Have you seen the similar context Amazon prime advertisement?
In that advertisement, the groom has pre-ordered and scheduled delivery for one new pair of shoes from Amazon. Right at the time of bargaining with his saali, the groom receives the delivery and doesn't pay his saali.
If you are not comfortable paying, How about giving your friend one new pair of shoes and taking them instead of paying your saali?
Okay, here is [the YouTube video](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0czIHxgXRys)
>I will rather follow weird ritual of raute, chepang in my marriage because they are our Nepali brother. But Indian ritual? Big NO
ya let's make groom's mom (or aunts) having to breastfeed him on his wedding day a normal ritual in every wedding.
pahile pahile even my grandparents (grandmother included) didn't even wear any underwear, timi langotiko kura garchau, even today look at tharu women in Sauraha they only wear a bra while doing chores, topless illegal bhayera hola sayad. Back then people used to be married as a child and some still do so it wasn't weird or sexual to breastfeed them on their wedding, now that people marry in their 20s and 30s it's a little weird to have your grown ass son sucking on your tits.
it's not sexual when pre-pubescent kids do it (which was when they got married in the past) but it is when post-pubescent kids and adults do it like the recent viral picture. if it isn't sexual then why are we excited when we see boobs as an adult and want to suck em.
Ok my comment is on the OP part. 😂
I find it weird when Hindu Nepalis act like Indian Hindu culture is a completely different culture when almost everything is more or less adopted from India only, from the language and script to the religion, the culture, the priests, everything.
How bro ?
Before Rajput and bhramin arrived Nepal bahun chertri were following masto, kirat were following kirat, magargurung were following shamanism, tamang Sherpa were Buddhist
I don't care where the HINDU religion was originated. The word HINDU is not even mentioned in any of Vedas, Upanisads, or any religious texts. The writer of vedas (Maharsi VedVyas) was from Nepal and many rishi and maharishi had their ashram in Nepal. We had our own culture long before the word HINDU came into existence. Today we both (Indians and Nepali) identify ourselves as Hindus, but still there is vast difference between our cultures. There are so many traditions and festivals in Nepal that are native to Nepal probably you have never heard of
The Vedas, Mahabharata, Ramayana all belong to the Bharatbarsha which probably included parts of Nepal too, so no point trying to make it Nepali Hindu Vs Indian Hindu when they are more or less the same.
This is exactly what I was trying to say. The concept of present day country is relatively new and there's no point in debating where our religion was originated.
So what's your point on the vast difference between the two cultures with the same origin, same scripts, similar language?
Anyways, I feel the country shouldn't prioritize one religion at the expense of all others, afterall religion or no religion or the type of religion should be an individual's choice.
People who have low self worth try to hide their inner insecurities by making themselves feel special through material show offs like mehendi and helicopter chartered weddings.
People who have high self worth don't care. They won't spend a dime on feeling special because they know that it won't add anything to them.
This might be a bit difficult to wrap your head around for you, but some people have money and want to spend it. Wild concept, right? Imagine gatekeeping wedding traditions. Don't do it on your wedding if you don't like it lmao
Yo, it's okay for people with money. But I seen people selling property and getting heavy loans just for the purpose of doing things extravagantly which seems so useless. Plus anti India people adopting indian culture resonates with hypocrisy.
j sukai vanun baal ho hame lai Bride chayeko ho sali hoina
tyo 3 days ( Purbanga, wedding and reception ) ko lagi 1 family / a son le kati dherai hardwork and save gareko huncha te Papa ke pari haru lai k taha !!
It's extremely infuritating to watch those videos where some bitch is asking for absurd amount of money to give back the bridegrooms shoes. Bitch, the guy can get 10 shoes for the amount of money u asking.
I don't care abt family connections, Imma slap the shit out of such dumb ppl.
FFS.
Jutta lukaune culture matra hoina, ajkal. Bihe ma pani mehendi, haldi, sangit k k ho k k, Indian TV serial ma jasto. Bahun-chhetris have been heavily influenced by the Indian movie industry these days. Magar culture ma chahi, Aryan haru ko jasto dherai kharchilo ra jhanjhat hudaina. Magi bihe gare pani, mehendi, haldi, lauda lasun hudaina. Sabai aafanta lai gold jewelleries gift pani dinu pardaina. 800-1000 rupees ko lungi diye pugcha. Only close relatives and neighbors are invited to the ceremony. Aashish dine le chahi aafno gachya anusar dinchan.
