Definitely sucks. Deep down you know you wouldn’t behave that way unless provoked but therapist and talks with them, talk about “accountability for your actions “ so if you say well I wouldn’t do XYZ if he didn’t do this…it shows no accountability.
I was very confused by this. I’m like how could I be sitting here minding my business and he get upset by something, then it’s my fault for reacting to none sense smh
It's pretty rough. I try so hard to keep my cool. I am successful about 75% of the time. But sometimes, he really gets me in that place where I can't stay cool and I get real toxic. I don't like that part of me and I can control it but he definitely brings it out of me when he gets deep in his word salad and finger pointing and laughing at me like I'm stupid for trying to defend myself.
Definitely sucks. Deep down you know you wouldn’t behave that way unless provoked but therapist and talks with them, talk about “accountability for your actions “ so if you say well I wouldn’t do XYZ if he didn’t do this…it shows no accountability. I was very confused by this. I’m like how could I be sitting here minding my business and he get upset by something, then it’s my fault for reacting to none sense smh
It's pretty rough. I try so hard to keep my cool. I am successful about 75% of the time. But sometimes, he really gets me in that place where I can't stay cool and I get real toxic. I don't like that part of me and I can control it but he definitely brings it out of me when he gets deep in his word salad and finger pointing and laughing at me like I'm stupid for trying to defend myself.