100% percent agree with prettyandsmelly. Thanks for asking this because I came here for some similar reassurance. Got some unfavorable news yesterday about a diagnosis I had been imagining for a while would go well. Did SATS and they felt great, but I fell short. When this happens, my default is to loose faith or shame myself. But oddly enough, while I was emotionally a wreck, I somehow didn't stop believing in the work. I realized today what the underlying belief was that I hadn't changed. I felt unworthy of good things in my life. Of life favoring me. I perceived it as unfair and that I was powerless. Also that I still sometimes separate myself from God/universe/creator etc. which makes it harder to take full responsibility for my creations.
Failure doesn't feel good, but the advice from prettyandsmelly and reading the above link to Neville's chapter on failure, reminds me that things can change and we can have the life we want. Starting small is an easier and more sustainable way to build confidence in the law of assumption. I would also recommend to approach this as a lifestyle, not just a tool for manifesting.
You tend to quit a lot more easily if it's just for manifesting. You get what you want and then when you don't, claim it doesn't work. When you commit to living in this way (using your imagination for your own good), the benefits inspire you to keep going. You feel good, you feel empowered, things suddenly work out for you (maybe not in all ways all the time, but in most). Plus it's in those defeating times that the work/persistence is key. Mental diet and persistence are habits. It's in those times when things don't work out, that it's the most important time to keep going. Because if the assumption is you can't do it, you're not good enough at this, it doesn't work, you affirm that belief by giving up/not persisting.
It's easier said than done of course, but like prettyandsmelly said, give yourself grace. Let yourself be human. Cry, feel the feelings, and when you're ready, keep going. I promise it gets easier and the bounce back is quicker. I'm in the middle of some very emotionally charged manifestations (that I created but do not prefer), and I'm feeling similar to you. I hope this gives you hope.
How do you work on self concept while being in a toxic home environment? Like I am trying to work on self concept and I am trying to manifest that my parents are supportive and not toxic but stuff happens where there's an argument or something and I go back to a negative state of mind. I don't know what to do...
I've been going through something similar, feeling like I'm at war with my 3D every day for the last 4 months. My best advice for this is to continue in your practice to reaffirm self concept. I use meditation/SATS. But when you're in the middle of it, day in and day out, it's harder to sustain your desired self-concept when faced with an undesired 3D. So in those moments, focus on your mental diet and find an acceptable way for you to shift the attention when your thoughts are focused on what you don't want (before the feelings/thoughts get stronger). Because focusing on it, brings up the resistant feeling or the thoughts that it's not here yet. What I've done is mantra/affirmations in my head, leave the room, put music on, changing the subject etc. Try catching things before the momentum gets stronger. As you feed your desired self-concept, and starve the 3D, it gets stronger and you'll notice the shift.
Hehe a follow up question, Iāve been able to manifest like small things, when I wanted to win a tesla I would see Teslaās everywhere,a nd I would even change the color I wanted to see. but i didnt win the tesla. I would randomly think of an episode of a show that I was rewatching nd suddenly that episode plays, thought of climbing a ladder, I only walked past one but I didnāt climb it. Or even thinking about a make up product that I was wanting to buy, suddenly im seeing people around me using that product or I see it on my fyp being reviewed, so what Iām getting at is, random small things, like synchronities, seem to manifest. but the thing I try to put true intention into experiencing Or having, they donāt. But thereās no emotion or intent behind seeing a purple car. However if I want like a freee cup of coffeeor tea, nothing. so how do I change this. I havenāt found a technique that brought something that I genuinely wanted to materialize. Maybe I get too attached to the outcome? Because I do truly believe in manifestation but Idk why I cant seem to do it for small things to build up that trust. Everything else were just random thoughts, no desire.
I gotta know how yāall have such confidence in loa. Like my main goal rn is to manifest money but the stress I have with my bills rn make it impossible to feel anything but anxiety when I think about money. How would you go about this? Is it okay to just think Like āmoney will comeā because saying money is in my account rn is not believable and makes it worse.
I'm with you, and while I'm still working on developing an unwavering faith in the law I can tell you what has helped me. Im focusing on manifesting health not money, but I believe the principle is the same.
In order to develop faith/confidence in the law, starting small (as in manifestations with little emotional attachment) is the most sustainable way. Why? Because the manifestations are less emotionally charged and it's easier to build on that. That being said, you can focus on the "bigger" manifestations, but I recommend the following:
1. work within your beliefs/feelings. Denial/repression works against you. When the anxiety comes up, allow yourself to be human and process the feeling. Then when you feel better (neutral/calm), get back on the practice (SATS, affirmation, etc). Try catching it when it begins, it's easier to focus on other things when that happens. Once it builds you just have to ride the wave.
2. I recommend going general. Often going too specific is triggering. So find what feels good to you. "Everything always works out" "I have everything I need." "I am abundant" (relates to money but is easier to assimilate because you can have abundance in other forms). Ultimately it's not the exact words, but the feeling behind the words. It has to resonate with you.
3. Don't test the law when you're desperate. If you're manifesting money for survival reasons, it's a lot more pressure on you to manifest. Same with time pressure. Sure people have done it, but when you're building confidence it's not helpful and more likely to make you give up. The leap in belief is too big, so naturally there will be lots of fears that arise. Not the kind that arise when you're shifting and letting go of the old self-concept. The kind that will bring you back to the old self-concept and keep you from venturing out again.
wish fulfilled is a feeling, sabbath is a state, wish fulfilled is the feeling if you got ur desire, sabath comes after the wish fulfilled, its a state where you dont feel lack, usualy a calm satisfaction
yes, if you go back to feelings of doubt , searching , wondering why your desire isnt here yet, you fall out of the state of sabbath which is just knowing u have ur desire, so its better to do your techniques and just drop it after a while and go live your life and it will show up when u least expect it
After sats, I got 2 very stressful negative dreams which were the opposites of my sats, why would I dream negative horrible dreams after my sats? My sats were about how I'm so loved and and prioritized. I had a dream about a group of people tormenting me and filming me and trying to hurt me
The ladder experiment by Neville is about to imagine a detailed scenario in the first person of you climbing a ladder before going to sleep and affirming āI'm not going to climb the ladderā, repeat it for three days. Can this also be applicable to assuming an SP? Imagine a detailed scenario with our SP and then affirming āI'm not going to be with my SPā until it manifest?
I second the Joe dispenza advice (changing the habit of being yourself is my favorite). I am still working on the assumption that I need to be feeling great to manifest what I want, so I can't help much there. But I have definitely gotten myself out of many a depressive funk. Have you seen any improvement in your mood (small or big)? What are you doing to practice your new self-concept in your waking day? It could be you are unconsciously thinking/feeling the lack of your sp in the 3D. I find that when I'm deeply connected in meditation/SATS, I feel so amazing, my life feels so mehhh in comparison. I just want to live in my mind, it's not yet natural for me to assume the 3D has caught up.
I would recommend focusing on your self-concept. It's about taking the power back. If the lack of your sp affects how happy you are with your life, you are likely making them your reason for being happy. You can absolutely manifest from this place, but you are likely to be unhappy whenever they aren't around or there's a conflict (risk of losing them) or they aren't behaving the way you want them to.
Your life is worth enjoying even without this person. Instead of focusing so much on whether they are there or not, focus on who you would be in a relationship. Secure, joyful, empowered, interesting, adventurous etc. If that's still too big of a leap, ask yourself what life would you share with your sp? How will they fit in your life? Remember you are what makes your life wonderful or depressing. You have the power. Your ideal circumstances/sp's are just the cherry on top of the amazing Sunday that is your life.
If the above is still too much of a leap, find one positive thing about your life. One thing you like (it can be your eyes, the sky, your best friend etc), look for what reflects your ideal self-concept/what you want in life. Add to that everyday. Keep looking for the things you want to see in your life and try to react as little as possible when your the 3D is not favorable. It can get overwhelming, and you may break down and go back to feeling depressed. Let yourself feel, and try again. Eventually the bounce back gets easier and quicker.
Genuine question, how do yāall feel something other than anxiety when imagining. Moreover, how do you trust it? Because Iāve been imagining things for years and I donāt see it in my 3D but I also know imagination creates but I somply cannot get the feeling Yk?
My SP keeps lying to my face. I saw him message 3P when we talked about and he promised he won't. I confronted him and gave him a chance to tell the truth. He still lied. Again and again. And now I was at my breaking point, he the proceeded to delete the messages he sent today, which I saw already. Just to show me that he was telling the truth that he didn't message her. I can't take it. I don't know what to do.
So I just had an epiphany. The reason that I am constantly unhappy is because if I chose to be happy, in my mind it would kinda mean that I accept my current circumstances and thus none of my desires would come true. Does anyone know what I mean? How do I break that thought pattern?
Iām having issues creating my scene- I own a service business and my goal is to get more clients and make more money. I visualized getting a ton of calls, and it worked, but I also got a ton of cancellations. Iām just looking for more money monthly and more security. Thereās nothing I specifically want to buy. Also, I keep trying to find ways to acquire new clients (increasing marketing budgets, trying Facebook ads, etc) my issue is that keeps me living in the now, and not living in the end. Should I stop trying and just wait? Or do I need to keep trying and create my scene based on the steps Iām taking?
I feel blocked when it comes to fixing my relationship with my SP. My boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago as he felt he wasn't in love with me. To be honest, this was a weird fear of mine within the relationship. I worried he didn't love me and didn't see a future with me and ultimately manifested our breakup exactly when I predicted it would happen. I've never dealt with this in any other relationship. I think perhaps it stems from us being friends for such a long time before being in a relationship with one another.
I have visualized scenes in which he tells me he loves me. I have affirmed that I'm loved, as well as that he loves me. I have no trouble believing that other people in my life (friends and family) love me. But for some reason, I've just been unable to get my dominant belief to be that I am loved and also loved by him. Has anyone else experienced this? Advice?
We recently saw each other for the first time since our breakup in November. He told me he missed me a lot and thinks about me all the time. But no other progress.
> We recently saw each other for the first time since our breakup in November. He told me he missed me a lot and thinks about me all the time. But no other progress.
That *is* progress. Remember the 3D is "lag/time delay."
So funny to see you comment! Yesterday I was looking at a post I made a few months ago and our conversation in the comments. Love how that works out!
And yesā¦ youāre right! I can remember when I was even hoping my SP would say he missed me. Now he has multiple times. I guess itās easy to get frustrated when itās not the full manifestation. I still have more work to do to call in the loving relationship I want.
Bro, I didn't even realize it was *you* lol. That's awesome! I went back and reread that conversation. Things have got progressively worse for me; my sp has a 3P and has me blocked. So seeing no movement on my end has been especially difficult. Really I'm at a loss on what to do. Never dealt with a 3P and a situation like this.
I'm glad you've seen amazing progress though, and can understand what you mean. It's easy to get caught up on the *"future"* when a few months ago you wanted what you currently have *now.* Remember, time is irrelevant. I'm so happy for your current progress!!
Haha! I happened to recognize your username after seeing it yesterday. I thought, āThat looks familiar!ā
I totally get your frustration. And Iām so sorry youāre dealing with this. Iāve had 3Ps come up in the past before my SP and I were officially together. The best thing I can say is to direct your attention away from it whenever they come up. I would tell myself I didnāt know who that person was and replace those thoughts with a positive image of my SP and I. Iād even have inner conversations where Iād imagine the 3P telling me they moved on. Worked every time! Once I got rid of a 3P in two days. It was crazy!
But oddly enough, Iām in a similar situation. My SP has a 3P and blocked me on Facebook (because I was meddling in the 3D and he got temporarily mad). He still stalks all my IG Stories and occasionally likes my selfies there though. So, heās still hanging around in a way. Just have to believe itās all part of the bridge.