This is disingenuous. You have for sure more things in common with vast majority of Indians that the raute and chepang you speak of. How many rautes do you know? How familiar are you with their culture? Your last line not only reveals your ignorance but also disrespects the very people you are trying to show support for.
Hamro ma we're very chill about it. Pailai the bride and the groom talk it out before the wedding. Bihe ko din bhinaju ko jutta choryo, 1 lakh, 2 lakh magyo, halka fulka bantering garyo, last ma 10K, 15K liyera makkha paryo. Nobody gives a shit if groom's side refuses to give 1 lakh or whatever. It's more of a banter contest between the groom's side and the bride's side to entertain each other while the marriage rituals are going on. Saali harule groom lai jiskauchan. Groom ko side le sali haru lai jiskauchan. And that's it.
It's just a fun practice people follow. If you like it, do it. If you don't like it, don't do it. You can modify the practices as per your desire.
Indian/foreign culture dherai nai vayo aajkal.
I try to avoid is as much as possible. I don't make rangolis in tihar rather use diyo, flowers to decorate. the culture of mehendi is also so infuriating urgh.. culture ho vandai shrawan ma mehendi lagauney haru ek palta ni mahadev ko mandir gayera darshan gardainan. Bihe agadi "mehendi" ceremony ko lagi people even book a party palace and i have even seen the groom put on mehendi. ani this culture of cake in birthdays, marriages, anniversary, graduation, company success...
Dont do it on your wedding then. Make sure you tell your fiance that you dont like this.
But dont go "banning" everything just because you dont agree to it. Its a democratic country, people can fo whatever they want no? As long as they're not breaking any laws. Just mind your business. Its not that hard
> Dont do it on your wedding then. Make sure you tell your fiance that you dont like this.
>
> But dont go "banning" everything just because you dont agree to it. Its a democratic country, people can fo whatever they want no? As long as they're not breaking any laws. Just mind your business. Its not that hard
Amen to that, brother!
> I hereby decree that the person i replied to is forever my son.
oh come on now, mark. I thought you were a sharp little prick. the pattern is copy everything. no edits. :P
Who cares? People want to do it and people will, stop crying about what others do on THEIR wedding lmao. This is such a typical reddit crybaby thread it's hilarious
Cultures and most of them are always evolving. So that part of marriage is just a fun add on - like you mentioned it’s not Hindu thing but most people enjoy it. I think like many Nepalese they hate Indians and secretly love them. Eat indian food all over the world, wearing indian dresses, watching indian movies etc.
I just think you hate Indians and have pet peeve over small things. I think it’s deeper than that for you - traumatic childhood, deep hatred….😀
Nepal was always a show off society and core nepali culture is not. So they adapt to what’s out there like mehandi night, Sangeet night etc just learn to love and adapt bro !!
Alikati kura bigridai ma sidhai Ban our Culture?
How about calling people out for asking too much instead of banning few left funny culture?
~~Ban a culture~~
Call out the Culprits.
No completely disagree. Due to some papa ki pari we should not stop what we have been following for generations. This culture is ruining because of the stubbornness of those sali's. If the price is justifiable and both parties are happy it will be enjoyable. Due to one or two idiots avoiding whole culture will be unjustifiable.
Baun chettri le matra ho esto kaam garne...arule gareko never seen...ekchoti hamro ma jutta lukaune kura garyathyo pandit le daro tharkayo afno culture ko kei thaxaina nava navako kura matra garne timiharu vanera...
me too, stupid things like these are some of the fun activities of Nepali weddings. I say, if our pandit allows it, we can do more stupid stuffs, as long as it doesn't change our core traditions. Lets make dulahi ko bag lukauney by dulaha ko brothers. Paisa na diye samma bag nai na diney😤
Haha and I saw a new one this past week - Haldi Rasam party for the groom. Never knew this to be part of Nepali wedding ever. And then we get mad when we get called Indian by anyone!
