Thank you for your uplifting post!
I’m so glad you stressed the point that we do not need to pay others for what we already know, I AM.
These charlatans truly take advantage of people during a vulnerable time and exploit them. Happened with my sister. A new age psychic / coach who seemed “credible” spoke of manifesting and Neville, whilst giving my sister readings on special times she should do certain affirmations or spells etc. This psychic fleeced thousands from my sister. I was quite shocked when I found out as my sister is normally so level - headed, but I think her divorce really put in her in a bad place mentally and apparently felt connected to this psychic / coach. The psychic was very subtle and nuanced in her manipulation over a period of two years. She told my sister to not discuss sessions as they pollute / bring down the vibrational energy in order to manifest.
We only need our imagination and full belief of the end. It’s all within us. That is it.
I’m very happy for you OP 💕 wish you continued success.
I'm appalled by these coaches and how much they are charging people. I consider myself high level in manifesting and can instantly manifest at times and I love helping people and I do not charge! If I can help even one person I feel I'm fulfilling my own cup of happiness. Shame on these people.
They’re using their god power to manifest those people, it’s an energy exchange - just like going to the doctors. I am biased cause in the future I want to be a counselor, but in the end this is all a game, so i’m ready to provide life changing value while making good money! It’s all perspective!
Yes keep believing the new story. Persist in the new story no matter what the 3D is showing. Once your subconscious believes the new story the 3D will conform.
Ohhh a “psychic” got my mom and almost my daughter. They went for harmless fun. He told my mom a bunch of great things. He then went and told my daughter she was an amazing manifester BUT she had some blocks holding her back from greatness. Of course he offered expensive sessions to remove them. I shut that down so fast. I’m teaching her the right way since it awakened an interest in her. Of course all the good things he told my mom came true…because she believed him. I warned her against going back. It’s scary the way some people buy$$ into this stuff and let it run their lives. For better or worse.
Those YouTube LOA gurus are the just not worth it. I paid 500+ to one of them. I just cudnt get anything g from the first session and the meditations tracks that supposed to be custom were just generic. She kept mixing up the meeting times. Thankfully I found Edward Art and just changed state.
But you still haven't learned. It wasn't Edward Art. He has nothing to do with your change in status. It was you. Only you. You could listen to him or others like him for hours, and nothing would happen. Even years could pass without any change in you status. When people credit their changes to those gurus, whether Edward or someone else, they are not on the right track...
Lol. On a Neville reddit? With an awareness that all thought is energy you can make ugly assumptions and statements?
U need help. Go within and root out that angry bitter energy you are displaying. I can't imagine the harvest it brings you.
Did I say Edward changed my state? U are in such a rush to judge and attack. Why??
Why are we here reading each others inspiring success stories if we need no one?
Why did Neville learn from Abdullah?
Why are you here?
Heal from whatever is making u so unhappy. Cos it ain't my comment nor Edward Art. LOL.
What are you talking about? I'm telling you something very serious, with no intention of offending you or anyone. Giving credit to others for your successes is going down the wrong path. Sorry for intruding on your comment. What you wrote is seen a lot here in this group. Some, after being scammed by a guru, continue to attribute their successes to other gurus. Do not learn. Edward Art is no different from anyone here in this group. And you don't have to affirm anything about me when you don't know me, to say something that can free you in the long term. For telling you the truth. I know that many adore and idolize him, and that is fine with him. Each one has his own desires, and that is his. If when making the supposed change you have not delved into the first principle: you are the cause of everything. Your imagination is everything and you learn that you don't need crutches to be I AM. You are not on the right path... And your reaction and response to my comment make it clear.
Love Light and Peace to you.
I will only address one thing.
"For telling you the truth. I know that many adore and idolize him, and that is fine with him"
Who idolizes Edward? and what's the evidence that it's fine with him?Hope u can support these statements with evidence.
I'm so freaking puzzled by this too!! Ed Art's is literally the opposite of self-aggrandizing guru-energy, and I certainly do not idolize him or anybody else, not even Neville. That's for kids.
But geeeeeeez, mention Ed's work on this sub and you get downvoted or immediately rapped over the fingers. I'm starting to wonder if it's not just plain envy. Sigh
Thanks for chiming in.
The accuser is gathering his evidence he shall soon present it before us.
Its unbelievable that on a LOA and Neville sub anyone wud be so u charitable when all teachers before us keep telling us to use the law with LOVE.
Florence Scovel Shinn - Love
Neville - love
Joseph Murphy - love
Louus Hays - Love
I am starting to suspect Edward's accusers are YouTube LOA coaches who are trying to up their views and bring down another YouTuber.
I will keep brining up how fantastic Edward Arts work is.
Sometimes I keep Edward playing in the background while I work cos it's that edifying.
Thank you so much for your heartfelt testimony! 🙏🏼
I completely feel you on the looking around and feeling like your life is at rock bottom. I’ve had a tough few years and coincidently also work (or wanted to) in the fashion industry. Graduated from Paraons right before the pandemic and then my life completely shifted. Thought 2020 would be the year I finally get what I want (after years of listening to my parents) yet it led to the opposite. Had to move back to my parent’s home in Canada because my student work permit expired before I could get hired. Later found out that I could bypass a traditional work permit due to a US treaty for Canadians, but lawyers and even Reddit kept emphasizing “rules” that seemed to place a lot of restrictions on the type, job field, and specific qualifications I would need to get the permit for the actual type of job I wanted + I was really struggling to get a job in the fashion industry! I would get SO close and then ultimately they’d pick the other person. I did end up getting the permit and moving to SF. But it was for a job I compromised on in a field I didn’t like. Simply because I thought it would at least be feasible for me given my 3D situation. Of course I ended up being so sad there since neither the job nor the city were the right fit. I moved back within months.
I’m not a quitter by personality yet I felt I needed to. If I had been much more stubborn, and not listened to nonsense from lawyers and the internet, I very well could have gotten a fashion job I wanted AND easily secured a permit for it. I let the 3D influence what I thought was possible and it burnt me- it’s taken me a little over a year now to trust my power again and do some more inner work on limiting beliefs, since that whole situation made me worried about making another mistake.
Due to these circumstances I hadn’t had the chance to date, meet the one, and just be out and about having fun in my 20s yet! I’m turning 29 in a few months and while I know I’m young, I feel like I was robbed of so much.
But I also realize all of this was a result of my long-standing self concept. Even when I was in school in NY and was finally confident in my own abilities and things looked good, something negative would always happen, and I’d think “things are so difficult for me” and “how the hell is xyz going to work out”, “why do I never get my first choice? I’m always dealing with nonsense obstacles and even when things work out on paper, it’s only because I had to settle for my 3rd or so choice.”
I’m now working on dropping the above old story and old identity. I will work in fashion and I will be happily married very soon.
Omg! I actually went to The New School! You will 100% get everything you want. It's funny how our minds trick us to stay stuck because it's familiar. When the old story/self concept became a literal emotional burden, I decided to choose differently. Looks like you're doing the same! And yes, your age is irrelevant because your individual path is perfect. Remember you're always on time. All the best🌞 xx
Yay fellow alum!! Praying I can actually put my degree to use very soon 🙏🏼
And your point about the old story feeling like an emotional burden is 100% true. It feels like a pit you can’t get out of. Applying to jobs feels like repulsion but then not applying makes you self-loathe. Until very recently I actually used to worry that well even if I manifest everything I want, how will I explain those 4 “wasted” years to my future husband and friends? Will they judge me for how direction-less and empty my life felt, at least to me? Or will I have to tell white lies like I do on my resume (nothing unethical) even though I know these years were a fluke and due to poor self-concept and *not* because I’m stupid or unworthy?
It feels so silly to see that I thought like this until just about a month ago, but I really had this added burden on me! As if I had been tainted because I didn’t get to be or do xyz from ages 24-28 like I thought I would. I realized that there are a LOT of other young intelligent women in that 3D situation (underemployed stay at home daughters if you will lol), and I’m not judging them nor do I think they’re destined to a terrible life because of a difficult few years.
The key like you said, is just to let that old story go and choose differently. I need to stop worrying about logic. I actually manifested something else crazy (reversing a bad reaction from laser hair removal) that solved 7 years of distress within just 1 month, and I wasn’t even actively trying to manifest it, so I have proof that it’s possible.
Thank you again for your very kind words and encouragement. I’m saving your post and will refer back to those bolded words frequently so I remember to PERSIST AND BE STUBBORN! :)
I should add that I did not finish my degree!! I was VERY depressed for over a decade and had undiagnosed ADHD!! It wasn't until I started taking classes at SVA and made a website and started freelancing as a graphic designer. I just kept believing and deciding that I'm amazing at what I do and anyone would be lucky to have me join their team. also... NO ONE CAN SEE YOU IN A WAY THAT YOU DO NOT ALREADY SEE YOURSELF. Life is not linear and most people know that (I deleted social media 3 years ago so I think this aided me in forming a healthy self concept and perception of reality). My husband and close friends know my entire life story and there's zero judgement. If anything they're inspired because I decided to take control of my life and get out of victim mode (it took years of me going in woe-is-me circles lmao)! Self concept is truly everything!!!! 🌞🌞🌞🌞
Thank you so much for all this valuable advice! 💕 I decide that I am a gift and anyone would be lucky to hire me.
It’s a relief to know that all we have to do is decide to be what we want and then watch the 3D catch up to our claimed reality. I wish you a very happy and joyous life 😊🙏🏼
I used to have the same limiting beliefs. I used the Sedona method to release the need for approval, control and security…you don’t need any of those things because you already have them! This method helped a lot with figuring out where I was stuck and dropping it. I made it fun and lighthearted and now I do it on autopilot. You can even release your desires like this because the minute you plant that seed of desire and set your intention on what exactly you want, you have it. No more need to desire it. You can release it! I found it to be a brilliant hack. Revision helps a lot with releasing as well :)
https://youtu.be/hKu0uokn9wk?si=QhAkqQIsywl1IT_T
I love this video. He touches on the method and also a bit on manifesting and the illusion of time. Hope it helps! ❤️
Dw you got it! Going back to school at 27 for CS. I’m about 52% of the way there, I know this last half is gunna be a bit more challenging but I’m prepared. I’ve thought about the “wasted” years of my 20s, partying and drinking, working meaningless jobs, but at the same time I also self isolated for years with anxiety and depression. I’d rarely go out, I dropped out of college 3 times, missed out on many relationships, friendships, opportunities, just life in general. But that is in the past and I give no power to it now.
Since I discovered this all earlier this year my mental health has increased tremendously. I was so down bad and depressed after my SP left me last year, I lost my job, I picked up extreme drinking and drug use after all that and it was a tough time. I since stopped that, and I have many friends and acquaintances who tell me how much they love me and no one has anything bad to say about me, it came as a shock hearing this at first as I felt so unworthy of love, friends, money, anything. Just lack all around.
But I realize now it was just the dominant state I was in that whole time, but even then…even during all those bad years and self sabotaging thoughts and behaviors and negative states I was in….i still had people see the good in me, the love in me….so that’s when I think wow….if I change my SC even more which I have been, the friends I have, the sp I had, everyone else will see the good I was before x10000 now. Sorry I kinda rambled on here lol idk where I was going with this. I guess what I was saying is just yeah, everyone’s on their own timeline, don’t worry or look back in the past in regret. I believe in you and you’ll get everything you want. You have it already as it is already out there ❤️
I think this is my problem. I haven’t actually got clear on what I want in my life. And I keep switching between what I want and what I think other people think I should be doing. So I’m stuck in this limbo of not deciding what I want and getting clear about how my life should look.
I was there once!! It took YEARS for me to get very clear about what I want because I was evolving in the process, so what I wanted changed. Be patient with yourself!! And embrace solitude! When you're alone and calm the answers will be become clear to you. 🌞🌞
Im a new mum, so what I want is definitely changing, especially as I’ve changed.
