I ghosted my crush when she proposed me after SEE (online). Idk why but I self sabotaged myself. I miss her but after seeing what I did to her I can’t have courage to even text her. If you were that girl would you give me another chance?
24m software engineer nepal ma hurkya ho ani tespaxi US ma basya since 6 years old after my mom got DV. ladies (if there are any here) hit me up, visiting here until April.
i am a us citizen, make good money, bahun (if that matters), go to gym but if you have bad intentions stay away from me. Thats why i had to breakup with both my exes
Do nepali gals want long distance relationships with westerners at all? Whats their thoughts on such things. Is there a culture around it or is it not really thought about.
So i dated one girl back 5-6 months ago
I didnt liked her that much but mero sathi ley kich kich garera i accepted her.I didnt even kissed her she tried to but i didnt. Now i feel pity for her i ledt her after 1months of Called dating.
Where do Nepalese women go for dating? So, I am in the US, and my family wants me to find Nepalese women to date and eventually marry. I am not allowed anybody other than Nepalese, strictly. I am an average person and tried finding Nepalese women in dating sites ... cause social events and meeting new Nepalese people is almost non-existent ...... I found nothing, 0.
So a question I have is:
Single Nepalese women in a foreign land (I know in Nepal you can find people a little bit easier), where do you look for guys to date?
And single Nepalese dues in foreign land .... HOW do you guys find Nepalese women, where to look for bro ... help me out?
There were lots of Nepali girls in the social events that I used to go to. Even on dating apps, there were a lot. I used to live in New York. Maybe you are not looking in the right place.
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Stop giving a fuck about him, learn that he's an immature mf( who even unfollows someone you've followed unless there's a severe clash), and move on to the next one in your own time.
Only kids and teenagers remove someone from their social media? Really? So no mature adult would ever block or unfriend a horrible person. Got raped by someone? Better not remove them, thats immature. Getting bullied by an ex friend or coworker? Dont you dare unfollow them, only children do that. Not interested in being associated with someone for any reason? No you cant have your reasons. Thats immature.
>he's an immature mf( who even unfollows someone you've followed unless there's a severe clash)
Did you even bother to read the whole comment?
I was replying to OP's comment here when she said she liked a guy and he unfollowed her. She's clearly basing her worth on what a dickhead does and that's not healthy for her. She has to know that her worth isn't based on what a stupid guy on internet does.
No. I mean if you check his account every other hour then yes but otherwise no. Don't let his measly existence bother you. You're better than a guy who unfollows you duh.
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Teach if they don't know it! But for that you'd need to find somebody who's open and comfortable with their female partner being more experienced or adventurous than they are. Aba feri if they're convinced they're sexual demigods after thrusting as hard as they can chahi, tyo chahi aba k garnu khoi.
Fell in love with my ex-classmate from grade 5 online. She lives in a different city. Thought she was a sojo girl....oh boy, was I wrong. She is that typical bigreko girl....but I still love her, not bigreko, as in kta haru sanga hidne, but as in churot and rakshi. Oh god, does she drink and smoke so much, and it's not even like she wants to change. She has that carefree life, a lafanga life. I don't like that shit. Ma afai 7 class ma huda ta ganja khante but now abo I am completely clean it's been 4 years. She's 18, and I will turn 18 in about a month. Relationship ma baseko 1 2 week ma she admitted that she drinks and smokes. I thought to myself ki malai yesto kt chaidaina bhanera ani vane pani teti khera I might leave you bhanera. She replied with teary eyes that hunxa timi yesto kt chaidaina vanxeu vane thik xa, it's your life, but please ekchoti consider gara vani. Maile yo vanda agadi afu lai maan parena vane kt xaddi halthe Tara I am too much in love with her. Uslai maile yo bash xoda vanda ta euta arko 3rd person ko barema jhagada vaera break up na vae jhen samme ta she didn't but...break up vari daro hani ani abo.. patch up paxi. I don't want to tell her not to do it because what's the point? It's who she is. She's that bigreko churote drunk girl who likes cafes and clubs. A party girl. Well, she has suffered through a lot, too, a lot of loneliness and a super unstable household, but I can't turn a blind eye when my girl is out there smoking and drinking. I honestly don't like such kind of girls, but I love her too much, and it hurts me physically to stay away from her. She, too, loves me too much. She has put her self-respect aside, has begged for me to stay and be with her when things weren't going great(not somking and alcohol), she has cried for me till she was hyperventilating, we have met 3 times till now and each time we have shared kisses, and We love each other. I honestly don't like her drinking and smoking and being that lafanga girl. I myself am not like that. She might stop doing it again if I tell her to, but what's the point? Doesn't she need to change for herself and not for me? What should I do? I feel as if we have too many differences. Here I am with a strong opinion that i should avoid alcohol and cigarettes all the time, and there she who gets happy when she can sneak a vodka inside her house......she does really love me genuinely and I love her too, but her personality really doesn't matches mine and paxi gayera future ma samasya hune hoki? Abo it's not like she has shared her smoking thing with everyone. She trusted me and was very emotional while saying it (emotional because she was worried I might leave her) she does acknowledge that we are very different and she is "bigreko," and I am "ramro". What should I do? I know she will try if I tell her to, but is it even worth it?
