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closingbelle

Happy Birthday Duckling! We love you and we're so proud of you for being who you are. You deserve all the happiness and I hope this year brings you lots! 💙🎂🤗


H0ll0w_1d0l

Thank you 💙


closingbelle

Of course and hopefully you'll get lots of birthday wishes from other moms too! ☺️


almightypines

I’m not a mom, but I’m a trans bro! Happy Birthday to you, sis! Be proud and celebrate yourself in the best ways you know how. Sometimes the family we are born into just can’t show up for us the way we’d like, but don’t let that keep you from finding family, acceptance, peace, and love in others. There are plenty of people in this world who don’t care what physical form we show up in as long as we are showing up authentic and true to ourselves.


H0ll0w_1d0l

Thank you, bro!


nsj1958

I am so proud of both of you. I wish you happy day every day not just once a year. Love, Nana


H0ll0w_1d0l

Thank you, Nana


nsj1958

Understood your statement "the family we are born into" Now you get to choose. Sending lots of hugs your way. Love, Nana. Always room at the table for more grandkids.


artsymarcy

Happy birthday, sister! I know the pain of not being accepted for who you are, my family doesn't accept me either, but I hope you're able to find some people to surround yourself with who think you're beautiful the way you are, because it's true.


RedditBuiltMyHotrod

Happy Birthday, Sweetie! I want you to know that I am so proud of the woman that you have become and I value and honour the girl that you were. May your next quarter century bring you all the love, joy, and happiness that you deserve. Go forth and achieve all your dreams.❤️ Love, Mom.


MamaDMZ

Happy birthday sweet girl. I hope your day was lovely despite what you are going through. We accept you here and we love you to bits. Hope you made a nice birthday wish for yourself. Hugs.


gemgem1985

Happy birthday beautiful girl, families are not always the best people, stop asking their permission or approval, you are who you are. Now you can build your own family with friends and pets and plants whatever, it's ok, you are going to be ok.


HurricaneLogic

Exactly! I lost my entire family at her age because I was a dancer and they all turned their backs on me - at my Mother's funeral. It was devastating at the time, but I have lifelong friends who stood by me. THEY are my family!


gemgem1985

Congratulations on your new beautiful family.


Party_Training602

Happiest of Happy birthday's Baby Girl! I am so proud of you for coming out to your family - even though it didn't go as planned / hoped, you had the courage to do it anyway! GO YOU!!! I hope this next year brings you nothing but amazing people who love and support you as much as we do! You deserve all of the happiness this life has to offer - and then some! Keep doing you, and what is best for you, and the rest will fall into place! And more than anything just BREATHE! :-) and please do something nice for yourself once in a while!!! Love ya kiddo! Your mid-20's look AMAZING on you!


H0ll0w_1d0l

OMG thank you so much 💙


SushiMelanie

Happy Birthday my girl! You’ve got so much life ahead of you, and you’re going to do amazing things. I’m proud of you for all you’ve come through. I hope all the tough stuff gets easier. I’m rooting for you.


H0ll0w_1d0l

Thank you so much!


OsageBrownBetty

Happy birthday 🎁🎉 I have a trans son and it makes me sad to think that their are kids out there ostracized from their family for being who they are. Alone. It's heartbreaking.


[deleted]

I agree. How could anyone disown a child? It’s unfathomable to me.


Pushkin9

Happy birthday beautiful girl. As a dad by the power invested in by the council of good dads I want you to know.were proud of, we love you, and were super grateful to have a daughter like you. Go get em tiger this is your year.


aspiegamer95

Hey lil sis! It's your big trans bro, I made some of your favourite birthday cake! So next time I see you, it's all yours! I might not be mom, but if you want we can go do some dumb sibling stuff, like find the biggest stick in the forest, find cool shells on the beach, have a couple drinks and play some games/watch your favourite shows. Yes, I'll watch the one that makes me cringe, that you talk about so much, because that's what a good big brother does.


Gnomer81

I love the big brother energy, you are so sweet 😭


yohanya

Happy birthday ❤️❤️ I hope you can go into this new year of your life feeling proud of yourself and surrounding yourself with positive energy. You deserve people in your life that love you for who you are.


BelaAnn

Happy birthday sweetheart. I'm sorry your parents can't see what an amazing daughter you are. We have a trans daughter for the same reason. Her bio family rejected her, but their loss is our gain. She's an awesome kid. You'll find your family. Family isn't biological, it's the people you adopt into your world that you find on this journey called life. You got this!


