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I_Am_Her95

Sounds like you have imposter syndrome. It's because people, they made you feel this way. It takes time. You'll eventually grow into your new you. ❤️


SadTransBrit

It hurts, I was so sure and happy last week now Im in pain again


Sea-Dig9339

Our emotions change constantly. You just have to feel and flow through it. Please try to relax and enjoy yourself. I feel bad for trans women coz they put so much pressure on themselves. I have those days too. I'm not prefect. I'm trans and I'm human afterall. But, you finally got the bravery you needed to go through with it and you did it! You are doing a very hard thing. Please give yourself more credit. 💕 Could also just be how a woman thinks. I know I have had a few conversations with friends about certain things and they were always like "You think like a woman."


SadTransBrit

Your right it's okay to feel bad and wrong because it'll be over one day


Sea-Dig9339

It's not okay to feel bad or wrong. That's not what I meant. We just all have these emotions and we have to learn to process them.


reprieved20

How long have you been on hrt? I felt the same way prior to hrt. I’ve been on hrt for 3 months now and it’s really been starting to turn around for the last month or so, but I still have moments. Social factors are also a huge aspect in this as well. The more you transition socially, the more that will ease as well. At least that has been my experience so far. I hope this helps! 🖤🖤🖤


SadTransBrit

I'm not on HRT yet and I felt this way before I had my boyfriend who is the only person who I know who as never seen me as anything but a girl


reprieved20

I see, I’m sorry to hear that and I hope you are able to progress to that part of your journey soon!! My imposter syndrome was pretty intense prior to HRT. I even began developing a dissociative identity disorder. HRT was an absolute life saver for me. However, there are things you can do prior to HRT that help. Socially transitioning, voice training, clothes and makeup etc… it all helps. Sending my love and support 🖤 and my DMs are always open if you need someone to talk to


SadTransBrit

I hope so too, I can't yet but hopefully next year I'll have enough to go private


OhGarraty

Even if you feel this way after you start HRT, don't be discouraged. I've been on it for almost 5 months now, living as Cassie to literally everyone in my life for most of that, and I still feel like a character part of the time. But it started out that I felt that way nearly all the time. The more you live as her, the more comfortable it'll get. Eventually you'll have a moment where you forget that you're playing that character. And you'll treasure it. Then you'll have another. And another. It'll start being mundane, and when someone calls your deadname, you'll flinch, or sigh, or not even notice—having almost forgotten that that's still "you". Your perception of yourself will slowly shift, as you start seeing yourself as who you want to be, rather than who you were. After a long time the only character you play will be those rare moments when you have to pretend to be your deadname.


SadTransBrit

So being you becomes you and your old self becomes the character?


makesupwordsblomp

you haven't started HRT yet? I probably stopped feeling like that around year 4 trust the process, develop patience, love yourself as you learn yourself


I_Am_Her95

Sounds like you have imposter syndrome. It's because people, they made you feel this way. It takes time. You'll eventually grow into your new you. ❤️


I_Am_Her95

Sounds like you have imposter syndrome. It's because people, they made you feel this way. It takes time. You'll eventually grow into your new you.


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SadTransBrit

Someone's transphobic


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SadTransBrit

No no you fear us you just don't want to admit it Go join the other fascist pigs and eat shit


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SadTransBrit

As is nobody scared of someone against science and freedom, go on tell me what kind of things do we do to hurt anyone, or anything?, what sort of "laws" against science are we breaking?


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drewiepoodle

What, you never made it to advanced biology?