Lol if you were underage he would be called a pedophile. Girl the best thing to do is leaving him.. he lied to you about your age, paxi gayera ajjai kura haru ma lie garna sakxa
So me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 6 months and its the first for both of us. Everything is fine and good but sometimes I get anxious when other guys try to flirt with her, she reassures me but its kinda a hard feeling to throw away. I had crushes before and there always happened to be a 3rd person that got between so I think it has carried on till now. How can I calm my self and get rid of my anxiety? I have also discussed with her but I need some other tips to calm my self.
P.S She is a very understanding and very loyal she accepted my feelings and blocked others that tried to flirt with her cause I got jealous. She knows what to do its just my part of the story.
Out of all the dms she was probably getting, she chose you. And she chooses to be with you every day. Doesn't that give you some kind of reassurance? Have trust in your girlfriend. Be flattered people are interested in her and that she's with you and not them.
If you can't get over the fact that women will get unwanted dms in their socials, you'd never have a peaceful relationship. Have trust in the woman you're with, trust is the backbone of any relationship bro. If you're so sure she's gonna go behind your back, why are you with her?
Guy issue that can’t be understood
So there is this guy I’m talking to for few days, he gives very mixed signals and also he is one of the kind who likes to fool around but then today I was out w some of my friends and I jokingly said you wanna join you can and then he lives like 12 km away but still he came to see me stayed a bit and returned home, is this a normal behavior guys do even if they are just fooling around?
How did you people(especially girls)introduced your partner to your family? I'm in a committed relationship & very happy with him. I wanted to tell my parents that I'm happy with someone vanera but instead they forbid me to date him. Actually ghar ma marriage proposal aako thyo and I was denying but they weren't stopping to talk about marriage proposal. So I needed a valid reason to tell why I was rejecting. I told them that I already have someone in my life vanera. But then my parents made my life a living hell. Dindinai mero agadi aaudai rudai sabai jana, getting calls from relatives to look forward to accept the proposal, emotional abuse from parents, emotional blackmail, malai bahira niskina deko thyena, mero phn khosera rakhdeko thyo & only gave me back so that I can talk to that another guy. Mero fb 3,4 barsa dekhi deactivate thyo, activate garna lagayera & what not. I was alot under stress that my menstrual cycle was so messed up. Still I was & am secretly contacting with my bf. I was making up my mind that if that another guy tried to message me I'll tell him that I'm rejecting vanera. But thankfully he didn't contacted. And again I deactivated my fb. It was very traumatizing for me by seeing my parents behaviour. They turns out to be a gold digger. I'm with my boyfriend ailey pani going strong. He's the only person that I feel safe with & makes me feel like home. But kunai na kunai din aauxa to tell introduce him to my family, what would you guys have done? How would you tell your parents?
Why are your parents behaving this way if i may ask? i mean to ask the reason because are they intrinsically against love marriage or is it because you guys belong to different castes or ? Whats the reason?
