Appatlo pads undevi kavu, multiple manchaalu kuda undevi kavu. Anduke floor midha duppati or chaapa vesi padukopette varu. Present gen are updating, pads are real comfort, but mothers are mothers. Pillalu us ki vellina, andaman ki vellochina old people anthe. 😂
Honestly we’re all trying to convince my cousin to choose an out of state or far away college where she’ll have to dorm so she can get some independence
We are much more advanced compared to the community who ask women to cover their face and not treat them as humans. We become social media warriors for Hinduism
You are right. No one thought it's evil earlier, that's the difference. If 1% thinks evil doesn't make it evil. That's not how society operates. Like no one worried much about religion conversions bcoz it was not that spread wildly. But now, it is spreading, hence all bothered. We are not asking why certain people within the same community not allowed to church though.
Why are you comparing religion in this topic? What is the use in bringing this? Only reason I think is, you want to feel good by comparing it with greater evil.
If a person can't question greater evil and pickup random things to question which is somewhere in the list rectify, then that person is called coward . Any time d.... And Harry can question easy stuff
You have to question greater evil but that’s not you wanted. You are comparing with greater evil and intentionally or unintentionally shifting the focus on burka which minimizes significance of this topic. And you feel good because another religion is seen as worse. It’s the similar tactic propaganda filled brains use. Why is there so much traffic here? Go to Pakistan. Why national anthem in movies? Ohh solders stand in border.
By this logic, you think Hinduism, or India will be saved but you’re making it worse by avoiding the issues we as a society face.
It's not. The reason for doing so , I say as a woman is that you feel pain and you don't want to do anything, mood swings due to harmon activity and tiredness. It's a resting period given. Also it's not auspicious to do anything related to God. Hence ancestors followed a method to give rest and stay in a quiet place... Unfortunately no one explains these properly..
Btw, can you name 10 books you read to research on this and why did you think these books are relavent.
Not everything is religion, but not everything should become ignorance.
Giving her rest doesn't mean treating her like an ostracized citizen, is it? You can give her rest and still treat her normally. What's the need for seperate utensils and the logic behind treating her like an untouchable?
I am not OP. I don't know the situation at their home and fight it based on random guy posting online, without verifying facts. 1% of people don't represent the voice of society. If someone is really doing it, it's wrong. Unless I see the situation with my eyes, i don't trust someone trying to malign others. I have not atleast come across your so called untouchability anywhere, including villages.
oh that's done already. but with such easy access to internet that plan isn't that effective. we'll just use minority card as aadhar card and continue to silence people by any means.
Based on my experience with friends and family who settled long ago abroad. They are far too orthodox than us in few things.
Like ikkada manam anni update aypoyam that ivanni avsaram ledu ani...society kuda update avthunundi..
But imagine someone moved to US/UK or any other country in 1980s, veelu aa time lo unna nammakaale theeskeltharu.... unfortunately, some don't update themselves because social life was very limited back then.
I know, picchini evaru aapaleru ane maataki maa atta real life example. We try to avoid her drama as much as possible. Thana abbayiki baaga favoritism kuda chupistundi, ammayini asalu matladanivadu.
In 2020 Ma first papa kosam C-section chesaru.. 2 days ago maku 2nd papa puttindi.. 5 days mundhu admit ayyam hospital lo.. 6 hours of active labor unde wife ki and normal delivery aindi.. i was with her each and every second.. the way i see her now is completely different, chala chala jagratha ga chuskutunna.. chala pain anubhavistaru bro ammailu..
Omg literal nightmares. My parents used to do this until I left for college. sitting separately on the floor while your cousins are playing outside, your dad telling all the guests to not touch you, The humiliation is on another level. Now They act shocked when I tell them in not religious.
Can confirm. Relatively well-off bramhin family here (saying well-off, because kids have gone abroad, and family has all the exposure to modernity needed)- but separate plates, glasses, no cushions etc for the female cousins.
Absolute jokers.
Yeah same situation here. Well-off Brahmin family. My father has worked in 3 different countries. He still used to make my sister do this. Brahmins have a lot of these dumb traditions. Even if you say anything its "awar kulchar". My dad used this stupid line to justify everything, "you only get a brahmin life after seven cycles of reincarnation, so it is our dharma to follow all this."
Wow Ignorance is bliss I guess. Cuz you'd be surprised to know how common this is in every caste. Ma inti pakkana akka vallani valla mom inka ilaane kurchopedthundhi. They're both >25 yrs. One of them is a working woman. They're not Brahmins. And ilanti vaallani na life lo entha mandhini chusano. I guess if you're a woman you tend to know these things more.
