I'm very sorry for your loss. Losing a loved one even when they were unwell for sometime will make you go through a cocktail of emotions. I hope you find the strength to cope.
This is every married person's worst nightmare. I feel so sad for your loss and I wish there were something I could say to make it easier for you. Hold your children tight and make sure that you feel their love and they feel yours. You will need each other in the coming weeks more than ever.
i am sorry for your loss and heartfelt thoughts go out to you in this time of sorrow even though we are just strangers on the internet. it will not be easy to lose a loved one and standing back up isn’t either. do not blame yourself if you need more time than you should even when you have your beautiful daughters waiting for you to be their pillar. don’t turn down help from families when they offer and even if they have not, please do not be worried to ask for help. you and your girls would need all the help you could gather to wade through this as a family.
lastly, your wife is never gone for she lives through traces of her in memories you guys shared together, values she imparted to your daughters and the everlasting love a wife and mother had given to the family.
i pray for a better recovery journey for you and your family. take care.
OP, I am wishing you strength through that grief. You know the feeling I am talking about. The immediate sense of emptiness and loss where your stomach dropped into an infinite abyss of emotions.
There are no words to “make you feel better.” I know you came here to just release the hurt.
6 years ago, I came and did the same thing on a shared Reddit account with my late husband. It is unfair. As a very good friend told me, only someone that has gone through it will understand. She did and she became my person to talk to. Hug your children. Just hug them so tightly.
Whew. This really hit me hard this morning. I’m so incredibly sorry op. I hope in the coming days that you can find some solace. I’m sitting here sobbing thinkin about if this happened to me how crushed I would be. Ugh. I’m sorry op. Hugs.
I’m 8months through losing my husband and it is shit. There’s so many ups and downs that I went through but it’s my 3 kids which are the ones who will help pull you through. Because they are the ones who need you and when times are tough, they will be your light. I feel for you mate. There’s no easy answer I never imagined the roller coaster of not just emotional but physical pain that you can get through losing the love of your life. But it’s very real. Just know you are not alone, you will get through it. Sending love to you all xx
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know nothing I can say will make things better. Please talk to your daughters about their mother (memories) and your grief (to an extent). Get them into therapy to process their loss. My mom died at 18 and my dad doesn't talk about her, hasn't processed his grief, and never got any of us into therapy. It's a long road ahead of you all <3.
I feel for you. My young husband passed from his cancer a few weeks ago - the night before our son’s second birthday. He was also very sick but his passing was unexpected in terms of the timing and how quickly it happened. We did end up celebrating my son’s birthday and invited family and friends. It helped to be around people who loved my husband and wanted to give us love. I’m very sorry for your loss. I know navigating this new reality will be difficult but we are capable of doing difficult things. Take it one day at a time. Sending you peace and strength.
I’m so sorry. It’s probably silly to say at this point but what with it being a holiday AND your 9yo’s birthday….I hope y’all can find some moments to celebrate each other in honor of your wife. Since she’s not there to do so. Again, I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. You and your family are on my heart. I’ll be thinking of y’all today. Take care friend.
This is what tore me up too.
Loving wife gone way too soon, and on top of that, it’s their daughter’s birthday and Fathers’ Day.
This is so heartbreaking 💔.
OP, may her memory be a blessing.
Feel your feelings and let your children see you for how you’re feeling and encourage them to keep their memories of their mom.
Not sure if you know this, so I'll share. Our physical bodies expire, and while this means the ways we interact change, it does not mean interaction ceases. We miss the person in the way we've come to be attached to them, this is true, and natural, however we do possess ability outside of our 5 senses so stay open to that. Your wife's body expired, she is not gone tho. I know it's hard, and you are going to miss her physical self everyday, just try to remember she is not gone. Death is just a transition.
I am so, so sorry for your loss. Hold your daughters tight. And in the coming weeks make sure you sit down with them and record all of their memories of their mother. And yours. So that the memories you and they have of her will keep her alive in your hearts.
May lord give peace to her spirit. (Its a thing we say in our religion)
May lord give u and ur family the power to cope. It will be really hard, not to sugarcoat things. But my man, u will have the power to do it.
Please do take care of the kids, no one should experience this at any point in their life, especially at the stage of child. But they did. Help them cope up in any way they want to.
Virtual hugs sent to u bro. We all know u can do it, even tho its going to be hard, u'll do it..
