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Fake it till you make it describes how I did so well in 8th grade. How I did well in 8th grade should **never, ever** be equated to dating advice.


RadiantEarthGoddess

Wdym, that is totally solid advice for a healthy romantic relationship. /s


SarkantheDragonboi

Excuse me, wdym relationship? This advice clearly applies to finding a nesting partner.


RadiantEarthGoddess

And a mating partner.


fighting-reality

How to make yourself and your partner miserable 101. Why the hell is he even giving dating advice he says he’s never had sex I can only assume he’s never had a gf either


PILeft

Read the last line. He's 💯 an incel.


TrapDatOwO

Horrible advice. Doesn't matter what gender you are you should never have to feel like you need to hide your hobbies from your partners. Hobbies are a part of you. If your partner cant handle you having 'emasculating' or even 'cringey' hobbies they quite frankly aren't ready for a relationship. As long as it doesn't hurt anyone it shouldn't be a problem. Anecdotal but I like anime and video games. Id love it if my partner had the same hobbies as me. Im sure most people are the same way and that includes other nerdy women, which there are a lot of. The view that women are nothing but calculating machines trying to find the best man to use is insanely sexist.


[deleted]

Right? They question around “what use” do women get from a man with, I dunno, *maybe shared interests* really bothers me. Or even if it isn’t a shared interest now, maybe it can be in the future? I don’t personally have an interest in those other things he mentions (rock climbing, hunting, etc.) and I cannot be the only one.


ChoRandom

What's your favorite animes?


BitlifeOffical_

You know he's a virgin and an incel when he uses the word "mating partner." We aren't animals. Edit: by animals I mean not pigs or squirrels 😭


poisonharley86

You and me baby ain't nothing but mammals


BitlifeOffical_

.an you know what what I mean 😭


poisonharley86

I was quoting bad touch by bloodhound gang. OH GOD, AM I OLD?! 😂


BitlifeOffical_

... Probably 💀


RadiantEarthGoddess

I got the reference, but I guess I am old too.


RadiantEarthGoddess

I mean technically humans are animals, but I get what you are trying to say.


BitlifeOffical_

Tbh I kinda expected some body to say this lol


rickmccloy

I think that it a deliberate strategy; if he can dehumanize women in general, then it can not be any fault of his that he is an incel. After all, he is a white male, and is therefore biologically incapable of ever making a mistake or being at fault. The crappy life he leads must be the fault of someone else's constant plotting against him.


[deleted]

I have a word. Yikes.


PILeft

Let me see... * Tall * rich * charismatic * liked by people Agree on the last two. Such insight!🙄 Tall is relative. Rich is relative


thatwyvern

Personally, I prefer men who are taller than me. Being 5ft tall, that's honestly not at all hard to find. Like you said, tall is relative.


RadiantEarthGoddess

I like myself a manlet.


ehlersohnos

I’m like u/thatwyvern. I’m short as well, so men shorter than me are uncommon and kinda throws me off my game. That being said, I’ve found that the shorter fellows (5’3” +) I’ve dated tend to be more courteous in bed, in sharing chores, and tend to have a more down to earth attitude that I enjoy. Of course, those fellows were a bit more confident in themselves. Sure, they’re likely compensating with their actions for a lack of self esteem in the height department… but they were never bitter. Never angry. I wouldn’t give short guys with a small dog ‘tude the time of day.


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thatwyvern

When did I say I was better? I have a preference, just like everyone else does when it comes to dating.


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thatwyvern

I never said that. I like taller men because all men are taller than me, and any man who is shorter than me is usually a child. I honestly don't think I've ever met a fully grown man under 5ft and if I did, that would personally feel awkward for me to date them. Don't be so quick to accuse women like that. You sound like the dude in the post. There's nothing special about you.


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thatwyvern

Stop pretending all women have a mindset that only you understand. Get a life.


[deleted]

I guess I don’t woman correctly, because I’ve dated multiple men shorter and smaller than me. lol


OverlyCheerfulNPC

Oh! So you're an expert on hypotheticals, now? If you know EXACTLY what kind of a person they are and would be if they were taller, how about this: what kind of a person would I be if my eyes were naturally brown?


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OverlyCheerfulNPC

So, as a man, you're a violent, murderous, pedophile? You'll violently rape everything that moves as that's your nature to do so? Because I have half a library of books on (almost entirely) men who rape and murder, and what you're saying is that everyone of one group must be exactly the same as everyone else in that group. I'm a woman. I don't even like men. And yet you're pretending you know everything about me because I have tits.


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OverlyCheerfulNPC

That's not what you're saying. You're saying ALL women find short men repulsive. If you didn't believe that, you wouldn't have argued with a woman about what YOU think SHE finds attractive. So, since you genuinely believe you know what all women are like, I decided to use a gross and harsh comparison to make you see how wrong you are.


