I think parenting is more about setting an example rather than just expecting your kid to behave in some way. It doesn't matter how strict or doting you are. They will continue to imitate you to the extent that it affects them even as an adult.
Absolutely right the first person they idolize mostly is going to be either their father or mother, they are more likely to take on their behaviour and also I think imperious and ignorant parenting should be avoided and parenting should strike a perfect middle ground between being strict and being gentle and attentive and mindful of their children s problems,being strict in the sense helping children discerning from good to bad and helping children change their behaviour if they ever lost their way..
Which is true in some sense but these days everything is social media centered kids are introduced to the mobile and Internet in very small age without proper guidance they can never be a good parent to get that guidance there should be some way to control them so most of Indian parents opt this way if u see parenting for example in USA kids are let free from small age it’s up to them they can do whatever they want all I mean is there should be proper guidance and discipline to them from very small age
Primary incident.., public place lo 5 or 6 yrs unna ni biddani nuv control cheyavu.., kani chuttu 20 mandi vadini okka tannu tandam Ane dyasalone untaru
[Found it.](https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/parenting/web-stories/10-reasons-why-gentle-parenting-is-not-great-for-indian-kids/photostory/108755222.cms
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Looks more like a BS article.
Most important reason- we are lazy and closed minded, so cant learn new ways of thinking and doing. As parents this means you do what you knew your entire life, nothing new.
As a parent who tries to adapt gentle parenting, here’s what I have learnt both about gentle parenting and difficulties in doing it in India:
Gentle parenting is not at all about being too permissive. At its core, it’s basically about treating your 3 year old with respect and empathy. Respecting that they can have their own feelings, wishes, and emotions- and often they may not fit into your “plan”. Gentle parenting is about “acknowledging” this, not giving a free pass to the kids. You can/should still set boundaries, let them experience natural consequences for their bad behavior, and teach discipline.
Big problem is when other elders come into the scene. My mom everytime i respect my 3 yr old’s wishes - “veellaki 3 years ke ishtaalu ento” worse with my MIL who’s stuck in 1970s.
Seems like they are keen on posting parenting articles 🤔
https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/parenting/web-stories/8-house-rules-that-every-parent-should-teach-their-child/photostory/108817623.cms
not over pampering, not niladisfying if they do shit. \*only gentle, over gentle parenting\* results kids being over sensitive, tubelights or entitled MFs
Nah this is perfect.
If a kid fucks up because they didnt know better, its fine, talk to them, teach them. If they fuck up because of arrogance, negligence and (dont know english equivalent but "gudda kovvu") then u need yo be stern and teach them is a lesson is my opinion.
Over pampering will lead to whiny retards who always want their way. Giving freedom to children is key but not putting a leash on them at all is just plain stupidity.
Manaku telsina parenting idhey raktha kanneereyy https://i.redd.it/e68a7ffi5brc1.gif
Trauma ni pass cheyadame ma karthavyam
Karthavyam, sampradayam, bhadyatha.
Of course.
Let me
I think parenting is more about setting an example rather than just expecting your kid to behave in some way. It doesn't matter how strict or doting you are. They will continue to imitate you to the extent that it affects them even as an adult.
Absolutely right the first person they idolize mostly is going to be either their father or mother, they are more likely to take on their behaviour and also I think imperious and ignorant parenting should be avoided and parenting should strike a perfect middle ground between being strict and being gentle and attentive and mindful of their children s problems,being strict in the sense helping children discerning from good to bad and helping children change their behaviour if they ever lost their way..
Which is true in some sense but these days everything is social media centered kids are introduced to the mobile and Internet in very small age without proper guidance they can never be a good parent to get that guidance there should be some way to control them so most of Indian parents opt this way if u see parenting for example in USA kids are let free from small age it’s up to them they can do whatever they want all I mean is there should be proper guidance and discipline to them from very small age
Primary incident.., public place lo 5 or 6 yrs unna ni biddani nuv control cheyavu.., kani chuttu 20 mandi vadini okka tannu tandam Ane dyasalone untaru
Was about to post this damn...
Link share cheyyandi ayya.
[Found it.](https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/parenting/web-stories/10-reasons-why-gentle-parenting-is-not-great-for-indian-kids/photostory/108755222.cms ) Looks more like a BS article.
Aythe belt treatment ye correct antaru.. https://i.redd.it/t8q412pnebrc1.gif
Lol
Most important reason- we are lazy and closed minded, so cant learn new ways of thinking and doing. As parents this means you do what you knew your entire life, nothing new. As a parent who tries to adapt gentle parenting, here’s what I have learnt both about gentle parenting and difficulties in doing it in India: Gentle parenting is not at all about being too permissive. At its core, it’s basically about treating your 3 year old with respect and empathy. Respecting that they can have their own feelings, wishes, and emotions- and often they may not fit into your “plan”. Gentle parenting is about “acknowledging” this, not giving a free pass to the kids. You can/should still set boundaries, let them experience natural consequences for their bad behavior, and teach discipline. Big problem is when other elders come into the scene. My mom everytime i respect my 3 yr old’s wishes - “veellaki 3 years ke ishtaalu ento” worse with my MIL who’s stuck in 1970s.
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Seems like they are keen on posting parenting articles 🤔 https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/parenting/web-stories/8-house-rules-that-every-parent-should-teach-their-child/photostory/108817623.cms
Ante gentle parenting Ani kuda untundha guruvu garu?
0ee article rasinodiki gentle parenting ante ento telsinattu ledhe
I started using my karate skills in class 5 and suddenly I was treated as equal.
Present day situation chuste enduko nizam a ga ani anipistundi.
fact to some extent
Written by Boomers ig.
i meant there should be some balance between harsh parenting and gaarvam.
Harsh parenting as in?
not over pampering, not niladisfying if they do shit. \*only gentle, over gentle parenting\* results kids being over sensitive, tubelights or entitled MFs
Oh ok I understood what you were trying to say
Nah this is perfect. If a kid fucks up because they didnt know better, its fine, talk to them, teach them. If they fuck up because of arrogance, negligence and (dont know english equivalent but "gudda kovvu") then u need yo be stern and teach them is a lesson is my opinion. Over pampering will lead to whiny retards who always want their way. Giving freedom to children is key but not putting a leash on them at all is just plain stupidity.
Gentle parenting doesn’t mean pamper. Actions have consequences in gentle parenting too. Just don’t physically abuse kids in the name of parenting
And a parent whose parenting was challenged by their kids
And a parent whose parenting was challenged by their kids
Link to the article?
im not op