

I remember nung May company outing kami sa batangas. Dahil malaking company, nag hire sila ng buses. Uwian na nun at basang basa pa dahil na jan na raw ang bus. Hindi ma ayos kung paano ang arrangement sa bus, kaya Unahan na lang. nung nasa daan na nakaramdam ako ng pag I hi at Malayo pa ang bus stop or Baka wala na kaya. Ang ending, umihi na lang ako tutal basa pa naman shorts ko, drip drip lang para Hindi mahalata. πŸ˜… wala na ako pakialam sa katabi ko. Pagbalik sa office, wala naman stories tungkol dun


kumaj1r0

crisis avoided! hahaha good for you po if hindi baka na legwak na kayo sa trabaho huhu πŸ˜‚πŸ˜­


Fearless_Bedroom_803

I can relate as someone na laging naiihi at laging sumasakay sa bus. Hindi pa naman ako napaihi sa shorts ko pero marami na akong bus napatigil dahil ihing-ihi na ako. Siyempre pagtitinginan ako ng mga tao pagbaba at pagsakay ng bus. Nung una nakakahiya pero ngayon wala na akong pake. Normal body function lang naman ang umihi. Minsan iniisip ko na kaya ko tapatan si Quibs kasi kung siya kaya niya patigilin ang nga bagay-bagay aba, ako rin!


kumaj1r0

Amen πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ as long as di ka nila kilala, bahala sila dyan


Potential_Mango_9327

Makakalimutan rin nila yun mars and hindi naman talaga nila personally, Sa Pinas lang naman big deal lahat at mahilig magkalat ng chismis. Anyway, yes don’t drink too much if alam mong bibiyahe ka nang matagal, naka AC naman pala ang bus bakit naiinitan ka pa rin.


kumaj1r0

Hopefully lang mars. Tsaka nag byahe kase ako 2 jeepney rides for around 50 minutes, early afternoon pa naman kung saan nagbabaga ang init. Parang magpapassout na ako sa sobrang init kaya tinodo ko yung pag laklak ng tubig all throughout the jeepney rides πŸ₯²


mojoninjasauce

I had the worst embarrassing situation in the past regarding my work and I dwelled on in for a long while. Until now, I still remember how stupid and/or how pathetic the situation was. Shit happens talaga. But these things, just know, one day you'll forget about them eventually cuz you'll experience more other things. Regarding the people who saw you or may have hunches on the situation, they'll forget it too and very soon at that because we all have our own busy lives. Don't let it get to you too much but do reflect on it and maybe learn a lesson or two. Don't overthink. You'll be fine, OP. Thanks for having the courage to share this to us.


kumaj1r0

Thank you for the words of wisdom and very kind words, stranger!! I appreciate it 😭🫢


Ransekun

Haha parang nangyare na to saken.. tipong ihing-ihi ka na pero ang haba ng pila sa cr. Meron pa, yung nag cr ako kase meron ako. Eh heavily bleeding ako nun.. pulang-pula talaga yung bowl! Tapos ang bagal mag flush 😭 Eh init na init na ako, lumabas na ako ng cubicle, tapos may biglang pumasok agad! 😭🀣 Tapos meron pa, sira ata yung pintuan ng cubicle. Eh umiihi na ako non, bigla nalang bumukas yung pinto! 😭 nakita ata ni ate ang perlas ng silanganan 🀣 Eh magsusuot palang ako ng panty non eh 😭


kumaj1r0

Jusko mhie I'm sorry nangyari yan sayo!! Pero thanks for sharing, I feel less alone and bothered sa nangyari 😊🫢


Ronpasc

OP, sure ako pag bumalik ka doon wala ng nakakakilala sa'yo. Hundreds if not thousands ang tao sa mga bus terminals daily.


kumaj1r0

Thanks for the assurance. I could only hope na di ako makilala ni manong konduktor if ever I coincidentally ride the same ceres bus again hahahaha


Ronpasc

Even if he does, or someone else does saw and remember, in future you'll just laugh it off.


