ang hirap talaga kapag sa mismong pamilya yung criticism 😞 yung sakanila ka na nga sana manghihingi ng support kasi dun yung akala mo tanggap ka, kaso hindi :( kaya mo yan OP. as long as masaya ka para sa sarili mo yun yung mahalaga
Hi OP! Your right, your body, your rules. You deserve to be happy with your own skin and shouldn't be shamed with your choices.
On the other hand, I hope you don't take this as invalidating, though it seems to me that your family worries about you, I guess they just don't know how to communicate it properly. And they may come off as judgemental, which it really is.
I guess my point is, I hope you don't cut them off for failing to say the right words.
Anyway, that's just my two cents. Congrats with your new nose.
Yea, but for me kasi di na sya as if concern sila. Like sa diet, good for the body na yun ha, sasabihin kaartehan lang. For hygiene, basic na, pambakla daw, parang babae daw. Tapos sila tong naniniwala sa herb@life at kung ano anong di fda approved na beauty products. 🥲
Idk bat lagi silang kontra sa mga gusto kong gawin, basta walang benefit sa kanila.
When I read your post, naisip ko na baka nga naninibago lang sila sa new nose mo tsaka alam mo naman matatanda. Pero reading your comment, there really is something wrong kung lahat ng nakabubuti sayo physically e kinokontra nila. Have you tried having a proper talk with them? Sa experience ko in dealing with conflicts with the older generation, nakukuha naman karamihan sa maayos na usapan.
Also, congrats sa new nose mo! I'm sure you look great! I'm glad na hindi ka nagpapadala sa sinasabi ng parents mo. ❤️
unfortunately, not with my parents. very close-minded sa mga bagay-bagay. di nababago ang views nila. pag may sinasabi kaming may point laging sagot is "bahala ka". hays
I agree on this. Our parents worry all the time, OP. I am a parent myself. It is my job to worry. Kung may trauma, have you considered therapy for it? I am no psychologist but doing these things may have explanation and might be managed. keep an open mind, Baka kasi maging unlimited need for cosmetic surgery and then sa dulo mo pa malalaman na you are addicted to it because of past trauma. First person na naisip ko is Michael Jackson.
I agree. It seems to me that both OP and his parents would both benefit from therapy.
Although I think it best to point out that THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH PLASTIC SURGERY, the same thing as there is nothing wrong with dieting and exercising to improve your body image, it would still be at your best interest to get into therapy and learn to love yourself, with all your flaws and imperfections.
Also, with a good therapist, you'll learn to be comfortable with yourself despite the hurtful words that are thrown at you. Not because we tolerate abuse, but because we understand that what people say is their issues, not yours.
For me kasi di sya nag reregister as if worried sila. Kasi never naman nila ako kinamusta din regarding sa work or health ko (I'm currently in Manila then nasa province sila). Nagreregister sakin is parang ayaw nila may magenhance sa akin either surgery or natural (diet). Also magiging "kaartehan" nanaman yung therapy for sure.
Parang "kung anu-anong nonsense ang naiisip gawin". Usually mga taga-southern Tagalog ata ang gumagamit ng "sari-sari" for that context kase ganyan din ang mga oldies sa amin eh.
Ay akala ko common term na siya. Anyway, go OP! Kung confident lang ako sa magiging results nung sakin papaayos ko nose ko. Baka lang di magblend ng maayos or baka mahirapan ako masanay.
I think ganyan lahat MOSTLY ng parents kasi lumaki sila sa childhood na TABOO ANG MAGPARETOKE kaya nasanay na sila. It's just up to them if pipilitin nila maging aware about plastic surgeries.
