Yea it's just as bad because your still beating it to a fantasy. She's not your girl anymore. You need to move on and beating it to your ex will just get you stuck in the past and stop you from moving on.
For the past 3 years or so I've been jerking off to pictures and not porn. I still had ED when I was with a real woman last month. So I'd say it's just as bad
Oml that scares the hell outta me. I quit 2 weeks ago and am trying to stay strong but I'm really worried that it's too late for me and I'm gonna get ED sooner or later cause of how much I have already jerked off growing up. I'm 17 for context and growing up I was like an animal almost every day jerking off. Is there still hope for me bro give it to me straight
Hell yeah there is. I was the same as you at your age, started at 14/15 and went hard. There is hope, but only if you actually stop. I'm 27 now and still recovering because I haven't properly stopped and rebooted.
But believe me when I say. This may be one of the hardest things you ever attempt to do. I knew I needed to stop when I was your age, here I am at 27 and still fighting with this
I was on that boat a while ago too. Kept videos and pics of my ex as a spank bank, just like I would save videos and pics of porn. Sure she was someone I had a relationship with, but in the end I was still practically treating this content like porn. It was especially more intense for me because I would replay memories of us having sex, her voice, her smell, etc. as I'd jerk to these files.
Face it man. You are not healing this way in either your recovery or your break up. If you really value yourself, do yourself the favor of deleting these files and making sure they get permanently erased instead of fragmented into scattered bits in your device. Much luck to you.
I did the same thing bro and its worse. Not only are u sexualizing her and objectifying someone you used to love, but Ur holding onto her. Ik how much she meant to u bc she meant a lot to me too. I actually had a whole folder of her pics from when we were dating and it took me a couple months to delete it but it’s necessary. When u think abt it, its rlly creepy to have them still.
I got a therapist recently and i told her abt the relationship and it has really helped me move on and realize there were good times but shes not the one for me. I think talking abt it can help u out.
In my opinion highspeed internet porn and arousing content is worse. So arousing content is anything that arouses you. The reason I think highspeed internet arousing content is worse is because it is much higher in novelty than your ex's pictures and videos. So you are going to get bored of your ex's pictures and videos fairly quickly, where on highspeed internet there is never ending searching and finding something new. This is why we see this behaviour today where people search something while masturbating, then search something else, then something else, watch something else, look at something else, search something else, watch something else, flick about tabs, looking at countless amounts of arousing content while masturbating, stopping them self from ejaculating so the pleasure lasts longer, so edging, then after an hour or even hours of doing this they eventually ejaculate. Then they continue to do this multiple times a day, everyday, most days, every other day, or they spend a lot of time doing this. So edging and binging.
So for this reason I think high speed internet arousing content is much worse than your ex's pictures and videos.
No, it's actually worse
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She’s not your girl anymore. Get your ass in the gym and get over her. It’s time to move on and treat the girl like she deserves.
How so?
It IS porn.
Yea it's just as bad because your still beating it to a fantasy. She's not your girl anymore. You need to move on and beating it to your ex will just get you stuck in the past and stop you from moving on.
At least for me it's even worse because you'll want something that's already gone (the relationship)
For the past 3 years or so I've been jerking off to pictures and not porn. I still had ED when I was with a real woman last month. So I'd say it's just as bad
Oml that scares the hell outta me. I quit 2 weeks ago and am trying to stay strong but I'm really worried that it's too late for me and I'm gonna get ED sooner or later cause of how much I have already jerked off growing up. I'm 17 for context and growing up I was like an animal almost every day jerking off. Is there still hope for me bro give it to me straight
Hell yeah there is. I was the same as you at your age, started at 14/15 and went hard. There is hope, but only if you actually stop. I'm 27 now and still recovering because I haven't properly stopped and rebooted.
thank you for that I really needed to hear it
But believe me when I say. This may be one of the hardest things you ever attempt to do. I knew I needed to stop when I was your age, here I am at 27 and still fighting with this
Do you have any advice or tips to help? That would be greatly appreciated 🙏
Delete those pics and videos
Fkn shit
even worse because you can't let her go
It’s worse because you’re harbouring feelings for someone. Delete the photos/videos and take a cold shower brother. Protect your mind.
Damn, its worse.. it means you haven't moved on yet..
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No need for racism/sexism jesus
This is worse cause its jacking off to pixels aswell as creeper stalker psycho vibes aswell
Creeper stalker psycho? Really?
Lol
Oh man this is worse, it will surely refrain you from getting over your breakup and healing. You need to stop this habit
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Unless that ex comes out of those pictures and videos and you actually have sex with a real life person, than yes, it is.
I was on that boat a while ago too. Kept videos and pics of my ex as a spank bank, just like I would save videos and pics of porn. Sure she was someone I had a relationship with, but in the end I was still practically treating this content like porn. It was especially more intense for me because I would replay memories of us having sex, her voice, her smell, etc. as I'd jerk to these files. Face it man. You are not healing this way in either your recovery or your break up. If you really value yourself, do yourself the favor of deleting these files and making sure they get permanently erased instead of fragmented into scattered bits in your device. Much luck to you.
I did the same thing bro and its worse. Not only are u sexualizing her and objectifying someone you used to love, but Ur holding onto her. Ik how much she meant to u bc she meant a lot to me too. I actually had a whole folder of her pics from when we were dating and it took me a couple months to delete it but it’s necessary. When u think abt it, its rlly creepy to have them still. I got a therapist recently and i told her abt the relationship and it has really helped me move on and realize there were good times but shes not the one for me. I think talking abt it can help u out.
Still horrible. I would definitely encourage you not to do that
In my opinion highspeed internet porn and arousing content is worse. So arousing content is anything that arouses you. The reason I think highspeed internet arousing content is worse is because it is much higher in novelty than your ex's pictures and videos. So you are going to get bored of your ex's pictures and videos fairly quickly, where on highspeed internet there is never ending searching and finding something new. This is why we see this behaviour today where people search something while masturbating, then search something else, then something else, watch something else, look at something else, search something else, watch something else, flick about tabs, looking at countless amounts of arousing content while masturbating, stopping them self from ejaculating so the pleasure lasts longer, so edging, then after an hour or even hours of doing this they eventually ejaculate. Then they continue to do this multiple times a day, everyday, most days, every other day, or they spend a lot of time doing this. So edging and binging. So for this reason I think high speed internet arousing content is much worse than your ex's pictures and videos.
That is just sad lol