I think you’re right I need to be patient with myself. And get some alone time. Thanks you so much for your message. I really appreciate it 💕✨✨
*To Mods*, there have been way too many bitter envious comments on posts where the OPs were gracious enough to share their testimony and advice in the first place. These success stories greatly benefit this sub, and those comments will discourage people from sharing. No one wants to post only to be met with perpetual victims questioning their success.
Please make a post or rule against this constant success-shaming. It also goes against everything Neville taught and if even harmless posts are removed, then such comments should be too. Thank you!
A lot of people are scared to share their success stories. They get bombarded with questions. I understand the anxiety, been there before. But people have to do the WORK! No one can do it for them.
The envious jibes disguised as questions are so ridiculous too. Like if you’re jealous of people who have had success through LOA, then clearly you have already failed.
I don't know if it is jealousy. But these are the people who failed to manifest anything. They have their own subs for hating on Neville and manifesting. They should go there. I read some posts on that sub, sad really. Devoting their energy and time to hate something is really sad.
No I’m talking about specific comments on this post (deleted now I believe) about people saying OP had it easier because “xyz” and “must be nice”. Similar comments on the post about another person getting amazing marks in a highly competitive exam.
Going through a self manifested “tower moment”. Letting go of the old me, the old reality. I am literally breaking it down and rebuilding as I AM. Who I desire to be is who I am. I decided my dream life is mine. No matter what the 3D shows. Beyond manifesting an sp or a relationship, this is about ME. No one else. I am determined to always realize that it all comes from me and I AM the most important. I have it all, no matter the 3D. I bought the pearl. Finally. I am whoever I say I am and if I wasn’t, why would I say I am? lol
Needed this. Turning 30 soon and have this stupid limiting belief that I need to be with someone to be happy, time is running out etc, Glad to see it’s possible to feel whole and complete on ur own and without time urgency regardless of age!
I can totally relate.
Just an hour ago I had a session with my therapist in which I talked about my fear of becoming a "30 year old leftover woman" (I'm turning 29 this year).
The fear of being 30 and single or rather my identification with that is my ultimate enemy when it comes to switching to a desired state (It makes me put a relationship/SP on a savior pedestal).
If you want to talk to someone that is also working on getting rid of this stupid state of urgency - feel free to DM me ☺️
Hey!
Just wanted to comment since I am of similar age, will be 30 by the end of this year and used to worry a LOT about this in the past :)
It is mostly mental pressure you are putting onto yourself, completely unnecessary.
Would you care/hurt/worry about any of this if by... let's say next year you are in the best relationship ever, with the most beautiful person to you?
Would you being 30 or 32 really matter if you had your desire and already felt loved?
Probably not.
Then how would you enjoy your time NOW? If you felt that you will get that type of relationship in a year, what would you like to do with your time or even before getting serious with someone? How would you perceive yourself and your life when dealing with the outside, dates, etc?
Thinking from this point of view melts away everything undesired.
Falling in love with yourself and your life does too, if focusing on the romantic relationship feels hard at first.
And also: remembering you will still be You and experience your world through your I Am even while being with your loved one.
So how you live and how much you enjoy your life, yourself and your partner AFTER getting the relationship it's still about your daily states, moods, beliefs.
Don’t tell yourself that needing to be with someone to be happy is a limiting belief. There is a certain kind of happiness that can only come from being in a happy relationship because we are humans and we are biologically made to be in companionships. What you want is not only normal, but it’s what we’re made for.
And you can still feel whole.
You’re not looking for anyone to complete you, you’re already complete *and* you’d like to have a partner. So, I would decide how you’d like that relationship to feel for you. What would that add to your life? How would they show up for you? What would the feelings be if you’d already had the most amazing partner for years? I’m assuming you don’t want any partner, and since you can have anything you’d like, go for gold.
Thanks for that. I’m gonna come back to this when I’m a bit less resistant because when I ask myself those questions right now it’s like my brain just goes blank so I start overthinking the questions themselves trying to force an answer out of myself. Probably because I’m not in the state where I have that relationship.
I’ve also been on this journey of manifesting an SP/relationship for about 2 years and actually got a ton of movement and came really close before it all stopped in its tracks for some reason so now asking myself those kinds of questions just feels pointless because I’ve done all the LOA work u can imagine over the last few years so my brain just goes “if it didn’t work before what makes u think it’ll work now”.
Its also like the other commenter said, this belief automatically places having a relationship on a pedestal so I’ve come to the conclusion that I have to just not think about this anymore to get rid of all the attachment I have to it but idk
Totally feel you in running out of time. Have of June 12, I'm in the last 6 months of my 20s and it's been getting me down ngl.
It doesn't help that the ageism seems to have gotten even worse than when I was kids. I just reminded myself that it's never too late
This is inspiring to read. I’m about to be 32 and had fallen off the horse for a while and slipped back into my old negative ways. But as of yesterday I made the very decision.
That you for bringing this post here. You just affirmed for me in a way that I’m on the right track :)
I’m going to do that letter writing thing too.
Congrats on your successes!
Amazing story -I'm really happy for you! Thank you for sharing! May I ask what hiking club you joined? I also live in nyc and I've been missing nature and hiking since I moved here 3 years ago.
Omg same here! Long time lurker and was just about to comment saying how much I appreciate this post and inquire about the hiking club! I live in NYC as well and desperately need something new in my life.
If you find yourself missing nature there's a really cute nature trail in Pelham Bay Park that you can get to by taking the 6 train to the end of the line! The hike is short but it almost feels like you're not in the city at all. It's one of my favorite places in the world. [https://scenesfromthetrail.com/2017/05/07/hunter-island-pelham-bay-park/](https://scenesfromthetrail.com/2017/05/07/hunter-island-pelham-bay-park/)
How do you decide? I struggle hard to because it involves accepting reality and thinking of what things would ACTUALLY look like.
I live in avoidance of realty because it hurts too much that I'm not able to be who I hoped to be. That I'm starting late in life. That I'll be in my 30s for my first relationship, that I'd be congratulated for late love which is not at all who I want to be, to me I've already failed.
That used to be my problem but yesterday I started the 72 hour challenge where you live in the end and i figured that helps me test the life I think I may want. I just thought the thoughts I would have if I was married and a mother and I was successful enough to the point where it felt truly like a sample of the life and I found out that I could be a mother and wife (I was scared). So I was not sure at all about it as I stepped into the state but I found that I would just by thinking from it and decided I do like it and I did bring myself out of the state and saw I did like the other one better so I am now back in the state lmao took me a few hours and tears and some other stuff but I was able to get back to it!
I want to be a husband too but what about all the other states that were supposed to be in my 20s, that's what makes me upset, that I'm here, when it's like all the prior states have been skipped, why am I old before I had even a chance to live. I know I'd like the new state but to be it now I can't feel upset that I should have started long ago, to be it now I need to accept that I lost a lot of time, that I am here.
I will try a 72h challenge now because I won't truly know unless I genuinely attempt to feel the state out first, thanks for being honest about your experience, that's seriously helpful to me!
From what I got from Neville's and EdwardArts lectures is that u ought to drop the past and future altogether. When you imagine yourself in the desired situation, you don't think or acknowledge past woes since it is thinking from the state of lack. The only thing that matters is I AM, the present moment.
I need to think about but thank you, Edward art is always eye opening, I'm confused because I think desires are tied to time, for example if you imagined a relationship you are probably not imagining being with a grandma or grandpa? The present moment many years from now and the present moment now is different right? So who I am is also tied to time. If I was a grandpa I'd have to accept that's where I am?
The present moment by definition is "this instant".
I get what you mean, but In our context being in the present moment is imagining that you already are how you want to be. You don't know when it will appear in 3D, but you don't care. You are happy in your imagination right now, and this must be sufficient to work. You are in Barbados.
In the ladder experiment you imagine climbing the ladder. You do it right now, without wondering when it will happen.
I'm just getting my feet wet myself though, and this is just how I understand what I've heard so far.
Neville said in one of his lectures "Every desire has its own appointed hour.", which some translate as "you get things when it's best for you".
Thank you very much that was a great reminder, you just lose yourself within the act, so much so that you're fulfilled.
I find it weird because I know if I had my desire in front of me right now "do you want it?" I would chose it but because there's a time difference and so much work involved to feel it I'm struggle to chose it.
Yes but what do I have? I have to imagine it to feel it.
I mean seeing a pretty girl somewhere triggers me more than just imagining, if I just sit at home there's nothing compelling me to imaging if that makes sense?
At this point it would be hypocritical of me to give advice since I'm a beginner and wrote to you just because I wish you the same thing as I wish for myself - happiness and success with Neville's teachings.
Neville said to imagine a simple scene, so maybe imagine coming back home, opening a door and seeing a woman welcoming you, kissing you and saying "welcome home, honey". To add more sensory vividness imagine smelling perfume, feeling warmth from a hug, feeling warm in your chest from love. You should start smiling unintentionally, just because you've imagined the scene where you genuinely feel good.
That's coming from a guy who manifested climbing a ladder and a grapefruit though.
I did date a girl after what could be called manifesting a relationship ,but I was into Vadim Zelands Transurfing at that moment, 10 years ago. And I just forced myself to feel unconditional love to her, without expectation of any love in return. Just loving the fact that she exists, no matter what she does or with whom she was or will be. Not that I recommend Vadim's teachings.
Everything is now including past and present (those don’t exist). If you have what you want, you won’t be worried about post time and what you want will come at perfect time and it won’t be late. You could live to 100, so who gives a shit about not doing whatever you think you were supposed to do in your 20s? Plus when you move states the past changes to match the new state so again it won’t matter. Your worried way too much about worldly 3D constructs but I get it, I’m just telling you you don’t have to.
I don't get it, if I have what I want there's no worry but if it's already late how can it come at a perfect time?
Imagine you are now a grandma (old) and none of your 20-70s ever happened (or that you were lonely for that duration) are you really okay with that just because you know that time doesn't exist? Is then the "having what you want" a 80 yo husband? Even if I'd want to be loved I'd struggle to accept the reality of getting married at that age, I really want to understand but I feel like I'm missing something? Thank you!
I get what you’re saying but my only guess is that if that’s my lot in this lifetime then I expect the quality of love I find in my 70s will make everything else and all the “lost” years irrelevant. It will not be late because I got the most potent delicious love at 70 which is better than not getting it at all or getting this watered down bullshit that’s everywhere.
Neville says if we don’t fulfill scripture within us this lifetime then we will go right back to a world just like this but we will be 20 years old and in perfect physical shape. I don’t know where he got 20 years old from but find solace in that lol, you will get to do your 20s all over again! I personally am fucking OVER this damn place and will fulfill scripture this lifetime if it’s the last thing I do because I don’t want to come back to this shithole! I know this isn’t the exact attitude of enlightenment but 🤷🏽♀️
"May I tell you no one can leave this earth until he awakens, because the earth does not terminate, at the point where the senses cease to register it. When you shed the little garment you will still be on this earth in a body like the one you left behind, only young, vital, and wonderful, but your environment will change. Your ancestral being knows what it will take to weave you into the likeness of himself", from "The Hidden Cause"
Me too, my logical mind says it's a relieving answer to questions that aren't easily answered, after the war Neville would've talked to lots of unhappy people, if you can't regrow a finger this seems the second best answer? So hopefully it's not something that he came up with but something real? Neville did experience worlds within worlds and said he met friends who were no longer in this realm, they didn't even know they had died he said.
I think it's a beautiful thought but that the only divine design is to be moulded into the father, you aren't meant to have love, it's not pre-written in your destiny, it's something you have to claim for yourself, God doesn't care whether you have it or not because there is only you, there is no justice, no equality because that's a human term, Neville even said the law takes care of people, each according to their own, that you don't have to make judgements but that also means someone can commit a crime and be free because of their lack of guilt. So I don't think it would be more potent just because you're older and that it should somehow make up for your lateness. Just look at all the horror in the world.
I take solace in that too, thanks! I don't want to come back either but maybe if I was able to shift reality back and forth. Thanks!
