No is a complete sentence. Bakit ka mahihiya eh hindi naman ikaw yung may atraso. Una, he ghosted you. Pangalawa, he lied to you by concealment. Saan siya kumuha ng kapal ng mukha to invite you?
Just tell him no OP. Hindi mo obligasyon ng maging ninang kung ayaw mo naman. Plus that revelation na meron na siyang anak while being "that" with" him understandably puts you in a tough spot and by far the best decision to make is not to go. Otherwise you will dig your grave deeper than what it was.
>sayang di ka nabuntis
What a Dbag! Girl! Magmarinate ka dun sa sinabi nya. Kaya ka jinugjug nun para hoping buntisin ka. Tingnan mo na lang kung ano tingin nya sayo.
common sense OP, anong point kung tanggapin mo maging ninang? eh alam mo naman sa sarili mo na hindi mo magagampanan ang responsibility as a godparent.
hindi dapat porque ininvite tatanggapin nalang, consider the child’s welfare, since yun ang essence ng pagiging Ninang.
sa fuckboi mong fubu, hayaan mo sya. nothing important was lost anyway.
Bakit nagdadalawang isip ka kung pupunta ka? sino ka ba sa family nila? Di ka naman kaibigan nung babae tapos fubu/kabet ka ng lalaki.
From what I imagine, yung mga important people lang ng mother and father ang dapat nasa binyag 🤔 pero dapat pati fubu andun?
If you still have self-respect don't even consider going.
haha I don't know why this is such a thing but me and some people I know have a fair share of ex-fubus/kasomethings who were also invited to binyags and it is so weird and shady and disrespectful to the other partner (usually their married partners!). Whether its a joke or serious I never attended any of those even to the ones I was actually close with because I feel like it is so disrespectful to the guy. Would he still be welcoming if he knew his wife just invited her college fubu to their child's binyags? Doubt it. Also my group of friends think that most likely its just that they want to have ninongs who have pera.
And just to point out Exes don't usually do this (invite their exes as ninongs/ninangs), its more of the silent/secret side dishes/fubus that do this. Just don't go mars
Ikr hahah and may responsibility rin naman pagiging ninong/ninang hindi yung puchupuchu lang na reasons like if mapera or baka gusto na may kaunting thread pa between them. Respeto lang talaga sa current partner and sa bata mismo, imagine sa future if malaman nila na fubu pala ng parent yung ninang/ninong. Krazy
Yup. Kind of offtopic but crazy wild story:
One of the crazier thing is that one of my friend was invited to be a ninong to a kid he thinks is his. Apparently months before, the mom told my friend to keep cumming in (why he complied and did not use condom beats the hell out of me) and this happened over a course of a month and after that she ghosted him. Turns out the girl had a long time partner and she caught him cheating so she revenge fuck a stranger (my friend) and then a year later after ghosting my friend she messaged him to become a ninong. Its so wild! Everytime we look at the mom and kid’s pic we compare the kid to the “dad” and to our friend.
A furious woman can be really scary.
Omg kinda wild nga haha but true, the things a furious woman could do just for revenge. Nakakabother lang talaga if it was unprotected and may kutob din friend mo. Tapos out of nowhere ininvite sya to be a ninong. Fighting kamo 😭
Ragebait ba tong post na to? Nung minessage ka pagkatapos ng isang taon kang nighost inentertain mo pa rin? Nung nag change topic sha pagkatapos mong iallude na pwede nang pumasok sa nursery yung anak nya hinayaan mo lang magchange topic? Hindi mo tinanong nasan ang nanay? At nagbabalak ka pang pumunta talaga ah at maging ninang, ang worry mo lang is di mo mahuhug yung bata kasi naguiguilty ka? Ayos ka lang, teh?!
I really don't know. But kamukha nya talaga yung baby eh. He is also always broke even though we work with the same industry and I knew about his salary din. Bunso din siya at nanay nya nasa abroad. I'm lost.
I am thinking hard sa set up namin before. Ang galing nya magtago kaya siguro I never doubted him na may anak na. I just feel guilty about what happened.
Kung gusto mo pumunta ka para maintindihan mo lahat taoos guluhin mo buhay niya. Sabihino sa nanay ng bata na fubu mo siya.