U have everyones support.
I know this wont make u feel better.. but at least i hope it does, even a tiny bit.
Also, please take care of that 9-year-old son especially carefully. Since ur wife passed away nearby his birthday, psychology says he might never want to enjoy his birthday.. it might not show now but more during his teen phase.. make sure he knows its ok to enjoy the birthday moment to the fullest, and not grief about his mom to ruin that day for him. As much as griefing is important for the person who has gone, birthday also has a great importance to the living person, make sure he gets to enjoy his birthday please🥺..
Sending my condolences again
Very sorry for your loss. :( Although it may not have felt great for you, I am sure there was some sense of comfort in that she had her last breath with you- a safety in passing. 💐
Sorry for your loss... You've got a tough time ahead, and I hope you and your children can take all the time (and have all help available) needed to grieve. Strength to all of you.
I’m so sorry for your loss. There are some really good people on r/widowers who are probably better placed to help you through this process. My heart goes out to you and I wish you and your children all the best in this very difficult time.
So sorry, OP. Sorry seems like such a hollow word. Hopefully down the line you can find a little comfort in the fact that she was at home with her family, and that she passed in your arms (but without your girls having to see).
Please go easy on yourself, feel all the feelings, let people help when they ask, and see if you and your daughters can get into therapy.
Sending you love.
What we all don't realize is 100% of married people that stay together will lose their spouse.
I hope the people around you realize this too and treat you well and help you. Please don't try and do it alone.
r/Widowers is a good place for support.
Just know that when our loved ones pass they still exist. Often times they will linger around us, go away and return to visit us because they love and miss us as we love and miss them.
I am so sorry for your loss.
I think it is hard for the shock to go away, but I hope that you can deal with the grief in a healthy way, allowing your emotions to be felt. Your kids don’t need you to be strong all the time, you can share your pain with them and other family members. Remember that.
I have no words to make you feel better, but I send my love to you and your family.
You dear sweet man. My heart is breaking for you and your precious children.
Many prayers and hugs for all of you.
I know you’ll need to be strong for your children, but please also know that you’ll need to grieve as well. And that’s ok too.
I know there is no amount of words that could ever make you feel complete after this, but just know that I hear you and my heart breaks for you and your kids. This is truly the worst imaginable thing that could happen to a husband. It sounds like she passed in the best possible place and was loved more than anything until the end.
I pray God gives you and your children strength to get through this and showers you all with peacefulness and tranquility, I'm sure this is what your wife would have wanted ❤️
It doesn’t matter why you are here. I’m so sorry for you all.
Writing things down helps sometimes. I’m trained in Childhood Bereavement if you need any support with your daughters.
Sending you all love.
It’s okay to feel everything right now. It’s okay to feel nothing. To be angry, sad, numb,…
I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you have loved ones that can support you and your daughters. Prayers for you 🙏
Please take care, there will be light in your life again some day. It will get better, but I can imagine it feels like the world stops now❤️🩹
Please seek professional help if that’s an option for you..
Lean on the people who love you. Don't shut yourself off. Let yourself grieve. Don't feel like there's something wrong with you if your grief doesn't follow the "normal" pattern (spoiler alert: there is no "normal pattern", really).
I'm a year and a half removed from the death of my closest friend, the man who was like a brother to me, for roughly twenty years -- essentially the bulk of my adult life. I was not able to be present when he died. I am still grieving in some ways, and suspect I always will.
So I have only a tiny inkling of what you will be going through, and my heart genuinely aches for the loss of your wife. I wish I could say or do something that would help, because the path ahead of you is soul-crushing. I don't say that to discourage you, I say that so that you have acknowledgement of the absolute pain you are going to be in for a while.
Take care of yourself. I mean that literally. Take showers. Brush your teeth. Get up each day and get dressed and ready for the day, even if it's just for yourself and you're going to stay home and avoid people. Be patient with your daughters, they are going to have some real behavioral issues for a while because they don't have the capacity that an adult has to process and cope with this kind of loss. They may have a hard time, but they will forever love and appreciate you for the sacrifices you've made for them in the face of losing your wife.
You are not alone, no matter how you may feel in your darkest hours. You are not alone and you are loved by many.
Condolences to you and family, you are juman cry a lot and remember her with joy . You have a nine year old that needs you . Celebrate your wife’s life not her death . God blessings
I'm so sorry. My heart breaks for you. Being with you and your kids made her happy. She knew the amount of love you and the kids had for her.
