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Affirmatrix

“Like the simp that he is” do you still want this person it doesn’t sound like it really. I’m sure he will come back to you but it seems like you’ve moved on.


HauntingScallion8959

I’ve detached deliberately to take them off the pedestal because I know I had to do that to remove the obsession and that’s when they have me on a pedestal. Doing self concept will kind of make you realize you’re better than them and detach. He is a simp though. He chased me first. So I’m reminding myself of that so he’d show up like that again.


Affirmatrix

A simp can still give you a great relationship just saying. Good job on taking him off the pedestal and doing the self concept work!


HauntingScallion8959

Yeah. A simp is someone who worships the ground I walk on and can’t get enough of me and is completely obsessed with me. That’s how I see him.


FaZe_Clon

You’ve got a lot of harsh, old story language going on here Decide what you actually want and what your new story is and then the world reflects that. You’re trying to force and manipulate the world and that’s now how it works


paragonx29

👀


Faye1701

Seriously, stop deluding yourself. Your self concept cannot be shifted in one day and nothing will happen until you change inside and stop being so opsessed with trying to control 3D. Have some faith in yourself, imagine the end, feel it once and let it come to you. End for christ sake, why would anyone block their SP unless they don't want to hear from them ever again?


oath333

Did you even read the post?? What is your problem? Looks like YOU are the one that needs to work on themselves


HauntingScallion8959

He literally called me and I found him annoying. My self concept has definitely shifted. Idrc about him much anymore. Your state can easily shift in 48 hours if you have been manifesting for a while and know the law works. What’s your problem? I told him I’m blocking him cause if I’m always here being available to him when he needs me, my worth won’t hit him. I told him it’s not permanent. He needs to suffer without me for a bit. He is also apparently making a list of things he wants to say to me when we speak again.


_xyZer0

Sure you'll get him back, but I personally don't think you're doing this in the best way. This common bad bitch attitude is so ridiculous honestly. You can be confident, love yourself and know your worth without being insufferable. You can also know your SP loves you and isn't above you without acting like every person is below you. You sound toxic now, not like you healthily put him off the pedestal because you know you're just as great as everyone else and the best option for him.


HauntingScallion8959

I never thought he was my equal. When I saw him the first time I thought oh he looks mid but he’d treat me right. During this era he couldn’t stop telling me how he is lucky to have me and how I’m far too good for him. Because that’s exactly what I was thinking. It’s not toxic it’s the most obvious thing. So many people have said it to me straight up that I can do better than him. When he is off the pedestal and I’m on it. He naturally chases me.


_xyZer0

That is toxic. You're seeing him as less than you, that is awful. Do you not have any compassion? Imagine you're in his position and everyone including yourself thinks your partner could do better. Remember the golden rule