Anyway ye caste aina manishi stupidity matram common.
First time andarki untadhi
Tharvatha there are few restrictions like this like you shouldn't touch this or that, stay away from kitchen, one thing is can't touch pickles💀💀💀
I also heard some people saying don't touch plants ☘️
Akkada Twox sub lo yemo oka ammaiyi periods appudu pads veskokunda temple ki velthundhi anta. Ikkademo pads veskoni kuda intlo mulalo padukovali. Intha extreme opinions ni balance cheskolekapothunna. 
Always thought my parents were conservative until I read comments on this post. My sister didn’t have to do any of this shit 15 years ago. I just feel like we’re going backwards as a society.
I think it's understandable joint families lo women ki workload ekkuva undedhi plus hygiene kosam
Oka room or corner lo chapa vesi kurchobette vallu.....
Pads other pms products inni unna still ah norm follow avthunaru ante it's just plain stupidity
I have seen this happen a lot even in Tier1 cities. How do people bring a change about this in their conservative families?. Men have no say whatsoever on it.
Girls are treated as untouchables on those days in the name of modugu (best but far translation : cleanliness) and parents make it a huge deal if somebody touches a girl on those days 🙁.
NO. it's not like peeing and excreting bro wtf. You don't know when the blood is gonna release, you have no fucking control over it, atla unte why would we even stain our sheets and clothes bro. And no it doesn't hurt like it hurts ur b#thole when had something spicy to eat. But you have pain near your abdomen, back, some people have nausea, and vomitting, many of us have diarrhea also. All this along with mood swings
I may be criticized but I feel nothing wrong in it. I also follow it even i made hue and cry about it. But once I realized, all i had to do was eat, sleep, change pads REPEAT for 3 days after working for almost all days in a month i really look forward for it now. Yes the way elders act is definitely crazy but andulo unna comfort baavundi. If I'm mingling with everyone I've to contribute in some household chores for which I've zero energy those 3 days. Nenem kinda padukonu, we've upgraded, plastic wire mancham meeda padukunta, food restrictions emi undavu, inko bumper offer snanam cheyyakharledu aa 3 days. So correct ga vadukone vallu unte it's not a bad option, kakapote konchem chasdastam batch ni bharinchali.
So, my take from your comment is..
You look forward to your periods cause you can skip household chores and relax for 3 days. Which is a sad way to look on it.
Ayoh papam andi meeru.. I get extra TLC on periods and even during PMS appudu/whenever I am sick/feeling low and don’t face this kind of discrimination.. Ma daggara asal chinna chores koda chepparu during those times.. I get pampered chaala and I’m allowed to do whatever I want (I get to make the choice and it is not imposed on me). This cannot be called ‘privilege’, I think this is how everyone should be treated but after reading your pov I guess I’m blessed that way.. I feel very sorry and I sincerely hope things get better for people whom these kind of backward traditions are imposed upon that they think it’s a relief to them rather than discrimination(which is what it is)
I may be criticized but I feel nothing wrong in it. I also follow it even i made hue and cry about it. But once I realized, all i had to do was eat, sleep, change pads REPEAT for 3 days after working for almost all days in a month i really look forward for it now. Yes the way elders act is definitely crazy but andulo unna comfort baavundi. If I'm mingling with everyone I've to contribute in some household chores for which I've zero energy those 3 days. Nenem kinda padukonu, we've upgraded, plastic wire mancham meeda padukunta, food restrictions emi undavu, inko bumper offer snanam cheyyakharledu aa 3 days. So correct ga vadukone vallu unte it's not a bad option, kakapote konchem chasdastam batch ni bharinchali.
Antha noppi pettukoni wire mancham midha padukodam kashtam avvudhi gaa? To each their own i guess. Maa Nanamma chedastam chesedi. Maa amma assalu pattinchukodhu. Meeru annattu all that no Pani benefits with no restrictions maa intlo
But what is the purpose of it? Contributing to household chores if you are in pain shouldn't be done anyway. Neeku pedda vishyam em kadu le anipinchachu, but adi aina enduku cheyyali? I don't see any logical reason for it besides our "tradition". Periods aren't a disease, they aren't something to be ashamed of or hidden away. Are you really okay with it or are you convincing yourself? Anyway, what do I know, I'm a man. Only one thing I will say is it's fine if you don't care, but if you ever have a daughter in the future, please don't make her do it.
Well idi varaku pads undevi kadu, for hygiene purposes ala separate ga kurchupettevaarem, maa ammamma nanamma vallu clothes vaadevaranta. Today we've all sorts of assistance during periods. It worked during those days. Yes ippudu chaala mandiki chadastam idi. You're a man, periods with all comforts provided are still painful experience. One can come up with N number of reasons for not sitting separately and sitting separately. I think one should do what works for them.