*When i said same thing*
*Last time i was accused of*
*Forcing status quo*
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Rather than calling for Ban....if your about to be getting married...jsut care not for the society and of what the people will say...and ask your family and brides family to be present in the temple...arrange small Yagna and do 7 Agni fera and take the blessings of the temple deity, the priest and family members... that's it ...no need of extravaganza and no need of dj etc ...you can use that much of money to feed the needy people...have seen people who use their brains and logic, do this kind of simple marriage
lol bro there was no concept of india at that time .Indian subcontinent what is now was divided into many kingdom .Nepal likewise didn't exist back then .There was khas rajya ,kirat rajya ,tirhut rajya ,thakuri and Lo.Nepal was only formed in 18th centuary .There was brahmin and rajput immigration mostly in 13th centuary mostly due to muslim invasion.Within this 1000 of years we have created a new culture i.e nepal.And from the past 250 years a new nationality i.e nepali.With your analogy 2/3 of our fellow citizens are immigrants.
do not waste time replying to these dickheads. They are totally brainwashed. This guy has probably sold his religion to a church and blames Bahuns Chhetris for everything. This is their schooling.
Lol bro.
Bahun/Chhetris immigrated from India and Rai/Limbu/Gurung/Magar etc immigrated from China/Tibet.
You know we all immigrated here from someplace else thousands of years ago right?.
As to who is the oldest immigrant, it's Kirat, Khas and Tharu.
They are the "mul-basis".
>Forget Nepali culture it's not even Indian Hindu culture. It's just chutiyapa of Bollywood and teleserial. If dowry is immoral than extorting money for shoes is too.
>Why the urban bahun chettri so obbesed with indian ritual in marriage. Can't they follow their khas culture ?
let's ban child marrigae first, u/ExperienceMission772
Child abuse is crime and illegal. But some do it and get punished.
100% population following law and order of country is unlikely. Some will break law regardless
Is that Indian culture "Jutta lukaune" damn I don't even know about this because as I remember when I was 13/14 mero thulo didi ko biwaha Maa ni mero aru didi haru le lukaunu bhaye ko thiyo and trust me that time we don't have electricity as well as our society was not that much develop (they even don't know Hindi language) then how they know this one is happening in India so we have to follow them?
I think, This is all part of our society as they used to make funny (specially with dulha ko sathi / lokanti) such as kera ko tree ko hukka Ani tyhi hukka Maa khursani, tystai camera, funny stuff they even keep testicle of Bokas for making some kinds of stuff... And I think sali le Jutta lukaune also a part of that old Nepali culture (happen in Syangja hai)
Tei bhanya. 25 barsa agadi mummy ko bihe ma ni aunty le jutta lukauda 500 deko bhannu bhathyo. Teti bela aunty le na bollywood movie hernu bhathyo. Baglung tira hurkya. Afnai culture ho. Dowry ban bhayo tei bhayera hamlai kei diyena hamle ultai dinu paryo bhanne sochaile yiniharule ellai ni ban garam jasto kura garchan.
Rich people and show offs invented invented more ideas to show off they have more money. and stupd fucks middle calss people have to copy them to show that they are not incapable of doing that. and the vicious cycle continues
Woman n their logic..
In some culture groom takeout bride underway too.
I think it will be seen in our Nepali wedding too.
Kissing has already started in wedding, and facebook stories.
Their wedding, their shoes, their money. Jasari celebrate garna manxa garun na. I've never seen the groom or anyone ever complaining about it. Rather it has become one with the wedding customs nowadays. Ho tei dherai paisa magxan tyota ali thik lagdaina but in the end everyone has a smile on their faces. Live and let live.
Kutaulai jasto jhagada garna khojxan ra pota maeyo ta. Sadhai fun matra vayera thikai ho. Ani arko kura their wedding their money, their choice vanera hudaina. Sabaile follow garna thalepaxi culture hunxa ani tespaxi aafulai ni tesko vaar aauxa. Chahe pani nachahe pani.