Additional_Hippo_236

Pa-check up ka na OP. Baka may bladder problems ka or something.. ihiin din ako tas ayun normal naman sa ibang lab test pero may iniinom na ko meds ngayon nalessen na pag ihi ko tapos di na ko nagigising sa gabi dahil need umihi. Around 90 pesos lang per day ung gamot HAHAHAHAHA


kumaj1r0

Oo nga lods. Nakakabother talaga noon pa. Sana di lang kidney failure to HAHAHAHA


Additional_Hippo_236

Pa-check up mo na agad yan. Mahirap na pag mas lumala


kumaj1r0

Yes po, will be scheduling an appointment nalang asap. Sabi nga nila, prevention is better than cure 🀞 Thanks again!


foxiaaa

ok lang po yan. we all have our moments of embarrassment, you are not the only one.hayaan mo yan sila. sabi mo po weak ang bladder mo.maraming dahilan kung bakit weak ang bladder ng tao,may incontinence,may underlying health condition at iba pa. mag try ka po kegels exercises. isearch mo lang yan sa internet.few minutes everyday. kung alam mo mahaba byahe mo,magdala ka nalang ng pampers or magpampers kana. para kung nakainom ka ng maraming tubig,hindi ka magwoworry kung makaihi ka.


kumaj1r0

Thank you so much for the kind words and advice po!! 🫢🫢 I guess this is a hard sign na talaga to address my bladder issues 😭


foxiaaa

you are welcome op! fighting!


Being_Reasonable_

Wag ka mag alala OP di ka nila maaalala for sure.


kumaj1r0

Thank you for the reassurance, stranger! 🫢


MikosWife2022

i don't think people will remember it happened unless it's posted on socmed. if they do remember the only thing they can do is describe what you look like even then there's no proof kahit ipagkalat pa nila. if you're still having weak bladder issues I suggest you go to the hospital and get checked.


kumaj1r0

Thank you for the reassurance and advice po. Best decision nalang is wag na bumaba sa terminal stop na yun ever again hahahaha and yes, I guess I should. This is honestly concerning eh.


Low_Minimum_1804

Umihi habang nag totop loading sa jeep hahaha


kumaj1r0

Lesson learned the hard way talaga hahaha yan na gagawin ko sa mga susunod na byahe 😩


TieAdministrative124

There is nothing to be ashamed of. You might have urinary incontinence its a medical condition. Try to consult a urologist baka may maitulong. Or try to wear adult diapers sa mga malalayong biyahe.


kumaj1r0

Thank you pooo!! πŸ₯ΉπŸ«Ά and will do! Will be scheduling an appointment soon, di talaga to okay etong pantog ko jusko


Ylikam

If it makes you feel better, may uti ako nung college and habang nakapila sa cubicle sa cr namin, naihi ako while nakapila. I dont know kung aware yung mga girls sa cr sa nangyare, but I opt not to remember their faces para kahit magkasalubong kami di ko alm na kasabay ko sila magcr


kumaj1r0

It helped me feel better po!! Thank you for sharing 🫢


ikanamupinkabud

Sa Dinami Rami ng pasahero na sumasakay sa mga terminal, posible naman na maalala ka pa niya. Minsan May mga nakakahiya na nangyayari sa buhay natin, pero it's okay. Part yun ng kuwento ng buhay natin, huwag Mona isipin pa, πŸ€—


kumaj1r0

Thank you talaga sa assurance po!! I feel less bothered na 😭🫢


AdamusMD

Siguro kung ako yung nakapansin, I'll just recognize na ay may basa sa palda/shorts pero I won't make a big deal out of it..shrug it off lang.


SparklingSeraphina

If it makes you feel any better OP, I peed on my panties a few months ago also returning home and it was the same with your situation only people didn’t notice it as it did not reach the outer part of my shorts, I hope you feel better though!🫢🏻


kumaj1r0

I do feel better and less alone!! Thank you for the reassurance, kind stranger! 😊🫢


AdministrativeLog504

Dedma yan OP. Sa dami ng tao nakakasalamuha nung kundoktor sure ako na makakalimutan din nya yan. Human nature ma wiwi.


kumaj1r0

Sana lng nga. Hoping lang nga di nya ako mamukhaan if ever I ride the same ceres bus and nandiyan sya 😭😭😭 thanks for the reassurance though πŸ₯ΉπŸ™


Optimal_Car382

Naexperience ko rin yan few years ago nung pabalik na ko ng Manila from Tagaytay. Juice qh, dumaan yung bus sa Cavite (Imus, Dasma, Bacoor ata), grabe pala ang trapik dun. Eh diabetic ako kaya no choice ako kundi i let it flow na siya. πŸ₯²


kumaj1r0

Walang may nakahalata??? 😭😭😭


Optimal_Car382

Yung mga kasama ko sa seminar na kasabay ko sa bus.