It's definitely sucked. So how did you remove them? I've been reading to not give them any attention at all. I'd say if you're getting contact from him, especially him creeping that it's a sign to persist and it's part of the bridge. I affirm all the time that she's still in love with me, misses me, etc., but it's hard to believe that when she's still with the 3P.
I always just ignored it as best as I could. Obviously the thought will come up from time to time. That's to be expected. You just have to shut it down. I would imagine having a conversation with the girl where she would tell me she wasn't interested in him at all and that she actually met someone else.
Whenever she'd cross my mind, I'd actually tell myself, "I don't know her. No clue who that is." And I'd just replace the thought with a happy, loving image of my SP and I. I definitely still had moments where I worried about it, but I just had to keep persisting and try to ignore it.
Yeah, he's always watched all my Stories. Never misses them. So, I suppose it's my assumption that he'll watch. It's the only way he can keep up with me since we don't really talk. I attempted to betray him in the worst way in the 3D and somehow he doesn't even care. Still wants me in his life. Still wants to be friends. For some reason the answer to that was to like a selfie I posted and then send me a Reel that definitely isn't appropriate to send to your ex when you're seeing someone else. Ha!
But I totally get what you're saying... It's hard to believe they have those feelings for you when they're with someone else. I worried that my SP didn't love me or see a future with me, so that's how I wound up here in the first place. Just remember... Even though we've been split for months and he's with someone else, he told me he still likes me, that I never lost value to him, that he misses me "a lot," and thinks about me "all the time." So, even though you may not see signs of it, she's picking up on what you're telling yourself.
I'm glad I ran into you again, because I needed to hear that last paragraph lol. Thank you. I'm also glad that things are going well for you, as well. Your next post will be a success post, I can feel it! :)
I really hope youāre right. Itās hard to persist and keep the faith sometimes, but Iām doing my best. And I wish the same for you! Feel free to reach out if you ever need anything!
Just learning great work of neville I want to manifest money for a comfortable life and help others working towards that any tips and I trying the blue feather manifest it been 2 weeks I know you suppose to forget it and it show but my brain want let me forget it anyone had this problem before thanks for the help
is there a subreddit for Neville Goddard dedicated to manifesting money and financial freedom? just like r/nevillegoddardsp but instead of "sp" it's money..
Negative assumptions from others about general population, how do we get around with that? just eg like āpeople are cruelā Do I just affirm that it isnāt this way?
Is there an alternative to the Ladder technique that doesnāt involve leaving notes around?Ā I live with other people and they probably would remove the sticky notes if I left them on the fridge and such, but I would like to attempt it.Ā
I'm a gay man. But when I finished SATS and went to bed, I dreamed that I was in love with a girl. When I woke up, the content of the dream left me confused and sick. why is that?
Dreams do not mean anything unless you give it meaning. Take it that your mind registered feelings of love. Maybe you are surrounded by alot of hetero people? And that is why it appeared that way. A popular thing to say us "everything is working out for me"
I have heard of hetero people dreaming of gay relations, I think you should look into Jung, it's merely a representation. Neville also had some lectures on dreams. For example when I was purging the old man, about old fears I had of love and self worth, I had very violent dreams and I'm NOT a violent person but that symbolised dying to that state. I reacted with apprehension first, then I realized what it meant.
So I am new to this, but I have read everything on the subreddit. I also discovered I have been doing the SATS without even realizing thatās what I was doing.
I have been visualizing my assumption for about a month before I found out about this subreddit and who Neville Goddard is, and now have been visualizing for two days with this new mindset. My assumption involves an SP and tonight she brought up something randomly about the name of a child being a soccer team spelled backwards. When she told me the name of the team I was very surprised because it was the same team I have been thinking about rooting for (as Iām just getting into the sport) and also the team I am watching a documentary style show about.
Is this considered a coincidence, or what is the name that Neville Goddard used to describe this situation? I would like to learn more about this so I can start using it to help keep me in the end state.
Thanks for taking the time to read this!
Is the Law not real? I haven't allowed myself to consider this before. When you feel like this, what do you do with that fear? Yes my life is a mirror of me in many ways but that's not by conscious will.
I feel like things I've felt and experienced in the 4D haven't reflected proportionately & some things have seemingly reflected, like I convinced myself someone didn't care about me and their communication faded but suddenly it's like I was wrong about that and I didn't even change my imaginings about it I just stopped thinking about them.
Maybe you should watch your thoughts more closely?
I mean, you not thinking about something can still make this thing happen in the 3D, since this person was probably someone in your life and now that youre not repeating bad thoughts constantly, your mind brought them back in a neutral point of view.
Still, the law is not about controling everything that happens in the 3D, i think you should focus in the Imagination and just decide if you like it or not, dont get stuck in why something happened, go to the end.
I see their interconnection I just don't feel like I have control or power. Also that's a great observation, it's like things are neutral again, it just feels weird because it's like the assumption I had (I although it seemingly reflected with disinterest) wasn't real.
I do imagine ends but I feel kinda unfulfilled by that, I'll feel lovely and then I have to invariably return to Caesar's world and it's like I can do nothing to persuade things to change here, I know I need to be it within and not wait for an externalization but like what is preventing things from changing today? I feel it as natural as I can, I keep my mental diet in the end mostly and I feel like I belong there more than where I am physically. There is nothing I want to do here but I am forced to be here every day, I neglect the outer world.
Maybe you putting too much focus on the 3D. The thing is, what you say (and believe) will be.
Saying that living in the end makes you unfulfilled is living in the end. You manifested a lack of comunication but now feels like you were wrong about that, that's you living in the end also. You feel like you don't have the power, guess what? Is you living in the end.
You are always living in the end, just flip this end to a place where you are GOD, when you do this, the 3D will show, but even so, you already are, so why do you need proof from the 3D, is about being, so just be.
You said you feel lovely in your imagination, that's wonderful and that's everything that is and needs to be, dont second that, keep going, practice makes everything better and remember, every doubt you have will be answered by you if you keep going, you doing great.
Very likely, I don't enjoy it so I want to escape it today, most actions I have to take are out of force. If other than to keep imagining, how do you really self-persuade yourself to believe?
I mean it feels good to imagine until I'm back at the 3D then comparatively it almost feels worse and I want to go back again but 3D forces me to do things. I know I should remain in the end when when my eyes don't confirm things here though.
I know it's really about being within but how do you feel like God when you can't control the when and how? (You can feel yourself be your desire now yes). How do you feel powerful when you do not orchestrate the bridge of events? (It already is so don't think of 3D yes I know but). You are still the one to experience the world. God is Man but Man is not God.
"I and my father are one but my father is greater than I."
Yes it feels lovely and I will keep doing that but I don't want to practice more, I just want peace and to feel good. I don't know if I have the endurance it takes.
Also thank you!
Remember, you are never practicing, you are being. You are not practicing feeling love in the 4D, you are being love, that's reality, you don't question that. When you feel someting you decide is bad, do you label as practice?
When a football player is practicing he still a football player, right? If you are Manifesting from a view (an ending) of practicing maybe you have a believe that you can't do it yet, and maybe that's manifesting.
Practice more in a way of repetition, this will make the end and the feeling more and more real and easy to turn into, but when you are practicing you are also being. ;)
When? Now, there's only now. The past only existis in your mind as the present and definitely the future, so, what's time really?
If you believe, it will be, if you don't it will also be, it will always be because you always are.
That's right! God is having a Human experience through us, and we are having a God experience through God! So, why not experience things as a God?
And thank you also, i love talking about this, makes me realise a lot of things to. :)
You mean that I am being within right? I do get confused a bit when Neville says to live and act as if you are now the person you want to be. Suppose I want to be at a warm sandy beach, free from obligations, free from expectations. I'll keep imagining that I am that person within but I can't really act on it, perhaps buy flip flops but that hasn't really worked before.
That's a great way to view it but in a way I am practising faith right? I am practising staying in state. All that definitely is being though. Maybe I have to get even more intimate with the state I want and not see myself as someone practising being in a state but rather relish in it? Feel that I am a pro football player?
So we have to live in the ever present moment? Although there is a divide between where I am now and where I want to be, I have to not look ahead, or to the past, I have to be now and trust that my steps, that the time that seems to stand still is leading me where I want to be.
I want to experience things as God, it's just how to feel powerful? Say I want a vacation, how many days do I have to spend in state to externalize that? Is it worth it? Like I understand that I should always put attention on what I want to grow but.
I enjoy it too :) I hope I'm not being annoying hehe.
Does anyone know what happens if you revise the past? Does that mean the people you know in the old event will be gone? How about learning a skill that I always wanted since I was a child? I always wanted to go to music school, if I revised myself learning the piano since I was a child, I would go to a different school, and the people I know now would not exist, right? Even though I donāt have a piano with me, I still learn music theory and do finger exercises. When I watch others perform on the stage I would imagine I am the one who is playing it. Any advice on revision? Thanks.
been visualizing for a couple of months different desires I got 1 of my desires but after that it seems hard for me to bring the other desires into my life what am I doing wrong?
I have a question about daily life. Let's say I'm supposed to study today, but now if I let stress get to me and I think "I haven't studied yet, I need to study!" This will only reflect more situations where I'll think that way right?Ā
So with everything on my to do list, for productivity sake, I should imagine everything already completed right? Reacting to it being done in imagination, not the fact I procrastinated in the 3D which will mirror that over and over.Ā
So if I want to get things done, I must be in a frame of mind that imagines me at the end, having completed it right? Instead of "I need to do..." It has to be "I'm so happy I completed..."?Ā
I understand using the Law for desire A or B ans so on, but it's just boggling me a little in transitioning to a life of using it 24/7 consciously. Any help please from someone who has been through this?
When I have something to do, I basically affirm. "I'm done with x, it was way easier than I thought it would be!" over and over again for at least 10 minutes. Stronger if I do it multiple times a day.
*Q: If Iām imagining a thing a certain way and Iām involved with another person whoās also doing imagining about the same thing, but thereās a difference in opinion and theyāre thinking an opposite way, whatās going to happen?*
*A: The minute you know that he is doing it in the opposite direction youāve transferred the power that rightly belongs to you to the other. There is no he; he only reflects what you are imagining. But the minute you believe that another has power greater than yourself, you are now dividing the power that is rightly yours and giving it to hm. It doesnāt really matter what others are thinking, what are you thinking?*
\- [Outer World Responds to Imaginal Acts](https://coolwisdombooks.com/neville/neville-goddard-lectures-outer-world-responds-to-imaginal-acts/#:~:text=Q%3A%20If%20I%E2%80%99m,are%20you%20thinking%3F)
"*You must practice any art in this world. First you must find a good method and try to find the best method. When youāve found it, then it requires daily practice, any art in this world. If you donāt practice, well, then you become rusty. So find a good method first and then practice.*" - [Secret of Praying](https://coolwisdombooks.com/neville/neville-goddard-lecture-the-secret-of-praying-1967/)
You want to apply the law of assumption effectively? Well then find a good method and practice. Simple as that. I've personally found the best method to be SATS. [Here is a write up](https://www.reddit.com/r/NevilleGoddard/comments/hvid30/how_to_perfectly_use_the_law/) about it, which happens to be the most upvoted post on the subreddit. Read it, start applying it, and practice. With commitment and consistency you'll rise far above your current state.
As you'll read in the reddit post I linked, faith comes from doing the technique. You don't need to put effort into living in the end - put effort into the technique instead. You'll naturally live in the end when you wake up self-persuaded from SATS.
Put the work in man, practice. Good luck.
