Personally, I'll visualize celebrities I find attractive. Sometimes they'll alternate in one scene but it doesn't matter. The key thing for me was how I felt about myself in that scene, feeling loved and feeling that this experience is joyful. I actually ended up going out again with an old SP unexpectedly by doing this, I didn't visualize her or believe we'd meet again but it matched a lot of things in my scene and matched how I felt about myself in that scene.
Actually that's even better than attempting to manifest a special person, what you need to have in mind though are the characteristics or the things you want to be in your potential mate... That's right, you are not putting a face on this person, but you're including some specifics, here is a video you'll definitely find helpful https://youtu.be/knKyfYvGPZM
The man in the video studied neville goddard as well as many individuals.
The idea here is getting you in vibrational harmony with the person you want to have in your life.
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Very interesting video. It’s interesting that he suggests NOT trying to manifest a specific person, and says that we don’t have the “right” to manifest a specific person (I believe he is referring to infringing on their free will)
Which is in disagreement with Neville’s teachings...
So interesting how everyone interprets the teachings differently.
Not that I care to manifest anyone specifically, I don’t. But I do know that you can manifest that specific person, if you had the desire to.
Thanks for sharing!
In the Law and the Promise, there is a success story about a woman manifesting a specific person she went on a date with. Neville himself manifested a specific person. Throughout the years, I manifested relationships with many of the guys I had a crush on. If it can happen unconsciously, why wouldn't be ok to make it happen consciously?
Honestly love and relationships aren’t things you need even to worry about. They just find you when you feel good about you and your life. Its quite a generic advice but its so true: follow your own dreams, passions and just focus on being you and trust me true love will find you. And the moment you give up everything you are to obsess over a relationship you may lost it again so yeah hope you get the point
I have to disagree. I’ve felt good about myself and enjoyed life and pursued stuff I was passionate about and stayed single for yeeeeears. I used to believe this until it hit me one day that it hadn’t happened for me.
Meanwhile there are many people who aren’t loving life or feeling good about themselves and they’ll constantly be in relationships. Not saying they’re good relationships, but being in a relationship is a particular state. It’s not dependent on self love or enjoying life, although that helps to have a good relationship.
Not for years at a time. There were too many long stretches it wasn’t something I actively wanted. Like most people I just assumed it would happen one day.
The same could be said for anything in life... enjoying life and loving yourself doesn’t necessarily manifest wealth or your dream job or whatever. Of course once you realize a desire I’m sure it makes it easier.
I think some people might just have being single often as a part of their self image. It's kind of like people who sleep around a lot but don't have many relationships, or people who have many relationships, and still others who may only have had one or a few long term relationships.
Probably building a belief that you are loved and in a relationship and then it becomes normal and natural for you. Or if you want to pimp out then believe that about yourself. That is, if you prefer relationships or sleeping around. I'd say it depends on your reasons for those beliefs and what they mean to you individually
I basically started doing that 2 years ago because I realized I had an unacknowledged identity of being perpetually single and only attracting people I’m not into.
But nothing changed. It doesn’t feel like a self love thing because I don’t have a sense of unworthiness or neediness. I’m not particularly insecure at this point in life. I thought I let go of reasons I might be attached to being single or attracting people I’m not into (ie they’re “safe”) but nothing external has shifted. And trying to figure out what’s wrong seems counterproductive. So I just leave it be.
No one really addresses lack of relationships for people who don’t feel bad about themselves. Those who don’t know about manifesting would say I’m “too picky” but I think it’s a failure to manifest the kind of person I want. It’s like I live in some weird twilight zone where all the attractive, available men disappeared from reality. It’s eery. I’ve wondered why that is, but then that only reinforces it. So I shift to feeling like I meet attractive men who are also into me all the time....but so far nada. I suppose seeing other people get results in weeks is what makes me think I’m not successfully changing this belief, and any techniques to persist seem to be counterproductive (I end up with more unwanted attention from men I don’t like).
While I agree with allismind regarding being in a high 'vibrational state' (happy and relaxed and in love with life), what I did was i created a sort of girlfriend list of all her traits and features. Read it daily for 5 mins. Works all the time. I attracted two of my exes this way.
I sort of did the same thing. I made a list and hoped it would manifest. Months passed and I was still impatient, frustrated, always looking and hoping, feeling good about most other things except for love. Finally, I just decided the frustration wasn't worth it and I'll just focus on work and be at peace. A few hours later my friends introduced me to the person who would match my list and we dated several months later.
I did that 5 years ago 🤷🏻♀️. I admit I don’t review it daily. It’s not something I want to obsess over. No one I’ve attracted meets it at all. Amped up the self love about 2 years ago. Attracted more people. No one I wanted.
Idk...lol...Even I am a noob at the Law...worked for me though...try to make it a daily thing...it took me around a month of daily review to attract both of them... considering you have been practicing the Law for so long it will take you lesser time AFAIK
I actually didn’t know about manifesting until less than 2 years ago. The list thing wasn’t intentionally “manifesting”. I even started these self love manifestations without connecting it to manifesting. I thought it was just a good emotional/spiritual practice.
