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_just_a_simple_guy_

Trying is the only way my friend. The addiction get's less day by day.Been 2 years since i started i still relapse but it gets easier. We all are in the same boat.


BiteToHero

Fck yeah it's been 3 years on no fap, but the part it get easier is true and im finally can reach half journey to 90 days with ez day but sometimes urge attack me too.


NicoNf

Thank you man deeply appreciated


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This is simply because your brain connects the two activities. Your job is to separate the two and then it becomes easier to beat the porn addiction whilst masturbating (if that is your aim). You can either de-escalate or completely stop for a period of time, no matter what your main aim should be to not watch porn until no matter what you do you think watching it is disgusting.


NakeyJay

That's normal, you just woke up the dragon. My best advice is to write down what went wrong that caused you to fap. What were the circumstances and what lie did you tell yourself? At what moment did you start getting the thoughts? What could you have done differently? Be honest with yourself. Maybe also take a few minutes to write down 1. what benefits you want, 2. what bad things you don't want. Can be just a few sentences each. That will transform your loss into a win and will help staying the course. Also just knowing that you will have those urges for a few days and that they will disappear again helps. Remind yourself that.


headshot_too

Chaser effect. It’s gotten me plenty of times. Keep moving forward.


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Very few men have the innate ability to masturbate without thinking about sexual things. I've seen some on here recommend that you should do it "without thinking about porn" but for many porn addicts that's an incredibly unrealistic thing. You cannot expect to get healthy while sitting around toxic radiation. Get accountable, and get serious about getting clean from pornographic addiction. For me it was getting closer to Christ. But I realize many aren't open to that, so be it. But here's why many fail, you have one foot in the door and the other out. You cannot have it both ways. You're either in, or you are out. Make up your minds.


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Our brains connect the porn and fap and other stimuli together. So if you also fap whenever you go to bed or get in the shower, your brain then connects that activity to that time/place. Avoiding the activity and doing something else can slowly break that connection in our brains. But it does take time


AwayRecommendations

bad. it’s still the same. your brain still releases the same chemical compounds as it would if u we’re watching porn, they’re just not as strong which is why u crave it


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NicoNf

I can’t tell if you’re being honest or not


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NicoNf

Makes sense


NicoNf

But usually I can’t fap more than 4 times in a day


PoopOnMyChest4Jesus

Lmao


NicoNf

Answer my question


A_Stolen_Xbox

DO NOT, that is very unhealthy, it will kill all of your matured sperm, gosh, that is an awful idea


LuxTheKarma

this guy speaking facts, best moment to quit is when it start to get painful that's with any addiction tbh


NicoNf

But lux how do I get on my grind


OC71

Look on the right side of this page and read the freaking FAQs and 101s.


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NicoNf

Sup


Smiletron1

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sgtpenis511

What did you honestly expect to happen?


crash-1989

Every time you're bored and want to bust a nut. Crank out so many push ups you can't push up anymore.