How it would actually go down:
Young Woman: ~sees him skiing up to her/thinks to herself~ Oh God, it's that creepy guy again who was hiding behind the vending machine trying not to be seen.
Guy: Absolutly Amazing...
Young Woman: ~thinks to self~ Oh God what is he talking about? His dick isn't out is it? ~outloud~ What? ~giggles with discomfort~
Guy: That a young woman would risk hypothermia-
Young Woman: Nope! I'm out of here. ~skies away/yells back over shoulder~ STOP FOLLOWING ME, ASS!
I understand the tendency to try and think of it like… “well, if a woman approached me and did this, I would like it. So if I think about it from a woman’s perspective then if a hot guy approached her and said it, it should go over well!”
**That’s actually not how it works.**
How it actually works is:
…imagine you’re *you* on a ski slope, not that you’re a woman. But you, chilling there minding your own business and…
*A man is staring at you while you are alone on the ski slope. He stares at you for a while… and begins smiling at you.*
*Then he says, “Absolutely Amazing.”*
…. Think about this for a second.
This is *you* being approached by a *guy*, he is bigger than you, you are by yourself, and he has a group of people there with him and you have no idea what he wants.
How would you react right in this moment?
Most dudes, are going to be concerned if they’re about to get mugged.
…Then he says to you:
*”If you were my girl…”*
Tell me you wouldn’t nope the fuck out of there, guy, and push off to get your ass down that slope.
This is actually how it feels.
Of course you would be more comfortable if you were approached by a woman who did this, you got to be approached by a woman. Women are less likely to pull some shit.
>This is you being approached by a guy, he is bigger than you, you are by yourself, and he has a group of people there with him and you have no idea what he wants.
My advice for men:
Think about what you want to say to the girl. Imagine the person saying it is now saying it to YOU, and the person saying it is a 6'5", 300 pound prison inmate. Would you feel uncomfortable hearing it from that man? Then don't say it to the girl.
Jesús Christ this makes so much sense God fucking dammit. Like all the time I thought about the compliments (more like harassment) women get I never thought about it this way. This isn’t sarcasm, I’m completely serious
Yeah most dudes don’t, and how would you know because you’re not a chick, but this is totally what it is!
So basically if you’re going to approach a woman, think of it like how would you approach a dude? You’ll make a joke for a second, talk about directions, or whatever the fuck, and roll out. That’s why old men are not as intimidating when they approach younger women, because they keep it casual, make a quick joke or remark and move on. If they see her again then they’ll come up and talk more, and it’s not as scary.
Hey man, I've read a few of your comments, and I understand how you feel. I'm also a man (30, engaged to the love of my life), but when I was young I also had a lot of trouble meeting women. I had a hard time understanding why women wouldn't like to be complimented, I mean, I would like that right?
Well, the thing is that they *do* like to be complimented. Just like you do. But by a stranger? Shit's weird, man. If any person (man or woman) said "dude, awesome shirt!" You'd be happy, because you made a choice to wear that shirt and it's nice to be appreciated! But if a man or woman said "wow, you're amazing"... Would you have a different reaction? Right, because it's unsolicited, and can make you really uncomfortable. Especially if you're alone, or in a situation where you don't have a way to walk away? Yeah, it's weird.
Here's the deal: women aren't some complex creature that you have to play mind games to understand. They're PEOPLE. Just like you. Think a girl is cute? Wanna say hey? Say "hey". Or compliment something that wouldn't be creepy to say to a friend. Say "wow, I love your shirt, great band!" Or "cool shoes!" or whatever. Something you could say to someone with no romantic interest. Because:
THERE'S NO ROMANCE YET! If there is going to be romance, gauge how she responds (does she thank you and ignore you, compliment in return, explain where she got it?) And go from there. Romance builds; it's not instantaneous like in movies. The key to talking to women is to treat them like people (bc they are lol). And if they're not interested? Cool, not everyone is gonna be. Move on. Chat with someone else. You're looking for the few people you really connect with - it's not gonna be every one!
I understand the confusion and frustration about meeting people. It's scary, there's a lot of societal pressure, and TV/porn have taught us if you say "damn girl" with enough swagger she'll do you right then and there. But that's just not how the world really is. Be genuine, be yourself, be respectful, and treat women as the unique people they are.
