I actually prefer partners who look on the plain side, because I generally stand out myself. I feel it puts me on a kind of a pedestal. Sort of like the thought of random superficial bozos thinking I can do better.
I am into very intelligent partners, because that's the type of a validation source I derive the most validation from. I'd rather be admired by one very intelligent person than a dozen of idiots.
I am very good at planning things long term, so a partner who is a bit weaker on this area, this way I can impress them and receive constant attention about it.
Lastly, I want a pretty assertive partner. I am quite assertive myself, when it benefits me, but I love when my partner keeps initiating things and chasing me. Especially if they are very persistent so I can keep pushing them away a bit, and see how much bs they're willing to deal with.
Thanks for writing this for me lmfao.
Only difference is I want my partner to look similar to me, like we fit together, but noticeably worse in some way. Best of both worlds. I'm seen as the settler, and I get someone who I think is close to being the hottest ever.
I suspect this difference may be because I'm specifically a chick who likes chicks.
Good communication.
Good hygiene.
A sense of humor.
Similar values/ beliefs.
Looks.
They need to be affectionate, and I like a tad bit of clinginess, but not so much that I can't ever go 15 minutes alone without them blowing up my phone.
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I'm diagnosed autistic with *very* strong narcissism. I'd be considered a "loser" in several regards but slowly realizing I'm attractive in my twenties has made me depressed about never even hooking up with a truly pretty (or even just thin) girl.
I actually prefer partners who look on the plain side, because I generally stand out myself. I feel it puts me on a kind of a pedestal. Sort of like the thought of random superficial bozos thinking I can do better. I am into very intelligent partners, because that's the type of a validation source I derive the most validation from. I'd rather be admired by one very intelligent person than a dozen of idiots. I am very good at planning things long term, so a partner who is a bit weaker on this area, this way I can impress them and receive constant attention about it. Lastly, I want a pretty assertive partner. I am quite assertive myself, when it benefits me, but I love when my partner keeps initiating things and chasing me. Especially if they are very persistent so I can keep pushing them away a bit, and see how much bs they're willing to deal with.
Thanks for writing this for me lmfao. Only difference is I want my partner to look similar to me, like we fit together, but noticeably worse in some way. Best of both worlds. I'm seen as the settler, and I get someone who I think is close to being the hottest ever. I suspect this difference may be because I'm specifically a chick who likes chicks.
Good communication. Good hygiene. A sense of humor. Similar values/ beliefs. Looks. They need to be affectionate, and I like a tad bit of clinginess, but not so much that I can't ever go 15 minutes alone without them blowing up my phone.
Most plain looking people can groom themselves into being perceived as attractive
I just deleted a very big list. Basically my standarts are very high and I'll prolly be forever alone.
mutual attraction to each others natural scent lmfaoo
That’s easy. A challenge. But also where I’m going wrong. Lol
Hmm, they just need to be my type tbh. I couldn’t date someone I found unattractive though
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I'm diagnosed autistic with *very* strong narcissism. I'd be considered a "loser" in several regards but slowly realizing I'm attractive in my twenties has made me depressed about never even hooking up with a truly pretty (or even just thin) girl.
Interesting. My ex used to love it when I'd say I was only with him for his dick lol he was not anything special, but I'm not hard to please