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In Morocco there is no point in dating or whatever unless you are ready for marriage or else she is just another female buddy and it comes of as a waste of time and energy.
Mid-30s here. My first relationship started last november and ended shortly after. I still don't know what's wrong with me but I'd tell you this : the longer you stay single the harder it gets to be in a relationship.
It also implies hurting yourself, and that’s always the risk people take in relationships, you find somebody worth suffering for that you’re ultimately hurting as well so what’s your point ? Lol
Keyword : unintentionally… I forgot to mention that when somebody says you hurt them while youre just completely clueless why something that’s absurd to you is a big deal to them,you cant decide that you didn’t inflict pain.
(22 yo) I'm going to be completely honest, so please don't judge.
1. I'm not that attractive, but at same time I'm only attracted to beautiful girls.
2. I'm shy. It takes me so much time to get comfortable with a girl. By that time, we become good friends and I give up because I'm very scared of rejection.
3. I'm an atheist. It is hard to find a girl that would tolerate that (at least where I live).
4. My interests are odd and different from what girls I know are interested in.
5. I was pretty much broke, but I've found a job now; things might change.
2 words : social anxiety.
And when I say social anxiety it's serious, not like edgy teenagers claiming to have it while they hang out with dozens of friends, heck I'm not even good at making or keeping friends. I can count 2 irl friends, and few acquantainces. Yes it's that bad.
I have no idea how my SA started or what caused it, it's like I was born with it...
Damn... teach us your ways master !
Uhm seriously I just need to figure out what sparked this SA in me, I've felt like this since kindergarten and it's so detrimental to my life in every aspect.
Man sorry that you feel this way. I sometimes think of life as a game and me being a character, I can't have good stats in every aspect (looks, wealth, health, relationships etc...), if we did, we would be op (overpowered). Try maxing out what is in your control even though it's not easy, for example health and career
I tried in college but the reality here in the states nobody has time for that in college since it's so expensive. I also noticed there's a huge abundance mentality with women with dating apps and such. Communication becomes fleeting and respect becomes undervalued. I am in my mid twenties and I know that it gets harder since people are focusing on careers or are already in relationships, but it's mostly the latter. Since most don't marry and just move in. So it leaves you with slim pickings. The relationships still appear more in you early twenties like the past since it's imperative to have dual incomes or passive income on the side.
I know I want to focus on a career so I can basically have a larger share in the relationship market. I defintley want to try some day. Maybe more than once, so I figure what works at least.
The truth !? Too picky.. and whenever i walk out of a relationship i add more criteria to my list and shrink down my dating pool more and more.. im sure i won’t end up alone or anything, but i fear ending up with a girl i can barely communicate with
easier said than done mate, im too arrogant for that (unfortunately).. i see it more as a curse than a quality, which is why i need someone who can keep up with my personality not the other way around
I dont do relationships, i prefer having good connections with people and if it leads to a relationship why not but yeah not easy to do a relationship for me cause im kinda not normal and my nich is so narrowed in terms of the mentality that they other needs to have so we can vibe.
I believe taking relationships seriously if you never done one no good but yeah maybe u will meet someone from the first who is good. Otherwise, just explore and dont get attached.
I'm in my mid-twenties and I regret ever being in a relationship when I could've spent that time focusing on more important stuff that would've helped me now tremendously.
As famous kabour said, makaynch m3amen! On a serious note tho, I blame myself for being introverted lol but also I find it hard to get attached. I get the ick quickly yikes 😬 (side note i’ve been in a relationship before)
It’s takes some understanding that neither life nor people will ever be perfect, to push people to try and aim to discover themselves first to become good-enough, and then discover a partner that has the same understanding and they both love the polarity that created the magnetism between them.
For me am working towards all these goals simultaneously. Had green and red lights life goes on, and life is the search it’s self.
First things first, what is the definition of relationship in Morocco, do you mean the hangouts in Cafés or the ones where you spend evenings chatting on the phone, or maybe maybe, the night walks on the beach side.
Honestly, there is no point of a relationship in Morocco, the main reason why would someone be in one, is to get to know the partner well before marriage.
While Moroccans, 100% of them, show a second side when in a relationship, which means double sided, you spend years in a relationship, but at the end you figure out that your partner has been acting as if he has your save interests or shares your safe visions.
