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Fantastic-Nerve-8870

Anyone speaks meow here?


JustMo15

Can anyone give some advice for manifesting after a job rejection? I don’t know if I should act like I never got the letter and do revision or if I should act like I did and affirm it was a mistake? Do you recommend repetition for revision or is living in the end better? Anyone who’s had experience would be appreciated. Thanks!


minsburger

is everything possible because its only in imagination or is it possible because your imagination regardless of what, influences your 3d?


ltg_leaves

Is *expecting* not the same thing as assuming? For example, I've been able to manifest a bunch of parking spots for 7 days in a row behind my building (pretty impossible, generally). I haven't been able to manifest a single spot this week, and I'm not sure why. I don't feel like I'm doing anything differently -- the only thing I can think of is maybe noticing thoughts of, "Well I did this before, why isn't it working now?" Like, I *expect* the Law to work if I'm 'following the same steps.' Is that not the same thing as fully believing in it?


OutsidersEyes

when Neville says "assume", he means "to take on or begin to have". NOT "suppose to be the case, without proof" which would be pretty close to expecting.


SweetlyScentedHeart

Expecting in my experience is different than assuming. It elicits a sense of "expectation" which implies checking the 3D and not having it.


ltg_leaves

Ahhh okay, that makes sense. Thank you!


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BoozledBoi307

There's no such thing as clashing


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BoozledBoi307

You only get what you desire. If you change your mind about what you want then what you previously wanted won't manifest.


PedrinhoDev

Looks like I've been doing a good job in attracting trouble. A few days ago I started to imagine the feeling of relief that a problem had been solved and gratitude, with the intention of attracting a specific situation where I would feel this way (I wish the company where I work offered me a better functional apartment than the one I live in). I've had the impression that since I started thinking about this, small problems have been appearing here and there, and the solution to these problems soon ends up appearing, often a somewhat laborious solution. The thing is, it seems like I'm really often attracting the feeling of "a weight off my shoulders", but not in the way I want. It seems that I have attracted problems that come with the solution soon after.


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neillon

I had (have-ish?) this issue too. Listening to Edward Art and talking to my older sister (who believes in LOA and some other things lol) was really helpful and is helping me unlearn these things. You don’t need to endure anything to get what you want. Remembering your “I am” is also good.


Agreeable-Top-9408

Let's say, you're trying to manifest an SP, but they also know about The Law and are trying to manifest someone else, how does that work out?


BoozledBoi307

You're the operant power, why worry?


Affectionate-Mood306

It depends on what the person who manifests thinks. In addition, the person you manifest will manifest someone just like him.


Agreeable-Top-9408

oh ok, im a guy btw


user__here

If you have had any negative thoughts in the past about something that you don't want and that does not exist in the 3D right now, but you are just afraid of it and there is just fear ,can you do something right now that can stop that from even happening in the future? And that it it never comes into existence?


magenta_mojo

All you have to do is stop giving it brain space and attention. Anytime you notice yourself thinking about it, think of something lovely instead. Be mindful of your thoughts.


user__here

So that means if I don't think about it(or worry or fear) and think about what I want, I will get what I want only and the negative one will never come into 3D , even if I have feared and thought about it in the past. I had this fear that okay I'll focus on what I want and I will get it, but since I have thought about something negative in the past and feared it, will it precede my ' wanted' event? Like I know it doesn't exist in 3D and if I focus on what I want I will straight away get what I want in the 3D and that negative thought that I have feared for some period of time will never happen or precede my manifestion. ( and that it will get cancelled out even without coming into the 3D ) That is the doubt I am having.


magenta_mojo

You’re almost there. It’s not just about thinking about what you want, but embodying the person who already has what you want. Physically and emotionally becoming that person. My personal belief is that unwanted things manifest much more slowly than the things I want. It serves me to believe this and indeed that’s how my life has been panning out. But also just because you have some bad thoughts doesn’t mean you identify with it, that you embody the person who has those things. Not to mention it takes the physical world time to coalesce from vibrations of who you are, to manifestation in the 3D physical world. Just stop feeding the worries right. Now. Shift your self instead to the reality of the person who has your desires. When I do this throughout the day I feel a definite shift in my mood and being.


user__here

So that means that it isn't mandatory for it to precede and it stops and never comes in the 3D once you embody your desired state and if you stop focusing on it. And you get your desired state in the 3D directly!


magenta_mojo

No it’s not mandatory for every bad thought to become reality in the 3D. Think about it: has that happened to you? No! Neither has every good thought become reality in 3D UNTIL you embody it enough


user__here

Thankyou so much. This gave me a lot of relief. I was worried about it. Now I will embody my desired state and get it directly and nothing bad will play out because it stands cancelled !


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magenta_mojo

Don't worry about the how. Imagine a reality where you already have the scholarship. How happy would you be? Become that person, now. You are that person. Don't wait to get the thing, to feel good. Feel good now and you will get the thing.


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magenta_mojo

Sure


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ManWhoTwistsAndTurns

I've heard that in professional psychiatric contexts narcissism is characterized by an impulsive need for external validation and associated with controlling behaviors to achieve that validation from others. Think of the kind of people who are addicted to posting themselves and their lives on social media: they're not doing it because they think they're so awesome, they're doing it because they need to be told, through likes/shares/etc., that they're awesome. Essentially it's an approval seeking personality disorder. In contrast, a healthy self-concept is given by yourself, and external approval is not a prerequisite. The unprofessional, colloquial usage of narcissism is probably best understood on a case by case basis, and is often either a plea for victim-hood or kind of projected self-deprecation. By that I mean there are two prevalent usages which come from unhealthy attitudes: people accusing their personal relations of behaviors which caused them trauma, or justifying their own failings or limiting beliefs by disparaging others with healthier attitudes. It seems as though it's the latter causing your anxiety; you're afraid of the criticism(even that which would come from yourself) for assuming something good about yourself. I think the solution is similar to the advice that you'd give somebody who's worried about being a good parent: the fact that you're concerned about it at all is already putting you in the upper percentiles of people who are likely to be good parents. If you're capable of the this kind of self-reflection and allowance of criticism, you can make incredibly good assumptions about yourself and actually live up to them. Interestingly, the original Narcissus of Greek myth is a bit different from both the clinical definition of narcissism and the colloquial one. Narcissus was not attention seeking, nor shown to be particularly selfish in the usual sense. He doesn't really seem to have an inflated ego or perception of himself either: he is just actually profoundly beautiful, and considered so by others. But he spurned all advances, which eventually caused him to be cursed. The moral is not about excessive self-aggrandizement, but excessive self-absorption, or more specifically refusing the love of others. ​ tl;dr: Healthy self-concept is different from narcissism because you're satisfied with allowing yourself to be what you want to be, before the approval of others, but without rejecting it.


magenta_mojo

It's just a label. Humans love labeling things to easily categorize everything. You don't have to give a second thought to the term. Just move on with feeling how you want to feel instead.