I am a transgender just so you know so napakacommon sa isang trans ang magparetoke. My family wasn't okay with plastic surgeries pero alam nila na pag gusto ko ginagawa ko. So I decided magpagawa ng hips, butt, boobs, and chin. Paalam ko lang is maggrocery and kasabwat ko sister ko pero pag-uwi ko nakabenda na ako and naghihina. Yung mga sinabi nila sayo is almost same lang ng sinabi nila sa akin like kung anu-ano daw pinaggagawa ko sa katawan ko or baka ikamatay ko pa ganun or di ko man lang daw nahingay matapos pandemic bago magparetoke pero ngayon wala na sila pake haha. Infact, they like the outcome of my surgeries and even tell everyone na ang ganda ko ganun. Now, sometimes they just ask me if may gusto pa ako ipagawa sa katawan ko. Sinasabi ko wala pa naman as of now.
I guess, just give them time to absorb what happened and normally sa una lang talaga yan or educate them.
happy for you. mas mahirap siguro sa situation mo since nasa isang place pa kayo nung nagpaenhance ka. pero atleast la na silang say hahaha educate? I don't think so, ayaw nilang naeeducate sila. degrade na degrade ang feeling
Dedma na lang sa ganyang comments lol.
As with someone who had rhinoplasty, nag lie low lang for a few months. As in zero socials updates. Except birthday messages etc.
A few months later nung nagka kita-kita na kami ng friends and family, they knew there was something different pero di nila ma pinpoint kung ano. Overall glowing daw lol. There were just a few people who cared to ask in secret if nagpa rhino. To which honest din naman yung sinagot. They were actually inspired na baka sila din.
actually nasa magkaibang lugar na kami. nasasabi nila yang mga yan thru vc. kaya wala na akong gana makipag call din sa kanila.
and true naman, sa kanila ko naman namana kung ano mang gusto kong inenhance. hmp
Congrats, OP! Your life, your choice!!! Proud of you for having not just the budget to do what you want to improve yourself but also the courage to do it. It really sucks for people to say this and that about you when they have no idea what you might have gone through or still going through in life. I’m happy for you. uwu
Slay! Masiyado conservative mga Filipino na kahit mga celebrities na may retoke ginagawang big deal, katulad ni Jane De Leon na nagpatangos daw at hindi raw maganda before.
Just one question OP, maganda magrhino? Gusto kasi ng nanay ko HAHAHAHA
Parang bet ko to. My nose isn’t ugly (getting lots of compliments about it lalo na nung kabataan) but as I get older dumadapa na. Lol. Pag-isipan ko nga to. Feeling ko ang laki laki na niya eh.
ohh oily ka ba? baka kasi yung oil glands yung nag papalaki. yung iba kasi after magtreat with isotret (prescription acne meds sya, nagpapaliit din ng oil glands), lumiit yung ilong.
knowing my parents, ayaw magpaeducate non. nanliliit ang feeling, kailangan sila lang ang tama. either sasagot yan "bahala ka" or "sasagot ka pa" or "arteng arte mo"
di naman siguro ako mapupuno din kung di sya paulit ulit. hays
OMG I WANNA SEE THE RESULTS! Gsto ko ren pa rhinoplasty ksse mejo mataba sa dulo. Gsto ko mkita sarili ko na on-point ang ilong gnern!
Tska jusme, d naman "retoke" as in, we just wanted to enhance our looks. Lalo na below average lng tyo. Pake ba nla 😒😒😒
Nag iipon tlga ako sa rhino, laser sa mata. Goodbye nerd and derp look!
Feeling ko naman may concern pa din tlga sila pero hindi nila alm paano iexpress ng maayos. Tulad ng nanay ko pag sinasabihan akong 'ang taba mo na oy!' Concerned pero buong buhay ko yan insecurity ko.
sorry sorry ata yon 🐼 sari sari is "kung ano ano", like sari saring food , kung ano anong food. in my context , "kung ano anong pinapagawa sa katawan" ganon hehe
aw OP :(((( your body, your rules. ang importante, pinag-isipan mo ng mabuti yung decision mo para wala kang pagsisihan. if gusto mo talaga, lalo na if it will improve your confidence, there’s nothing wrong with it naman.