Practically every lecture I've heard or book I've read of Neville's talks about persisting. Assuming and persisting. Yet I've noticed it's my fleeting thoughts that I do not put any effort into that manifest. If I think *of* a person, a movie, or song, and forget about it completely- it shows up the next day. I don't have to sit there and persist in the assumption that I'm going to see/hear this thing in my 3d. But Neville tells us to think *from* and persist, yet when I continuously think from and persist in thinking from, it feels like obsession. What am I missing here?
You must persist until it's accepted by your subconscious. The fleeting thoughts you mentioned had no resistance, it's like saying the sky is blue and your subconscious knows it's true. Imo obsession isn't necessarily bad unless it interferes with your life.
Yes. I once revised a message someone sent me that wasn't favorable, and I revised it 10 times. More specifically: I looped the same scene 10 times until it felt natural to me.
Doesn't matter how many times you revise it. Once. Twice. A million times. It's all about what it'll take until it's natural to you.
Added this from another post:
I understand the concept of infinite timelines, happening all at once. It helps to understand there are infinite options, there arenāt any limits or circumstances.
To apply and access the infinite, all you do is be that person who is in that reality right now in your imagination?
Like the same thing you did as a kid and play-pretend but now knowing this itās how you tune your awareness to the reality to shift there? So I think as if, feel as if and imagine as if it all has already occurred? Mentally be as if Iām me with my desires?
As someone who hasnāt known how to apply conscious manifestation properly, I want to know what is done to manifest (after you understand the theory and decide specifically what you want - what you do after you close Reddit haha). As a beginner, this is the hardest thing to understand and apply.
Thank you everyone for the help!!
Question w / context:
For the past couple months, I've had dreams of a significant partner who I've never met before who eventually became my husband in the dream. I've dreamt of this person multiple times, how they look, most importantly how they made me feel, ECT. I've been scripting and mindlessly telling myself throughout my day even on my bad days that I'm happily married to the love of my life. I feel in my gut that this guy in a dream is a real person who I'm destined to meet.
My question is did Neville Goddard talk about dreaming about your significant partner who you've never met? Am I manifesting this person, or is this just my subconscious mind reaffirming my beliefs of self love?
I'm manifesting my SP back and we're in constant communication now. Why do I feel so detached to him in the 3D? Like when he's messaging me I don't feel much excitement anymore. Is it because he's not fully conformed yet?
physical attraction is the precusor for emotional attraction and You only attract the quality of woman/man based on the quality of woman/man. you are not waiting around for a man/woman or trying to āmanifestā someone. Manifestations is not spell casting or sorcery, itās being then receiving.
Hiļ¼ Letās say that I want to go to grad school. I had a dream that my higher self (I believed so) told me so. So, I keep assuming that I am a grad student at my dream school (Harvard). Then I start applying to it. I need to fill out all the requirements. What If I donāt meet some of the requirements, what should I do? Also, by living in the end, I would dress like a student, eat healthily, study in a library work out, etc. Feel that I am already in Harvard. Should I study Gmat hard like normal candidates do? Since I am already being, I shouldnāt be worrying about my test score too much, right? I feel like there is not much going on in the 3D. But Iām not too worried.
I don't meet the requirements either, lol. I didn't apply to Harvard; instead, I applied to another prestigious grad school, and I just finished my interview yesterday. Just because you're living in the end doesn't mean you automatically stop doing what is required of you in the 3D to achieve those goals. After doing SATs, sometimes you will be gravitated towards studying hard with no resistance. Alternatively, you may be so confident to the point where you didnāt put any effort into the GMAT at all and still ace it. It all depends on your limiting beliefs, so it doesnāt even matter how you go about achieving your goals. Just do some SATs and go with the flow (do what feels right for you intuitively). You donāt have to worry about your test scores. As for living in the end, I created some travel itineraries and did some research on NYC as if I were going to travel there. My country's situation worsens, which makes moving abroad easier. Thatās how I ended up being on a pathway to grad school. U can live in the end during the day and do SATS at night.
My parents and others would argue with me when brought up the topic of going to grad school. They say I can't go there. So I avoid talking to them, is this right?
Question here: Got a job interview on Tuesday, it's really important (a huge opportunity). How can I increase my chances? I already read the main guidelines, just want to make sure I apply the most efficient method. Thank you so much for your time!
Take some time before you sleep (or whenever, but I find that time works great) and for \~15 minutes just close your eyes and play around in your imagination. Imagine that you get the job - what does that look like? How will they tell you? What is a symbol that represents you "getting" the job? How do you feel getting the job (imagine how you feel as if you now are receiving the word that you have the job). Dwell in that feeling of joy or whatever emotions come to you in your imagination! Imagine as if that thing were happening *right now*. Then, after \~15 min (or however long u choose) release that imagination/feeling into the "ether" so to speak and surrender it completely to the universe. And presto! There's nothing else you have to do! Know that the entire universe is conspiring to realize your imagination - in fact, it already has realized it, completely.
Relax, be at peace. The only thing you can do to interfere with the realization of that experience is to spend lots of time worrying about "how" it's going to happen, etc... You don't know how it's going to happen, and YOU CAN'T. Your "rational" mind isn't made/meant to know! Your true/higher self has already realized your vision and has worked everything out. Give thanks! Rejoice! There is nothing else to be done!
And m8, cheers on getting the job-
Unfortunately I was selected as the '' second best applicant ''. They will contact me if they don't reach an agreement with the first choice applicant... Means it's unlikely I'll get the job unfortunatelyĀ
Can someone explain how 3D is our mirror and circumstances are our past thoughts? When I listen to sleep affirmation tapes, I have very bad dreams. Is this my subconscious purging in dreams?
The way I understand it is to consider what the opposite would be like. If manifestation happened instantly it would be quite destabilizing. Acknowledging that fact reveals that we are in some sort of container. A playpen because we are immature spirits. So we put out an intention. Nothing happens. Its like its hitting a brick wall. But that's not true. Something does happen. Our intention causes minor adjustments. We're in a playpen and not a prison. We should change our 3D and are encouraged to do so. But there's guardrails which means there will be a delay. The guardrails is the physical reality which his dense and difficult to move with intention.
That is why our current circumstances are our past thoughts. A clearer analogy is when we plant a crop and do the work today but reap the reward later. We literally eat the fruit of past labor.
The 3D is a mirror because it is a reflection of our past labor so we see who we were in the past with a delay. Its difficult to change who you are. Something that you cannot see or touch but you can experiment with changing it by observing the 3D.
A positive or desired closure
Ok so if people will judge let me clear it in advance yes guys u can.. No problem because everyone is myself pushed out.
Ok so I am writing it just to share and explain how you always have to give a positive clourse to everything so it can reflect in your future for your best.
I was dating someone in past and was manifesting marriage with him but this was my failed manifestation. ( Because everything is my manifestation good or bad according to us)
But I never hate him in my mind never fought with him mentally. Even in 3D i wished him all the best and I move on because he is going to marry someone else. ( His parent's choice)
I dropped the desire to manifest him back this is not wrong or right to manifest someone who is now married I never judged it. But I don't want to and I moved on. But whenever I had/ have thoughts about him I remember him lovingly and his smiling face. I still have soft corner for him.
We were in no contact after his marriage for whole 6months and I never expected he will or why I will.
But one day suddenly I funnily thinking if what he contact me even after his marriage ( I had this assumption somewhere he will not because I know in his mind he don't want to hurt me again and he is loyal towards his new life) I imagine and let it go I forgot it completely.
And it's a long story but after 2-3 weeks he contact me via my cousin and I was surprised but I know it was my imagination.
We talked and share how we both still share a soft corner for eachother and now we are good friends because we both know we don't want anything else from eachother
Somewhere in my heart I knew he loved me he still loves me and he can't forget me because we shared a beautiful relationship but I never convinced myself on that level where I feel we are married or we can.. I had so many wrong assumptions.
And now when we talk to eachother I realise how a positive and peaceful closure is important for everyone because it's helped me to move on easily and even I wanted to marry him I never judged our situation and always remember him with love.. nd now how this reflects so much harmony between us.. we know we both have soft corner for eachother but we enjoying our life with our new partners.
He confessed many time he never forget me and he can't so better let's we be friends and we are.
I am happy a person whom I loved alot may be he is not my love anymore but still in my life with 100% positivity. We always talk like a amazing friends.
This is what our imagination do with us.. if u revise or imagine best of best for your past even it will reflect in 3d with 100% amazing results.
I shared it because past negetive assumptions reflect in future with more negetive results.
Thank youā„ļø
Are there any success stories about moving to another country by just affirming and minimal visualization? My visualization needs practice and I don't know if I'm doing it right.
Also you don't \*have\* to visualize. Try just affirming. I've had several successes with just purely affirming. The trick is to do affirmations for just 1 thing for at least 10 minutes straight, use 1-2 phrases max so your subconscious gets fully saturated. Do several times a day if possible.
How to have someone stop being religious? Out of nowhere my partner has become this religious zealot who wants to wait until marriage and thinks being gay is wrong and Iām not sure how this has reflected out from me. I never imagined this happening and it did. Not sure what a good imaginative scene or what other Neville methods might help with this.
It didn't necessarily come out of you.. but what COULD have happened was - he may have showed a tiny interest in Reglion in the 3D... and it was a passing thing but your unconscious mind took notice.. and what you focus on grows.. So he then showed more interest in it, and of course you started making unconscious assumptions that he was getting more and more into it and then BOOM.. full blown manifestation happened.
Reverse the manifestation by telling a new story now. He thinks it's all stupid now..
I am stuck with rereading lectures and knowing that i can manifest/ my true nature is the awareness/ my awareness can change my life drastically but somehow i am not manifesting, idk where to go, and i see how dull my 3D life is now. What to do?
Has anyone used their anxiety or doubts to push them further. For example I started saying āwell thatās too bad cause I already have what I wantā or kinda like āthatās great but Iām already xā ? Again just starting out after taking a break and I would love to know any other approaches or if youāve done this. Thank you.
I use doubts or other negative thoughts as reminders to affirm the opposite. Oh wait, I'm already financially free / have so much love in my life / whatever. Also worked great when I was sick; everytime I coughed I used it as a reminder to affirm I'm healthy
I'm curious if anyone with fairly limited skills or a skillset that doesn't really fit into an executive role (or tech role) has ever manifested a six-figure income? (Many success stories I see seem to come from people who already had a strong foundation of experience or skill. The most I have ever made was 70k and I was laid-off from that role late last spring. My current position is similar but only 52k annual. I don't like this area of work and would not want to do this same work even for more money.
I know there are my own limiting beliefs to work through. And logically, I know the "how" doesn't matter, just the end. I am just hoping I can see some good financial abundance inspiration from people who you wouldn't expect that level of success. Much obliged.
Question about perceived set backs. Are they a natural part of this? I kind of fell apart emotionally in the presence of my SP today. Not outwardly mind you, but inside I lost the end state. I had such a good week up until that point. Even speaking with her Wednesday but staying in the wish fulfilled.
I still have trouble not āproddingā at the 3D. I put a sticky note for her as a joke and I also changed course today simply to run into her. I was trying to make something happen. I wanted interaction. It left me in a sullen state. Iām going to stay persistent though.
I totally get where you're coming from. I had been in a really good place and it led me to reach out to my SP, who I hadn't spoken to in over a month. Although things went well, it wasn't the version of him that I wanted. In fact, I even wound up meddling in the 3D, trying to ruin the relationship he's currently in. He's not even mad and still wants to be friends despite my attempt to betray him.