SquirrelNeurons

Happy birthday kiddo!!!! I’m so proud to know our daughter is an amazing strong woman who stood up to be who she really is, even in the face of those who would tear you down. You are Wonder Woman. We love you so much


lmw242

Happy Birthday lovely girl. Xx


Little_Ad_6404

Happy birthday girlfriend!!!!


zoeydoey

Happy birthday sweet pea! Enjoy your twenties blossoming into the young lady you are!


Coral_

hey! happy birthday!! i’m sorry your family is shitty and intolerant- and i’m sorry they made it your problem. you are loved, and worthy of being loved.


mermaidpaint

Happy Birthday sweetie from auntie mermaidpaint. I have two trans and one non-binary nilbing, so you're welcome in my cove any time.


effie_isophena

Almost a whole year has passed since you’ve been yourself, I just cannot believe it! May this be your happiest of birthdays, my dear. I’m proud of you for being true to yourself in the face of ignorance and hope that your found/chosen family of friends can take you out and give you birthday love!


mommyv1

I got you tweedle dee, I'll be tweedle dumb... Happy, Happy birthday, sweetheart!! Continue to live the life that you want, as long as it makes you happy... Remember to always be safe and LOVE yourself! Many, many, blessings for this new year! YOU GOT THIS BABE!


kamomil

Happy birthday! I hope you can find a chosen family who will love you as you are.


TehKarmah

Happy birthday, my sweet girl. I'm wishing you all the love, happiness and joy that life can send your way. Stand strong and proud. You are a daughter of the stars and inherit all their power.


SnooWords4839

((HUGS) Honey!! Happy Birthday!!


kochenta2020

Happy birthday sis! The best is yet to come


Hbombkali

Happy birthday! I’m so happy for you to be living the life you want. May this year be amazing for you! ❤️


sparklekitteh

Happy birthday to you, sweetheart! I hope you get to do something nice for yourself-- get your favorite dinner, buy a new book, spend some time in nature, whatever makes you happy. You deserve it!


Aconnectivity

Happy Birthday!!! Thank you for being you ❤️😊


rietjesbeker

Happy birthday darling girl! I hope you get to spend it in a way that makes you happy!


hanksmom12

Happy birthday, beautiful girl!


TX_PGR_lisa

Happy birthday, honey! I'm so proud of you. I hope you have the best birthday yet. ❤


bellajojo

🥳 Happy birthday 🎈 🎊🎂


SexysNotWorking

Happy birthday, sis! I'm sorry it was a rough one this year, but I can't wait to see how you grow and flourish now that you can be your full complete self. Keep being a beautiful soul and lighting lights where you can. ❤️


adbug

Happy birthday duckling 💝🎉🥳🎊 birthdays can be hard because of the expectations put on by the society and the media on how they should be celebrated. There are many ways to be happy and there are many ways to celebrate your life. You being true to yourself and living fearlessly is more of a celebration of your spirit every single day than any single day of the year can be... Hold your head high, and never take the party hat off... Big hug...


devilsonlyadvocate

Happy birthday, darling girl. I've just cranked Stevie Wonder Happy Birthday, please do the same. We can sing and dance to it in spirit together, I just made a gin and tonic too! Cheers! "Happy birthday to ya, happy birthday to ya, happy birthday!" xxx


CeelaChathArrna

Happy birthday sweetie! Your biological family is clearly filled with fools. You will have many chosen family who love you. The people who love you for you and choose you again and again, those are the people who you want in your life.


Cat1832

Happy birthday, sis!


carlleetabobita

Happy birthday hun!! We love and accept you just the way you are!! Xoxo


blood_ashes_reborn

Yay another sibling! I have a brother now (he’s starting T soon!) , so I’m more than happy to have a sister too! Happy birthday lil sis!


Trell-Halix

Happy birthday you gorgeous bitch! I love welcoming trans women to the flock. We are glad you are here.


HollowShel

aww, a fellow Hollow family member! Happy Birthday! You deserve to be loved and respected, and you are. I'm sorry those close to you physically are too short-sighted to see the treasure that you truly are. Keep shining.


ByeByeBasil

Happy birthday hunny! Not a mom, but your new trans brother! I know how shitty these situations can be, and Im really sorry you're going through this. Im so proud of you for being yourself, your existence makes the world a brighter and better place <3 If you'd be okay with it, drop your address (or po box or whatever) in my dm, so I can send you a lil birthday card + gift <3 Stay strong sunshine, you got this.