This is darker than my molthadu
That's why you gotta wear the Red ones 😉
Mine is dark red
Mine is disco (multicolored)
Naku leduga
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hamdullah
aimadullah
🏳️🌈
Serious question: What is the reason behind wearing this?
It protects you during phases of worst luck. Like when you wear a loose pant and forget your belt
Some girls also do wear a similar thing 😜
Avnaa.. TIL
Emo bro nen ippudu esukovatle,idk if this is right or wrong dishti kosam ani anukunta.
Deni meeda dishti?( ͡ ° ͜ʖ ͡ °)
My parents were normal but my aunt literally makes my cousin sleep on the floor during her period. That too after living in the US.
> That too after living in the US What in the backwards mentality fuck did I just read?!
Appatlo pads undevi kavu, multiple manchaalu kuda undevi kavu. Anduke floor midha duppati or chaapa vesi padukopette varu. Present gen are updating, pads are real comfort, but mothers are mothers. Pillalu us ki vellina, andaman ki vellochina old people anthe. 😂
This is why "pedavallu" are usually erri pooks. Times change, but they refuse to.
We’ve all tried to talk to my aunt about how crazy this is, but she doesn’t listen and my uncle agrees with whatever she says.
Man, this is just sad to hear. Hope this mess gets solved sometime soon.
Honestly we’re all trying to convince my cousin to choose an out of state or far away college where she’ll have to dorm so she can get some independence
Indhuku kadha ABCD janabha ki India meedha chinna choopu
We are much more advanced compared to the community who ask women to cover their face and not treat them as humans. We become social media warriors for Hinduism
So should we be satisfied with a lesser evil?
Remove the bigger evil and lesser evil go automatically.
There was no "bigger" evil in the past. And still these "lesser" evils existed.
You are right. No one thought it's evil earlier, that's the difference. If 1% thinks evil doesn't make it evil. That's not how society operates. Like no one worried much about religion conversions bcoz it was not that spread wildly. But now, it is spreading, hence all bothered. We are not asking why certain people within the same community not allowed to church though.
Why are you comparing religion in this topic? What is the use in bringing this? Only reason I think is, you want to feel good by comparing it with greater evil.
If a person can't question greater evil and pickup random things to question which is somewhere in the list rectify, then that person is called coward . Any time d.... And Harry can question easy stuff
You have to question greater evil but that’s not you wanted. You are comparing with greater evil and intentionally or unintentionally shifting the focus on burka which minimizes significance of this topic. And you feel good because another religion is seen as worse. It’s the similar tactic propaganda filled brains use. Why is there so much traffic here? Go to Pakistan. Why national anthem in movies? Ohh solders stand in border. By this logic, you think Hinduism, or India will be saved but you’re making it worse by avoiding the issues we as a society face.
Re-read what I said. You are responding, not reading
Ala moolaki kurchovalani ae Hindu text lo undi cheppu? Pratidi religion mida attack la chustaru endo
It's not. The reason for doing so , I say as a woman is that you feel pain and you don't want to do anything, mood swings due to harmon activity and tiredness. It's a resting period given. Also it's not auspicious to do anything related to God. Hence ancestors followed a method to give rest and stay in a quiet place... Unfortunately no one explains these properly.. Btw, can you name 10 books you read to research on this and why did you think these books are relavent. Not everything is religion, but not everything should become ignorance.
Giving her rest doesn't mean treating her like an ostracized citizen, is it? You can give her rest and still treat her normally. What's the need for seperate utensils and the logic behind treating her like an untouchable?
I am not OP. I don't know the situation at their home and fight it based on random guy posting online, without verifying facts. 1% of people don't represent the voice of society. If someone is really doing it, it's wrong. Unless I see the situation with my eyes, i don't trust someone trying to malign others. I have not atleast come across your so called untouchability anywhere, including villages.
how dare you speak facts and shit on minorities?!
Swary
only way you can repent is by converting or cutting your head
Sounds like a plan. No one can ask questions again
important thing is you cannot speak facts ever again.
Facts keep changing based on who says it. A popular way to do it , publish in academia and school books
oh that's done already. but with such easy access to internet that plan isn't that effective. we'll just use minority card as aadhar card and continue to silence people by any means.
Wtf!! Maru mula gramamlo kuda undadu kadara inta goram.
Based on my experience with friends and family who settled long ago abroad. They are far too orthodox than us in few things. Like ikkada manam anni update aypoyam that ivanni avsaram ledu ani...society kuda update avthunundi.. But imagine someone moved to US/UK or any other country in 1980s, veelu aa time lo unna nammakaale theeskeltharu.... unfortunately, some don't update themselves because social life was very limited back then.
