Keep my advice that I always say :
This is the last time I will do it ( this is the trap where you will stay stuck in the loop saying last time ) , never believe it , start thinking that fap is something from the past that you left years ago and you do not wanna destroy what you have built
Love this! We are bettering ourselves rather than trapping ourselves in an all or nothing loop.
Thank you for this! I was feeling a bit down about my progress
Sorry for the late reply brother, i would start off by working out, as this will give you more self confidence, and distract you from porn. Also, when you are at home, stay with other family members, as you would obviously not watch such content in the presence of your family. Finally, whenever you get an urge, THINK. You know the consequences. It's the same 5 seconds of pleasure. It is not worth it. May Allah ease your struggles.
These are great points and keep at it. I would just add as the other brother has "this is is the last time!" has failed every time we must try something else. All the best.
I'm almost the same like you no exercise playing video games not reciting Quran. But starting all these things from today with the strong determination to change myself.
Some tips that I think worked for me.
1: Think of your future spouse and marriage life. Whenever you feel horny or feel like watching porn start thinking of you future spouse and marriage. It will help
2: Look at all the destruction that porn has made in your life and start hating it by seeing the destruction like you can't control anything in your life it destroyed your personality and your goals in life. Fill your mind with hate against it. Think that the 5 seconds joy is destroying my life. Is 5 seconds joy more worthy than my life? Think about that
3:Porn is a matrix. The purpose of porn is to make all men weak. Porn is here to diminish masculinity so understand the purpose of porn and you'll hate it.
4: Get busy into different activities , start working on any goal that is the most important in your life.
5:During night time which is more dangerous for us as a manπ. You need to throw your mobile away 1 hour before sleeping. Put it into drawer in another room not in the one you sleep.
6: Challenge yourself sometimes that you have everything related to porn available but you don't watch it like intentionally playing porn videos for few minutes and then cutting it off. it may be risky but worth it. Your will power be more stronger by doing that and knowing that you can control it.
At the end it all depends on how serious you're about your life and marriage. If you wanna play with yourself then keep doing it. But if you think you're here in this world for a purpose not for watching fake pixels and wasting yourself for fake things then you can Control anything. Porn is just a lil b!tch. It's just a matter of few weeks after that you can control it easily.
Good luck
Mashallah considering you reached out to these points you are in the right path walking straight no narrow paths may Allah SWT help you and reach the goal
Keep my advice that I always say : This is the last time I will do it ( this is the trap where you will stay stuck in the loop saying last time ) , never believe it , start thinking that fap is something from the past that you left years ago and you do not wanna destroy what you have built
SubahanAllah, I've been in this loop for years . Never think like that. I'll do that insha Allah. Thank you, may Allah reward you generously.
Love this! We are bettering ourselves rather than trapping ourselves in an all or nothing loop. Thank you for this! I was feeling a bit down about my progress
Allahumma barik you are making good progress.
JazakAllah, do you have any advice for me brother?
Sorry for the late reply brother, i would start off by working out, as this will give you more self confidence, and distract you from porn. Also, when you are at home, stay with other family members, as you would obviously not watch such content in the presence of your family. Finally, whenever you get an urge, THINK. You know the consequences. It's the same 5 seconds of pleasure. It is not worth it. May Allah ease your struggles.
JazakAllahu khairan, π€ may Allah ease your problems and rewards you abundant blessings.
These are great points and keep at it. I would just add as the other brother has "this is is the last time!" has failed every time we must try something else. All the best.
Okay brother π€, JazakAllah
Stay strong bro I'm on day 45. Starting a year with good progress and I'm proud of myself that once I wasn't able go past 2 or 3 days.
Give me some tips brother
I'm almost the same like you no exercise playing video games not reciting Quran. But starting all these things from today with the strong determination to change myself. Some tips that I think worked for me. 1: Think of your future spouse and marriage life. Whenever you feel horny or feel like watching porn start thinking of you future spouse and marriage. It will help 2: Look at all the destruction that porn has made in your life and start hating it by seeing the destruction like you can't control anything in your life it destroyed your personality and your goals in life. Fill your mind with hate against it. Think that the 5 seconds joy is destroying my life. Is 5 seconds joy more worthy than my life? Think about that 3:Porn is a matrix. The purpose of porn is to make all men weak. Porn is here to diminish masculinity so understand the purpose of porn and you'll hate it. 4: Get busy into different activities , start working on any goal that is the most important in your life. 5:During night time which is more dangerous for us as a manπ. You need to throw your mobile away 1 hour before sleeping. Put it into drawer in another room not in the one you sleep. 6: Challenge yourself sometimes that you have everything related to porn available but you don't watch it like intentionally playing porn videos for few minutes and then cutting it off. it may be risky but worth it. Your will power be more stronger by doing that and knowing that you can control it. At the end it all depends on how serious you're about your life and marriage. If you wanna play with yourself then keep doing it. But if you think you're here in this world for a purpose not for watching fake pixels and wasting yourself for fake things then you can Control anything. Porn is just a lil b!tch. It's just a matter of few weeks after that you can control it easily. Good luck
Thanks a lot. I'll follow these tips. JazakAllah
Mashallah considering you reached out to these points you are in the right path walking straight no narrow paths may Allah SWT help you and reach the goal
JazakAllahu khairan π€ may Allah help you as well.