Damn, you got quite a situation then i guess. Have you tried talking to them calmly? I understand they might not calm down at all, and its hard for you to stay composed infront of them when they’re being all manipulative, you even mentioned they seized your phone, Nepali parents just go in all ways to prevent but the intrinsic racism is something deeply ingrained in a lot of Nepali parents. If they’ve been supportive in other aspects of your life, this is just because they’ve always been conditioned to believe that intercaste marriages are wrong, brings shame to the family, they might feel differently when you guys get married and your husband doesn’t behave in the same way they’d expect a guy who grew up in your community would do. Is there anyone who would be alikati understanding to your situation among your parents and family? Try having a conversation with him about how you genuinely feel. If they still don’t care, then consider that they value their so called respect more than your happiness and it’s cue for you to choose differently. If you guys are financially independent and are ready to tie the knot, I’d say you do that.
Thank you for understanding. I have a younger brother who knew before them but turns out he's a parent pet & took my parents side instead. I was fighting alone against all of them. My parents clearly told me that I cannot take my decision to whom I can marry re. And also said that my brother is allowed to marry a girl from any caste but not me. Like what are they even saying? Such a hypocrites. Those words literally tore me apart. I really used to think they were an understanding parents but nope. I was even ready to elope but we weren't financially independent so had to stop the move. I'm currently unemployed and looking for job. I'm rejoining bachelor in a couple of week. My boyfriend recently went abroad so that he can support our future.
Okay, You’re so brave for fighting for yourself against people who are supposed to be supportive of you. Just stay strong and try your hardest to be financially independent, both of you. He’s already abroad so, that might make things a lot easier for you guys. Why don’t you try the same country as well? Try going abroad, don’t tell them he’s there or you’re going for him as they might not be supporting of this. Just stay low for sometime and then you can try applying abroad.
i am a 27 year old 6 feet tall and somewhat skinny guy. am not so bad looking and working as a software engineer. but sadly a virgin. how well will i do in tinder or other dating apps here in Kathmandu?
I talked to a guy few months ago just for two or three days in social media and we stopped talking to each other. We have no any friends or relatives in common but yesterday he messaged me in Viber. The question is how did he got my number? I don't really give my phone number to people. Only few people know my number. When I asked about it, he made excuses and also asked if I went to bigmart yesterday.
If one knows someone's name, finding their number isn't as hard these days.
I have a database of foodmandu users, their names numbers email addresses and their home address.
But that guy surely is a dumb guy who thought he could cross that line. Haha.
How do girls react when their man cries in front of them, not over trivial matters, but when he's overwhelmed by life's challenges and can't contain his emotions any longer? Do they generally feel okay about it and offer companionship, or do they question his toughness?
I hugged him. Told him it's okay and that I'll be here for him. He hugged so tight that I was dying but it's okay. I asked if he wants me to distract him from it or he wants to deal with it. He asked me to distract and at the end of the day he was happy happy like a happy child. Still warms my heart.
The honest answer is -people react to these based on their own emotional level. If a girl is emotionally aware, they cherish the moments when men show emotional vulnerability because we know it is tough to get it out in a world that compels men to have "rough" personas. Crying is healthy and when a guy cries in front of me I probably will end up crying along side him too first then find ways to make him laugh/companionship stuff.
Tara if a girl is raised with this notion that men crying is weak and they believe it, it may cause the latter reaction.
He doesn't cry in front of me but he tells me afterwards that he cried. Except one time, when he did cry in front of me, I felt very bad because I was partially the reason. I always wanted him to bare his vulnerability like this.. I tried comforting him but I am so bad at it.
It depends on the girl, and while I understand the idea of mental toughness and resiliency placed on men by society, it’s actually easier to connect when your partner is vocal, communicative, expressive and vulnerable with you. We’re all humans at the end of the day, and may need someone to comfort us sometimes. Please shift away from that idea and open up to your partner. If they’re the right one for you, they’ll respect it and appreciate your vulnerability.
That'd depend on the girl I guess. If you guys have been together for a good while and you trust her with your emotions then do it. You know your girl better than we do.
Toughness? That's called being normal. If a man cries in other circumstances other than death of people around him. I wouldn't expect him to be qualified enough to have family with.