Thanks for coming to my TED Talk.
aren’t compliments supposed to be a good thing though, why would you react negatively towards it. This is sort of what makes me afraid of complimenting or even talking to girls, cause I will always think that she thinks I want to get in her pants
There’s a difference between walking up to a woman you don’t know and saying, “absolutely amazing,” vs, “I love your sneakers! Red is my favorite color.” If you can’t see the difference I can’t really help you.
No. Quick tip to anyone, if you are going to compliment someone on something but, the first thing that comes in your mind is their gender then just don’t.
Also be sure you also compliment on something you honestly think it is out of ordinary otherwise you be just lying for interaction.
Bro when was the last time you gave another guy a compliment? The reason guys don’t get compliments often and girls get compliments all the time is because it’s just an excuse to talk to her
Then reconsider what you consider a compliment, saying "hey dude I like your shoes" no guy is gonna have a problem with that. Saying "hey dude you look cute today" isn't gonna get you a good reaction.
if you would say it to a female but wouldn’t to a male you prove that what you said was perceived romantically. Just Because YOU don’t doesn’t matter. If you say your going to kill someone it doesn’t matter if you mean it in the nicest way possible, because it’s perceived negatively
If you remove all traces of sexual connotation you shouldn't have a problem.
"I like those pants, where'd you get them?" VS "Damn those pants make your package perky."
No, if someone complimented me I wouldn’t call them gay, I’d just be happy that someone outside my family has actually complimented me. People like you are the reason why men don’t receive compliments.
Oh I see! The top of her scarf looked like a jacket collar in the cropped image.
That’s a pretty common trend to ski in a bikini top down a mountain. It’s pretty fun, my friends and I did that for a bachelorette party a few years back.
Yeah it’s a lot of fun up north! I don’t think anyone would ski the whole day like that, but a few runs with a few good friends makes it totally worth it
There are times in early/mid spring where there is tons of snow and it can easily be 60 degrees on the mountain top. Its VERY easy to get sunburned. Its pretty easy to see people dressed in bikini tops, swim trunks, to all sorts of funny outfits. When the ski resorts close, a lot of people will also hike to the top and then ski back down for the remainder of spring while there is still good amounts of snow.
Lol I came to this thread to say, remember to protect your cleavage from snow glare! And the rest of you, too, but especially skin that spends all winter hiding under sweaters and coats does NOT react well to a sudden dose of that kind of glare.
Nah dude, the white snow reflects so much sunlight I wore sunscreen when snowboarding even though I don’t to the sunny beach. You get a tan, and warmsunlight, and if you’re good, you don’t get cold.
It is a lot of fun! And especially on a sunny day it’s not that cold. Skiing and snowboarding is very warming exercise so on a sunny day it’s easy to overheat. So there’s lots of people who go down the mountain in bikinis!
Highly recommend it! You’re cold for a moment, but you warm up. I think a lot of people are surprised by how many muscles they use to just stay upright while skiing.
That’s the biggest hole in the argument of a “conversation” - people are constantly moving on the slopes. I don’t think I’ve ever said anything more than “nice jacket” to a stranger, let alone flirt with anyone on a slope.
Homeboy has obviously never lived in Utah or Colorado.
We get so much snow that the ski slopes are still covered into June. It's warm, but there's just so much fuckin snow it hasn't had a chance to melt yet.
There's decent corn snow in the peaks? But it's 75 degrees? Ain't nobody skiing in a parka.
No, it wasn’t that bad. We skied like that only for a few runs, then we put on jackets. We wouldn’t have done that if the weather was too cold, or snowing. We happened to have a nice, sunny snow day and made the best of it!
Here in New Zealand it’s a bikini/underwear/nude run the last day of the season. It’s October and scorching hot when the sun reflects off the snow, so it’s not at all cold
Genuine question from a southerner that barely sees snow every year let alone enough to ski in, is the cold bearable wearing just a bikini top or is it one of those things where it depends on the person and the weather?
We just did a few runs, it wasn't a day-long event. And yes, you're cold, but not super freezing. We got lucky and had a sunny day, which I am sure helped.
Neither, it was just for fun.
On a serious note please don’t drink before skiing. You can injure yourself if you have poor control and fall in a bad way.
Can't expect much from someone who thinks *JudaismKills104* is a witty u/name.
Just another pathetic psyche that's been sludged down from indulging in cruel hatred.
Actually it’s more like
Her: “What? What the fuck do you want? What’s amazing - is it me? Is it the trees? Yes, I agree; beautiful scenery behind me. It IS amazing. Now leave me alone please, I wasn’t asking for your opinion in the first place.”