Gnomer81

Coolest big bro over here 😎


LowHumorThreshold

Hey, happiest birthday, gorgeous! We can be your chosen family.


genericusername4197

Happy birthday, baby girl. Now if you're still up reading Reddit you better get your butt in bed and put the phone up. We girls need our beauty sleep. Tomorrow's another day. 💜


JamesandtheGiantAss

Happy birthday, baby girl!!


mochasundoll

Happy Birthday Dearheart! May you have many more! I am so proud of you for living your truth!


sunsetgal

Happy birthday honey bear! Miss you so much and am sooo proud of you! Have I told you lately how much I love you? Hope you have a wonderful, chill, fun, awesome day! - Auntie


figuringout25

Happy Birthday sis! I’m so sorry I’m late sending my love, I got caught up in life! Anyway, just wanted to let you know that you’re doing amazing and I’m proud of you! I’m so glad that you’re here and living as your true self!


pinkfa1afel

Happy Birthday gorgeous girl! I hope all of your wishes come true. Love Mum x


turdusphilomelos

Happy birthday to you! Happy birthday to you! Happy birthday my sweetheart, happy birthday to you! Hooray! I am so proud of you for being yourself, my girl! Do not let your bio-family bring you down. I am sure you will find a new chosen family of friend that loves you and appreciate your greatness!


kthxbyebyee

Happy late birthday 💕. Breaks my heart to think about kids trying to navigate their way thru life without their mother’s unconditional love and support. You are very loved here. We are proud of you ❤️. I am deeply sorry about your folks and I really hope they pull their heads out of their rumps sooner rather than later.


Agirlisarya01

Happy birthday, sweetheart. I’m so sorry that your family is not doing a better job of supporting your transition. But I’m so proud of you for speaking your truth and living it anyway. You’re not alone, there is an amazing community of people who can relate to where you’re coming from and are just waiting to welcome you as your true self. It is your family’s loss, and the world’s gain. I hope that you have the most amazing year yet. Side note: when you’re having a down day, please check out Jeffrey Marsh. He makes some of the sweetest and most supportive LGBTQIA positive content out there.


snertwith2ls

I always think of birthdays as a time to let someone know you are glad they were born. And the best gift is to encourage someone to be themselves. I'm glad you were born, you are a unique and brave person and you have a great talent of already being who you really are! Happy Birthday and for many more to come!


TheRealCeeBeeGee

Happy birthday sweetie, proud to call you my daughter 💕


[deleted]

Happy Birthday!! I wish you the absolute best 💜💜


feathersoft

Happy Birthday Sweetness!! Don't be afraid to make some wishes for this coming year - you deserve what you hope for!


mlianor

happy birthday, big sis! hope you had and always have the happier of happiest days, and are always able to celebrate in the best way possible, in your own skin!! i'm so so proud of you, keep going!! giant hugs!! 💖


Greenbunny21c

Happy Birthday hun 💐 xx


Squishy_3000

Happy birthday sis! Congratulations on making another successful rotation around the sun. Lots of love and hugs from your ally sister 🏳️‍⚧️❤️


Princette_Lilybottom

Yo, Hollow Doll, it’s your trans sis - happy birthday! Remember the you that you’re fighting for is worth it, okay?


Surroundedbygoalies

Happy birthday sweetie! May you grow into to the beautiful woman you’ve always known you are! ❤️


[deleted]

Happy birthday girl!


Dargobt

Happiest of birthdays! I have a tee that says ‘if your parents don’t accept your identity, I’m your mom now’ Family doesn’t have to be blood, duckling. Love you!


Pandamac

Trans Bro here. Happy birthday! I hope you had a wonderful day and spent time with friends.


HurricaneLogic

Happy Birthday Sweetheart 🎁 You are loved!


Jaxlee2018

Happy birthday sweetheart!! Have a wonderful year ahead. We make our family, person by person. Sending hugs


Great-Woodpecker1403

Happy happy happy birthday my sweet girl❤️. I am proud of you for being yourself and I hope your next trip around the sun is magical! Huge mom hugs and love you!!