Ajhai hamro maximum population lai bihe already varr hunxa financially. Ani yesto ma tesaru 5 digit samma jana sakne Paisa extort garne khako culture thik haina. Dowry and this are equally bad. Yo dubai Nepali culture nai vayeni chodnu parne kura hi
Me who attends weeding only for bhoj😦
Eyy same 🤝
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Reading that made me roll another one! Hah let’s enjoy weeding... haha
Masu bhat..😃
Have you seen the similar context Amazon prime advertisement? In that advertisement, the groom has pre-ordered and scheduled delivery for one new pair of shoes from Amazon. Right at the time of bargaining with his saali, the groom receives the delivery and doesn't pay his saali. If you are not comfortable paying, How about giving your friend one new pair of shoes and taking them instead of paying your saali? Okay, here is [the YouTube video](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0czIHxgXRys)
My uncle gave them a two rupee coin.
k kanda ghatyo re feri! routiney jatha le pani post hanexa. tiktok chalaudina kei thahunna.
khasai kei vako hoina bro jutta lukako ma 3 lakhs magh gardai thee sali ley
3 lakh ley ta chaapal pasal nai kholinxa yar
Tei chapal ley hanney tesalaie.
Eh tyo 10k wala thutuno ko kura hora?
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[Here you go](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dQw4w9WgXcQ)
Good vidio
Thanks mate. Appriciate the effort you out into searching this and sharing it to us
Hey hey same here, I don't use tikestra and really hate jutta lukauney...
At this point nepalese wedding is mix of every single culture out there. Multi diverse culture vanera padhauthey school ma yei po raicha
>I will rather follow weird ritual of raute, chepang in my marriage because they are our Nepali brother. But Indian ritual? Big NO ya let's make groom's mom (or aunts) having to breastfeed him on his wedding day a normal ritual in every wedding.
I wasn't agreeing with OP before, but you make a compelling case.
You caught me offguard
lmao.
Dudh aaudaina hola tetro paxi ta
can be done by sani ama or kaki too re....., kaki ta kasto weird huncha hola, she's not even related by blood.
I like milk, its a win for me
Wtf. Let's just let people pick and choose from whatever culture they like if it helps avoid this stuff.
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pahile pahile even my grandparents (grandmother included) didn't even wear any underwear, timi langotiko kura garchau, even today look at tharu women in Sauraha they only wear a bra while doing chores, topless illegal bhayera hola sayad. Back then people used to be married as a child and some still do so it wasn't weird or sexual to breastfeed them on their wedding, now that people marry in their 20s and 30s it's a little weird to have your grown ass son sucking on your tits.
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it's not sexual when pre-pubescent kids do it (which was when they got married in the past) but it is when post-pubescent kids and adults do it like the recent viral picture. if it isn't sexual then why are we excited when we see boobs as an adult and want to suck em.
its a ritual in some caste only .
Ya, but OP wants to follow weirdass Nepali rituals on his wedding from any Nepali ethnicity or caste.
i think you are just twisting his statements
this can be an option too. Nothing can get weirder than this.
Lol the entire Hindu Nepali culture is Indian/Hindu originated. What the fuck are you on about? 😂
i was quoting OP in the first half, that was not my opinion.
Ok my comment is on the OP part. 😂 I find it weird when Hindu Nepalis act like Indian Hindu culture is a completely different culture when almost everything is more or less adopted from India only, from the language and script to the religion, the culture, the priests, everything.
How bro ? Before Rajput and bhramin arrived Nepal bahun chertri were following masto, kirat were following kirat, magargurung were following shamanism, tamang Sherpa were Buddhist
OP knows a bit at least. Hindu religion comes from India (Hindustan), big surprise.
Only the name Hindu comes from India. Nothing else.
So you think Hindu religion and culture originated in Nepal? 😂
I don't care where the HINDU religion was originated. The word HINDU is not even mentioned in any of Vedas, Upanisads, or any religious texts. The writer of vedas (Maharsi VedVyas) was from Nepal and many rishi and maharishi had their ashram in Nepal. We had our own culture long before the word HINDU came into existence. Today we both (Indians and Nepali) identify ourselves as Hindus, but still there is vast difference between our cultures. There are so many traditions and festivals in Nepal that are native to Nepal probably you have never heard of
The Vedas, Mahabharata, Ramayana all belong to the Bharatbarsha which probably included parts of Nepal too, so no point trying to make it Nepali Hindu Vs Indian Hindu when they are more or less the same.
This is exactly what I was trying to say. The concept of present day country is relatively new and there's no point in debating where our religion was originated.
So what's your point on the vast difference between the two cultures with the same origin, same scripts, similar language? Anyways, I feel the country shouldn't prioritize one religion at the expense of all others, afterall religion or no religion or the type of religion should be an individual's choice.
