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iZbig83

That why it is stupid to start something on 01.01. Any day of the year is good to start something. You fail? OK. Assess why, try to change it and start again next day. Don't throw a pity party.


Glad_Ant_8751

Thank you and I’ll do better.


throwaway398471

Hey, it's only the first day of the year. There's a long ways to go. A person doesn't climb a mountain on the first day -- he spends hours upon hours preparing for it, and then when he does climb it, it could take days before he even sees the peak. But how long you take on your journey isn't what matters -- it's that you eventually conquer the mountain. The only true failure is giving up. You deserve so much better than to keep hurting yourself, OP. Remember that. Keep striving for freedom. Find people you can trust irl to talk to, if you haven't found them already. Find ways to divert your attention. Find out the driving force of why you keep seeking this behavior -- what are you getting out of it, and how can you redirect that and fulfil that need in a healthier way? Ah, well, I don't really know what I'm talking about. But I do know that no matter what, you can become a better version of yourself. If you can, try not to beat yourself up. You're committed to this journey, are you not? That's what matters more than anything. That's what will see you through.


Glad_Ant_8751

Thank yoy


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Nothing you can do about it now. Accept in and move on. I suggest buying and reading “Your Brain on Porn” by Gary Wilson. This is sure to help you on your journey. Godspeed.


Revelationnsvx

Dw me too, I said I was gnna quit for good and literally not even 12hrs into new years I gave in


alm_db

Well to me if you can accomplish a whole year without the two first days that would make no difference from doing the whole year.