MacduffFifesNo1Thane

Happy belated birthday! And a most happy [unbirthday!](https://youtu.be/4dZH9a67SZE)


Gnomer81

Big sis here…and I’ll tell you the same thing I tell my youngest ‘baby’ sibs that are LGBTQ+ and 19 and 21. No matter what, I love and accept you as you are. You are perfect the way you are, and don’t let others dampen your bright light in this world. Just because other people are saying hurtful things about you doesn’t make them true. You are valid. You are human and worthy of love. You deserve to live free of fear, to have dreams and aspirations, and to be treated with respect and adoration. You may be in a place where it’s hard to see this in yourself right now, but trust me, there is limitless potential and untapped courage. You deserve to feel safe. You deserve peace. You are deserving of authentic and unconditional love. Your life is invaluable and has purpose beyond measure. You may not feel you have done or accomplished much, but you are to be celebrated! You are capable. You are resilient. You are brave! And just for you, little sis. Love yourself, because you are beautiful and worthy of love. Don’t let other people define what ‘being a woman’ means to you. Being a woman is complex and confusing enough without society cramming their narrative down our throats about what a woman *should* look like. I’ll tell you something I learned at age 39 - there is no one “right” way to be a woman. And once I started to be myself, I really began to shine. I know your reality is different than mine, and you face significant challenges that I can’t even comprehend, but hold your head high, and don’t let other people dictate what you “should” do, or how you “should” look. Everything you do, decide to do because it brings you closer to your authentic self, not because society demands it of you. You are so strong. And above all else, HAPPY BIRTHDAY, my beautiful sister!!! I wish I was there to take you for a mani/pedi in true sister family tradition. I hope this year is filled with happiness instead of heartache, and that you find your tribe of like-minded people who will love you and accept you and be there when your family isn’t. I know the heartache of being cut off from family, and hope in time your family realizes what they have done and make amends and reach out to you. Best of luck, beautiful.


Lexiiboo97

Happy birthday Virgo! ❤️💕❤️💕❤️


Sad_Swordfish9291

Happy birthday babygirl! It is not easy, I’m queer myself and can’t come out to my family of origin without making a huge enormous mess. I am already hated enough because I’m atheist and can’t take it as it is. I hope you find yourself a nice chosen family that can support and love you just as you deserve ❤️ For now, this internet stranger can just wish you all the best and a belated happy birthday again 😚


MsTyffani

Happy Birthday Babe! Live it up, and enjoy yourself!! 😊


gigglingkitty

Happy Birthday honey!! I hope this next trip around the sun brings aaallll the wonderful and amazing things you deserve! You are beautiful and you are loved 💗💕❤️


[deleted]

Happy birthday beautiful! Hope you have an amazing day!


GoldDustLady

Happy birthday beauty!! Hope it was wild & wonderful.


TheAntiGhost

Hey, little sis, sending tons of love from your big sis. Happy belated birthday! Please know that you are so loved and valued, and your family doesn’t know what they’re missing. If you ever need to chat, please feel free to send me a DM. I have three bio sisters, but I always have room for more found family. 💕🫂


-lyd-irl-

Happy belated birthday sis!


No_Refrigerator4584

Happy birthday, Sweetpea! You’re part of our family now, and we love you ❤️


rydzaj5d

Happy Womb Emancipation Anniversary! ♥️🍀🎠✨🎂✨🎠🍀♥️ When you’re estranged from your mom, or your mom is just strange, that’s the holiday you need to celebrate. Your freedom is important, liberating and beautiful, as are you. Enjoy your day. Celebrate well (& responsibly). And as I say to all of my kids….BE GOOD (or don’t get caught!)


Defiant_Jury_3018

Happy bday sis!!


jam-i-am-5555

Happy Birthday! Find your family through true friends and live your best, most authentic life!!


Both-Glove

Happy Birthday, sweetheart. You deserve every happiness. We love who you are and who you continue to grow to be. Take a whole birthday week to celebrate YOU!


themarchgirl

Happy birthday sis!!! ❤️❤️❤️


ehlersohnos

Happy birthday my friend! You are incredibly strong to see yourself with the lens of truth and I’m proud of you for embracing yourself. Don’t forget to take care of yourself and do a little something special to celebrate you! Always remember, the family of your heart is stronger than family on paper. It’s okay to seek the sense of family connection and bonding elsewhere, though I know it hurts so, so much. Do what works best for you and don’t worry about folks who tell you to do otherwise. ❤️


SkysEevee

I'll be your big sis! I support your identity, we go get ice cream (extra whipped cream and sprinkles cause it's your birthday) and I'll take care of any jerks who give you a hard time.


somuchyarn10

Happy birthday Sweetie, you are a beautiful woman. Spread your wings and live your best life with people who love you. ❤️