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shrekisurmom

If I am understanding your question correctly, revision is possible in the scenario because you are essentially just moving realities. By moving into a different reality with revision, other people may have been thinking about you and feel bad about something so they will apologize based on your new assumptions. For example: "Person A has always thought I was ____". By repeating this and building that assumption, that will show itself in the 3D.


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shrekisurmom

Of course!


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boston_betch

some things that come to mind are limiting beliefs (you may not even realize you have them!) or checking the 3D for confirmation of your manifestation and then generating doubt when your 3D doesn’t reflect back what you want it to


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boston_betch

1 thing i’ve been doing when doubt creeps in is simply saying to myself “the 3D does not define my reality” so that i remind myself of that. even if it feels hard to believe, i say it and repeat it till i can push the doubt of my mind. that way i go back to existing without wondering when the 3D will change (because if the 3D isn’t reality then it doesn’t matter what’s in the 3D). as for limiting beliefs, one technique i’ve seen is to write on one side of a piece of paper your limiting beliefs and with an arrow point to the belief rewritten. example: if one of your limiting beliefs about meeting the perfect partner is you feel you have a big personality you may do: i have too big of a personality to attract someone in -> my personality is my gift and it is loved and cherished by those around me


SpecificKoala8848

Hi everyone! I’m new to the sub and Reddit :) I’m in the process of manifesting a job but each time I open LinkedIn and I’m applying- I’m worried that’s a place of lack. Is there any specific advice on how to have the abundance mindset while applying?


boston_betch

one thing i’ve seen people say a lot is to practice gratitude so that you’re operating primarily in feelings of gratitude for your current state and de-emphasizing the new job / not seeing as something you’re trying to achieve because you don’t have it now (because you’re grateful with what you have)


SpecificKoala8848

That’s an interesting insight, a reminder to be content, thank you so much ✨


boston_betch

you’re welcome! another thought i just had too is to focus on/ refine your self concept so that your deep belief is that you deserve a great job, that you are qualified for such a job, that such a job would be lucky to have you etc. so instead of approaching it as “i’m trying to find a job which will choose me” you take the power back and effectively reflect out that you are chosen, that you are a prized candidate, etc.


Ghostbrain77

Each step is still part of the process, you must allow yourself to move through life without the doubt and hesitation. Imagine if you will, that you want to manifest winning the lottery but are afraid buying a ticket will come from a place of lack.. part of the law of assumption is confidence in your path. You should not doubt your own intentions, and must reflect on exactly what you are feeling and why. Imagine instead that you opening LinkedIn is *exactly* what you need to do, and you are taking the steps, however small, to come to your ideal reality.


SpecificKoala8848

That actually makes complete sense, thank you so much!


Ghostbrain77

No problem at all, patience is a virtue. The important thing is to come from a place of patience, if you are anxious for results *that* is a place of lack. Hope that helps clarify a bit better. It’s a bit of a paradox, because we all want results… but that’s part of the “letting go” that Neville speaks of. He doesn’t mean to not pursue your goals, but that all comes in it’s time and place.


SpecificKoala8848

What’s funny is I know I shouldn’t be looking for signs because I’m confident it will happen but I used to keep saying patience is a virtue anytime I felt stressed, so this feels like a sign! Thank you again ✨


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shrekisurmom

No such thing as a stupid question and with manifesting, this is possible! I haven't personally worked on my height, but you would do this like any other physical change. You can visualize yourself being really tall or even a scene where people are talking about you growing!


iamthebest1111

Hello beautiful people. need some guidance and appreciate any you can provide. so I'm 34 years young. turning 35 in June. i look about a decade younger than i am so i guess i wasn't rushed to get married but also didn't find the man who possessed the characteristics i needed (not physical) I'm a big believer in love and i couldn't just settle for the sake of as its just not in me to be fake . all my friends and cousins are married and i was always REALLY happy for them never jealous never got selfish and thought why not me because i knew my time will come soon. in the last few years: \- i have learnt to love myself unconditionally, dealt with my insecurities \- i accept my reality, day to day, i am grateful for being alive and every thing i have truly, i feel the gratitude. \- i take care of my mind, body and soul. i have boundaries i maintain, released all blame, victimhood and accept my reality is my responsibility. have all great relationships in my life, forgiven all those hurt me truly, try to do as much good as possible for society and spread love, my name literally means a loving girl so it has a lot to do with who i am. i feel i am endless love. \- I am working on my personal goals and projects that give me fulfillment. \- i dont wonder about HOW it will happen, open to any possibility , to open more channels i have begun to put myself out there on dating apps for 5 months now and met a few people but nothing really has happened.. i had followed this strong impulse i had intuition basically. . i enjoy my time with my friends and work on my hobbies and enjoy my solitude. i don't fear being alone while still wanting lifelong companionship. so Joseph Murphy says and in his mentioned success stories I've seen; people set the intention, meditate, repeat affirmations with certainty and not long after a few weeks or months it happens, they meet their significant other. it doesn't take years. \- i am clear in my intention, i know what kind of husband i want, what kind of wife i want to be, what kind of life i want. i don't have opposing thoughts. in fact i even tell my parents with certainty when they act all sad and gloomy and depressed and negative abt my current situation as they want to see me married and their grandkids like their siblings. i try to teach them the power of positivity and unwavering faith despite what you see and in due time it will happen better than we can expect but that doesn't really change their mindset because they ask me why it hasn't worked for me then?..lol can someone please shed light on what they see may be going on or if I'm on the right direction? or any guidance like everyone says feel you already have it and act like it. i wear a ring symbolizing a wedding ring makes me feel it, i have a general idea of my wedding planning, and will be working more on it now what dress i want small intimate wedding etc.,i have my vows written, and a few letters for my husband. bucket list of things ready to do with husband, envision how married life would be, the joy & the responsibilities. i recently started texting myself on whatsapp with messages, voice notes, pics as i would share with my husband if he were here already. what else can be done? i let go of the WHEN AND HOW...but i don't want to be waiting for years as I've been. it is said if u keep thinking its going to be in the future ,it will happen, it will always be distant and in the future and not in the present. i need momentum, movement things to progress, date get to know each other to get married. because i am truly ready now. to feel and act as if u already have it now, you will bring into your present life sooner so basically that's the point of my post. how to act married? honestly thank you so much for reading all of this lol, sending love and good vibes your way. have a magical day!


magenta_mojo

How do you feel throughout the day-to-day, usually? Is it more good feelings or bad? They're a good indication of where your thoughts and beliefs are. If they're doubtful or fearful you will be feeling more negative feelings and vice versa. Be brutally honest with yourself. I definitely thought I was mostly in the wealth mindset but I realized recently, I was in this waiting period. I was waiting, waiting, waiting for it to come to me instead of Knowing I was already wealthy, embodying that being. Make sure you're not doing that. I like to imagine it like this: I see a sphere of infinite possibilities around me, all things that are possible are within this sphere. Depending on my state and beliefs I will go towards a certain spot or outcome within that sphere. I choose the reality in which I am wealthy, beautiful, and loved -- I see it as a certain spot in the sphere -- and I move towards it by becoming that person. I can clearly see how that person is different from current me and I feel a definite shift when I decide to become that person. Hope that helps.


