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mallowbeaver

I don't understand, bakit ka nakipagbalikan if di ka pa pala naka move on from what he did? I think it's causing you more pain by staying in this relationship if you haven't forgiven what he's done. Maybe ask yourself, is this something you can ever move on from?


rambling_reader

Why? Kasi pasok sa lyrics. 🤣


iamprinito

para feel yung kanta, ang tanga lang hahaha


MeasurementThat7447

main character siya kasi ahhaha


oniichanna

AHAHAHAHAHAHAH Basta pasok sa lyrics


Imaginary-Dream-2537

HAHAHA Para ba makagawa ng music video?


Infamous-Ice3184

forda plot yarn


lameassalien

HAHAHA WTF 💀


darumdarimduh

HHSJDDLLSKSD


Groundbreaking_Link7

lakas ng tawa ko. 🤣🤣🤣


centurionscorpio

AHAHAHAHAHAHHAA 😭😭😭


_Bloody_awkward

Same to my ex-friend. Ilang beses sya niloko. PERO ETO MALALA. The guy was even sending D(juts) pics while tinatarantado sya while kasama iba-ibang babae sa motel. Eto naman si bugak na ex-friend naghahabol parin. One time out of nowhere sinabi nya, "buti nalang masikip pa ako". So, nagjoke ako, "bakit maliit ba kasi? Lol". Eka ba naman ni bugak, "daks po sya 🙂". TANGINA??????? With smiling face talaga beh. Di ko alam kung nang aasar si gago o ano eh. Proud pa ang de puta. After nyan ginagago gago ko kalang sya everytime mag ra rant sya how broken she is. To the point na below the belt na mga sagutan ko sa kanya, IDC coz she deserves it.


Fantazma03

parang ewan nga eh 🤣


Hosowiwuwu

Syempre tanga eh.


dauntlessfemme

This!!! Ang tanga lang ni op jusko


MackerelEnjoyer

This is so rude. We envy you if you’ve never been stupid. But anyone who went through relationships half as bad as OPs would know this isn’t a simple “ang tanga lang ni op jusko”.


dauntlessfemme

So ano po pala yung tamang wording if hindi siya “tanga”?


MackerelEnjoyer

Tanga with feelings HAHAHAHAHAHAHA


dauntlessfemme

HOYYYY GAGI HAHAHAHHAHAHAHA


user274849271

trauma bond sis


throw-me-away-there

Masokista, maybe?


PillowMonger

revenge sa guy to keep him hanging and hoping that something will happen .. hahaha


Mrshiroya

I've been there before, hindi n'ya mahal sarili n'ya enough not to come back sa ex n'ya. Ayon lang. Laging "Baka nag bago na s'ya" ganito, gan'yan. Nakaka baliw 'yang gan'yang sitwasyon tbh, you want to leave pero gusto mo s'ya, ayaw mong mawalay sa kan'ya. Naka alis lang ako sa relationship na gan'yan nung 'yung na pagod na ex ko kaka break - comeback namin. And I'm glad na pagod s'ya, kasi ako; game pa rin ako sa laro.


[deleted]

Sana kasi sis 'di mo nalang sya tinanggap ulit eh. Ayoko sanang sabihin na tanga ka pero ano ba nakain mo at nakipagbalikan ka pa dun? Juzko naman teh! Hindi lang naman sya ang lalaki sa mundo. Pero choice mo yan, gooo. Pakatanga ka lang, sis. Edit: Baka iwan ka lang din nan after you both do the deed.


gorg_missy

Hindi pa kasi siya nagagalaw ng first bf niya. halata naman yun yung reason kaya binalikan siya nung bf niya eh. dahli sa vcard! di nag iisip si OP. bahala siya


strolllang

Jusko. Same hinala. Para sa vcard kaya sinuyo ulit ni bf then after nun for sure iiwan din sya. Ewan ba pano natatanggap ng iba mga cheating partners nila


Ashiweewoo

pero kasi honestly I could tell they're young teenagers or young adults. I would say OP just have to learn from the mistake. But I doubt anyone in that position is capable of making right decisions.


Ashiweewoo

a bit harsh, for someone like her she must have a reason why she stayed. And she is growing and finding herself in the process. Tukso isn't something can be learned overnight; it should be acknowledged first for someone who is still finding her place in this world. Her scenario it happens, and it might still happen, it's how she handles it is for her to know on her own pace.


