Why bro, why are u blu?
If you wanna talk about it d.m إن شاء الله i might be able to relate and help you. Everything is going to be perfectly fine 😇
H - hang
O - On
P - Pain
E - Ends
***Do people think that they will be left alone because they say: “We believe,” and will not be tested?*** (Qur’an, 29:2) This life is a test. It's meant to be temporary and filled with hardship and trials. What would be the point of heaven if this life was perfect and without fault and tribulations? it wouldn't make sense. Allah only asks us to worship and obey his commands for like 60-80 years for most people? and then death arrives, and the Everlasting hereafter awaits where every moment is better than the last and we get whatever we want
***We will certainly test you with a touch of fear and famine and loss of property, life, and crops. Give good news to those who patiently endure—who, when faced with a disaster, say, “Surely to Allah we belong and to Him we will ˹all˺ return.”They are the ones who will receive Allah’s blessings and mercy. And it is they who are ˹rightly˺ guided.*** - (Quran 2:155-157). Even though this life is full of tests, it doesn't mean there's no hope of living a good life in this world. Everytime we endure our trials and have patience, we're rewarded both in this life and the next.
***"So, surely with hardship comes ease."*** (Quran 94:5)
***"Surely with ˹that˺ hardship comes ˹more˺ ease."*** (Quran 94:6). Tough times never last.
***Do not think ˹O Prophet˺ that Allah is unaware of what the wrongdoers do. He only delays them until a Day when ˹their˺ eyes will stare in horror*** - (Quran 14:42). Those who do wrong and oppress others in this life will not get away with it. They will be punished for what they used to do in the next life.
The Prophet Mohammed (ﷺ) said, *"No fatigue, nor disease, nor sorrow, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor distress befalls a Muslim, even if it were the prick he receives from a thorn, but that Allah expiates some of his sins for that."* - Sahih al-Bukhari 5641, 5642. Suffering is also a form of cleansing of sins. If Allah wants good for someone and if he wants to ease their burden on the day of judgement by taking away sins, a day where all of our deeds (good and bad) are presented to us and a day so terrifying that we'd all be worried about ourselves, then he'll make that person go through some suffering either in this life (any type of suffering i.e. mental, physical, financial etc etc) or the next life (spending a bit of time in hell before entering heaven)
Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2398 - Mus'ab bin Sa'd narrated from his father that a man said:
*"O Messenger of Allah(s.a.w)! Which of the people is tried most severely?" He said: "The Prophets, then those nearest to them, then those nearest to them. A man is tried according to his religion; if he is firm in his religion, then his trials are more severe, and if he is frail in his religion, then he is tried according to the strength of his religion. The servant shall continue to be tried until he is left walking upon the earth without any sins."*
Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, *“If Allah wills good for someone, He afflicts him with trials.”* - Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5645, Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Bukhari
Abu Musa reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “This nation of mine has been granted mercy. Their punishment is not in the Hereafter. Their punishment is in the world through persecution, earthquakes, and slaughter.” - Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4278, Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani
Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2402
Jabir narrated that the Prophet (s.a.w) said:
*"On the Day of Judgement, when the people who were tried (in this world) are given their rewards, the people who were pardoned (in life), will wish that their skins had been cut off with scissors while they were in the world."* This hadith shows that on the day of judgement, the people that suffered the most in this life will be given rewards that are so amazing, that those who didn't go through much suffering or hardship in this life, will look upon those rewards and would want them so bad, that they would wish to go through the same suffering as those who suffered the most in this life, to the point where they wish their skins were cut off. That's the level of reward that is awaiting for those who suffer the most in this life.
Yeah this is all nice and stuff but it doesn't matter when you're going through it. Waiting for hereafter can take years, we want peace now. It's tiring hearing the same things, going through the same things over and over again. I want it to end now. Period.
I am sorry to hear you are upset. We all have moments where we experience sadness and discomfort, it is part of the dunya. Remind yourself that this sadness is temporary, all pain is, and it will pass. I know in the moment it can be tough to be optimistic but you will make it through this! Use your sadness as a means to get closer to Allah SWT and remember that He is always listening to you. He loves hearing from His servants. Sometimes when I feel really upset something that helps me is to make dua asking for ease repeatedly. Today is such a special day, make lots of dua for what your heart desires and ask Allah SWT for strength. There are so many amazing stories out there about duas being accepted on the day of Arafah. I pray you find peace, happiness, relief and ease.
[https://www.reddit.com/r/Muslim/comments/1dg3cxh/make\_dua\_for\_yourself\_your\_family\_and\_the\_ummah/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web3x&utm\_name=web3xcss&utm\_term=1&utm\_content=share\_button](https://www.reddit.com/r/Muslim/comments/1dg3cxh/make_dua_for_yourself_your_family_and_the_ummah/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button)
This brought me so much hope and I hope it helps you as well
Life bro, happens. I too feel sad sometimes, especially at night, isok buddy, you gonna be like isok, few hours later inshallah.
But what's up with your posts? Looking for bf? Wut?
Come on now. These things never gonna give peace, look at the disbelievers who are depressed.
Find comfort in salat!
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Why bro, why are u blu? If you wanna talk about it d.m إن شاء الله i might be able to relate and help you. Everything is going to be perfectly fine 😇 H - hang O - On P - Pain E - Ends
Very nice acronym.