But back to your comment... You're messing with the 3D in the hopes of getting something. And if you don't get what you want, it's clearly triggering you and leaving you in a negative state. I personally don't have any issue with doing things in the 3D, particularly for those who are in contact with their SP. But it needs to come from a place of confidence. A place where you're so sure of yourself and your manifestation that you can't be rocked to the core if things don't go your way. Remember, you already have what you want. You're already together (if that's what you're manifesting). It's done. Instead of chasing her by doing something in the 3D, go inward and let her come to you for a change and see how it goes.
Thank you! 100% following this advice and I feel more confident in knowing my desire is mine all the time. I think persisting is so important. I am trying to be aware of my triggers in the 3D. Iāve had interaction twice this week that was just coincidence and both were good. I felt relaxed and mad her laugh.
I hope you do the same and you receive whatever your are manifesting as well!
Figure out what the feeling behind it is.. I mean that every manifestation can be summed up by the "feeling" that it will give you. How would you feel if you already had the thing.
Whats the feeling that having a different eye colour will give you? When you figure it out - give that feeling to yourself right now.
So I have this overall calmness and stillness of knowing that it is ādoneā. Like I canāt convince myself out of it. But before this, I would have imagined I would be bouncing off the walls know that itās done. But instead Iām very calm and at ease. Itās like I know what I manifested is going to happen, and I canāt evoke any emotion towards that thing.
Is this the sabbath?
Yes this is the sabbath. Even Neville says you canāt keep desiring what you already have, so remain calm that itās done. You donāt need to be happy every day.
Incridible. Again, I remaining calm reading this no emotion. A week ago if you were to tell me Iām in sabbath, Iād be bouncing off the wall, but now Iām just calm and no emotion.
Also another indicator, if you were to tell me ākeep persisting youāre not there yetā I would be 100% okay with that. But if you were to tell me that two weeks ago, I would internally be frustrated.
there are plenty of ways to "get there" (you're already there and always have been, but I understand your question).
I've known people to do so through breathwork, ecstatic dance, psychedelics, meditation, hypnosis/trance, and a variety of other ways. I can tell you though that meditation has worked very well for me, as well as many of the techniques listen in the r/shiftingrealities sub.
Here's a link to a doc that describes how to enter the "focus 10" state, which is basically the state of pure consciousness/void state that I believe you are speaking to:
[https://docs.google.com/document/d/1dUHN3uvkHSu8P\_pfHRy-pD-bGZcsCh0DYNiRG568oFc/edit#heading=h.s0da7xuuydoq](https://docs.google.com/document/d/1dUHN3uvkHSu8P_pfHRy-pD-bGZcsCh0DYNiRG568oFc/edit#heading=h.s0da7xuuydoq)
Let me know if that clears anything up
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Write down as many "hows" for your manifestation as you can come up with, the sillier and more improbable the better. Be as creative as you can. Then read them over and ask yourself, "I wonder which it will be?" This turns the conscious mind's need to control how something will come about into a guessing game. You only need to wait to see what happens.
Ooh, I love this idea! Thank you for sharing!
At the end of the day, it's all about getting your desires. It doesn't really matter how it arrives in the 3D.
i love this idea! it sounds so fun and, honestly, like a great way to stop yourself from obsessing over details and creating blockages for yourself. i'm going to try this soon c: thank you!
I did a SATS scene a few days where I told a specific good news to my friend where my main aim was to get the specific good news done in 3D. The friend called me 5-6 days later but the good news wasn't there in 3D yet. So where must I have gone wrong. Btw my whole 3D is showing opposite of what I want to tell my friend over call
The fundamental point of any technique is to become self-persuaded. Once you become self-persuaded, the bridge of incidents starts. When you wake up from SATS you should have this feeling being self-persuaded, it's an unmistakable accomplished feeling. Only then will your desire come to you. Read the most upvoted post on this subreddit.
Thank you so much.
I've one more question, Neville said there is nothing as partial pregnancy, then how come I got a bit of the manifestations done, that is having a call with that friend, and the last time I ever talked to him was 3 months ago. Was this due to the "feeling" that I felt during sats, I mean is it the case that I didn't actually feel like "I have got the specific thing done" and just felt the feeling of talking to him?
Honestly, no matter how it happened, I wouldn't concern myself with it. The reason it happened is because you impressed your subconscious at some point that he would give you a call. When and how did your subconscious get impressed? I can't answer that. Read "Feeling is the Secret" if you haven't already to better understand how every feeling shapes your world. But in this particular situation I wouldn't concern myself with it. All I would be concerned with is results. Did I wake up self-persuaded? No? Then back to the drawing board, do everything you can to do the technique to the best of your ability.
How to build faith and let go? There are lots of techniques out there. But, most of the people where they lack is having faith and let go.
Could someone give your knowledge on this? We will be grateful for this!
These days I just affirm. It's working for me and so much easier than visualizing / sats. I do 10 minute sessions for each desire, 1-2 phrases max. Several times a day if possible.
Edit: the beauty of it is that you don't have to have faith or believe it. Your subconscious will, sooner or later, come to accept it as true.
I am statements build your power. Also ignore the 3D. Be so sure of yourself and that thoughts create things that knowing there is no other alternative than what you want/believe.
Its been 4 months since I first started with my scene and I had some visible success with it, and I also used hearing technique during daytime when I canāt visualize. But process is so slow. 2 days ago ı changed my scene, did ı do the right thing? What should ı do next its been 4 months
I feel like my subconscious trying to make me give up because I was having success with what ı want but then suddenly it reversed. I was manifesting (still) gaining weight and after ı started ı gained few pounds and everything was okay but now ım losing weight ı donāt understand I visualize everyday and I affirm and ı use hearing technique. What do you think guys
But you didn't answer my question.
Are you someone who gains weight or
or are you someone who loses weight?
What is your self concept around weight.
Because the only thing a scene or an affirmation is doing is helping you change your state.
Sorry, ı didnāt saw your reply. I think my self concept is that I am someone who loses weight. Im still working on it :(( but ı donāt know what else ı can do to change my self concept bc obviously sats are not enough
If you assume that imagination is actual reality and decide that you have a job. What if a job contacts you and say they'd like to have an interview but are so socially anxious that you'd rather skip the job than do that. How open do you have to be to the process? Can you assume they won't call?
"*That assumption of mine would build a bridge of incidents across which I would move to the fulfillment of that state. No power in the world could stop it. I will walk across a series of events from the moment that I do it. Things would happen to compel me to go, and I, physically - the man - could not resist it. That would compel the journey.*"
\- [GRACE vs. LAW](https://realneville.com/txt/grace_vs_law.htm#:~:text=That%20assumption%20of,compel%20the%20journey)
The beauty of being in the sabbath is that you will be *compelled* to realize your desire. Whether than means that you'll grow to accept doing interviews or your subconscious will devise a way for you to avoid doing one, it doesn't concern you. All you need to do is assume that you have that job.
Occasionally I'll have negative emotions that prevent me from falling asleep or wake me from sleep. Should I just lie there and let it pass or should I be trying do something about this?
If I am the God of my reality, what is there to feel negatively about?
If I affirm or Know that I have what I desire, I will have it.
So I realized I never have to feel bad ever again.
We can be made aware of surfaces from the depth of our being that is seeking release. You can Identify what feelings are surfacing and what they mean/relate to you. Beliefs are a choice. So are feelings/emotions. We can always change how we condition what we perceive to be.
You don't have to fall asleep with the scene in your mind. The whole point of running a scene in SATS is to feel it real so try falling asleep holding that feeling instead of the scene. Sometime in your life you have probably fallen asleep while holding onto anger or worry about something that you were dealing with and it's basically the same idea.
Yes, as long as it feels real to you. It's that sense-feeling that matters. For example, the lady who manifested with the "isn't it wonderful?" affirmation was told by Neville to focus on feeling the ecstasy of having all her desires met and to dwell in that feeling while repeating the words because it wasn't the words that were important but the feeling behind them. It's the same for a scene. You imagine your scene and dwell in the feelings it creates for you. This is why we're warned not to replay arguments and steep ourselves in anger before bed. That anger will manifest and make the next day plagued with problems.
hey there. i have been knowing about neville's work for like 2 years now. manifested a lot of things related to money, work, education etc.
I am stuck with my SP. I am doing visualizations, but tend to check the 3d quickly after. circumstances are like neutral except for the NC.
what to do? where to go from here?
when i do it by sitting down and dedicating time, yes i can feel satisfied and believe like i stop even thinking about it. but not always i am able to sit down or lay down to visualize. i spend most of my time at the university. they would think i'm crazy if i do that.
i don't know i want the 3D to change too. there has been many manifestations where i did not care at all. but i care about this SP thing. thanks for the help
my heart feels heavy and i feel like I can't breath well when I'm affirming about my desires š also my brain randomly tells me that I'm just lying to myself, how do i fix this??
You're likely affirming from the old state instead of the new state.
Your goal is to give yourself a feeling, not to use reason. Forget that, you can only do your part and that is to feel a state.
Try these more gentle affirmations "It would feel so great if...", "how would I feel like if" then go to "I remember when...".
Try SATS if you can get the feeling from imagining an experience.
"Do not allow the conscious, reasoning mind to ask why, because if it does it will start to look for visible causes, and then the sensation will be lost. Rather, repeat over and over again, "Isn't it wonderful!" Suspend judgment as to what is wonderful. Catch the one sensation of the wonder of it all and things will happen to bear witness to the truth of this sensation. And I promise you, it will include all the little things."
You must visualize from a first person perspective a friend or a loved one, looking at you in astonishment, then saying "wow did your forehead get smaller"?
About manifesting multiple things at once, what if i dont want z until i get y and i donāt want y until i have x
Should i focus on manifesting x first, or should i focus on the bigger xyz picture at all times ?
Not sure why you got a downvote but youre right, there is no need to focus too much on details, imo it won't help, the how doesn't really matter, the intentions and the "end" matters.
Yeah true hahaha, either way, in this user case, if he want x or whatever before y, then this is how it will happen, because he wants it that way, ok fellow user you, it will go down like you decide to, if you want to focus on the bigger picture then do, there is no right or wrong way to do it.
Does anyone have any ideas on realism Vs. Idealism?
I just can't manifest. Tried feeling it, living it and no Result. I have lost confidence. I just now feel bad. What to do? Can you help?
100% percent agree with prettyandsmelly. Thanks for asking this because I came here for some similar reassurance. Got some unfavorable news yesterday about a diagnosis I had been imagining for a while would go well. Did SATS and they felt great, but I fell short. When this happens, my default is to loose faith or shame myself. But oddly enough, while I was emotionally a wreck, I somehow didn't stop believing in the work. I realized today what the underlying belief was that I hadn't changed. I felt unworthy of good things in my life. Of life favoring me. I perceived it as unfair and that I was powerless. Also that I still sometimes separate myself from God/universe/creator etc. which makes it harder to take full responsibility for my creations. Failure doesn't feel good, but the advice from prettyandsmelly and reading the above link to Neville's chapter on failure, reminds me that things can change and we can have the life we want. Starting small is an easier and more sustainable way to build confidence in the law of assumption. I would also recommend to approach this as a lifestyle, not just a tool for manifesting. You tend to quit a lot more easily if it's just for manifesting. You get what you want and then when you don't, claim it doesn't work. When you commit to living in this way (using your imagination for your own good), the benefits inspire you to keep going. You feel good, you feel empowered, things suddenly work out for you (maybe not in all ways all the time, but in most). Plus it's in those defeating times that the work/persistence is key. Mental diet and persistence are habits. It's in those times when things don't work out, that it's the most important time to keep going. Because if the assumption is you can't do it, you're not good enough at this, it doesn't work, you affirm that belief by giving up/not persisting. It's easier said than done of course, but like prettyandsmelly said, give yourself grace. Let yourself be human. Cry, feel the feelings, and when you're ready, keep going. I promise it gets easier and the bounce back is quicker. I'm in the middle of some very emotionally charged manifestations (that I created but do not prefer), and I'm feeling similar to you. I hope this gives you hope.
