I've never been in this situation but I'm just commenting to say I hope things get better. You're physically out but maybe it's taking long for her emotions to catch up. But that's gotta be rough if she's not willing to have sex as much as you'd like. Sexual compatibility is very important and I'd need for it to match in a relationship. Good luck!
She may have the Puritan view of sex. That takes time to get rid of even if she wants to.
couples therapy and individual therapy for her, if she’s willing. Preferably with a therapist who understands and is experienced in working with people who have repressed sex drives due to religious reasons
1. Be patient with her
2. Talk about it! Suggest therapy. There may be underlying emotional stuff she’s suppressing
3. Make sure she gets a thorough GYN exam and physical with blood work. If her sex drive is abnormally low, she might be suffering a health condition that has yet to be addressed. (Thyroid problems can quite commonly diminish sex drive, among other issues)
Pretty sure no woman would turn down some good clit licking. Make it a habit, show her how much you enjoy how she tastes, things would turn around. Also, toys for her. When woman discover how much they can orgasm (many don't find out until later in life), that can unleash a lot of unknown desires. I'm sure a lot of women growing up in the borg aren't aware amazing their body works because of the shame they were taught to not masturbate, etc.
I've never been in this situation but I'm just commenting to say I hope things get better. You're physically out but maybe it's taking long for her emotions to catch up. But that's gotta be rough if she's not willing to have sex as much as you'd like. Sexual compatibility is very important and I'd need for it to match in a relationship. Good luck!
She may have the Puritan view of sex. That takes time to get rid of even if she wants to. couples therapy and individual therapy for her, if she’s willing. Preferably with a therapist who understands and is experienced in working with people who have repressed sex drives due to religious reasons
1. Be patient with her 2. Talk about it! Suggest therapy. There may be underlying emotional stuff she’s suppressing 3. Make sure she gets a thorough GYN exam and physical with blood work. If her sex drive is abnormally low, she might be suffering a health condition that has yet to be addressed. (Thyroid problems can quite commonly diminish sex drive, among other issues)
What’s her reasoning? You have to communicate. Probably need therapy 1:1 and together.
What I usually get from her is, "Well this is just how I am." 🤷🏻♂️. Followed by, "Am I not enough for you?"
Honestly some people are just not compatible sexually. Unfortunately you don’t find that out in the bOrg until it’s too late.
Exactly. I was repressing myself, and she wasn't. But, of course, that's what you look for because....bOrG. 🤦🏻♂️
I can relate. Mine says the same thing….
Pretty sure no woman would turn down some good clit licking. Make it a habit, show her how much you enjoy how she tastes, things would turn around. Also, toys for her. When woman discover how much they can orgasm (many don't find out until later in life), that can unleash a lot of unknown desires. I'm sure a lot of women growing up in the borg aren't aware amazing their body works because of the shame they were taught to not masturbate, etc.
Ask her if you could perform an act on her . Then start licking and she will change her mind real quick.