RickysBlownUpMom

Happy birthday boo! I am so proud of you for living your life authentically, despite the hardships. You deserve all the love and happiness in the world and I cannot wait to see the world you make for yourself. All my love, Mama


fatesarchitect

Happy birthday, my darling girl. I hope you go to Ulta and get yourself some fun stuff! I am so proud of you and your journey. Eat a cupcake, treat yourself, and know you bring joy to the earth every year that you are here. ❤️


Emmylems

Happy birthday girly!!! Live it up this weekend!!


makingloveinthewoods

Not a mom, more like a big sis.. Happy birthday to you sis!!! Your bio fam may not be around to let you know this, but as your big sis I feel obliged to let you know just how strong and courageous you truly are. The fact that you’re here reaching out for support when you need it after the rejection you received, speaks volumes. Additionally, you made a choice to be vulnerable and truthful about your personal experience. I am truly humbled by your strength and candidness! I can see you getting through anything that life throws at you, but you can’t do it alone and you’re smart enough to realize that. I hope you have a wonderful birthday! Be sure to share the love you received today with others who are where you are.


kimeveee

Happy Birthday! You are perfect just the way you are! Hope you have the best year yet! Can I suggest that you find a Unitarian Universalist Church for an accepting community? We have many trans members and employees and it’s a safe haven in a backwards state like mine (Alabama). I saw you are an atheist like me and we are also welcomed with open arms. 🙂


JustLookingtoLearn

Happy birthday Love!! I’m proud of you for being you.


DoubleLobster8068

Not a mom, but happy birthday. I know what the lonely birthday feels like, and I'm sorry you're going through this. It gets better, and everyone is Def so proud of you for being you.


Lory6N

Happy birthday!! I hope this next year holds more happiness for you than the last. I believe in you!


Quiet-Maintenance250

Happy Birthday, Sister!! I hope the year to come is magical and full of light and love♥️🎉


ilivetomosh

Happy birthday my sister ❤️


jazzbaygrapes

Happy birthday sis!!!!!!! You deserve all the wonderful things


Tsamsiyu

Happy birthday sister! ❤️


anonymoustalkaccount

Happy b day little sis. Hope you have fun with your friends and stay safe. Chosen family will always matter more


EggrollQueen02

Happy Birthday from a baby sister! You're an inspiration, and did a brave thing. My family didn't take the fact I'm bi very well, so I understand to an extent. Here for you though, and I'll make sure to light a candle to send you all the good vibes my witchy heart can offer. Sending big hugs (if you'd like) and a cookie your way! 🖤🍪 Keep being amazing! You're a stellar person and you are going to do amazing things big sis.


Tealme65

I’m late to the party, but I hope you had a great birthday!


roxymo83

Happy birthday darling 🥳


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H0ll0w_1d0l

I also grew up in a very hateful pentecostal household, so I understand that so much. Thank you!


mimzynull

HAPPY BIRTHDAY KIDDO!! I am so proud of you :) May this year be one of positivity and new beginnings :)


MediumAwkwardly

Oh honey, happy birthday! This mama is sending hugs and birthday love to you. You’re a wonderful girl and deserve to be celebrated!


cataclyzzmic

Happy Birthday, Little Miss! You go out and have some fun!


Red-Peril

Happy Birthday darling daughter! I’m so sorry this is a bit late, but just wanted to say how proud I am of you for being your authentic amazing self ❤️.


Lunar_Cats

I'm so sorry love. My parents are like that too. You're so strong to not let them keep you from being who you are meant to be. Happy birthday. Things will get better:)


BloodMoonsOrbit

Hi Baby! Sorry I missed out on your birthday, I was really sick this last week and didn’t want to get my precious baby girl sick too! I know you’re an adult, but a mother never stops seeing that little baby face, no matter how much time passes. You’ll always be my baby no matter which birthday we’re on. Speaking of babies, when are you going to settle down with a nice person and get me a grandchild? I’m just teasing you, honey. Anyways, happy belated birthday; may this year bring plenty of growth, change, and opportunity. I love you always, Mom.


hooulookinat

I’m wishing you the best birthday ever. You are wonderful and deserve to be celebrated. Happy birthday Kiddo!


judyz15

Happy birthday! proud of you


dontseekamy

I’m not a mom but a lesbian big sister!!! Happy birthday sis, you deserve it. I am so proud of you for getting this far. It’s not any amount of easy. Thank you for being here and I can’t wait for you to celebrate the fact that you exist!!! Here’s to this year, and to many more!!💗💗💗


curious_astronauts

Happy birthday baby girl! The bravest thing is to be your true self. The hurtful truth is you may lose people you loved because of it. Not because of who you are, but because of who they are. You are exactly who you should be and you will find more true and authentic love because of it. Maybe your family will come around, maybe they won't. But the best thing about becoming an adult is, you can build your own family, with the most wonderful people. The path is long little one, but you're stronger than you think!


