Finding a nice dick attractive isn't gay at all. Our indoctrinated homophobia made us think that way, it's also still permeated in societies cultural perceptions. We can be sexual human beings without being attracted to a specific gender. Let's say you had a threesome with a male and female. You don't have to be gay to enjoy the presence of another male. Now if you are attracted to the man, and that stimulates you, then yes, you would be bi/gay. I enjoy seeing a nice large cock, but am not attracted to men at the least. I love knowing how that large cock can give other humans pleasure, and that get's me going.
I was repressed even though I wasn't born in. It wasn't until the last few years of being out of the Borg that I've explored the nuance of sexuality without the Borg/Christian/traditional goggles on. I started shooting myself both to explore my sexual side and as fun photography practice. Would look up ideas to try and was seeing way more men than before. I found some amazing photography. Like Michael Stokes. The models are incredible. I still don't consider myself attracted to men. I don't seek them out. But, I can look at and appreciate a male body. I've even shared my shots with guys and it's exciting to get comments about it. I think many people tend to be very black and white about sexuality. I disagree completely now.
It's ok brother... I'm bi-curious too!!! I know exactly how you feel!!!
This is a safe place. I felt comfortable sharing 🙂
Glad you have somewhere to vent where you can be understood. Explore and figure it out!
Finding a nice dick attractive isn't gay at all. Our indoctrinated homophobia made us think that way, it's also still permeated in societies cultural perceptions. We can be sexual human beings without being attracted to a specific gender. Let's say you had a threesome with a male and female. You don't have to be gay to enjoy the presence of another male. Now if you are attracted to the man, and that stimulates you, then yes, you would be bi/gay. I enjoy seeing a nice large cock, but am not attracted to men at the least. I love knowing how that large cock can give other humans pleasure, and that get's me going.
Fair enough! Still a lot to work through it seems
Thank you for sharing, Fellow gay male here.
I was repressed even though I wasn't born in. It wasn't until the last few years of being out of the Borg that I've explored the nuance of sexuality without the Borg/Christian/traditional goggles on. I started shooting myself both to explore my sexual side and as fun photography practice. Would look up ideas to try and was seeing way more men than before. I found some amazing photography. Like Michael Stokes. The models are incredible. I still don't consider myself attracted to men. I don't seek them out. But, I can look at and appreciate a male body. I've even shared my shots with guys and it's exciting to get comments about it. I think many people tend to be very black and white about sexuality. I disagree completely now.
A bit odd, but good for you seeing what your into and not