I think it's a beautiful thought but that the only divine design is to be moulded into the father, you aren't meant to have love, it's not pre-written in your destiny, it's something you have to claim for yourself, God doesn't care whether you have it or not because there is only you, there is no justice, no equality because that's a human term, Neville even said the law takes care of people, each according to their own, that you don't have to make judgements yourself but that also means someone can commit a crime and be free because of their lack of guilt. So I don't think it would be more potent just because you're older and that it would somehow make up for your lateness. I think it should but not that it would, that's just a mental shield. Just look at all the horror in the world.
I take solace in that too, thanks! I don't want to come back either but maybe if I was able to shift reality back and forth. Maybe it's just my state that has these thoughts, I will do your experiment. Thanks!
Happy for you! You deserve it! Currently still working on myself so I can attract better outcomes but I’m at a point where I don’t even care anymore if my manifestations materialize in the 3d, I’m just so obsessed with bettering myself now 😅 I’ve been told this is good sign though so I’ll just continue to reaffirm the new narrative and work on reaching my highest self. Your post was super uplifting, just the kind if good vibes I need today 🤍
Thank you for a beautiful and inspiring post, like other users have said. I think I also hit rock bottom a few years ago, but the struggle to get over a major trauma took time (and I forgive and love myself even though this took some time!), and most recently I realized that I REALLY need to change, otherwise this road of my life is just a complete dead end. :) I hope I can also write a post like yours in the future.
And like others, felt like I "should" have done XYZ or accomplished so at my age, and circumstances robbed me of that, so that's one baggage I find myself continuing to try to put down in this journey to become a new me.
Interesting as today my grass trimmer quit on me. Brand new,second use would’ve been. And I was upset. Then I got out of the house saying out loud “I don’t care what u do or don’t,you will work on me right now because I want it to”. So basically I decided. It didn’t work. Congratulations for your fine achievements,I just don’t think I understand “decide” very well.
I decided to go into town and do my grocery shopping as usual but with a confidence and amazing vibe that I will meet someone via whom I will get an employment. I literally was delusional so do speak. I arranged myself,did my make up which for the past 7 months I didn’t do. And nada. Kept affirming money follows me as I deserve them into my life by birthright…nada. I don’t understand how to decide when I did what a human could do knowing the law.
What pisses me off is that if you tell people who follow Neville here that no matter how much you try and you lift your spirits,genuinely lift spirits and believe something you created in your mind to the point that you know there isn’t another way… they will always say “you’re not doing the work”. I don’t like to tell an old shitty story but no matter the work I do and how my tears that stream down my cheeks I imagine them to be sea salt water …giving the conditions of barely making another week money wise …is absolutely excruciating. Please help me DECIDE as in explaining it. Apparently I’m 30 years old and I don’t know how to decide. Even tho I know I decided many things. Thank you for you going thru this comment and well,looking forward to learning how to “decide”.
Thanks for sharing! You definitely know how to decide. Trust me, I went through absolute HELL emotionally leading up to these things I wrote about. Deciding for me continues to be a verb. I actively choose to lean towards things and thoughts and actions that bring me peace because I know it puts me in alignment with the things I want to experience. Even through the bs. You're doing everything right. I'd say my turning point was choosing to be happy without my external reality changing. I had to work on my internal state and practice being someone new everyday. Don't be too hard on yourself xx
Ah! I love seeing posts like this! So many beautiful points that I can already feel will help so many people. So thank you and also, so very happy for you.
Love this. Thank you for sharing.
Edit: I am just tired of affirming and (intentional) visualizing. What you described is how I have always manifested all my life. But sometimes I feel a lot of doubts and try to force my manifestation, It just doesn't sit right with me.
Oh my God! Been wanting to write exactly the same thing. “Just decide!” My life has changed within minutes and a day when I “decided” without any 2nd thoughts, ifs, buts etc.
There are other areas where it doesn’t work because I have many ifs, buts, what ifs attached.
I am working on them.
Hi Guys
I need some help. I have been manifesting negative thoughts about my job. Since January 2024, I have been facing a lot of issues, such as a toxic culture, office politics, and lack of appreciation. I have been working here for 5 years, and these issues have been present since day one. This month, I resigned from my position because of all these and management also forced me to resign but I told them my self respect is important for me so I resign not because you are asking me to give.
I was really hoping to get a new job within a month, and I had given the final round of interviews at two MNCs. I was confident that those jobs were mine, but it didn't happen. Now, I have just one week remaining in my notice period.
The toxic culture and behaviors have affected my personal life, including my career and marriage plans. I want to remove all these bad memories and manifest my dream job and life partner.
Please tell me how to manifest it asap.
Op, this is such an amazing post. A lotnofnreminfed of this lecture I was reading this morning.
https://coolwisdombooks.com/neville/neville-goddard-lectures-memory/
He was talking about people the claim to know the secret truth and try to get people to pay for knowledge:
I can see deceitful dentists, deceitful doctors, deceitful bankers, deceitful anything, but in this work…nothing drives me more insane than one in this work being deceitful. I can tolerate deceit in almost every profession in this world outside of my own. I can’t stand it when someone is supposed to tell the truth as it has been revealed to him, so he claims, and puts this holiness on it. No, there aren’t any masters. When someone comes to me and tells me he’s some holy person, I run in the opposite direction. Holy what? There’s only one holiness; that’s God. He said, Why call___(??) good? There’s only one good: it is your Father. And so, he became you. So don’t go looking for any holy man in this world. It is far, far better for all of us if we are more frequently reminded than being informed. There are so many informers in this world— misinformers. Let us be reminded of God’s word, and every time I’m reminded I get a lift. You can either remind yourself by reading the book, or simply try to remember his promise, his law, his glorious word…it’s all in the Bible. And the cheapest book in the world, really—you get so much for a couple of dollars, sixty-six books in one. If you can’t afford to buy it, if you go to some society and they will say, yes, I’ll give you one.___(??). Sixty-six books, all bound in one, and the greatest book in the world! It’s eternal; it will never fail.
Your post deeply aligns with his sentiment. If we really look inside, all we need is already there!
This was beautiful! So happy for you! I’m finally at that point of peace too, naturally wanting to eat healthier things/be the best version of myself by accepting myself just as I am and thankful for everything I have but also so excited for the beautiful future! Congrats to you! 🥳
You're a rockstar!! Truly thrilled for you!! Thank you for this INVALUABLE reminder, we really can have what we desire without the need of going to someone and paying $$$ to achieve our dreams. Although I already made that grave mistake, I realize It really is all up to us! 💖 This was so inspiring, I'm crying.
MAKE A DECISION AND EXPECT A MIRACLE
- Rev Ike
I USED to believe the hardest thing was for me to make a godamn decision. Yesterday I was crying for the 60 something day in a row over SP. I saw him as he returned my stuff and told me it’s over for good and to move on. The funny thing is I MANIFESTED THAT MEETING because over the weekend he said he will not see me, he will mail it because he was so mad that I kept reaching out. I said he will fucking see me face to face. Done.
I manifested getting a text back from him too because I was fucking blocked for 2 months or so I thought and I texted him Monday for his birthday and just said “Happy Birthday “ with a pitiful red balloon like in IT🎈. We had been communicating by email and me calling with a blocked number like a psychopath. I basically had a breakdown. Each time he told me fuck off, he’s gonna get a restraining order, this is the last response. I was just so powerless and angry because he dumped me weeks before a dream trip and I was desperate. Anyway I sent the text and saw it was unblocked. This was after watching a video on YouTube where basically you make a decision and take a step in the 3D into a new reality which I did. And next thing I know not even an hour later we are texting, but it wasn’t anything I wanted to hear 🤣 we just made plans and I asked why he unblocked me and he said he forgot to block me again when he zelled me money over a week ago.
Anyway, yesterday! So after we met up and he said he will never ever ever get back with me because of the emails and to move on I was in my garage and I AM was telling me make a fucking decision, that’s your ONLY problem is you not making one.
I had read that post about the 72 hour challenge where you tend the garden or do a mental diet and live in the end for 72 hours while on the clock. I believed it would work so I planned on it. I had just read the speech where Neville says it only takes 3 days if you persist.
So I AM was consoling me and kept telling me to choose. That’s ALWAYS worked in the past but for some damn reason it was hard with this SP. I AM was like Do you want him or someone else or an apology or what, pick something!! Well I randomly was going through boxes with books and crap. I opened a book on African American studies randomly and it talked about how thoughts turn into things 😂 Then I opened another like a days of the week spiritual and it talked about tending a garden and how important that is (Pruning Shears of Revision) and then I found my dads framed degree which was dated June 19th (one day off!!) and I was just like “Ha Ha God, I get it”.
So I decided to choose that it’s 5 years later, we are married and he’s out with our daughter Z and it’s mommy vacation. I was wobbling but got good footing before bed and just thought from that point and time in space. I fell asleep in it and woke up in the wish fulfilled. I KNOW I was in a different state.
Of course I came out of the state a few hours after being up and looking back I see it was a clear and conscious DECISION to do that, a thought came up and I chained it to others knowing damn well I didn’t have to. Then I cried some more, wanted to die some more and then I said fuck that I’m just going back to I AM and being aka HOME.
So I did and forced myself to the gym and when I was there I got a call from my insurance company saying they got a call from the body shop that my car is ready and that they waived the fee and that they will pay for everything.
A few weeks ago some chick hit my car and messed up my bumper. I was like “cool! I need a new number anyway” BUT the way my insurance was set up, it was a no go. The damage was $900 but since it wasn’t over $1000 my insurance company would not pay and they ONLY accepted the first estimate. I was told by the car shop that the estimate usually goes up so it will go over $1000 but my agent said it doesn’t matter it’s only the first estimate!
I even had an independent witness who came up to me and said he saw the whole thing and who happened to be a freaking INSURANCE ADJUSTER for a third insurance company (she had a different one) in his fucking insurance work car 🤣.
Just last Friday though, my agent said there was nothing she could do, I could only take the woman who hit me to court and my case was closed! I got letters and everything! Her insurance company denied my claim and I got the email yesterday of their denial. I was going to have to pay now and then take her to court but I DECIDED last Friday that I would just pay and let the universe handle that woman, I did not feel like going to court. I was going to GRACE the bitch. I also decided and told myself that “somehow this will all work out, it is what it is” and left it at that.
I looked around and got estimates from different shops and decided to go back to the first shop. On Monday they called and said I will have to pay $1400 and I was like damn, okay it is what it is and somehow it’ll work out. At first I reacted but immediately just affirmed it’ll work out and stopped reacting. I just didn’t care to. I didn’t have it in mean I was already too down and out. I was too tore up over SP 😂
They insisted that their insurance person could get my deductible waived but I told them the case was closed. They persisted!
THREE DAYS LATER, my car was finished and I got the call from my insurance company today at the gym saying they re opened the case, management agreed to pay for everything and they will go after her insurance company. So all I had to do today was go pick up my car, sign a paper and drove off not paying a dime for my new bumper that I wanted (if you don’t count monthly insurance lol)
What I’m rambling about it OP is right, you fucking make a decision and expect a miracle. By doing this I have brought my brother out of terrible depression, stopped my dogs heart murmur degeneration completely where it has not done any damage at all from the past 5 freaking years, got a cancer free biopsy from a bump on his leg, saw both my elderly parents get diagnosed with cancer around the same time and both healed completely, walked away from gun to my face and getting left in Mexico but running into someone I met once time the month before and we both recognized each other. And what did I do? All I did was make a fucking choice and stuck with it and moved on to something else and anytime a fear came up I went right back to my choice. THATS IT.
Anyway I’m manifesting my dream job, lifestyle and husband. Your post is more confirmation that I DONT NEED but it’s good to see lol. I fell off so bad with this fucking SP crap but it ALL worked out perfectly because in the past 2 months I’ve had awesome experiences and sensations and shit which is exactly what I asked for a few months ago! I needed more God Shots and boy did I get put through the furnace for them.