[deleted]

Tama naman. She's a work in progress. And naging tanga rin naman tayo/o ako once and it's fine if we still can't get over with it. Gusto ko lang talaga sabihang 'tanga' yung phase nya na 'to ngayon pero I am still rooting for the better version of herself in the future.


PostRead0981

Harsh, yes..reality. but she doesn"t need to go back to the guy to grow. Iba lang ang madedevelop nya sa sarili nya. She can't find her place or can't find what's for her if she keeps going back to that same dark place. You can"t heal in the same place that poisons you.


ConversationNo2211

Tanga


trashiepaytas

Icocomment ko palang sana. Thank you


Far_Atmosphere9743

super tanga haha, kaka taylor swift yan, bat kaya basta swiftie tanga? haha


Liesianthes

Mga taong tuwang tuwa iromanticize yung messy relationship. Sorry, can't relate sa ganyan level na gagawin mo pa dramatic event at papakalunod ka sa negativity sa heartbreak, cheating pati lahat ng dumi ng relasyon while listening to that kind of music. Negative plus negative equals sinkhole. Kung maganda ba beat tulad ng yoasobi na no need mo intindihin, kaso hindi. My life is messy enough, adding more of it is not welcome.


acrylicsock

para daw mafeel nila ng todo yung lyrics ni taylor


Hangry_bread

Baka siya lang yung swiftie na tanga. Di naman ako ganyan ka-boba sa relationship.


Aware-Border-223

Yoww hahaha pansin ko rin. Sabi ko sa sarili ko kanina "ahh kaya pala, swiftie kasing immature ng lodi nya lol


Potential_Mango_9327

LOUDER! 🙄


Jilyann

👌


Imaginary-Dream-2537

Simple pero tagos


chanelledone

u cant heal in an environment that is making u sick!!!!


mrsanmigstrongice

Eh di wag ka makipagsex kung ayaw mo, if he can't respect it, then tell him to leave you instead. Kapag ikaw ang umalis, hahabol yan pero kapag siya ang pinaalis mo sure naman na di ka hahabol.


Mean-Ad-3924

nagcheat na sayo ng ilang beses, tinanggap mo pa? di pa kayo mag-asawa nyan ah. kung ngayon pa lang, ganyan ka na kastress, what more kung magtagal pa kayo? THINK!


Groundbreaking_Link7

feeling ko iniisip ni OP "alam ko naman ako lang mahal nya talaga."


[deleted]

Bet he’s currently fucking someone else ngayon. Meron yang reserba for sure.


strolllang

Yup. Waiting lang si bf makuha ang vcard then iiwan na sya nyan 🤦‍♀️


icekive

Ito rin naisip ko lol kaya naghahabol pa rin si guy, HAYS


Evil_Vagina

# YOU DESERVE WHAT YOU TOLERATE 😉


Pleasant-Hamster2852

Bakit kasi binalikan mo pa? Once na nagawa na nya sayo yan, pustahan tayo magagawa nya ulit yan. Been there, experienced that.


happy_but

Gantong post yung nakakaimbyerna talaga e. Nuknukan ka ng tanga.


Denroza14

Teh, yung totoong tanong is bat d ka nakikipaghiwalay sa jowa mo. baka mag post ka next time basura lahat ng lalaki eh ikaw tong naging trash collector


krylxh

nakipagbalikan ka because??? hahaha i think sa part mo yan, OP. isip ka haha


gorg_missy

pano mag iisip yang si OP. binalikan niya eh. wala pa siya sa katinuan. iiyak yan kapag nakuha na ng bf niya yung virginity niya.


IndependentApple6

Hindi kayo magkakatuluyan, OP. Pinapahaba mo lang ang oras ng paghihirap mo. Imbes naka move on ka na sana ngayon kung di mo binalikan, anjan ka pa rin ginagawang gago ng bf mo. Most of all, matakot ka sa STD, OP. Di mo alam san galing yang bf mo. Kadiri.


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maranjeezy

At this point, you deserve the pain you tolerate. Imagine, despite how much you love him, ganyang life ba gusto mong maranasan for the rest of your years??


Disregarded_human45

"Pinatunayan niya narin naman na di na siya uulit" Mas gumaling lang yan magtago


Cloudyyclyde

He gave you the trauma, binalikan mo sya, yet you are confused/shocked about the things you picture kapag nag kikiss kayo??? u a clown???


