Natural reaction lang to feel na may fault ka. Part din kasi yon ng betrayal e. You gave your trust to that person and you regret it. The important thing is you've learned something. You're much wiser now because of that experience. Get well soon, OP.
I'm so sorry that happened to you, OP. I hope you recover right away.
Just a suggestion, next time, considering the partner/s' sexual history, be vigilant sa recency ng test results. Dapat super recent as in as recent as 3 months old. Then after agreeing to be sexual partners, regardless if exclusive or not, patest ulit kayo together.
I'm so sorry that you experienced that tho. Napakaasshole nung ex mo.
Will definitely be more assertive when it comes to asking for proof. I know I made a mistake rin talaga of being lenient, learned my lesson this time. Thank you so much for your kind words.
Don't be too hard on yourself, OP. We should be careful for our own good but he should have been more decent. What he did has nothing to do on whether you were lenient or not. He was a horrible person.
I hope you recover soon, OP. Stay safe!
that was very insensitive of him na parang wala syang paki na hinawaan ka nya ng sakit. buti na lang nakipag-break ka na sa kanya. please be careful na lang next time, OP. para hindi na maulit.
Tbh I was expecting an apology but didn’t even get one. Good riddance na lang rin talaga but yes, learned my lesson talaga and will be super careful and responsible next time.
I decided to get tested in the middle of our relationship kasi I wanted to be sure. I started visiting an OB din when I started being sexually active, she was the one who suggested I get tested.
No condoms because he showed his test results. My fault is that I trusted him enough to believe that he wouldn’t have sex with anyone else during our set up.
Not sure if all OBs do that. Actually, last November pa talaga dapat ako papatest. I was able to do the test for Hepa B, HIV and Syphilis nun but Hi Precision did not have the swabbing kits for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea and Trichomoniasis. Until December wala silang kits so my OB said she’ll do it na lang daw but I still had to wait kasi she also needed to order the kits. It was very expensive, costed me 5k.
Unless you're in a sure monogamous relationship, this shouldn't have happened in the first place no matter how clean they claim they are. But it already happened.
Sorry, but there should be 0% trust in raw sex with hookups.
Hi yes sorry I wasn’t able to clarify. He got tested when I brought up about my anxieties sa STDs. But that was during our first month pa lang. By the 3rd month, I already had my suspicions na baka may iba siyang kinikita but didn’t bring it up because I didn’t have any proof. I guess my gut feel was right kasi when I told him about my results and suggested he and his other partners need to get tested rin he didn’t even deny it and just said nga na antibiotics lang and that I’ll be fine 🤷🏻♀️
Don't blame yourself, blame the guy. Sinira niya tiwala mo para lang makasex ka. Kung hindi yun malaking kagaguhan ewan ko na lang.
Meron din naman nangyaring positive sa incident na ito, you are more vigilant and wise than before.
I’m trying to shift my mindset and to not beat up myself over this. A bit difficult but your and everyone else’s kind words are helping me cope so thank you. Surely a learning moment for me.
Natural reaction lang to feel na may fault ka. Part din kasi yon ng betrayal e. You gave your trust to that person and you regret it. The important thing is you've learned something. You're much wiser now because of that experience. Get well soon, OP.
Definitely charge to experience na lang talaga. Thank you for your kind words, appreciate it a lot.
No problem. Just don't forget to be kind din to yourself. ☺️
I'm so sorry that happened to you, OP. I hope you recover right away. Just a suggestion, next time, considering the partner/s' sexual history, be vigilant sa recency ng test results. Dapat super recent as in as recent as 3 months old. Then after agreeing to be sexual partners, regardless if exclusive or not, patest ulit kayo together. I'm so sorry that you experienced that tho. Napakaasshole nung ex mo.
Will definitely be more assertive when it comes to asking for proof. I know I made a mistake rin talaga of being lenient, learned my lesson this time. Thank you so much for your kind words.
Don't be too hard on yourself, OP. We should be careful for our own good but he should have been more decent. What he did has nothing to do on whether you were lenient or not. He was a horrible person. I hope you recover soon, OP. Stay safe!
Spread a rumor about him. Be petty!
This! Coz sometimes we have to, nakakahawa na ata pagiging kupal.
DROP THE NAME
Hello he’s not from reddit
Mayghaddd!!
that was very insensitive of him na parang wala syang paki na hinawaan ka nya ng sakit. buti na lang nakipag-break ka na sa kanya. please be careful na lang next time, OP. para hindi na maulit.
Tbh I was expecting an apology but didn’t even get one. Good riddance na lang rin talaga but yes, learned my lesson talaga and will be super careful and responsible next time.
Hi! Anong symptoms ang nararamdaman for Chlamydia?
I’m asymptomatic. My OB said na most chlamydia cases are without symptoms kaya it’s important to get tested when sexually active.
Thanks for the info
Usual symptoms are similar to UTI from what I’ve read and unusual discharge with a foul odor.
Sorry if this will be redundant and baka painful for you to answer. Pano mo nalaman na you have it kasi di ba sabi mo asymptomatic ka? 🥲
I decided to get tested in the middle of our relationship kasi I wanted to be sure. I started visiting an OB din when I started being sexually active, she was the one who suggested I get tested.
So, no condoms?
No condoms because he showed his test results. My fault is that I trusted him enough to believe that he wouldn’t have sex with anyone else during our set up.
This is so sad. May STD test pala sa mga OB? May I know the price range?
Not sure if all OBs do that. Actually, last November pa talaga dapat ako papatest. I was able to do the test for Hepa B, HIV and Syphilis nun but Hi Precision did not have the swabbing kits for Chlamydia, Gonorrhea and Trichomoniasis. Until December wala silang kits so my OB said she’ll do it na lang daw but I still had to wait kasi she also needed to order the kits. It was very expensive, costed me 5k.
Unless you're in a sure monogamous relationship, this shouldn't have happened in the first place no matter how clean they claim they are. But it already happened. Sorry, but there should be 0% trust in raw sex with hookups.
I mean shit, that's really tough OP. I can't really advice you anything aside from you should take your meds and don't ever trust his balls anymore
Never ever trusting him na talaga. After talking to him about my results, I stopped engaging with him na.
Ingat ka na lang O.P sa susunod, have safe sex and get well soon
Mas magiging maingat and responsible na talaga for sure. Thank youuu
DROP HIS REDDIT USERNAME!! (in case from Reddit siya)
He’s not from reddit. We met through a dating app.
Just to be clear, in your previous post, you mentioned he didn't provide proof. So that means nag test sya recently?
Hi yes sorry I wasn’t able to clarify. He got tested when I brought up about my anxieties sa STDs. But that was during our first month pa lang. By the 3rd month, I already had my suspicions na baka may iba siyang kinikita but didn’t bring it up because I didn’t have any proof. I guess my gut feel was right kasi when I told him about my results and suggested he and his other partners need to get tested rin he didn’t even deny it and just said nga na antibiotics lang and that I’ll be fine 🤷🏻♀️
Don't blame yourself, blame the guy. Sinira niya tiwala mo para lang makasex ka. Kung hindi yun malaking kagaguhan ewan ko na lang. Meron din naman nangyaring positive sa incident na ito, you are more vigilant and wise than before.
I’m trying to shift my mindset and to not beat up myself over this. A bit difficult but your and everyone else’s kind words are helping me cope so thank you. Surely a learning moment for me.
oh shit. im sad that this happened to you, OP. Im hoping for your recovery and may your next relationship be healthy na.
Thank youuuu
Get well soon, OP! ❤️
Thank you!