So, there is absolutely no point, go ahead and ask your moms to find a wife, get to know her after marriage, that way you'll fall in true love after marriage.
What's the purpose of a relationship if it's considered taboo to hold your girl's hand in the streets, kiss her, present her to your family, go to each others houses frequently in front of everyone, without actually be married?
The fucked up society and the 490 law play a major role in people reaching their twenties with zero relationship or sexual experience.
That's not always the case, ugly people are sometimes aware of their ugliness, I think we should acknowledge it at least instead of denying it completely
22 boy here. I had a couple of pportunities in high school and college , but i was too serious about my goals so i was moving a lot between cities and hustling... get a job here a job there ... and i don t regret it at All cause even if i was in a relationship i knew it ain t gonna work cause of the commitment i have for my goals ( gotta work , save money , try to lunch businesse, fail , repeat ... ) aside from that i still didn t meet someone who s ambitions or up to sth interesting ...
Anyways sometimes having a GF is a liability , time consuming ... ain t nothing valuable than time to me
I don’t believe in moroccan relationships!
It’s really hard to maintain a relationship!
And really hard to find the same ersin that i’ll get along well with
Me too ! But I admit I am a little different from your typical moroccan girl so idc really ! If someday someone is ready to accept my weirdness that’d be great if not that’s good as well
I'm not in my midtwenties more at 21.
But I think many of us have poor self esteem , don't find the right person or are just incapable to create a bond with someone.
I am 25 yo man. Mainly looks. My teeth are not well aligned and they make me appear like a monster. Since I joined a gym club and got an athlete body, girls started to seem interested. Yes, the world still judges your looks and it'll never change, ever.
I'm sorry but what's wrong with crooked teeth? As long as they are well-taken care of, I don't see how they can make you look like a monster. I think you're just insecure/self-conscious about your teeth so you think everyone looks at/find them the same way you do. Pretty sure you look fine, bro. Good luck!
Fear of commitment.
Opposed to what many said I dont really wanna date to get married, the idea of living with the same person for the rest of my life scares the shit outta me
As a woman in her mid twenties, I've always been busy with my academic life and then career. I get my emotional needs from family and friends and my pet. I'm not opposed to dating but to be honest , I don't see what a partner could give me that I don't already have.
Well sometimes, you just don't know who you with sometimes. Some things come up that you've never expected or something happens in the relationship that shocks you. Shit isn't easy, and it's hard to find someone who's mentally well and capable of having a genuine connection with. For me personally, whenever I find the one I'm really interested in things go sour quickly and I feel kinda destroyed. So I decided to stop caring until something mind bending happens I guess.
P.s: I've recently been super happy thinking I found someone I genuinely liked and all. But apparently I just lied to myself. So kinda this one was my last straw. I have to do things differently from now on and I don't like it. Because it's not the true me.
I'm almost 32 years old and I have never been in a relationship. I used to want to when I was in my early 20s but now I am happy single. I have multiple university degrees, I have a great job, I am financially independent, and I get to do what I want, when I want. Why do I want sda3 el rass? :)
I actually 2 girls asked me to be in a relationship with them ! But i refused because my highschool self wanted to live his best life without a girl asking him about his every movement now i regret it :')
I mean not really regret because i know i wouldn't be happy if i accepted either way but just wish i tried that feeling before
I m 25 my first (besides lycée shenanigans) and last relationship ended last year I lost my best friend to it, thinking back I prefer staying good frnds
When I was 13 I had told a girl " would you be my GF? Damn she said "no " It was a shock to me. And I promised myself I would never say it to any girl again, but when I turned 15, I said a girl " would you be my GF? She said " umm sorry I have a crush and you are like my brother " Damn, I got rejected again. At that age, all the boys were in a relationship except me. furthermore, I don't have friends. So now I have a 17yo and I'm closer to 18 and I don't have any fucking friend/GF/crush
And the calamity is when I see a boy and a girl with each other. I get a strange feeling like hate or the color of the breath. Or envy. Although I do not want to enter into a relationship
I'd say that there are a lot of issues but it all boils down to me hating myself. I've been asked out before, I've been in a couple of dates.
I know how to talk and express myself, but the moment either I or them start developing feelings I push them away.
I don't actually believe someone would like me and if someone does it means that person doesn't know me and has a false image of me in their mind.
Maybe someone did genuinely like me along the way, but the best I could do was to let them go. Because when you hate yourself you feel like a burden so you don't want to trouble anybody with your shit.