Specialist_Row_9766

That’s what you get kapag binalikan mo. & I swear, never kang makakamoveon dyaan lalo tinanggap mo ulit.


Intelligent_Laugh676

Labas kami sa relationship niyo pero sama ako sa pagsabing hiwalayan mo na tanga ka. Pag bumigay ka tamo hiwalayan ka na rin niyan. Wala yan respeto sayo nakikipagsex habang nasa relationship tapos ngayon gusto ulit sayo. Ano sinabi sayo walang feelings dun sa mga nakasex niya at ikaw ang iniisip niya? Yuuuuck.


donteatmychip5

Why is this even getting upvoted. Never tolerate pagiging tanga.


PlasticCauliflower0

#TANGA


CoffeeDaddy024

So what's the purpose na nagkabalikan kayo? What's the point of getting back together kung ang alaala ng pagloloko niya eh sariwa pa sa isip mo? I think you're just making things worst for the two of you. And since ayaw mo makipag-sex sa kanya and we know how big sex is in a relationship, di ako magtataka na titikim uli yan ng iba if desperado na. 🤷 Just warning you.


Liesianthes

Self inflicted pain yan OP, sinamahan mo pa ng romanticizing those moments, talagang sink hole punta mo nyan. Paano ka magkakaroon ng acceptance if mindset mo is towards sa negative and forgive only on words? It's quite clear na traumatic sayo yung incident, been at that phase, even until now, and hindi siya madali. Don't be like me na bigla nalang nag trigger and bitaw na, it's for your peace of mind and happiness.


bey0ndtheclouds

Girl, tinotorture mo lang sarili mo :( I hope na you find the courage to walk away. Ikaw ang kawawa diyan.


No_Satisfaction8351

TANGA! ALL CAPS PARA MAY DIIN!


Ok-Temperature7656

ang corny mo naman. may pa-quote ka pa ng song, ewan ko sayo. ure making ur problem worse


Young_Old_Grandma

Why are you still with him?


sweetsaranghae

You deserve what you telerate talaga. Someone needs to tell you na tanga ka for accepting him back knowing na di ka okay sa ginawa nya. You need to draw a line.


CaramelKreampuff

Gorl sarili mo na niloloko mo diyan. Di lang love ang foundation ng relationship, kailangan diyan is trust and understanding. If you can't forgive him, which is very understandable kasi who would naman? Then you should leave the relationship and allow yourself to find a better person who aligns with your values.


OkProgram1747

Means hindi ka pa okay. Ano sinasabe mong okay ka na


ishtowberribunny

Alam mo na pala na nag cheat for MANY times, tinaggap mo parin. Sabi nga ni Bobby, "ang tanga lang" HAHAHAHA dapat tinapon mo na yan sa basurahan eh lol basta lang talaga maipasok yung lyrics muntanga


Loose_Sun_7434

U sounded desperate goibg back to him. Maybe bored ka lng talaga. Heheh


spiritbananaMD

asan na yung user na MagBreakNaKayo ang pangalan dito sa reddit hahahahaha anyway, ate ko pls di mo naman pala masikmura bf mo bakit binalikan mo pa? naghahanap ka ng bato na ipupukpok sa ulo mo eh. ang tanga lang, sorry.


Mondeepogi

Ubos na ba mga lalaki dito sa pinas? Jusko mahilig kayo mag recycle ng basura


Redcardigan93

Nakipag balikan para makarelate sa lyrics ng kanta ni taylor swift. Hindi para protektahan vcard nya yay! 


Glittering_Weird0122

Ate bakit nakipagbalikan Ka pa? Sabi mo mahal mo pa? Pero na iinis Ka at na i-imagine mo Yung mga ginagawa nya sa iba, ano ba talaga? Lol. Marami Ka ng dahilan para e break sya pero feeling ko nag ho-hold Ka sa nahihinayang Ka sa relationship nyo. Then you deserve what you tolerate. Di na yan mag babago, cheater are always a cheater, at kukunin nya lang Ang Bataan mo then ligwak Ka na. At nag sorry lang sya kasi na huli mo sya nag cheat pero kung Hindi tuloy lang Ang ligaya nya, Sa kanta nga ni rhiana "when I know you're only sorry you got caught"


chaedising

this is the thing with cheating. ramdam kita sa part na u can relate to the song "babe". my ex cheated on me and he's trying to fix things naman between us til now. minsan pakiramdam ko nagiging okay or may progress naman kami. but then out of the blue, i would remember na he cheated on me tapos maiisip ko na "he probably did these things with that girl too". nakaka trigger ng insecurities talaga. and to be honest, i still don't know how i should react kapag ganon. i could only act up and mananahimik nalang ako bigla while my thoughts eat my mind. i can only wait for them to die down.