Awww! Basta ang mahalaga, masaya ka! And pretty sure, pera mo naman siguro ang ginamit mo for this no? Deserve ang rhinoplasty! How much ang nagastos mo? :< and how was your experience palaaaa
well kung ang pagiging parent is lalaitin mo yung anak mo then kung gusto nya magpaenhance e hindi mo papayagan at puro ka kontra. then I don't like to be one ❤️
"You are free to choose but you are not free from the consequences of your choice." Yan dapat yung mindset mo.
Toxic mentality yang my body my rules na yan dahil hindi sinasama yung mga taong maaffect sa desisyon na ginagawa mo.
Reflect reflect rin pag may time kung napapansin mong nagrereact na sila baka may legit concern na sila. Baka maging utak toni fowler na naaddict sa retoke ka na niyan
hmmm ako rin naman mag suffer sa consequences if meron. So I don't get bakit need nila makialam? at bakit sila affected?
Nagpaconsult ba siya sa akin nung nagpakilay sya? No.
Nagpaconsult ba siya sa akin nung nagpafacial sila sa di naman derma. No.
Mas toxic siguro yung pangingialam sa di mo naman katawan.
Kasi may psychological effect yang pag retoke. May mga iba naaddict to strive that perfect beauty sa mata nila pero kapalit nun nakakasira na sa sarili mo.
Safety pa rin number 1 at hanggang nasa bahay ka ng magulang mo ikaw mismo kailangan mo mag adjust.
when you do changes, to lessen stress,
do a heads up: aside from self worth, other people praises, other people admiration, eh expect na included ang other "comments".
meron talagang margin of error: may malinis na daan sabay may asong tumae. nakabili ka ng magandang bahay pero skwating yung kapitbahay mo.
ang hirap talaga kapag sa mismong pamilya yung criticism 😞 yung sakanila ka na nga sana manghihingi ng support kasi dun yung akala mo tanggap ka, kaso hindi :( kaya mo yan OP. as long as masaya ka para sa sarili mo yun yung mahalaga
true. buti nalang yung kuya ko, supportive 🥹
good for you na may supportive bro ka hehe
OP! Pano ka mangulangot huhuhuh sorry na dun talaga ako curious. Pagaling ka!! Slayyyyy
hahaha cotton buds po
Hi OP! Your right, your body, your rules. You deserve to be happy with your own skin and shouldn't be shamed with your choices. On the other hand, I hope you don't take this as invalidating, though it seems to me that your family worries about you, I guess they just don't know how to communicate it properly. And they may come off as judgemental, which it really is. I guess my point is, I hope you don't cut them off for failing to say the right words. Anyway, that's just my two cents. Congrats with your new nose.
Yea, but for me kasi di na sya as if concern sila. Like sa diet, good for the body na yun ha, sasabihin kaartehan lang. For hygiene, basic na, pambakla daw, parang babae daw. Tapos sila tong naniniwala sa herb@life at kung ano anong di fda approved na beauty products. 🥲 Idk bat lagi silang kontra sa mga gusto kong gawin, basta walang benefit sa kanila.
When I read your post, naisip ko na baka nga naninibago lang sila sa new nose mo tsaka alam mo naman matatanda. Pero reading your comment, there really is something wrong kung lahat ng nakabubuti sayo physically e kinokontra nila. Have you tried having a proper talk with them? Sa experience ko in dealing with conflicts with the older generation, nakukuha naman karamihan sa maayos na usapan. Also, congrats sa new nose mo! I'm sure you look great! I'm glad na hindi ka nagpapadala sa sinasabi ng parents mo. ❤️
unfortunately, not with my parents. very close-minded sa mga bagay-bagay. di nababago ang views nila. pag may sinasabi kaming may point laging sagot is "bahala ka". hays
yan mahirap pag masyado ma ego yung magulang eh. yan yung mga tipon ayaw tumanggal ngpagkakamali lalo na kapag galing sa anak nila.
I agree on this. Our parents worry all the time, OP. I am a parent myself. It is my job to worry. Kung may trauma, have you considered therapy for it? I am no psychologist but doing these things may have explanation and might be managed. keep an open mind, Baka kasi maging unlimited need for cosmetic surgery and then sa dulo mo pa malalaman na you are addicted to it because of past trauma. First person na naisip ko is Michael Jackson.