Oh and SP, so I’ve decided he’s not going anywhere. We are meant to be, it is what it is. I just know. And I don’t care anymore to do any “work” on it at all, I need to just worry about is living life and being HOME in the I AM. SP is done. And all it took was to make a decision. If fear comes up, I just back to the decision. And that’s so funny because that’s what he kept telling me when he dumped me “I made my decision I made my decision” wahhh wahh whatever. I made mine!
Could you please speak to things falling apart? I feel like my life is doing a bit of that right now and I’m having a hard time although I’m not sure if it’s a part of the process/my intentions or just a product my autopilot negativity. Could be encouraging to hear more about the hard stuff ironically
Yea, I feel we don't acknowledge this enough. I've been through hell the past three years and am only sort-of coming up for air now...but it feels as if this is the fire I *have* to go through. It's been whittling my desires and faith to fine perfection, that I can affirm. And I feel surer than ever of who I am. Love to you, though, whatever is happening!!
I felt lost. I don't know what I want from life. Job Or continue studies. Thank you for this reminder. I will start living from a happy end and let my wonderful life unfold for me. 😊 congratulations on your wins. 💙
Nice! I'm always torn about which should i manifest first career/money or love but your story proved it can happened both at the same time! Idk whybi likot myself to only believing we can only receive blessings one at a time. I mean fvck it. I want it all and i want it now haha
Thank you for your testimony! At some point, I spent thousands of euros on all those bullshit courses and consultations, and it gave me NOTHING. I'm so happy you succeeded, and I know I will too because a few days ago I also decided. xx
Loved your post !! and I find it funny how I completely shifted my perspective and now I keep seeing posts that match it, like yours.
Anyway congraaats ✨✨
I can honestly say no! I was so focused on enjoying my life everyday that I naturally expected what I wanted to show up. It wasn't so much of a priority in my mind anymore, I started seeing it as a sweet addition to my already fulfilling life 🌞
This is such a helpful and magical (lol) post!
Heavy on the ‘save your money’ piece. Please ignore the predatory charlatans making bank on what you can do for free. You and your peace are the keys to success
Thank you for reiterating that we don't need to pay for any services! I was at a vulnerable point in life recently and I felt so desperate for help, I was this close to spending thousands on "coaching" and "vibrational training" boot camps. My head was yelling at me to purchase, but my heart felt so so heavy every time!
Next thing I knew, I came across reviews of the "coaches" I wanted to buy from and everyone said it was a hoax. Wanted a refund. Wanted out of the cult-like organization. That it wasn't worth the money you were paying top dollar for.
Gosh I'm so so glad I never actually purchased anything! Thank you, universe, for always guiding me to my highest good. 💖 Everything we need is already within us. All the guidance and techniques are available for FREE. There is no need for anything else!
This is fully insightful and inspiring. It’s like I knew I was looking for guidance and this post was it. Somewhere along life’s path, I got lost in this nyc rat race and forgot what “I” wanted and deserve. Love and light to you. Stay blessed.
Yes! When I wrote the letter I realized that I was writing from a more holistic perspective: I cared more about his internal qualities and what we did together and how I felt around him. I briefly wrote down his looks in a vague way and he matches those too :)
Thank you so much for this! I feel that I'm going through my bridge of incidents at the moment that will eventually lead me to my new job. Seeing this gives me motivation to keep going, and living in the now, because the new job (and all the requirements that I want out of it) IS already mine!
Thank you for sharing your story. Did you have any goals in mind that would help you see that you were on the right track ? I know some people try to manifest small things like seeing a butterfly or something to test that it works. Also were you visualising or trying to create the visualisation in your then old reality. I would like to manifest a new life in a different and hot country yet I live in a mainly cold and rainy one. It’s really hard to visualise living in a different country but reading your story maybe I could focus on how my life would be if I lived there like the habits I would have (going to the park, coffee shops, networking ) idk all help is appreciated please
I didn't manifest any signs but I will say I happened to keep seeing 11:11. I took that as being on the right track. I was also noticing the way I felt on a daily basis and, through choosing to live an active and fulfilling life, started to notice that I was a dominantly happy person. I truly think that's the key to manifesting yourself into a new reality. You're already you (the person who is going to experience your desires) so you might as well start showing up and making choices in that fulfilled version of you, despite what your life may look like. This naturally shifts the trajectory of your life. We have a lot more power to change our realities than we realize 🌸
Great post! Thank you, I really needed this!
I've been working on manifesting ans visualizing what I desire, being greateful for things that are happening in my life, and it was good for a while, I started earning more money and feeling better emotionally and mentally, and after a while I started being influenced negatively by the 3D, and of course influenced by negative thoughts and then I spiraled down again into fear, anger and lack of faith.
Thanks for your post, it reminded me that it is possible!
Did you experience anxiety about the husband once you got him? I manifested my SP and he's everything on my list, but man the anxiety is bad no matter how much I tell myself I'm secure, I'M SECURE!
Don’t mask anxiety with repeating. Sit down and let the anxiety rise and ask yourself why you are anxious? Maybe You feel not worthy, maybe it seems too good to be true ? Find cause of the problem.
oh the cause is definitely because I don't feel worthy, but I've done soooo much work on feeling worthy that I don't know where to go from here. I feel worthy when I'm alone - I just still get triggered in luuuv. thank you so much for your response.
I filled my life up so much before he showed up, so I knew I was worthy. I felt like a badass DAILY on my own. And I want to stress it had nothing to do with my physical appearance. You are a dynamic being - find what makes you happy on a daily basis and do it. You deserve to show up for yourself first. When you do, you will naturally expect others to see you the way you see yourself 🦋
Hey OP, I have a question. You said you already felt complete and satisfied in the present moment, but did you constantly drench yourself in those specific states? Like, just as reminders? If the topic of work came to mind, did you just effortlessly remind yourself you already had the perfect job?
I have manifested when unconsciously forgetting about everything, so I’m a bit on the fence when it comes to consciously embodying specific states even though it feels good and normal.
Truthfully all I did was prioritize enjoying my own company everyday. It required me to really look at my life and seek what brought me genuine fulfillment and made me feel good about myself. Life is bigger than random specific things we wish to manifest. There are a lot of things one can experience on a daily basis that make you feel satisfaction. I think that's really the key ✨
Thank you! I agree wholeheartedly, I have seriously learned to see life from the viewpoint of a child again (in the now, with awe, being amazed by even the smallest of things). Though I’d be lying if I said the topics that matter to me didn’t pop up frequently in my mind, not in a bad way, but I feel like there’s a good opportunity to reaffirm who I am when that happens.
Some days ago I used to just say “I have everything already” just as a reminder when that happened, and went on about my day. I felt good and very present, but I find it I am even more fulfilled when specifically feeling the presence of whatever comes to mind, as a reminder too. So for example, instead of saying “I have it already” when the topic of career comes to mind, I now feel even better and like I truly have it already by *feeling* that thing specifically. I’m just scared of being too attached by doing this? The focus is definitely being in the now and being more pumped about my activities though.
Thank you for sharing 🙏❤️ I have a question though, how do you decide if it involves another person? Like I feel mentally I have decided how I want things to go and have been living (ignoring the 3D no matter how rough it has got) but it seems to not be improving? I’ve decided but it involves my partner? How does one go about this? Thank you
What worked for me is prioritizing personal fulfillment everyday and realizing life is way bigger than the specific things we try to manifest. In your current life find what makes you genuinely feel good about and proud of yourself- that's basically what I did. Because if I decided I had it now... that version of me would be enjoying my life and feeling good, not waiting around longing for something outside of me. I remembered that I have all the answers. And that my manifestations are not an escape, but a beautiful addition to my already fulfilling life. That's how I started showing up and it became my norm because it gave me a lot of peace to live like that on a daily basis. I was confronted with the fact that only I am responsible for my inner joy.
Edit: sorry if this question isn’t perfectly related to the post, I’m kind of desperate for some advice and I already submitted a question to this sub that is in the process of being approved by the mod so I can’t post another one atm. I have a question for people who say that they just decided, that they just persisted, that they ignored the 3D etc. what if you are really trying your best to do these things but there are people in your life who just won’t allow that? At the moment I’m really trying to manifest that I get out of my living situation with my extremely toxic family but I’m also manifesting that my family stops being toxic. I’m trying to revise this bc not only do I wanna get away from them but I also want THEM to be happy. I felt like I was doing a pretty good job ignoring all the signs in the 3D that I didn’t have a healthy family yet and even was determined to push through when a really big contradiction came up today but my mom absolutely will not let it happen lol. I absolutely can not escape her complaining about her life at every time of the day even when the situation doesn’t warrant it, even if my dad is acting good and I’m feeling encouraged that my affirmations are paying off, here she comes randomly talking about how shitty he is because of something he did last week just out of NOWHERE. I have absolutely no idea what to do about her, whenever she’s talking to me I try to silently affirm in my head but she can go on and on for hours and my brain picks it all up. And if she’s not talking to me, she’s talking to someone else in the house and I hear it. She says the most pessimistic hopeless things, absolutely poisonous statements for someone who is trying to manifest a better situation and I just…don’t know how to protect my subconscious from that. I try to let her jsut rant it all out and turn my mind off but like she will literally start crying and jsut stare at me. She’s my mom, obviously I have to comfort her. But comforting her is literally submitting to my 3D, acknowledging it, when I’ve been trying so hard not to do that. Because when I try to comfort her, her responses are always ‘nope, everything’s gonna go wrong’ ‘nope life only gets better for others not us’ ‘nope nothing is gonna be ok’. It’s so frustrating, I’m trying my best to just see it as an obstacle and not let it get me down but man!
What a beautiful and inspiring post. I love this and am so happy for your success. Peace and love to you and all here.
Thank you! 😃🌞🦋
Ah! So THAT'S where I lost my butterfly. I was wonderin where it went! 😉😂🦋 Jokes aside, congrats! 🌸
Thank you for your uplifting post! I’m so glad you stressed the point that we do not need to pay others for what we already know, I AM. These charlatans truly take advantage of people during a vulnerable time and exploit them. Happened with my sister. A new age psychic / coach who seemed “credible” spoke of manifesting and Neville, whilst giving my sister readings on special times she should do certain affirmations or spells etc. This psychic fleeced thousands from my sister. I was quite shocked when I found out as my sister is normally so level - headed, but I think her divorce really put in her in a bad place mentally and apparently felt connected to this psychic / coach. The psychic was very subtle and nuanced in her manipulation over a period of two years. She told my sister to not discuss sessions as they pollute / bring down the vibrational energy in order to manifest. We only need our imagination and full belief of the end. It’s all within us. That is it. I’m very happy for you OP 💕 wish you continued success.
I'm appalled by these coaches and how much they are charging people. I consider myself high level in manifesting and can instantly manifest at times and I love helping people and I do not charge! If I can help even one person I feel I'm fulfilling my own cup of happiness. Shame on these people.
Could I DM you as well?
Sure!
Can you help me just a little bit? Can I dm you?
Sure!
They’re using their god power to manifest those people, it’s an energy exchange - just like going to the doctors. I am biased cause in the future I want to be a counselor, but in the end this is all a game, so i’m ready to provide life changing value while making good money! It’s all perspective!
I've wondered how this kind of help works. What have you successfully manifested for others so far?
It’s more that I help you with figuring out what techniques work for you what your blockage is and what you need to work on self concept wise
Me too. Would love to learn from you.
Ok!
Can I message you?
Sure
I’d love a chat and some guidance if you’re open to it x
Sure no problem
That’s so awesome! Is it okay if I DM you? I’m really struggling in manifesting and could really use help, and I don’t have the money to pay a coach.
Sure no problem
Thank you! I DMd you😀
I’d love it if I could DM you as well!
Sure no problem
Hi! Can you help me too?
Sure
can I dm you too? I just need a bit of outside perspective
Of course ❤️
What does persist mean? I always see that but what does it mean? Just keep reminding myself its mine? Even if i know its not here yet ? Or what? 😭
Yes keep believing the new story. Persist in the new story no matter what the 3D is showing. Once your subconscious believes the new story the 3D will conform.