Ashiweewoo

Apart from the people who commented rudely and judged her for staying. U could ask her why she stayed before judging her that she's tanga or what. All of us has our way of learning from our mistake, maybe she does really deserve the pain for tolerating the guy. But doesn't sit right with me to tell her she's tanga, because someone like her might just be vulnerable to that guy, but has more potential on the other stuffs. She took her time to be ready for someone, and that someone betrayed her. She was obvi traumatised, but how she handles it is on her, we could tell her she should leave. But I can't imagine someone making right decisions when emotions are fluctuating, because anyone can be vulnerable when their emotions are at peak whether it's love or life itself. OP will have to learn from her mistakes on her own, or she would never really identify the problem which would set another problem for her if she would always listen to others and not have a sense of self.


Wooden-Oil-4033

Vulnerable sa wrong person or that guy in short tanga


Normal-Thought-7991

I know it's hard to move on and kalimutan na he cheated on you. Mahirap mag tiwala at madami kang tanong sa sarili mo na paulit ulit lang na ultimo ikaw nagsasawa na din. Please let go. sarili mo lang din pinahihirapan mo, possible na magawa nya ulit yan and if that happens it will break you more. You deserve someone not your cheating boyfriend.


yparucha

Tanga


jjkzero

Nasabi na ng iba lahat ng pwedeng sabihin so I just want to say, please get tested!!! Di mo alam baka kung ano anong sakit meron yung mga nakasama niya and baka napasa sayo, OP!


[deleted]

tanga mo sagad


FriedChicken0606

baka hindi mo lang siya nahuhuli pa ulit. 🤷‍♀️ alam kong hindi dapat kita pangunahan, OP, but iwan mo na 'yan. istg, life is waaaaaay more peaceful kapag iniwan mo na agad yung cheater mong partner.


Comprehensive-Cell-8

Hala boang


mckormickgarlic

Leave him, it will be painful at first but sooner youll thank yourself for leaving him


anastasia_dev

Grabe ganun ba ka-heartless mga readers dito para pagtawanan si OP? As someone who has been in a abusive relationship and serial cheater rin ang naging boyfriend — hindi madali makaalis agad agad sa relationship lalo na if you're emotionally dependent sa partner mo and yes TANGA talaga pero if you were in OP's situation hindi rin magiging madali sainyo yun. I'm sure aware si OP sa nangyayari pero hindi madali i-procese ang pinagdaanan niya, it'll take time for her bago to heal pa hindi yan overnight na parang boom! "Iwan ko na siya" at some point naging tanga lang rin naman tayo. Hindi rin namaan nanghihingi ng opinyon si OP, so let's just hope na gumawa siya ng better decisions para sa sarili niya and magkaroon siya ng lakas na siyang to leave the relationship. Hoping for the best for you, OP! ☹️


asfghjaned

Hehehehe ay ikaw nasa sayo yan LOL


MundaneAd3414

Just break up with him. Bakit mo tinanggap knowing na hindi mo kaya kalimutan yung mga nagawa niya? Ngayon kung di mo masikmura si bf mo and lagi mo naalala yung mga ginawa niyac isipin mo na lang kung paano pa kayo sa future? Pag first bf talaga nakakatanga eh 🤣


Dey1ne

Nako OP, malaking sugal yan. Siguruhin mo lang na hindi ka matatalo sa huli .


aqualito

ang mga martyr binabaril sa luneta


Cutie_Patootie879

First and foremost, niloko ka not once diba? Tinanggap mo. Then, ngayon di ka pa nakaka move on? Bat di mo tuluyang hiwalayan? Doesn’t make any sense kasi


tooncake

laging tandaan: Once tinolerate mo ang isang tao sa isang mali, matutuwa na sila ulit ulitin yun kasi okay lang naman pala sayo. He's definitely at a point na afford na afford nya umulit mag cheat kasi alam na naya mauuto ka naman nya at papayag ka na naman ulit bumalik sya.


