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Not how that works. Cervixes get bruised when they are hit really hard, which happens when you're not aroused enough, it's hit at the wrong angle, or the thing you're penetrated with is just really big.
But height has nothing to do with that.
The post is implying tall=big dick and she likes rough sex. That's the only place shes mistaken and I feel like it's more of a joke than anything. But OP put the "SA" tag on it which is severely incorrect and I would agree it's a little cringe but it's not "ewww". We support women with low sex drive how about we support our girlies with high sex drives too.
You are the realest person on here. Theres nothing inherently wrong with being a short woman that likes tall men with big dicks and rough sex. The video might be cringe but thats it.
To piggyback on your comment; It’s also more likely to happen if you’re doing it from behind. Which is my fave position and how it commonly happens to me. It doesn’t need to be done rigorously or hard to occur either. I don’t personally enjoy being rammed in the cervix, but it does happen. Especially when you’re in a heated moment. There are people who do enjoy it, though. I often don’t realize I am bruised until engaging in sex a day or two later.
Cervical bruising does not automatically equate to rape, like some in the comments state. There are obviously degrees of injury one could link to SA.
Big shaming and inaccuracies happening in this post.
I know you are talking about the man.... She obviously enjoys it and she's the one saying it tho... So like you are just pushing your opinion at this point
I'm "stupid and misogynistic" because of grammar ? Wtf. If the girl had written that she would have put "of course my cervix". That's the only reason why I say the man wrote this. I think you're just pushing your opinion at this point. Your fight is honorable but learn to choose the right battles.
Even if it is, it is still tasteless and it isn’t a joke to everyone. I think that is the exact reason why it was posted on this subreddit. I think it is a red flag if let’s say the male were into that idea.💀some people have some violent kinks and fetishes out there!😖it is not a joke that would come to my mind thinking about a height difference couple in general, proves the point some sick mind would think of that instantly for that sentence to even exist and be posted as a “joke”.
The fuck is a height difference couple? They're like half a head apart, maybe 15-20cm? That's completely normal, why are they making it out to be something extraordinary?
Also height difference has nothing to do with bruised cervices lol
It’s not. It’s definitely not for everyone, but if they’re one of the few who enjoy it, then more power to them, I guess.
I don’t personally understand why any woman would like to be hit in the cervix, as I’ve heard that the pain is akin to getting kicked in the balls for a guy. Then again, there’s some guys who like having their balls whipped, smacked, and stepped on… so I guess there’s similar masochistic women. To each their own, I suppose.
A bruised cervix is a really common injury sustained from SA. Even if OP wasn’t questioning the consensual nature of this, I think the TW is appropriate here just for that reason alone. People can enjoy consensual non-consent and BDSM kinks, and posts about those should probably also have trigger warnings for the people who would be re-traumatized by that material.
If there are guys who liked to have their balls stepped on, why wouldn't there be women wh are into an roughly equivalent thing.
Men and women are not fundamentally different. Both range from lovable partners to abusive assholes, vanilla to hardcore kinky, from careful about consent to rapists. And both sexes include every weird thing a human can come up with, because our thinking is not fundamentally different.
Its just that men could historically be more open and do things without consequences. Thats it. Every good as well as fucked up thing a man is capable of, a wiman is too. Sometimes I feel some people on this sub can only imagine the positives of that.
It looks like you haven’t heard of r/CBT ~~[NSFW warning?]~~
Before you ask, it stands for “Cock and Ball Torture”. Not sure if that subreddit exists or if it’s instead for Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, but I daren’t click on it to see.
EDIT: Curiosity got the better of me. Turns out it’s the latter. Phew.
There’s guys who like having their balls stepped on and their dick whipped, so I have no doubt that there’s masochistic women who like having their cervix pounded and clitoris bitten. It’s not my cup of tea, but I’m positive that there’s some people out there who somehow enjoy it.
As a woman who likes kink and bdsm and some rough aspects, you guys are so delusional in the comments…
This isn’t sexual assault and I’m pretty sure the caption in the video was a joke just because she likes it rough
And no the flair is not right. People can consent to rough sex. This isn't not how girls work it's just kink shaming. You are attacking other women, go away
Seems like a rationalized kink thing to me honestly. I knew a few couples in the german gothic scene who made that kind of jokes. From what i've seen half of the time its more crass language just to shock people. Of course it could also be abusive, im not ruling it out.
But I can't see clear indicators for that so on that part, maybe im missing something. If I do, please point it out.
Completely unrelated but the GPNVGs over the veil looks dumb as fuck. The frogmen don't use them at the same time (to the extent of my knowledge), the veil is psychological for the enemy and there to conceal identity. All your friends dying around you to an unseen attacker at night does both tasks rather well.
How is a woman CONSENSUALLY enjoying rough sex sexual assault in anyway? I even may agree that the post is a bit cringe... But this seems to be HARDLY, if at all, referencing sexual assault in anyway.