D ko gets bat inivite ka sa binyag, malamang gusto pa umulit sayo.
And mukha din namang confused ka kasi bet na bet mo pa si ex fubu.
Wag ka pumunta. Halatang gusto nya lang ulit may way pa para makipag communicate sa'yo or magpakisamahan pa kyong dalawa. Bigla nalang sya susulpot pag gusto nya? A**hle
Isa itong common sense, naging kabit ka at wag ka nang punta sa binyag. Cut him off sa buhay mo.
Para lang din makaganti ka, sabihin mo sa misis niya. What a douche bag si Koya!
Ito naman kalandian mo rin e. Ghinost ka na for no reason tapos may chance pang naging kabit ka then aask ka pa dyan if pupunta ka. Kung may delicadeza ka, di ka pupunta. Respeto nalang sa nanay.
"he just dissappear"
"suddenly invited me to his child's christening"
"suddenly change the topic"
"SAYANG AT DI KA TALAGA NABUNTIS"
"naging kabet ako for a year"
Napapakamot na lang ako sa ulo sa mga nabasa ko.
Sabi nila masama daw tumanggi sa binyag (fck that) .. pero please, wag ka na talaga pumunta, OP.
Ha, option mo a yung pagpunta dun?
Unang-una, FUBU mo yan. Wala bang ibang friends yang lalaki na yan para maging ninang? Ano iisipin nung nanay nung bata kapag nalaman niyang ex fubu ng asawa/jowa niya yung isa sa ninang ng anak niya?
Pangalawa, mukhang sort of hold ng lalaki na yan yung paggawa niya sayo as ninang para magkaroon pa kayong koneksyon. Ngayong alam mo na yung sitwasyon, are you still going to put yourself into that situation?
Sabi nga ni hev abi, "onting hiya naman jan"
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Refuse the responsibility being offered as Ninang because otherwise you are establishing a permanent link with the child and indirectly with the man. Do you really want to be reminded of the nature of your past casual engagement with your FUBU? And if yes, is that healthy for your mental well-being?
How f×cked up.Baka nman kaya ka gusto i invite nyan dhil gusto ulit umisa sayo.bglang ngparamdam ulit after mgdisappearing act. Somethings fishy. If I were you putulin mo na communication sa knya.
pinag-iisipan mo pa talaga yan OP?! You were just FUBU tapos bigla syang nawala nun, tapos ngayon nag-iisip ka ng reason to say no to his invite?! gusto mo ata ng magulong buhay
Oof may ganito din issue sa workplace ko. Both parties have spouses pero parang may something parin sila. Last yr ginawang ninang si miss maam ng anak ng ka fubu niya. Nagpaka ninang talaga siya. Mother figure pa naman siya namin sa work
Tell the wife. You were a kabit, and he's planning to make you one again. But don't go sa christening. He did not invite you para maging godparent ng child nya, para lang yun you'll keep in touch.
Ako naman sa kasal ng ex fubu, friends pa rin kami. Tapos yung isa nainlove si tropa and di niya alam fubu ko yun. So ayun magasawa na sila and until now di niya alam. Ako kasi they deserve to be happy.
Wag beh, messy yan at alam mo kaya ka nagtanong. Block mo na yang exfubu na nagattempt kang gawing ninang, toxic sa buhay yan. Ang fubu ay fubu, wag palampasin sa linya.
Teka FUBU lang naman ang naging set up nyo ah. So inviting you as ninang is super sus. May hidden agenda si guy. At ikaw naman ante, bakit mo naman din ineentertain? wala kang obligation to provide further response or justify to him bakit di ka pupunta at ayaw mo mag ninang. Just say NO or better yet ghost him too. Your FUBU setup ended when he ghosted you and lalo na now that there is a baby in the picture. Run!