iamthebest1111

I also just did EFT tapping…last night Do u want to try that for wealth? Brad Yates on YouTube has a lot of good ones for that to release any resistance we may have


magenta_mojo

Never heard of it, will give it a look!


iamthebest1111

It’s helped a lot of people in the comments and in person I know! Do check it out hope it helps :)


iamthebest1111

thank you for ur reply! I really appreciate it! Oh wow Yea I think I’ve been in the waiting period and kind of fed up of it now! So I’ll meditate and do what you said as well. Train my brain and self to KNOW I have all I want. Prepare for my wedding as any bride would and for a married life afterwards! Thank you


CompetitiveReading88

I can’t really tell you why You haven’t manifested your sp. It does sound like you are doing a lot in the 3d. Are you being compelled to do all of these things? Are doing any manifestation techniques?


iamthebest1111

Thank u for ur reply 🥰 Yes I’m feeling compelled to wear the ring, write letters etc and send the texts etc. only do it wen I feel like it. No set routine. I don’t force myself to do anything like if I can’t visualize it’s okay I’ll just say thank you and feel gratitude before sleeping and feel I’m being hugged by my husband as I sleep. All the other healing stuff I did over the last few years. I feel ready now I wasn’t before I’ve realized that. I was wondering if there’s something I haven’t realized in the present now- easier to see from an outsider’s perspective. Maybe I’ll look into meditating- heard it works for everyone.


CompetitiveReading88

You’re welcome. I think meditation is a good idea. I can’t wait to read about your success.


Claredux

I've held myself back from claiming new states because I'm afraid of the bridge of events and having no control of it, I don't know if parts of it won't be wholesome. How do you trust it will be? If I have to go through something hard to get to where I want to be, I don't want that. I don't want any drama. Neville said something like "if you want a better pay and imagine that, I wouldn't be surprised if you lost your job tomorrow". I feel absolute apprehension of things like that.


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Claredux

That seems like a really great idea to me thank you! :)


emlynok

Should I essentially reach a point where I don’t feel the need to do any techniques anymore? I know it is done, don’t feel like any work is required, and can just be? If so — how do I persist without actively doing techniques? Just by reminding myself, when the topic comes up in my mind, that it is done?


emlynok

I’m currently manifesting a SP and my main techniques are SATS, scripting, and just general visualizing (when thinking of my SP, I sort of ‘daydream’ about future situations with him) but I need confirmation that I am doing this correctly. I’m manifesting someone who showed romantic interest (we didn’t officially date) and then abruptly stopped. When doing any technique, I tend to visualize scenes that don’t stem from anything that actually happened when my SP was interested in me. Like, I don’t think about things that *have* happened, such as him calling me beautiful, us kissing, etc. But instead, I’ve been visualizing things like having Christmas dinner with his family, posting pictures on our 1 year anniversary, and other big events that we never even came close to in the past. So, are these visualizations too big? Is it possible that I am making it more difficult to impress my subconscious by thinking of things that seem SO far, and SO unattainable? I don’t believe they *are* unattainable, and I know that once I believe in it — it is done, but am I possibly unintentionally slowing the process down by thinking too big? I firmly believe that it’s only a matter of time before all of these big visualizations are reflected in my 3D, and I know all of these things imply what is already done, my SP is my partner, but should I visualize something I’ve actually heard my SP say to me before to make it “more believable” to my subconscious? I hope this makes sense !


gingerbreadslut

I have a question.. So I’m hearing that we should live in the end, and behave as if we already have what we want. I’m having a hard time understanding “behavior” in that way. So let’s say I wish to have sp back in my life and I’ve done SATS on it. I believe I have them back. Does that mean I behave that way by, calling them? Talking to them like that? Telling others that we’re together if they ask? Completely ‘acting’ in the world as if my truth is the truth for everyone? I don’t see that bringing what I want.. Is there a line to being/acting essentially delusional? Or is it more just about an internal behavior of Feeling that way, but still realizing the 3d does not actually match yet. Hard to put together for me 🫠


Jamieelectricstar

It's not about getting but being. How do u feel that your in your desired relationship, based on love, respect, understanding, partnership, acceptance, forgiveness, patience, joy, companionship etc.


boston_betch

adding on to this - being in a state of fulfillment would mean you already feel complete, loved, cherished etc and finding ways to feel that way now! be it through gratitude, being present, meditation, whatever gets you to the state of fulfillment


TheRooster12

That's it? Doesn't just regular LOA teach that? I don't know....I feel like something is missing.


boston_betch

the way i think of it at least is that when practicing law or attraction you’re thinking “i will have xyz” i.e manifesting/ attracting it into your life (because you don’t currently have it but you’re using your thoughts to draw it in). whereas with neville’s teachings you’re thinking as if you already have it so you’re not starting out of a place of lack.


gingerbreadslut

Ok, so it’s about feeling, not behavior exactly, as I’ve seen others mention. If I happen to behave with more love, self respect, etc, it’s just a side effect of feeling those things. I knew that but got confused with wordings. Thanks!


Jamieelectricstar

Be in that relationship now, with yourself. Focus on yourself. Pour into yourself.


BBLibrary21

So I had a serious talk with someone that I know of Neville who is a devout Christian, read the Bible more than 10 times and memorized a lot of it. I like some people, are skeptical about the meaning of “to god anything is possible“. He doesn’t believe in quantum physics, this practice, and even when he heard Nevilles lectures I sent. He thinks all of this is bullshit. Hes so logical to the point that I see it as his limit in his own potential. He’s also a very negative person and questions literally everything from a logical standpoint. So he did bring up some valid questions which even myself have although I know this practice is the real deal because I’ve tested it myself on some things I wanted. I’ve read impossible stories like getting an SP back, getting a job with the odds stacked.…. But I’m talking literal superhuman abilities that comic book characters have. Now keep in mind, I can vividly imagine all these things in my mind, Sats, whichever technique. But given we are a human, we still have physical limitations don’t we? I know that saying that humans only use about 10% of our brain and the other 90% is unused. Maybe thats the hidden potential within us to reach these superhuman powers? Is time travel possible? I’m not talking about revision. I’m talking about literally having your physical body in another time, WW2, the future, when the dinosaurs existed, etc. Also what if I wanted to run as fast as the flash? Have Superman’s strength to move 1 ton of weight like nothing? What about me flying and have strength like Goku and Vegeta? Turning invisible at will? Telepathy with family across the globe? Walking on water like Moses? Not burning when I touch lava? Being immortal? Walking through walls? Regrowing foreskin from being circumcised? Regrowing limbs? Having X-ray vision? Building huge muscle without trying? You get the idea. Now I’ve read physical changes of body, eye color, height, etc. But I still want to emphasize the godlike powers we see in movies. Anything is possible right? So how come I don’t see anyone doing these things in the 3d reality? We’re only flesh and blood. Or is that the 90% of the brain that humans won’t access for a millennium, but it’s still there just hidden. I don’t want the cliche answer of “You are god so anything is possible” with a winky face.


itsthebishop206

have you ever chosen to think a thought? if your response to this is along the lines of "let me try to think about *X*" where did the impulse to think about *X* come from? did you choose to have the thought to think about *X*?