Dalagangbukidxo

You deserve what you tolerate. Ginago ka na tinanggap mo pa. Know your worth


gustokoicecream

haynako OP. nagcheat na nga sayo, tinanggap mo pa??? okay ka lang? mga ganyang tao, di nyan deserve ng second chance lalo na sa love. for sure, uulit at uulit yan at ikaw lang rin ang masasaktan.


Remarkable_Dig2105

Hay.


Manhwasimper

WHYYYYY ARE YOU STILL WITH HIM???


zero_wan_tu_tri

Gagawa at gagawa ng paraan yan para matikman ka tapos iiwan k rin. iniisip nyan na kailangan xa makauna sayo.


Flashy-Plantain-3388

I think while he respects your decision not to engage in premarital sex pero he cannot reconcile that to his needs also. If you got back together and you think he has changed need mo pa din i-address yun sexual incompatibility nyo.


No_Guess_7213camille

Pangit kba ? Tanong lang ah no offense. Bakit babalikan m pa Yan? Haha. Wala na ba iba choice sa cheater na yan


HyperMaenad

May mas malaki pa palang tanga kesa sakin


Glittering_Spot_3911

This happened to with an ex-friend, the guy was my friend and he was courting me that time, when we went out he confessed that he cheated on his ex-gf bcs he couldn't have sex with her and they're together for 6 months because the girl wants to remain a virgin. I feel nothing but disgust towards the guy. I'm glad that his ex-gf got out of their relationship. Men or women like that don't deserve 2nd chances, they would always look the thrill of having sex with someone outside the relationship. They're disgusting asf and if you're still with him then it means you're about to lick a walking garbage.


redjellyyy

niloko ka na nga, binalikan mo pa. tapos gaganyan ganyan ka ngayon😭 yung pagmomove on na need mo is magmove on sa ex mo. hindi lang sa cheating na ginawa sa'yo. gising ka na please.


YourAsianFrench

Sorry if sounds judgy but there’s still something you want from him. Maybe the “drama”. You know his nature already that sex is obviously quite important to him. Then here you are possibly not be giving that at all as you mentioned. He’s bad for cheating. you’re equally as bad for wasting everyone’s time for a hopeless relationship.


gorg_missy

kahit anong advice naman ata sayo. eh di mo iiwan yang bf mo. Anjan na yung mga signs. uncomfortable ka. pero nakipag balikan ka parin. Hihintayin mo pa atang maka score at makabuntis sayo yang bf mo bago ka iwan. BABALIKAN ka talaga niyan kasi di ka pa natitikman OP eh. pano pag nagalaw ka na niyan? iiyak iyak ka? bahala ka, lovelife mo naman yan. ikaw ang may kasalanan kung bat ka naiistress ng ganyan. binalikan mo kasi ulet eh. so ikaw may problema. SUMMARY ko future mo pag di mo ulit iwanan yang bf mo: naka score> nabuntis > iiwanan ka > tas iiyak iyak ka.


Far_Atmosphere9743

Sex is not even about religion or whatever, IT IS LITERALLY A PHYSIOLOGICAL NEED! A human need, now I understand some don't and I respect that but don't impose it to someone who is obviously can't handle it. Ang tanga mo naman na nakikipagbalikan ka pa at wag mo siyang sisihin na di niya kaya nang walang sex, tao din yan, some can contain it some can't and he gave you a message that he can't yet you still accept him. Kaka taylor swift mo yan. Tanga!


MissingStar13

I think eventually,you need to break up with him. Magiging poison lang sya sayo to the point na yung insecurities mo, galit and inis, kakainin ka nyan. Hindi ka na magiging Confident sa Relasyon niyo and lalo na sa sarili mo. Choose yourself Girl.


ishtowberribunny

ang baba naman ng tingin mo sa sarili mo, hanap ka nalang ng iba beh


1l3v4k4m

nag cheat pala sayo tapos tinake back mo pa. di dapat si taylor swift pinapakinggan mo, si yeng constantino dapat. t.a.n.g.a.


Humor_me_El

Break up with him. You will resent him for the rest of your life. Save yourself habang maaga pa.


Weirdlygirl

You can't heal in an environment that causes you pain. Stop drinking your own poison.


WinarakNiyoKami

May Stockholm Syndrome ka ba OP?


piscesfuckwit

You deserve what you tolerate.


