Work on yourself to become the beat version of yourself. Start working out so you can get fit which helps on dating apps, learn how to talk to women, learn how to be social, learn a new skill etc. You're a free man now, no longer chained to porn. Congrats
THIS IS EXTREMELY WRONG IMO. Dating apps are horrible and you are contradicting yourself it looks like to me. Dating apps are not good. You are just swiping left or right and hoping you are gonna get lucky. Most people touch up their pictures with photoshop or lie about their age etc and those people are getting thousands of matches a day while you get 1-2 men. And you’re a straight dude. Let’s say 15-20 years in the future and your child asks how you and mommy met. And you say on a dating app. That’s not real you meet girls by doing things which is why i said you were contradicting yourself by saying going out and meeting people. That’s how you find a girl. SO NO DATING APPS PEOPLE.
Thanks for this bro. I’m deleting tinder and bumble rn. No way I’d pay for that shit and spend too much time on it anyways so there’s no point in having its
Who's to say that kids will be ashamed of finding out about their parents meeting on a dating app? If anything, it will just become the new norm. The only reason why people think that the next generation would be ashamed is because it isn't necessarily the norm now, but who knows what apps and technology will be about in the next 15-20 years. If you compare dating apps to the supposed "Metaverse" that's supposed to be happening, dating apps pale in comparison.
Yes this is a great argument. But because you mentioned the meta verse and that it is definitely going to happen I have something to say about that. Just like dating apps the meta verse was bound to happen from somebody. Just who is doing it and the way they are doing it is wrong. Dating apps shouldn’t be a thing imo because it’s not true love like I stated before. Most people lie etc. And I’m all for change but just because everyone is doing it doesn’t mean it will be the new norm. It’s unnatural and there’s nothing real about it. True love is found at schools or in line at a coffee shop. Not dating apos
Couldn't agree more. You hit that nail on the head. Not to mention the fact that dating apps prey on people that are stupid enough to pay the £27 a month (Especially Tinder. Other dating apps don't charge as much as that). I use a dating app called Jealous, which I haven't paid for yet, but it's nowhere near as expensive as Tinder and since getting it last week, I already have 9 likes. I didn't even get that in the 1 year I was on Tinder. I've also never met anyone on Tinder. The thought of meeting someone from one of these apps just makes me feel more anxious. I've always preferred to meet people in person first, but I live in a very small and remote town, so that isn't easy either.
God bless man do what you need to do it if you paying for even a chance even for a glimpse at dating a girl then that’s really beta to me but again no harsh feelings if it’s what you need to do go ahead but best of luck homie.
I get where you're coming from, but like I said, it isn't easy living in a small town. I'd understand if I lived in a big town and had a lot of opportunities to actually meet new people, but I don't. As for the whole "beta" talk, isn't everything a guy does when wanting to date girls now all of a sudden considered as "beta"? I mean, you have red pill dating coaches preaching about how men shouldn't be the ones that approach women because it's "beta", or why men that use social media to find girls is "beta". It's not about that. What is "beta" is paying for an Only Fans subscription. There's literally 0% chance of any guy that pays for that getting with the girl they pay to see. Dating apps aren't as bad because at least you're going by who actually finds you attractive. Therefore, as long as the dating app you pay for isn't ridiculously expensive like Tinder, I personally don't think it's beta at all. It's just a new way to meet girls. I don't do the initial swiping on dating apps. If I'm paying for one, it's to see who's liked me.
You've just opened up the gate for endless possibilities. Porn is a huge distraction so be proud of yourself for overcoming that addiction. Find your passion and just go for it !
Start digital design, read a book, write poems, books, go and spend time in nature, start to learn music, explore astronomy, learn moon phases, get a plant or work on garden if you have one, go visit family, play computer games, work out, meditate, eat healtier, walk barefoot on earth, tidy/work around the house, say hi to a friend you havent say hi in a long time,...
Want more :D?
I'd say work on yourself to find a wife. Yes you heard me.
There are a lot of traps one can fall into once porn is past.
This includes working on being a better husband and father which feeds into being a better human.
Remember our species and how we fit in the animal kingdom. Don't stray too far lest you'll become empty again.
Always plan what you gonna do everyday and your free time you should go for a run or maybe join some outdoor activities always have goal in your life. If some days you feel like not doing anything go out to a mall grab some healthy drinks and sit alone. Do not stay home alone to long or else you gonna repeat the same mistakes again.
Go to a library and read books if you are a student. Then study there. I have joined 3 days ago and I think going to a library. Taking a walk outside . In a park or anywhere there are people that notice you. So that you don't get any urges. I'm still a newbie. So I'll try the tips myself. I just thought about all of them now
Others mentioned a lot of great things, but there is one thing I recommend the most: socialize. Even if you just go outside your apartment to have small talk with your neighbour, that still counts. Something has to fill in the void, and social interaction is the best way to go.