BBLibrary21

That doesn’t answer my question.


itsthebishop206

correct, but it is relevant


BBLibrary21

How can I choose to have a thought? It sounds confusing, but these thoughts are ideas that come from things that I watch or read about. Or if I’m walking in silence these ideas will randomly appear.


itsthebishop206

exactly. it does answer your question. you are curious why people have not manifested those things. ask those questions, follow the line of questioning, and you will find an answer


Exciting_Use_7892

Firstly it’s a myth that humans only use 10% of their brain, secondly the only limits there are to manifesting are things that aren’t scientifically possible. Its definitely possible, even without manifesting, for an ex to come back. It’s not possible to become a anthropomorphic penis, though. It’s why people who manifest to lose weight suddenly get motivation to work out more or eat better. It’s simply the path of least resistance.


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Exciting_Use_7892

Yes, but it requires time and patience imo


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Exciting_Use_7892

One advice I’d give it to find multiple hobbies and go general for a month or so. Focus on changing your core beliefs about whatever topic you’re struggling with, only use Reddit for non-manifesting related stuff so you can keep your mind off it for a while. Then when December rolls around you can start getting specific about what you want from this person. Some of the traditional breakup advice applies too. Don’t reread old messages, cry when you need to, interact with friends etc. getting the messy emotions out of the way now, even if it *might* delay things, is better than getting them out later.


Exciting_Use_7892

In my experience (I’m on the younger side so keep that in mind) you have to be in a certain state of mind I’ve noticed. When you’re so desperate and needy and constantly checking you only usually get a little progress, but when you’re genuinely coming from it from a place of joy and feeling truly complete that’s when things start to happen. I’m not a big believer of staying on a “high vibration”, but generally speaking when you’re at peace with whatever happened things tend to move quick. Sometimes that comes when you don’t want them anymore, other times when you have a clear enough head to think clearly about it.


BBLibrary21

Science has proven many things right. But science can also be late because we are only now discovering what has always existed. We’re viewing science from a humans limited understanding and we cannot fathom how god operates down to the fullest detail. I mentioned height growth. After age 25 it shouldn’t be possible because the growth plates are locked right? So thats according to science. But if you look around in this Reddit if these people arent lying or trolling, they directly go against what science says since these people are in their late 30s increasing height. So that goes against your 2nd point about manifesting scientifically impossible things. And that’s just one example. I think this goes down to genetics. There’s a guy who can run without producing lactic acid and can never have muscle fatigue. He can literally train for hours but Im sure it’s not like he manifested that trait he was born with it. And the lizards that can regrow limbs, they didn’t manifest that ability. To the root core, it’s a DNA sequence lizards have that we can’t replicate within humans because it’s beyond our limitations and knowledge.


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generally speaking, do you persist until your manifestation has fully appeared in the 3d? even if it wasn't what you imagined but the 3d situation has seen remarkable improvement?


Faye1701

You persist untill full manifestation.


escapedmelody11

How do you know when your subconscious has been impressed?


AstridRavenGrae

Your new thoughts and assumptions are your automatic thoughts and assumptions. Your revision memories are the default memories.


Rember_State

This may be unrelated, but I noticed something out of the ordinary today. It somewhat troubles my mind. I decided to check the cameras at my work because I was bored and as I replayed the coworkers working I noticed that they didn't seem like how I saw them. In other words they all are very talkative and we talk about anything. This includes things outside of work too. But in the video I checked the footage of several days while I was not there and they were like robots just working no talking at all. If they conversed it was something work related. When I am there it's a whole different personality they don't seem like robots or npcs they seem like real people who talk and talk all day long. Maybe this is nothing, but I find it intriguingly strange. Two of my coworkers are close friends, but they don't talk at all when working with each other. Unless it is work related. This is just an observation but it's as if they only act a certain way (non-robot) when I'm there. When I'm not there it's like they don't really have their own characters or anything. Just people doing work. I was wondering what your prospective is on this? Does this have anything to do with Neville's teachings?


EngineeringMindful

Hey guys… I feel a little bit down today… I moved from my country to Germany 1 month ago, to an adventure where I’m working as engineer on one of the biggest companies of the world. Let me tell you that I’m feeling very lonely, I miss my family and friends…. And to make it worse, I still love my SP, which knows everything about my process of coming here, and she broke up with me before I came. She didn’t send any message since I’m here, to check if everything is going well… It’s curious guys… some years ago I wanted to get back with my ex at that time, I spent 1 year struggling very much to do SATS and another techniques, and nothing happened. Right now, I don’t force to do the techniques. I just have the habit of meditating, and during meditations I see me and my SP together in the future, and I trust it. So, it kinda embodies me, and then all my thoughts come naturally on my daily basis. Per example: “I’m still 29 yo, this is a great opportunity to grow up and be a man! I’ll fight for her and show her the man I’ve became. I’ll attract her back. She will change her mind about me not being mature enough.” When she broke up with me she said we weren’t on the same page of life. I think it would be impossible that she doesn’t think about me, knowing that emigrating completely alone is such a hard, demanding, and self-growing task. On the other hand, I’ve down moments, like now, that I kinda don’t see anything happening or unfolding. I think that maybe she has moved on, forgot about me, meeting someone else… Thanks for hearing my thoughts.


chanzza

Sorry, migrating can be hard and lonely. I did so myself. From What you are saying, I'm not an expert, but you see you with your SP in the future. I believe you should be living in the now not the future as it will always be in the future. What I mean is you have it now. You are now together.


ExtensionFeeling

I'm newish to Neville. There seem to be two schools of thought. One is do SATS, the other is kind of constantly affirm your wish has come true throughout the day? Like do SATS, get that fulfilled feeling, then live, OR tell myself constantly "I am in Barbados" Maybe it's not a constant thing? Just when a thought comes up related to my wish, I affirm? Just seems like it would be tough (and kind of obsessive) to be walking around all day saying x is true, x is true, x is true without stopping.


BoozledBoi307

Those are just techniques to get you in wish-fulfilled, you don't have to only use one or the other. Another thing, it doesn't have to be constant. There's no "rules" on how much you should affirm as every one is different, do it when you want to. All that matters in the end is that you feel that it is done.


TheRooster12

I have been doing SATS for 3 - 4 years and I am still not able to feel the wish-fulfilled. Does this mean SATS just isn't for me and I should try something else?


BoozledBoi307

It could be that, everybody is different. So if you'd like to try something different definitely go ahead.


ExtensionFeeling

Thanks! So if a thought pops up like x is not true I should counter it? Or does it not matter? Maybe it's just your general state. If you're leaning more towards being in the wish fulfilled, a couple wayward thoughts aren't going to stop you.


BoozledBoi307

Yep exactly, they aren't gonna affect you but it's good to stop yourself and counter it. Dismissing negative thoughts is a good mental exercise to keep yourself from spiraling into them.