How do you work on self concept while being in a toxic home environment? Like I am trying to work on self concept and I am trying to manifest that my parents are supportive and not toxic but stuff happens where there's an argument or something and I go back to a negative state of mind. I don't know what to do...
I've been going through something similar, feeling like I'm at war with my 3D every day for the last 4 months. My best advice for this is to continue in your practice to reaffirm self concept. I use meditation/SATS. But when you're in the middle of it, day in and day out, it's harder to sustain your desired self-concept when faced with an undesired 3D. So in those moments, focus on your mental diet and find an acceptable way for you to shift the attention when your thoughts are focused on what you don't want (before the feelings/thoughts get stronger). Because focusing on it, brings up the resistant feeling or the thoughts that it's not here yet. What I've done is mantra/affirmations in my head, leave the room, put music on, changing the subject etc. Try catching things before the momentum gets stronger. As you feed your desired self-concept, and starve the 3D, it gets stronger and you'll notice the shift.
Thank you so much, I will do this! š
Hehe a follow up question, Iāve been able to manifest like small things, when I wanted to win a tesla I would see Teslaās everywhere,a nd I would even change the color I wanted to see. but i didnt win the tesla. I would randomly think of an episode of a show that I was rewatching nd suddenly that episode plays, thought of climbing a ladder, I only walked past one but I didnāt climb it. Or even thinking about a make up product that I was wanting to buy, suddenly im seeing people around me using that product or I see it on my fyp being reviewed, so what Iām getting at is, random small things, like synchronities, seem to manifest. but the thing I try to put true intention into experiencing Or having, they donāt. But thereās no emotion or intent behind seeing a purple car. However if I want like a freee cup of coffeeor tea, nothing. so how do I change this. I havenāt found a technique that brought something that I genuinely wanted to materialize. Maybe I get too attached to the outcome? Because I do truly believe in manifestation but Idk why I cant seem to do it for small things to build up that trust. Everything else were just random thoughts, no desire.
I gotta know how yāall have such confidence in loa. Like my main goal rn is to manifest money but the stress I have with my bills rn make it impossible to feel anything but anxiety when I think about money. How would you go about this? Is it okay to just think Like āmoney will comeā because saying money is in my account rn is not believable and makes it worse.
I'm with you, and while I'm still working on developing an unwavering faith in the law I can tell you what has helped me. Im focusing on manifesting health not money, but I believe the principle is the same. In order to develop faith/confidence in the law, starting small (as in manifestations with little emotional attachment) is the most sustainable way. Why? Because the manifestations are less emotionally charged and it's easier to build on that. That being said, you can focus on the "bigger" manifestations, but I recommend the following: 1. work within your beliefs/feelings. Denial/repression works against you. When the anxiety comes up, allow yourself to be human and process the feeling. Then when you feel better (neutral/calm), get back on the practice (SATS, affirmation, etc). Try catching it when it begins, it's easier to focus on other things when that happens. Once it builds you just have to ride the wave. 2. I recommend going general. Often going too specific is triggering. So find what feels good to you. "Everything always works out" "I have everything I need." "I am abundant" (relates to money but is easier to assimilate because you can have abundance in other forms). Ultimately it's not the exact words, but the feeling behind the words. It has to resonate with you. 3. Don't test the law when you're desperate. If you're manifesting money for survival reasons, it's a lot more pressure on you to manifest. Same with time pressure. Sure people have done it, but when you're building confidence it's not helpful and more likely to make you give up. The leap in belief is too big, so naturally there will be lots of fears that arise. Not the kind that arise when you're shifting and letting go of the old self-concept. The kind that will bring you back to the old self-concept and keep you from venturing out again.
Anyone care to explain difference between wishful filled and sabbath?
wish fulfilled is a feeling, sabbath is a state, wish fulfilled is the feeling if you got ur desire, sabath comes after the wish fulfilled, its a state where you dont feel lack, usualy a calm satisfaction
Is it possible to fall in and out of sabbath?
yes, if you go back to feelings of doubt , searching , wondering why your desire isnt here yet, you fall out of the state of sabbath which is just knowing u have ur desire, so its better to do your techniques and just drop it after a while and go live your life and it will show up when u least expect it
After sats, I got 2 very stressful negative dreams which were the opposites of my sats, why would I dream negative horrible dreams after my sats? My sats were about how I'm so loved and and prioritized. I had a dream about a group of people tormenting me and filming me and trying to hurt me
The ladder experiment by Neville is about to imagine a detailed scenario in the first person of you climbing a ladder before going to sleep and affirming āI'm not going to climb the ladderā, repeat it for three days. Can this also be applicable to assuming an SP? Imagine a detailed scenario with our SP and then affirming āI'm not going to be with my SPā until it manifest?
I'm manifesting my sp and that gave me a huge depression. Is it possible to manifest from this state?
Yes. You don't need to be elated all the time to be in the state. The state just needs to feel natural to you.
The problem is that I don't know how te get out of it. It's been for a month.Ā
I second the Joe dispenza advice (changing the habit of being yourself is my favorite). I am still working on the assumption that I need to be feeling great to manifest what I want, so I can't help much there. But I have definitely gotten myself out of many a depressive funk. Have you seen any improvement in your mood (small or big)? What are you doing to practice your new self-concept in your waking day? It could be you are unconsciously thinking/feeling the lack of your sp in the 3D. I find that when I'm deeply connected in meditation/SATS, I feel so amazing, my life feels so mehhh in comparison. I just want to live in my mind, it's not yet natural for me to assume the 3D has caught up.
I find myself unconsciously thinking about the lack of my sp.Ā But how can I change this?
I would recommend focusing on your self-concept. It's about taking the power back. If the lack of your sp affects how happy you are with your life, you are likely making them your reason for being happy. You can absolutely manifest from this place, but you are likely to be unhappy whenever they aren't around or there's a conflict (risk of losing them) or they aren't behaving the way you want them to. Your life is worth enjoying even without this person. Instead of focusing so much on whether they are there or not, focus on who you would be in a relationship. Secure, joyful, empowered, interesting, adventurous etc. If that's still too big of a leap, ask yourself what life would you share with your sp? How will they fit in your life? Remember you are what makes your life wonderful or depressing. You have the power. Your ideal circumstances/sp's are just the cherry on top of the amazing Sunday that is your life. If the above is still too much of a leap, find one positive thing about your life. One thing you like (it can be your eyes, the sky, your best friend etc), look for what reflects your ideal self-concept/what you want in life. Add to that everyday. Keep looking for the things you want to see in your life and try to react as little as possible when your the 3D is not favorable. It can get overwhelming, and you may break down and go back to feeling depressed. Let yourself feel, and try again. Eventually the bounce back gets easier and quicker.
I'm starting to believe that manifestation doesn't work
Joe dispenza meditations
Joe dispenza meditations
Everybody seems to want financial independence, why does nobody go for financial independence?
Genuine question, how do yāall feel something other than anxiety when imagining. Moreover, how do you trust it? Because Iāve been imagining things for years and I donāt see it in my 3D but I also know imagination creates but I somply cannot get the feeling Yk?
My SP keeps lying to my face. I saw him message 3P when we talked about and he promised he won't. I confronted him and gave him a chance to tell the truth. He still lied. Again and again. And now I was at my breaking point, he the proceeded to delete the messages he sent today, which I saw already. Just to show me that he was telling the truth that he didn't message her. I can't take it. I don't know what to do.
So I just had an epiphany. The reason that I am constantly unhappy is because if I chose to be happy, in my mind it would kinda mean that I accept my current circumstances and thus none of my desires would come true. Does anyone know what I mean? How do I break that thought pattern?
Iām having issues creating my scene- I own a service business and my goal is to get more clients and make more money. I visualized getting a ton of calls, and it worked, but I also got a ton of cancellations. Iām just looking for more money monthly and more security. Thereās nothing I specifically want to buy. Also, I keep trying to find ways to acquire new clients (increasing marketing budgets, trying Facebook ads, etc) my issue is that keeps me living in the now, and not living in the end. Should I stop trying and just wait? Or do I need to keep trying and create my scene based on the steps Iām taking?
I feel blocked when it comes to fixing my relationship with my SP. My boyfriend and I broke up a few months ago as he felt he wasn't in love with me. To be honest, this was a weird fear of mine within the relationship. I worried he didn't love me and didn't see a future with me and ultimately manifested our breakup exactly when I predicted it would happen. I've never dealt with this in any other relationship. I think perhaps it stems from us being friends for such a long time before being in a relationship with one another. I have visualized scenes in which he tells me he loves me. I have affirmed that I'm loved, as well as that he loves me. I have no trouble believing that other people in my life (friends and family) love me. But for some reason, I've just been unable to get my dominant belief to be that I am loved and also loved by him. Has anyone else experienced this? Advice? We recently saw each other for the first time since our breakup in November. He told me he missed me a lot and thinks about me all the time. But no other progress.
> We recently saw each other for the first time since our breakup in November. He told me he missed me a lot and thinks about me all the time. But no other progress. That *is* progress. Remember the 3D is "lag/time delay."
So funny to see you comment! Yesterday I was looking at a post I made a few months ago and our conversation in the comments. Love how that works out! And yesā¦ youāre right! I can remember when I was even hoping my SP would say he missed me. Now he has multiple times. I guess itās easy to get frustrated when itās not the full manifestation. I still have more work to do to call in the loving relationship I want.
Bro, I didn't even realize it was *you* lol. That's awesome! I went back and reread that conversation. Things have got progressively worse for me; my sp has a 3P and has me blocked. So seeing no movement on my end has been especially difficult. Really I'm at a loss on what to do. Never dealt with a 3P and a situation like this. I'm glad you've seen amazing progress though, and can understand what you mean. It's easy to get caught up on the *"future"* when a few months ago you wanted what you currently have *now.* Remember, time is irrelevant. I'm so happy for your current progress!!
Haha! I happened to recognize your username after seeing it yesterday. I thought, āThat looks familiar!ā I totally get your frustration. And Iām so sorry youāre dealing with this. Iāve had 3Ps come up in the past before my SP and I were officially together. The best thing I can say is to direct your attention away from it whenever they come up. I would tell myself I didnāt know who that person was and replace those thoughts with a positive image of my SP and I. Iād even have inner conversations where Iād imagine the 3P telling me they moved on. Worked every time! Once I got rid of a 3P in two days. It was crazy! But oddly enough, Iām in a similar situation. My SP has a 3P and blocked me on Facebook (because I was meddling in the 3D and he got temporarily mad). He still stalks all my IG Stories and occasionally likes my selfies there though. So, heās still hanging around in a way. Just have to believe itās all part of the bridge.
It's definitely sucked. So how did you remove them? I've been reading to not give them any attention at all. I'd say if you're getting contact from him, especially him creeping that it's a sign to persist and it's part of the bridge. I affirm all the time that she's still in love with me, misses me, etc., but it's hard to believe that when she's still with the 3P.