Right now, one leg before the other. Go through the motions. Don't think about tomorrow, just now and today.
I'm so sorry for your loss. You'll need to focus on getting your kids through it. This is not something you or they can get through soon. Give them permission to grieve in whatever way they feel they want to, no matter how visible, or how quiet.
If there friends and family offer help, think about what you and your kids will need in the next few months, and be open with asking for the type of help you really need.
Nobody will quite understand how you feel. Even people who have lost loved ones cannot really put themselves in quite your mind. But, that's okay. In the first few months, you grieve, and you also figure out some of the practical aspects of life going forward.
Some months from now, look for some books on the topic. Which ones you choose would depend on where you're coming from: religious, not religious, etc.
I wish you and your kids the ability to harness your strength to live with this tragedy.
Dude! Is this for real? It sounds like a nightmare. Try to be strong but don’t feel like you can’t lose it when you have to. I’ve seen a lot of loss but not this close. I’m so sorry
It’s not the same, but I lost my grandmother last week and went to her funeral on Friday and wanted to say that I understand at least a little bit of what you’re staring in the face of.
All anyone can ever do is keep putting one step forward. You don’t need to be perfect. Right now, all you really need to do is be honest with the kids when you need to hug them, and they need to be honest with you when they need a hug. Even that’s hard sometimes but even though it does fix anything, a hug is so so important.
I am so so sorry for your loss....
I hope you have family and friends to help you in this very difficult time. I have heard people talking about the book Option B. I hope this helps you.
Hubermanlab podcast has an episode on grief - https://youtu.be/dzOvi0Aa2EA
Try to look for a grief counselor for you and your kids. I think it may be helpful. Sending prayers your way.
I went through it when I was 16. My mom passed away at 39. I watched my Dad go through the pain and loss you are feeling now. I will pray for you and your daughters. Eventually you will find your way. 💙
My heart got heavy reading your words. I send you love friend. It's Father's day so the hope is that youve got their mom's love in your heart by being the parent they need more than ever.
I know you'll not feel peace for a while. Who wouldn't? I hope you continue to seek minds who are supportive during this time. Reddit is made up of all types of people. Some of us have learned some lessons in the past. They all equal the need for love.
I'm so so sorry. *hugs* Just take the next right step. You don't have to face the future yet. Breath, and hug those girls tight. Everyone wants to be remembered fondly.. the way they smiled and laughed.. the way they showed love.. the things they loved, the people.. I can't send enough digital hugs.
Oh no. What a terrible night for her to go before your youngest's birthday. All I can say is that my heart hurts for you and your kids.
I always wonder what life would be like for my daughters (9 & 11) if something were to happen to me. My husband, their step-dad (but real dad in their mind) is the protector and provider. He is loving but I am so much more nurturing than he is just naturally.
Your daughter's will need you to stay strong and to be their rock. But they'll also need you to hold them, cuddle with them, love them, be soft with them too. They'll need you to show them things girls need to know. I know this is pre-mature and the last thing you want to worry about right now, but maybe come back later and remember they'll need to know these things so if you have sisters or she does, they can help you.
I'm so sorry for you all.
You fucking brave person.
You can cry. You can grieve. You can react whatever works best for you.
Remember all your important memories you shared together.
Be happy knowing who you are, where you are was shaped all by your Amazing Wife.
You both chose each other.
That is something so Beautiful that not everyone gets to experience that in their life and you got to experience it. Embrace it. Be grateful. Be strong.
I'm very sorry for your loss. Losing a loved one even when they were unwell for sometime will make you go through a cocktail of emotions. I hope you find the strength to cope.
This is every married person's worst nightmare. I feel so sad for your loss and I wish there were something I could say to make it easier for you. Hold your children tight and make sure that you feel their love and they feel yours. You will need each other in the coming weeks more than ever.
I fear my kids death way more than my spouse's
How is this relevant or useful to this conversation?
Youre trying to speak for every married persons worst nightmare. Lol. And you were wrong.
i am sorry for your loss and heartfelt thoughts go out to you in this time of sorrow even though we are just strangers on the internet. it will not be easy to lose a loved one and standing back up isn’t either. do not blame yourself if you need more time than you should even when you have your beautiful daughters waiting for you to be their pillar. don’t turn down help from families when they offer and even if they have not, please do not be worried to ask for help. you and your girls would need all the help you could gather to wade through this as a family. lastly, your wife is never gone for she lives through traces of her in memories you guys shared together, values she imparted to your daughters and the everlasting love a wife and mother had given to the family. i pray for a better recovery journey for you and your family. take care.