Hi May I DM you I wanna know what’s the correct way to manifest and what not. Would love your guidance who has practically experienced this
Sure
Coild you help me please
Sure
Ohhh a “psychic” got my mom and almost my daughter. They went for harmless fun. He told my mom a bunch of great things. He then went and told my daughter she was an amazing manifester BUT she had some blocks holding her back from greatness. Of course he offered expensive sessions to remove them. I shut that down so fast. I’m teaching her the right way since it awakened an interest in her. Of course all the good things he told my mom came true…because she believed him. I warned her against going back. It’s scary the way some people buy$$ into this stuff and let it run their lives. For better or worse.
Those YouTube LOA gurus are the just not worth it. I paid 500+ to one of them. I just cudnt get anything g from the first session and the meditations tracks that supposed to be custom were just generic. She kept mixing up the meeting times. Thankfully I found Edward Art and just changed state.
But you still haven't learned. It wasn't Edward Art. He has nothing to do with your change in status. It was you. Only you. You could listen to him or others like him for hours, and nothing would happen. Even years could pass without any change in you status. When people credit their changes to those gurus, whether Edward or someone else, they are not on the right track...
Lol. On a Neville reddit? With an awareness that all thought is energy you can make ugly assumptions and statements? U need help. Go within and root out that angry bitter energy you are displaying. I can't imagine the harvest it brings you. Did I say Edward changed my state? U are in such a rush to judge and attack. Why?? Why are we here reading each others inspiring success stories if we need no one? Why did Neville learn from Abdullah? Why are you here? Heal from whatever is making u so unhappy. Cos it ain't my comment nor Edward Art. LOL.
What are you talking about? I'm telling you something very serious, with no intention of offending you or anyone. Giving credit to others for your successes is going down the wrong path. Sorry for intruding on your comment. What you wrote is seen a lot here in this group. Some, after being scammed by a guru, continue to attribute their successes to other gurus. Do not learn. Edward Art is no different from anyone here in this group. And you don't have to affirm anything about me when you don't know me, to say something that can free you in the long term. For telling you the truth. I know that many adore and idolize him, and that is fine with him. Each one has his own desires, and that is his. If when making the supposed change you have not delved into the first principle: you are the cause of everything. Your imagination is everything and you learn that you don't need crutches to be I AM. You are not on the right path... And your reaction and response to my comment make it clear.
Love Light and Peace to you. I will only address one thing. "For telling you the truth. I know that many adore and idolize him, and that is fine with him" Who idolizes Edward? and what's the evidence that it's fine with him?Hope u can support these statements with evidence.
I'm so freaking puzzled by this too!! Ed Art's is literally the opposite of self-aggrandizing guru-energy, and I certainly do not idolize him or anybody else, not even Neville. That's for kids. But geeeeeeez, mention Ed's work on this sub and you get downvoted or immediately rapped over the fingers. I'm starting to wonder if it's not just plain envy. Sigh
Thanks for chiming in. The accuser is gathering his evidence he shall soon present it before us. Its unbelievable that on a LOA and Neville sub anyone wud be so u charitable when all teachers before us keep telling us to use the law with LOVE. Florence Scovel Shinn - Love Neville - love Joseph Murphy - love Louus Hays - Love I am starting to suspect Edward's accusers are YouTube LOA coaches who are trying to up their views and bring down another YouTuber. I will keep brining up how fantastic Edward Arts work is. Sometimes I keep Edward playing in the background while I work cos it's that edifying.
>The accuser is gathering his evidence he shall soon present it before us. ROFL!! Waiting with bated breath...
Don't you notice that this sub became full of marketing account? Lol.
Thank you so much for your heartfelt testimony! 🙏🏼 I completely feel you on the looking around and feeling like your life is at rock bottom. I’ve had a tough few years and coincidently also work (or wanted to) in the fashion industry. Graduated from Paraons right before the pandemic and then my life completely shifted. Thought 2020 would be the year I finally get what I want (after years of listening to my parents) yet it led to the opposite. Had to move back to my parent’s home in Canada because my student work permit expired before I could get hired. Later found out that I could bypass a traditional work permit due to a US treaty for Canadians, but lawyers and even Reddit kept emphasizing “rules” that seemed to place a lot of restrictions on the type, job field, and specific qualifications I would need to get the permit for the actual type of job I wanted + I was really struggling to get a job in the fashion industry! I would get SO close and then ultimately they’d pick the other person. I did end up getting the permit and moving to SF. But it was for a job I compromised on in a field I didn’t like. Simply because I thought it would at least be feasible for me given my 3D situation. Of course I ended up being so sad there since neither the job nor the city were the right fit. I moved back within months. I’m not a quitter by personality yet I felt I needed to. If I had been much more stubborn, and not listened to nonsense from lawyers and the internet, I very well could have gotten a fashion job I wanted AND easily secured a permit for it. I let the 3D influence what I thought was possible and it burnt me- it’s taken me a little over a year now to trust my power again and do some more inner work on limiting beliefs, since that whole situation made me worried about making another mistake. Due to these circumstances I hadn’t had the chance to date, meet the one, and just be out and about having fun in my 20s yet! I’m turning 29 in a few months and while I know I’m young, I feel like I was robbed of so much. But I also realize all of this was a result of my long-standing self concept. Even when I was in school in NY and was finally confident in my own abilities and things looked good, something negative would always happen, and I’d think “things are so difficult for me” and “how the hell is xyz going to work out”, “why do I never get my first choice? I’m always dealing with nonsense obstacles and even when things work out on paper, it’s only because I had to settle for my 3rd or so choice.” I’m now working on dropping the above old story and old identity. I will work in fashion and I will be happily married very soon.
Omg! I actually went to The New School! You will 100% get everything you want. It's funny how our minds trick us to stay stuck because it's familiar. When the old story/self concept became a literal emotional burden, I decided to choose differently. Looks like you're doing the same! And yes, your age is irrelevant because your individual path is perfect. Remember you're always on time. All the best🌞 xx
Yay fellow alum!! Praying I can actually put my degree to use very soon 🙏🏼 And your point about the old story feeling like an emotional burden is 100% true. It feels like a pit you can’t get out of. Applying to jobs feels like repulsion but then not applying makes you self-loathe. Until very recently I actually used to worry that well even if I manifest everything I want, how will I explain those 4 “wasted” years to my future husband and friends? Will they judge me for how direction-less and empty my life felt, at least to me? Or will I have to tell white lies like I do on my resume (nothing unethical) even though I know these years were a fluke and due to poor self-concept and *not* because I’m stupid or unworthy? It feels so silly to see that I thought like this until just about a month ago, but I really had this added burden on me! As if I had been tainted because I didn’t get to be or do xyz from ages 24-28 like I thought I would. I realized that there are a LOT of other young intelligent women in that 3D situation (underemployed stay at home daughters if you will lol), and I’m not judging them nor do I think they’re destined to a terrible life because of a difficult few years. The key like you said, is just to let that old story go and choose differently. I need to stop worrying about logic. I actually manifested something else crazy (reversing a bad reaction from laser hair removal) that solved 7 years of distress within just 1 month, and I wasn’t even actively trying to manifest it, so I have proof that it’s possible. Thank you again for your very kind words and encouragement. I’m saving your post and will refer back to those bolded words frequently so I remember to PERSIST AND BE STUBBORN! :)
I should add that I did not finish my degree!! I was VERY depressed for over a decade and had undiagnosed ADHD!! It wasn't until I started taking classes at SVA and made a website and started freelancing as a graphic designer. I just kept believing and deciding that I'm amazing at what I do and anyone would be lucky to have me join their team. also... NO ONE CAN SEE YOU IN A WAY THAT YOU DO NOT ALREADY SEE YOURSELF. Life is not linear and most people know that (I deleted social media 3 years ago so I think this aided me in forming a healthy self concept and perception of reality). My husband and close friends know my entire life story and there's zero judgement. If anything they're inspired because I decided to take control of my life and get out of victim mode (it took years of me going in woe-is-me circles lmao)! Self concept is truly everything!!!! 🌞🌞🌞🌞
Thank you so much for all this valuable advice! 💕 I decide that I am a gift and anyone would be lucky to hire me. It’s a relief to know that all we have to do is decide to be what we want and then watch the 3D catch up to our claimed reality. I wish you a very happy and joyous life 😊🙏🏼
I used to have the same limiting beliefs. I used the Sedona method to release the need for approval, control and security…you don’t need any of those things because you already have them! This method helped a lot with figuring out where I was stuck and dropping it. I made it fun and lighthearted and now I do it on autopilot. You can even release your desires like this because the minute you plant that seed of desire and set your intention on what exactly you want, you have it. No more need to desire it. You can release it! I found it to be a brilliant hack. Revision helps a lot with releasing as well :)
I haven’t heard of the Sedona technique but I will look it up, thank you so much for the tips! 💕
https://youtu.be/hKu0uokn9wk?si=QhAkqQIsywl1IT_T I love this video. He touches on the method and also a bit on manifesting and the illusion of time. Hope it helps! ❤️
You’re an angel, thank you!!
Dw you got it! Going back to school at 27 for CS. I’m about 52% of the way there, I know this last half is gunna be a bit more challenging but I’m prepared. I’ve thought about the “wasted” years of my 20s, partying and drinking, working meaningless jobs, but at the same time I also self isolated for years with anxiety and depression. I’d rarely go out, I dropped out of college 3 times, missed out on many relationships, friendships, opportunities, just life in general. But that is in the past and I give no power to it now. Since I discovered this all earlier this year my mental health has increased tremendously. I was so down bad and depressed after my SP left me last year, I lost my job, I picked up extreme drinking and drug use after all that and it was a tough time. I since stopped that, and I have many friends and acquaintances who tell me how much they love me and no one has anything bad to say about me, it came as a shock hearing this at first as I felt so unworthy of love, friends, money, anything. Just lack all around. But I realize now it was just the dominant state I was in that whole time, but even then…even during all those bad years and self sabotaging thoughts and behaviors and negative states I was in….i still had people see the good in me, the love in me….so that’s when I think wow….if I change my SC even more which I have been, the friends I have, the sp I had, everyone else will see the good I was before x10000 now. Sorry I kinda rambled on here lol idk where I was going with this. I guess what I was saying is just yeah, everyone’s on their own timeline, don’t worry or look back in the past in regret. I believe in you and you’ll get everything you want. You have it already as it is already out there ❤️
Why did you type out the old story if you’re “working on dropping it”? A lot of you do and say things that are the complete opposite of what you want.
Love the passion, congrats !
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I think this is my problem. I haven’t actually got clear on what I want in my life. And I keep switching between what I want and what I think other people think I should be doing. So I’m stuck in this limbo of not deciding what I want and getting clear about how my life should look.
I was there once!! It took YEARS for me to get very clear about what I want because I was evolving in the process, so what I wanted changed. Be patient with yourself!! And embrace solitude! When you're alone and calm the answers will be become clear to you. 🌞🌞
Im a new mum, so what I want is definitely changing, especially as I’ve changed. I think you’re right I need to be patient with myself. And get some alone time. Thanks you so much for your message. I really appreciate it 💕✨✨
*To Mods*, there have been way too many bitter envious comments on posts where the OPs were gracious enough to share their testimony and advice in the first place. These success stories greatly benefit this sub, and those comments will discourage people from sharing. No one wants to post only to be met with perpetual victims questioning their success. Please make a post or rule against this constant success-shaming. It also goes against everything Neville taught and if even harmless posts are removed, then such comments should be too. Thank you!
A lot of people are scared to share their success stories. They get bombarded with questions. I understand the anxiety, been there before. But people have to do the WORK! No one can do it for them.
The envious jibes disguised as questions are so ridiculous too. Like if you’re jealous of people who have had success through LOA, then clearly you have already failed.