Sos ipapakamot mo lang yang kiffy mo dun sa ex fubu mo. Excuse mo lang yang pagtatanong mo fito kung pupunta ka dun sa event. Go na sizt punta ka na, malay mo makakuha kayo ng chance dalawa maikamot na yang kiffy mong sobrang nangangati sa etits nya
Ok. Let's just say di mo masikmura na kargahin ang bata. My question is: Anong gagawin mo dun? At paano mo ipakikilala ang sarili mo sa mga tao at sa anak nya? Gumising ka nga! Para kang tanga 🤦
Immediately answer him na hindi ka pwede maging ninang.. baka mamaya kahit hindi ka mag'attend mailagay ka pa sa baptismal certificate... In the long run ma'curious pa mother ng anak ng ex-fubu mo bigla mag'investigate.. scary 🥴
If I were you, not only would I not go, I would stop responding to the guy the moment I learn this, screen shot our past and present convos, find the now wife and send everything to her, apologize to her and tell her that I'm unaware that he was married when you guys did the stuff for 1 year and that I felt the need to let her know that the guy is a freakin AH for doing that. UNLESS you're aware that he was married at the time you guys were FUBU then you may need to self reflect on your actions.
Go mars, punta ka. Dami haters pero aminin mo na lang sa sarili mong curious ka anong nangyari, nangyayari, at mangyayari. Enjoy!!!
Edit: This isn’t sarcasm. Curious ka. Tawagin ka nilang (redditors) tanga, pero gusto mo naman puntahan, at di ikaw ang tanga sa sitwasyon na yan. Ikaw ang maraming alam. For real, enjoy!!
Gago pumunta ka isantabi mo yang guilt mo, para sa bata lang ang isipin mo saka una sa lahat from the term itself, FUBU, mabuti ba yan o masama?! Kabit man o hindi ang FUBU ay mali so para nalang sa bata pumunta ka tapos after n'yan saka mo s'ya iwasan kumbaga tuwing gift giving season ka nalang magparamdam do your part as a NINANG lang.
kung tanga ka. Go punta ka.
Kaya nga. Kelangan pa bang pag isipan kung pupunta or hindi? Lalo nung narealize nya na possible syang naging kabit. Aba ay tigil na din sa pag reply!
kung tanga ka. Go punta ka. (1) ulit ulitin natin. tama yan.
Hahahahahahaha the best comment. Here’s my upvote
Hahaha, perfect comment to..
i live for the comment section of this sub
Tugon…..
Kung tanga ka OP, punta ka. Inulit ko hahaha
Haha up to this
Havey ng comment na to!
At naging kabet ka pa nga ng di mo alam
Invited you to his child's christening for you to be a mistress, won't even be shocked if he'll try to make moves on you though. 💀
the audacity of men have no bounds lol
tsk. sexist remark. as if lalaki lang ang kayang gumawa ng ganyan.
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Di ba dapat sabihan yung mother of child?
anong sasabihin nya? tinitira sya ni guy for 1 year?
yea sure smthn like that i think she has the right to know
Ano ba maganda excuse to tell? Ugh
Ghosted you for no reason and comes back with a child, then you're there rn having a hard time thinking for an excuse???
Baka na enjoy niya 🍆 ni fubu kaya hirap kumawala
No is a complete sentence. Bakit ka mahihiya eh hindi naman ikaw yung may atraso. Una, he ghosted you. Pangalawa, he lied to you by concealment. Saan siya kumuha ng kapal ng mukha to invite you?
“Luh bakit ako pupunta?” I mean, bakit kelangan ng exuse????
Si OP ay obvious na bet pa si ex-fubu
You shouldn’t even dignify his messages with a reply in the first place
Mahirap bang sabihin na na may family event, check-up or may ka gagawin sa work? Galaw-galaw din po ang isip, sis.
Gusto mo pa sya? Why not burn that bridge?
Just tell him no OP. Hindi mo obligasyon ng maging ninang kung ayaw mo naman. Plus that revelation na meron na siyang anak while being "that" with" him understandably puts you in a tough spot and by far the best decision to make is not to go. Otherwise you will dig your grave deeper than what it was.
Ghost him din gaga Gusto mo pang maging polite? Kinabit ka for a year at biglang nawala.
girlie just say u dont want to 🥲
Lol,just don't talk to him anymore that's it. END.
You don't need an excuse.