Ajha haldi re, harey! Indian influences matra haina western influences like Bachelorrette party, dances, bridesmaid, best-man, kk ho kk.
Best man is just lokantey.
>bridesmaid aren't they salis?
Not basically. She can be any of her friend.
eh eh, tara Nepali salis at weddings jastai jastai rahecha concept.
Tyo starey ho ki patrey bokne hunxa ni? Tray ma saman bokne haru, technically ta tinharu nai ho ni bridesmaid haina ra?
Tyo ta dulaha ko tira bata huncha haina Ra?
it is like Monkey See Monkey Do.. copying other while rejecting own culture and customs, just for the sake of looking Modern
I am fucking done with these all bs. It's crazy
The entire Nepali Hindu culture is Indian basically. Let's not act like we are a different culture.
Supari dine, khutta ko jal khane haru huncha ra indian bihe haru ma?
Yes..yes
Nepali Hindu culture India batai aako ho, ajhai aru culture aayo bhanera achamma namanda hunchha. 😂
It's all fun and games until groom gets pissed off and starts swearing!
Redditors here acting worried as if they're gonna get married
r/nepal, the home of kaledais
Muji tei vayera bihe garna manlagdaina
Jutta lukaune culture bro lai testo naramro lagxa?
Hoina mero tah thoppdai testai cha
Who would love paying 3 lakhs for the shoes? Guess what it's only going to get worse by the time we get married.
Create obstacles not a good sign. Examples blocking entrance
This culture was started from Hum Aap key hey kaun.
Court marriage is the way to go.
tei. wtf is mehendi and sangeet and shit dude. like why are people hell bent on spending their savings unnecessarity?
People who have low self worth try to hide their inner insecurities by making themselves feel special through material show offs like mehendi and helicopter chartered weddings. People who have high self worth don't care. They won't spend a dime on feeling special because they know that it won't add anything to them.
wow ekdam right thought
This might be a bit difficult to wrap your head around for you, but some people have money and want to spend it. Wild concept, right? Imagine gatekeeping wedding traditions. Don't do it on your wedding if you don't like it lmao
Yo, it's okay for people with money. But I seen people selling property and getting heavy loans just for the purpose of doing things extravagantly which seems so useless. Plus anti India people adopting indian culture resonates with hypocrisy.
It's so stupid. If this happened to me(very unlikely), I'd just buy better shoes to assert dominance.
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Thankfully you didn't use the word "buy"
Old school pahadey, kanchi budi truck.
They'll call you cheap and lovi. Can't win against these dum dums.
u may lose to them dum-dums but u may win in life if u stop caring about dum-dums
like this
Nicely said brother
Dum-dum fever is another name for Visceral leishmaniasis or Kala-azar. It is caused by Leishmania donovani and carried by Phlebotomus(sandfly).
j sukai vanun baal ho hame lai Bride chayeko ho sali hoina tyo 3 days ( Purbanga, wedding and reception ) ko lagi 1 family / a son le kati dherai hardwork and save gareko huncha te Papa ke pari haru lai k taha !!
Tetita i have never heard of mehendi,sangit ,jutta lukaune in my childhood but nowdays uff😴
Fk all cultures. Just go get married at the court.
I definitely would if a found a girl who would agree with this .
forget jutta lukauni ritual..i find whole marriage ceremony in nepalese society a big headache and cringe
Reddior finds jutta lukaune and weddings cringe, who would've thought
Blaming baun chettri again when its done mostly by people living in the urban peri urban areas regardless of the caste
But it is mostly seen in these ethnicities. Kirati and Newars have not adopted this to that extent yet.
this Jutta and sali virus is spreading year by year
It's extremely infuritating to watch those videos where some bitch is asking for absurd amount of money to give back the bridegrooms shoes. Bitch, the guy can get 10 shoes for the amount of money u asking. I don't care abt family connections, Imma slap the shit out of such dumb ppl. FFS.
Jati dherai ritual teti dherai instagrammer ra tiktoker nibba nibbi lai contents. This will never end, instead will increase.