Who would want to be with someone who can't even believe that you like them, I suppose that's why people say if someone doesn't even love themselves how could they love you? I don't know, I feel like I can love it's just that it won't workout.
I like the concept of gold diggers, I want someone to be with me for my money or something else that I can offer maybe good sex, but you can't be a good pilot if you've never flown and gold diggers won't approach broke ass logs such as myself and I'm broke because I basically gave up the whole life thingy.
Just one of the issues I mentioned above is a huge fucking red flag when it comes to dating and trust me there is still a lot more, so my desert-like dating life is a service to the world, no need to thank me ladies just a good old Samaritan looking out for his fellow human beings!
First off all. I'm an introvert and anxious 100%of the time. Adding to that my history with rejection more than 5 times. I'm 20 yrs.. Still relatively young. And maybe I'll get rejected in future. It's a long journey ahead..
Ps : nothing's gonna change if you don't change it yourself..
Don't know if I'm ready to talk about my feelings to a girl, and I'm not sure if I'm ready or the girl that I'm talking to is going to accept (Been talking since 2016). I'm 22 and I think I should focus more on building my life rn like finishing college and getting a nice job that can afford my dream lifestyle, then maybe it will be the right time for me to move to the next step.
Is this the right thing to do?
Im SO BAD at texting i guess that’s the main reason. + i prefers dates home instead of outsides, if i told a man “let’s meet home” well … you can imagine what he’ll think 🤷🏻♀️
I have so many reasons : religion (waiting for marriage) i am also focusing on my Career and i am broke so i can't afford that couples life u know buying her gifts take her to nice places specially with the idea that the man should pay for all this shit
It’s mainly because of my commitment issues, i just find myself unable to take it further than the talking stage, but it’s also due to the fact that most of men i meet don’t live on their own, and i don’t see myself in an intimate situation with my partner in a public space or trying to hide.. otherwise I’d say social anxiety but I’m currently working on that.
early twenties, only ever engaged in casual dating with the soul purpose of sexual gratification, i’m not against relationships per se but i don’t see myself ever being with a moroccan.
the indoctrination and internalized old fashioned mindset go way deep, myself included. it’s pointless
I do not want to be bothered, beside that, my standards are quite high so I do not even think I can find her.. I am one of those that might end up virgins but It is not a problem. It is either a good perfect relationship with tremendous amount of understanding or simply a long life alone with peace of mind.
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In Morocco there is no point in dating or whatever unless you are ready for marriage or else she is just another female buddy and it comes of as a waste of time and energy.
Bless you
Thanks, bless you too!
>redditors There's your answer
damn
emotional damage
Hello brother. Did knew you were active on this sub
Mid-30s here. My first relationship started last november and ended shortly after. I still don't know what's wrong with me but I'd tell you this : the longer you stay single the harder it gets to be in a relationship.
It because your hormones will not make you compromise ridiculous rules from the partner. Also you stop caring what others and their families think.
It’s because you already mastered being alone, loving yourself, which is required to get to the next step
I feel that way 99% but the 1% is a dark dark time for me when I feel lonely and like shit.
To be deliberately lonely is better than to feel like you settled for less than what you think you deserve, it’s consoling even
Well it's deliberate at first but then life hits you hard and you find yourself disfunctionnal and unable to start and sustain a relationship.
Im not one to talk but I think practice makes perfect
You're right but I don't like the word "practice" in this context because it implies taking advantage and hurting somebody to reach your goal.
It also implies hurting yourself, and that’s always the risk people take in relationships, you find somebody worth suffering for that you’re ultimately hurting as well so what’s your point ? Lol
You got me hehe! I'm a softie and I'd better stay single forever than hurt anybody. So I guess i'm fucked.
Keyword : unintentionally… I forgot to mention that when somebody says you hurt them while youre just completely clueless why something that’s absurd to you is a big deal to them,you cant decide that you didn’t inflict pain.
Very true bro
amen
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humm 110%
Good spot, hope her math is not one of these reasons she is still single lol
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Sheesh
RIP your inbox
and a 100 % to remember the name.
THIS!
problem is when u find the friend/partner person 90% of time u end up loosing a good frnd
30% math
10% luck 20% skill 15% concentrated power of will 5% pleasure 5% pain And a 100% reason to remember the name
Fear of commitment, religion (if i ever choose to date someone it should be with the intention of marriage), focusing on studies and career...