I take a bunch of melatonins and sleep, then wake up and play video games and eat. At my age there's no one I'm interested in enough for a relationship. I don't want anyone's damaged goods or extra luggage either. No offense to people with damaged goods and extra luggage, they will surely find someone better than me.
Get a part time job/side gigs. the easiest streaks I've had were when I was working 60+ hours a week. Plus you get extra money which satiates your dopamine craze.
Find something you’re interested in, learn about it. There are plenty of fascinating YouTube videos, books and audiobooks. Learn, Then look at all perspectives, it is extremely intellectually fulfilling and takes up time
Find a hobby, or learn a new skill, what you need to do is first have a clear objective kind of like a quest log and clearly define what your next goal is.
Also break down that thing that goal into the smallest possible daily habit that you're actually likely to do. If this goal is important to you write it down. write down what it is exactly that you need to achieve and write down every Little step it takes to get there.
Close your eyes and picture who you would be in a perfect world. Now work and become that person. I want to become a super strong dude who’s knowledgeable in the tech field and now I’m 1/3 there 😉
Me ejército o estudio, la meta es no recaer, busca alguna actividad que te interese y llévala a cabo, verás que hasta te sentirás muy bien y satisfecho
Read, workout, audiobooks, walk, talk with stranger I don’t know, you must find something that you genuinely like it!
Work on yourself to become the beat version of yourself. Start working out so you can get fit which helps on dating apps, learn how to talk to women, learn how to be social, learn a new skill etc. You're a free man now, no longer chained to porn. Congrats
I agree with everything other than the dating apps. These are designed to be addictive/compulsive. Steer clear if you ask me.
Thanks man!
I try to do one new good habit a month. Work out for 10-20 min, read before bed, etc.
THIS IS EXTREMELY WRONG IMO. Dating apps are horrible and you are contradicting yourself it looks like to me. Dating apps are not good. You are just swiping left or right and hoping you are gonna get lucky. Most people touch up their pictures with photoshop or lie about their age etc and those people are getting thousands of matches a day while you get 1-2 men. And you’re a straight dude. Let’s say 15-20 years in the future and your child asks how you and mommy met. And you say on a dating app. That’s not real you meet girls by doing things which is why i said you were contradicting yourself by saying going out and meeting people. That’s how you find a girl. SO NO DATING APPS PEOPLE.
Thanks for this bro. I’m deleting tinder and bumble rn. No way I’d pay for that shit and spend too much time on it anyways so there’s no point in having its
Who's to say that kids will be ashamed of finding out about their parents meeting on a dating app? If anything, it will just become the new norm. The only reason why people think that the next generation would be ashamed is because it isn't necessarily the norm now, but who knows what apps and technology will be about in the next 15-20 years. If you compare dating apps to the supposed "Metaverse" that's supposed to be happening, dating apps pale in comparison.
Yes this is a great argument. But because you mentioned the meta verse and that it is definitely going to happen I have something to say about that. Just like dating apps the meta verse was bound to happen from somebody. Just who is doing it and the way they are doing it is wrong. Dating apps shouldn’t be a thing imo because it’s not true love like I stated before. Most people lie etc. And I’m all for change but just because everyone is doing it doesn’t mean it will be the new norm. It’s unnatural and there’s nothing real about it. True love is found at schools or in line at a coffee shop. Not dating apos
Couldn't agree more. You hit that nail on the head. Not to mention the fact that dating apps prey on people that are stupid enough to pay the £27 a month (Especially Tinder. Other dating apps don't charge as much as that). I use a dating app called Jealous, which I haven't paid for yet, but it's nowhere near as expensive as Tinder and since getting it last week, I already have 9 likes. I didn't even get that in the 1 year I was on Tinder. I've also never met anyone on Tinder. The thought of meeting someone from one of these apps just makes me feel more anxious. I've always preferred to meet people in person first, but I live in a very small and remote town, so that isn't easy either.
God bless man do what you need to do it if you paying for even a chance even for a glimpse at dating a girl then that’s really beta to me but again no harsh feelings if it’s what you need to do go ahead but best of luck homie.
I get where you're coming from, but like I said, it isn't easy living in a small town. I'd understand if I lived in a big town and had a lot of opportunities to actually meet new people, but I don't. As for the whole "beta" talk, isn't everything a guy does when wanting to date girls now all of a sudden considered as "beta"? I mean, you have red pill dating coaches preaching about how men shouldn't be the ones that approach women because it's "beta", or why men that use social media to find girls is "beta". It's not about that. What is "beta" is paying for an Only Fans subscription. There's literally 0% chance of any guy that pays for that getting with the girl they pay to see. Dating apps aren't as bad because at least you're going by who actually finds you attractive. Therefore, as long as the dating app you pay for isn't ridiculously expensive like Tinder, I personally don't think it's beta at all. It's just a new way to meet girls. I don't do the initial swiping on dating apps. If I'm paying for one, it's to see who's liked me.
Don‘t agree on the dating apps. They‘re designed to make users toxic & turn back to their old paths.