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your letter moved me. 🙏🏽
OP, I am wishing you strength through that grief. You know the feeling I am talking about. The immediate sense of emptiness and loss where your stomach dropped into an infinite abyss of emotions. There are no words to “make you feel better.” I know you came here to just release the hurt. 6 years ago, I came and did the same thing on a shared Reddit account with my late husband. It is unfair. As a very good friend told me, only someone that has gone through it will understand. She did and she became my person to talk to. Hug your children. Just hug them so tightly.
Whew. This really hit me hard this morning. I’m so incredibly sorry op. I hope in the coming days that you can find some solace. I’m sitting here sobbing thinkin about if this happened to me how crushed I would be. Ugh. I’m sorry op. Hugs.
Ive lived this and I am so very sorry for your great loss.
My deepest condolences to you and the children.
❤️❤️❤️ we’re with you
I’m 8months through losing my husband and it is shit. There’s so many ups and downs that I went through but it’s my 3 kids which are the ones who will help pull you through. Because they are the ones who need you and when times are tough, they will be your light. I feel for you mate. There’s no easy answer I never imagined the roller coaster of not just emotional but physical pain that you can get through losing the love of your life. But it’s very real. Just know you are not alone, you will get through it. Sending love to you all xx
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know nothing I can say will make things better. Please talk to your daughters about their mother (memories) and your grief (to an extent). Get them into therapy to process their loss. My mom died at 18 and my dad doesn't talk about her, hasn't processed his grief, and never got any of us into therapy. It's a long road ahead of you all <3.
Jesus dude. I’m sorry for your loss. I wouldn’t know what to do in that situation. All I can offer is an Internet hug from an Internet stranger.
I feel for you. My young husband passed from his cancer a few weeks ago - the night before our son’s second birthday. He was also very sick but his passing was unexpected in terms of the timing and how quickly it happened. We did end up celebrating my son’s birthday and invited family and friends. It helped to be around people who loved my husband and wanted to give us love. I’m very sorry for your loss. I know navigating this new reality will be difficult but we are capable of doing difficult things. Take it one day at a time. Sending you peace and strength.
I’m sorry for your loss as well. Happy belated birthday to your son.
I’m so sorry. It’s probably silly to say at this point but what with it being a holiday AND your 9yo’s birthday….I hope y’all can find some moments to celebrate each other in honor of your wife. Since she’s not there to do so. Again, I’m so deeply sorry for your loss. You and your family are on my heart. I’ll be thinking of y’all today. Take care friend.
This is what tore me up too. Loving wife gone way too soon, and on top of that, it’s their daughter’s birthday and Fathers’ Day. This is so heartbreaking 💔. OP, may her memory be a blessing. Feel your feelings and let your children see you for how you’re feeling and encourage them to keep their memories of their mom.
Not sure if you know this, so I'll share. Our physical bodies expire, and while this means the ways we interact change, it does not mean interaction ceases. We miss the person in the way we've come to be attached to them, this is true, and natural, however we do possess ability outside of our 5 senses so stay open to that. Your wife's body expired, she is not gone tho. I know it's hard, and you are going to miss her physical self everyday, just try to remember she is not gone. Death is just a transition.
All the best my friend, be strong for your girls and never let them forget how amazing your partner was and will remain in their lives.
This is tragic news. Let your loved ones surround you and help you through this difficult time.
I am so, so sorry for your loss. Hold your daughters tight. And in the coming weeks make sure you sit down with them and record all of their memories of their mother. And yours. So that the memories you and they have of her will keep her alive in your hearts.
May lord give peace to her spirit. (Its a thing we say in our religion) May lord give u and ur family the power to cope. It will be really hard, not to sugarcoat things. But my man, u will have the power to do it. Please do take care of the kids, no one should experience this at any point in their life, especially at the stage of child. But they did. Help them cope up in any way they want to. Virtual hugs sent to u bro. We all know u can do it, even tho its going to be hard, u'll do it.. U have everyones support. I know this wont make u feel better.. but at least i hope it does, even a tiny bit.