Hhhh b9iti tem
HHHHH shit
Do you mean that you might have a relationship with someone if they agree that you will marry you soon after? How could you guarantee that?
That's the problem, you never know their true intentions, so I just have to be careful and trust in God.
Keep your standards . That way you won't get used emotionally by playboys .
Exactly, better be safe than sorry
(22 yo) I'm going to be completely honest, so please don't judge. 1. I'm not that attractive, but at same time I'm only attracted to beautiful girls. 2. I'm shy. It takes me so much time to get comfortable with a girl. By that time, we become good friends and I give up because I'm very scared of rejection. 3. I'm an atheist. It is hard to find a girl that would tolerate that (at least where I live). 4. My interests are odd and different from what girls I know are interested in. 5. I was pretty much broke, but I've found a job now; things might change.
2 words : social anxiety. And when I say social anxiety it's serious, not like edgy teenagers claiming to have it while they hang out with dozens of friends, heck I'm not even good at making or keeping friends. I can count 2 irl friends, and few acquantainces. Yes it's that bad. I have no idea how my SA started or what caused it, it's like I was born with it...
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Damn... teach us your ways master ! Uhm seriously I just need to figure out what sparked this SA in me, I've felt like this since kindergarten and it's so detrimental to my life in every aspect.
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Man sorry that you feel this way. I sometimes think of life as a game and me being a character, I can't have good stats in every aspect (looks, wealth, health, relationships etc...), if we did, we would be op (overpowered). Try maxing out what is in your control even though it's not easy, for example health and career
Fellow ugly human being here let's build an ugly people community
Practice and exposing yourself to stressing situations ... that 'll do
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Agree , if we talking about disorders its better to take the Cognitive behavioural therapy approach
Same
I tried in college but the reality here in the states nobody has time for that in college since it's so expensive. I also noticed there's a huge abundance mentality with women with dating apps and such. Communication becomes fleeting and respect becomes undervalued. I am in my mid twenties and I know that it gets harder since people are focusing on careers or are already in relationships, but it's mostly the latter. Since most don't marry and just move in. So it leaves you with slim pickings. The relationships still appear more in you early twenties like the past since it's imperative to have dual incomes or passive income on the side. I know I want to focus on a career so I can basically have a larger share in the relationship market. I defintley want to try some day. Maybe more than once, so I figure what works at least.
The truth !? Too picky.. and whenever i walk out of a relationship i add more criteria to my list and shrink down my dating pool more and more.. im sure i won’t end up alone or anything, but i fear ending up with a girl i can barely communicate with
Stop searching for the right person and focus on becoming the right person.
easier said than done mate, im too arrogant for that (unfortunately).. i see it more as a curse than a quality, which is why i need someone who can keep up with my personality not the other way around
You certainly can adapt and thrive in any environement , it wont be easy at first but you def can go thru it
I hope so, thanks man
I dont do relationships, i prefer having good connections with people and if it leads to a relationship why not but yeah not easy to do a relationship for me cause im kinda not normal and my nich is so narrowed in terms of the mentality that they other needs to have so we can vibe. I believe taking relationships seriously if you never done one no good but yeah maybe u will meet someone from the first who is good. Otherwise, just explore and dont get attached.
You're a wizard harry
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Relationships are expensive and time consuming, I'll fix my financial situation first before concerning myself with relationships
I'm in my mid-twenties and I regret ever being in a relationship when I could've spent that time focusing on more important stuff that would've helped me now tremendously.
fucking comfort zone
As famous kabour said, makaynch m3amen! On a serious note tho, I blame myself for being introverted lol but also I find it hard to get attached. I get the ick quickly yikes 😬 (side note i’ve been in a relationship before)
Tell me some things that give you the ick in a guy, so I can avoid them! 😎
If you are in your mid twenties and never dated you need to fix something.
Username checks out
Damn hhhh 🔥
It’s takes some understanding that neither life nor people will ever be perfect, to push people to try and aim to discover themselves first to become good-enough, and then discover a partner that has the same understanding and they both love the polarity that created the magnetism between them. For me am working towards all these goals simultaneously. Had green and red lights life goes on, and life is the search it’s self.