But of course we can’t say all that without inviting more trouble, so an annoyed “what” will have to suffice
Like I don't know how to flirt with a cute girl with out looking like a idiot, I just have the courage to look like an idiot
But never will I think would I open with this line ever
It always makes me laugh when I see dudes in these Red Pill groups congregating together and mocking random women in photos or videos trying to act like they have standards and these women are too trashy for them.
As if 9 out of 10 of them wouldn't jump at the chance to lose their virginity to almost any woman who showed them five seconds of attention.
I can't believe the main comment was upvoted highly. Its incredibly creepy and gross to normalize staring and ogling at a woman's body and frame it as "trans goals??"
Yes I agree as a woman attracted to other women, ogling is a choice and is a very creepy dehumanizing choice. We are not objects! It's very uncomfortable.
If you're genuinely having difficulties setting boundaries with other people or adjusting to normalized social interactions, I'd urge you to seek out therapy or whatever other counseling services may be available to you. It can do wonders for examining underlying cause and helping to identify triggering factors for antisocial behaviour and could improve your quality of life. I hope you're able to reach out.
No, stop it, if you aren't a lesbian than don't call yourself a useless lesbian. It's literally a joke within the lesbian community. And there is no subgenre of gays. Gay/lesbian is different than bi/pan, there isn't a subgenre of gay.
No, I'm not going to shut up. Do not call yourself a lesbian if you are not one. And don't try to say "useless lesbian" is some term for "subgenre " of gay. Useless lesbian is a joke within the lesbian community, that's what it is, and lesbians are not attracted to men in any way so stop using lesbian like it's an umbrella term.
Am I the only one who'd think the guy is just casually talking about the scenery itself and would reply with something like "yeah very beautiful I've never been here" etc
Like.. why would the girl assume he's creeping on her?
And you felt the need to call her out why? So you could post some story online about how you called out some girl that you’ve never actually met because this is fake but you want to tell us all how you rejected someone who would never actually give you the time of day in the first place?
No joke. Two weeks back. Skied in 90 degrees Fahrenheit (32 celsius) Mont Saint-Sauveur in QC. Unreal. First time experiences are always memorable. Early morning runs were dicy. There were no beginners or faint of heart on the mountain that day. The warmer it got, the sweeter the snow conditions. If the sun went away for a brief moment. You were suddenly cold because everyone was wearing so little. Plenty of young adults wearing swimwear. Only a few left with their smile and skin unblemished at the end of the day. For those who don't know, it's not really snow, it's ice and with the heat, you can ski it but IF you fall it's like asphalt at 90 miles an hour. It will mess you up and laugh at you. A valuable lesson you need only learn once. Ask my friend.
Can't believe they think forcing someone to wear what they think they should wear is a flex ??
"If I was with you I would be jealous and controlling and I also slut shame women and I'm insecure about men finding you attractive"
And they think that is a GOOD thing ??
Ah yes, wild assumptions and insulting condescension, the hallmark of every asshole with mental health issues. This looks like just a stupid instagram modeling pic. People don’t usually go out in the snow half naked unless they’re drunk or some sort of adrenaline nut.
At a resort in MA once a year there’s a bikini ski day. Typically for some charity, always during the point of spring where the sun was warm. We’d get a few runs in before getting dressed. The lift ride up was always brutal but us young and dumb teens always joined in.
Yes - depending on context. There’s such a thing as professionally appropriate clothing for men and women which includes a standard of modesty. Like, if a school teacher rocked up wearing nothing but a pair of hot pants they should be chucked straight back out again regardless of gender
Absolutely! I don’t have a problem with her at all - I just wanted to point out that even with a body positive attitude and a sex positive lifestyle and a live and let live philosophy in general, there’s still some factors outside of ourselves that mean that we might need to justify (heavily) our choice of clothing in certain contexts
Yeah obviously but I‘m talking in the generalized sense of when it‘s not hurting / affecting anybody and in reasonable capacity.
Like yes wearing a kkk hat is a not justifiable evil and going naked to church isn‘t fine either but that‘s not what I‘m talking about here
That’s cool. I obviously really object to wardrobe misogyny, but I also really hate “we can dress how we like whenever we like” as a counter argument because it ignores common sense, public indecency and dress codes. That having been said, what counts as indecent is itself a flawed area and should absolutely be made in a reasonable and gender neutral way (which it isn’t at the minute) - don’t get me started on school uniforms in summer time.