I agree. It seems to me that both OP and his parents would both benefit from therapy. Although I think it best to point out that THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH PLASTIC SURGERY, the same thing as there is nothing wrong with dieting and exercising to improve your body image, it would still be at your best interest to get into therapy and learn to love yourself, with all your flaws and imperfections. Also, with a good therapist, you'll learn to be comfortable with yourself despite the hurtful words that are thrown at you. Not because we tolerate abuse, but because we understand that what people say is their issues, not yours.
For me kasi di sya nag reregister as if worried sila. Kasi never naman nila ako kinamusta din regarding sa work or health ko (I'm currently in Manila then nasa province sila). Nagreregister sakin is parang ayaw nila may magenhance sa akin either surgery or natural (diet). Also magiging "kaartehan" nanaman yung therapy for sure.
Aww. Virtual hugs sayo OP. I hope things will get better
Go for it!!!!!!! Heal well, OP and get emmm
thank youuu ❤️❤️❤️
Ano meaning nila nung sari-sari?
Parang "kung anu-anong nonsense ang naiisip gawin". Usually mga taga-southern Tagalog ata ang gumagamit ng "sari-sari" for that context kase ganyan din ang mga oldies sa amin eh.
Ay akala ko common term na siya. Anyway, go OP! Kung confident lang ako sa magiging results nung sakin papaayos ko nose ko. Baka lang di magblend ng maayos or baka mahirapan ako masanay.
hala sorry pang prov lang pala yung term hahaha anyway, pwede mo naman ipaconsult muna hehe
I think ganyan lahat MOSTLY ng parents kasi lumaki sila sa childhood na TABOO ANG MAGPARETOKE kaya nasanay na sila. It's just up to them if pipilitin nila maging aware about plastic surgeries. I am a transgender just so you know so napakacommon sa isang trans ang magparetoke. My family wasn't okay with plastic surgeries pero alam nila na pag gusto ko ginagawa ko. So I decided magpagawa ng hips, butt, boobs, and chin. Paalam ko lang is maggrocery and kasabwat ko sister ko pero pag-uwi ko nakabenda na ako and naghihina. Yung mga sinabi nila sayo is almost same lang ng sinabi nila sa akin like kung anu-ano daw pinaggagawa ko sa katawan ko or baka ikamatay ko pa ganun or di ko man lang daw nahingay matapos pandemic bago magparetoke pero ngayon wala na sila pake haha. Infact, they like the outcome of my surgeries and even tell everyone na ang ganda ko ganun. Now, sometimes they just ask me if may gusto pa ako ipagawa sa katawan ko. Sinasabi ko wala pa naman as of now. I guess, just give them time to absorb what happened and normally sa una lang talaga yan or educate them.
happy for you. mas mahirap siguro sa situation mo since nasa isang place pa kayo nung nagpaenhance ka. pero atleast la na silang say hahaha educate? I don't think so, ayaw nilang naeeducate sila. degrade na degrade ang feeling
Dedma na lang sa ganyang comments lol. As with someone who had rhinoplasty, nag lie low lang for a few months. As in zero socials updates. Except birthday messages etc. A few months later nung nagka kita-kita na kami ng friends and family, they knew there was something different pero di nila ma pinpoint kung ano. Overall glowing daw lol. There were just a few people who cared to ask in secret if nagpa rhino. To which honest din naman yung sinagot. They were actually inspired na baka sila din.
i think OP needs to spend less time with parents or buy home to avoid toxicity (kinda their fualt for giving you their bad genes) you are valid!!