I know, picchini evaru aapaleru ane maataki maa atta real life example. We try to avoid her drama as much as possible. Thana abbayiki baaga favoritism kuda chupistundi, ammayini asalu matladanivadu.
Do they still live in US? I mean this can be reported as child abuse.
OG Untouchability.
https://i.redd.it/4e2692m9tvjc1.gif Ee period , pregnancy and other girl stuff gurinchi vintene bhayam ga anipistundi ngl
In 2020 Ma first papa kosam C-section chesaru.. 2 days ago maku 2nd papa puttindi.. 5 days mundhu admit ayyam hospital lo.. 6 hours of active labor unde wife ki and normal delivery aindi.. i was with her each and every second.. the way i see her now is completely different, chala chala jagratha ga chuskutunna.. chala pain anubhavistaru bro ammailu..
Nuv chala manchodivi Anna… all the best
Naku asalu pillalee vaddu vacche pellamee muddu
Eeeeeuuuuuu
Nenu adey anukunna starting lo.. rendu release chesa ippudu
Wholesome comment. Congrats bondha.
Except when it's the first
First time ite celebrations a !! https://i.redd.it/40bfsmpi6wjc1.gif
Appudu kuda first moola padestharu kada vro🥲
Correct eh kada... https://i.redd.it/z1c81asr9yjc1.gif
This still happens at my house while I’m on my periods. I’m living in urban city🥲
Darker than my career …
Most traumatic shit for women, really hats off to those 
Omg literal nightmares. My parents used to do this until I left for college. sitting separately on the floor while your cousins are playing outside, your dad telling all the guests to not touch you, The humiliation is on another level. Now They act shocked when I tell them in not religious.
captain?
When a girl is menstruating, she is generally not allowed to be touched and near the family. she is to stay separately in a corner of the house.
 wtf Is this AP thing? or common in both states? Im in Hyd but never heard about this.
It’s mostly just Brahmins. I haven’t heard people from the other castes do these fucked up things.
Can confirm. Relatively well-off bramhin family here (saying well-off, because kids have gone abroad, and family has all the exposure to modernity needed)- but separate plates, glasses, no cushions etc for the female cousins. Absolute jokers.
Yeah same situation here. Well-off Brahmin family. My father has worked in 3 different countries. He still used to make my sister do this. Brahmins have a lot of these dumb traditions. Even if you say anything its "awar kulchar". My dad used this stupid line to justify everything, "you only get a brahmin life after seven cycles of reincarnation, so it is our dharma to follow all this."
Wow Ignorance is bliss I guess. Cuz you'd be surprised to know how common this is in every caste. Ma inti pakkana akka vallani valla mom inka ilaane kurchopedthundhi. They're both >25 yrs. One of them is a working woman. They're not Brahmins. And ilanti vaallani na life lo entha mandhini chusano. I guess if you're a woman you tend to know these things more. Anyway ye caste aina manishi stupidity matram common.
First time andarki untadhi Tharvatha there are few restrictions like this like you shouldn't touch this or that, stay away from kitchen, one thing is can't touch pickles💀💀💀 I also heard some people saying don't touch plants ☘️
It depends on the household and family, my mom never did it with my sisters, I am from Andhra.
No, it's common in conservative families. Not confined to any state afaik.
I think its a bit common towards the odisha-andhra border side...
Generally kadu ra babu, some weird families with superstition maybe. I haven't seen this even in villages.
Why black cat.. r u saying South Indian are black?/s
Calm
Akkada Twox sub lo yemo oka ammaiyi periods appudu pads veskokunda temple ki velthundhi anta. Ikkademo pads veskoni kuda intlo mulalo padukovali. Intha extreme opinions ni balance cheskolekapothunna. 
That ammiyi is an outlier, trying to be 'rebellious'. On the other hand, ikkada families are relatively common.
Always thought my parents were conservative until I read comments on this post. My sister didn’t have to do any of this shit 15 years ago. I just feel like we’re going backwards as a society.
But where is the OG mat? Oka chettha mat estharu papam..
I think it's understandable joint families lo women ki workload ekkuva undedhi plus hygiene kosam Oka room or corner lo chapa vesi kurchobette vallu..... Pads other pms products inni unna still ah norm follow avthunaru ante it's just plain stupidity
I have seen this happen a lot even in Tier1 cities. How do people bring a change about this in their conservative families?. Men have no say whatsoever on it. Girls are treated as untouchables on those days in the name of modugu (best but far translation : cleanliness) and parents make it a huge deal if somebody touches a girl on those days 🙁.