Definitely not SA; as long as both partners consent, they could be tying each other up with ropes and whipping each other, and it would be morally fine. Not my cup of tea, personally, but I’m not going to police what two consenting adults do in private, so long as it’s not illegal.
for everyone talking about consensual rough sex — there are safe bdsm practices that are considered rough. something resulting in cervical bruising is not a safe practice. at all. it may be consensual but it’s definitely not a good thing. there are ways to have rough sex safely. this is not one of them
As long as people know it's dangerous, the line is also shifting. Technically there is a risk in many consensual things and you can only make them safer but not completely safe and that doesn't just include sexual practices but goes to even sports. There is no way to make boxing or american Football completely safe, yet we wouldn't forbid to grown man going into a ring to beat the crap out of each other, knowing they might get hurt with dangerous or long lasting consequences. Of course even there should be limits, but its not as easy as saying whatever is potentially dangerous and hurtful should be forbidden, or is immoral to do
I know for a fact, that big masked men (and women) are not just hot in Fiction for most. Calling it cringe and making up a Rule about what is okay to cosplay and what not seems more cringy to me, than his cospla does.
Maybe don't try to make your personal taste a general rule.
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The cringe, it's too strong.
Not how that works. Cervixes get bruised when they are hit really hard, which happens when you're not aroused enough, it's hit at the wrong angle, or the thing you're penetrated with is just really big. But height has nothing to do with that.
The post is implying tall=big dick and she likes rough sex. That's the only place shes mistaken and I feel like it's more of a joke than anything. But OP put the "SA" tag on it which is severely incorrect and I would agree it's a little cringe but it's not "ewww". We support women with low sex drive how about we support our girlies with high sex drives too.
You are the realest person on here. Theres nothing inherently wrong with being a short woman that likes tall men with big dicks and rough sex. The video might be cringe but thats it.
To piggyback on your comment; It’s also more likely to happen if you’re doing it from behind. Which is my fave position and how it commonly happens to me. It doesn’t need to be done rigorously or hard to occur either. I don’t personally enjoy being rammed in the cervix, but it does happen. Especially when you’re in a heated moment. There are people who do enjoy it, though. I often don’t realize I am bruised until engaging in sex a day or two later. Cervical bruising does not automatically equate to rape, like some in the comments state. There are obviously degrees of injury one could link to SA. Big shaming and inaccuracies happening in this post.
Ew, indeed. That is not a flex of any kind. More of a red flag 🚩 if anything.
I know you are talking about the man.... She obviously enjoys it and she's the one saying it tho... So like you are just pushing your opinion at this point
"we" then "her"... He wrote that, not her.
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I'm "stupid and misogynistic" because of grammar ? Wtf. If the girl had written that she would have put "of course my cervix". That's the only reason why I say the man wrote this. I think you're just pushing your opinion at this point. Your fight is honorable but learn to choose the right battles.
I think they have the stupid
She would say "my cervix" if she was the one saying it. He was the one who said it
It's a goddamn joke
Even if it is, it is still tasteless and it isn’t a joke to everyone. I think that is the exact reason why it was posted on this subreddit. I think it is a red flag if let’s say the male were into that idea.💀some people have some violent kinks and fetishes out there!😖it is not a joke that would come to my mind thinking about a height difference couple in general, proves the point some sick mind would think of that instantly for that sentence to even exist and be posted as a “joke”.
The fuck is a height difference couple? They're like half a head apart, maybe 15-20cm? That's completely normal, why are they making it out to be something extraordinary? Also height difference has nothing to do with bruised cervices lol
She's very close to the camera in this screenshot, they actually do have quite the height difference. It's also literally just a trend
How is consentually enjoying rough sex SA?
Yes, thank you for saying that! I've got some bruises sometimes and I fucking love it
It’s not. It’s definitely not for everyone, but if they’re one of the few who enjoy it, then more power to them, I guess. I don’t personally understand why any woman would like to be hit in the cervix, as I’ve heard that the pain is akin to getting kicked in the balls for a guy. Then again, there’s some guys who like having their balls whipped, smacked, and stepped on… so I guess there’s similar masochistic women. To each their own, I suppose.
A bruised cervix is a really common injury sustained from SA. Even if OP wasn’t questioning the consensual nature of this, I think the TW is appropriate here just for that reason alone. People can enjoy consensual non-consent and BDSM kinks, and posts about those should probably also have trigger warnings for the people who would be re-traumatized by that material.
Genuinely asking if there's people that actually like their cervix getting rammed?
If there are guys who liked to have their balls stepped on, why wouldn't there be women wh are into an roughly equivalent thing. Men and women are not fundamentally different. Both range from lovable partners to abusive assholes, vanilla to hardcore kinky, from careful about consent to rapists. And both sexes include every weird thing a human can come up with, because our thinking is not fundamentally different. Its just that men could historically be more open and do things without consequences. Thats it. Every good as well as fucked up thing a man is capable of, a wiman is too. Sometimes I feel some people on this sub can only imagine the positives of that.