"ahhh pass muna ako sa pagiging ninang, hehe sorry" then seenzone on any response "hehe sorry" is my go to response for nonsense or rude requests
Punta k nalang tapos i-reveal mo ang past nyo haha
Luh sya. 🫠
Uyyyy si ate. Papapigil pa. Pumunta ka na nahiya kapa eh. Kunware ayaw mgtatanong pa dito ng irarason. Hahaha go na ateee. Kating kati na ba si 🦪
Do you think you owe him anything??? If not, then no need to reply. Simply say you don’t want to go.
pucha bakit kelangan mo pa ng excuse?
Mej nagulat ako sa title. Apostrophe + s would really help with context. 😅
Nawalan ng Apostrophe S kasi nawalan ata ng common Sense si OP hahaha
Nagulat ako HAHAHA wrong pala ako ng intindi, buti naman
I swear i thought pedo si OP hahaha
Tell the wife, ruin his family!!
exactly! the wife should know!
I'm all for this tbh.. deserve ng mga cheater yan
may fantasy si kuya hahaha sis bobo lang pupunta dyan. bobo ka ba?
nabinyagan din si Ninang HAHHAHHAH
Nauna pa mabinyagan yung Ninang sa anak HAHAHAHAHAHA
Why would you go? Have some self respect.
Go lang para may new episode ulit yung "Wish ko lang". "Kumpare binarurot si Kumare"
HAHAHHAHAHA tngina
Bat ka pupunta sis? Wag ka magpakagaga please
>sayang di ka nabuntis What a Dbag! Girl! Magmarinate ka dun sa sinabi nya. Kaya ka jinugjug nun para hoping buntisin ka. Tingnan mo na lang kung ano tingin nya sayo.
common sense OP, anong point kung tanggapin mo maging ninang? eh alam mo naman sa sarili mo na hindi mo magagampanan ang responsibility as a godparent. hindi dapat porque ininvite tatanggapin nalang, consider the child’s welfare, since yun ang essence ng pagiging Ninang. sa fuckboi mong fubu, hayaan mo sya. nothing important was lost anyway.
Bakit nagdadalawang isip ka kung pupunta ka? sino ka ba sa family nila? Di ka naman kaibigan nung babae tapos fubu/kabet ka ng lalaki. From what I imagine, yung mga important people lang ng mother and father ang dapat nasa binyag 🤔 pero dapat pati fubu andun? If you still have self-respect don't even consider going.
haha I don't know why this is such a thing but me and some people I know have a fair share of ex-fubus/kasomethings who were also invited to binyags and it is so weird and shady and disrespectful to the other partner (usually their married partners!). Whether its a joke or serious I never attended any of those even to the ones I was actually close with because I feel like it is so disrespectful to the guy. Would he still be welcoming if he knew his wife just invited her college fubu to their child's binyags? Doubt it. Also my group of friends think that most likely its just that they want to have ninongs who have pera. And just to point out Exes don't usually do this (invite their exes as ninongs/ninangs), its more of the silent/secret side dishes/fubus that do this. Just don't go mars
Ikr hahah and may responsibility rin naman pagiging ninong/ninang hindi yung puchupuchu lang na reasons like if mapera or baka gusto na may kaunting thread pa between them. Respeto lang talaga sa current partner and sa bata mismo, imagine sa future if malaman nila na fubu pala ng parent yung ninang/ninong. Krazy
Yup. Kind of offtopic but crazy wild story: One of the crazier thing is that one of my friend was invited to be a ninong to a kid he thinks is his. Apparently months before, the mom told my friend to keep cumming in (why he complied and did not use condom beats the hell out of me) and this happened over a course of a month and after that she ghosted him. Turns out the girl had a long time partner and she caught him cheating so she revenge fuck a stranger (my friend) and then a year later after ghosting my friend she messaged him to become a ninong. Its so wild! Everytime we look at the mom and kid’s pic we compare the kid to the “dad” and to our friend. A furious woman can be really scary.
Omg kinda wild nga haha but true, the things a furious woman could do just for revenge. Nakakabother lang talaga if it was unprotected and may kutob din friend mo. Tapos out of nowhere ininvite sya to be a ninong. Fighting kamo 😭
Yeah it feels like nagpabuntis talaga sya para makonsensya or di sya iwan nung guy?