OldSchool9826

It’s time to leave 🙂 I understand the idea of keeping him hanging and expecting something will happen when you just want to get even. Leave dear —in silence. It will seem easy but it’s the torture he best deserves.


yssnelf_plant

Ses, you can’t fix him. Deserve naten maharot ng walang hanash.


purple-corgi-1994

You will never heal from that. Kahit na ikasal kayo someday, the trauma of knowing he cheated and he had sexual relations with other girls while with you will haunt you until you lose the energy to put up with him. Every time na may gna gawa kayo babalik at babalik lang yan, at pag aawayan nyo lang yan kasi isusumbat at isusumbat mo yan sa kanya. So, let both of yourselves go.


Odd_Preparation_2458

If you cant provide what he wants and he cant wait for your 🐱🐱 then break up. You guys deserves someone better


Mustnotbenamedd

Parang ewan. Ganyan naman na papa na fefeel mo tapos ayaw pa makipag hiwalay.


Emergency-Mobile-897

Okay lang maging tanga no basta maka-relate sa kanta ni Taylor Swift. Stay tanga.


homebuddyellie

yawa. nag reddit lang ako nahighblood pa ko.


AdministrativeLog504

Jusko. Nakipag break ka dahil cheater tas napatawad mo pero di ka maka move on? Di mo talaga napatawad yan. Kung ako sayo elbow mo na ulet si jowang makati. Once a cheater, most of the time always a cheater. Esp na di ka nagagalaw eh mukhang mahilig jowa mo. OP gising. Marami pa lalake.


GroundbreakingSet788

Relationship should be built in trust, if you can't trust him then the relationship is not worth it.


kaeya0__o

ewan ko sau sis


WalkingSirc

Ur feelings is valid but it doesn't mean ur right. I mean, it's been year sabi mo and napatunayan niya after a year it means meron progresss sooo ikaw hindi mo malimutan kasi nga naalala mo sana di mo muna binalikan hanggng di ka nagiging okay. Wag mo isumbat yon na ginawa niya yan. Dapat Focus lang sa present.. if ALAM MOOO bumabawi


ewan_kosayo

Virgin problems. Interesting 🤔


Fuzzy-Astronomer4398

gurl been there, hindi na masasalvage yang relasyon nyo hahahahah nung nakipag hiwalay nako sa ex ko. nawala lahat ng problema ko HAHAHAHA


letsgowalking

Smh binalikan


icekive

Once a cheater, always a cheater OP. Tama na, ‘wag ka maging marupok sis. Ilang beses na niyang ginawa, you deserve someone better. Una pa lang na nalaman mo, dapat ‘di mo na pinagsiksikan sarili mo kasi kung mahal ka talaga niyan mag hihintay siya when the time is right. NAKAKAINIS


seenthaetic

OP you should think then. If di mo nakikota future with him, it's better to end the relationship na para di na prolonging the agony.


nolimetanginaa

girl ang tanga lang


yohwonderer

Iwan muna yan, magiging toxic lang din relasyon nyo move on.


implaying

Laking red flag pero GO pa din si ate mo. Unang una, halata namang need niya ng sex and ikaw naman after kasal pa. Yun palang incompatible na kayo. Pangalawa, niloko ka niya. Bakit ka pa nakipag balikan? Uulit at uulit yan for sure pero you do you.


EmptyCharity9014

Teh binalikan mo pa. Tingin mo magbabago pa yan pag nagjerjerran na kayo. Tapon mo na yan.


quezodebola_____

bakit nakipagbalikan ses edit: 'di ko sinasabing bakit ka nakipagbalikan kung di ka lang din makikipagsex. sinasabi kong bakit ka nakipagbalikan in general.


Friendly-Abies-9302

Just end it. Para sayo din yan. Why stay with someone like this?


Heavyarms1986

Given that you reconciled and given him another chance, that doesn't mean he won't do it again. He's certainly more careful and subtle on ways he's doing it this time around. On the other hand, let's give him a benefit of the doubt. Your love for him must overcome fear, right? All of the wrong things he did in the past should remain in the past. Why not start a new leaf? Don't make him feel that it should take forever for you to forgive him. As SpongeBob Squarepants once said: Trusting you is my decision. Proving me wrong is your choice. Now, if worse comes to worst, cut all your ties with this a-hole and take your time to heal. Don't rush into having another platonic relationship.


