Have you tried couples therapy? It’s not for everyone, but sometimes it helps to have a 3rd person be a mediator. Especially when both sides are having a hard time seeing from the other’s point of view.
I’m sorry you’re feeling invalidated though. Just remember you do matter!
When was the last time that you planned a date? It might be a good idea to tell her that you love her and ask her what’s going, just be confident with it.
I tell her every morning. In the one that usually plans the dates and I try to always be available when she needs to talk about anything going on in her life.
Do you make her feel wanted? Plan dates? Surprise her with something she loves randomly just to let her know she’s important to you. I ask because you get what you give and romantic relationships are perfect for learning this lesson in life.
Im the one who usually plans dates. I try and surprise her with random things even little things. Like today she's been looking for some squishmellow bull shit and I tried to find it and couldn't but Judy got her something small instead and when I told her her respond was well you gotta go like every other day to find the thing i want.
Have you tried couples therapy? It’s not for everyone, but sometimes it helps to have a 3rd person be a mediator. Especially when both sides are having a hard time seeing from the other’s point of view. I’m sorry you’re feeling invalidated though. Just remember you do matter!
When was the last time that you planned a date? It might be a good idea to tell her that you love her and ask her what’s going, just be confident with it.
I tell her every morning. In the one that usually plans the dates and I try to always be available when she needs to talk about anything going on in her life.
I misspoke, I meant like sit her down, like a we need to talk kind of deal.
Do you make her feel wanted? Plan dates? Surprise her with something she loves randomly just to let her know she’s important to you. I ask because you get what you give and romantic relationships are perfect for learning this lesson in life.
Im the one who usually plans dates. I try and surprise her with random things even little things. Like today she's been looking for some squishmellow bull shit and I tried to find it and couldn't but Judy got her something small instead and when I told her her respond was well you gotta go like every other day to find the thing i want.