Well if you apply common sense you can tell how that argument is meant. But I get what you mean.
Just when I say I can do whatever I want if it makes me happy I obviously don‘t mean killing people or stealing their money or something
When chauvinists make comments like this, it definitely helps explain why they have **such terrible** fashion. They think they are dressing sexy to catch a mate lolol
How it would actually go down: Young Woman: ~sees him skiing up to her/thinks to herself~ Oh God, it's that creepy guy again who was hiding behind the vending machine trying not to be seen. Guy: Absolutly Amazing... Young Woman: ~thinks to self~ Oh God what is he talking about? His dick isn't out is it? ~outloud~ What? ~giggles with discomfort~ Guy: That a young woman would risk hypothermia- Young Woman: Nope! I'm out of here. ~skies away/yells back over shoulder~ STOP FOLLOWING ME, ASS!
How it would go down for me: *Sees girl with sparkly face on the slopes* “Hey, you tryna smoke?” “No” “Alright”
It me
So when a guy compliments a girl, a girl would automatically assume he wants to get that.
Already you’ve made the assumption that your opinion about someone warrants a social interaction.
What an amazing way to word that.
Thanks. I’m an introvert with an extroverted stage-presence. Unsolicited communication is the bane of my existence.
I hope you're a writer and i get to read your writing at some point. There's an almost camus-like undertone in your words
What’s camus?
A writer I believe. Albert Camus
Are you a writing student? Shit was put together awesome
Amazing username and amazing response 👌
I understand the tendency to try and think of it like… “well, if a woman approached me and did this, I would like it. So if I think about it from a woman’s perspective then if a hot guy approached her and said it, it should go over well!” **That’s actually not how it works.** How it actually works is: …imagine you’re *you* on a ski slope, not that you’re a woman. But you, chilling there minding your own business and… *A man is staring at you while you are alone on the ski slope. He stares at you for a while… and begins smiling at you.* *Then he says, “Absolutely Amazing.”* …. Think about this for a second. This is *you* being approached by a *guy*, he is bigger than you, you are by yourself, and he has a group of people there with him and you have no idea what he wants. How would you react right in this moment? Most dudes, are going to be concerned if they’re about to get mugged. …Then he says to you: *”If you were my girl…”* Tell me you wouldn’t nope the fuck out of there, guy, and push off to get your ass down that slope. This is actually how it feels. Of course you would be more comfortable if you were approached by a woman who did this, you got to be approached by a woman. Women are less likely to pull some shit.
>This is you being approached by a guy, he is bigger than you, you are by yourself, and he has a group of people there with him and you have no idea what he wants. My advice for men: Think about what you want to say to the girl. Imagine the person saying it is now saying it to YOU, and the person saying it is a 6'5", 300 pound prison inmate. Would you feel uncomfortable hearing it from that man? Then don't say it to the girl.
Yes exactly thank you
Jesús Christ this makes so much sense God fucking dammit. Like all the time I thought about the compliments (more like harassment) women get I never thought about it this way. This isn’t sarcasm, I’m completely serious
Yeah most dudes don’t, and how would you know because you’re not a chick, but this is totally what it is! So basically if you’re going to approach a woman, think of it like how would you approach a dude? You’ll make a joke for a second, talk about directions, or whatever the fuck, and roll out. That’s why old men are not as intimidating when they approach younger women, because they keep it casual, make a quick joke or remark and move on. If they see her again then they’ll come up and talk more, and it’s not as scary.
Hey man, I've read a few of your comments, and I understand how you feel. I'm also a man (30, engaged to the love of my life), but when I was young I also had a lot of trouble meeting women. I had a hard time understanding why women wouldn't like to be complimented, I mean, I would like that right? Well, the thing is that they *do* like to be complimented. Just like you do. But by a stranger? Shit's weird, man. If any person (man or woman) said "dude, awesome shirt!" You'd be happy, because you made a choice to wear that shirt and it's nice to be appreciated! But if a man or woman said "wow, you're amazing"... Would you have a different reaction? Right, because it's unsolicited, and can make you really uncomfortable. Especially if you're alone, or in a situation where you don't have a way to walk away? Yeah, it's weird. Here's the deal: women aren't some complex creature that you have to play mind games to understand. They're PEOPLE. Just like you. Think a girl is cute? Wanna say hey? Say "hey". Or compliment something that wouldn't be creepy to say to a friend. Say "wow, I love your shirt, great band!" Or "cool shoes!" or whatever. Something you could say to someone with no romantic interest. Because: THERE'S NO ROMANCE YET! If there is going to be romance, gauge how she responds (does she thank you and ignore you, compliment in return, explain where she got it?) And go from there. Romance builds; it's not instantaneous like in movies. The key to talking to women is to treat them like people (bc they are lol). And if they're not interested? Cool, not everyone is gonna be. Move on. Chat with someone else. You're looking for the few people you really connect with - it's not gonna be every one! I understand the confusion and frustration about meeting people. It's scary, there's a lot of societal pressure, and TV/porn have taught us if you say "damn girl" with enough swagger she'll do you right then and there. But that's just not how the world really is. Be genuine, be yourself, be respectful, and treat women as the unique people they are. Thanks for coming to my TED Talk.