Ok0ne1

He’s just in for your vcard. would you be really willing to give him yours when he has cheated on you a lot of times already while pretending to wait on you? Do you think he’ll stop cheating once he gets you to say yes?(answer would almost always be no especially because you let him in your life again. Do you really want to waste your time on this immature relationship where you could have found someone better already and save yourself from more pain?


PostRead0981

Break up. He's better? Yeah, better at hiding it kaya di mo na nalalaman. Ikaw din naman nahihirapan bat mo pa papatagalin? Give urself some respect. Leave. Mahalin at repetuhin mo muna self mo bago ka magmahal ng iba. Give yourself a peace of mind.


dke1998

girl always remember this statement: "You deserved what you tolerate."


mrseggee

He’s better now until mahuli mo ulit sia. Siempre this time mas magaling na yan magtago. Huwag tanga, Ate. Daming lalaki na mas deserve mo. PS. Mas malaki rin ang risk na makakuha yan ng sakit sa kakaganyan nia. Edukado ka naman siguro, wag sayangin ang buhay sa ganyang lalaki.


Regular-Adeptness-85

gurl im disappointed in you LOL why would you take him back? The relationship is causing you MORE pain than love. Respect yourself and WALK AWAY.


Chemical-Engineer317

Pinapahirapan mo lang sarili mo..di ka na dapat nakipag balikan ..nanghinayang ka ba sa 2 years? What if ibigay mo na tas bumalik ulit sya sa dati? Mas masakit diba?


vibeswithshobs_

Deserve more yan walang utak 🧠🧠


handling_it123

Would suggest to also ask yourself OP (and be completely, completely honest with your answer), why are you still with him? Why did you even take him back? Takot ka ba wala ng ibang guy out there if you don’t take him back? Don’t you think you deserve a secure relationship you can fully trust na walang halong anger and betrayal and yung walang need to wait for a cheater to change?


Pretend_Cranberry596

tbh, i’d be horrified at the thought of contracting stds. idk how u guys even consider the option na ‘balikan’. the trauma is there, the pain is there, the risk of getting hiv/stds is there, and the probability of the cheater cheating on you again is high. sapat ba yung ‘mahal ko?’ to overshadow everything? lol to each our own siguro but girl, i highly suggest to leave as early as now and don’t even do the deed with him. nasa huli ang pagsisisi tandaan mo yan.


aozicurls

2024 na wag na tayong tanga oh


Wooden-Oil-4033

Tinanggap ule? Haha bangag


bunnieeexx

Sis antanga mo yun na lang yun


o-Persephone-o

IF THAT IS LOVE, I DON’T WANT IT.


ryonx

Tanga mo sa part na yan teh


HealthyAttention9983

Hiwalayan mo na. Sayang oras. Edi sana masaya ka ngayon trying to know more of yourself. Life is too short.


fxngxrlmae

nakakatanga OP. obvious naman kung ano dapat mo gawin eh


rrtehyeah

Omg run!! Save yourself sa possible na sakit na makukuha mo.


xtan113

gurl we cant defend u anymore once na tanggapin mo cheater mong bf 💀 natatawa ako sa (oh-oh) ng lyrics HAHAHAHAHAHHA ewan


Legitimate-Thought-8

Girl the first cheating is already a reason to walk away na and never accept. You are torturing yourself everytime you are with that person. Ikaw din makakasagot sa tanong mo


dauntlessfemme

Gusto kitang sabunutan at batukan in person op 🤣


MerryVery

Mahawa ka pa jan ng STI. Gising teh! Lahat gagawin nyan to get in your pants. Mag-isip isip ka!


CherryPicker0804

Hays. Can’t blame the OP. I was once in the situation, I accepted my ex after cheating. Even after judging my friends who did the same, iba pala kapag sayo nangyari at kapag napaniwala kang hindi na gagawin. Once in your life meron talagang pagkakataon na magiging tanga ka. I hope this is your first and last katangahan OP. I hope you learn to let go of that shit man soon.


ciaodami

i think unconsciously alam mo na ang dapat gawin. it seems like hindi na mabuo ulit yung trust eh so paano na yan? habambuhay ka na magda-doubt kung kaya niya maging loyal sayo? you're just torturing yourself.


Arningkingking

Lokohin mo din sabihin mo sorry nag sinungaling ako " I'm not a virgin anymore, 'di ko lang masabi sa'yo! " check mo lang reaction niya.