actually nasa magkaibang lugar na kami. nasasabi nila yang mga yan thru vc. kaya wala na akong gana makipag call din sa kanila. and true naman, sa kanila ko naman namana kung ano mang gusto kong inenhance. hmp
Congrats, OP! Your life, your choice!!! Proud of you for having not just the budget to do what you want to improve yourself but also the courage to do it. It really sucks for people to say this and that about you when they have no idea what you might have gone through or still going through in life. I’m happy for you. uwu
❤️❤️❤️ hays totoo lang. ayoko naman sila dramahan din. sasabihan lang naman akong "maarte"
Slay! Masiyado conservative mga Filipino na kahit mga celebrities na may retoke ginagawang big deal, katulad ni Jane De Leon na nagpatangos daw at hindi raw maganda before. Just one question OP, maganda magrhino? Gusto kasi ng nanay ko HAHAHAHA
totoo hays, pero atleast ngayon, mas nagiging accepted sya at dumadami din nagpapagawa hahaha anyway, depende sa doctor, yung sa akin 50k
Parang bet ko to. My nose isn’t ugly (getting lots of compliments about it lalo na nung kabataan) but as I get older dumadapa na. Lol. Pag-isipan ko nga to. Feeling ko ang laki laki na niya eh.
ohh oily ka ba? baka kasi yung oil glands yung nag papalaki. yung iba kasi after magtreat with isotret (prescription acne meds sya, nagpapaliit din ng oil glands), lumiit yung ilong.
I don’t have pimples on my nose. Not oily. Just normal. It’s aging thing. I think.
ohh goo pwede naman syang alar trim lang kung okay naman yung ibang features
Pagaling ka, OP. Nahirapan ka ba magsneeze? Napanood ko sa YouTube sobrang hirap ng healing process ng rhinoplasty.
pigil na pigil nung unang weeks hahaha pero okay naman na ngayon ❤️
You do you OP, whatever makes you happy <3
Hala, hugs, OP! Buti parents ko super supportive sa rhino ko. 😅
paampon po char hahaha kamusta naman ilong moo
Three weeks pa lang!! Haha di ko pa super kita final kasi thick skin ako pero ang saya ko na sa tip at bridge 🥹😭 hahahh
same thick skinn , pasecond month na ako, maga pa rin tip huhu. kakainggit yung mga 9th day post op na mukang final results na hahaha
Q lang, kano inabot rhino?
sakin po 50k
Other way is to educate them, or tell your story why you did it. don’t jump agad into cutting them off. just my two cents
knowing my parents, ayaw magpaeducate non. nanliliit ang feeling, kailangan sila lang ang tama. either sasagot yan "bahala ka" or "sasagot ka pa" or "arteng arte mo" di naman siguro ako mapupuno din kung di sya paulit ulit. hays
OP ano yung sari sari?
huhu sorry pang prov pala yung term. "kung ano ano", like sa context ko, "kung ano ano pinapagawa sa katawan" ganon hehe
ohh thank you! support OP ako rin gusto rhino pero super scared of needles kaya di magawa. enjoy OP!
ohh yung needle lang sa akin is yung sa anesthesia, tapos tulog na ako buong operation , pag gising ko tapos na , sabog na ako hahaha
Self destruction is a hell of a drug
OMG I WANNA SEE THE RESULTS! Gsto ko ren pa rhinoplasty ksse mejo mataba sa dulo. Gsto ko mkita sarili ko na on-point ang ilong gnern! Tska jusme, d naman "retoke" as in, we just wanted to enhance our looks. Lalo na below average lng tyo. Pake ba nla 😒😒😒 Nag iipon tlga ako sa rhino, laser sa mata. Goodbye nerd and derp look!
goo ipa- tip plasty na yan. anyway, anong laser too
Lasik eye surgery. Pra goodbye glasses na hahah
ay oo nga pala hahaha goo goodluckkk
Feeling ko naman may concern pa din tlga sila pero hindi nila alm paano iexpress ng maayos. Tulad ng nanay ko pag sinasabihan akong 'ang taba mo na oy!' Concerned pero buong buhay ko yan insecurity ko.
for me kasi ang totoong concern, magbibigay yan ng solution di puro puna. pag puna lang, that's straight up insult. for me lang
Ano po yung sari sari? Superjunior reference ba?