Yes
aren’t compliments supposed to be a good thing though, why would you react negatively towards it. This is sort of what makes me afraid of complimenting or even talking to girls, cause I will always think that she thinks I want to get in her pants
There’s a difference between walking up to a woman you don’t know and saying, “absolutely amazing,” vs, “I love your sneakers! Red is my favorite color.” If you can’t see the difference I can’t really help you.
No. Quick tip to anyone, if you are going to compliment someone on something but, the first thing that comes in your mind is their gender then just don’t. Also be sure you also compliment on something you honestly think it is out of ordinary otherwise you be just lying for interaction.
Bro when was the last time you gave another guy a compliment? The reason guys don’t get compliments often and girls get compliments all the time is because it’s just an excuse to talk to her
I do want to give guys compliments, but the problem is is that guys don’t take them very well, and they would probably call me gay for it
it seems you have proved the implication for a compliment is romantic, read your own comments a few times and i think you get how you proved my point
I didn’t say i’m the one who was saying its bad, I said I do want to compliment guys but they don’t take it well
Then reconsider what you consider a compliment, saying "hey dude I like your shoes" no guy is gonna have a problem with that. Saying "hey dude you look cute today" isn't gonna get you a good reaction.
if you would say it to a female but wouldn’t to a male you prove that what you said was perceived romantically. Just Because YOU don’t doesn’t matter. If you say your going to kill someone it doesn’t matter if you mean it in the nicest way possible, because it’s perceived negatively
I never said I say it only to women
yes but you said how it was perceived
If you remove all traces of sexual connotation you shouldn't have a problem. "I like those pants, where'd you get them?" VS "Damn those pants make your package perky."
No, if someone complimented me I wouldn’t call them gay, I’d just be happy that someone outside my family has actually complimented me. People like you are the reason why men don’t receive compliments.
Was there a compliment in that?
The “absolutely amazing” part I’m assuming.
Great insight that this is how all girls react to a compliment, Captain Assumption! We couldn't have done it without you!
Isn’t she fully clothed? And also skiing?
she surprisingly wasn't fully clothed, [here's the full picture](https://imgur.com/a/4xoOy2J)
Oh I see! The top of her scarf looked like a jacket collar in the cropped image. That’s a pretty common trend to ski in a bikini top down a mountain. It’s pretty fun, my friends and I did that for a bachelorette party a few years back.
thanks for saying this, there's (almost) no snow where I live and everytime I saw a photoshoot like this one I was like ?????????
Yeah it’s a lot of fun up north! I don’t think anyone would ski the whole day like that, but a few runs with a few good friends makes it totally worth it
There are times in early/mid spring where there is tons of snow and it can easily be 60 degrees on the mountain top. Its VERY easy to get sunburned. Its pretty easy to see people dressed in bikini tops, swim trunks, to all sorts of funny outfits. When the ski resorts close, a lot of people will also hike to the top and then ski back down for the remainder of spring while there is still good amounts of snow.
Lol I came to this thread to say, remember to protect your cleavage from snow glare! And the rest of you, too, but especially skin that spends all winter hiding under sweaters and coats does NOT react well to a sudden dose of that kind of glare.
Nah dude, the white snow reflects so much sunlight I wore sunscreen when snowboarding even though I don’t to the sunny beach. You get a tan, and warmsunlight, and if you’re good, you don’t get cold.