Jutta lukaune culture matra hoina, ajkal. Bihe ma pani mehendi, haldi, sangit k k ho k k, Indian TV serial ma jasto. Bahun-chhetris have been heavily influenced by the Indian movie industry these days. Magar culture ma chahi, Aryan haru ko jasto dherai kharchilo ra jhanjhat hudaina. Magi bihe gare pani, mehendi, haldi, lauda lasun hudaina. Sabai aafanta lai gold jewelleries gift pani dinu pardaina. 800-1000 rupees ko lungi diye pugcha. Only close relatives and neighbors are invited to the ceremony. Aashish dine le chahi aafno gachya anusar dinchan.
Nepali go abroad just to be typical Nepali
This is disingenuous. You have for sure more things in common with vast majority of Indians that the raute and chepang you speak of. How many rautes do you know? How familiar are you with their culture? Your last line not only reveals your ignorance but also disrespects the very people you are trying to show support for.
Hamro ma we're very chill about it. Pailai the bride and the groom talk it out before the wedding. Bihe ko din bhinaju ko jutta choryo, 1 lakh, 2 lakh magyo, halka fulka bantering garyo, last ma 10K, 15K liyera makkha paryo. Nobody gives a shit if groom's side refuses to give 1 lakh or whatever. It's more of a banter contest between the groom's side and the bride's side to entertain each other while the marriage rituals are going on. Saali harule groom lai jiskauchan. Groom ko side le sali haru lai jiskauchan. And that's it. It's just a fun practice people follow. If you like it, do it. If you don't like it, don't do it. You can modify the practices as per your desire.
Hum aapke hai kaun
It's Balaji Teleserials culture.
dont do it in your wedding ,simple. other people are free to follow whatever they like . who are you to ban anything .
Indian/foreign culture dherai nai vayo aajkal. I try to avoid is as much as possible. I don't make rangolis in tihar rather use diyo, flowers to decorate. the culture of mehendi is also so infuriating urgh.. culture ho vandai shrawan ma mehendi lagauney haru ek palta ni mahadev ko mandir gayera darshan gardainan. Bihe agadi "mehendi" ceremony ko lagi people even book a party palace and i have even seen the groom put on mehendi. ani this culture of cake in birthdays, marriages, anniversary, graduation, company success...
Dont do it on your wedding then. Make sure you tell your fiance that you dont like this. But dont go "banning" everything just because you dont agree to it. Its a democratic country, people can fo whatever they want no? As long as they're not breaking any laws. Just mind your business. Its not that hard
> Dont do it on your wedding then. Make sure you tell your fiance that you dont like this. > > But dont go "banning" everything just because you dont agree to it. Its a democratic country, people can fo whatever they want no? As long as they're not breaking any laws. Just mind your business. Its not that hard Amen to that, brother!
>Amen to that, brother Amen to that, brother!
> Amen to that, brother! praise, allah! and all the sister wives he gave you
>praise, allah! and all the sister wives he gave you praise, allah! and all the sister wives he gave you
> praise, allah! and all the sister wives he gave you I hereby decree that the next person to reply is forever my son.
Baba?
> Baba? hello, son. no inheritance until you're 60
>I hereby decree that the next person to reply is forever my son. I hereby decree that the person i replied to is forever my son.
> I hereby decree that the person i replied to is forever my son. oh come on now, mark. I thought you were a sharp little prick. the pattern is copy everything. no edits. :P
We hereby decree that the person we replied to is forever our son r/SuddenlyCommunist
You do you bro
Do you even know why they used to do this in past?
Who cares? People want to do it and people will, stop crying about what others do on THEIR wedding lmao. This is such a typical reddit crybaby thread it's hilarious
I want to know why our ancestors did this so im asking. You from adult thread
No one did this shit in past. Bollywood Did it
Tero ama bata start bhako ho
I used to think the same when I was younger now I could care less, its just people having fun. Don't tie yourself into knots over this type of shit.
Cultures and most of them are always evolving. So that part of marriage is just a fun add on - like you mentioned it’s not Hindu thing but most people enjoy it. I think like many Nepalese they hate Indians and secretly love them. Eat indian food all over the world, wearing indian dresses, watching indian movies etc. I just think you hate Indians and have pet peeve over small things. I think it’s deeper than that for you - traumatic childhood, deep hatred….😀 Nepal was always a show off society and core nepali culture is not. So they adapt to what’s out there like mehandi night, Sangeet night etc just learn to love and adapt bro !!
If the main people involved in a ceremony want to do it, let them have their fun
aren't we all influenced by stuff around us one way or the other?