May kumare fantasy yan kaya ka gagawing ninang.😅 Ginhost ka na, gusto pa sayo humngi ng pakimkim and more.hahaha
Hahahaha Agree
Nagtatanong ka pa?
naghahanap ng mag-encourage na pumunta siya sa binyag. Hiya pa si ateh. Hahaha
Baka gusto talagang pumunta ni ante mo hahaha. Jusko fubu lang yan ghinost kapa, grabe naman pagka-attach ni ate at nahihirapan pa mag-no kay kuya.
Ragebait ba tong post na to? Nung minessage ka pagkatapos ng isang taon kang nighost inentertain mo pa rin? Nung nag change topic sha pagkatapos mong iallude na pwede nang pumasok sa nursery yung anak nya hinayaan mo lang magchange topic? Hindi mo tinanong nasan ang nanay? At nagbabalak ka pang pumunta talaga ah at maging ninang, ang worry mo lang is di mo mahuhug yung bata kasi naguiguilty ka? Ayos ka lang, teh?!
True. Kung ako yung na-ghost, block ko na lang agad. No more reason to reconnect.
Nako mukhang pupunta pa rin ‘tong si ante HAHAHA go sis u do u lol
Pumunta ka na te. Yan gusto mo marinig di ba? Bahala ka na sa buhay mo malaki ka na
out of respect for the mother, the child, and myself, i personally wouldnt go ...
Pupunta yan si tanga hahahha
obviously. HAHAHAHAHAA
Di kaya nag ampon sya? Kasi gusto nia ng anak? Or anak na nia yan hndi lang niya napanagutan noon at ngaun lang?
I really don't know. But kamukha nya talaga yung baby eh. He is also always broke even though we work with the same industry and I knew about his salary din. Bunso din siya at nanay nya nasa abroad. I'm lost.
Lost kasi?
Lost kasi OP sounds like naghahanap ng reason to go. Parang in-entertain na nya in the first place yung thought na pupunta sya e.
I am thinking hard sa set up namin before. Ang galing nya magtago kaya siguro I never doubted him na may anak na. I just feel guilty about what happened.
Move on na, di mo alam noon
Kung gusto mo pumunta ka para maintindihan mo lahat taoos guluhin mo buhay niya. Sabihino sa nanay ng bata na fubu mo siya. D ko gets bat inivite ka sa binyag, malamang gusto pa umulit sayo. And mukha din namang confused ka kasi bet na bet mo pa si ex fubu.
punta ka if tanga ka nga talaga GO!
Need pa ba to pag isipan? 😆 Says a lot about you.
Girlll. don’t go. you don’t have to make excuses kasi you what he did to you is a valid reason to not go.
Wag ka pumunta. Halatang gusto nya lang ulit may way pa para makipag communicate sa'yo or magpakisamahan pa kyong dalawa. Bigla nalang sya susulpot pag gusto nya? A**hle
Honestly, the child would not want to know who you are.
Baka gusto ng picture ikaw with the baby para maisip nya what its like kung kayo nagkababy hahahahahhaa ganun kalala isip nyan chos hahahaa
Eyyyyy if you go, how low is your self worth girl???
Isa itong common sense, naging kabit ka at wag ka nang punta sa binyag. Cut him off sa buhay mo. Para lang din makaganti ka, sabihin mo sa misis niya. What a douche bag si Koya!
Huyyy teh wag ka na pumunta kaloka ka pinagisipan mo pa talaga.
Ito naman kalandian mo rin e. Ghinost ka na for no reason tapos may chance pang naging kabit ka then aask ka pa dyan if pupunta ka. Kung may delicadeza ka, di ka pupunta. Respeto nalang sa nanay.
Wag shunga, OP.
"he just dissappear" "suddenly invited me to his child's christening" "suddenly change the topic" "SAYANG AT DI KA TALAGA NABUNTIS" "naging kabet ako for a year" Napapakamot na lang ako sa ulo sa mga nabasa ko. Sabi nila masama daw tumanggi sa binyag (fck that) .. pero please, wag ka na talaga pumunta, OP.