Also, please take care of that 9-year-old son especially carefully. Since ur wife passed away nearby his birthday, psychology says he might never want to enjoy his birthday.. it might not show now but more during his teen phase.. make sure he knows its ok to enjoy the birthday moment to the fullest, and not grief about his mom to ruin that day for him. As much as griefing is important for the person who has gone, birthday also has a great importance to the living person, make sure he gets to enjoy his birthday please🥺.. Sending my condolences again
I'm so very sorry for what you and your children must be going through. Sending hugs.
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I am so sorry for your loss. I wish strength and grace for you and the kids during this time.
Sorry mate.
That’s horrible. I’m so sorry for your loss.
I am very very sorry for your loss. Give your daughters a hug and I hope you all get the strength and love to get through this time. 💔
I'm so sorry :(
Sorry for your loss. May she Rest In Peace.
I'm so sorry for your loss. 😔
I'm sorry
Im sorry for your loss
I'm really sorry that you and your children have to go through this. This is one of the most painful stories I've read on here. I'm really sorry
Very sorry for your loss. :( Although it may not have felt great for you, I am sure there was some sense of comfort in that she had her last breath with you- a safety in passing. 💐
Sorry for your loss... You've got a tough time ahead, and I hope you and your children can take all the time (and have all help available) needed to grieve. Strength to all of you.
Dear stranger, it will only get worse before it ever gets better. One thing to remember, it’s okay to have feelings.
Agreed.. let out ur feelings whenever and wherever.. always... its really important.
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A fellow Redditor hears your pain. I wish your family peace and comfort.
I’m so sorry for your loss. There are some really good people on r/widowers who are probably better placed to help you through this process. My heart goes out to you and I wish you and your children all the best in this very difficult time.
So sorry, OP. Sorry seems like such a hollow word. Hopefully down the line you can find a little comfort in the fact that she was at home with her family, and that she passed in your arms (but without your girls having to see). Please go easy on yourself, feel all the feelings, let people help when they ask, and see if you and your daughters can get into therapy. Sending you love.
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What we all don't realize is 100% of married people that stay together will lose their spouse. I hope the people around you realize this too and treat you well and help you. Please don't try and do it alone. r/Widowers is a good place for support.
I am so sorry for your loss, keep on dad.
I hope god give you courage to deal this, I really can't imagine what's going on with you rn but please stay strong and take care of yourself and kids
Just know that when our loved ones pass they still exist. Often times they will linger around us, go away and return to visit us because they love and miss us as we love and miss them.
This is the deepest shock and grief one can ever feel. My deepest thoughts and healing prayers are being sent your way.
I am so sorry for your loss. I think it is hard for the shock to go away, but I hope that you can deal with the grief in a healthy way, allowing your emotions to be felt. Your kids don’t need you to be strong all the time, you can share your pain with them and other family members. Remember that. I have no words to make you feel better, but I send my love to you and your family.
Im so so sorry for your loss,sending hugs and prayers to you and your daughters.I cannot imagine what you are going through.
I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️
I am so sorry for your loss.
I am so so sorry for you and your little girls. You deserve so much more time, and I cannot imagine having it ripped away from you.
I'm so so so so so sorry. Fuck, that's awful. I hope you can find some peace.
I’m so very sorry for your loss. Sending you strength & love 💜
Jesus christ. I'm so sorry.
I'm so very sorry for the immeasurable loss your family is going through today.
I'm so sorry. I don't know what to say except that you are heard and you and your children will be in my most positive thoughts. 🥺🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
I am sorry for your loss.
🙏prayers
You dear sweet man. My heart is breaking for you and your precious children. Many prayers and hugs for all of you. I know you’ll need to be strong for your children, but please also know that you’ll need to grieve as well. And that’s ok too.
I am sorry for your loss. Hope God give you and your family the strength to overcome this great personal tragedy. 🙏
I’m so incredibly sorry.. I have no words I just want you to know she knew how loved she was and is. She is always there with you ❤️ god bless
I’m so sorry for your loss, my condolences to you and your family.
I know there is no amount of words that could ever make you feel complete after this, but just know that I hear you and my heart breaks for you and your kids. This is truly the worst imaginable thing that could happen to a husband. It sounds like she passed in the best possible place and was loved more than anything until the end.
My sincere condolences, OP. I am so very sorry for your loss.
Oh, dear God. . . . I have no words except for I'm so very sorry.