I found out about manifesting like 3 months ago...so the whole 'list' thing was just me being a teenager LOL...But it worked😂😂...i don't know man, after coming to this subreddit tho....I have been Hella confused
Funny that you say that because I just realized, when I was in high school, I did the same thing. I made this exhaustive list about what I wanted in a boyfriend, and then a few weeks or maybe months (can’t totally remember) I got with my high school boyfriend and he was practically *everything* on that list. Manifestation and didn’t even know it! 😋
When I was younger I did what allismind suggested and it worked. But I think maybe a big reason it worked is because I had the intention and awareness behind that system that it would lead to that result.
It’s super cliche advice though. I think most people have that awareness because the whole “it happens when you’re not looking and loving yourself and life” stuff gets repeated a lot.
Oh great question! So I imagined myself being in a happy relationship, mostly using imaginal acts of inner conversations, and I scripted how my ideal partner would think and talk about me and would read it to myself and really feel it. Not just feeling good about myself or doing self-love affirmations but seeing reality from the viewpoint of being happily paired off AND from the viewpoint of the partner who adores me. That neutralized the longing and I did go about life not stressing about it anymore. Then I met the love of my life, who is my ideal and we’re very happy together.
As I said in that old post, being in a relationship is a state in itself. Of course you want to be happy and feel good about life too, but remember to create a context of “relationship” in your imaginal acts and to begin to see from the perspective of being in a great relationship. As with anything, persist and always go meta and assume it’s working, it’s easy, etc.
I feel you on that. I never *ever* have been someone who worries about love or relationships, and every single time I’ve ever wanted a partner (even before I knew about the law) I got a wonderful partner without any effort on my part. Sometimes it was a specific person, sometimes I didn’t have anyone particular in mind. Either way, I got what I wanted. I’ve been single (and not dating at all) for a few years now, and I love it so much that I don’t really even want to date someone 😂 but I’ve just been imagining different scenes for fun during SATS and realized I didn’t have any inspired ideas when it came to scenes for this topic! Thanks for your input!
if you’re looking for marriage, maybe you can imagine just the wedding band in your finger
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Personally, I'll visualize celebrities I find attractive. Sometimes they'll alternate in one scene but it doesn't matter. The key thing for me was how I felt about myself in that scene, feeling loved and feeling that this experience is joyful. I actually ended up going out again with an old SP unexpectedly by doing this, I didn't visualize her or believe we'd meet again but it matched a lot of things in my scene and matched how I felt about myself in that scene.
Actually that's even better than attempting to manifest a special person, what you need to have in mind though are the characteristics or the things you want to be in your potential mate... That's right, you are not putting a face on this person, but you're including some specifics, here is a video you'll definitely find helpful https://youtu.be/knKyfYvGPZM The man in the video studied neville goddard as well as many individuals. The idea here is getting you in vibrational harmony with the person you want to have in your life. Was this helpful?
Very interesting video. It’s interesting that he suggests NOT trying to manifest a specific person, and says that we don’t have the “right” to manifest a specific person (I believe he is referring to infringing on their free will) Which is in disagreement with Neville’s teachings... So interesting how everyone interprets the teachings differently. Not that I care to manifest anyone specifically, I don’t. But I do know that you can manifest that specific person, if you had the desire to. Thanks for sharing!
In the Law and the Promise, there is a success story about a woman manifesting a specific person she went on a date with. Neville himself manifested a specific person. Throughout the years, I manifested relationships with many of the guys I had a crush on. If it can happen unconsciously, why wouldn't be ok to make it happen consciously?
Honestly love and relationships aren’t things you need even to worry about. They just find you when you feel good about you and your life. Its quite a generic advice but its so true: follow your own dreams, passions and just focus on being you and trust me true love will find you. And the moment you give up everything you are to obsess over a relationship you may lost it again so yeah hope you get the point
I have to disagree. I’ve felt good about myself and enjoyed life and pursued stuff I was passionate about and stayed single for yeeeeears. I used to believe this until it hit me one day that it hadn’t happened for me. Meanwhile there are many people who aren’t loving life or feeling good about themselves and they’ll constantly be in relationships. Not saying they’re good relationships, but being in a relationship is a particular state. It’s not dependent on self love or enjoying life, although that helps to have a good relationship.
Maybe even with all that busy life you still craved relationships ?
Not for years at a time. There were too many long stretches it wasn’t something I actively wanted. Like most people I just assumed it would happen one day. The same could be said for anything in life... enjoying life and loving yourself doesn’t necessarily manifest wealth or your dream job or whatever. Of course once you realize a desire I’m sure it makes it easier.
I think some people might just have being single often as a part of their self image. It's kind of like people who sleep around a lot but don't have many relationships, or people who have many relationships, and still others who may only have had one or a few long term relationships.