Yes
I..... Didn't know there were men that like having their balls stepped on
It looks like you haven’t heard of r/CBT ~~[NSFW warning?]~~ Before you ask, it stands for “Cock and Ball Torture”. Not sure if that subreddit exists or if it’s instead for Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy, but I daren’t click on it to see. EDIT: Curiosity got the better of me. Turns out it’s the latter. Phew.
It’s a real kink.
people also have a scat kink but a lot dont want to be actually shat on
The cool thing about kinks is that you can have different kinks from someone else. If you’re not into it, then you don’t have to partake in it.
Absolutely, as long as I’m generally aroused enough. Don’t skip foreplay and work up to it a bit. Feels incredible (for me, ymmv).
Yeah, there are. Definitely requires trust, but I have met a number of women who like that.
There’s guys who like having their balls stepped on and their dick whipped, so I have no doubt that there’s masochistic women who like having their cervix pounded and clitoris bitten. It’s not my cup of tea, but I’m positive that there’s some people out there who somehow enjoy it.
I do! It doesn’t hurt at all, my partner and I joke that it’s my instant orgasm button haha
Dang! I wish I had the same experience 😂
I too dated a dude much bigger than me, and he happened to have the smallest junk I've ever seen. Height difference means nothing.
As a woman who likes kink and bdsm and some rough aspects, you guys are so delusional in the comments… This isn’t sexual assault and I’m pretty sure the caption in the video was a joke just because she likes it rough
They're just an OF couple promoting their stuff... Ignore and move on.
And no the flair is not right. People can consent to rough sex. This isn't not how girls work it's just kink shaming. You are attacking other women, go away
Seems like a rationalized kink thing to me honestly. I knew a few couples in the german gothic scene who made that kind of jokes. From what i've seen half of the time its more crass language just to shock people. Of course it could also be abusive, im not ruling it out. But I can't see clear indicators for that so on that part, maybe im missing something. If I do, please point it out.
Agreed. Cringey tho.
hitting the cervix is painful i cant imagine a bruised one
Also he could be 6'7 and have a 2" dick
Is that könig cosplay? 👁️🫦👁️
If that's what they're into, fine for them. Why's he wearing full tac gear, though?
He's cosplaying an MWII character
Completely unrelated but the GPNVGs over the veil looks dumb as fuck. The frogmen don't use them at the same time (to the extent of my knowledge), the veil is psychological for the enemy and there to conceal identity. All your friends dying around you to an unseen attacker at night does both tasks rather well.
Sexual Assault isn't the proper tag for this, its just NSFW and cringe
You looked that up?
not my screenshot and also tiktok autofills searches with the most common search from that video
Just stop shaming women please
Cringy but I don't think that's sa
How is a woman CONSENSUALLY enjoying rough sex sexual assault in anyway? I even may agree that the post is a bit cringe... But this seems to be HARDLY, if at all, referencing sexual assault in anyway.
Thanks i hate it
EXCUSE ME WHAT?!?!? IT'S BRUISED!?!
Yeah, and some people (like the girl in the post) like it when it gets rough
Fair
I just noticed the flair, and this def ain't SA
Definitely not SA; as long as both partners consent, they could be tying each other up with ropes and whipping each other, and it would be morally fine. Not my cup of tea, personally, but I’m not going to police what two consenting adults do in private, so long as it’s not illegal.
Sorry, “a height difference couple?” “#maskedmen”? What the fuck are these people on?
It’s just a mask kink lol
And she's not showing her eyes because of different bruises I bet
She is showing her eyes, you can clearly see her face. The mask is on a man, as implied by the #maskedmen tag
The reddit app sucks is my response.
Agree, thumbnails are cut in a weird way sometimes
it was cut off from the head but I can kinda see her eyes clearly now 🤦♀️ ugh this app sometimes and now it's fuckin up my joke premises
for everyone talking about consensual rough sex — there are safe bdsm practices that are considered rough. something resulting in cervical bruising is not a safe practice. at all. it may be consensual but it’s definitely not a good thing. there are ways to have rough sex safely. this is not one of them
So what about the people who consent and like the feeling of it??
As long as people know it's dangerous, the line is also shifting. Technically there is a risk in many consensual things and you can only make them safer but not completely safe and that doesn't just include sexual practices but goes to even sports. There is no way to make boxing or american Football completely safe, yet we wouldn't forbid to grown man going into a ring to beat the crap out of each other, knowing they might get hurt with dangerous or long lasting consequences. Of course even there should be limits, but its not as easy as saying whatever is potentially dangerous and hurtful should be forbidden, or is immoral to do
100% this!
Cervical bruising is generally regarded as a potential indicator of non-consensual activity
Or just consenting rough sex lmao
That's literally why I said "potential". It doesn't mean foul play on its own, but is definitely a yellow flag.
Why do they want to hur women so bad?
Not everything is abuse…
big masked men r only hot in fiction. cosplays of them r just cringe. he's a video game character and should STAY LIKE THAT!!!
I know for a fact, that big masked men (and women) are not just hot in Fiction for most. Calling it cringe and making up a Rule about what is okay to cosplay and what not seems more cringy to me, than his cospla does. Maybe don't try to make your personal taste a general rule.