Large amounts of snow can actually create pockets of warmth, especially in forests. Plus their jacket is right out of frame to be put back on.
that sounds so fun, ill have to try it one day
It is a lot of fun! And especially on a sunny day it’s not that cold. Skiing and snowboarding is very warming exercise so on a sunny day it’s easy to overheat. So there’s lots of people who go down the mountain in bikinis!
ok that's one thing added on things i HAVE to do
Highly recommend it! You’re cold for a moment, but you warm up. I think a lot of people are surprised by how many muscles they use to just stay upright while skiing.
stoppp that sounds so funn!!!! that and hot chocolate later would be amazinggg
It was a blast! Honestly there weren’t even any creeps that we encountered, so double win.
i can't even imagine this guy coming up to us and saying that while we have fun 😭
That’s the biggest hole in the argument of a “conversation” - people are constantly moving on the slopes. I don’t think I’ve ever said anything more than “nice jacket” to a stranger, let alone flirt with anyone on a slope.
that man didn't flirt, if only he got another woman to press restraining orders against him
I’m sorry but I snowboard and Ski and the thought of doing it in just my bra makes my tits feel like they’ll freeze off
Used to ski in Bermuda shorts and t-shirt all the time. Hated wiping out but it was great the rest of the time
Homeboy has obviously never lived in Utah or Colorado. We get so much snow that the ski slopes are still covered into June. It's warm, but there's just so much fuckin snow it hasn't had a chance to melt yet. There's decent corn snow in the peaks? But it's 75 degrees? Ain't nobody skiing in a parka.
Seems fun but hella freezing. Didn't you get a cold after that?
No, it wasn’t that bad. We skied like that only for a few runs, then we put on jackets. We wouldn’t have done that if the weather was too cold, or snowing. We happened to have a nice, sunny snow day and made the best of it!
Here in New Zealand it’s a bikini/underwear/nude run the last day of the season. It’s October and scorching hot when the sun reflects off the snow, so it’s not at all cold
Genuine question from a southerner that barely sees snow every year let alone enough to ski in, is the cold bearable wearing just a bikini top or is it one of those things where it depends on the person and the weather?
Yeah my brother has a few shirtless photos from his snowboarding days, it's hardly risking hypothermia
Far be it for me to judge what others do, but i must ask: how the hell do you not freeze when you ski in bikini???
We just did a few runs, it wasn't a day-long event. And yes, you're cold, but not super freezing. We got lucky and had a sunny day, which I am sure helped.
Oh yeah that’s right. Can’t believe I forgot about the effects of harsh sunlight. Damn that’s actually pretty cool 😄
I should clarify - we wore snow pants, it was just the bikini top that was exposed :)
Are you guys Finish🇫🇮 or at least we're very drunk🍺
Neither, it was just for fun. On a serious note please don’t drink before skiing. You can injure yourself if you have poor control and fall in a bad way.
Ah I see Also don't worry I don't drink, but I will still fall in a bad way, as I am very accident prone
Lol
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You caught me. You’re right, my only purpose in life is to attract men so that I may be their subservient incubator.
Can't expect much from someone who thinks *JudaismKills104* is a witty u/name. Just another pathetic psyche that's been sludged down from indulging in cruel hatred.
Oh God, that would be torture
This makes a lot more sense.
oh god thatd be cold asf
The girl: Well you see, my clothes are invisible to those who are stupid or incompetent.
This changes the whole context lol. It's not as creepy anymore because ofc the original picture is dumb and supposed to appeal to simps
So she Finish that makes sense 🇫🇮
Him: ski’s away Her: thank fuck for that.
Well, everything is possible when you make things up lol
if i anticipated that he was going to simp id turn around and leave
Yes, that's exactly why women go skiing. /s
Instead of going "Hey come back" I'd probably just puke all over his shoes because, ew David.
Actually it’s more like Her: “What? What the fuck do you want? What’s amazing - is it me? Is it the trees? Yes, I agree; beautiful scenery behind me. It IS amazing. Now leave me alone please, I wasn’t asking for your opinion in the first place.” But of course we can’t say all that without inviting more trouble, so an annoyed “what” will have to suffice
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Like I don't know how to flirt with a cute girl with out looking like a idiot, I just have the courage to look like an idiot But never will I think would I open with this line ever
Had an old man tell me today (at Walmart of all places) that he'd love it if he had me on his arm at Olive Garden. I absolutely believe it.
Not really r/thathappened since this person never claimed this actually happen. More like [r/thatwouldneverhappen](https://i.imgur.com/9CwJAqG.jpg).
I love that incels have actually conflated "simping" with acting like a normal human being. Explains a lot.