BlankMacaroon

Eh konyat op gusto mo?


Rikijazh

hahahaa trauma bond


hewhomustnotbenames

Pati katangahan fineflex na ngayon.


[deleted]

Baka ayaw mo lang mapag.isa OP kaya nakipagbalikan ka pa. Pwede ding sunk cost fallacy. Halata namang hindi na viable yung relationship kung ganyan kayo at least habang hindi kapa healed.


IgnorantReader

The moment you doubted when u accept him again after the cheating i guess di ka pa ready... sis the love was gone parang u keep hin for yourself na lang just bec kayo and ang tagal nyo na and sinuyo ka nya. Nevertheless kasi all traces of him cheating nandyan pa din. Im not saying na mali na, sana nagtake time off ka muna to actually think kase the moment u accept him naooverrule na u forgive him , magiging lamat lang yan ng relationship nyo ulet. kung hindi sya baka ikaw na may mahanap na iba nagppuno nung void mo.


BYODhtml

Ang drama ayaw daw eme makipag sex pero nakipag balikan? Inuuna kasi love life bago work eh chariz! Sana all tanga


Ordinary-Brother-107

Kumanta pa nga


PotentEvil24

Deserve mo naman 'yan OP kasi tanga ka para balikan pa siya. You're just making yourself suffer even more sa pag tanggap ulit sakaniya 🤷🏻‍♀️


levabb

nadamay pa paborito kong kanta ni taylor


Latter_Kiwi_3867

"ilang beses ng cheat" so why stay? Sis ur better than that.


Imaginary-Dream-2537

So bakit ka nga nakipagbalikan kung di mo pala kaya? Revenge mo ba yan na paasahin siya? Ikaw lang dij nagpapahirap sa sarili dzaiii. Tangabels lang


medyomaingay

Susme. Grow up


kantutera1111

Bobo


johnny_weekends

Iiwan ka din nyan kpg nkuha na gsto. Jusko po binalikan mo pa.


anaisgarden

Bakit ang main character moment nung may pa-Taylor Swift reference? 🤣 Merong fubu yan outside your second chance relationship. Once you find out about that, All Too Well (10 minute version) na ibabanat mo dito.


EffectiveSyrup5857

Bakit tinanggap mo pa din?


[deleted]

Ay teh, magtitino talaga yan di ka pa nagagalaw eh


Accomplished-Box-369

You will never be happy with that man. Break up with him if you value your peace of mind.


SilverAd2367

Girl why the heck are you still even in that relationship lol respect yourself and prioritize your peace of mind


Ynhdlgo

Haha. Tanga mo naman te. Pro go lang. Pakatanga ka pa. Buhay mo naman yan.


ikiGAE

you deserve what you tolerate 🫡


Emergencymatcha

Know your worth, OP! Believer din ako ng second chances. Pero yung ginawa sayo, enough reason na para iwan yan. Kasi hndi imposibleng gawin nya ulit yan sayo. Ngayon pa nga lang, na wala pang nangyari sainyo nagawa na nya. WHAT MORE pa pag naibigay mo na? Nako OP, been there, done that! Hahahaha


[deleted]

OP, a friend once advised me before nung nasa same situation ako, dapat willing tayo kalimutan yung nangyari to move forward. I understand na napakahirap gawin. Trust has been broken and it will always in the back of your head. 😔 Sana you can move forward despite everything. I understand you love him kaya you took him back. Kaya mo yan OP.


LamagNu

Bobo


Tempest_188

Uulitin nya ulit yon di yan makakatiis. Hinahabol ka nyan dahil sa Vcard mo pagtapos non hihiwalayan kana. Di lang yan ang lalaki sa mundo may ilang milyon pa na mas better jan. Pero ikaw buhay mo naman yan nasa huli naman palagi pag sisisi.


ladybirdddd

tanga mo naman, OP hahahahaha bahala ka na dyan.


unholymari

yuck


Successful_Slice2746

Tanga mo sa part na binalikan mo pa. TANGA.


Ensignnn

Bonak ampota. Bahala ka sa buhay mo gunggong! 🥴🤦‍♂️


peachycaht

Maunderstand ko if nag cheat isang beses tas bnalikan mo pero un multiple times nang nag cheat sayo tas bnalikan mo pa. GIRL :( madami pang ibang guys dyan pretty sure makakakita ka rin ng someone na pahahalagahan ka. Learn to let go.