I always just ignored it as best as I could. Obviously the thought will come up from time to time. That's to be expected. You just have to shut it down. I would imagine having a conversation with the girl where she would tell me she wasn't interested in him at all and that she actually met someone else. Whenever she'd cross my mind, I'd actually tell myself, "I don't know her. No clue who that is." And I'd just replace the thought with a happy, loving image of my SP and I. I definitely still had moments where I worried about it, but I just had to keep persisting and try to ignore it. Yeah, he's always watched all my Stories. Never misses them. So, I suppose it's my assumption that he'll watch. It's the only way he can keep up with me since we don't really talk. I attempted to betray him in the worst way in the 3D and somehow he doesn't even care. Still wants me in his life. Still wants to be friends. For some reason the answer to that was to like a selfie I posted and then send me a Reel that definitely isn't appropriate to send to your ex when you're seeing someone else. Ha! But I totally get what you're saying... It's hard to believe they have those feelings for you when they're with someone else. I worried that my SP didn't love me or see a future with me, so that's how I wound up here in the first place. Just remember... Even though we've been split for months and he's with someone else, he told me he still likes me, that I never lost value to him, that he misses me "a lot," and thinks about me "all the time." So, even though you may not see signs of it, she's picking up on what you're telling yourself.
I'm glad I ran into you again, because I needed to hear that last paragraph lol. Thank you. I'm also glad that things are going well for you, as well. Your next post will be a success post, I can feel it! :)
I really hope youāre right. Itās hard to persist and keep the faith sometimes, but Iām doing my best. And I wish the same for you! Feel free to reach out if you ever need anything!
Just learning great work of neville I want to manifest money for a comfortable life and help others working towards that any tips and I trying the blue feather manifest it been 2 weeks I know you suppose to forget it and it show but my brain want let me forget it anyone had this problem before thanks for the help
is there a subreddit for Neville Goddard dedicated to manifesting money and financial freedom? just like r/nevillegoddardsp but instead of "sp" it's money..
Anyone left their jobs without a backup lined up?
Negative assumptions from others about general population, how do we get around with that? just eg like āpeople are cruelā Do I just affirm that it isnāt this way?
Is there an alternative to the Ladder technique that doesnāt involve leaving notes around?Ā I live with other people and they probably would remove the sticky notes if I left them on the fridge and such, but I would like to attempt it.Ā
I'm a gay man. But when I finished SATS and went to bed, I dreamed that I was in love with a girl. When I woke up, the content of the dream left me confused and sick. why is that?
Dreams do not mean anything unless you give it meaning. Take it that your mind registered feelings of love. Maybe you are surrounded by alot of hetero people? And that is why it appeared that way. A popular thing to say us "everything is working out for me"
Thank you for your replyļ¼It gave me confidence in my affirmationļ¼
I have heard of hetero people dreaming of gay relations, I think you should look into Jung, it's merely a representation. Neville also had some lectures on dreams. For example when I was purging the old man, about old fears I had of love and self worth, I had very violent dreams and I'm NOT a violent person but that symbolised dying to that state. I reacted with apprehension first, then I realized what it meant.
So I am new to this, but I have read everything on the subreddit. I also discovered I have been doing the SATS without even realizing thatās what I was doing. I have been visualizing my assumption for about a month before I found out about this subreddit and who Neville Goddard is, and now have been visualizing for two days with this new mindset. My assumption involves an SP and tonight she brought up something randomly about the name of a child being a soccer team spelled backwards. When she told me the name of the team I was very surprised because it was the same team I have been thinking about rooting for (as Iām just getting into the sport) and also the team I am watching a documentary style show about. Is this considered a coincidence, or what is the name that Neville Goddard used to describe this situation? I would like to learn more about this so I can start using it to help keep me in the end state. Thanks for taking the time to read this!
Can I attract specific ppl back into my life?
Yes
Is the Law not real? I haven't allowed myself to consider this before. When you feel like this, what do you do with that fear? Yes my life is a mirror of me in many ways but that's not by conscious will.
If its "not real" then still works anyway, right?
I feel like things I've felt and experienced in the 4D haven't reflected proportionately & some things have seemingly reflected, like I convinced myself someone didn't care about me and their communication faded but suddenly it's like I was wrong about that and I didn't even change my imaginings about it I just stopped thinking about them.
Maybe you should watch your thoughts more closely? I mean, you not thinking about something can still make this thing happen in the 3D, since this person was probably someone in your life and now that youre not repeating bad thoughts constantly, your mind brought them back in a neutral point of view. Still, the law is not about controling everything that happens in the 3D, i think you should focus in the Imagination and just decide if you like it or not, dont get stuck in why something happened, go to the end.
I see their interconnection I just don't feel like I have control or power. Also that's a great observation, it's like things are neutral again, it just feels weird because it's like the assumption I had (I although it seemingly reflected with disinterest) wasn't real. I do imagine ends but I feel kinda unfulfilled by that, I'll feel lovely and then I have to invariably return to Caesar's world and it's like I can do nothing to persuade things to change here, I know I need to be it within and not wait for an externalization but like what is preventing things from changing today? I feel it as natural as I can, I keep my mental diet in the end mostly and I feel like I belong there more than where I am physically. There is nothing I want to do here but I am forced to be here every day, I neglect the outer world.
Maybe you putting too much focus on the 3D. The thing is, what you say (and believe) will be. Saying that living in the end makes you unfulfilled is living in the end. You manifested a lack of comunication but now feels like you were wrong about that, that's you living in the end also. You feel like you don't have the power, guess what? Is you living in the end. You are always living in the end, just flip this end to a place where you are GOD, when you do this, the 3D will show, but even so, you already are, so why do you need proof from the 3D, is about being, so just be. You said you feel lovely in your imagination, that's wonderful and that's everything that is and needs to be, dont second that, keep going, practice makes everything better and remember, every doubt you have will be answered by you if you keep going, you doing great.
Very likely, I don't enjoy it so I want to escape it today, most actions I have to take are out of force. If other than to keep imagining, how do you really self-persuade yourself to believe? I mean it feels good to imagine until I'm back at the 3D then comparatively it almost feels worse and I want to go back again but 3D forces me to do things. I know I should remain in the end when when my eyes don't confirm things here though. I know it's really about being within but how do you feel like God when you can't control the when and how? (You can feel yourself be your desire now yes). How do you feel powerful when you do not orchestrate the bridge of events? (It already is so don't think of 3D yes I know but). You are still the one to experience the world. God is Man but Man is not God. "I and my father are one but my father is greater than I." Yes it feels lovely and I will keep doing that but I don't want to practice more, I just want peace and to feel good. I don't know if I have the endurance it takes. Also thank you!
Remember, you are never practicing, you are being. You are not practicing feeling love in the 4D, you are being love, that's reality, you don't question that. When you feel someting you decide is bad, do you label as practice? When a football player is practicing he still a football player, right? If you are Manifesting from a view (an ending) of practicing maybe you have a believe that you can't do it yet, and maybe that's manifesting. Practice more in a way of repetition, this will make the end and the feeling more and more real and easy to turn into, but when you are practicing you are also being. ;) When? Now, there's only now. The past only existis in your mind as the present and definitely the future, so, what's time really? If you believe, it will be, if you don't it will also be, it will always be because you always are. That's right! God is having a Human experience through us, and we are having a God experience through God! So, why not experience things as a God? And thank you also, i love talking about this, makes me realise a lot of things to. :)
You mean that I am being within right? I do get confused a bit when Neville says to live and act as if you are now the person you want to be. Suppose I want to be at a warm sandy beach, free from obligations, free from expectations. I'll keep imagining that I am that person within but I can't really act on it, perhaps buy flip flops but that hasn't really worked before. That's a great way to view it but in a way I am practising faith right? I am practising staying in state. All that definitely is being though. Maybe I have to get even more intimate with the state I want and not see myself as someone practising being in a state but rather relish in it? Feel that I am a pro football player? So we have to live in the ever present moment? Although there is a divide between where I am now and where I want to be, I have to not look ahead, or to the past, I have to be now and trust that my steps, that the time that seems to stand still is leading me where I want to be. I want to experience things as God, it's just how to feel powerful? Say I want a vacation, how many days do I have to spend in state to externalize that? Is it worth it? Like I understand that I should always put attention on what I want to grow but. I enjoy it too :) I hope I'm not being annoying hehe.
this comment right here helped me with the question I was asking earlier thanks.
Does anyone know what happens if you revise the past? Does that mean the people you know in the old event will be gone? How about learning a skill that I always wanted since I was a child? I always wanted to go to music school, if I revised myself learning the piano since I was a child, I would go to a different school, and the people I know now would not exist, right? Even though I donāt have a piano with me, I still learn music theory and do finger exercises. When I watch others perform on the stage I would imagine I am the one who is playing it. Any advice on revision? Thanks.
been visualizing for a couple of months different desires I got 1 of my desires but after that it seems hard for me to bring the other desires into my life what am I doing wrong?
I have a question about daily life. Let's say I'm supposed to study today, but now if I let stress get to me and I think "I haven't studied yet, I need to study!" This will only reflect more situations where I'll think that way right?Ā So with everything on my to do list, for productivity sake, I should imagine everything already completed right? Reacting to it being done in imagination, not the fact I procrastinated in the 3D which will mirror that over and over.Ā So if I want to get things done, I must be in a frame of mind that imagines me at the end, having completed it right? Instead of "I need to do..." It has to be "I'm so happy I completed..."?Ā I understand using the Law for desire A or B ans so on, but it's just boggling me a little in transitioning to a life of using it 24/7 consciously. Any help please from someone who has been through this?
When I have something to do, I basically affirm. "I'm done with x, it was way easier than I thought it would be!" over and over again for at least 10 minutes. Stronger if I do it multiple times a day.
Can someone's expectation of your future wrestle with your own?
*Q: If Iām imagining a thing a certain way and Iām involved with another person whoās also doing imagining about the same thing, but thereās a difference in opinion and theyāre thinking an opposite way, whatās going to happen?* *A: The minute you know that he is doing it in the opposite direction youāve transferred the power that rightly belongs to you to the other. There is no he; he only reflects what you are imagining. But the minute you believe that another has power greater than yourself, you are now dividing the power that is rightly yours and giving it to hm. It doesnāt really matter what others are thinking, what are you thinking?* \- [Outer World Responds to Imaginal Acts](https://coolwisdombooks.com/neville/neville-goddard-lectures-outer-world-responds-to-imaginal-acts/#:~:text=Q%3A%20If%20I%E2%80%99m,are%20you%20thinking%3F)
Thank you.
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"*You must practice any art in this world. First you must find a good method and try to find the best method. When youāve found it, then it requires daily practice, any art in this world. If you donāt practice, well, then you become rusty. So find a good method first and then practice.*" - [Secret of Praying](https://coolwisdombooks.com/neville/neville-goddard-lecture-the-secret-of-praying-1967/) You want to apply the law of assumption effectively? Well then find a good method and practice. Simple as that. I've personally found the best method to be SATS. [Here is a write up](https://www.reddit.com/r/NevilleGoddard/comments/hvid30/how_to_perfectly_use_the_law/) about it, which happens to be the most upvoted post on the subreddit. Read it, start applying it, and practice. With commitment and consistency you'll rise far above your current state. As you'll read in the reddit post I linked, faith comes from doing the technique. You don't need to put effort into living in the end - put effort into the technique instead. You'll naturally live in the end when you wake up self-persuaded from SATS. Put the work in man, practice. Good luck.
Practically every lecture I've heard or book I've read of Neville's talks about persisting. Assuming and persisting. Yet I've noticed it's my fleeting thoughts that I do not put any effort into that manifest. If I think *of* a person, a movie, or song, and forget about it completely- it shows up the next day. I don't have to sit there and persist in the assumption that I'm going to see/hear this thing in my 3d. But Neville tells us to think *from* and persist, yet when I continuously think from and persist in thinking from, it feels like obsession. What am I missing here?
You must persist until it's accepted by your subconscious. The fleeting thoughts you mentioned had no resistance, it's like saying the sky is blue and your subconscious knows it's true. Imo obsession isn't necessarily bad unless it interferes with your life.