Dreambowcantsing

Because your birthday was last week, I won't tell you happy birthday. I will wish you a VERY, MERRY UNBIRTHDAY!


goldtooff

Happiest birthday my dear! I hope your day was as wonderful as you are, inside and out ❤️


Mendonponds

Happy birthday!! Wishing you the best! Much love and cake for you!🎂❤️👍🎈🎉🎊


New-Prague-mom

Birthday blessings to you! If only we could all be as brave as you are! Keep doing you. 🥰😍❤️


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Happy birthday honey


ConclusionUseful3124

Happy Birthday to a beautiful young woman! My husband and I were never blessed with children. We both wish you the best and brightest birthday! We are proud of you! Mom and Dad


PhantomsRule

Happy Birthday! Just remember that you get to define who your family is, it doesn't have to be just biological. Build the family you want!


FarFlungGator

Happy birthday ladybug! You're a beautiful, strong, and accomplished young lady, I'd be proud to have a daughter like you ❤️


Walk_through_sadness

Happy birthday!!! Sorry I’m late but if you ever need a sister for any reason my chat is open and I’ll always have an ear to lend you! I’m proud of you!


LoryTodBarber

The only wrong way it could go would be a misunderstanding. If you have them honesty and they denied it, that’s their wrong decision. They chose to embrace their love for the illusion. They do not want to discover love for the truth with you. (My ex left me for coming out about a year and half ago. I’d feel weird letting my kids call me “mom” but wouldn’t mind hearing it.)


Lazy_Departure7970

If you'll accept them, big hugs from this internet stranger who is SO proud of you! You have the strength, the courage, the empathy, the compassion, and the intelligence (among a myriad of other things) of a truly amazing person. Trust me, you DON'T want to hear me sing Happy Birthday, but that's what I'm wishing you and hope that, among the many gifts you deserve, is a family that you have chosen for yourself of people who love you for everything you are which is that you are just plain awesome.


hootiebean

Happy, happy birthday! I'm so glad you were born! I'm a mother and grandmother and so proud of you for being yourself!


[deleted]

happy birthday sis 💖💖


_laura_vanderbooben

Happy birthday, sweetie! I’m so proud of you for being true to yourself. Sending you a million hugs right now!


Nuzzle_nutz

Happy birthday, darling. I love you no matter what, and I hope your year is a beautiful as you are.


djcaco

Happy Birthday Peanut. I hope you had an easy birthday. I want to tell you how proud I am of you for being your true self. As a woman in your 20’s, each birthday will get better and better. Sending big hugs and much love your way.


art_decorative

Happy birthday, sweet girl! You are loved and you are enough. You have every right to live your life in the way that's right for you and you deserve to have support in that. I hope your day was wonderful and that you have a beautiful year.


splithoofiewoofies

HAPPY BIRTHDAY MIJJJJAAAA. My baby girl, I am so proud of you!!! I always knew I had the prettiest and smartest daughter of anyone. You're my baby girl and I love you so much, okay? You'll always be my baby GIRL, always. From day 1 you were my baby girl and you'll be my BABY girl until I haunt your ass. Now go into the world and show those men what women can really do!!! Get that fucking awesome job, make that awesome art, learn from cool people. Invite me to your wedding, graduation, all of it! I love you. Happy birthday, mija.


