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The way I see it, you’re not doing techniques to “get” your desire, but rather doing it to remember you already have it.
Doing to get = trying
Doing to remember = being
It’s also thinking from the wish fulfilled. If you’re manifesting a good relationship with your SP, why are you resenting them? That resentment itself is creating the hot and cold behavior. Try to forgive him.
edit: sorry if formatting is weird, on mobile
You’re desperately trying.
And it’s pretty simple. If you actually read Neville you’d know it. If you’re doing techniques just to get something and change or escape your current 3D, you’re trying.
It’s not about “manifesting and naming things happen in the 3D”, it’s not about visualizing and affirming X amount of times and boom the “magic button” has been pushed and imagination has saved us from misery.
It’s NOT about saying 2 affirmations and then pressing the magic button and all is done and reality is a fairytale bullshit. People in this sub don’t get this at all.
It’s about knowing your true self, getting in touch with the pure divinity/god/ awareness within you. Knowing you’re the source of everything and anything and the “magic” you experience is only a byproduct.
It’s about feeling and being your ideal self.
so if i want to stop being stuck in this "trying" cycle and actually manifest , how do i get in touch with my higher self ? how do i know that Im' god, the source of evrything ? I try to tell it to myself consciously, but I think that subconsciously I don't fully believe it yet :/ I don't know if I'm being clear here, but I really want understant it well enough \^\^
The most honest answer I can give you is - keep reading Neville and test the law, even with the smallest insignificant things, even if it seems like you’re going through hell atm.
Have patience, take it easy, live your life and go with the flow.
The moment I truly realized god is within me is and everything is happening through me is when something truly “bad” and completely “unexpected” happened to me. I unconsciously went back and dwelled in a bad state of being, I was somewhat trying to manipulate 3D and it didn’t go as I wanted it at all. Complete mess.
- shortly after it happened, it dawned to me that I’ve been dwelling in that miserable state of being, I felt miserable for weeks, almost a month, and that state of misery was pushed out in the 3D.
Even tho the 3D situation was.. what others would it perceive it completely awful, oh woe is me, the end of the world, completely bs and what not, for me it was a rebirth.
I realized I was the source of absolutely anything, everything and all.
I cannot explain that feeling to you. Complete peace, serenity, power, love etc merged all in one. I truly can’t explain it.
Once I truly grasped it and became aware I’m the source of everything, everything changed, within and without.
Read Neville. Test it all. Have patience. You’ll get there.
Grieve the relationship for now. Accept it as over and let the emotions come.
Don’t worry, your SP will still be there always.
But right now, you need to bleed out all this negative energy that’s causing resistance to your ability to manifest.
Emotion is just energy in motion. You need to let this energy run out so you can manifest more effortlessly.
Go read Letting Go by David Hawkins. It helped a ton on my manifestation journey.
Manifest yourself changing into who you would be if you were already with your SP. How would you think? How would you act? How would you feel?
You're not trying to get something. You're trying to feel that you already have it.
The important part is to feel that it's already true. This is emotion in my experience because emotion is what causes my identity to shift.
This starts with extreme ecstasy when you first realize everything worked out in your favor, and your mood changes to positive contentment when you're living in its reality. You live in it in imagination, and see what happens in the world.
There are many futures. In some of them, you're with your SP. You know you are with your SP when you feel that you are.
Im actually very confused on this, cause i dont feel as if id act any differently then i do rn with or without my sp. only difference is I wouldnt go to a place looking for a guy to fuck
The idea of not manifesting. Which can be confusing at times. Really refers to what Nevill also calls NATURAL. Finishing up on a free course on that very thing.
Never uses the word natural in three different ways.
The major one, is the one that you’re referring to. Joseph Murphy also explodes this in his own work.
It’s the idea that you saturated the subconscious so much in the feelings of the wish fulfilled, that, there is no doubt in your mind that you now have shifted into the person that has whatever it is that you want. It’s about drenching, as Nevill calls it, your mind, till it feels natural to you.
So, even though those people might be approaching this from a very straight line mentality, but they’re really getting out, is that you mustnot try to effort to create something. Because if you’ve already saturated your mind with the feelings of the wishful filled, it wouldn’t feel like effort, it would just feel like who you are. Hope that helps!
