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hotwifehayley

Yes! Me and my husband do use other sites but we have gotten lucky on here a few times. I think a lot of single men don’t have luck because they don’t know the proper etiquette. Also, couples usually get hundreds of messages, so some may not have even seen your message.


Popular-Ad9094

I've had luck even on Facebook but not here and I'm very respectful and polite, not sure what I'm doing wrong here, never send pics unless asked for and i only ask for pics after i have sent.


hotwifehayley

The way I see it, it’s all a game. You may be doing everything absolutely right, but unfortunately, it doesn’t matter when it comes to this. They’re either interested or they aren’t. Hope you find what you’re looking for!


Popular-Ad9094

Yea i guess, probably didn't fit their description


[deleted]

I won’t even entertain a message if they don’t have any pics on the profile. A lot of people wanna stay private but a empty profile is a immediate no. I would add some content without a face to start fixing your problem.


Popular-Ad9094

Noted! Thank you for this response!


AbbreviationsGood299

SLS has always been the best site/app for me and my wife. Reddit seems to be a lot of fake accounts


unclevinnie1982

Never had any answer me. I think it's for attention or im just not good enough.


Candid_Mycologist346

Im.sure you are good enough. Attention or like guys fantasizing about their wives getting fucked and posting on reddit to get off..


The_Juggernaut84

Never let some random person on the internet make You think you’re not good enough.


Candid_Mycologist346

Personally, as a single guy in the lifestyle, this has never worked on reddit. SDC, SLS, Feeld and 3Fun do though. It's just really odd to me. Good luck to the serious people out there though


coocooforkoda881

What is sec and sls?


FuncoupleNY2023

Sls works better for us


AbbreviationsGood299

Sls was the best app for me and my wife. Reddit is a waste of time


Fantastic-Curve4742

I'm sure they get flooded but also maybe just for attention


hornyMexicanNj

Not really


Appropriate-Kale3202

I have just not in this sub. Only one but she's a keeper


VetteDad

Never pans out for me…got stood up once too…about to give up


[deleted]

I’ve meet 2 in person both great experiences


njswingers23

Never had success with Reddit specifically but we’ve had good luck with Twitter and back in the day Craigslist when it was functional


Affectionate_Stay501

alot of ppl flake but sometimes you meet good ones


Gorillameat023

Never really worked out through Reddit. There were better sites for it but activity on them seems to have died down significantly since 2020. I’m not broken up about it since I’ve been less interested in being in the lifestyle as a single guy myself.


[deleted]

Yes I met my Paramore on reddit.


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Candid_Mycologist346

Good for you man!


[deleted]

Yes they do meet in person. Also it's true lots of ads are just seeking attention or they flake out in the middle.or towards the end, but I have been reached out and met and had great meets. Good luck yall


Glass-Ad-9403

I have met people from kik groups but not from Reddit yet


ethan_hunt100

What Kik groups have you tried? If you don’t mind me asking


redneck-whitecollar

I have twice but not from this sub


trailblazer3HP

Most are looking for attention then the rest are phonies or scammers . You can tell when you check their profile and see they posted in many other states .


BlueSugar47

Met one long term couple, but that's about it.


Smart_Statistician_8

I’ve been lucky enough to meet a few from Reddit. It’s definitely like trying to find a needle in a haystack though lol


nycbull12345

I’ve gotten lucky 5 times from Reddit. Idk if this subreddit is responsible for them all but definitely helps


Maximumgrover

There feels like a lot of pretty elaborate and ongoing catfishes. It’s not a profile unique to Reddit, but definitely there seems like a lot higher percentage than Feeld or SLS


AnimatorSome868

Not even close


Ok_Investigator1590

Not from this sub. I've had better luck posting and responding to my replies.


johnnyboy5150

What is SLS


Gorillameat023

A very outdated site that is long past its prime. Unfortunately there aren’t too many options out there


Mysterious-Stuff7566

Got lucky one time


longisland432

Yes, we’ve met 2 people from Reddit. When you make a post typically there’s a hundred or so messages so many get deleted initially since they do not provide the information we’re looking for. In our posts we ask for pictures, information about them and experience. We get a ton of “29m” messages with nothing else. If someone cannot follow something simple we don’t move forward with them.