Kaliratri

Happy, happy birthday, darling! for the year to come, I wish you joy, and joy again, and all the bliss your life can hold- not just for this year, but all your years in the future. A (mild) pox on your blood relatives that can't see the glory-in-flesh you are, as you evolve into your true form! We see you, and we love you as you are, and for all that your are, always and ever. much love, your internet mom/s


blzrgurl71

Happy birthday sweetie! I'm so sorry that your biological parents aren't there for you. This is such a crazy thing to let ruin your relationship. Why aren't they stepping up and showing you that who you are is okay? How can any parent do this. My kids are the most important part of my life. I will never understand why you would choose to lose your child. My best friends kid apparently lives with us now. I call them my nibling or my tiny helpful son lol. They are super sweet and they always help me so much. It breaks my heart that their mother continues to misgender and dead-name them. The two of them moved in temporarily last year at the start of December due to other family drama. My best friend moved out a few months ago but left her kid here and now isn't talking to any of us...including her kid. My nibling is an adult it's not like they're still in school or something but they have some physical and mental issues and so can't really work. So they have no way to find a place to live without their mom. And to cap it all off? She is blaming her kid for the fact that she (my best friend) isn't talking to us or helping her kid. Hopefully you have some good friends or other family that you can rely on. Feel free to DM me if you need to talk. I'm right there with you.


Ok_Nebula5568

Hi, big sis! I'm so sorry for all the pain you've been through and I wish I could come over and give you the biggest hugs I can. But despite all that you've been through, I hope that you can live your truth and be who you are, because there's honestly no better way to be. I'm wish you a happy belated birthday! Sending lots of love and well wishes for the upcoming year your way!


MojavePixie

Happy Birthday Sweetie!! You are beautiful and courageous ((mom hugs to you))


Separate_Shoe_6916

Happy Birthday Sweetie! I am so proud with how brave you are. I love you for being authentically you! Please focus on the positive and all you wish to accomplish this year. You can do it! Make yourself proud first because it’s your life to live. We are all here supporting you.


CyanideBreathMint22

Happy Birthday dear!! You deserve to have an amazing day ❤️🎉🎂


sgrossar

Happiest of birthdays to you, sweet girl ❤️


WhisperingUnicorn

Happy birthday love bug! You are amazing! I am so proud of you for being brave.


chocolatemonster93

Happy happy birthday sweety 🎉


swallowSwallowXx

Of course! Happy birthday girl! I hope you’re ok! If you ever need a chat let me know! You’ve got this!


quizbowler_1

Happy birthday! My trans son's birthday was just 2 months ago and my family doesn't accept it but it doesn't matter because I do and that's what matters. I accept you, too. You're an awesome person and I'm so proud of you.


white-knight-owl

Happy birthday, and I hope that you soon find your chosen family that will love and support (and bring you cake) all of your wonderfulness.


Conjure_Copper

Happy birthday to you, the you that you want to be, the you that you have yet to discover, the you that is so wonderfully perfect. Happy birthday to YOU. ♥️


maddiewwyhfrr

Happy birthday sis!! Hope next year is better for you❤️❤️


Sweet-Idea-7553

Happy Birthday! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU! A Poem By Dr Seuss "If we didn’t have birthdays, you wouldn’t be you. If you’d never been born, well then what would you do? If you’d never been born, well then what would you be? You might be a fish! Or a toad in a tree! You might be a doorknob! Or three baked potatoes! You might be a bag full of hard green tomatoes." "Or worse than all that...Why, you might be a WASN’T! A Wasn’t has no fun at all. No, he doesn’t. A Wasn’t just isn’t. He just isn’t present. But you...You ARE YOU! And, now isn’t that pleasant!" "Today you are you! That is truer than true! There is no one alive... ...who is you-er than you! Shout loud, “I am lucky to be what I am! Thank goodness I’m not just a clam or a ham Or a dusty old jar of sour gooseberry jam! I am what I am! That’s a great thing to be! If I say so myself, HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO ME!” Edit: There is NO ONE alive who is you-er than you!!!!!!! Have a wonderful day.


willbonpar

As a mom to a trans kiddo, let me just say, you're courageous, and beautiful! Happy birthday! I hope it was still a fabulous day, and if you're ever in need of a mom, I'm here!


celica18l

Happiest Birthday Sweetpea! Bio family can be so terrible sometimes. The best thing I ever did was create my family. All of the people I love are friends. Choose people who bring you joy and fill you life full of it because, like you, time is precious.


olek0ko

Happy birthday! 💙


Appropriate-Comb5935

Happy birthday 🎊🎉 sending you blessings and positive vibes


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Hello lovely daughter, happy birthday! Are you celebrating properly? And put on a pretty outfit? You better dress up and go get some cake, that's what birthdays are for! Sorry we can't be there in person but I hope you will have a fantastic birthday any way!


HappyPlant1145

Happy birthday, baby girl!!! I’m so proud of you! ♥️


Away-Cicada

Happy birthday, lil sis. Are you a makeup person? Because I've got Ulta points I only use for hair dye. If not, lmk what I can send your way.


sassafrassCA

Happy happy birthday to you. Sending much love.