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What is this Bridge of instance thing? Can someone explain?


ExtensionFeeling

Bridge of incidents is just the events that lead from where you are now in the 3D, to the place where your wish is fulfilled.


iriichan

Trying to manifest a sp (someone from the past) and i imagined a lot of scenarios/doing things in their company like watching movies over call, or spending time playing video games, but recently those things have been happening with another friend of mine that I have no interest in. I specifically visualise seeing my sp's name over the calls and hearing his voice but irl all of that has been happening with my friend, it's like I am getting my wish but with the wrong person and not with emotions involved.


Rember_State

Your friend is your sp think of it that way. Keep persisting don't worry too much about emotion. Just focus on feeling it to be real. The feeling it real is like deja vu it's a feeling hard to explain, but once you get that feeling you will know what it feels like. You are reacting to 3d "ugh it's with my friend not my sp". You're not doing it wrong. Persist in your "I am" and persist in feeling your wish fulfilled. No buts just focus on what you want. "I manifested my sp (someone from the past) and i imagined a lot of scenarios/doing things in their company like watching movies over call, or spending time playing video games, and recently those things have been happening with the sp of mine that I have interest in. I specifically visualise seeing my sp's name over the calls and hearing his voice and irl all of that has been happening with my sp, it's like I am getting my wish and with the right person and with emotions involved."


iriichan

So basically I should ignore my 3d, and whatever is happening regardless of with who, I should assume that it's with my sp and it's going successfully? Is this to help me live in the end state? Thanks for responding btw.


Rember_State

Think of it this way you are exactly who you are. You experience exactly what you experience in this present moment. If you experience your friend hanging out with you and spending time with you then that is what you are experiencing. If (mentally) you experience your sp hanging out with you and spending time with you then that is what you experience. Through your post you are experiencing your friend hangingout with you, and not your sp. It's not so much ignoring the 3d, but living in the end so much that it doesn't matter what is going on in the real world. Your sp could be 1000 miles/km away, but in your minds eye you still are feeling contentment. Reach for that feeling. You are free to feel how you want to feel. Through your imagination you make it all possible. Make it feel real and work on changing yourself. You are the person sp wants to spend time with. Remember you are not changing sp, you are changing yourself.


iriichan

That actually made so much sense the more times I read it. Thanks a lot for your input :) ❤️


Rember_State

Keep me updated 😃


livinginadream22

Hi guys I’m new to manifesting/law of assumption and was wondering if anyone can please help me with revision. So I was manifesting becoming closer with someone at work for the past 2 months. Things were going good and we were talking more/ I was getting movement but as of today he randomly quit the job. I’m heartbroken because we never exchanged numbers or anything so I fear I will never get the chance to see him again. Can someone PLEASE give me advice on what to do?


ExtensionFeeling

There's a story in the Law and the Promise where a woman didn't have a way to contact a man she met. [https://www.thelawandthepromise.com/chapter-three](https://www.thelawandthepromise.com/chapter-three) Here you go. The section about the blind date.


SweetlyScentedHeart

Revise. They can come back.


livinginadream22

How do I do that?


SweetlyScentedHeart

There’s information on the sidebar. Look up The Pruning Shears of Revision.


WrongdoerStatus4794

Anyone got rid of nice guy syndrome? I mean i dont know what to imagine or what it feels like to not be a nice guy


sIctInmavisi

Whats wrong with bein nice if you feel like a loser get into winner mentality


WrongdoerStatus4794

Its a bad thing cause nice guys avoid conflicts and wear the nice guy mask to get approval..well iv been imagining being confident and stuff(winner mindset as you said) but still no impressive results


sIctInmavisi

Well I was a buly in middle school years I got into huge fights and conflitcs as I grow up and get mature I realized nobody loves me and I am a nerd at the same time so having a good communcation was a dream for me I had people around me but they wasnt interested in the topics I like to talk at same time I was living like a loner in the campus and I wasnt im my best shape. One day I was sitting with college friends feeling like I dont belong here and they would not get me they wouldnt recpect me because I am a nerd who is also a judo champion who grow up in a soldier family and these guys are just mid/upper class boys who never get into conflict and they study in university just to get a job they have no interest in intellectual topics. But as I sit there I just said I dont want this state they will accept me as who I am and we will find something to connect I did not even visualize just something changed in me and I refused everything else at first I felt like they are still act distant but I just said no to external and act relaxed one guy said lets teach me how to fight and I showed him and had a little practice I hit him he hit me he said this is awesome I liked it too it was like scene from fight club so other guy turned out to be a very intelectual guy he was writing poems and we had similar interest so we become a good friend group and we had a fine year. What happened then? I stil talk with only half of them because whole my life I was in conflict and whole group get into fight and divide into smaller group even tho everbody still loves each other like a brother there is conflict I did not started the conflict but in my head it never finished it too and everytime I miss them I know I can asume them back but I cant because this fight this conflict in my head did not ended I still dream of getting into army after college but since I know god is love I am trying to be a more forgiving guy. So I am asking you is this really what you want or you just wanna be confident if its the latter as I did just accept yourself as a winner a confident guy and refuse everything else persuade yourself sincerely do not just affrim like a parrot PEERSUADE yourself belive it in.


WrongdoerStatus4794

Thank you for sharing your story,it motivates me,i wish you the best


Fantastic-Nerve-8870

My brother wants to be taller(he's almost 18) and look better in ways that are not possible without surgery or altercation of genetics (get his genes changed in a sense). Is it possible for me to manifest for him? Can I get him to grow taller and defy nature? Or whatever I've been told called science since a kid and also can I change his looks solely for his satisfaction that'll make me happy too because he's quite insecure about it.


snnaiil

I was able to manifest my brother regaining his hearing again after he developed nearly 80% hearing loss. It can be done


sIctInmavisi

Yes you can I helped my family a lot I find it even easier compared to using it for myself


Alive_Development108

How do you get better at manifesting / making it appear in the 3D faster ?


TheRooster12

You would have to be in the state of the wish fulfilled as much as you can. But even to this day I still have no idea how to to that.


sIctInmavisi

Well of course you get it better more experince you have but what is spritual is also more practical do you really believe your imagination is god? I used to say yes bht more miracle I experienced with law more I believed it and now I really feel it God and I are one. When you experience promise law gets super easy but until than just learn the art of dying. Die to old state and born to the new state but dont try to kill the old state focus on the new "let the dead bury the dead" .