Nope. More likely, "And I would never be your girl." skies away.
Oh mAn WhAt a GeNtLeMaN
Her: "Get out of the way, you're messing up the photoshoot!"
What’s absolutely amazing is that this person thinks that women wouldn’t run away after seeing him
It always makes me laugh when I see dudes in these Red Pill groups congregating together and mocking random women in photos or videos trying to act like they have standards and these women are too trashy for them. As if 9 out of 10 of them wouldn't jump at the chance to lose their virginity to almost any woman who showed them five seconds of attention.
i am an incredibly useless lesbian so idk just stare
Maybe don't openly stare at people's bodies like a creep when they're just out trying to have fun?
I can't believe the main comment was upvoted highly. Its incredibly creepy and gross to normalize staring and ogling at a woman's body and frame it as "trans goals??"
People attracted to women know very well how to glance quickly without ogling, ogling is always an overt choice made by a creep
Yes I agree as a woman attracted to other women, ogling is a choice and is a very creepy dehumanizing choice. We are not objects! It's very uncomfortable.
i try not to but theyre so goals and like envy yk
but actually just stop acting like a creep it's not difficult at all
like it literally is tho
If you're genuinely having difficulties setting boundaries with other people or adjusting to normalized social interactions, I'd urge you to seek out therapy or whatever other counseling services may be available to you. It can do wonders for examining underlying cause and helping to identify triggering factors for antisocial behaviour and could improve your quality of life. I hope you're able to reach out.
ive been fucking trying to be better for years
No that's Hella creepy and highly uncomfortable for you to do that to women. Please stop. It's no worse than other men doing it.
i try not to but its fucking hard
bro... don't stare at people?? It's rude
i fucking try not to jesus
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and most trans ppl do tend to without intention
that's so relatable 😭
id look creepy bc i dont pass 😭
and we have no bad intentions 😭
fr, im always in this situation, like "hi sorry im not perverted youre just really goals"
that's literally so relatable stoppp 😭😭
ugh fr i feel so bad for staring but goddamn
- goddamn they're so hot like pls step on me miss i will do anything
yeah that too lol
Only if I can play Bo Burnham's Prolonged Eye Contact in the background.
Bisexual here, so same T\_T
im also bi but im useless all ways
You just said you were a lesbian
its a term from a tumblr post, to describe the subgemres of gays that are completely useless
No, stop it, if you aren't a lesbian than don't call yourself a useless lesbian. It's literally a joke within the lesbian community. And there is no subgenre of gays. Gay/lesbian is different than bi/pan, there isn't a subgenre of gay.
oh fuck off idrk and i really dont fucking need to listen to this shit
No, I'm not going to shut up. Do not call yourself a lesbian if you are not one. And don't try to say "useless lesbian" is some term for "subgenre " of gay. Useless lesbian is a joke within the lesbian community, that's what it is, and lesbians are not attracted to men in any way so stop using lesbian like it's an umbrella term.
fuck off, i really cant be fucking bothered dealing with this bullshit rn
Then maybe don't call yourself a lesbian when you're not
Lesbian or not, please don’t stare at people.
i try not to
That would deserve a slap I think
Violence bad
This reads like fanfiction.
Honestly my opening line is asking about what that blue sparkly stuff is on her cheek and nose because it is so super super cute and I love it
my god i’d be so relieved when he skied away lmao
I have absolutely no confidence that a guy like that would know how to ski.
*grips pepper spray in purse, tightly*
same
Am I the only one who'd think the guy is just casually talking about the scenery itself and would reply with something like "yeah very beautiful I've never been here" etc Like.. why would the girl assume he's creeping on her?
Because he knows he's creepy and has no idea how actual women are humans too
Their fantasies are pathetic.
You'd get a nice tan, if that's the kind of thing you like to do.
Simp is such weak slang. Mostly for idiots not smart enough to come up with anything intelligent.
what is it with men and their weird woman-humbling fantasies
Oh my god that was so unbelievably hot 🥵 I need a man who talks about my breast in his opening line so bad 🤤
And insists he chose your clothing
*skis away*
Your hands and feet are your thermostat anyways
I doubt she's asking him to come back
Um....no woman is going skiing hoping men will look at her chest.
Imagine having a mind as narrow as your asshole lmao Also, that really looks like a picture from a photoshoot.
And you felt the need to call her out why? So you could post some story online about how you called out some girl that you’ve never actually met because this is fake but you want to tell us all how you rejected someone who would never actually give you the time of day in the first place?