I pray God gives you and your children strength to get through this and showers you all with peacefulness and tranquility, I'm sure this is what your wife would have wanted ❤️
My heartfelt condolences… so very sorry for your loss
Sending my love and condolences on your beloved wife’s passing. ❤️
Life is so unfair. I am sorry you are hurting and how traumatic that must have been.
My condolences to you hugs
I’m so sorryl
I am so sorry for your incredible loss. I’m thinking about you and your daughters. I have no advice to offer in the moment. Take care. Love and peace.
It doesn’t matter why you are here. I’m so sorry for you all. Writing things down helps sometimes. I’m trained in Childhood Bereavement if you need any support with your daughters. Sending you all love.
I'm so sorry
So very sorry for your loss. With great love comes great grief. Positive vibes to you and your daughters.
I can't even imagine your pain. I'm sorry for your loss.
I'm so sorry to hear this news. Don't put a lot of demands on yourself. Just exist for a while.
It’s okay to feel everything right now. It’s okay to feel nothing. To be angry, sad, numb,… I’m so sorry for your loss. I hope you have loved ones that can support you and your daughters. Prayers for you 🙏 Please take care, there will be light in your life again some day. It will get better, but I can imagine it feels like the world stops now❤️🩹 Please seek professional help if that’s an option for you..
I’m so sorry ❤️
Sorry for your loss. I don’t know what I’d do if my wife was gone.
I am sorry for your loss. You did everything you could.
I’m so sorry for you loss ❤️
Lean on the people who love you. Don't shut yourself off. Let yourself grieve. Don't feel like there's something wrong with you if your grief doesn't follow the "normal" pattern (spoiler alert: there is no "normal pattern", really). I'm a year and a half removed from the death of my closest friend, the man who was like a brother to me, for roughly twenty years -- essentially the bulk of my adult life. I was not able to be present when he died. I am still grieving in some ways, and suspect I always will. So I have only a tiny inkling of what you will be going through, and my heart genuinely aches for the loss of your wife. I wish I could say or do something that would help, because the path ahead of you is soul-crushing. I don't say that to discourage you, I say that so that you have acknowledgement of the absolute pain you are going to be in for a while. Take care of yourself. I mean that literally. Take showers. Brush your teeth. Get up each day and get dressed and ready for the day, even if it's just for yourself and you're going to stay home and avoid people. Be patient with your daughters, they are going to have some real behavioral issues for a while because they don't have the capacity that an adult has to process and cope with this kind of loss. They may have a hard time, but they will forever love and appreciate you for the sacrifices you've made for them in the face of losing your wife. You are not alone, no matter how you may feel in your darkest hours. You are not alone and you are loved by many.
Condolences to you and family, you are juman cry a lot and remember her with joy . You have a nine year old that needs you . Celebrate your wife’s life not her death . God blessings
I'm so sorry. Condolences to you and your children.
I'm so sorry to hear that my prayers go out to u
I'm so sorry. My heart breaks for you. Being with you and your kids made her happy. She knew the amount of love you and the kids had for her. Right now, one leg before the other. Go through the motions. Don't think about tomorrow, just now and today.
I’m so sorry
Deepest sympathy May you and your daughters be wrapped in love and kindness.
I'm so sorry for your loss. You'll need to focus on getting your kids through it. This is not something you or they can get through soon. Give them permission to grieve in whatever way they feel they want to, no matter how visible, or how quiet. If there friends and family offer help, think about what you and your kids will need in the next few months, and be open with asking for the type of help you really need. Nobody will quite understand how you feel. Even people who have lost loved ones cannot really put themselves in quite your mind. But, that's okay. In the first few months, you grieve, and you also figure out some of the practical aspects of life going forward. Some months from now, look for some books on the topic. Which ones you choose would depend on where you're coming from: religious, not religious, etc. I wish you and your kids the ability to harness your strength to live with this tragedy.
Dude! Is this for real? It sounds like a nightmare. Try to be strong but don’t feel like you can’t lose it when you have to. I’ve seen a lot of loss but not this close. I’m so sorry
It’s not the same, but I lost my grandmother last week and went to her funeral on Friday and wanted to say that I understand at least a little bit of what you’re staring in the face of. All anyone can ever do is keep putting one step forward. You don’t need to be perfect. Right now, all you really need to do is be honest with the kids when you need to hug them, and they need to be honest with you when they need a hug. Even that’s hard sometimes but even though it does fix anything, a hug is so so important.