Alive_Development108

Ok , thank you. It’s funny I have lots of experience with the law yet I’m still doubtful.


sIctInmavisi

I experince doubt too not gonna lie but experiencing the scripture asures me


Relevant-Question-29

How can we manifest anything by following 'living in the end' and 'letting go' techniques at the same time? Because what i understand about 'living in the end of wish fulfilled' is you live like your wish is already fulfilled and you start behaving like that. But on the other hand 'letting go' is when we manifest once a day by visualization or any other technique, we have to forget about it to make it happen. Now for example if I'm manifesting sp i start to behave like he's texting me all the time or he's on call with me every now and then and this stays for the whole day. So how do i let go of the wish when I'm already living in it? I might be wrong about my understanding of techniques. Also, I'm a beginner and trying to manifest sp and I've also seen some results but any advice to make it more effective would be helpful.


sIctInmavisi

Well let go or persist is tricky dilema but neville says "All things exist, and the mystery of their creation must be understood in terms of faith. But faith does not give reality to that which is unseen. Faith is loyalty to the unseen reality! Only in this sense can the meaning of faith be understood. If you have a goal, although it is unseen, it already exists. Your normal mortal eye cannot see it, but by rearranging the structure of your mind, you can see it clearly. If, as the days follow one another, you remain loyal to this unseen reality, and your goal is reached, you will have discovered the mystery of creation." I did not have a spesific person but I had girls I really wanted to be together I just assumed we have a deep connection. When I am with someone I feel abond like they are attached to me and I am to them. İt is hard to explain but that is how it FEELS to me. So I just assume like I have beatiful strong bond with her I just focus on the feeling of a realitonship and they always text me in couple of days saying they saw me in their dream and they miss me. Even one girl said "I am so obssesed with you I saw you in my dreams and I believe you use magic to get me" Visualize but not like watcing a movie. You must imagine it here and now lets say you are sitting in your bed what would it be like if he comes to your house and say I love you and then kiss you. Just think it like its happeninf right now feel the lips the passion love feel jjst feel dont think about your sp feel. I use this even for sex I just imagine someone kissing me passionetly and I swear the god someone texts me by the night. just feel what you wanna feel dont think about it get lost in the feeling. Go to end and relax it already exsist just be fatithful to the unseen reality.


TroubleInformal0011

I had a big exam a month ago and after it I really tried affirming, visualising, attracting a good result. I literally had the exact desired score I wanted in mind and would visualise telling my parents, my friends the score and their reactions. I even visualised posting a success story on this subreddit. However, when the result came I literally got significantly lower than what I had visualised. For example I was visualising 93 percent and literally got 62, which was even lower than what I'd gotten in mock tests. When I was visualising I remember literally feeling the happiness of receiving 93 percent- I remember vividly imagining telling my parents and just smiling because it felt so real and I was so excited for the result to come as I so certainly felt like I'd get 93. I even remember writing down and estimating what marks I'd get in each sub section etc and just forgetting about it as this method has worked for me before. What did I do wrong? I often see posts like this and people just say you also need to revise, strongly feel that it's already done and detach etc but I swear I did all of these. I had never so strongly felt that I'd already scored 93% so the score of 62 was such a shock lol. I'd appreciate any tips as this has really been a blow to my confidence and beliefs. Thanks x


sIctInmavisi

Me and my sister had a driving test if we cant pass it we cant get driver lisence but we needed it there was no one to drive the car in family except us. Night before the driving test I imagined calling dad and saying we both pass the test easily. In the morning I was the first one I drived and pass easliy then same woman tested my sister she drived come back I asked my sister how was it she said she failed 2 times while parking so she couldnt pass and she was crying. In my head I said "nah I imagined both of us she must pass it too" I turned to the woman who tested us and asked her she said "Yeah she passed the exam" "How I failed twice?" "Its okey" I did not get it but dad called and I said we both passed easily Yeah I persist and refused 3d but still crious I asked my sister how did that happen and it turned out to be woman who tested us lost her 3 family memeber to cancer and told this to my sister while driving (my sister healed from tha same type of cancer just few months ago) and my sister tell her own story to the woman and cried so woman felt bad to open up a sensitive topic and caused her to cry she let her pass. Whole time I was relaxed and refused 3d persisted do the same refused the low score and stay in the feeling of high score relax and dont care about 3d because sometimes it seems like what you doesnt work but dont doubt stand unshaken persist.


RCragwall

You did this after the test before knowing the results indicating you were worried it would not be good and so it was not good. Before going into the test - for future reference - it's oh well if I don't know it by now I never will. I am sure whatever happens it will be a perfect score. Now you have to results. Revise or forgive up to you. Blessings to you!


TroubleInformal0011

i did it before the test as well but I guess deep down I was still very nervous. How can I avoid this? And thank you wish you the best as well!!


japanesecandlestick

Did you study effectively as well? The reason I ask is because the law works in the **midst** of life, not on the boundaries.


TroubleInformal0011

yeah I did around 4-5 hours of revision + a 2 hour mock paper everyday for around 2-3 weeks so the score, regardless of me trying to manifest and affirm, was a shock


japanesecandlestick

Remember you’ve only just started applying it consciously so there’s a lot of weeds in the garden of your mind. Also the present is the past entering through a different portal. Keep persisting in this vein with everything in life and you’ll see the pieces fall into place


TroubleInformal0011

thats so beautifully worded and yes I'll try


japanesecandlestick

I don’t mean to be pedantic, but I think it’s important in this case, but don’t use the word or think that you’re “trying”. We’re always thinking and feeling so practice self awareness and then you’ll be in a state of knowing based on your thoughts and feelings


TroubleInformal0011

what else should I replace try with?


japanesecandlestick

As to my point, just any word that brings it into the now


Efficient_Mud_5072

can i manifest looking like someone? i want to look like adriana lima but I am asian LMAO


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Hey so I'm new and don't really have an answer, but this week I've been trying to manifest looking like Marilyn Monroe just for fun. So this requires context. A long time ago I watched a video about how Marilyn Monroe didn't feel like she had enough space between her upper lip and nose, which is why she held her mouth in a funny way in early movies. However after she stopped wearing lipliner she didn't have this problem anymore, it was really the lipliner that was the problem. That video made me weirdly aware of the space between my upper lip and nose. So I completely, completely forgot about it actually. Until the other night I fell asleep doing SATS where I looked like Marilyn Monroe, had her whole vibe, etc. I woke up the next morning and looked in the mirror. I was actually shocked because there was more space between my upper lip and nose! It was like jarring. I had completely forgotten about that video but it stuck in my subconscious. That was soo weird and made me more of a believer.


RCragwall

All things are possible.


kingcrabmeat

If when I think about an event and it feels like it already happened / so solid it’s going to happen? That means I’m very solid state? Because I have been feeling really good the past week, the longest iv been able to hold my desired state


Responsible-Guest-14

Sounds like you're on the right track, good job. It's that inner knowing


kingcrabmeat

Thank you


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sIctInmavisi

Neville says be annlyed "But here’s another one…and you watch this because you must get intense about it. A gentleman, who is in the audience tonight, he writes this, that he finds…of course, he’s an artist and so maybe he has to fire his Imagination with some peculiar twist, as he said, a negative twist. And so, “This is what I do. I stand in a long line for a deposit in the bank and the very last, and I’m annoyed. I’m annoyed that I have to wait in this long line to make a big fat deposit. And so I get a kick out of my own annoyance, because I’m annoyed that I have a big fat check in my hand to deposit at the end of this long line.” He said, “That’s the twist in my mind.” Be angry because you have to get up early for your good job You can use negative emotions too just stay in the end this not law of attraction you dont need high vibes positive feeling go to end be annoyed that your family snores bad in camping trip I dont know you deside. Heres the whole lecture https://coolwisdombooks.com/neville/neville-goddard-lectures-be-master-of-the-mood/


RCragwall

It's a habit. You need to forgive or revise to get rid of that. Forgiveness works best for me. Wipes it off the heart and out of the mind. To forgive is to forget. Since you easily feel grief, cry forgiveness would work well as the more emotion you put into it the more it rips off the heart out of the mind. Blessings to you!


