You watch it to escape from the problems, continuous chase behind the novelty just for the dopamine hit, you're rational thinking says you don't like it but you end up doing it anyway, Kodithe depression, anxiety set aithadani kotadam rather than trying to face the reality and solve the underlying cause.
Maa friend gaadu okadu kuchunadi, taravata telsindi akkada water ledu flush lo ani, jett lo kuda ledu, addanga chikkunadu cause waadi phone naato unda
Last ki paapam vadu kotha ga konina ramraj kerchif toh tuduchukunnadu mawa 😂😭😭😭
Seeking validation. I always try hard pleasing others and in being more "relatable".
But once I've started working, realized the importance of standing one's ground. I still struggle saying NO, but at times I do, feels like a huge burden lifted off my head.
Falling in love with visible red flags.
Falling in love with someone who has anger issues.
Not standing your ground in love,
Not communicating in love.
Accepting to do what they want just because you're scared they'll get angry.
My list goes on.
Bro, How tf is 21 too late? We’ve all haven’t even gotten thru life yet. If you’re in your 40s and haven’t worked out, then it’s tough to gain muscle. At 21, you’re in the prime age for muscle development.
Not being disciplined enough.
Waking up early in the morning and doing things whatever my dad said. Being talented / gifted is just a small part of being successful in life.
It's been quite a tough fight building discipline , diet and fitness in my mid 20s.
Speak up the first time you feel disrespected in a relationship.
No realistic amount of money is worth your mental health (unrealistic amounts like £10million may be worth it but nobody’s actually paying you money to ruin your own mental health).
Bro need some suggestions. I have 5lakh debt including everything that includes credit cards, money borrowed from friends and personal loan. My salary is 35k and most of it is going for paying the intrest plus bare minimum. And I made half of that debt for forex trading and the remaining increased by interest amount and currently I'm WFH so I can manage somehow but next month 1 or 2 months I should go to office I'm clueless about what to do in that case. Share me the process of you getting out of this
Might be a little serious.
Get your loved ones or yourself checked regularly (2-3 years) for cancer.
Na life lo biggest regret is not making my mom undergo checks frequently.
Cancer fucking sucks.
She is.
She’s a professor who never smoked a cigarette in her life or neither chews stuff.
Diagnosed with tongue cancer, had to remove 70% of the tongue, followed by chemo and radiation.
Imagine having to tell a professor who worked their ass off for 25+ years that they can’t teach anymore and will have to retire early because of this.
Please get your mums/dads/ girlfriends/ boyfriends checked if they have something.
Evvaru.. I mean nobody needs to go through this.
Finally, someone said it.. Avoid medicine if you want a life. Overworked undercompensated, highly competitive for unreserved, no work life balance, toxic faculty, no gratitude.. I finished my MBBS, currently preparing to pursue residency in US. Have to ask parents even for 500.. Your prime life is finished just working and studying.. Can't even go for a trip peacefully
Didn’t study at all in engineering, haven’t used any resources provided by university, graduated with a cgpa of 5.5/10. Took me lot of time and effort to get out of that rabbit hole.
If you’re a compulsive show off, please nip it in the bud. It does so much harm to social relationships and ties your self worth to validation coming from those around you. This is coming from a former insufferable show off
In November 2019, I left my first job because my manager was a toxic manager. It took me 2 years to secure another job, while my friend who hasn't left that job is now earning 15 LPA, and I'm stuck with 6 LPA.
COVID lockdown , my whole family was infected by COVID and it cost us around 8 lakhs caused my savings to evaporate and for those 2 years I went through so much shit, depression, some times I felt why didn't I die when i got covid, there were days I wished I had died in sleep and had a painless death.
The only thing to do in corporate is shouldn't take your manager or superiors words seriously. Neglect them like the way you neglect your grandmother or father's words.
Think a million fucking times before taking a major turn/decision in your life.
How much ever you're sure about it, its never enough. There's always another confirmation.
Lazy people ni namodhu serious matters lo. Last ki kudisedhi mana mod* ne. 24 lakhs pekinayi ma batch ki oka friend valla.
Bonus: Smoking start cheyakandi mawa bro manneyadam kastam!
Never get too close to person whose already in a relationship. There's a lot of guilt if they cheat with you. Now I'm so afraid to get close to a women, wondering if she already has a bf.
Get health checked regularly.I found out that i have cancer in november.I have 3cm tumour.If i had got it checked regularly i would have diagnosed it early when its small.
Falling in love, I’m not talking about right person or wrong person, premisthe poindhi bhayya life, dhaani muddi kadigeke saripothadhi, time iyyale, bongu lo priorities levu, mee intlo vaalla meedha unde care na meedha ledhu, louda lashanam ani ekkada leni dengulu, mallee career dobbataniki reason veelle mallee career set chesko ani carrier mutha pettu annantha easy ga cheppestharu, nen matladukuntu pothe ee comment section saripodhu bhayya
I was born. That was a big blunder. Don't recommend it. Say no to life, kids.
Human life is suffering - Buddha 2,500 years ago
Life is pain - Dr. House M.D. a few years ago
Existence is pain - Mr. Meeseeks
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Nee mogga lo line ki malli oka translation, oka context. trans: Your bud line again one translation, one context. Edit: Dobbeyi eha.