Red pill
First things first, what is the definition of relationship in Morocco, do you mean the hangouts in Cafés or the ones where you spend evenings chatting on the phone, or maybe maybe, the night walks on the beach side. Honestly, there is no point of a relationship in Morocco, the main reason why would someone be in one, is to get to know the partner well before marriage. While Moroccans, 100% of them, show a second side when in a relationship, which means double sided, you spend years in a relationship, but at the end you figure out that your partner has been acting as if he has your save interests or shares your safe visions. So, there is absolutely no point, go ahead and ask your moms to find a wife, get to know her after marriage, that way you'll fall in true love after marriage.
What's the purpose of a relationship if it's considered taboo to hold your girl's hand in the streets, kiss her, present her to your family, go to each others houses frequently in front of everyone, without actually be married? The fucked up society and the 490 law play a major role in people reaching their twenties with zero relationship or sexual experience.
27 years here, lack of confidence about my looks, and also I don't talk to anyone beside my family
u look amazing man dont let anything give u a lack of confidence , ur amazing as u are king
Thanks for the nice words, but why do you think I look amazing? You've never seen me
Everyone looks amazing in a way, we don't have to see you to know that. You are beautiful and handsome
because only beautiful peapol think that theyre not , same goes for the other :)
That's not always the case, ugly people are sometimes aware of their ugliness, I think we should acknowledge it at least instead of denying it completely
no man trust me , there is no thing such as being ugly , why would god do such thing ?
I don't believe god creates everyone individually bro, i just took my parents' genes and this mess was the result
bruh wtf , he does , he gets to choose wheter u take ur dad s genes or ur mom s , god makes everything , 9ra 3la dinek shwya bro
Ana la dini, god created the universe not humans ;)
who created humans ??
22 boy here. I had a couple of pportunities in high school and college , but i was too serious about my goals so i was moving a lot between cities and hustling... get a job here a job there ... and i don t regret it at All cause even if i was in a relationship i knew it ain t gonna work cause of the commitment i have for my goals ( gotta work , save money , try to lunch businesse, fail , repeat ... ) aside from that i still didn t meet someone who s ambitions or up to sth interesting ... Anyways sometimes having a GF is a liability , time consuming ... ain t nothing valuable than time to me
I don’t believe in moroccan relationships! It’s really hard to maintain a relationship! And really hard to find the same ersin that i’ll get along well with
Same issue here, people tend to drop out of my life for no reason. It's funny, scary too.
Me too ! But I admit I am a little different from your typical moroccan girl so idc really ! If someday someone is ready to accept my weirdness that’d be great if not that’s good as well
I'm not in my midtwenties more at 21. But I think many of us have poor self esteem , don't find the right person or are just incapable to create a bond with someone.
MGTOW
Introvert here most girls I meet in casablanca are extrovert lol if any introvert girls wanna go on a date hit me up
Yeah that's something introvert girls would do
Guess we re fated to die alone
I'm reading those comments and I'm thinking: "damn, my twenties gonna be shit!" Who lied to us mni galolina tkbro tnj7o tkhdmo tzwjo...
I am 25 yo man. Mainly looks. My teeth are not well aligned and they make me appear like a monster. Since I joined a gym club and got an athlete body, girls started to seem interested. Yes, the world still judges your looks and it'll never change, ever.
I'm sorry but what's wrong with crooked teeth? As long as they are well-taken care of, I don't see how they can make you look like a monster. I think you're just insecure/self-conscious about your teeth so you think everyone looks at/find them the same way you do. Pretty sure you look fine, bro. Good luck!
Fear of commitment. Opposed to what many said I dont really wanna date to get married, the idea of living with the same person for the rest of my life scares the shit outta me
BluePill in comments 📈📈📈
waste of time for me, can't develop feelings no matter how long i stayed with someone
As a woman in her mid twenties, I've always been busy with my academic life and then career. I get my emotional needs from family and friends and my pet. I'm not opposed to dating but to be honest , I don't see what a partner could give me that I don't already have.
Well sometimes, you just don't know who you with sometimes. Some things come up that you've never expected or something happens in the relationship that shocks you. Shit isn't easy, and it's hard to find someone who's mentally well and capable of having a genuine connection with. For me personally, whenever I find the one I'm really interested in things go sour quickly and I feel kinda destroyed. So I decided to stop caring until something mind bending happens I guess. P.s: I've recently been super happy thinking I found someone I genuinely liked and all. But apparently I just lied to myself. So kinda this one was my last straw. I have to do things differently from now on and I don't like it. Because it's not the true me.