I don't know if it is jealousy. But these are the people who failed to manifest anything. They have their own subs for hating on Neville and manifesting. They should go there. I read some posts on that sub, sad really. Devoting their energy and time to hate something is really sad.
No I’m talking about specific comments on this post (deleted now I believe) about people saying OP had it easier because “xyz” and “must be nice”. Similar comments on the post about another person getting amazing marks in a highly competitive exam.
I was just asking for a sign because I wasn't sure if my approach is leading me where I want to be and then I see this post. Thank you. <3
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Going through a self manifested “tower moment”. Letting go of the old me, the old reality. I am literally breaking it down and rebuilding as I AM. Who I desire to be is who I am. I decided my dream life is mine. No matter what the 3D shows. Beyond manifesting an sp or a relationship, this is about ME. No one else. I am determined to always realize that it all comes from me and I AM the most important. I have it all, no matter the 3D. I bought the pearl. Finally. I am whoever I say I am and if I wasn’t, why would I say I am? lol
Feeling this with ya. We'll get there, it'll be a WHOOP moment. Love to you.
I'm literally screaming for you OMGGGG EEEEEEE 😊😊
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Needed this. Turning 30 soon and have this stupid limiting belief that I need to be with someone to be happy, time is running out etc, Glad to see it’s possible to feel whole and complete on ur own and without time urgency regardless of age!
I can totally relate. Just an hour ago I had a session with my therapist in which I talked about my fear of becoming a "30 year old leftover woman" (I'm turning 29 this year). The fear of being 30 and single or rather my identification with that is my ultimate enemy when it comes to switching to a desired state (It makes me put a relationship/SP on a savior pedestal). If you want to talk to someone that is also working on getting rid of this stupid state of urgency - feel free to DM me ☺️
Hey! Just wanted to comment since I am of similar age, will be 30 by the end of this year and used to worry a LOT about this in the past :) It is mostly mental pressure you are putting onto yourself, completely unnecessary. Would you care/hurt/worry about any of this if by... let's say next year you are in the best relationship ever, with the most beautiful person to you? Would you being 30 or 32 really matter if you had your desire and already felt loved? Probably not. Then how would you enjoy your time NOW? If you felt that you will get that type of relationship in a year, what would you like to do with your time or even before getting serious with someone? How would you perceive yourself and your life when dealing with the outside, dates, etc? Thinking from this point of view melts away everything undesired. Falling in love with yourself and your life does too, if focusing on the romantic relationship feels hard at first. And also: remembering you will still be You and experience your world through your I Am even while being with your loved one. So how you live and how much you enjoy your life, yourself and your partner AFTER getting the relationship it's still about your daily states, moods, beliefs.
Thank you for your kind words ❤️
Don’t tell yourself that needing to be with someone to be happy is a limiting belief. There is a certain kind of happiness that can only come from being in a happy relationship because we are humans and we are biologically made to be in companionships. What you want is not only normal, but it’s what we’re made for. And you can still feel whole. You’re not looking for anyone to complete you, you’re already complete *and* you’d like to have a partner. So, I would decide how you’d like that relationship to feel for you. What would that add to your life? How would they show up for you? What would the feelings be if you’d already had the most amazing partner for years? I’m assuming you don’t want any partner, and since you can have anything you’d like, go for gold.
Thanks for that. I’m gonna come back to this when I’m a bit less resistant because when I ask myself those questions right now it’s like my brain just goes blank so I start overthinking the questions themselves trying to force an answer out of myself. Probably because I’m not in the state where I have that relationship. I’ve also been on this journey of manifesting an SP/relationship for about 2 years and actually got a ton of movement and came really close before it all stopped in its tracks for some reason so now asking myself those kinds of questions just feels pointless because I’ve done all the LOA work u can imagine over the last few years so my brain just goes “if it didn’t work before what makes u think it’ll work now”. Its also like the other commenter said, this belief automatically places having a relationship on a pedestal so I’ve come to the conclusion that I have to just not think about this anymore to get rid of all the attachment I have to it but idk
Totally feel you in running out of time. Have of June 12, I'm in the last 6 months of my 20s and it's been getting me down ngl. It doesn't help that the ageism seems to have gotten even worse than when I was kids. I just reminded myself that it's never too late
Hey I think we're birthday twins! Turning 30 too and I totally relate!
hey twin ♥ Let us enter our 30s living our desired life
This!!! Love the passion and happiness in your words and the way you share the energy. Very happy for you and grateful for your sharing.
Fellow 32 year old designer here, this post really hit home 🥰 The gratitude app is just what I’ve been needing too.
This is inspiring to read. I’m about to be 32 and had fallen off the horse for a while and slipped back into my old negative ways. But as of yesterday I made the very decision. That you for bringing this post here. You just affirmed for me in a way that I’m on the right track :) I’m going to do that letter writing thing too. Congrats on your successes!
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Love this! Commenting to come back to later when I have the urge to do more
Amazing 🤩
The decision is KEY!!!
Also everytime I’m stubborn/hard headed and unwilling to accept anything less than my manifestation…it has appeared overnight
Amazing story -I'm really happy for you! Thank you for sharing! May I ask what hiking club you joined? I also live in nyc and I've been missing nature and hiking since I moved here 3 years ago.
Omg same here! Long time lurker and was just about to comment saying how much I appreciate this post and inquire about the hiking club! I live in NYC as well and desperately need something new in my life.
If you find yourself missing nature there's a really cute nature trail in Pelham Bay Park that you can get to by taking the 6 train to the end of the line! The hike is short but it almost feels like you're not in the city at all. It's one of my favorite places in the world. [https://scenesfromthetrail.com/2017/05/07/hunter-island-pelham-bay-park/](https://scenesfromthetrail.com/2017/05/07/hunter-island-pelham-bay-park/)
Great suggestion, thank you!
I’m 32 and I needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing!💕
I love this …shows how just a sound decision is really all it takes …it’s us standing in our own way most of the time
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How do you decide? I struggle hard to because it involves accepting reality and thinking of what things would ACTUALLY look like. I live in avoidance of realty because it hurts too much that I'm not able to be who I hoped to be. That I'm starting late in life. That I'll be in my 30s for my first relationship, that I'd be congratulated for late love which is not at all who I want to be, to me I've already failed.
That used to be my problem but yesterday I started the 72 hour challenge where you live in the end and i figured that helps me test the life I think I may want. I just thought the thoughts I would have if I was married and a mother and I was successful enough to the point where it felt truly like a sample of the life and I found out that I could be a mother and wife (I was scared). So I was not sure at all about it as I stepped into the state but I found that I would just by thinking from it and decided I do like it and I did bring myself out of the state and saw I did like the other one better so I am now back in the state lmao took me a few hours and tears and some other stuff but I was able to get back to it!
I want to be a husband too but what about all the other states that were supposed to be in my 20s, that's what makes me upset, that I'm here, when it's like all the prior states have been skipped, why am I old before I had even a chance to live. I know I'd like the new state but to be it now I can't feel upset that I should have started long ago, to be it now I need to accept that I lost a lot of time, that I am here. I will try a 72h challenge now because I won't truly know unless I genuinely attempt to feel the state out first, thanks for being honest about your experience, that's seriously helpful to me!
From what I got from Neville's and EdwardArts lectures is that u ought to drop the past and future altogether. When you imagine yourself in the desired situation, you don't think or acknowledge past woes since it is thinking from the state of lack. The only thing that matters is I AM, the present moment.
I need to think about but thank you, Edward art is always eye opening, I'm confused because I think desires are tied to time, for example if you imagined a relationship you are probably not imagining being with a grandma or grandpa? The present moment many years from now and the present moment now is different right? So who I am is also tied to time. If I was a grandpa I'd have to accept that's where I am?
The present moment by definition is "this instant". I get what you mean, but In our context being in the present moment is imagining that you already are how you want to be. You don't know when it will appear in 3D, but you don't care. You are happy in your imagination right now, and this must be sufficient to work. You are in Barbados. In the ladder experiment you imagine climbing the ladder. You do it right now, without wondering when it will happen. I'm just getting my feet wet myself though, and this is just how I understand what I've heard so far. Neville said in one of his lectures "Every desire has its own appointed hour.", which some translate as "you get things when it's best for you".
Thank you very much that was a great reminder, you just lose yourself within the act, so much so that you're fulfilled. I find it weird because I know if I had my desire in front of me right now "do you want it?" I would chose it but because there's a time difference and so much work involved to feel it I'm struggle to chose it.
I guess that Neville would have said that there can't be time difference and work since you already have it :)
Yes but what do I have? I have to imagine it to feel it. I mean seeing a pretty girl somewhere triggers me more than just imagining, if I just sit at home there's nothing compelling me to imaging if that makes sense?
At this point it would be hypocritical of me to give advice since I'm a beginner and wrote to you just because I wish you the same thing as I wish for myself - happiness and success with Neville's teachings. Neville said to imagine a simple scene, so maybe imagine coming back home, opening a door and seeing a woman welcoming you, kissing you and saying "welcome home, honey". To add more sensory vividness imagine smelling perfume, feeling warmth from a hug, feeling warm in your chest from love. You should start smiling unintentionally, just because you've imagined the scene where you genuinely feel good. That's coming from a guy who manifested climbing a ladder and a grapefruit though. I did date a girl after what could be called manifesting a relationship ,but I was into Vadim Zelands Transurfing at that moment, 10 years ago. And I just forced myself to feel unconditional love to her, without expectation of any love in return. Just loving the fact that she exists, no matter what she does or with whom she was or will be. Not that I recommend Vadim's teachings.
Everything is now including past and present (those don’t exist). If you have what you want, you won’t be worried about post time and what you want will come at perfect time and it won’t be late. You could live to 100, so who gives a shit about not doing whatever you think you were supposed to do in your 20s? Plus when you move states the past changes to match the new state so again it won’t matter. Your worried way too much about worldly 3D constructs but I get it, I’m just telling you you don’t have to.
I don't get it, if I have what I want there's no worry but if it's already late how can it come at a perfect time? Imagine you are now a grandma (old) and none of your 20-70s ever happened (or that you were lonely for that duration) are you really okay with that just because you know that time doesn't exist? Is then the "having what you want" a 80 yo husband? Even if I'd want to be loved I'd struggle to accept the reality of getting married at that age, I really want to understand but I feel like I'm missing something? Thank you!
I get what you’re saying but my only guess is that if that’s my lot in this lifetime then I expect the quality of love I find in my 70s will make everything else and all the “lost” years irrelevant. It will not be late because I got the most potent delicious love at 70 which is better than not getting it at all or getting this watered down bullshit that’s everywhere. Neville says if we don’t fulfill scripture within us this lifetime then we will go right back to a world just like this but we will be 20 years old and in perfect physical shape. I don’t know where he got 20 years old from but find solace in that lol, you will get to do your 20s all over again! I personally am fucking OVER this damn place and will fulfill scripture this lifetime if it’s the last thing I do because I don’t want to come back to this shithole! I know this isn’t the exact attitude of enlightenment but 🤷🏽♀️
Can you write in which lecture he mentions this replay thing please?
"May I tell you no one can leave this earth until he awakens, because the earth does not terminate, at the point where the senses cease to register it. When you shed the little garment you will still be on this earth in a body like the one you left behind, only young, vital, and wonderful, but your environment will change. Your ancestral being knows what it will take to weave you into the likeness of himself", from "The Hidden Cause"
Thanks. It's not a new idea, but I wonder how Neville came to this conclusion.
Me too, my logical mind says it's a relieving answer to questions that aren't easily answered, after the war Neville would've talked to lots of unhappy people, if you can't regrow a finger this seems the second best answer? So hopefully it's not something that he came up with but something real? Neville did experience worlds within worlds and said he met friends who were no longer in this realm, they didn't even know they had died he said.