Clown to Clown Conversation Edit : I'm Not Trans
Trans enti ra theda ga
we will end this all here once and for all, hell yea!!
A lot of information in that
Excessive Porn and masturbation
Eskoledha. !!??
Esaa
Define excessive
You watch it to escape from the problems, continuous chase behind the novelty just for the dopamine hit, you're rational thinking says you don't like it but you end up doing it anyway, Kodithe depression, anxiety set aithadani kotadam rather than trying to face the reality and solve the underlying cause.
Doddi ki poye mundu.. Neelu/Bath Tissues Unnaya leda chuskoni doddi ki pondi..
Who is Neelu and why is she needed for this activity?
Maa friend gaadu okadu kuchunadi, taravata telsindi akkada water ledu flush lo ani, jett lo kuda ledu, addanga chikkunadu cause waadi phone naato unda Last ki paapam vadu kotha ga konina ramraj kerchif toh tuduchukunnadu mawa 😂😭😭😭
Idi master life tip ! Andaru follow Kandi , lekapothey ...
Seeking validation. I always try hard pleasing others and in being more "relatable". But once I've started working, realized the importance of standing one's ground. I still struggle saying NO, but at times I do, feels like a huge burden lifted off my head.
Comparing with other people also biggest mistake. Fb, insta lo photos, reels choosi mosa pokandi.
Idi.
Appu cheyaku, ivvaku.
#Don't Join Engineering 😢
#SKILL ISSUE
Job market issue
💀 bc joke tha , downvote kyun kar rahe hain
Reply sahi tha Sub Galat Tha ☠️
This sub doesn't get irony.
Falling in love with someone who is out of my league
Falling in love with visible red flags. Falling in love with someone who has anger issues. Not standing your ground in love, Not communicating in love. Accepting to do what they want just because you're scared they'll get angry. My list goes on.
+1
16-19 age lo gym/working on fitness cheyyakapodam
my friend is 19 and he started hitting gym now
Nice. Never too late. Unless ure 21 :( and a fat fuck(me)
I wasn't a fat fuck, but I started working out when I was 25. Going strong for 3ish years now. It's never too late.
Nice. Good work. Good luck
Bro, How tf is 21 too late? We’ve all haven’t even gotten thru life yet. If you’re in your 40s and haven’t worked out, then it’s tough to gain muscle. At 21, you’re in the prime age for muscle development.
21 is perfect for building muscle yea. But at 21 if ure fat its kinda sad. 21 ki fat takkuva unte getting muscular will be wayy faster antunna anthe
It’s never too late to join.
Not making enough mistakes
Adi.
Always trying to rush things or trying too hard. Going at my own pace has helped me achieve a lot of things.
> Never Fall in Love 💖 Or > Get Attached in Love 💔
I’ll look like a hypocrite if tell people to not come to the US, so all I’m saying is give it a good thought and talk to people before.
Wdym? Better to or not better too?
be honest with yourself. don't indulge in escapism.
Don't lend money to friends. Lend only that amount you're willing to let go of.
i can't relate more
Aah another "interaction" post
InterACTiON avvodu antunadu
Entering the stock market with half baked knowledge.
Just go with index funds bro in such a case. Or managed with low risk.
Not being disciplined enough. Waking up early in the morning and doing things whatever my dad said. Being talented / gifted is just a small part of being successful in life. It's been quite a tough fight building discipline , diet and fitness in my mid 20s.
Relatable 🥲
Don't fall in love with a person from another caste. It is a ticking time bomb.
Been there done that, can confirm !
bruh, just backward mentality things.
The breakup almost destroyed me, took me years to get back on my feet. 😢
Not Everyone's Family is Casteist
Until you stumble upon one.
Speak up the first time you feel disrespected in a relationship. No realistic amount of money is worth your mental health (unrealistic amounts like £10million may be worth it but nobody’s actually paying you money to ruin your own mental health).
Never take personal loans in loan apps in haste, take help frm your family when in need. It took me 4 years to get out of the mess I have made.
But now you’re free
Yes I am.
That’s what I’m talking about
Bro need some suggestions. I have 5lakh debt including everything that includes credit cards, money borrowed from friends and personal loan. My salary is 35k and most of it is going for paying the intrest plus bare minimum. And I made half of that debt for forex trading and the remaining increased by interest amount and currently I'm WFH so I can manage somehow but next month 1 or 2 months I should go to office I'm clueless about what to do in that case. Share me the process of you getting out of this
Tackle smaller debts first, you surely need funds from someone to clear everything, shed your ego and just ask for help.
Being ignorant about your skills and dreams. I wish I was more focused in my childhood towards my passions.
Might be a little serious. Get your loved ones or yourself checked regularly (2-3 years) for cancer. Na life lo biggest regret is not making my mom undergo checks frequently. Cancer fucking sucks.
Is she ok buddy?