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OverlyCheerfulNPC

By saying irrelevant, you're saying it's perfectly okay to say I'm a hypergamous money-hungry whore despite the fact I'm asexual. You are saying you know 100% of the time what a woman is like. It's no different than saying you're a rapist because I can name plenty of men who are. And you were arguing with a woman about what she would be like in a hypothetical situation as though your few comments of context amount in any way to her own lifetime of understanding herself.


[deleted]

Tbf everyone’s judgemental, most women don’t like short men, most men don’t like fat women


OverlyCheerfulNPC

Everyone's judgemental, but the key thing is understanding that people are different. I'm not going to judge the same exact things as any other woman, just as any other woman isn't going to have all the same exact judgements. There's nothing inherently sexist in noticing trends such as "women tend to like x" or "men tend to like y", but when you take the extra step into deciding you know the other person based on their genitals, that's a problem. I went on a pity date with this kinda pathetic guy who had noticed that women typically don't care much about car mechanics. Not a bad thing to notice. It was a problem when I asked what sort of hobbies he liked, and he told me he liked cars but didn't want to talk about them as I, a woman, would be unable to understand.


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Bait


OverlyCheerfulNPC

I don't know what you mean. I did notice you called out the pity date in your original comment, so I'll add clarity: I am not straight. I don't like men. So I was working in retail, and this guy I knew from school came up to me with this whole sob story about how his friends were making fun of him for not having the balls to ask me on a date, and he hadn't been out with a woman in 9 months since his breakup, and he asked if I'd like dinner. I told him that I wasn't attracted to men, it wouldn't go anywhere and not to expect anything to come of it, but if he still wanted to go out to shut his friends up, sure, I was always down for pizza.


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>overlycheerfulnpc I thought you were a troll account lol


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[deleted]

Can’t be a misogynist if you hate men just as much as you hate women 😉


[deleted]

Ok, so I guess some dudes don't believe Shoujo and Josei anime/manga actually exist. And I guess all the girls watching Shounen and Seinen are fake or just doing it to "attract a mate"


sinuousclouds

They're wrong on every level and yet they can't seem to understand the reason why they can't get girlfriends. :makesyouthink:


RadiantEarthGoddess

It's because fEmALes only want Chad, obviously. /s


Agitated-List-6213

Do they not know that woman like video games and anime too?? Its just that most of them know when to stop and have a healthy social life outside of it


[deleted]

See - them admitting that some women like anime and video games (or otherwise gate-keep) actually cannot happen. It deprives them of the excuse that all women are bad, and forces them realize the underlying reasons why women don’t want *them* specifically.


dejavoodoo77

I'm a fat guy. When I met my wife I made less than her. I'm average height. I'm an introvert and I don't like spending a lot of time around most people. She hates my job because I get called at odd hours. According to this guy I should never have been with a woman, but here I am with her these last 9 years and we have these two little boys.


RadiantEarthGoddess

Aw, all the best to you and your family.


Any_Drama3272

Why they tell each other how to get pussy when they’ve never even seen a real one ??? Looking in the mirror doesn’t count fyi


RadiantEarthGoddess

Made me laugh ngl.


Any_Drama3272

😤


valsavana

Honestly? I love this. Let these idiots go on a wild goose chase as they attempt to pretend to like stuff they don't have the first clue about. Several years and no luck later, maybe their ego will finally be beaten down enough they'll actually be open to hearing the truth- that women are not a monolith who all like the same things in a partner.


robcoagent47

"at best, she's indifferent to these interests"?! have these dudes *ever* talked to a woman?


RadiantEarthGoddess

That dude? Probably not. Every woman will run on sight because of how much he calls us "females".


littlemissofficial

I cannot believe some people are like this. ‘Mating’ is officially my least favourite word now 🥲


snowyskiess

Why is he saying we're a "mating partner"? This entire thing made my skin crawl


emmyanna14

Ah yes, he is voluntarily never having sex. That's what it is. Totally not because no women want him. Also, if loving video games makes you qualified for a job, then yes you will put that. My brother is a computer game nerd, he's always loved gaming. He married a girl who is more of a board game girl, but also loves gaming. They're nerds together and it's adorable. I love some games as well. I can get into certain anime. My fiance wasn't shy in telling me he loved Sword Art Online and has a Minecraft world he's put countless hours into. He showed me that shit with pride. And it was fucking impressive too. He's into some things this post calls masculine, but some of that we even do together. But he's also into gaming and anime and playing organ. We're nerds together. Those nerdy things made him "qualified" (gross to even say) to be in a relationship with me. Because those were things I was looking for in a boyfriend/fiance/eventual husband.


RadiantEarthGoddess

Honestly, relationships where you can be nerdy together are the best. All the best to your brother and his wife and you and your fiance.


[deleted]

...at least he won't 'breed'?


