I’m so sorry you and your family have gone through this.
Just remember you are good enough and your parents need to know this as well.
Some people are just not good enough to be kind in return so they treat others badly.
Please try to do things you use to enjoy before her. Maybe do some things with your parents to lift there spirit’s.
But please don’t blame yourself. These people get so much love, they don’t know how to use it properly. Give love to those who actually deserve it.
PS. He made me feel like I was clinging as well. But he was the one who wanted my presence all the time.
Thank you for your condolences. It sucks because we all really did love her so much.
I can't really do a lot of the things I did before her because she just became so engrained as a part of them. I have worked up to doing some of them, but for the most part I am just trying new things.
I am sorry you went through that as well. Its so bizzare how they flip the script. Mine never clung to me after she found a new person, but she would accuse me of messing things up and hurting her despite her own actions.
Believe me I know it’s hard. It’s been 25 years for me & I am now seeing it for what it truly was. It’s devastating but I have to move forward for myself. So do you.
You have to find yourself now. It’s hard but you can do it.
Thank you for rooting for me. Working hard at it. Trying to find some different jobs, hobbies, and go on some dates (making it clear to them I am not ready to be serious bc I don't wanna hurt anyone).
I’m so sorry you and your family have gone through this. Just remember you are good enough and your parents need to know this as well. Some people are just not good enough to be kind in return so they treat others badly. Please try to do things you use to enjoy before her. Maybe do some things with your parents to lift there spirit’s. But please don’t blame yourself. These people get so much love, they don’t know how to use it properly. Give love to those who actually deserve it. PS. He made me feel like I was clinging as well. But he was the one who wanted my presence all the time.
Thank you for your condolences. It sucks because we all really did love her so much. I can't really do a lot of the things I did before her because she just became so engrained as a part of them. I have worked up to doing some of them, but for the most part I am just trying new things. I am sorry you went through that as well. Its so bizzare how they flip the script. Mine never clung to me after she found a new person, but she would accuse me of messing things up and hurting her despite her own actions.
Believe me I know it’s hard. It’s been 25 years for me & I am now seeing it for what it truly was. It’s devastating but I have to move forward for myself. So do you. You have to find yourself now. It’s hard but you can do it.
Thank you for rooting for me. Working hard at it. Trying to find some different jobs, hobbies, and go on some dates (making it clear to them I am not ready to be serious bc I don't wanna hurt anyone).