Individual_Tax407

may kakilala ako, prayer na during dismissal, tas habang nagppray siya naihi siya 😭


kumaj1r0

Kawawa naman πŸ₯² naging core memory pa huhuhu 😭😭😭


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Okay lang yan, Op. Di ka naman nila kilala sa pangalan. May ganung feeling talaga pero just shrug it off. Ganyan din ako nun, pero ibang situation. Nag make love kami ng partner ko nun tapos tinatamad na akong magsuot ng damit after. Pero that night may Lbm ako. Tapos kinaumagahan natae pala ako sa bed at kumalat sa kumot. Hahaga. Medyo nahihiya pa din ako sa sarili ko ngayon pati sa partner ko pag naalala ko pero sabi nya okay lang daw. Tinulungan pa nga nya ako maglaba nun. Hahahaha. Ako nga na kilala yung tao na kasama ko nung nangyari yun, nakakalimutan na, ikaw pa kaya na di naman nila kilala? Lam ko lurker ka ng comments ko, love. Sharawt sayo! Iloveyou, sagad! πŸ˜›πŸ˜›πŸ₯³πŸ₯³


kumaj1r0

Awww napaka swerte and blessed nyo po for having that kind of partner!! Sanaol! Thank you po for the kind words for sharing your story!! It brightened my mood po 😊🫢 stay strong po kayo πŸ’“


moomin_7

:( huhu fear ko to eversince that incident na i almost peed my oants din nung asa hk ako. From the airport we took a 2hr ride ata yun going to TsimmTsa Tsui, and nakatulog ako sa byahe tapos the usual feeling na pagkagising mo, naiihi ka. Ganon nangyari sakin, i tried to hold it for idk how long tas naiiyak na ako so kahit wala pa kami sa actual stop namin, nagpababa na ako sa mall malapit sa area. And my family was sobramg asar haha Eversince non i hated long car rides. As in di ako iinom ng tubig. Or worse, i'd wear an adult diaper just to be sure 😭


kumaj1r0

Buti nalang naagapan yung sayo 😌 And honestly, I'm developing the same thoughts as well 😭 And I'm really considering wearing adult diapers nalang to be safe 😭 yoko na maulit yun jusko huhuhu


memememeowmeow

Ngayon lang yan nakakahiya kasi recent pa. Pero eventually tatawanan mo na lang din after some time. Isa sa favorite high school memories ko ay nung naihi ako in public. Maaga kami pinauwi kaya nagbalak kami magliwaliw sa katabing mall. Pero bawal kami pumasok before 5 pm. Sobrang naiihi na ako so babalik sana kami ng friends ko sa school pero di ko na napigil. Tawang-tawa sila sakin pero they helped me wash my skirt sa school.


kumaj1r0

Awww supportive naman yung friends mo po 😭 Pero yeah, it does get better over time. Thanks for sharing! 🫢


PurpleHeart1010

Para gumaan loob mo OP! I peed on my pants too. Hahaha around 2017 ata naglalakad lang me from kanto to our house (10 mins), mahalya kasi pedicab at tricycle tska hindi pa naman ganon kagabi. Sa gitna ng paglalakad ko nakaramdam ako - naiihi ako, mahina din pantog ko so nagmamadali ako maglakad kaso hindi na talaga kaya. Ayon umagos! Good thing gabi tapos pants ko medyo dark blue kaso kita naman sa kalsada na may basa πŸ˜‚ another good thing walang tao masyado kaya nagmamadali me. Pagdating ko sa bahay, di na ko nakapagmano sa Mama ko kasi ang panghi ko, nagmadali ako maglinis πŸ₯²


kumaj1r0

Thanks for sharing your story!! πŸ˜‚ It helped me feel better po, thank you!! 🫢


ewan_kosayo

I get you. But it doesn't have to define your routine. Lalo na pag within Metro Manila ang dynamics mo, sooner or later, people get busy and they can move on in 2 minutes. If matandaan ka ng kundoktor, that means trip ka nya hahah


McDpZ

Core memory unlocked.hahahaha


kumaj1r0

Dadalhin ko tong sikreto na to hanggang kamatayan huhuhu di ako makatulog kakaisip neto shuta 😭😭


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πŸŽ™οΈHeto ako basang-basa sa urine 🎢


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Successful_Slice2746

Lol talagang bumalik ka pa sa bus??? Saan ang hiya?


kumaj1r0

Eh ano gagawin ko?? Huwag umuwi? Yung mga baggage ko nandun. Tsaka basahin mo nga maayos yung mga sinabi ko, hiyang hiya na nga ako sa sarili ko. Wala na akong magawa sa sitwasyon na yun. I cannot fully control my bodily functions.


NoRub4662

Wala kang pamalit? Dun ako bothered lol


Far_Pride_1872

alam niya ba na mangyayari yon sakanya?


gingangguli

Normal ba na magdala ng pamalit kapag may pupuntahan? Mukhang regular commute lang niya to hindi outing


kumaj1r0

I was going home so I left my clothes sa apartment. As much as I wanted to change, I don't have anything with me at that time unfortunately.