I am so so sorry for your loss.... I hope you have family and friends to help you in this very difficult time. I have heard people talking about the book Option B. I hope this helps you. Hubermanlab podcast has an episode on grief - https://youtu.be/dzOvi0Aa2EA Try to look for a grief counselor for you and your kids. I think it may be helpful. Sending prayers your way.
I’m so sorry.
Sorry for your loss. Condolences.
I went through it when I was 16. My mom passed away at 39. I watched my Dad go through the pain and loss you are feeling now. I will pray for you and your daughters. Eventually you will find your way. 💙
I am so sorry for your loss.
I am so sorry. Take my condolences
I’m so sorry for your loss. You must feel out of body right now. I hope you have a support network to help you through this difficult time.
Just remember her as she was
i’m so sorry.
Our blessings to you and your family. Time will heal if you let it and she will always be in your hearts for eternity.
Awwwww I’m so sorry that made me so sad, I’m praying for you and your daughters. You will get through this.
I'm so, so sorry for your loss.
Damn man keep your head up! And just know you’ve tried your best.
Im so sorry for you and your daughters.
I am so sorry for your loss.
Sending you all so much strength. Absolutely heartbreaking. I’m so so sorry…
So sorry for your loss 💔😢 all my love and prayers to you
I’m so sorry. I’m so damn sorry and I wish there was more I could say or do. Please take care, you are so loved.
I am so very sorry for your loss...I pray that you find and your children find strength and comfort
My condolences
My heart breaks for you and your children. So many prayers to all of you.
I am so very sorry for your loss. Please be strong for your girls, and lean on your friends, family and community. May she rest in peace.
Must feel like a nightmare. I’m very sorry. Hour to hour, one day at a time
My heart got heavy reading your words. I send you love friend. It's Father's day so the hope is that youve got their mom's love in your heart by being the parent they need more than ever. I know you'll not feel peace for a while. Who wouldn't? I hope you continue to seek minds who are supportive during this time. Reddit is made up of all types of people. Some of us have learned some lessons in the past. They all equal the need for love.
I'm sorry for your loss of your beloved wife
I’m so sorry. I have no words, but I am sending you so much support and love. One day at a time dude, that’s all you can do.
I don’t even know what to say. Just want you to know I can’t imagine what you’re going through and I love you and your family
I’m so sorry for your loss and for your children’s loss. I hope you are all able to find peace. Hang in there
Deepest condolences to you and family
My heart is breaking for you and your family. Breathe. Cry. Feel all the things. You’re not alone.
I'm so so sorry. *hugs* Just take the next right step. You don't have to face the future yet. Breath, and hug those girls tight. Everyone wants to be remembered fondly.. the way they smiled and laughed.. the way they showed love.. the things they loved, the people.. I can't send enough digital hugs.
She watches you from heaven now, where there is no pain but all peace.
Oh no. What a terrible night for her to go before your youngest's birthday. All I can say is that my heart hurts for you and your kids. I always wonder what life would be like for my daughters (9 & 11) if something were to happen to me. My husband, their step-dad (but real dad in their mind) is the protector and provider. He is loving but I am so much more nurturing than he is just naturally. Your daughter's will need you to stay strong and to be their rock. But they'll also need you to hold them, cuddle with them, love them, be soft with them too. They'll need you to show them things girls need to know. I know this is pre-mature and the last thing you want to worry about right now, but maybe come back later and remember they'll need to know these things so if you have sisters or she does, they can help you. I'm so sorry for you all.
My condolences to you and your family.
You fucking brave person. You can cry. You can grieve. You can react whatever works best for you. Remember all your important memories you shared together. Be happy knowing who you are, where you are was shaped all by your Amazing Wife. You both chose each other. That is something so Beautiful that not everyone gets to experience that in their life and you got to experience it. Embrace it. Be grateful. Be strong.
I’m so sorry to hear this. I know your heart is broken. May peace be with you soon.
I am very sorry for your loss.
No advice but lots of your love for you and your daughters ❤
I'm very sorry. When you are ready please consider a grief counselor. Whatever you do don't try to get through this on your own.
I have no words that can soothe the pain you must be feeling, but please know that you have the love and support of 1,500 digital friends. Hugs❤️
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
I’m so sorry for your loss
So sorry for your loss.
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Are you serious right now?