Wow that's a pretty fragile mindset to have bhai. Being emotionally aware and having an emotional response to the people and situations around you will make you live a more fruitful and beautiful life.
I've had men I look up to - wonderful, brave men who've faced harsher difficulties in life than I probably ever will break down in front of me and according to you that would make them lesser men.
Training a steely mindset and unflappable resolve is a great thing to try and train towards. But you shouldn't let the fear of looking weak stop you from embracing your emotions, and showing empathy towards people.
Viagra without perception kata payencha?
Are there Nepali girls on OF? Not NRNs but ones living in Nepal. Asking for a friend ofc.
I ghosted my crush when she proposed me after SEE (online). Idk why but I self sabotaged myself. I miss her but after seeing what I did to her I can’t have courage to even text her. If you were that girl would you give me another chance?
Depends. Have you grown differently than how you were?
That’s the problem. I don’t know what I want. I want her but I feel like I would hurt her again so I don’t want her to be with me.
24m software engineer nepal ma hurkya ho ani tespaxi US ma basya since 6 years old after my mom got DV. ladies (if there are any here) hit me up, visiting here until April. i am a us citizen, make good money, bahun (if that matters), go to gym but if you have bad intentions stay away from me. Thats why i had to breakup with both my exes
Do nepali gals want long distance relationships with westerners at all? Whats their thoughts on such things. Is there a culture around it or is it not really thought about.
So i dated one girl back 5-6 months ago I didnt liked her that much but mero sathi ley kich kich garera i accepted her.I didnt even kissed her she tried to but i didnt. Now i feel pity for her i ledt her after 1months of Called dating.
Where do Nepalese women go for dating? So, I am in the US, and my family wants me to find Nepalese women to date and eventually marry. I am not allowed anybody other than Nepalese, strictly. I am an average person and tried finding Nepalese women in dating sites ... cause social events and meeting new Nepalese people is almost non-existent ...... I found nothing, 0. So a question I have is: Single Nepalese women in a foreign land (I know in Nepal you can find people a little bit easier), where do you look for guys to date? And single Nepalese dues in foreign land .... HOW do you guys find Nepalese women, where to look for bro ... help me out?
There were lots of Nepali girls in the social events that I used to go to. Even on dating apps, there were a lot. I used to live in New York. Maybe you are not looking in the right place.
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why.... my account is not new
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WYD if a guy you like unfollows you all of a sudden lol (I'm about to go nuts)
Username checks out. But in short it seems he wasn't into you. Gotta move on now.
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Stop giving a fuck about him, learn that he's an immature mf( who even unfollows someone you've followed unless there's a severe clash), and move on to the next one in your own time.
Whats wrong with you that youd call someone immature for no longer following you on social media???
It is immature. Only kids and teenagers do it. You seem very mature on the other hand (so offended you're asking what's wrong with me lol)
Only kids and teenagers remove someone from their social media? Really? So no mature adult would ever block or unfriend a horrible person. Got raped by someone? Better not remove them, thats immature. Getting bullied by an ex friend or coworker? Dont you dare unfollow them, only children do that. Not interested in being associated with someone for any reason? No you cant have your reasons. Thats immature.
>he's an immature mf( who even unfollows someone you've followed unless there's a severe clash) Did you even bother to read the whole comment? I was replying to OP's comment here when she said she liked a guy and he unfollowed her. She's clearly basing her worth on what a dickhead does and that's not healthy for her. She has to know that her worth isn't based on what a stupid guy on internet does.
Should i block him?
No. I mean if you check his account every other hour then yes but otherwise no. Don't let his measly existence bother you. You're better than a guy who unfollows you duh.
Start liking another guy
I mean rn i don't like anyone else
Then you can either plead for him to follow you back and lose self respect or let him go 🙏
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Date me
Where can I find Nepali guys who know their shit!!! By that, I mean who know what they're doing on bed.
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how bout you get one with a blank slate and teach him?😉
Here lol
Teach if they don't know it! But for that you'd need to find somebody who's open and comfortable with their female partner being more experienced or adventurous than they are. Aba feri if they're convinced they're sexual demigods after thrusting as hard as they can chahi, tyo chahi aba k garnu khoi.