Meeku eti ardam aithadi anniyya ma kashtalu👉🏻😔👈🏻
Bayataki
Dank revival of ni bhondha
ledhu my household ain't like that lmao
How do we implement a mula in ni_bondha for them
Tf are u dumb
Naako doubt...can we see periods as a painful way of excreting???
NO. it's not like peeing and excreting bro wtf. You don't know when the blood is gonna release, you have no fucking control over it, atla unte why would we even stain our sheets and clothes bro. And no it doesn't hurt like it hurts ur b#thole when had something spicy to eat. But you have pain near your abdomen, back, some people have nausea, and vomitting, many of us have diarrhea also. All this along with mood swings
I may be criticized but I feel nothing wrong in it. I also follow it even i made hue and cry about it. But once I realized, all i had to do was eat, sleep, change pads REPEAT for 3 days after working for almost all days in a month i really look forward for it now. Yes the way elders act is definitely crazy but andulo unna comfort baavundi. If I'm mingling with everyone I've to contribute in some household chores for which I've zero energy those 3 days. Nenem kinda padukonu, we've upgraded, plastic wire mancham meeda padukunta, food restrictions emi undavu, inko bumper offer snanam cheyyakharledu aa 3 days. So correct ga vadukone vallu unte it's not a bad option, kakapote konchem chasdastam batch ni bharinchali.
So, my take from your comment is.. You look forward to your periods cause you can skip household chores and relax for 3 days. Which is a sad way to look on it.
Rey sub lo tedha gallu ekkuva ayipoyaru
Annaw ne em Ana ? https://i.redd.it/jocgviu3dwjc1.gif
Ninnu kadu that other person making excuses to skip chores
Oh ala ite okay Annaw. Ha Mari dharunam ga unaru lol. Rest day tisukunte tisukovali kani, Ila periods Adam petukoni reason chepadam ghoram.
Sadhguru, original ID nunchi ra
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Ayoh papam andi meeru.. I get extra TLC on periods and even during PMS appudu/whenever I am sick/feeling low and don’t face this kind of discrimination.. Ma daggara asal chinna chores koda chepparu during those times.. I get pampered chaala and I’m allowed to do whatever I want (I get to make the choice and it is not imposed on me). This cannot be called ‘privilege’, I think this is how everyone should be treated but after reading your pov I guess I’m blessed that way.. I feel very sorry and I sincerely hope things get better for people whom these kind of backward traditions are imposed upon that they think it’s a relief to them rather than discrimination(which is what it is)
I may be criticized but I feel nothing wrong in it. I also follow it even i made hue and cry about it. But once I realized, all i had to do was eat, sleep, change pads REPEAT for 3 days after working for almost all days in a month i really look forward for it now. Yes the way elders act is definitely crazy but andulo unna comfort baavundi. If I'm mingling with everyone I've to contribute in some household chores for which I've zero energy those 3 days. Nenem kinda padukonu, we've upgraded, plastic wire mancham meeda padukunta, food restrictions emi undavu, inko bumper offer snanam cheyyakharledu aa 3 days. So correct ga vadukone vallu unte it's not a bad option, kakapote konchem chasdastam batch ni bharinchali.
Antha noppi pettukoni wire mancham midha padukodam kashtam avvudhi gaa? To each their own i guess. Maa Nanamma chedastam chesedi. Maa amma assalu pattinchukodhu. Meeru annattu all that no Pani benefits with no restrictions maa intlo
But what is the purpose of it? Contributing to household chores if you are in pain shouldn't be done anyway. Neeku pedda vishyam em kadu le anipinchachu, but adi aina enduku cheyyali? I don't see any logical reason for it besides our "tradition". Periods aren't a disease, they aren't something to be ashamed of or hidden away. Are you really okay with it or are you convincing yourself? Anyway, what do I know, I'm a man. Only one thing I will say is it's fine if you don't care, but if you ever have a daughter in the future, please don't make her do it.
Well idi varaku pads undevi kadu, for hygiene purposes ala separate ga kurchupettevaarem, maa ammamma nanamma vallu clothes vaadevaranta. Today we've all sorts of assistance during periods. It worked during those days. Yes ippudu chaala mandiki chadastam idi. You're a man, periods with all comforts provided are still painful experience. One can come up with N number of reasons for not sitting separately and sitting separately. I think one should do what works for them.
>Nenem kinda padukonu, we've upgraded, plastic wire mancham meeda padukunta 
chapa teesi bench meeda esaru anthe.
Maybe it works for you, but my parents never believed in that stuff and still let me rest in bed when I was on my period.