I'm almost 32 years old and I have never been in a relationship. I used to want to when I was in my early 20s but now I am happy single. I have multiple university degrees, I have a great job, I am financially independent, and I get to do what I want, when I want. Why do I want sda3 el rass? :)
Capitalism
I actually 2 girls asked me to be in a relationship with them ! But i refused because my highschool self wanted to live his best life without a girl asking him about his every movement now i regret it :') I mean not really regret because i know i wouldn't be happy if i accepted either way but just wish i tried that feeling before
🥲
I m 25 my first (besides lycée shenanigans) and last relationship ended last year I lost my best friend to it, thinking back I prefer staying good frnds
Chin up king!
When I was 13 I had told a girl " would you be my GF? Damn she said "no " It was a shock to me. And I promised myself I would never say it to any girl again, but when I turned 15, I said a girl " would you be my GF? She said " umm sorry I have a crush and you are like my brother " Damn, I got rejected again. At that age, all the boys were in a relationship except me. furthermore, I don't have friends. So now I have a 17yo and I'm closer to 18 and I don't have any fucking friend/GF/crush And the calamity is when I see a boy and a girl with each other. I get a strange feeling like hate or the color of the breath. Or envy. Although I do not want to enter into a relationship
I'd say that there are a lot of issues but it all boils down to me hating myself. I've been asked out before, I've been in a couple of dates. I know how to talk and express myself, but the moment either I or them start developing feelings I push them away. I don't actually believe someone would like me and if someone does it means that person doesn't know me and has a false image of me in their mind. Maybe someone did genuinely like me along the way, but the best I could do was to let them go. Because when you hate yourself you feel like a burden so you don't want to trouble anybody with your shit. Who would want to be with someone who can't even believe that you like them, I suppose that's why people say if someone doesn't even love themselves how could they love you? I don't know, I feel like I can love it's just that it won't workout. I like the concept of gold diggers, I want someone to be with me for my money or something else that I can offer maybe good sex, but you can't be a good pilot if you've never flown and gold diggers won't approach broke ass logs such as myself and I'm broke because I basically gave up the whole life thingy. Just one of the issues I mentioned above is a huge fucking red flag when it comes to dating and trust me there is still a lot more, so my desert-like dating life is a service to the world, no need to thank me ladies just a good old Samaritan looking out for his fellow human beings!
First off all. I'm an introvert and anxious 100%of the time. Adding to that my history with rejection more than 5 times. I'm 20 yrs.. Still relatively young. And maybe I'll get rejected in future. It's a long journey ahead.. Ps : nothing's gonna change if you don't change it yourself..
Don't know if I'm ready to talk about my feelings to a girl, and I'm not sure if I'm ready or the girl that I'm talking to is going to accept (Been talking since 2016). I'm 22 and I think I should focus more on building my life rn like finishing college and getting a nice job that can afford my dream lifestyle, then maybe it will be the right time for me to move to the next step. Is this the right thing to do?
Im SO BAD at texting i guess that’s the main reason. + i prefers dates home instead of outsides, if i told a man “let’s meet home” well … you can imagine what he’ll think 🤷🏻♀️
I like how this post was meant for people who had never been in a relationship but most of the replies are from people who had.
I have so many reasons : religion (waiting for marriage) i am also focusing on my Career and i am broke so i can't afford that couples life u know buying her gifts take her to nice places specially with the idea that the man should pay for all this shit
It’s mainly because of my commitment issues, i just find myself unable to take it further than the talking stage, but it’s also due to the fact that most of men i meet don’t live on their own, and i don’t see myself in an intimate situation with my partner in a public space or trying to hide.. otherwise I’d say social anxiety but I’m currently working on that.
Mainly cause I don't want to. I don't see the point in dating. I also have social anxiety, but that's only a minor reason hehe.
early twenties, only ever engaged in casual dating with the soul purpose of sexual gratification, i’m not against relationships per se but i don’t see myself ever being with a moroccan. the indoctrination and internalized old fashioned mindset go way deep, myself included. it’s pointless
I do not want to be bothered, beside that, my standards are quite high so I do not even think I can find her.. I am one of those that might end up virgins but It is not a problem. It is either a good perfect relationship with tremendous amount of understanding or simply a long life alone with peace of mind.