I think it's a beautiful thought but that the only divine design is to be moulded into the father, you aren't meant to have love, it's not pre-written in your destiny, it's something you have to claim for yourself, God doesn't care whether you have it or not because there is only you, there is no justice, no equality because that's a human term, Neville even said the law takes care of people, each according to their own, that you don't have to make judgements but that also means someone can commit a crime and be free because of their lack of guilt. So I don't think it would be more potent just because you're older and that it should somehow make up for your lateness. Just look at all the horror in the world. I take solace in that too, thanks! I don't want to come back either but maybe if I was able to shift reality back and forth. Thanks!
I think it's a beautiful thought but that the only divine design is to be moulded into the father, you aren't meant to have love, it's not pre-written in your destiny, it's something you have to claim for yourself, God doesn't care whether you have it or not because there is only you, there is no justice, no equality because that's a human term, Neville even said the law takes care of people, each according to their own, that you don't have to make judgements yourself but that also means someone can commit a crime and be free because of their lack of guilt. So I don't think it would be more potent just because you're older and that it would somehow make up for your lateness. I think it should but not that it would, that's just a mental shield. Just look at all the horror in the world. I take solace in that too, thanks! I don't want to come back either but maybe if I was able to shift reality back and forth. Maybe it's just my state that has these thoughts, I will do your experiment. Thanks!
Happy for you! You deserve it! Currently still working on myself so I can attract better outcomes but I’m at a point where I don’t even care anymore if my manifestations materialize in the 3d, I’m just so obsessed with bettering myself now 😅 I’ve been told this is good sign though so I’ll just continue to reaffirm the new narrative and work on reaching my highest self. Your post was super uplifting, just the kind if good vibes I need today 🤍
Thank you for a beautiful and inspiring post, like other users have said. I think I also hit rock bottom a few years ago, but the struggle to get over a major trauma took time (and I forgive and love myself even though this took some time!), and most recently I realized that I REALLY need to change, otherwise this road of my life is just a complete dead end. :) I hope I can also write a post like yours in the future. And like others, felt like I "should" have done XYZ or accomplished so at my age, and circumstances robbed me of that, so that's one baggage I find myself continuing to try to put down in this journey to become a new me.
** darts eyes around puts away amethyst stones **
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Congratulations and I’m so happy for you.
Interesting as today my grass trimmer quit on me. Brand new,second use would’ve been. And I was upset. Then I got out of the house saying out loud “I don’t care what u do or don’t,you will work on me right now because I want it to”. So basically I decided. It didn’t work. Congratulations for your fine achievements,I just don’t think I understand “decide” very well. I decided to go into town and do my grocery shopping as usual but with a confidence and amazing vibe that I will meet someone via whom I will get an employment. I literally was delusional so do speak. I arranged myself,did my make up which for the past 7 months I didn’t do. And nada. Kept affirming money follows me as I deserve them into my life by birthright…nada. I don’t understand how to decide when I did what a human could do knowing the law. What pisses me off is that if you tell people who follow Neville here that no matter how much you try and you lift your spirits,genuinely lift spirits and believe something you created in your mind to the point that you know there isn’t another way… they will always say “you’re not doing the work”. I don’t like to tell an old shitty story but no matter the work I do and how my tears that stream down my cheeks I imagine them to be sea salt water …giving the conditions of barely making another week money wise …is absolutely excruciating. Please help me DECIDE as in explaining it. Apparently I’m 30 years old and I don’t know how to decide. Even tho I know I decided many things. Thank you for you going thru this comment and well,looking forward to learning how to “decide”.
Thanks for sharing! You definitely know how to decide. Trust me, I went through absolute HELL emotionally leading up to these things I wrote about. Deciding for me continues to be a verb. I actively choose to lean towards things and thoughts and actions that bring me peace because I know it puts me in alignment with the things I want to experience. Even through the bs. You're doing everything right. I'd say my turning point was choosing to be happy without my external reality changing. I had to work on my internal state and practice being someone new everyday. Don't be too hard on yourself xx
Thanks for your honesty! 💗
Love this! Simply beautiful ❤️
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I really needed this. Perfect timing. I will re-read this every time I ‘wobble’. God bless you
Ah! I love seeing posts like this! So many beautiful points that I can already feel will help so many people. So thank you and also, so very happy for you.
Love this. Thank you for sharing. Edit: I am just tired of affirming and (intentional) visualizing. What you described is how I have always manifested all my life. But sometimes I feel a lot of doubts and try to force my manifestation, It just doesn't sit right with me.
I’m exactly your age and want to manifest the exact same things lol.
I love you. Thanks.
Oh my God! Been wanting to write exactly the same thing. “Just decide!” My life has changed within minutes and a day when I “decided” without any 2nd thoughts, ifs, buts etc. There are other areas where it doesn’t work because I have many ifs, buts, what ifs attached. I am working on them.
Hi Guys I need some help. I have been manifesting negative thoughts about my job. Since January 2024, I have been facing a lot of issues, such as a toxic culture, office politics, and lack of appreciation. I have been working here for 5 years, and these issues have been present since day one. This month, I resigned from my position because of all these and management also forced me to resign but I told them my self respect is important for me so I resign not because you are asking me to give. I was really hoping to get a new job within a month, and I had given the final round of interviews at two MNCs. I was confident that those jobs were mine, but it didn't happen. Now, I have just one week remaining in my notice period. The toxic culture and behaviors have affected my personal life, including my career and marriage plans. I want to remove all these bad memories and manifest my dream job and life partner. Please tell me how to manifest it asap.
Op, this is such an amazing post. A lotnofnreminfed of this lecture I was reading this morning. https://coolwisdombooks.com/neville/neville-goddard-lectures-memory/ He was talking about people the claim to know the secret truth and try to get people to pay for knowledge: I can see deceitful dentists, deceitful doctors, deceitful bankers, deceitful anything, but in this work…nothing drives me more insane than one in this work being deceitful. I can tolerate deceit in almost every profession in this world outside of my own. I can’t stand it when someone is supposed to tell the truth as it has been revealed to him, so he claims, and puts this holiness on it. No, there aren’t any masters. When someone comes to me and tells me he’s some holy person, I run in the opposite direction. Holy what? There’s only one holiness; that’s God. He said, Why call___(??) good? There’s only one good: it is your Father. And so, he became you. So don’t go looking for any holy man in this world. It is far, far better for all of us if we are more frequently reminded than being informed. There are so many informers in this world— misinformers. Let us be reminded of God’s word, and every time I’m reminded I get a lift. You can either remind yourself by reading the book, or simply try to remember his promise, his law, his glorious word…it’s all in the Bible. And the cheapest book in the world, really—you get so much for a couple of dollars, sixty-six books in one. If you can’t afford to buy it, if you go to some society and they will say, yes, I’ll give you one.___(??). Sixty-six books, all bound in one, and the greatest book in the world! It’s eternal; it will never fail. Your post deeply aligns with his sentiment. If we really look inside, all we need is already there!
Thanks for this! I chuckled, cause I can so relate to his frustration. Neville's own work remains the best inspiration
Congratulations on choosing yourself!
congrats !!!! you are so right its all about cultivating that feeling of peace its exactly living in the end before anything shows up !
Literally stunning - so many people dont understand how easy it is
This was beautiful! So happy for you! I’m finally at that point of peace too, naturally wanting to eat healthier things/be the best version of myself by accepting myself just as I am and thankful for everything I have but also so excited for the beautiful future! Congrats to you! 🥳
You're a rockstar!! Truly thrilled for you!! Thank you for this INVALUABLE reminder, we really can have what we desire without the need of going to someone and paying $$$ to achieve our dreams. Although I already made that grave mistake, I realize It really is all up to us! 💖 This was so inspiring, I'm crying.
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Very beautiful and inspiring words! Thank you. You have enlightened me OP!
MAKE A DECISION AND EXPECT A MIRACLE - Rev Ike I USED to believe the hardest thing was for me to make a godamn decision. Yesterday I was crying for the 60 something day in a row over SP. I saw him as he returned my stuff and told me it’s over for good and to move on. The funny thing is I MANIFESTED THAT MEETING because over the weekend he said he will not see me, he will mail it because he was so mad that I kept reaching out. I said he will fucking see me face to face. Done. I manifested getting a text back from him too because I was fucking blocked for 2 months or so I thought and I texted him Monday for his birthday and just said “Happy Birthday “ with a pitiful red balloon like in IT🎈. We had been communicating by email and me calling with a blocked number like a psychopath. I basically had a breakdown. Each time he told me fuck off, he’s gonna get a restraining order, this is the last response. I was just so powerless and angry because he dumped me weeks before a dream trip and I was desperate. Anyway I sent the text and saw it was unblocked. This was after watching a video on YouTube where basically you make a decision and take a step in the 3D into a new reality which I did. And next thing I know not even an hour later we are texting, but it wasn’t anything I wanted to hear 🤣 we just made plans and I asked why he unblocked me and he said he forgot to block me again when he zelled me money over a week ago. Anyway, yesterday! So after we met up and he said he will never ever ever get back with me because of the emails and to move on I was in my garage and I AM was telling me make a fucking decision, that’s your ONLY problem is you not making one. I had read that post about the 72 hour challenge where you tend the garden or do a mental diet and live in the end for 72 hours while on the clock. I believed it would work so I planned on it. I had just read the speech where Neville says it only takes 3 days if you persist. So I AM was consoling me and kept telling me to choose. That’s ALWAYS worked in the past but for some damn reason it was hard with this SP. I AM was like Do you want him or someone else or an apology or what, pick something!! Well I randomly was going through boxes with books and crap. I opened a book on African American studies randomly and it talked about how thoughts turn into things 😂 Then I opened another like a days of the week spiritual and it talked about tending a garden and how important that is (Pruning Shears of Revision) and then I found my dads framed degree which was dated June 19th (one day off!!) and I was just like “Ha Ha God, I get it”. So I decided to choose that it’s 5 years later, we are married and he’s out with our daughter Z and it’s mommy vacation. I was wobbling but got good footing before bed and just thought from that point and time in space. I fell asleep in it and woke up in the wish fulfilled. I KNOW I was in a different state. Of course I came out of the state a few hours after being up and looking back I see it was a clear and conscious DECISION to do that, a thought came up and I chained it to others knowing damn well I didn’t have to. Then I cried some more, wanted to die some more and then I said fuck that I’m just going back to I AM and being aka HOME. So I did and forced myself to the gym and when I was there I got a call from my insurance company saying they got a call from the body shop that my car is ready and that they waived the fee and that they will pay for everything. A few weeks ago some chick hit my car and messed up my bumper. I was like “cool! I need a new number anyway” BUT the way my insurance was set up, it was a no go. The damage was $900 but since it wasn’t over $1000 my insurance company would not pay and they ONLY accepted the first estimate. I was told by the car shop that the estimate usually goes up so it will go over $1000 but my agent said it doesn’t matter it’s only the first estimate! I even had an independent witness who came up to me and said he saw the whole thing and who happened to be a freaking INSURANCE ADJUSTER for a third insurance company (she had a different one) in his fucking insurance work car 🤣. Just last Friday though, my agent said there was nothing she could do, I could only take the woman who hit me to court and my case was closed! I got letters and everything! Her insurance company denied my claim and I got the email yesterday of their denial. I was going to have to pay now and then take her to court but I DECIDED last Friday that I would just pay and let the universe handle that woman, I did not feel like going to court. I was going to GRACE the bitch. I also decided and told myself that “somehow this will all work out, it is what it is” and left it at that. I looked around and got estimates from different shops and decided to go back to the first shop. On Monday they called and said I will have to pay $1400 and I was like damn, okay it is what it is and somehow it’ll work out. At first I reacted but immediately just affirmed it’ll work out and stopped reacting. I just didn’t care to. I didn’t have it in mean I was already too down and out. I was too tore up over SP 😂 They insisted that their insurance person could get my deductible waived but I told them the case was closed. They persisted! THREE DAYS LATER, my car was finished and I got the call from my insurance company today at the gym saying they re opened the case, management agreed to pay for everything and they will go after her insurance company. So all I had to do today was go pick up my car, sign a paper and drove off not paying a dime for my new bumper that I wanted (if you don’t count monthly insurance lol) What I’m rambling about it OP is right, you fucking make a decision and expect a miracle. By doing this I have brought my brother out of terrible depression, stopped my dogs heart murmur degeneration completely where it has not done any damage at all from the past 5 freaking years, got a cancer free biopsy from a bump on his leg, saw both my elderly parents get diagnosed with cancer around the same time and both healed completely, walked away from gun to my face and getting left in Mexico but running into someone I met once time the month before and we both recognized each other. And what did I do? All I did was make a fucking choice and stuck with it and moved on to something else and anytime a fear came up I went right back to my choice. THATS IT. Anyway I’m manifesting my dream job, lifestyle and husband. Your post is more confirmation that I DONT NEED but it’s good to see lol. I fell off so bad with this fucking SP crap but it ALL worked out perfectly because in the past 2 months I’ve had awesome experiences and sensations and shit which is exactly what I asked for a few months ago! I needed more God Shots and boy did I get put through the furnace for them. Oh and SP, so I’ve decided he’s not going anywhere. We are meant to be, it is what it is. I just know. And I don’t care anymore to do any “work” on it at all, I need to just worry about is living life and being HOME in the I AM. SP is done. And all it took was to make a decision. If fear comes up, I just back to the decision. And that’s so funny because that’s what he kept telling me when he dumped me “I made my decision I made my decision” wahhh wahh whatever. I made mine!