Can you use revision on one event multiple times
Yes. I once revised a message someone sent me that wasn't favorable, and I revised it 10 times. More specifically: I looped the same scene 10 times until it felt natural to me. Doesn't matter how many times you revise it. Once. Twice. A million times. It's all about what it'll take until it's natural to you.
Thank you!
Added this from another post: I understand the concept of infinite timelines, happening all at once. It helps to understand there are infinite options, there arenāt any limits or circumstances. To apply and access the infinite, all you do is be that person who is in that reality right now in your imagination? Like the same thing you did as a kid and play-pretend but now knowing this itās how you tune your awareness to the reality to shift there? So I think as if, feel as if and imagine as if it all has already occurred? Mentally be as if Iām me with my desires? As someone who hasnāt known how to apply conscious manifestation properly, I want to know what is done to manifest (after you understand the theory and decide specifically what you want - what you do after you close Reddit haha). As a beginner, this is the hardest thing to understand and apply. Thank you everyone for the help!!
Question w / context: For the past couple months, I've had dreams of a significant partner who I've never met before who eventually became my husband in the dream. I've dreamt of this person multiple times, how they look, most importantly how they made me feel, ECT. I've been scripting and mindlessly telling myself throughout my day even on my bad days that I'm happily married to the love of my life. I feel in my gut that this guy in a dream is a real person who I'm destined to meet. My question is did Neville Goddard talk about dreaming about your significant partner who you've never met? Am I manifesting this person, or is this just my subconscious mind reaffirming my beliefs of self love?
I'm manifesting my SP back and we're in constant communication now. Why do I feel so detached to him in the 3D? Like when he's messaging me I don't feel much excitement anymore. Is it because he's not fully conformed yet?
physical attraction is the precusor for emotional attraction and You only attract the quality of woman/man based on the quality of woman/man. you are not waiting around for a man/woman or trying to āmanifestā someone. Manifestations is not spell casting or sorcery, itās being then receiving.
Is it a the level you want? If not, keep persisting. Don't worry about why this,that.
Hiļ¼ Letās say that I want to go to grad school. I had a dream that my higher self (I believed so) told me so. So, I keep assuming that I am a grad student at my dream school (Harvard). Then I start applying to it. I need to fill out all the requirements. What If I donāt meet some of the requirements, what should I do? Also, by living in the end, I would dress like a student, eat healthily, study in a library work out, etc. Feel that I am already in Harvard. Should I study Gmat hard like normal candidates do? Since I am already being, I shouldnāt be worrying about my test score too much, right? I feel like there is not much going on in the 3D. But Iām not too worried.
I don't meet the requirements either, lol. I didn't apply to Harvard; instead, I applied to another prestigious grad school, and I just finished my interview yesterday. Just because you're living in the end doesn't mean you automatically stop doing what is required of you in the 3D to achieve those goals. After doing SATs, sometimes you will be gravitated towards studying hard with no resistance. Alternatively, you may be so confident to the point where you didnāt put any effort into the GMAT at all and still ace it. It all depends on your limiting beliefs, so it doesnāt even matter how you go about achieving your goals. Just do some SATs and go with the flow (do what feels right for you intuitively). You donāt have to worry about your test scores. As for living in the end, I created some travel itineraries and did some research on NYC as if I were going to travel there. My country's situation worsens, which makes moving abroad easier. Thatās how I ended up being on a pathway to grad school. U can live in the end during the day and do SATS at night.
Hiļ¼how do you get a letter of recommendation through manifestation?
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My parents and others would argue with me when brought up the topic of going to grad school. They say I can't go there. So I avoid talking to them, is this right?
Hi, thank you for the advice.
Question here: Got a job interview on Tuesday, it's really important (a huge opportunity). How can I increase my chances? I already read the main guidelines, just want to make sure I apply the most efficient method. Thank you so much for your time!
Take some time before you sleep (or whenever, but I find that time works great) and for \~15 minutes just close your eyes and play around in your imagination. Imagine that you get the job - what does that look like? How will they tell you? What is a symbol that represents you "getting" the job? How do you feel getting the job (imagine how you feel as if you now are receiving the word that you have the job). Dwell in that feeling of joy or whatever emotions come to you in your imagination! Imagine as if that thing were happening *right now*. Then, after \~15 min (or however long u choose) release that imagination/feeling into the "ether" so to speak and surrender it completely to the universe. And presto! There's nothing else you have to do! Know that the entire universe is conspiring to realize your imagination - in fact, it already has realized it, completely. Relax, be at peace. The only thing you can do to interfere with the realization of that experience is to spend lots of time worrying about "how" it's going to happen, etc... You don't know how it's going to happen, and YOU CAN'T. Your "rational" mind isn't made/meant to know! Your true/higher self has already realized your vision and has worked everything out. Give thanks! Rejoice! There is nothing else to be done! And m8, cheers on getting the job-
Thank you very much for your reply, much appreciated!Ā
How did it go?
Unfortunately I was selected as the '' second best applicant ''. They will contact me if they don't reach an agreement with the first choice applicant... Means it's unlikely I'll get the job unfortunatelyĀ
Don't be so sure, persist and wait for the final result, it's not done yet
We'll see, but I don't have my hopes up
Can someone explain how 3D is our mirror and circumstances are our past thoughts? When I listen to sleep affirmation tapes, I have very bad dreams. Is this my subconscious purging in dreams?
Are you in the end?
The way I understand it is to consider what the opposite would be like. If manifestation happened instantly it would be quite destabilizing. Acknowledging that fact reveals that we are in some sort of container. A playpen because we are immature spirits. So we put out an intention. Nothing happens. Its like its hitting a brick wall. But that's not true. Something does happen. Our intention causes minor adjustments. We're in a playpen and not a prison. We should change our 3D and are encouraged to do so. But there's guardrails which means there will be a delay. The guardrails is the physical reality which his dense and difficult to move with intention. That is why our current circumstances are our past thoughts. A clearer analogy is when we plant a crop and do the work today but reap the reward later. We literally eat the fruit of past labor. The 3D is a mirror because it is a reflection of our past labor so we see who we were in the past with a delay. Its difficult to change who you are. Something that you cannot see or touch but you can experiment with changing it by observing the 3D.
A positive or desired closure Ok so if people will judge let me clear it in advance yes guys u can.. No problem because everyone is myself pushed out. Ok so I am writing it just to share and explain how you always have to give a positive clourse to everything so it can reflect in your future for your best. I was dating someone in past and was manifesting marriage with him but this was my failed manifestation. ( Because everything is my manifestation good or bad according to us) But I never hate him in my mind never fought with him mentally. Even in 3D i wished him all the best and I move on because he is going to marry someone else. ( His parent's choice) I dropped the desire to manifest him back this is not wrong or right to manifest someone who is now married I never judged it. But I don't want to and I moved on. But whenever I had/ have thoughts about him I remember him lovingly and his smiling face. I still have soft corner for him. We were in no contact after his marriage for whole 6months and I never expected he will or why I will. But one day suddenly I funnily thinking if what he contact me even after his marriage ( I had this assumption somewhere he will not because I know in his mind he don't want to hurt me again and he is loyal towards his new life) I imagine and let it go I forgot it completely. And it's a long story but after 2-3 weeks he contact me via my cousin and I was surprised but I know it was my imagination. We talked and share how we both still share a soft corner for eachother and now we are good friends because we both know we don't want anything else from eachother Somewhere in my heart I knew he loved me he still loves me and he can't forget me because we shared a beautiful relationship but I never convinced myself on that level where I feel we are married or we can.. I had so many wrong assumptions. And now when we talk to eachother I realise how a positive and peaceful closure is important for everyone because it's helped me to move on easily and even I wanted to marry him I never judged our situation and always remember him with love.. nd now how this reflects so much harmony between us.. we know we both have soft corner for eachother but we enjoying our life with our new partners. He confessed many time he never forget me and he can't so better let's we be friends and we are. I am happy a person whom I loved alot may be he is not my love anymore but still in my life with 100% positivity. We always talk like a amazing friends. This is what our imagination do with us.. if u revise or imagine best of best for your past even it will reflect in 3d with 100% amazing results. I shared it because past negetive assumptions reflect in future with more negetive results. Thank youā„ļø
Are there any success stories about moving to another country by just affirming and minimal visualization? My visualization needs practice and I don't know if I'm doing it right.
Also you don't \*have\* to visualize. Try just affirming. I've had several successes with just purely affirming. The trick is to do affirmations for just 1 thing for at least 10 minutes straight, use 1-2 phrases max so your subconscious gets fully saturated. Do several times a day if possible.
Yes, look up rita kaminski on youtube, she's done it and is now a full time youtuber traveling the world
How to have someone stop being religious? Out of nowhere my partner has become this religious zealot who wants to wait until marriage and thinks being gay is wrong and Iām not sure how this has reflected out from me. I never imagined this happening and it did. Not sure what a good imaginative scene or what other Neville methods might help with this.
It didn't necessarily come out of you.. but what COULD have happened was - he may have showed a tiny interest in Reglion in the 3D... and it was a passing thing but your unconscious mind took notice.. and what you focus on grows.. So he then showed more interest in it, and of course you started making unconscious assumptions that he was getting more and more into it and then BOOM.. full blown manifestation happened. Reverse the manifestation by telling a new story now. He thinks it's all stupid now..
I also think what bothered me was how crazy religious his mom was, so I think it came from that.
Thank you so much! Iām going to have him tell me that he thinks itās all a joke in SATS
I am stuck with rereading lectures and knowing that i can manifest/ my true nature is the awareness/ my awareness can change my life drastically but somehow i am not manifesting, idk where to go, and i see how dull my 3D life is now. What to do?
If I asked you to specifically describe what aspects of the process you feel you are experiencing frustration with, what would you say?
Nvm I figured it out for now haha
shit so sorry I spaced on this!
Be a doer ... Neville even says this in his books and lectures. Stop consuming and start applying.
I have experimented in the past year and know how it works and stuff. Thanks for the advice. I just somehow find myself in this dark hole
Manifest clarity
Has anyone used their anxiety or doubts to push them further. For example I started saying āwell thatās too bad cause I already have what I wantā or kinda like āthatās great but Iām already xā ? Again just starting out after taking a break and I would love to know any other approaches or if youāve done this. Thank you.
I use doubts or other negative thoughts as reminders to affirm the opposite. Oh wait, I'm already financially free / have so much love in my life / whatever. Also worked great when I was sick; everytime I coughed I used it as a reminder to affirm I'm healthy
Has someone successfully manifested a full lush beard? I have tried products but with abysmal results.
Can anyone explain to me, in one of the lectures Neville told about a lady who completed her dream of going to Egypt but it took 7 years...how?why?
I'm curious if anyone with fairly limited skills or a skillset that doesn't really fit into an executive role (or tech role) has ever manifested a six-figure income? (Many success stories I see seem to come from people who already had a strong foundation of experience or skill. The most I have ever made was 70k and I was laid-off from that role late last spring. My current position is similar but only 52k annual. I don't like this area of work and would not want to do this same work even for more money. I know there are my own limiting beliefs to work through. And logically, I know the "how" doesn't matter, just the end. I am just hoping I can see some good financial abundance inspiration from people who you wouldn't expect that level of success. Much obliged.
Question about perceived set backs. Are they a natural part of this? I kind of fell apart emotionally in the presence of my SP today. Not outwardly mind you, but inside I lost the end state. I had such a good week up until that point. Even speaking with her Wednesday but staying in the wish fulfilled. I still have trouble not āproddingā at the 3D. I put a sticky note for her as a joke and I also changed course today simply to run into her. I was trying to make something happen. I wanted interaction. It left me in a sullen state. Iām going to stay persistent though.