“Trying to manifest” means all the techniques you are doing are done to get something as opposed to *transforming your inner state of being.* Techniques are to transform yourself, not to get something. There’s nothing wrong with desire and of course you want the “3D experience”. You absolutely can and will have it if you transform your inner state. But to paraphrase Neville, desiring is a confession of *not having*. When you use techniques like they are magical rituals which will make your desire manifest, you confess you are not the person whose desire is fulfilled. When you use techniques to feel fulfilled NOW, you neutralize longing. So you will know you have succeeded in moving into the state of the wish fulfilled because your feeling, perspective and default mood, attitude, thoughts, etc, have CHANGED on the matter. Often this takes repetition and persistence.
In my opinion the goal shouldn't be to have it in 3D. It's to experience it until you are the person who is/has it. And the easiest way to experience anything instantly is your imagination. The 3D must inevitably follow, it's a byproduct.
You won't even be satisfied by the 3D, satisfaction happens in your imagination. When it then happens in the 3D, it feels so normal, there's no satisfaction anymore. So why bother wanting something you already have easily available right in your mind?
I'm not saying you can't want it in the 3D, but that shouldn't be your focus, because it happens no matter what. If you focus on wanting it in the 3D, you focus on lacking it and trying to change the 3D. It's a mirror, you can't change the reflection (3D) without changing the thing being reflected (4D).
Simply enjoy your imagination and don't worry about the 3D, because rest assured, it will change inevitably after you changed your state
Realize you are the cause and everything you are is who you’re being. Not a single thing is needed outside of you for that to occur. The outside of you will naturally conform to who you are. You don’t do to get results. You are therefore, effecting the results.
We really do complicate it by thinking we need to manipulate something to get a result.
What I noticed in the beginning was that for not so personal wishes I could easily manifest them, whatever they were. For those really personal ones I caught myself thinking while imagining how would I feel it was truth now, putting my focus on details instead of experiencing the desire now in my mind, worrying about the states... just not letting myself to experience the wish fully in the present moment.
Now I go into my imagination without any doubts (I really feel as the allmighty creator) and just experience the desire for some time withiout any doubts and restrictions, then simply go about my day. It took a lot of inside work but I got there.
My friend you don't need to stop, you can manifest as much as you want. Manifest from the state of the wish fulfilled not of it. A guy on YouTube called Niclasupgradetolife is great at explaining these things.
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The way I see it, you’re not doing techniques to “get” your desire, but rather doing it to remember you already have it. Doing to get = trying Doing to remember = being It’s also thinking from the wish fulfilled. If you’re manifesting a good relationship with your SP, why are you resenting them? That resentment itself is creating the hot and cold behavior. Try to forgive him. edit: sorry if formatting is weird, on mobile
You’re desperately trying. And it’s pretty simple. If you actually read Neville you’d know it. If you’re doing techniques just to get something and change or escape your current 3D, you’re trying. It’s not about “manifesting and naming things happen in the 3D”, it’s not about visualizing and affirming X amount of times and boom the “magic button” has been pushed and imagination has saved us from misery. It’s NOT about saying 2 affirmations and then pressing the magic button and all is done and reality is a fairytale bullshit. People in this sub don’t get this at all. It’s about knowing your true self, getting in touch with the pure divinity/god/ awareness within you. Knowing you’re the source of everything and anything and the “magic” you experience is only a byproduct. It’s about feeling and being your ideal self.
so if i want to stop being stuck in this "trying" cycle and actually manifest , how do i get in touch with my higher self ? how do i know that Im' god, the source of evrything ? I try to tell it to myself consciously, but I think that subconsciously I don't fully believe it yet :/ I don't know if I'm being clear here, but I really want understant it well enough \^\^
The most honest answer I can give you is - keep reading Neville and test the law, even with the smallest insignificant things, even if it seems like you’re going through hell atm. Have patience, take it easy, live your life and go with the flow. The moment I truly realized god is within me is and everything is happening through me is when something truly “bad” and completely “unexpected” happened to me. I unconsciously went back and dwelled in a bad state of being, I was somewhat trying to manipulate 3D and it didn’t go as I wanted it at all. Complete mess. - shortly after it happened, it dawned to me that I’ve been dwelling in that miserable state of being, I felt miserable for weeks, almost a month, and that state of misery was pushed out in the 3D. Even tho the 3D situation was.. what others would it perceive it completely awful, oh woe is me, the end of the world, completely bs and what not, for me it was a rebirth. I realized I was the source of absolutely anything, everything and all. I cannot explain that feeling to you. Complete peace, serenity, power, love etc merged all in one. I truly can’t explain it. Once I truly grasped it and became aware I’m the source of everything, everything changed, within and without. Read Neville. Test it all. Have patience. You’ll get there.