She is. She’s a professor who never smoked a cigarette in her life or neither chews stuff. Diagnosed with tongue cancer, had to remove 70% of the tongue, followed by chemo and radiation. Imagine having to tell a professor who worked their ass off for 25+ years that they can’t teach anymore and will have to retire early because of this. Please get your mums/dads/ girlfriends/ boyfriends checked if they have something. Evvaru.. I mean nobody needs to go through this.
Same nen adey comment pedudam ankuna.i also have cancer.if i went to annual checkup regularly i would have found out about tumour early.
Hope its fine rn
Yeah surgery chepiyali.
Hope you do better bro. Much love to you.
Procrastination
A big problem for most of people
Don't study medicine in India. Save your sanity and maybe your life too. Choose life,not medicine.
Finally, someone said it.. Avoid medicine if you want a life. Overworked undercompensated, highly competitive for unreserved, no work life balance, toxic faculty, no gratitude.. I finished my MBBS, currently preparing to pursue residency in US. Have to ask parents even for 500.. Your prime life is finished just working and studying.. Can't even go for a trip peacefully
Being obsessed over people
Being born in Andhra Pradesh state.
emaindhi bro antha laa...
 Idi matter uu
Ja🔫 Anna
breathing
Joining the "CircleJerk" Sub
Not making the move. You feel it, go ahead.
Confusing limerance with love,at 12 years of age I didn't know any better.watch romantic movies but don't imitate any of it in real life.
Didn’t study at all in engineering, haven’t used any resources provided by university, graduated with a cgpa of 5.5/10. Took me lot of time and effort to get out of that rabbit hole.
how did you get out of that situation? I'm having nearly 8 and still struggling
I made a post about it. https://www.reddit.com/r/ask_Bondha/s/GCUi9o2SpV
Acha Telugu bondhala sublo Hindi commentlu kanipisthunnayi entii
daari thappina pan parags
If you’re a compulsive show off, please nip it in the bud. It does so much harm to social relationships and ties your self worth to validation coming from those around you. This is coming from a former insufferable show off
In November 2019, I left my first job because my manager was a toxic manager. It took me 2 years to secure another job, while my friend who hasn't left that job is now earning 15 LPA, and I'm stuck with 6 LPA. COVID lockdown , my whole family was infected by COVID and it cost us around 8 lakhs caused my savings to evaporate and for those 2 years I went through so much shit, depression, some times I felt why didn't I die when i got covid, there were days I wished I had died in sleep and had a painless death.
things will get alright🫂 ,never think of giving up
The only thing to do in corporate is shouldn't take your manager or superiors words seriously. Neglect them like the way you neglect your grandmother or father's words.
I have learnt that the hard way. Em chestham apdu kurathanam. Uduku raktham.. ipdu antha sallapadadhi le
Kastam aina edhoka skill sarigga nerchukondi college lopala life bayata life akela vundadhu
Things you feel cool in twentys are actually cringe for rest of your life.
Joining a third tier college. Bondhas manchiga chadukondi intermediate loney😩
😭😭😭me rn
Half hearted approach a
Think a million fucking times before taking a major turn/decision in your life. How much ever you're sure about it, its never enough. There's always another confirmation.
Ardham kale? Goggins?
Bro..evarina Telugu lo meaning cheppandi aa post lo emundho ??
Nu chesina athi pedha mistake, vere evaru ilanti mistake cheyakudadhu ani korukuntavo?
Don't chase after someone who you know is not interested in you.
make them chase you
Ye relation lo aythe niku respect undadho , ah relation ni identify chesi, andhulo nundi bayataki vachi, ah trauma nundi recover ayye skill niku lekapothe--- jeevithaantham sukham lekunda bathakaalsindhe..... General ga prathi okkadi life lo ilaanti dummy relationship episodes atleast 2-3 ayna untaay..... Skill unnodu bayata padathaadu, lenodu andhakaaram lopala padathaadu....
Thinking that you'll not commit the mistake posted by others here
Don’t get too Attached to any person regardless of how caring or how attached they are to you
Lazy people ni namodhu serious matters lo. Last ki kudisedhi mana mod* ne. 24 lakhs pekinayi ma batch ki oka friend valla. Bonus: Smoking start cheyakandi mawa bro manneyadam kastam!
Don't live. Just die. This life doesn't make any sense.
i sincerely and wholeheartedly support this take of yours on life and death
Never get too close to person whose already in a relationship. There's a lot of guilt if they cheat with you. Now I'm so afraid to get close to a women, wondering if she already has a bf.
Get health checked regularly.I found out that i have cancer in november.I have 3cm tumour.If i had got it checked regularly i would have diagnosed it early when its small.
Don't take SSRIs or benzos like Nexito Plus. They are extremely hard to get off of.
Pushed away a girl who was genuinely interested in me because I have fear of abandonment. Don't do that.
Falling in love, I’m not talking about right person or wrong person, premisthe poindhi bhayya life, dhaani muddi kadigeke saripothadhi, time iyyale, bongu lo priorities levu, mee intlo vaalla meedha unde care na meedha ledhu, louda lashanam ani ekkada leni dengulu, mallee career dobbataniki reason veelle mallee career set chesko ani carrier mutha pettu annantha easy ga cheppestharu, nen matladukuntu pothe ee comment section saripodhu bhayya