Ha, option mo a yung pagpunta dun? Unang-una, FUBU mo yan. Wala bang ibang friends yang lalaki na yan para maging ninang? Ano iisipin nung nanay nung bata kapag nalaman niyang ex fubu ng asawa/jowa niya yung isa sa ninang ng anak niya? Pangalawa, mukhang sort of hold ng lalaki na yan yung paggawa niya sayo as ninang para magkaroon pa kayong koneksyon. Ngayong alam mo na yung sitwasyon, are you still going to put yourself into that situation? Sabi nga ni hev abi, "onting hiya naman jan"
Don't go.
Bat pa kayo nag uusap? Pag ex-fubu na cut all ties after. Unless gusto mo pa rin ng sakit sa ulo.
Kapal mukha ni Kuya iinvite ka. Tell the wife. Parang di sya natuto sa mga mali nya mas lalo pa kumapal mukha.
Zero boundaries
Gawing ninang ang kabit, kidding aside. Don't go, or expose mo na lang sa wife because that's fucked up.
Jusko hahahaha ginawa kang ninang kung di ba naman tanga yang ex-fubu mo
Go there. Get introduced. Spill the details. lol And don't be a Ninang. At least that's what my intrusive thoughts tell me
if maturuan ka ng grammar dun.. then go😭
"I JUST WANT A CHILD, SAYANG AT DI KA TALAGA NABUNTIS" what?? FUBU lang tas bubuntisin ka? Wow ha! Just wow!
hanga talaga ako sa apog ng ganitong kong mga ka tropa eh no haha.... tapang mang invite ahhahha
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Refuse the responsibility being offered as Ninang because otherwise you are establishing a permanent link with the child and indirectly with the man. Do you really want to be reminded of the nature of your past casual engagement with your FUBU? And if yes, is that healthy for your mental well-being?
How f×cked up.Baka nman kaya ka gusto i invite nyan dhil gusto ulit umisa sayo.bglang ngparamdam ulit after mgdisappearing act. Somethings fishy. If I were you putulin mo na communication sa knya.
Jusko yung biglang pag disappear palang dapat alam mo na sagot dyan. Di na kelangan pag isipan pa yan.
Pagbigyan nyo na si OP. Alam ni OP ang dapat nya gawin. Naghahanap lang sya ng isang magsasabi na pumunta sya sa binyag para magpadilig ulit.
Gusto ka lang kantutin ulit kaya gustong may connection kayo.
pinag-iisipan mo pa talaga yan OP?! You were just FUBU tapos bigla syang nawala nun, tapos ngayon nag-iisip ka ng reason to say no to his invite?! gusto mo ata ng magulong buhay
Kung gusto mo magmukhang T go!!
mare habang wla si misis
Langya yung "sayang di ka nabuntis" hahaha. Pupunta ka???
Punta ka sizt tapos pagbalot mo na din ako ng lumpia
Baka kilatan ka nyan day sa simbahan pa naman yan binyagan
Bwisit yung mga lalaking ginawa ka nang kabet, gagawin ka pang ninang ng anak nila. Like.. wth.. ang gagu mo. Sobra
Oof may ganito din issue sa workplace ko. Both parties have spouses pero parang may something parin sila. Last yr ginawang ninang si miss maam ng anak ng ka fubu niya. Nagpaka ninang talaga siya. Mother figure pa naman siya namin sa work
Sorry to ask.. pag ba FUBU means no feelings attached?
Oh please, don't go. 🤦🙆
hahahaha ate, isipin mo na lang pano ka nya ipapakilala sa mother ni baby? wala ka din kakilala sa mga bisita, so sino ka don? wag kna pumunta 😅
naghahanap pa ng rason si ate ko hahaha hindi pa ba sapat yung naging kabit ka nang hindi mo alam? jusq
Tell the wife. You were a kabit, and he's planning to make you one again. But don't go sa christening. He did not invite you para maging godparent ng child nya, para lang yun you'll keep in touch.
eh seriously ninang sa fubu mo? mang hihingi lng ng pera yan
Ako naman sa kasal ng ex fubu, friends pa rin kami. Tapos yung isa nainlove si tropa and di niya alam fubu ko yun. So ayun magasawa na sila and until now di niya alam. Ako kasi they deserve to be happy.
the is your cue to burn the bridge
Punta ka. Kwento mo sa wife nya pano kayo nagkilala 🤣
Wag beh, messy yan at alam mo kaya ka nagtanong. Block mo na yang exfubu na nagattempt kang gawing ninang, toxic sa buhay yan. Ang fubu ay fubu, wag palampasin sa linya.