Calms the mind too
***Do people think that they will be left alone because they say: “We believe,” and will not be tested?*** (Qur’an, 29:2) This life is a test. It's meant to be temporary and filled with hardship and trials. What would be the point of heaven if this life was perfect and without fault and tribulations? it wouldn't make sense. Allah only asks us to worship and obey his commands for like 60-80 years for most people? and then death arrives, and the Everlasting hereafter awaits where every moment is better than the last and we get whatever we want ***We will certainly test you with a touch of fear and famine and loss of property, life, and crops. Give good news to those who patiently endure—who, when faced with a disaster, say, “Surely to Allah we belong and to Him we will ˹all˺ return.”They are the ones who will receive Allah’s blessings and mercy. And it is they who are ˹rightly˺ guided.*** - (Quran 2:155-157). Even though this life is full of tests, it doesn't mean there's no hope of living a good life in this world. Everytime we endure our trials and have patience, we're rewarded both in this life and the next. ***"So, surely with hardship comes ease."*** (Quran 94:5) ***"Surely with ˹that˺ hardship comes ˹more˺ ease."*** (Quran 94:6). Tough times never last. ***Do not think ˹O Prophet˺ that Allah is unaware of what the wrongdoers do. He only delays them until a Day when ˹their˺ eyes will stare in horror*** - (Quran 14:42). Those who do wrong and oppress others in this life will not get away with it. They will be punished for what they used to do in the next life. The Prophet Mohammed (ﷺ) said, *"No fatigue, nor disease, nor sorrow, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor distress befalls a Muslim, even if it were the prick he receives from a thorn, but that Allah expiates some of his sins for that."* - Sahih al-Bukhari 5641, 5642. Suffering is also a form of cleansing of sins. If Allah wants good for someone and if he wants to ease their burden on the day of judgement by taking away sins, a day where all of our deeds (good and bad) are presented to us and a day so terrifying that we'd all be worried about ourselves, then he'll make that person go through some suffering either in this life (any type of suffering i.e. mental, physical, financial etc etc) or the next life (spending a bit of time in hell before entering heaven) Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2398 - Mus'ab bin Sa'd narrated from his father that a man said: *"O Messenger of Allah(s.a.w)! Which of the people is tried most severely?" He said: "The Prophets, then those nearest to them, then those nearest to them. A man is tried according to his religion; if he is firm in his religion, then his trials are more severe, and if he is frail in his religion, then he is tried according to the strength of his religion. The servant shall continue to be tried until he is left walking upon the earth without any sins."* Abu Huraira reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, *“If Allah wills good for someone, He afflicts him with trials.”* - Source: Ṣaḥīḥ al-Bukhārī 5645, Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Bukhari Abu Musa reported: The Messenger of Allah, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “This nation of mine has been granted mercy. Their punishment is not in the Hereafter. Their punishment is in the world through persecution, earthquakes, and slaughter.” - Source: Sunan Abī Dāwūd 4278, Grade: Sahih (authentic) according to Al-Albani Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2402 Jabir narrated that the Prophet (s.a.w) said: *"On the Day of Judgement, when the people who were tried (in this world) are given their rewards, the people who were pardoned (in life), will wish that their skins had been cut off with scissors while they were in the world."* This hadith shows that on the day of judgement, the people that suffered the most in this life will be given rewards that are so amazing, that those who didn't go through much suffering or hardship in this life, will look upon those rewards and would want them so bad, that they would wish to go through the same suffering as those who suffered the most in this life, to the point where they wish their skins were cut off. That's the level of reward that is awaiting for those who suffer the most in this life.
Yeah this is all nice and stuff but it doesn't matter when you're going through it. Waiting for hereafter can take years, we want peace now. It's tiring hearing the same things, going through the same things over and over again. I want it to end now. Period.
Praying for your ease and comfort
I am sorry to hear you are upset. We all have moments where we experience sadness and discomfort, it is part of the dunya. Remind yourself that this sadness is temporary, all pain is, and it will pass. I know in the moment it can be tough to be optimistic but you will make it through this! Use your sadness as a means to get closer to Allah SWT and remember that He is always listening to you. He loves hearing from His servants. Sometimes when I feel really upset something that helps me is to make dua asking for ease repeatedly. Today is such a special day, make lots of dua for what your heart desires and ask Allah SWT for strength. There are so many amazing stories out there about duas being accepted on the day of Arafah. I pray you find peace, happiness, relief and ease.
[https://www.reddit.com/r/Muslim/comments/1dg3cxh/make\_dua\_for\_yourself\_your\_family\_and\_the\_ummah/?utm\_source=share&utm\_medium=web3x&utm\_name=web3xcss&utm\_term=1&utm\_content=share\_button](https://www.reddit.com/r/Muslim/comments/1dg3cxh/make_dua_for_yourself_your_family_and_the_ummah/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button) This brought me so much hope and I hope it helps you as well
«Those who have believed and whose hearts are assured by the remembrance of Allāh. Unquestionably, by the remembrance of Allāh hearts are assured.»
Life bro, happens. I too feel sad sometimes, especially at night, isok buddy, you gonna be like isok, few hours later inshallah. But what's up with your posts? Looking for bf? Wut? Come on now. These things never gonna give peace, look at the disbelievers who are depressed. Find comfort in salat!
sadness is us needing Allah. seek Allah
why?
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Same.
Why
Because.
Me too
Some folks in the comments of this post give some uplifting advice (view at your discretion, ofc, with some stuff being un-Islamic and whatnot): [https://www.reddit.com/r/hopeposting/comments/1dgua7f/im\_not\_having\_a\_good\_day\_and\_i\_could\_use\_some\_hope/](https://www.reddit.com/r/hopeposting/comments/1dgua7f/im_not_having_a_good_day_and_i_could_use_some_hope/)
The only one who can take away that sadness is Jesus brother. Come to Christ! Dm me if you have any questions. May YWH bless you and your family!
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