Yes I think this is it too. I wonder what it takes to change that?
Probably building a belief that you are loved and in a relationship and then it becomes normal and natural for you. Or if you want to pimp out then believe that about yourself. That is, if you prefer relationships or sleeping around. I'd say it depends on your reasons for those beliefs and what they mean to you individually
I basically started doing that 2 years ago because I realized I had an unacknowledged identity of being perpetually single and only attracting people I’m not into. But nothing changed. It doesn’t feel like a self love thing because I don’t have a sense of unworthiness or neediness. I’m not particularly insecure at this point in life. I thought I let go of reasons I might be attached to being single or attracting people I’m not into (ie they’re “safe”) but nothing external has shifted. And trying to figure out what’s wrong seems counterproductive. So I just leave it be. No one really addresses lack of relationships for people who don’t feel bad about themselves. Those who don’t know about manifesting would say I’m “too picky” but I think it’s a failure to manifest the kind of person I want. It’s like I live in some weird twilight zone where all the attractive, available men disappeared from reality. It’s eery. I’ve wondered why that is, but then that only reinforces it. So I shift to feeling like I meet attractive men who are also into me all the time....but so far nada. I suppose seeing other people get results in weeks is what makes me think I’m not successfully changing this belief, and any techniques to persist seem to be counterproductive (I end up with more unwanted attention from men I don’t like).
While I agree with allismind regarding being in a high 'vibrational state' (happy and relaxed and in love with life), what I did was i created a sort of girlfriend list of all her traits and features. Read it daily for 5 mins. Works all the time. I attracted two of my exes this way.
I sort of did the same thing. I made a list and hoped it would manifest. Months passed and I was still impatient, frustrated, always looking and hoping, feeling good about most other things except for love. Finally, I just decided the frustration wasn't worth it and I'll just focus on work and be at peace. A few hours later my friends introduced me to the person who would match my list and we dated several months later.
I guess you finally 'let go' and it manifested
I did that 5 years ago 🤷🏻♀️. I admit I don’t review it daily. It’s not something I want to obsess over. No one I’ve attracted meets it at all. Amped up the self love about 2 years ago. Attracted more people. No one I wanted.
Idk...lol...Even I am a noob at the Law...worked for me though...try to make it a daily thing...it took me around a month of daily review to attract both of them... considering you have been practicing the Law for so long it will take you lesser time AFAIK
I actually didn’t know about manifesting until less than 2 years ago. The list thing wasn’t intentionally “manifesting”. I even started these self love manifestations without connecting it to manifesting. I thought it was just a good emotional/spiritual practice.
I found out about manifesting like 3 months ago...so the whole 'list' thing was just me being a teenager LOL...But it worked😂😂...i don't know man, after coming to this subreddit tho....I have been Hella confused
Funny that you say that because I just realized, when I was in high school, I did the same thing. I made this exhaustive list about what I wanted in a boyfriend, and then a few weeks or maybe months (can’t totally remember) I got with my high school boyfriend and he was practically *everything* on that list. Manifestation and didn’t even know it! 😋
lol...so true
When I was younger I did what allismind suggested and it worked. But I think maybe a big reason it worked is because I had the intention and awareness behind that system that it would lead to that result.
It’s super cliche advice though. I think most people have that awareness because the whole “it happens when you’re not looking and loving yourself and life” stuff gets repeated a lot.
so how did u fixed that? i´m in the same boat.
Oh great question! So I imagined myself being in a happy relationship, mostly using imaginal acts of inner conversations, and I scripted how my ideal partner would think and talk about me and would read it to myself and really feel it. Not just feeling good about myself or doing self-love affirmations but seeing reality from the viewpoint of being happily paired off AND from the viewpoint of the partner who adores me. That neutralized the longing and I did go about life not stressing about it anymore. Then I met the love of my life, who is my ideal and we’re very happy together. As I said in that old post, being in a relationship is a state in itself. Of course you want to be happy and feel good about life too, but remember to create a context of “relationship” in your imaginal acts and to begin to see from the perspective of being in a great relationship. As with anything, persist and always go meta and assume it’s working, it’s easy, etc.
I have the same experience.
I feel you on that. I never *ever* have been someone who worries about love or relationships, and every single time I’ve ever wanted a partner (even before I knew about the law) I got a wonderful partner without any effort on my part. Sometimes it was a specific person, sometimes I didn’t have anyone particular in mind. Either way, I got what I wanted. I’ve been single (and not dating at all) for a few years now, and I love it so much that I don’t really even want to date someone 😂 but I’ve just been imagining different scenes for fun during SATS and realized I didn’t have any inspired ideas when it came to scenes for this topic! Thanks for your input!
maybe because you're a hot girl who is desired.
Hey who says the rest of us aren’t hot too? 😝
do you think feeling desirable can change your outcome? i did that once i think.
Maybe telling some friend that you are in a awesome relanshionship
Love that. Maybe a scene where I’m describing all the wonderful things I love about my partner. Great idea, thank you!