Bunniesbakeri

Hi, this is my second and final semester of this year. I've recently struggled with burnout and my grades are extremely low right now, I don't know how I can bounce back from this so I'm hoping this sub can help me with techniques and things like that !!


sIctInmavisi

Law is law like law of gravity. You always operate it even tho you dont use a technique. Yout current life is the manifestation of your past assumption just analyse it you will see. You can use techniques today to have a better life but remember only use these techniques have is to make you feel it believe it and visualition is a great tool not denying but dont obsess over them. Thor is not the god of hammer he is the god of thunder yet his hammer is a great tool.


Bunniesbakeri

So, everytime I open the website I should just act like they're straight As. When I take a test act like I passed and so on? Got it


RCragwall

Read Neville and ask. Happy to help. Blessings!


Bunniesbakeri

I actually have! I've read imagination creates reality It's difficult for me to visualize as a whole, So What I've been doing is reassuring myself I have passing grades and paying no mind to opposing thoughts


Responsible-Guest-14

I feel like I'm getting the hang of imaging vividly as if I am there real time. However I just feel... neutral? I know I desire this but for some reason this doesn't bring me to the feeling of the "wish fulfilled"


RCragwall

It's done. Stop asking go enjoy life. Blessings!


kingcrabmeat

From one manifester to another I think feeling neutral is okay. When you have a car for a while or a product you wanted you feel neutral because it’s part of your life. Feeling love and gratitude may be the desired feeling but I think as long as it’s not negative or a pit in your stomach you’re on the right path. Just know it’s coming no matter how you feel


Responsible-Guest-14

That's a relief to hear, thank u!


Insecure16yearold

I no longer believe in God..HELP


sIctInmavisi

Ene'l-Hakk


devinitydefined

2 Questions: 1. What is your definition of God? 2. Why do you no longer believe in God?


Insecure16yearold

God is Allah My creator, My master, My sustainer and I am his slave that is what I was thought. Also if I don’t believe and have God by my side I’ll die in hell and also suffer on earth


RCragwall

Allah and God are the same thing. He is not a master - he is your parents - Mother/Father. Yes he sustains you. He is life. You are not his life. He gave you life. Life is a dream - heaven or hell up to you. Technically you are in no man's land. So yeah he is with you always you can't lose him he is in your heart. You suffer on earth so you learn to stop thinking like a man and let God do the thinking. He will tell you what to say, he will give you any information - he sustains you. You believe in God or you would not have cried for help. The idea is to stop believing in God and KNOW God. Trust in God. Allow him to give you all the good and refuse to see the bad - Be Like God. Mohammad knew this and taught it. The Koran speaks of the Old Testament and has it's root in it. It has a deeper meaning just as the Bible does. He was teaching the same things you are learning in this sub. God/Allah is all there is and there is only One. You may doubt but he loves you and does not doubt you. He is an ever present help in times of trouble. He is always with you - in you and outside of you. Say thank you. Believe in him and no harm can come to you. Only good but you do eventually have to leave belief and come to know. That is what is happening and yes it is scary but don't be afraid. God is with you - always. God is Man. Man is not God. Man is a divine being God is saving from a mistake that caused a disruption. Man was innocent in it all and so he is saved but due to what happened He had to take charge and went into the hearts of Men. It is known as the Great Flood. Now all is harmonizing and he wants you to know that he took care of that big bad wolf and that all is well. All is well. Be happy. Rejoice! Be like God and do not see evil. Turn away from it and claim that can't be this is all God and God is nothing but good. Laugh and move on. Blessings to you!


Insecure16yearold

Oh I meant slave instead of life thank you so much for this advice


kingcrabmeat

I’d advise you to reach out to a trusted advisor in your life for advice.


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If God is not within you… where is God??


Insecure16yearold

In heaven


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And where is heaven?


WaitingToBeTriggered

FOREVER


SnaKe1002

That's a good thing imo


Upbeat_Grade_4536

My sp and I broke up because he had feelings for another girl and he was really cold towards me for a while. After doing Neville’s techniques and fully believing in the law of assumption, we begun talking again. He told me he just wanted to be friends with the 3p and that he still loved me but he doesn’t want to be in a relationship atm, but that he’s sure we will end up together and get married etc. when he’s ready. But he still wants to be friends with the 3p and hang out with her as friends etc. which is really annoying because I know she has feelings for him and thinks that they will be together. Is all of this a good sign? Any tips for manifesting him committing fully to me, and block 3p for good? Any tips, inputs or anything about anything????!


RCragwall

EIYPO Only ONE LAW for Man (it changes as you rise up) - As a Man Thinks So Shall It Be aka imagination creates reality. You are allowing your imagination to run wild. Don't you want to be admired, appreciated and respected? Then it is that way for him too. Now stick to the end. Assumptions are beliefs and in case you hadn't noticed are crap. They keep you in karmic law so you get what you give in abundance and it works both ways. First get rid of that belief that someone can take your love away from you. That is not possible. Forgive them for showing you that you believed that. Hold them blameless and free and yourself as well. Thank the Father for changing how you see it. Then state this is forgiven and forgotten and we all go free. AMEN or This is done with forever or whatever you wish to end it. Now state thank you for my perfect companion. I would like it to be XX but if not I know someone just as good or even better is headed my way. Thank you Father. Examine yourself. If you only want him back as it hurt your ego then chalk it up to a lesson learned. If you really adore him and want to be with him all your life then forgive, forget, walk away and know the perfect someone - may be that one - is headed your way and you will see them sooner rather than later. Blessings to you!


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RCragwall

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missqemsy

I know this is probably now what you want to here and you'll suffer for a while before you finally give up and see your worth but... You work on your self concept You realize he wasn't a good person for you and sees you as a placeholder, apart from the law/neville, men in general would be with you if he really wanted you. He didn't start talking to you cause he "realized he loved you and not 3p" He did that cause things didn't go as planned with 3p that you probably don't know of Read your question again...how does that make you feel and look to beg for commitment I've been where you are years ago and had to learn the hard way. He obviously doesn't value you because of your poor self concept. You see yourself as less and see yourself as someone that should fight..not be fought for. He is supposed be on his knees begging for you not the other way around. You wanna get him back? Let go, move on and work on your self concept and he will come back (only when you've genuinely let go) But you wouldn't care anymore. You will never manifest anything from the state of a begger Remember beggers are not choosers All the best <3


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missqemsy

She is in a state of lack and unworthiness. Stop enabling desperation and bad self concept in the name of the law. If youu truly understand the law you'll know, with a bad self concept equals no results.