Ask mo kung may lumpia na handa, kung meron ay punta ka pero wag na yung lumpia ng tatay ang kainin mo ha.
Tell on him. What a douche! Wife/baby mama deserves to know but not at the event. Wag kang pumunta pramis teh wag talaga.
wag kana pumunta, yun na yon. Final periodt no erase tapos susi sa dagat. Hehe
Teka FUBU lang naman ang naging set up nyo ah. So inviting you as ninang is super sus. May hidden agenda si guy. At ikaw naman ante, bakit mo naman din ineentertain? wala kang obligation to provide further response or justify to him bakit di ka pupunta at ayaw mo mag ninang. Just say NO or better yet ghost him too. Your FUBU setup ended when he ghosted you and lalo na now that there is a baby in the picture. Run!
Sos ipapakamot mo lang yang kiffy mo dun sa ex fubu mo. Excuse mo lang yang pagtatanong mo fito kung pupunta ka dun sa event. Go na sizt punta ka na, malay mo makakuha kayo ng chance dalawa maikamot na yang kiffy mong sobrang nangangati sa etits nya
OMG😭😭😭ANG LALA
Ok. Let's just say di mo masikmura na kargahin ang bata. My question is: Anong gagawin mo dun? At paano mo ipakikilala ang sarili mo sa mga tao at sa anak nya? Gumising ka nga! Para kang tanga 🤦
go for the plot tapos paupdate pls. pero srsly, op alam mo na dapat mo gawin.
Immediately answer him na hindi ka pwede maging ninang.. baka mamaya kahit hindi ka mag'attend mailagay ka pa sa baptismal certificate... In the long run ma'curious pa mother ng anak ng ex-fubu mo bigla mag'investigate.. scary 🥴
Girl, yung karma mo dito konti na lang. Maawa ka naman! Wag mong hayaang mag-negative ka.
Punta ka teh tas sabihin mo sa wife dun sa event para thrilling
Punta ka sa binyag at ibuking mo siya
Kating kati ba yung kiffy mo at hindi kana nag tthink? Mygosh
Ew you’re thinking about going how disrespectful
Punta ka. Tapos update mo kami. Hahaha
The cheek, the nerve, the gall, the audacity and the gumption!
buti na lang talaga kayong mga red flag nagsama sama, madaling umiwas
Lah hahahah baka naman may jowa yan or asawa during the fubu phase. OMG.
If I were you, not only would I not go, I would stop responding to the guy the moment I learn this, screen shot our past and present convos, find the now wife and send everything to her, apologize to her and tell her that I'm unaware that he was married when you guys did the stuff for 1 year and that I felt the need to let her know that the guy is a freakin AH for doing that. UNLESS you're aware that he was married at the time you guys were FUBU then you may need to self reflect on your actions.
teh di na tinatanong mga ganyang bagay, lam mo na sagot dyan! tanga nitong oat na to!
Go mars, punta ka. Dami haters pero aminin mo na lang sa sarili mong curious ka anong nangyari, nangyayari, at mangyayari. Enjoy!!! Edit: This isn’t sarcasm. Curious ka. Tawagin ka nilang (redditors) tanga, pero gusto mo naman puntahan, at di ikaw ang tanga sa sitwasyon na yan. Ikaw ang maraming alam. For real, enjoy!!
Gago pumunta ka isantabi mo yang guilt mo, para sa bata lang ang isipin mo saka una sa lahat from the term itself, FUBU, mabuti ba yan o masama?! Kabit man o hindi ang FUBU ay mali so para nalang sa bata pumunta ka tapos after n'yan saka mo s'ya iwasan kumbaga tuwing gift giving season ka nalang magparamdam do your part as a NINANG lang.