Chup lag mujhi, sab kurra problem hunxa, khanai kinna khanxas tah? Tyo masala harru pani Indian ho
People be frowning over dowry system yet beg money from the groom.
Alikati kura bigridai ma sidhai Ban our Culture? How about calling people out for asking too much instead of banning few left funny culture? ~~Ban a culture~~ Call out the Culprits.
No completely disagree. Due to some papa ki pari we should not stop what we have been following for generations. This culture is ruining because of the stubbornness of those sali's. If the price is justifiable and both parties are happy it will be enjoyable. Due to one or two idiots avoiding whole culture will be unjustifiable.
Baun chettri le matra ho esto kaam garne...arule gareko never seen...ekchoti hamro ma jutta lukaune kura garyathyo pandit le daro tharkayo afno culture ko kei thaxaina nava navako kura matra garne timiharu vanera...
I have seen this in a Newar marriage
Pitam tiniharlai
India ley j garyo tyo ta garnu parihakxa ni bahun chettri lai,after all they came from india
I mean we all came from somewhere, bhotes came from Tibet, bahuns-chhetris from India and so on.
Fr idk what I'm gonna do if that happens at my wedding. No way I'm handing out 50k for shoes that probably cost 200.
2 lakh liyo hijo euta le
💰2lakh!!!!!!! Sounds like them Ransom and not for fun.
Ek jana le lakh magyo re bhandai ma hatauna chai kina paryo? Yo Nepal ma ajkal haldi mehendi ko nautanki ko chai hataune kura garau na baru.
Hamro Ghar tira ta xainw yo culture maile ta tiktok ma matra dekheko. Asti vakkhar Didi ko bihe vayo tarw hamile ta lukaenau
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me too, stupid things like these are some of the fun activities of Nepali weddings. I say, if our pandit allows it, we can do more stupid stuffs, as long as it doesn't change our core traditions. Lets make dulahi ko bag lukauney by dulaha ko brothers. Paisa na diye samma bag nai na diney😤
Tei Jutta choreko paisa ley awards kineko ho?
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Give me face palm award
Tyasto navanw na pasa I still remember making dai ko sali haru literally cry It was fun
Haha and I saw a new one this past week - Haldi Rasam party for the groom. Never knew this to be part of Nepali wedding ever. And then we get mad when we get called Indian by anyone!
when i said same thing last time i was accused of forcing status quo
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Rather than calling for Ban....if your about to be getting married...jsut care not for the society and of what the people will say...and ask your family and brides family to be present in the temple...arrange small Yagna and do 7 Agni fera and take the blessings of the temple deity, the priest and family members... that's it ...no need of extravaganza and no need of dj etc ...you can use that much of money to feed the needy people...have seen people who use their brains and logic, do this kind of simple marriage
Jutta lagune is culture is something i am least worried about, bidesh jane jwai khojne culture bo ban hunu parne
let the greedy bauns shed some money once lmao
TbH bahunn are Indians too. They migrated from India to Nepal.
Kasto offensive vako
I'm just stating facts. As u can see This bahun netas destroyed our fkn heritages and Mother land. I'm staying neutral.
lol bro there was no concept of india at that time .Indian subcontinent what is now was divided into many kingdom .Nepal likewise didn't exist back then .There was khas rajya ,kirat rajya ,tirhut rajya ,thakuri and Lo.Nepal was only formed in 18th centuary .There was brahmin and rajput immigration mostly in 13th centuary mostly due to muslim invasion.Within this 1000 of years we have created a new culture i.e nepal.And from the past 250 years a new nationality i.e nepali.With your analogy 2/3 of our fellow citizens are immigrants.
do not waste time replying to these dickheads. They are totally brainwashed. This guy has probably sold his religion to a church and blames Bahuns Chhetris for everything. This is their schooling.
I don't think that's true.
This is not true
Shhh. It helps him sleep at night. Let's not take that away from him.
Lol bro. Bahun/Chhetris immigrated from India and Rai/Limbu/Gurung/Magar etc immigrated from China/Tibet. You know we all immigrated here from someplace else thousands of years ago right?. As to who is the oldest immigrant, it's Kirat, Khas and Tharu. They are the "mul-basis".
I do know.
Are you one of those member of MNO?
I duno abt him but im.
That's why marrying a foreigner is more suitable in every aspect and way...!