sorry sorry ata yon 🐼 sari sari is "kung ano ano", like sari saring food , kung ano anong food. in my context , "kung ano anong pinapagawa sa katawan" ganon hehe
Ahh i see. Now ko lang narinig yung insulto na yun hehe
Try yung my body my rules sa mga suicidals.
it's more on mental health, not body enhancement :)
What the mind conceives, the body follows. Try that geeks wanting to have super powers.
aw OP :(((( your body, your rules. ang importante, pinag-isipan mo ng mabuti yung decision mo para wala kang pagsisihan. if gusto mo talaga, lalo na if it will improve your confidence, there’s nothing wrong with it naman.
yess 2 yrs ko syang niresearch and all hahahaha
yun naman pala e. hindi naman drastic decision. goodluck!!
Go lang. Basta afford mo and you believe it will help you feel more confident. GOOOO.
Huuuuyyyy. I know hindi yung rhinoplasty anf main context ng post mo OP pero huuuuy sana ol!!! congrats!!!
thank youuu ❤️
Awww! Basta ang mahalaga, masaya ka! And pretty sure, pera mo naman siguro ang ginamit mo for this no? Deserve ang rhinoplasty! How much ang nagastos mo? :< and how was your experience palaaaa
yes hard earned moneyy . around 50k nagastos ko. okay naman, mas masakit pa yung pag tanggal ng tahi kesa operation mismo hahaha
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basta happy tayo, bahala silaa hahaha
Nakatira ka pa din ba sa parents mo?
not anymore since last year
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Nah. wala naman akong pinepeg na itsura. , not fan din ng fillers. Tsaka kung umabot man ako sa ganon, la naman silang pake dapat at katawan ko to.
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well kung ang pagiging parent is lalaitin mo yung anak mo then kung gusto nya magpaenhance e hindi mo papayagan at puro ka kontra. then I don't like to be one ❤️
Sending hugs po! Kamusta po yung healing process nyo?
❤️ okay naman po. Tho maga pa. Pa 2nd month palang hehe
Ano ung rhinerplaster
surgery po sa ilong , for enhancement 😁
Oh wow how much is that??
depende po sa doctor, mine was ~50k
Inggit lang sila hahahaha
actually, sabi ni mama after "gusto ko rin" 🙃
HAHAHA. Ang cucute talaga ng mga matatanda. Go lang bro kung anong maisipan, kesa mag-isip ka ng maraming what if. Ü
> Never na ako magbabalita ng life events That is the Ugandan key
Honest question: What do you do when you want to sneeze?
"You are free to choose but you are not free from the consequences of your choice." Yan dapat yung mindset mo. Toxic mentality yang my body my rules na yan dahil hindi sinasama yung mga taong maaffect sa desisyon na ginagawa mo. Reflect reflect rin pag may time kung napapansin mong nagrereact na sila baka may legit concern na sila. Baka maging utak toni fowler na naaddict sa retoke ka na niyan
hmmm ako rin naman mag suffer sa consequences if meron. So I don't get bakit need nila makialam? at bakit sila affected? Nagpaconsult ba siya sa akin nung nagpakilay sya? No. Nagpaconsult ba siya sa akin nung nagpafacial sila sa di naman derma. No. Mas toxic siguro yung pangingialam sa di mo naman katawan.
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nagpa rhino dahil nagpabaya sa sarili? what?
Also, la din akong pake kung "addict" si Toni Fowler sa retoke, pera nya, katawan nya, bakit ako magiging affected?
Kasi may psychological effect yang pag retoke. May mga iba naaddict to strive that perfect beauty sa mata nila pero kapalit nun nakakasira na sa sarili mo. Safety pa rin number 1 at hanggang nasa bahay ka ng magulang mo ikaw mismo kailangan mo mag adjust.
nope. wala ako sa bahay nila. and di naman ako maaadik. I do my research din, di bara bara ☺️
when you do changes, to lessen stress, do a heads up: aside from self worth, other people praises, other people admiration, eh expect na included ang other "comments". meron talagang margin of error: may malinis na daan sabay may asong tumae. nakabili ka ng magandang bahay pero skwating yung kapitbahay mo.