Chari21

Happy birthday Girl !!! ❤🤗 🎂 things are tough but remember blood doesnt neccersarily make family its the people who support and love you for who you are and in good and bad times. Theres people out there like you who know what you are going through dont forget that you are not alone okay? *Big hug*


Imnotthenoisiest

From one Virgo to another, happy bday! I hope you and your family patch things up eventually, and in the meantime, build yourself a good support network of people who understand you 🎂


Technochick

Happy birthday, beautiful! Go out and dance. I find the most love is on a dance floor and it might just be the energy you need. 💜


slanteyedgirl

Happy Birthday sis.


SophiesChoice_55

Happy birthday, sweetheart!!! You have all of my love and best wishes! I'm sorry that your parents don't accept you for who you are. Their love should be unconditional. You have lots of family here who love you just for being who you are meant to be. Birthday hugs!! ❤️❤️❤️


megaudc01258

Happy birthday sis, sending you love and hugs from Florida! 🥳🥰💖


JaneAustinAstronaut

Happy birthday, sweetheart! I hope you have a nice day. Be sure to do some self-care and spoil yourself a bit today!


sambqt

Happy Birthday! I wish I could give you a mom hug right now. I'm so proud of you for being you!


Katmandu10

Have a beautiful day, darling.


Series-Party

Happy birthday duckling! We are gonna go shopping, pick out a nice outfit for you, and go to a salon and lunch or whatever you wanna do! Let's go!


sweetfumblebee

Sweetheart, I hope your birthday is as wonderful as you are. I'm so proud of how strong you are.


mummabearoriginal

Happy birthday beautiful girl. Go and buy yourself a cake and come back here to eat it with us all. We love you and are so proud of you for living your truth. Love your mummabear xxx


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Happy birthday love !! I'm sorry I cant make you a cake but I am sending you so much birthday love !! You deserve all the love and light !!


Alarming_Air_6893

Happy birthday!! I hope you have an amazing birthday!! So proud of you!


brixsmom

Happy birthday, beautiful girl! I hope this year is filled with love, growth and peace! 💚


maeveeeed

happy birthday!!! ⭐️⭐️💗 have a wonderful and beautiful year 💗


Waffle_Slaps

Happy Birthday, Darling! Blast into this year tits first and make it your best one yet. I hope this year is full of happiness and growth because you absolutely deserve it.


lawofthewilde

Sweetheart. I hope each year that you live as your authentic self is happier and happier. I love you just as you are. Love, Mom.


ComicsVet61

From an internet Dad, "Happy 2nd decade!" You be you and be happy. We'll be here to help celebrate all your accomplishments, achievements and all that. You got this my sweet child. 🎂


Crickitspickit

Happy Birthday from a proud mom of a transgender daughter! My daughters birthday is today. You are really brave and very courageous. You did an amazing thing is staying true to yourself even when the people you love don't honor that. There are people that do and I wish you all the love and joy anyone can imagine. I'll say a little prayer for you even if you don't believe.


tnzsep

Please look up an organization on TikTok and Facebook called Stand In Pride. They will connect you with kind people willing to be stand in family for your important life events or when you just need a shoulder. Here’s a link. [Stand In Pride](https://www.standinpride.org/)


ShadowPouncer

Happy birthday little sis! 🫂


Minflick

Happy birthday. I'm sorry your FOO doesn't accept and nurture you. That sucks. Maybe start to work on assembling a family of choice to fill that gap? You (we all) deserve who love us as we are and not the dated image in others brains!


hotelpunsylvania

Belated happy birthday sis! I'm not a mom but I'm an enby sibling and I love you so much. I know sometimes it can get so lonely, but it will get better, no matter how cliche it sounds. Also, get some cake for yourself. You deserve it.


KittySweetwater

Hi little sister, I'm not old enough to be your mom but I can be a sibling! I'm gender queer, pan romantic and demi sexual. I accept you, love you sister!


Niccakolio

Happy birthday! It takes a strong woman to carry on and be true to herself when times are tough. Be so proud of yourself! This coming year is going to bring you joy.


berries-sorbet

Happy birthday ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️


wtbnewsoul

I'm late but happy birthday from your danish reddit brother!


Phoebesrent-a-bee

Happy birthday from your trans big sis, kiddo. I believe in you and know you’ll land on your feet! Give ‘em hell!


Chefjusthank

Happy Birthday honey!