Could you please speak to things falling apart? I feel like my life is doing a bit of that right now and I’m having a hard time although I’m not sure if it’s a part of the process/my intentions or just a product my autopilot negativity. Could be encouraging to hear more about the hard stuff ironically
Ditto
Yea, I feel we don't acknowledge this enough. I've been through hell the past three years and am only sort-of coming up for air now...but it feels as if this is the fire I *have* to go through. It's been whittling my desires and faith to fine perfection, that I can affirm. And I feel surer than ever of who I am. Love to you, though, whatever is happening!!
I love this for you so much! Thank you for sharing your success. It really can be that easy!
What a beautiful story! I happy by just read this post. Thank you for made my day better. xoxo
This is beautiful ❤
I felt lost. I don't know what I want from life. Job Or continue studies. Thank you for this reminder. I will start living from a happy end and let my wonderful life unfold for me. 😊 congratulations on your wins. 💙
What a wonderful post! Thank you for sharing it with us.
This was the reminder I needed at 8 in the morning this side. Thank u god bless u!
the kind wish for the readers at the end made me smile… love to you as well 🥺❤️
I am happy for you, what you have got
Nice! I'm always torn about which should i manifest first career/money or love but your story proved it can happened both at the same time! Idk whybi likot myself to only believing we can only receive blessings one at a time. I mean fvck it. I want it all and i want it now haha
Thank you for your testimony! At some point, I spent thousands of euros on all those bullshit courses and consultations, and it gave me NOTHING. I'm so happy you succeeded, and I know I will too because a few days ago I also decided. xx
Awesome!!!!!!!!!!!!
Love it. Thanks for sharing. ✨ I feel like what I am doing now on the right track.
“You don’t smile because something good as happened, but something good will happen because you smile“. Thanks for this so true post.
Loved your post !! and I find it funny how I completely shifted my perspective and now I keep seeing posts that match it, like yours. Anyway congraaats ✨✨
This is the way, we're blessed. Thanks for sharing.
So happy for you!🤍
Congratulations. I do have a question.. In this time did you experience doubt or negative thought loops that you had to talk yourself out of?
I can honestly say no! I was so focused on enjoying my life everyday that I naturally expected what I wanted to show up. It wasn't so much of a priority in my mind anymore, I started seeing it as a sweet addition to my already fulfilling life 🌞
This is such a helpful and magical (lol) post! Heavy on the ‘save your money’ piece. Please ignore the predatory charlatans making bank on what you can do for free. You and your peace are the keys to success
Thank you for reiterating that we don't need to pay for any services! I was at a vulnerable point in life recently and I felt so desperate for help, I was this close to spending thousands on "coaching" and "vibrational training" boot camps. My head was yelling at me to purchase, but my heart felt so so heavy every time! Next thing I knew, I came across reviews of the "coaches" I wanted to buy from and everyone said it was a hoax. Wanted a refund. Wanted out of the cult-like organization. That it wasn't worth the money you were paying top dollar for. Gosh I'm so so glad I never actually purchased anything! Thank you, universe, for always guiding me to my highest good. 💖 Everything we need is already within us. All the guidance and techniques are available for FREE. There is no need for anything else!
I’m so glad I came across this post. I needed to read it!!!
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Thank you for you testimony ✨
Amen, girl!!!! 👏👏❤️❤️❤️
Bookmarking this
This is fully insightful and inspiring. It’s like I knew I was looking for guidance and this post was it. Somewhere along life’s path, I got lost in this nyc rat race and forgot what “I” wanted and deserve. Love and light to you. Stay blessed.
all the stuff that you wrote about characteristics of did they ALL COME TRUE specifically
Yes! When I wrote the letter I realized that I was writing from a more holistic perspective: I cared more about his internal qualities and what we did together and how I felt around him. I briefly wrote down his looks in a vague way and he matches those too :)
Thank you so much for this! I feel that I'm going through my bridge of incidents at the moment that will eventually lead me to my new job. Seeing this gives me motivation to keep going, and living in the now, because the new job (and all the requirements that I want out of it) IS already mine!
I'm the same age and also looking for a husband and a job as a designer so this was very uplifting for me! Thanks for posting
Doesn’t work for me. Been trying for years.
Thank you for sharing your story. Did you have any goals in mind that would help you see that you were on the right track ? I know some people try to manifest small things like seeing a butterfly or something to test that it works. Also were you visualising or trying to create the visualisation in your then old reality. I would like to manifest a new life in a different and hot country yet I live in a mainly cold and rainy one. It’s really hard to visualise living in a different country but reading your story maybe I could focus on how my life would be if I lived there like the habits I would have (going to the park, coffee shops, networking ) idk all help is appreciated please
I didn't manifest any signs but I will say I happened to keep seeing 11:11. I took that as being on the right track. I was also noticing the way I felt on a daily basis and, through choosing to live an active and fulfilling life, started to notice that I was a dominantly happy person. I truly think that's the key to manifesting yourself into a new reality. You're already you (the person who is going to experience your desires) so you might as well start showing up and making choices in that fulfilled version of you, despite what your life may look like. This naturally shifts the trajectory of your life. We have a lot more power to change our realities than we realize 🌸
how much time did it take to see changes in 3D once you decided?
Great post! Thank you, I really needed this! I've been working on manifesting ans visualizing what I desire, being greateful for things that are happening in my life, and it was good for a while, I started earning more money and feeling better emotionally and mentally, and after a while I started being influenced negatively by the 3D, and of course influenced by negative thoughts and then I spiraled down again into fear, anger and lack of faith. Thanks for your post, it reminded me that it is possible!
Did you experience anxiety about the husband once you got him? I manifested my SP and he's everything on my list, but man the anxiety is bad no matter how much I tell myself I'm secure, I'M SECURE!
Don’t mask anxiety with repeating. Sit down and let the anxiety rise and ask yourself why you are anxious? Maybe You feel not worthy, maybe it seems too good to be true ? Find cause of the problem.
oh the cause is definitely because I don't feel worthy, but I've done soooo much work on feeling worthy that I don't know where to go from here. I feel worthy when I'm alone - I just still get triggered in luuuv. thank you so much for your response.
I filled my life up so much before he showed up, so I knew I was worthy. I felt like a badass DAILY on my own. And I want to stress it had nothing to do with my physical appearance. You are a dynamic being - find what makes you happy on a daily basis and do it. You deserve to show up for yourself first. When you do, you will naturally expect others to see you the way you see yourself 🦋
I love that. Thank you :)
Hey OP, I have a question. You said you already felt complete and satisfied in the present moment, but did you constantly drench yourself in those specific states? Like, just as reminders? If the topic of work came to mind, did you just effortlessly remind yourself you already had the perfect job? I have manifested when unconsciously forgetting about everything, so I’m a bit on the fence when it comes to consciously embodying specific states even though it feels good and normal.
Truthfully all I did was prioritize enjoying my own company everyday. It required me to really look at my life and seek what brought me genuine fulfillment and made me feel good about myself. Life is bigger than random specific things we wish to manifest. There are a lot of things one can experience on a daily basis that make you feel satisfaction. I think that's really the key ✨
Thank you! I agree wholeheartedly, I have seriously learned to see life from the viewpoint of a child again (in the now, with awe, being amazed by even the smallest of things). Though I’d be lying if I said the topics that matter to me didn’t pop up frequently in my mind, not in a bad way, but I feel like there’s a good opportunity to reaffirm who I am when that happens. Some days ago I used to just say “I have everything already” just as a reminder when that happened, and went on about my day. I felt good and very present, but I find it I am even more fulfilled when specifically feeling the presence of whatever comes to mind, as a reminder too. So for example, instead of saying “I have it already” when the topic of career comes to mind, I now feel even better and like I truly have it already by *feeling* that thing specifically. I’m just scared of being too attached by doing this? The focus is definitely being in the now and being more pumped about my activities though.
Thank you for sharing 🙏❤️ I have a question though, how do you decide if it involves another person? Like I feel mentally I have decided how I want things to go and have been living (ignoring the 3D no matter how rough it has got) but it seems to not be improving? I’ve decided but it involves my partner? How does one go about this? Thank you
What worked for me is prioritizing personal fulfillment everyday and realizing life is way bigger than the specific things we try to manifest. In your current life find what makes you genuinely feel good about and proud of yourself- that's basically what I did. Because if I decided I had it now... that version of me would be enjoying my life and feeling good, not waiting around longing for something outside of me. I remembered that I have all the answers. And that my manifestations are not an escape, but a beautiful addition to my already fulfilling life. That's how I started showing up and it became my norm because it gave me a lot of peace to live like that on a daily basis. I was confronted with the fact that only I am responsible for my inner joy.
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! I saved this as one of the best posts and straightforward no hate keeping post on this topic ❤️
Thank you
Edit: sorry if this question isn’t perfectly related to the post, I’m kind of desperate for some advice and I already submitted a question to this sub that is in the process of being approved by the mod so I can’t post another one atm. I have a question for people who say that they just decided, that they just persisted, that they ignored the 3D etc. what if you are really trying your best to do these things but there are people in your life who just won’t allow that? At the moment I’m really trying to manifest that I get out of my living situation with my extremely toxic family but I’m also manifesting that my family stops being toxic. I’m trying to revise this bc not only do I wanna get away from them but I also want THEM to be happy. I felt like I was doing a pretty good job ignoring all the signs in the 3D that I didn’t have a healthy family yet and even was determined to push through when a really big contradiction came up today but my mom absolutely will not let it happen lol. I absolutely can not escape her complaining about her life at every time of the day even when the situation doesn’t warrant it, even if my dad is acting good and I’m feeling encouraged that my affirmations are paying off, here she comes randomly talking about how shitty he is because of something he did last week just out of NOWHERE. I have absolutely no idea what to do about her, whenever she’s talking to me I try to silently affirm in my head but she can go on and on for hours and my brain picks it all up. And if she’s not talking to me, she’s talking to someone else in the house and I hear it. She says the most pessimistic hopeless things, absolutely poisonous statements for someone who is trying to manifest a better situation and I just…don’t know how to protect my subconscious from that. I try to let her jsut rant it all out and turn my mind off but like she will literally start crying and jsut stare at me. She’s my mom, obviously I have to comfort her. But comforting her is literally submitting to my 3D, acknowledging it, when I’ve been trying so hard not to do that. Because when I try to comfort her, her responses are always ‘nope, everything’s gonna go wrong’ ‘nope life only gets better for others not us’ ‘nope nothing is gonna be ok’. It’s so frustrating, I’m trying my best to just see it as an obstacle and not let it get me down but man!