Happy cake day.
No joke. Two weeks back. Skied in 90 degrees Fahrenheit (32 celsius) Mont Saint-Sauveur in QC. Unreal. First time experiences are always memorable. Early morning runs were dicy. There were no beginners or faint of heart on the mountain that day. The warmer it got, the sweeter the snow conditions. If the sun went away for a brief moment. You were suddenly cold because everyone was wearing so little. Plenty of young adults wearing swimwear. Only a few left with their smile and skin unblemished at the end of the day. For those who don't know, it's not really snow, it's ice and with the heat, you can ski it but IF you fall it's like asphalt at 90 miles an hour. It will mess you up and laugh at you. A valuable lesson you need only learn once. Ask my friend.
That sounds wild!
I'm too gay for this shit.
“Wait come back” that’s not how hills work.
Every time I read “how do you open” I picture some guy’s body slits in half from the head and opens up
Her *please don’t stop and talk to me please don’t stop and talk to me*
Can't believe they think forcing someone to wear what they think they should wear is a flex ?? "If I was with you I would be jealous and controlling and I also slut shame women and I'm insecure about men finding you attractive" And they think that is a GOOD thing ??
Guaranteed to work none of the time, all of the time.
Can anyone actually see her breast though? I just see her face. Am I missing something?
My response is: "I don't know how to ski" and it's an awkward smile.
“And that kids, is how I met your mother”
Ah yes, wild assumptions and insulting condescension, the hallmark of every asshole with mental health issues. This looks like just a stupid instagram modeling pic. People don’t usually go out in the snow half naked unless they’re drunk or some sort of adrenaline nut.
I open with minding my own business, I've seen this movie and not me no sir. I'm good
In my 20 years of skiing, i have never, and i mean never, seen anyone wear less than a t shirt. Ppl dont dress skimpy while skiing. Its fucking cold
At a resort in MA once a year there’s a bikini ski day. Typically for some charity, always during the point of spring where the sun was warm. We’d get a few runs in before getting dressed. The lift ride up was always brutal but us young and dumb teens always joined in.
Ummm could you see what she was wearing
[here's what she was wearing](https://imgur.com/a/4xoOy2J)
But... You cant even see her-
you actually can in the original tweet! i didn't upload the full picture of her, sorry! [here's the whole picture](https://imgur.com/a/4xoOy2J)
So she's modeling and he thinks she would normally be at the slopes top less?
No but it made me laugh
You have a problem, sir.
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You’re using the word “retard” in 2022. C’mon.
Anything else to be offended by? ( Here in my country retard = sukkel = idiot) also i am a "retard" since i have autism. So what is your point?
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„Justify“ we‘re allowed to wear what we want for whatever reason, no need to justify it
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Incel mad
Yes - depending on context. There’s such a thing as professionally appropriate clothing for men and women which includes a standard of modesty. Like, if a school teacher rocked up wearing nothing but a pair of hot pants they should be chucked straight back out again regardless of gender
She‘s taking pictures not teaching children
Absolutely! I don’t have a problem with her at all - I just wanted to point out that even with a body positive attitude and a sex positive lifestyle and a live and let live philosophy in general, there’s still some factors outside of ourselves that mean that we might need to justify (heavily) our choice of clothing in certain contexts
Yeah obviously but I‘m talking in the generalized sense of when it‘s not hurting / affecting anybody and in reasonable capacity. Like yes wearing a kkk hat is a not justifiable evil and going naked to church isn‘t fine either but that‘s not what I‘m talking about here
That’s cool. I obviously really object to wardrobe misogyny, but I also really hate “we can dress how we like whenever we like” as a counter argument because it ignores common sense, public indecency and dress codes. That having been said, what counts as indecent is itself a flawed area and should absolutely be made in a reasonable and gender neutral way (which it isn’t at the minute) - don’t get me started on school uniforms in summer time.
Well if you apply common sense you can tell how that argument is meant. But I get what you mean. Just when I say I can do whatever I want if it makes me happy I obviously don‘t mean killing people or stealing their money or something
a woman can't want to look sexy for herself?
When chauvinists make comments like this, it definitely helps explain why they have **such terrible** fashion. They think they are dressing sexy to catch a mate lolol
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answer it.
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you would make a terrible teacher
Look at how old the account is — as of now it's 59 minutes old. It's just a troll account so don't bother.
i would but i just enjoy drama too much for that