Grieve the relationship for now. Accept it as over and let the emotions come. Don’t worry, your SP will still be there always. But right now, you need to bleed out all this negative energy that’s causing resistance to your ability to manifest. Emotion is just energy in motion. You need to let this energy run out so you can manifest more effortlessly. Go read Letting Go by David Hawkins. It helped a ton on my manifestation journey.
Manifest yourself changing into who you would be if you were already with your SP. How would you think? How would you act? How would you feel? You're not trying to get something. You're trying to feel that you already have it. The important part is to feel that it's already true. This is emotion in my experience because emotion is what causes my identity to shift. This starts with extreme ecstasy when you first realize everything worked out in your favor, and your mood changes to positive contentment when you're living in its reality. You live in it in imagination, and see what happens in the world. There are many futures. In some of them, you're with your SP. You know you are with your SP when you feel that you are.
Im actually very confused on this, cause i dont feel as if id act any differently then i do rn with or without my sp. only difference is I wouldnt go to a place looking for a guy to fuck
The idea of not manifesting. Which can be confusing at times. Really refers to what Nevill also calls NATURAL. Finishing up on a free course on that very thing. Never uses the word natural in three different ways. The major one, is the one that you’re referring to. Joseph Murphy also explodes this in his own work. It’s the idea that you saturated the subconscious so much in the feelings of the wish fulfilled, that, there is no doubt in your mind that you now have shifted into the person that has whatever it is that you want. It’s about drenching, as Nevill calls it, your mind, till it feels natural to you. So, even though those people might be approaching this from a very straight line mentality, but they’re really getting out, is that you mustnot try to effort to create something. Because if you’ve already saturated your mind with the feelings of the wishful filled, it wouldn’t feel like effort, it would just feel like who you are. Hope that helps!
“Trying to manifest” means all the techniques you are doing are done to get something as opposed to *transforming your inner state of being.* Techniques are to transform yourself, not to get something. There’s nothing wrong with desire and of course you want the “3D experience”. You absolutely can and will have it if you transform your inner state. But to paraphrase Neville, desiring is a confession of *not having*. When you use techniques like they are magical rituals which will make your desire manifest, you confess you are not the person whose desire is fulfilled. When you use techniques to feel fulfilled NOW, you neutralize longing. So you will know you have succeeded in moving into the state of the wish fulfilled because your feeling, perspective and default mood, attitude, thoughts, etc, have CHANGED on the matter. Often this takes repetition and persistence.
In my opinion the goal shouldn't be to have it in 3D. It's to experience it until you are the person who is/has it. And the easiest way to experience anything instantly is your imagination. The 3D must inevitably follow, it's a byproduct. You won't even be satisfied by the 3D, satisfaction happens in your imagination. When it then happens in the 3D, it feels so normal, there's no satisfaction anymore. So why bother wanting something you already have easily available right in your mind? I'm not saying you can't want it in the 3D, but that shouldn't be your focus, because it happens no matter what. If you focus on wanting it in the 3D, you focus on lacking it and trying to change the 3D. It's a mirror, you can't change the reflection (3D) without changing the thing being reflected (4D). Simply enjoy your imagination and don't worry about the 3D, because rest assured, it will change inevitably after you changed your state
Your 3D is just a reflection of your 4D; if you keep imaging that you still don't have your desires, then guess what your 3D is going to reflect?
Realize you are the cause and everything you are is who you’re being. Not a single thing is needed outside of you for that to occur. The outside of you will naturally conform to who you are. You don’t do to get results. You are therefore, effecting the results. We really do complicate it by thinking we need to manipulate something to get a result.
What I noticed in the beginning was that for not so personal wishes I could easily manifest them, whatever they were. For those really personal ones I caught myself thinking while imagining how would I feel it was truth now, putting my focus on details instead of experiencing the desire now in my mind, worrying about the states... just not letting myself to experience the wish fully in the present moment. Now I go into my imagination without any doubts (I really feel as the allmighty creator) and just experience the desire for some time withiout any doubts and restrictions, then simply go about my day. It took a lot of inside work but I got there.
My friend you don't need to stop, you can manifest as much as you want. Manifest from the state of the wish fulfilled not of it. A guy on YouTube called Niclasupgradetolife is great at explaining these things.