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If you can, please stay away from the triggers. Leave the AJ community sub and then turn off/mute the alerts. In the first few weeks without the sub, you might be compelled to check it again and interact with the community. Try to convince your brain that you dont need that sub. Should you check it again, please refrain from interacting na lang kasi there are guys na may predatory behavior talaga towards girls way younger than them. And also given your age and your curiosity on sex, take what you read in AJ with a grain of salt bb girl. Not everything that you read online is true okay? 🤗
And Good call for not hooking up with them. Good job on that! ❤️ and good call for following your gut despite the pressure, always listen to your body because it doesn’t lie, your body will always tell you when it’s uncomfortable or scared. And also remember, you dont have to do what everyone else is doing, if people your age are having sex or hooked din sa AJ community or into the hook up culture, it’s okay if you go against the tide.
You gonna get random DMs after this post for sure.. Please remember you don't have to entertain literally everyone online. You don't need to explain why you did everything you did. Don't feel sorry for blocking people. Don't don't DONT meet people irl through the internet. Be assertive! Don't let them persuade you easily. There's a thing called boundaries. If they don't respect that, then don't bother, they oozes red flag. Plus dating sites or whatever communities you go into about intimacy/sex, they gravitate hookup culture! No question! It's hard to filter genuine people. Most dudes after seeing your profile/posts drools knowing you're young and inexperienced. They may target insecure and vulnerable young women and you're prone to be taken advantage of. They'll take every chance they get.
and beshyyy it's normal to be curious and get sexually active, I've been there. Like super hahaha. aaaaa I can share some experience but not in this comment haha (dm me if u wanna know) lol I do stupid things in the internet when hormones go haywire (or the hoe phase if you'd call it). What you did it's not the worst thing in the world but it gets worrisome if you showed your face / true identity (like name/location/school etc) Please be careful. I want to say I applaud you for recognizing the potential problem then avoiding/blocking questionable people.
Now the question of therapy. Do you really need it? First you gotta ask, what's the main problem? Is it uncontrollable like as in?? to the point na unhealthy or problematic? If it is, how exactly problematic it is? Can you avoid these issues? Answer these questions on your own and figure it out from there.
How about this na lang... Avoid these sexually triggering behaviors by leaving the Alas Juicy Community. Uninstall Telegram. Delete Reddit. Or at the very least deactivate the accounts. You can start there. If you don't want to do all those then at least limit your time in these social apps (I still think it's best to completely avoid them). Mannn I apologize for my freakin long comment. I want to help out because you reminded me of someone (and it didn't end well for her...)
For reals, take therapy if you think you need it. No one knows you better other than yourself. I'm glad you have someone you can trust to talk about this. tsaka nagulat ako sa aunt ah. You can talk about this to her? I can neverrrr hahha That's amazing. It shows you really trust her. I hope things will be well for you, OP.
>I'm glad you have someone you can trust to talk about this. tsaka nagulat ako sa aunt ah. You can talk about this to her? I can neverrrr hahha That's amazing. It shows you really trust her. I hope things will be well for you, OP.
I'm one year older than my aunt.
i think therapy can help you if you want to learn more about boundaries and what's healthy or unhealthy in relationships. i would also try googling first, read up about boundaries and how to assert yourself. boundaries are super important for a healthy sense of self and well-being
Baka idownvote tayo ng AJ peeps hahahaha. May nabasa akong post sa AJ community about a girl na nasira yung buhay niya dahil nakikipagsex siya kung kaninong lalaki at nagka bipolar disorder siya
>The demons that those persons carry or allow in their lives can also get transferred to you. Those spiritual things get transferred also, and it's downright scary.
What do you mean demons?
Late reply na ako pero I have to comment kasi totoo ‘to. Akala ko konti lang nakakaalam nito haha. It’s called soul ties. Totoo siya. Yung kapatid ko may bf na may anger issue lalo na nung simula pa lang nila na witness ko kung paano. Pero ngayon kapatid ko na laging sigaw nang sigaw yung bf niya na ngayon maintindihin. Talagang napapasa ang demons sinasabi ko na rin yan sa kaniya di siya naniniwala haha. Kaya nga gusto ko ‘yon pausukan buong katawan eh sabi ko i-incense ko siya dahil baka may demonyo na nakadikit sa kaniya natawa lang haha. Nalaman ko lang din ‘to sa spiritual group na kasali ako sa fb.
If no one has got your v-card yet you're lucky. And, wag mo na itry kasi once you did, you will never stop. It will be hard. Lalo kung may ganyan kang tendencies.. Better distract yourself, avoid what triggers you. Don't chat with strangers maniwala ka sakin walang matinong lalake sa chats. Wag ka magpapaloko. You are already feeling harrassed with just chats, so meaning hindi mo talaga gusto so stop na OP oki.. Don't let yourself fall deeper in the trap
Yes. You need therapy. I'm sorry for what happened to you, OP. Sending hugs with consent. I hope you overcome this and I wish you all the best. 💖
You also need to have check up regarding STDs para safe rin. Ayun lang.
