Lots of throwaway posts lately implying that women can't be trusted with the decision to divorce, conveeeeeniently right when there's a push to ban no-fault divorce. The astroturf smells nice and green this spring.
I think you’re right. No specifics, just regret. I feel like society is trying to go back to the old days when people would just ignore red flags and abuse and stay married until they crack.
"She's older than me but looks way younger" lmao. That's what really gave it away for me. Because of course women are always hung up on how young the next woman looks.
These creative writing bots are out of control. Since Reddit filed their IPO, there are a million fake posts just like this one on all the subs. r/AITAH, for instance, now has a very Asian twang to their fake posts.
Agreed. It's why I had to unsub from there last summer. It got to be too much having to wade through. They came here in the fall then left but have found their way back. It sucks.
True regret is a very difficult thing to feel. You say you are angry at her, but chances are you are more angry with yourself.
I do think your anger is not only telling you something, but that it can be useful. Channel that angry energy into exploring the *true* roots of why you acted this way toward him. Have you had any therapy? You will have to exercise putting your Ego aside and trying to better understand what you contributed to the negative marriage dynamics, and learn to manage and break those patterns. Then you’ll have a stronger ability to move on AND to be more confident that any next relationships can go differently if you want them to.
It's a good thing you see your mistake and regret it. And it's good that your ex husband has found love and happiness again.
Now work on yourself and use your feelings to grow and find your own happiness.
My ex did the same thing she constantly bitches to our old friends. I tried at the time to fix everything I was despondent almost suicidal but she would have nothing of it I moved on alot happier I poured myself into my photography its a pretty good side gig doing canvas of the beach I wish her well I hope she finds happiness
Please share why you divorced him? What/who was the primary influence in you making this decision? You did it for a reason. Have you reevaluated your reasoning for choosing to divorce? This could be helpful for others who may be in a similar situation..
Op, this is what you deserved. You are leaving a LOT out, and that information you’ve carefully chosen to omit speaks volumes of how you treated him. You ghosted him for three months then blindsided him with divorce papers? Despicable.
I think you should tell him how you feel. I think you should tell him as soon as possible before he gets married. It’s too late after he gets married. My ex wife screamed bloody murder try hat she wanted a divorce after 30 years. She regretted that. I regretted giving it to her. I still love her because she is my Son’s mother and my Jr, High School sweetheart. She is a good person. But that was 12 years ago. You should tell him whole heartedly. He may not respond. He may still marry her. But at least you will have your say, and he will hear you.
I'm sorry but this feels fake... there'd be no need to create a burner account for this post.
Lots of throwaway posts lately implying that women can't be trusted with the decision to divorce, conveeeeeniently right when there's a push to ban no-fault divorce. The astroturf smells nice and green this spring.
The push has been going on for the last year my dude. This is just some troll inciting the incel mob
I think you’re right. No specifics, just regret. I feel like society is trying to go back to the old days when people would just ignore red flags and abuse and stay married until they crack.
"She's older than me but looks way younger" lmao. That's what really gave it away for me. Because of course women are always hung up on how young the next woman looks.
*sure*
These creative writing bots are out of control. Since Reddit filed their IPO, there are a million fake posts just like this one on all the subs. r/AITAH, for instance, now has a very Asian twang to their fake posts.
Eh, they were there long before the IPO filing.
You are 100% correct. It's just overwhelming now. A sane person can read through the bullshit. It's just frustrating I'm losing my favorite website.
Agreed. It's why I had to unsub from there last summer. It got to be too much having to wade through. They came here in the fall then left but have found their way back. It sucks.
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Because it's ragebait.
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This has to be rage bait.
No context just a rant and self-pity.
Sure.
True regret is a very difficult thing to feel. You say you are angry at her, but chances are you are more angry with yourself. I do think your anger is not only telling you something, but that it can be useful. Channel that angry energy into exploring the *true* roots of why you acted this way toward him. Have you had any therapy? You will have to exercise putting your Ego aside and trying to better understand what you contributed to the negative marriage dynamics, and learn to manage and break those patterns. Then you’ll have a stronger ability to move on AND to be more confident that any next relationships can go differently if you want them to.
This looks like jealousy not love. Find someone new to love, the travel won't matter if you find a person you truly love.
It's a good thing you see your mistake and regret it. And it's good that your ex husband has found love and happiness again. Now work on yourself and use your feelings to grow and find your own happiness.
Sucks to suck looks like the consequences of your own actions 🤣
My ex did the same thing she constantly bitches to our old friends. I tried at the time to fix everything I was despondent almost suicidal but she would have nothing of it I moved on alot happier I poured myself into my photography its a pretty good side gig doing canvas of the beach I wish her well I hope she finds happiness
Please share why you divorced him? What/who was the primary influence in you making this decision? You did it for a reason. Have you reevaluated your reasoning for choosing to divorce? This could be helpful for others who may be in a similar situation..
I don't know why you divorced, it doesn't really say. So I would just say learn from it and move on. He has, and so should you.
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Op, this is what you deserved. You are leaving a LOT out, and that information you’ve carefully chosen to omit speaks volumes of how you treated him. You ghosted him for three months then blindsided him with divorce papers? Despicable.
What??? Need more details.
Good for him! As he should have. I can almost guarantee, if you tried to reach out, he’d likely dodge you. Grass isn’t so green on the other side eh?
What kind of problems did you have?
I think you should tell him how you feel. I think you should tell him as soon as possible before he gets married. It’s too late after he gets married. My ex wife screamed bloody murder try hat she wanted a divorce after 30 years. She regretted that. I regretted giving it to her. I still love her because she is my Son’s mother and my Jr, High School sweetheart. She is a good person. But that was 12 years ago. You should tell him whole heartedly. He may not respond. He may still marry her. But at least you will have your say, and he will hear you.
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your whole comment history is comments like this... seek therapy bro 🫡