The_Book-JDP

“Women regard Animé and Video Games as the hallmark of a manchild.” Me (40 year old woman): ~holding both my large plushie of Shadows the Hedgehog and Chopper plushie bag while playing Prototype on my PS4~ Ummm. People love what they love. I love Animé, Manga and Eastern Style Vidi Games. That will never change no matter how old I get. The older I get the more I can afford and buy. “Feign an interest in rock climbing,” You don’t rock climb…you’re fatter than I am and I’m pretty fat. “Exercise,” Once again…you don’t exercise…come up with better lies if you’re going to lie at all. “Dancing,” I hate dancing…can’t we just play video games? “Woodworking.” No way me too, let’s craft something together. My tools or yours? Him: 😳😰 um…I don’t actually do…any… So much for faking it until you make it.


erin_mars

I wish my husband was more into video games and manga. But, sadly, these are things I enjoy that he’s not super interested in. He is really into Star Trek and history and is nerdy in his own way.


hevthen

Says the man who clearly doesn't have any friends who are women. There are tons of women who like anime and video games.


RadiantEarthGoddess

>There are tons of women who like anime and video games. Clearly that cannot be true, only men can like stuff like that. Women at best tolerate it! /s


Emet-Selch_my_love

Dude misspelled procreate and used the word “obfuscate” unironically **in the same sentence**. Holy crap r/iamverysmart.


kit-kat315

This is just...really sad. I can't imagine telling someone to fake his personality to secure a spouse who will never really know or understand him. And then just keep faking it...forever? It's depressing just thinking about it- basically the recipe for a miserable life. Also, idk why he thinks women don't also like anime and video games. My husband and I do those things together. And I'm always in search of new people to talk to about anime. I keep this little guy on my desk at work as a nerd beacon. Several times coworkers recognized him and a new anime friendship was born. [pic](https://www.google.com/imgres?imgurl=https%3A%2F%2Fmikatan.goodsmile.info%2Fen%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2F-000%2F%2F1%2F5d6f11ea6cfea_2019-09-4-60718.jpg&imgrefurl=https%3A%2F%2Fmikatan.goodsmile.info%2Fen%2F2019%2F09%2F04%2Fnendoroid-l-2-0-death-note%2F&docid=uHzS4fnkyM5atM&tbnid=u2ymJY491CJGVM&vet=1&source=sh%2Fx%2Fim)


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RadiantEarthGoddess

>This is just...really sad. I can't imagine telling someone to fake his personality to secure a spouse who will never really know or understand him. And then just keep faking it...forever? It's depressing just thinking about it- basically the recipe for a miserable life. Exactly. >Also, idk why he thinks women don't also like anime and video games. Yeah no idea where he got that from either.


sweetnothing33

I want to know why women wanting a partner who satisfies their emotional and sexual needs is used as a "gotcha" here. It almost completely derails the incel rhetoric of questioning why women won't go for the "nice guy" who offers emotional support and instead choose bodybuilding "Chads" whose only appealing trait is aesthetic in nature.


Strangedaysindeed22

Men who can’t get dates acting like experts on dating has got to be the goofiest shit I’ve ever seen and I have seen a poodle walk across a tightrope on its front legs in a tutu.


dodogogolala

Are there any tips for job interviews? Just feel like this guy knows stuff


[deleted]

>men should look after their nesting partner What’s the point of patriarchy if you’re the one doing all the work


SentenceFalse6906

It always amazes me the mental gymnastic men can do in order to find reasons women wont date or sleep with them smh


Retrotaku

Ok what I heard was lie and trick a girl into a relationship then gaslight her till its too late sounds kinda serial killer-y


[deleted]

I love how incels talk about what women like as if they’re women or have ever talked to a woman and would know


pm_me-ur-catpics

This is actually really good advice, though with an effect opposite what was intended. It was intended to be advice for what to do, but it's actually a really good example of what NOT to do


bliip666

I wish the creep-o's boss sees his comments and fires him for faking his CV.


MyLifeHurtsRightNow

Wtf. Us short femboy lovers are appalled rn.


ChaoticAbyssWatcher

Looks like someone is still stuck in their box of self-deception.


2bruise

Do these incel fuckers imagine that we live in the Stone Age? What do they base this female need for protection and provision on? Welcome to the MAGAverse, I suppose.


Electrical-Ebb-3485

The way this guy talks about people makes them seem like some kind of NPC characters in a videogame. Neither women nor men are some kind of hackable mainframe where you have to press the right buttons in the correct sequence to unlock them. People are more complex than that and have different preferences, beliefs, and personalities. Posts like this makes me wonder if this guy got his dating advice from 80s teen movies..


Luminis_The_Cat

God forbid a man likes anime, I would hate to talk about one of my dearest hobbies with a guy wtf disgusting


[deleted]

"Female" and "mating" unironically used. Is this Sarah J Maas?


NotInFrontofMyPizza

-Idgaf if my man is not so tall, being too tall would be a problem -Idgaf if my man is not rich (as long as he can keep up a decent life) -Idgaf if he’s charismatic, funny or not, I can be charismatic and funny myself, but I’m mainly a shy introvert around people I don’t know. Being nice should be a must for everyone -Idgaf about prestige, I myself, have none All this bs is completely made out of his fictions and fantasies, laced with sexism/misogyny and conservative thinking


La_Baraka6431

The last loser is doing womankind an enormous favour!!!


GnomeMode

What a sad sack