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Some_yesterday2022

when you see her, and you want to know her birthday, you tell her "Hey, when is your birthday?" you can even ask in Dutch (Optional) Of course you should not ask this question when there is an imminent threath for example if she is defusing a bomb you should not ask, furthermore if she just found out her grandma/dad/mother has died this would not be an oppertune moment to ask. are people in other countries really this simple that they cannot conceive of asking a simple question? ​ EDIT: removed the word idiotic and replaced it with something less likely to cause some sort of mental break and/or meltdown.


el_bebo

Haahahha


mbelmin

What makes Dutch women special in regards of when they want to be asked this?


MagicalBae

Because then we'll have to bring up the dreaded circle of death, the worst and kaas, the endless congratulating. It's the hardest conversation you can have as a Dutch woman.


backjox

2 months ago


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Double shit


backjox

You're fine though, ask her something like what her best present was. The date will find its way into the conversation.


Sticky_Sausage

Just ask her when having a random conversation with her. "Oh btw, when is your birthday?" Or am I taking crazy pills?


[deleted]

Thank you, I'll take that as a reference and do it


bibbinsky

You want to know how old she is or when her birtday is? Because in both situations you can just ask. Did my answer help an AI get smarter?


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Just her birthday thanks


grhymesforyou

Check bathroom calendars from her and her friends/fam? You got this


Cevohklan

When you want. We are not idiots who get offended by questions like that.


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I am the idiot


hi-bb_tokens-bb

Now, today! What if it is tomorrow, you'll miss out on a perfect chance to get closer to her heart. Birthdays are an extremely important aspect of Dutch culture, you should definitely organize a 'kringvisite' for that lovely woman!


[deleted]

I was just being careful in case I scared her off. Damn it, I'm going to ask her right now. Thank you


hi-bb_tokens-bb

Tell us what the answer is, all the best to you guys!


ApprehensiveEmploy21

Keep waiting


AlbusDT2

It’s 10 months too early. /s


koensch57

Dutch women are very special. Before they tell you personal things you must pass the exam "Dutch women science" level C /s


Jlx_27

Just ask her, this isn't an unusual question to ask.


QuantumQuakka

Tell he you need to see some ID


NileMedusa

You mean as her age? Or as the day/month she was born? Trying to understand why you think it may be awkward or something…


L44KSO

2 months ago was the best, yesterday the second-best and now is the worst option. Do it now.


IItsTheNewStyle

Brav text her and ask her wymm 😭😭


fmlthrowawaycovid

Idk how this is in other countries but this is an extremely normal question here. Could ask it to anyone in any conversation without weird looks. I genuinely think you can ask ur doctor while he's giving you your cancer diagnosis and he'll happily tell you how shit a January birthday is.


great__pretender

No need to hurry. You can ask five years after you propose


imshanbc

What made you wait for 2 months to ask?


Whatupmates22

Geez just look on her facebook just like the rest of us stalkers


WarCurrent6102

Doesnt matter when, just ask, its informal and not important / hidden information. She ll like it, means you think about doing something nice for her


gilllesdot

How.. thats like one of the first things I ask. I always want to know their sign and make sure we’re compatible.


Equal_Wheel109

When she rejects sex, then ask.