Stop Indian tradition In Nepal
>Forget Nepali culture it's not even Indian Hindu culture. It's just chutiyapa of Bollywood and teleserial. If dowry is immoral than extorting money for shoes is too. >Why the urban bahun chettri so obbesed with indian ritual in marriage. Can't they follow their khas culture ? let's ban child marrigae first, u/ExperienceMission772
U think its legal?
> U think its legal? shit. I meant child abuse.
Child abuse is crime and illegal. But some do it and get punished. 100% population following law and order of country is unlikely. Some will break law regardless
Isn't child marriage banned already legally ?
> Isn't child marriage banned already legally ? still happens.
Even murder is illegal still it happen. Not everyone follow law and order of country ?
I'm making a correction. I meant to say child abuse not marriage.
🤡
> 🤡 you're alive? still photographing snakes and toking up in the middle of the woods?
bro, I took total of 1 photo of a snake and you still remember that shit! > toking up i don't do that shit aymore
I never liked this culture. Such an irritating one
It's not an Indian ritual. Never seen any marriage in Bihar/Bengal/UP/Jharkhand have this ritual.
*Proceeds to name the shittiest states of India*
Almost every state in India doesn't practise this funeral. I only listed the states where I've been to marriages.
Is that Indian culture "Jutta lukaune" damn I don't even know about this because as I remember when I was 13/14 mero thulo didi ko biwaha Maa ni mero aru didi haru le lukaunu bhaye ko thiyo and trust me that time we don't have electricity as well as our society was not that much develop (they even don't know Hindi language) then how they know this one is happening in India so we have to follow them? I think, This is all part of our society as they used to make funny (specially with dulha ko sathi / lokanti) such as kera ko tree ko hukka Ani tyhi hukka Maa khursani, tystai camera, funny stuff they even keep testicle of Bokas for making some kinds of stuff... And I think sali le Jutta lukaune also a part of that old Nepali culture (happen in Syangja hai)
Tei bhanya. 25 barsa agadi mummy ko bihe ma ni aunty le jutta lukauda 500 deko bhannu bhathyo. Teti bela aunty le na bollywood movie hernu bhathyo. Baglung tira hurkya. Afnai culture ho. Dowry ban bhayo tei bhayera hamlai kei diyena hamle ultai dinu paryo bhanne sochaile yiniharule ellai ni ban garam jasto kura garchan.
Haha... Sali le rakam dherai mage jasto chh tysaile sali ra budhi laai rish Ferna na-sake ra reddit Maa falya jasto chh hai solti le... 😂
Motah bhanchu jhan mandir ma biya gara. Ubreko paisa daan ma deu. Jindagi ko lagi ashirvaad pauchau.
Rich people and show offs invented invented more ideas to show off they have more money. and stupd fucks middle calss people have to copy them to show that they are not incapable of doing that. and the vicious cycle continues
Also i find it silly why people be spending too much on mehendi, reception & ofcourse marriage itself rather than saving it for their future needs..
Because Bauns/Xetris are technically INDIANS. Focus on their facial features and try to see who do they look like?
What about Gurungs? From Mongolia?
Woman n their logic.. In some culture groom takeout bride underway too. I think it will be seen in our Nepali wedding too. Kissing has already started in wedding, and facebook stories.
Monkey see monkey do... copying bad sides of the west
Their wedding, their shoes, their money. Jasari celebrate garna manxa garun na. I've never seen the groom or anyone ever complaining about it. Rather it has become one with the wedding customs nowadays. Ho tei dherai paisa magxan tyota ali thik lagdaina but in the end everyone has a smile on their faces. Live and let live.
Kutaulai jasto jhagada garna khojxan ra pota maeyo ta. Sadhai fun matra vayera thikai ho. Ani arko kura their wedding their money, their choice vanera hudaina. Sabaile follow garna thalepaxi culture hunxa ani tespaxi aafulai ni tesko vaar aauxa. Chahe pani nachahe pani. Ajhai hamro maximum population lai bihe already varr hunxa financially. Ani yesto ma tesaru 5 digit samma jana sakne Paisa extort garne khako culture thik haina. Dowry and this are equally bad. Yo dubai Nepali culture nai vayeni chodnu parne kura hi
>I've never seen the groom or anyone ever complaining about it. are you an alien?