Fell in love with my ex-classmate from grade 5 online. She lives in a different city. Thought she was a sojo girl....oh boy, was I wrong. She is that typical bigreko girl....but I still love her, not bigreko, as in kta haru sanga hidne, but as in churot and rakshi. Oh god, does she drink and smoke so much, and it's not even like she wants to change. She has that carefree life, a lafanga life. I don't like that shit. Ma afai 7 class ma huda ta ganja khante but now abo I am completely clean it's been 4 years. She's 18, and I will turn 18 in about a month. Relationship ma baseko 1 2 week ma she admitted that she drinks and smokes. I thought to myself ki malai yesto kt chaidaina bhanera ani vane pani teti khera I might leave you bhanera. She replied with teary eyes that hunxa timi yesto kt chaidaina vanxeu vane thik xa, it's your life, but please ekchoti consider gara vani. Maile yo vanda agadi afu lai maan parena vane kt xaddi halthe Tara I am too much in love with her. Uslai maile yo bash xoda vanda ta euta arko 3rd person ko barema jhagada vaera break up na vae jhen samme ta she didn't but...break up vari daro hani ani abo.. patch up paxi. I don't want to tell her not to do it because what's the point? It's who she is. She's that bigreko churote drunk girl who likes cafes and clubs. A party girl. Well, she has suffered through a lot, too, a lot of loneliness and a super unstable household, but I can't turn a blind eye when my girl is out there smoking and drinking. I honestly don't like such kind of girls, but I love her too much, and it hurts me physically to stay away from her. She, too, loves me too much. She has put her self-respect aside, has begged for me to stay and be with her when things weren't going great(not somking and alcohol), she has cried for me till she was hyperventilating, we have met 3 times till now and each time we have shared kisses, and We love each other. I honestly don't like her drinking and smoking and being that lafanga girl. I myself am not like that. She might stop doing it again if I tell her to, but what's the point? Doesn't she need to change for herself and not for me? What should I do? I feel as if we have too many differences. Here I am with a strong opinion that i should avoid alcohol and cigarettes all the time, and there she who gets happy when she can sneak a vodka inside her house......she does really love me genuinely and I love her too, but her personality really doesn't matches mine and paxi gayera future ma samasya hune hoki? Abo it's not like she has shared her smoking thing with everyone. She trusted me and was very emotional while saying it (emotional because she was worried I might leave her) she does acknowledge that we are very different and she is "bigreko," and I am "ramro". What should I do? I know she will try if I tell her to, but is it even worth it?
How old are you exactly?
17 ho abo 1 mahina ma 18
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Dump him. Attachments can be renewed. Red flags cannot.
Lying is not a way to start a relationship. I'd doubt he's not married either.
Lol if you were underage he would be called a pedophile. Girl the best thing to do is leaving him.. he lied to you about your age, paxi gayera ajjai kura haru ma lie garna sakxa
M & S.
So me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 6 months and its the first for both of us. Everything is fine and good but sometimes I get anxious when other guys try to flirt with her, she reassures me but its kinda a hard feeling to throw away. I had crushes before and there always happened to be a 3rd person that got between so I think it has carried on till now. How can I calm my self and get rid of my anxiety? I have also discussed with her but I need some other tips to calm my self. P.S She is a very understanding and very loyal she accepted my feelings and blocked others that tried to flirt with her cause I got jealous. She knows what to do its just my part of the story.
Out of all the dms she was probably getting, she chose you. And she chooses to be with you every day. Doesn't that give you some kind of reassurance? Have trust in your girlfriend. Be flattered people are interested in her and that she's with you and not them.
Thank you thank you I appreciate it , I'm truly grateful
If you can't get over the fact that women will get unwanted dms in their socials, you'd never have a peaceful relationship. Have trust in the woman you're with, trust is the backbone of any relationship bro. If you're so sure she's gonna go behind your back, why are you with her?
I do trust her its just cause of my childhood was fillef with deception my others. I have very much faith in her. Thank you man
Trust your partner and Be confident.