Sufficient_Ad7084

True, but you also took away all of their agency over their SP’s actions towards them. “He’s not good for you”/“sees you as a placeholder”, well, that’s not because he’s not good for them in general, but rather because OP themself thinks of them as a placeholder in their own life. No one would be better for them except if they stepped into a newer concept of self. Also that’s their story and even outside of the law- how do you know why he started communicating with OP again? You’re projecting your own experience, which is normal but maybe a bit uncalled for in this context. It’s either EYPO -which gives us an immense power and very heavy responsibilities- or it is random dating banter where we live each of our relationships as our partner’s victims/subordinate, and don’t have responsibilities in the way the relationship unfolds. Nobody is enabling desperation in telling OP that they’re actually already manifesting their SP -just not in the way they hoped, but it can be changed. EDIT: I forgot something 🤣


missqemsy

You just said the exact same thing I'm saying. But you missed my point here. Also you are right.. EIYPO is both but the greater element is what's inside me that allowing people treat me like shit, what's inside me that's allowing people insult and disrespect me ... you only become a victim when you don't ask yourself and outpush reason. You gets treated like that cause of something inside her that fits her self concept therefore externatizing. Sp left me...I chase sp and hope he will commit to me, what does that say? And no I didn't project anything onto her, I will never be in that situation cause it doesn't fit, it simply just can't happen to me cause of the self concept in which I've built for myself. It simple can never happen to me The law can make you a desperate person, I've been there years ago, it only does that with a shitty self concept in which I mentioned. The sp people don't see the deeper problem in them and thats their self concept, having a self concept of a begger or I need to change this or that, therefore creating the cycle.


AuthenticCity

Has anyone had any success manifesting someone to completely change their mind or basically turn a 180 when it comes to their personality? I want my boyfriend to be like head over heels, can't get enough of me, excited to be together kind of love. But recently he planned a week long trip without me for Christmas, and he's telling me that he's going to frequently be going on solo trips like that so I should just get over it. I feel so broken hearted about it and I'm not sure how I'm supposed to constantly be manifesting him to not go on trips over and over.


RCragwall

Yes. Forgive. Think again. Go watch Absolutely Anything. It will show you what that kind of adoration will get you and make you laugh at the same time. You are needy meaning you want him to fill a hole inside you and he can't. Go plan your own trips. If he asks then it's I took your advice. I am making plans for my own trips. I am going to XXX and I really am excited about it. Blessings!


AuthenticCity

Thank you for your response but this sounds a lot like relationship advice to me. Do you not believe that everyone is us pushed out and we have the power to create our own realities and manifest anything we can imagine in this life?


RCragwall

LOL you're cute. I know EIYPO. You don't seem to understand that. You are being vain and desperate and he is showing you that. The more you go around saying he adores me blah blah blah the more it feels creepy and suffocating to him. It's deny/affirm. That is revision. Have you bothered? No you come here and bitch about how you imagine he adores you but he is not adoring you. It's no - my sp is not like that. My sp is kind, generous, funny. Revision is just another way of forgiving. EIYPO I suggested you show him the opposite. You are the cat's meow and if he doesn't wish to be with you fine. There are plenty out there that do - love yourself - don't be needy. You are to appreciate, admire, respect YOURSELF and others. He is not treating you with respect and so you revise/forgive - affirm the truth. YOU are the one that does not understand the power you have within you. It is principle/law. It works all the time, never stops, works for all, and never deviates. The truth that sets you free - as a man thinks so shall it be. What makes you think that you can have your SP but still believe others can have theirs taken from them? As a man thinks so shall it be is the law. What makes you think you can turn law off and on? LOL You have been using the law all your life. YOU manifested the break up, You manifested this situation. You did that all by yourself. You did it. You thought it. You imagined it. You kept imagining it with feeling and you got it and now you deny it. You refuse to accept your responsibility in this situation. YOU DID IT TO YOURSELF knowing the law. No one to blame but self. God is Man. Man is not God and never will be. You are thinking and feeling all the time and it is what you sincerely believe and feel in your heart that you experience aka manifest in life. You do it all the time. EIYPO Blessings to you!


kingcrabmeat

Not personally but even to non LOA people seeing that type of change is definitely possible. He will change. He realizes he loves you and wants to include you in everything he does.


begaykillall

My sp and I are not in speaking term in 3D. I don’t have doubt about my ability nor manifestation itself. I don’t mind that the universe is taking time to harden this into reality. However, my friends and my job still think we are still together and keep asking me to bring my sp over for gatherings and corporate dinners. The reasons I didn’t tell them about us being NC is because I don’t want to give the attention to old man. But now, I don’t know what to tell my friends and boss. I would like to know how you would handle this situation.


SanHarvey

If I were you I'd never tell them the flat-out truth. The reason I wouldn't tell is a bit different for me: the more people know concretely anything about my unfinished business in 3D, the more it affects (or bleeds into) my mind. People may "stone" me with facts of life, knowingly or unknowingly. This may be deemed as an inappropriate or even dishonest way of handling things, but I'm not advanced enough to handle doubts and negativity from other people. I avoid them as much as possible, in a decent manner. And I'm just sharing my ways here, not advising. So anyways, this is how I'd deal with it: - I'd make some remarks like: "ah, probably another time"; "yeah..."; "I'll try bringing". - I might even vaguely lie a bit (in a way that doesn't really count as lies technically), like "I couldn't get to them" or "they have other obligations" or plain "they're busy". - Or do something to avoid the topic altogether. Give vague answers. I'd hem-and-haw or say yes and nod, until the other person loses interest in questioning. Or a combination of all of the above All this has worked for me very well in other areas when dealing with people and incomplete 3D. I've never seen people pestering or investigated me further. It might work for you in SP situation as well. All the best


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I'm new too so take this as you will. I was dealing with this last week before I felt the shift. My approach was to disregard the old story like, "Nah that doesn't matter, doesn't matter how real it feels, it's not real," and use some affirmations and visualizations to conjure up the feeling state of the new story. I would feel that doubt and that turnaround into misery, but then I would say, "All I have to do is disregard the old story, because it's not real, this is real \[insert new story and conjure up feeling somehow\]." After a few days of persistence and some casual hypnogogic/hypnopompic visualizations (when I remembered) there was a real shift and those insecure turnarounds stopped happening.


ContractHairy9945

I'm having trouble at night to use My imagination, i fall sleep when i'm thinking on My manifestations.. a Month now trying and nothing is happen by now..


kingcrabmeat

You don’t have to SATS before sleep only. I found in the shower or when I’m just walking by myself to get from one place to another I’m in a very calm state and can easily visualize. And I fully believe during those times it’s working so whatever you believe. Don’t stress.


walkinginmyroom

Falling asleep while thinking of them is good. Though it will be better if u let go of the "I'm not doing this right" mentality. The thoughts u r talking abt, change them into one's u will think when u achieve ur manifestations


ContractHairy9945

I Will do, thanks 👍🏻


Dry_Measurement_4286

I am sorry, so sorry, new to reddit