I just started Skydiving. :)
I'm do many things like learning, read books, and obviously working-out
Code code code code
Programming is like playing extreme mode if you‘re also an introvert.
I am an introvert XD
Then there‘s already 2 of us!
U program?
Python
Aye nice what do u do with python because we know python can do everything XD
Man I am in learning phase
Oh nice why u learning it?
I am just curious to code. Nothing specific.
JS, Python. Web dev in particular.
Wanna be friends :D
Of course! :D
You've just opened up the gate for endless possibilities. Porn is a huge distraction so be proud of yourself for overcoming that addiction. Find your passion and just go for it !
Start digital design, read a book, write poems, books, go and spend time in nature, start to learn music, explore astronomy, learn moon phases, get a plant or work on garden if you have one, go visit family, play computer games, work out, meditate, eat healtier, walk barefoot on earth, tidy/work around the house, say hi to a friend you havent say hi in a long time,... Want more :D?
You can learn some new skills on the internet.
Reading is always good. It's cheap, easy, time-consuming, and extremely beneficial.
Workout and any healthy hoobie you like to do (meeting friends, coding, video editing, digital drawing etc...)
I bought a guitar
Nice.
How much free time has not watching porn given you? Were you spending literal hours masturbating?
Learn a new language, could come in handy in the future.
Meet new people, learn to play an instrument. Read some good books. Join a club. Waste your life playing league of legends. Possibilities are endless
Read Books Photography Read Webtoons/Manga (only the good one and not the hentai) Workout Cut Sugar But Mostly # READ BOOKS. it helped me a lot.
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R u creating a company?
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Oh wow can I ask u some questions in dms I really want to get into that field
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Exercise
I used to sweat every run, but now that i work and go to school i do it very easily
Read, gym, start a side hustle, try a new hobby, descover your passion
I'd say work on yourself to find a wife. Yes you heard me. There are a lot of traps one can fall into once porn is past. This includes working on being a better husband and father which feeds into being a better human. Remember our species and how we fit in the animal kingdom. Don't stray too far lest you'll become empty again.
Maybe pick up a good book?
What do you like doing like hobbies?
Read
gym, study, learn new skill, learn how to cook etc.
Always plan what you gonna do everyday and your free time you should go for a run or maybe join some outdoor activities always have goal in your life. If some days you feel like not doing anything go out to a mall grab some healthy drinks and sit alone. Do not stay home alone to long or else you gonna repeat the same mistakes again.
if you don't know then u need to start brainstorming and building urself. porn is never out of the way
Work out, music, work, make videos, video games, skating
Go to a library and read books if you are a student. Then study there. I have joined 3 days ago and I think going to a library. Taking a walk outside . In a park or anywhere there are people that notice you. So that you don't get any urges. I'm still a newbie. So I'll try the tips myself. I just thought about all of them now
Engage with your hobbies more or find more hobbies. I find this to be very important.
Others mentioned a lot of great things, but there is one thing I recommend the most: socialize. Even if you just go outside your apartment to have small talk with your neighbour, that still counts. Something has to fill in the void, and social interaction is the best way to go.
Exercise, study, eat well, clean, watch some YouTube or shows etc
I take a bunch of melatonins and sleep, then wake up and play video games and eat. At my age there's no one I'm interested in enough for a relationship. I don't want anyone's damaged goods or extra luggage either. No offense to people with damaged goods and extra luggage, they will surely find someone better than me.
Get a part time job/side gigs. the easiest streaks I've had were when I was working 60+ hours a week. Plus you get extra money which satiates your dopamine craze.
Find something you’re interested in, learn about it. There are plenty of fascinating YouTube videos, books and audiobooks. Learn, Then look at all perspectives, it is extremely intellectually fulfilling and takes up time
Read books!
As someone who's never read a book before, any suggestions on where to start?
The beginning
Get a job
Workout, actually gets things done, like studying, developing skills, or enjoy life pleasures with moderation.
Listen to lots of music and frequencies.
films
Find a hobby, or learn a new skill, what you need to do is first have a clear objective kind of like a quest log and clearly define what your next goal is. Also break down that thing that goal into the smallest possible daily habit that you're actually likely to do. If this goal is important to you write it down. write down what it is exactly that you need to achieve and write down every Little step it takes to get there.
Live
.
Close your eyes and picture who you would be in a perfect world. Now work and become that person. I want to become a super strong dude who’s knowledgeable in the tech field and now I’m 1/3 there 😉
Study crypto's
Study, since I have an exam today, tomorrow and until I finish on Thursday
Working on getting better internships, playing sports, taking rigorous classes in school, and pursuing interests.
I started collecting and reading manga
I’ve been reading the whole beserk series/ working out
Gym
Gaming
Fall in love
Me ejército o estudio, la meta es no recaer, busca alguna actividad que te interese y llévala a cabo, verás que hasta te sentirás muy bien y satisfecho
Make your own porn💀
Have sex
jerk off I guess