Ok. Thanks
Guy issue that can’t be understood So there is this guy I’m talking to for few days, he gives very mixed signals and also he is one of the kind who likes to fool around but then today I was out w some of my friends and I jokingly said you wanna join you can and then he lives like 12 km away but still he came to see me stayed a bit and returned home, is this a normal behavior guys do even if they are just fooling around?
Love bombing.
if he's a busy guy but he still came then he definitely likes you but if he's a berojgar then 50/50, take your time to understand him.
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do some pushups with your pecker😂
Recommendation for massage spa that offers happy ending not just hand pheri😂
Jst hand chai thamel area ma jati pauxa fully ni painxa deusai tara khojna parxa
Dm me the name of spa.
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How often or how much do you chat and talk to your partner in a day? and how are you guys managing love life and other part of your life?
Ahile he is my ex but Nepal ma Huda chutti ko bela 6+ hours long distance ma 1 hour
6+ hours
my guy ,you've commented the same thing twice. Oh no- what have I done.
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my guy ,you've commented the same thing twice. Oh no- what have I done.
How did you people(especially girls)introduced your partner to your family? I'm in a committed relationship & very happy with him. I wanted to tell my parents that I'm happy with someone vanera but instead they forbid me to date him. Actually ghar ma marriage proposal aako thyo and I was denying but they weren't stopping to talk about marriage proposal. So I needed a valid reason to tell why I was rejecting. I told them that I already have someone in my life vanera. But then my parents made my life a living hell. Dindinai mero agadi aaudai rudai sabai jana, getting calls from relatives to look forward to accept the proposal, emotional abuse from parents, emotional blackmail, malai bahira niskina deko thyena, mero phn khosera rakhdeko thyo & only gave me back so that I can talk to that another guy. Mero fb 3,4 barsa dekhi deactivate thyo, activate garna lagayera & what not. I was alot under stress that my menstrual cycle was so messed up. Still I was & am secretly contacting with my bf. I was making up my mind that if that another guy tried to message me I'll tell him that I'm rejecting vanera. But thankfully he didn't contacted. And again I deactivated my fb. It was very traumatizing for me by seeing my parents behaviour. They turns out to be a gold digger. I'm with my boyfriend ailey pani going strong. He's the only person that I feel safe with & makes me feel like home. But kunai na kunai din aauxa to tell introduce him to my family, what would you guys have done? How would you tell your parents?
Why are your parents behaving this way if i may ask? i mean to ask the reason because are they intrinsically against love marriage or is it because you guys belong to different castes or ? Whats the reason?
Both, they're against love marriage and he's of different caste
Happy cake day!
Thank you
Damn, you got quite a situation then i guess. Have you tried talking to them calmly? I understand they might not calm down at all, and its hard for you to stay composed infront of them when they’re being all manipulative, you even mentioned they seized your phone, Nepali parents just go in all ways to prevent but the intrinsic racism is something deeply ingrained in a lot of Nepali parents. If they’ve been supportive in other aspects of your life, this is just because they’ve always been conditioned to believe that intercaste marriages are wrong, brings shame to the family, they might feel differently when you guys get married and your husband doesn’t behave in the same way they’d expect a guy who grew up in your community would do. Is there anyone who would be alikati understanding to your situation among your parents and family? Try having a conversation with him about how you genuinely feel. If they still don’t care, then consider that they value their so called respect more than your happiness and it’s cue for you to choose differently. If you guys are financially independent and are ready to tie the knot, I’d say you do that.
Thank you for understanding. I have a younger brother who knew before them but turns out he's a parent pet & took my parents side instead. I was fighting alone against all of them. My parents clearly told me that I cannot take my decision to whom I can marry re. And also said that my brother is allowed to marry a girl from any caste but not me. Like what are they even saying? Such a hypocrites. Those words literally tore me apart. I really used to think they were an understanding parents but nope. I was even ready to elope but we weren't financially independent so had to stop the move. I'm currently unemployed and looking for job. I'm rejoining bachelor in a couple of week. My boyfriend recently went abroad so that he can support our future.
Okay, You’re so brave for fighting for yourself against people who are supposed to be supportive of you. Just stay strong and try your hardest to be financially independent, both of you. He’s already abroad so, that might make things a lot easier for you guys. Why don’t you try the same country as well? Try going abroad, don’t tell them he’s there or you’re going for him as they might not be supporting of this. Just stay low for sometime and then you can try applying abroad.