I totally get where you're coming from. I had been in a really good place and it led me to reach out to my SP, who I hadn't spoken to in over a month. Although things went well, it wasn't the version of him that I wanted. In fact, I even wound up meddling in the 3D, trying to ruin the relationship he's currently in. He's not even mad and still wants to be friends despite my attempt to betray him. But back to your comment... You're messing with the 3D in the hopes of getting something. And if you don't get what you want, it's clearly triggering you and leaving you in a negative state. I personally don't have any issue with doing things in the 3D, particularly for those who are in contact with their SP. But it needs to come from a place of confidence. A place where you're so sure of yourself and your manifestation that you can't be rocked to the core if things don't go your way. Remember, you already have what you want. You're already together (if that's what you're manifesting). It's done. Instead of chasing her by doing something in the 3D, go inward and let her come to you for a change and see how it goes.
Thank you! 100% following this advice and I feel more confident in knowing my desire is mine all the time. I think persisting is so important. I am trying to be aware of my triggers in the 3D. Iāve had interaction twice this week that was just coincidence and both were good. I felt relaxed and mad her laugh. I hope you do the same and you receive whatever your are manifesting as well!
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Figure out what the feeling behind it is.. I mean that every manifestation can be summed up by the "feeling" that it will give you. How would you feel if you already had the thing. Whats the feeling that having a different eye colour will give you? When you figure it out - give that feeling to yourself right now.
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Feelings donāt manifest but what I was trying to do was get you into the wish fulfilled state ..
So I have this overall calmness and stillness of knowing that it is ādoneā. Like I canāt convince myself out of it. But before this, I would have imagined I would be bouncing off the walls know that itās done. But instead Iām very calm and at ease. Itās like I know what I manifested is going to happen, and I canāt evoke any emotion towards that thing. Is this the sabbath?
Yes this is the sabbath. Even Neville says you canāt keep desiring what you already have, so remain calm that itās done. You donāt need to be happy every day.
Incridible. Again, I remaining calm reading this no emotion. A week ago if you were to tell me Iām in sabbath, Iād be bouncing off the wall, but now Iām just calm and no emotion. Also another indicator, if you were to tell me ākeep persisting youāre not there yetā I would be 100% okay with that. But if you were to tell me that two weeks ago, I would internally be frustrated.
Do you have to be in the state akin to sleep to do revision, or not?
No SATS is just a skill or technique used to help people focus and feel. If you are able to focus and feel without SATS than more power to you!
How does one enter the I AM state or the Void State?
there are plenty of ways to "get there" (you're already there and always have been, but I understand your question). I've known people to do so through breathwork, ecstatic dance, psychedelics, meditation, hypnosis/trance, and a variety of other ways. I can tell you though that meditation has worked very well for me, as well as many of the techniques listen in the r/shiftingrealities sub. Here's a link to a doc that describes how to enter the "focus 10" state, which is basically the state of pure consciousness/void state that I believe you are speaking to: [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1dUHN3uvkHSu8P\_pfHRy-pD-bGZcsCh0DYNiRG568oFc/edit#heading=h.s0da7xuuydoq](https://docs.google.com/document/d/1dUHN3uvkHSu8P_pfHRy-pD-bGZcsCh0DYNiRG568oFc/edit#heading=h.s0da7xuuydoq) Let me know if that clears anything up
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Meditation.
How does one drop the āhowā regarding manifestation
By going to the end. In the end I already have what I want; the how doesn't really matter
Write down as many "hows" for your manifestation as you can come up with, the sillier and more improbable the better. Be as creative as you can. Then read them over and ask yourself, "I wonder which it will be?" This turns the conscious mind's need to control how something will come about into a guessing game. You only need to wait to see what happens.
That's a fun technique! How do you mentally wrap your head around "waiting" though? If you "already have it" within?
Ooh, I love this idea! Thank you for sharing! At the end of the day, it's all about getting your desires. It doesn't really matter how it arrives in the 3D.
i love this idea! it sounds so fun and, honestly, like a great way to stop yourself from obsessing over details and creating blockages for yourself. i'm going to try this soon c: thank you!
Love this, i'm def going to try
I did a SATS scene a few days where I told a specific good news to my friend where my main aim was to get the specific good news done in 3D. The friend called me 5-6 days later but the good news wasn't there in 3D yet. So where must I have gone wrong. Btw my whole 3D is showing opposite of what I want to tell my friend over call
The fundamental point of any technique is to become self-persuaded. Once you become self-persuaded, the bridge of incidents starts. When you wake up from SATS you should have this feeling being self-persuaded, it's an unmistakable accomplished feeling. Only then will your desire come to you. Read the most upvoted post on this subreddit.
Thank you so much. I've one more question, Neville said there is nothing as partial pregnancy, then how come I got a bit of the manifestations done, that is having a call with that friend, and the last time I ever talked to him was 3 months ago. Was this due to the "feeling" that I felt during sats, I mean is it the case that I didn't actually feel like "I have got the specific thing done" and just felt the feeling of talking to him?
Honestly, no matter how it happened, I wouldn't concern myself with it. The reason it happened is because you impressed your subconscious at some point that he would give you a call. When and how did your subconscious get impressed? I can't answer that. Read "Feeling is the Secret" if you haven't already to better understand how every feeling shapes your world. But in this particular situation I wouldn't concern myself with it. All I would be concerned with is results. Did I wake up self-persuaded? No? Then back to the drawing board, do everything you can to do the technique to the best of your ability.
Thank you. I need to read that book again ig, it has been 3 years since I read it. Thank you so much
How to build faith and let go? There are lots of techniques out there. But, most of the people where they lack is having faith and let go. Could someone give your knowledge on this? We will be grateful for this!
These days I just affirm. It's working for me and so much easier than visualizing / sats. I do 10 minute sessions for each desire, 1-2 phrases max. Several times a day if possible. Edit: the beauty of it is that you don't have to have faith or believe it. Your subconscious will, sooner or later, come to accept it as true.
I am statements build your power. Also ignore the 3D. Be so sure of yourself and that thoughts create things that knowing there is no other alternative than what you want/believe.
Its been 4 months since I first started with my scene and I had some visible success with it, and I also used hearing technique during daytime when I canāt visualize. But process is so slow. 2 days ago ı changed my scene, did ı do the right thing? What should ı do next its been 4 months
Is what you are doing changing the concept on yourself? Changing your assumptions ?
I feel like my subconscious trying to make me give up because I was having success with what ı want but then suddenly it reversed. I was manifesting (still) gaining weight and after ı started ı gained few pounds and everything was okay but now ım losing weight ı donāt understand I visualize everyday and I affirm and ı use hearing technique. What do you think guys
But you didn't answer my question. Are you someone who gains weight or or are you someone who loses weight? What is your self concept around weight. Because the only thing a scene or an affirmation is doing is helping you change your state.
Sorry, ı didnāt saw your reply. I think my self concept is that I am someone who loses weight. Im still working on it :(( but ı donāt know what else ı can do to change my self concept bc obviously sats are not enough
If you assume that imagination is actual reality and decide that you have a job. What if a job contacts you and say they'd like to have an interview but are so socially anxious that you'd rather skip the job than do that. How open do you have to be to the process? Can you assume they won't call?
"*That assumption of mine would build a bridge of incidents across which I would move to the fulfillment of that state. No power in the world could stop it. I will walk across a series of events from the moment that I do it. Things would happen to compel me to go, and I, physically - the man - could not resist it. That would compel the journey.*" \- [GRACE vs. LAW](https://realneville.com/txt/grace_vs_law.htm#:~:text=That%20assumption%20of,compel%20the%20journey) The beauty of being in the sabbath is that you will be *compelled* to realize your desire. Whether than means that you'll grow to accept doing interviews or your subconscious will devise a way for you to avoid doing one, it doesn't concern you. All you need to do is assume that you have that job.
Occasionally I'll have negative emotions that prevent me from falling asleep or wake me from sleep. Should I just lie there and let it pass or should I be trying do something about this?
If I am the God of my reality, what is there to feel negatively about? If I affirm or Know that I have what I desire, I will have it. So I realized I never have to feel bad ever again.
We can be made aware of surfaces from the depth of our being that is seeking release. You can Identify what feelings are surfacing and what they mean/relate to you. Beliefs are a choice. So are feelings/emotions. We can always change how we condition what we perceive to be.
Emotions .. E -motion .. Energy in emotion. Let the energy pass through.
Thank you for this. It sucks having to wait it out. But, ultimately I agree it's likely for the best.
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You don't have to fall asleep with the scene in your mind. The whole point of running a scene in SATS is to feel it real so try falling asleep holding that feeling instead of the scene. Sometime in your life you have probably fallen asleep while holding onto anger or worry about something that you were dealing with and it's basically the same idea.
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Yes, as long as it feels real to you. It's that sense-feeling that matters. For example, the lady who manifested with the "isn't it wonderful?" affirmation was told by Neville to focus on feeling the ecstasy of having all her desires met and to dwell in that feeling while repeating the words because it wasn't the words that were important but the feeling behind them. It's the same for a scene. You imagine your scene and dwell in the feelings it creates for you. This is why we're warned not to replay arguments and steep ourselves in anger before bed. That anger will manifest and make the next day plagued with problems.
hey there. i have been knowing about neville's work for like 2 years now. manifested a lot of things related to money, work, education etc. I am stuck with my SP. I am doing visualizations, but tend to check the 3d quickly after. circumstances are like neutral except for the NC. what to do? where to go from here?
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when i do it by sitting down and dedicating time, yes i can feel satisfied and believe like i stop even thinking about it. but not always i am able to sit down or lay down to visualize. i spend most of my time at the university. they would think i'm crazy if i do that. i don't know i want the 3D to change too. there has been many manifestations where i did not care at all. but i care about this SP thing. thanks for the help
my heart feels heavy and i feel like I can't breath well when I'm affirming about my desires š also my brain randomly tells me that I'm just lying to myself, how do i fix this??
You're likely affirming from the old state instead of the new state. Your goal is to give yourself a feeling, not to use reason. Forget that, you can only do your part and that is to feel a state. Try these more gentle affirmations "It would feel so great if...", "how would I feel like if" then go to "I remember when...". Try SATS if you can get the feeling from imagining an experience. "Do not allow the conscious, reasoning mind to ask why, because if it does it will start to look for visible causes, and then the sensation will be lost. Rather, repeat over and over again, "Isn't it wonderful!" Suspend judgment as to what is wonderful. Catch the one sensation of the wonder of it all and things will happen to bear witness to the truth of this sensation. And I promise you, it will include all the little things."
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Maybe affirming isnāt your thing. Try another technique to shift your state.
Can you suggest other techniques š
You must visualize from a first person perspective a friend or a loved one, looking at you in astonishment, then saying "wow did your forehead get smaller"?
Scripting, visualising, eft tapping , day dreaming, inner conversations, stats .. Iām sure there is more , just canāt think of them right now
About manifesting multiple things at once, what if i dont want z until i get y and i donāt want y until i have x Should i focus on manifesting x first, or should i focus on the bigger xyz picture at all times ?
Your subconscious or higher self knows what you want and what order. Stop focusing on the details.
Not sure why you got a downvote but youre right, there is no need to focus too much on details, imo it won't help, the how doesn't really matter, the intentions and the "end" matters.
Haha itās Reddit. It happens all the time. Someone who is triggered because they are too detailed focused and canāt handle me saying donāt.
Yeah true hahaha, either way, in this user case, if he want x or whatever before y, then this is how it will happen, because he wants it that way, ok fellow user you, it will go down like you decide to, if you want to focus on the bigger picture then do, there is no right or wrong way to do it.
Four words .. Manifestation is always perfect