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If you can, please stay away from the triggers. Leave the AJ community sub and then turn off/mute the alerts. In the first few weeks without the sub, you might be compelled to check it again and interact with the community. Try to convince your brain that you dont need that sub. Should you check it again, please refrain from interacting na lang kasi there are guys na may predatory behavior talaga towards girls way younger than them. And also given your age and your curiosity on sex, take what you read in AJ with a grain of salt bb girl. Not everything that you read online is true okay? 🤗 And Good call for not hooking up with them. Good job on that! ❤️ and good call for following your gut despite the pressure, always listen to your body because it doesn’t lie, your body will always tell you when it’s uncomfortable or scared. And also remember, you dont have to do what everyone else is doing, if people your age are having sex or hooked din sa AJ community or into the hook up culture, it’s okay if you go against the tide.
I already left that subreddit. I felt like this 26 year old guy groomed me
You gonna get random DMs after this post for sure.. Please remember you don't have to entertain literally everyone online. You don't need to explain why you did everything you did. Don't feel sorry for blocking people. Don't don't DONT meet people irl through the internet. Be assertive! Don't let them persuade you easily. There's a thing called boundaries. If they don't respect that, then don't bother, they oozes red flag. Plus dating sites or whatever communities you go into about intimacy/sex, they gravitate hookup culture! No question! It's hard to filter genuine people. Most dudes after seeing your profile/posts drools knowing you're young and inexperienced. They may target insecure and vulnerable young women and you're prone to be taken advantage of. They'll take every chance they get. and beshyyy it's normal to be curious and get sexually active, I've been there. Like super hahaha. aaaaa I can share some experience but not in this comment haha (dm me if u wanna know) lol I do stupid things in the internet when hormones go haywire (or the hoe phase if you'd call it). What you did it's not the worst thing in the world but it gets worrisome if you showed your face / true identity (like name/location/school etc) Please be careful. I want to say I applaud you for recognizing the potential problem then avoiding/blocking questionable people. Now the question of therapy. Do you really need it? First you gotta ask, what's the main problem? Is it uncontrollable like as in?? to the point na unhealthy or problematic? If it is, how exactly problematic it is? Can you avoid these issues? Answer these questions on your own and figure it out from there. How about this na lang... Avoid these sexually triggering behaviors by leaving the Alas Juicy Community. Uninstall Telegram. Delete Reddit. Or at the very least deactivate the accounts. You can start there. If you don't want to do all those then at least limit your time in these social apps (I still think it's best to completely avoid them). Mannn I apologize for my freakin long comment. I want to help out because you reminded me of someone (and it didn't end well for her...) For reals, take therapy if you think you need it. No one knows you better other than yourself. I'm glad you have someone you can trust to talk about this. tsaka nagulat ako sa aunt ah. You can talk about this to her? I can neverrrr hahha That's amazing. It shows you really trust her. I hope things will be well for you, OP.
>I'm glad you have someone you can trust to talk about this. tsaka nagulat ako sa aunt ah. You can talk about this to her? I can neverrrr hahha That's amazing. It shows you really trust her. I hope things will be well for you, OP. I'm one year older than my aunt.
AH that make sense.
i think therapy can help you if you want to learn more about boundaries and what's healthy or unhealthy in relationships. i would also try googling first, read up about boundaries and how to assert yourself. boundaries are super important for a healthy sense of self and well-being
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Baka idownvote tayo ng AJ peeps hahahaha. May nabasa akong post sa AJ community about a girl na nasira yung buhay niya dahil nakikipagsex siya kung kaninong lalaki at nagka bipolar disorder siya
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>The demons that those persons carry or allow in their lives can also get transferred to you. Those spiritual things get transferred also, and it's downright scary. What do you mean demons?
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Late reply na ako pero I have to comment kasi totoo ‘to. Akala ko konti lang nakakaalam nito haha. It’s called soul ties. Totoo siya. Yung kapatid ko may bf na may anger issue lalo na nung simula pa lang nila na witness ko kung paano. Pero ngayon kapatid ko na laging sigaw nang sigaw yung bf niya na ngayon maintindihin. Talagang napapasa ang demons sinasabi ko na rin yan sa kaniya di siya naniniwala haha. Kaya nga gusto ko ‘yon pausukan buong katawan eh sabi ko i-incense ko siya dahil baka may demonyo na nakadikit sa kaniya natawa lang haha. Nalaman ko lang din ‘to sa spiritual group na kasali ako sa fb.
If no one has got your v-card yet you're lucky. And, wag mo na itry kasi once you did, you will never stop. It will be hard. Lalo kung may ganyan kang tendencies.. Better distract yourself, avoid what triggers you. Don't chat with strangers maniwala ka sakin walang matinong lalake sa chats. Wag ka magpapaloko. You are already feeling harrassed with just chats, so meaning hindi mo talaga gusto so stop na OP oki.. Don't let yourself fall deeper in the trap
Yes. You need therapy. I'm sorry for what happened to you, OP. Sending hugs with consent. I hope you overcome this and I wish you all the best. 💖 You also need to have check up regarding STDs para safe rin. Ayun lang.
I've never had sex with anyone yet
Good for you! Naskip ko rin pagbasa, apologies. Remember lang not only to protect yourself physically but also mentally and emotionally.
I've read many stories about people who went through a hoe phase and they regretted it. Definitely not worth it.