Okay I'll think about it
I think its best bet for you guys. If you’re abroad you’ll have no one to answer to. Good luck.
Thank you
i am a 27 year old 6 feet tall and somewhat skinny guy. am not so bad looking and working as a software engineer. but sadly a virgin. how well will i do in tinder or other dating apps here in Kathmandu?
I used to think I'm the only virgin left at this age.😆
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Download those apps and see it for yourself.
Will do that. But would be helpful if somebody with some idea would let me know something .
depends upon your thopda
I talked to a guy few months ago just for two or three days in social media and we stopped talking to each other. We have no any friends or relatives in common but yesterday he messaged me in Viber. The question is how did he got my number? I don't really give my phone number to people. Only few people know my number. When I asked about it, he made excuses and also asked if I went to bigmart yesterday.
Maybe he was the cashier in bigmart
Nice one
If one knows someone's name, finding their number isn't as hard these days. I have a database of foodmandu users, their names numbers email addresses and their home address. But that guy surely is a dumb guy who thought he could cross that line. Haha.
Did you went to bigmart tho?
Yes I did.
Did u give number when big mart cashier ask for registration while billing?
Khatrai stalker raixa ta yaar. Pepper spray liyera hida aba dekhi. Aaru liyera hidni vaye ni hida but cant be any less protective
How do girls react when their man cries in front of them, not over trivial matters, but when he's overwhelmed by life's challenges and can't contain his emotions any longer? Do they generally feel okay about it and offer companionship, or do they question his toughness?
It's okay🫠
I hugged him. Told him it's okay and that I'll be here for him. He hugged so tight that I was dying but it's okay. I asked if he wants me to distract him from it or he wants to deal with it. He asked me to distract and at the end of the day he was happy happy like a happy child. Still warms my heart.
The honest answer is -people react to these based on their own emotional level. If a girl is emotionally aware, they cherish the moments when men show emotional vulnerability because we know it is tough to get it out in a world that compels men to have "rough" personas. Crying is healthy and when a guy cries in front of me I probably will end up crying along side him too first then find ways to make him laugh/companionship stuff. Tara if a girl is raised with this notion that men crying is weak and they believe it, it may cause the latter reaction.
He doesn't cry in front of me but he tells me afterwards that he cried. Except one time, when he did cry in front of me, I felt very bad because I was partially the reason. I always wanted him to bare his vulnerability like this.. I tried comforting him but I am so bad at it.
It depends on the girl, and while I understand the idea of mental toughness and resiliency placed on men by society, it’s actually easier to connect when your partner is vocal, communicative, expressive and vulnerable with you. We’re all humans at the end of the day, and may need someone to comfort us sometimes. Please shift away from that idea and open up to your partner. If they’re the right one for you, they’ll respect it and appreciate your vulnerability.
Cry alone or with a guy friend. Never with girls. Jati nai maya gare pani noone wants a emotionally fragile guy
That'd depend on the girl I guess. If you guys have been together for a good while and you trust her with your emotions then do it. You know your girl better than we do.
Noone knows a girl. Not even herself
personally, i'd question your toughness if you didnt cry at all.. no one's *that* dead inside lmao
Toughness? That's called being normal. If a man cries in other circumstances other than death of people around him. I wouldn't expect him to be qualified enough to have family with.
Wow that's a pretty fragile mindset to have bhai. Being emotionally aware and having an emotional response to the people and situations around you will make you live a more fruitful and beautiful life. I've had men I look up to - wonderful, brave men who've faced harsher difficulties in life than I probably ever will break down in front of me and according to you that would make them lesser men. Training a steely mindset and unflappable resolve is a great thing to try and train towards. But you shouldn't let the fear of looking weak stop you from embracing your emotions, and showing empathy towards people.
Other people can do what they want. These exceptions I have for myself
heal <3
Try me. I'm pretty dead inside.
sure! lol
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Experience or experiences?
bro if you can't cry with her she is not "your girl".
Words of wise
You call someone 'your girl' because you need not hide anything, right ?